Spend a week with me! 🥳🪩🎂⎮Birthday celebration, current thoughts, routine update etc! ⎮ 04
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- čas přidán 3. 02. 2024
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THATS MY BDAY BESTIE!
Hi Sara 💕
As a gurly with anxiety, I love the way you talk openly about your anxiety. It really helps me feel better and just appreciated ❤
Same!!
FRRR🫶🏽
100%
100% I have OCD (panic disorder) and it makes me feel better when people talk about anxiety because, obviously i relate, but it also effects everything we do. vlogging, reading, working out etc.
me too .)
for every vulnerable comment you make, there is a little girl out there feeling that way, and you are such a beautiful role model and advocate for those little girls. you are never alone and neither are they. sweet girl
Yes! it helps me knowing other people go through the same thing!
miss you are quite literally sunshine in human form
UR WEEKLY VLOGS LITERALLY FEEL LIKE COMING HOME
Fr tho, I open my phone and see the notification and it literally makes my day!
so so real
As a long vlog lover, I don’t think you over talk AT ALL. If people think you do, there’s a ‘skip 10 secs’ button and a playback speed option for a reason! They’re not forced to sit and watch your content! You’ve inspired me to be more chatty and more “myself” in my reading vlogs so THANK YOU💕
I love how your family and boyfriend embrace all your “things” : books, Taylor, pink: it shows so much love ❤
The negative things hitting harder than positive things is actually so real. Scientifically it takes 5 positive things/interactions/etc to counteract 1 negative thing for our brains. That is partly why your thought patterns & self talk are so important.
I normally don’t comment- but as an anxious 16 year old girly who has recently started running, I want to assure you that every one of the things you feel like we don’t want to listen to are our FAVORITES!! Please don’t stop being you des 💗💗💗
I'm 45 yrs old with anxiety and I absolutely love building Lego sets, working on jigsaw puzzles,doing paint by numbers and reading. Never feel weird for wanting to build Legos.
im ur moms biggest fan the way she was hugging you and being so sweet had me crying
Girl please keep chatting, cause that’s the best thing about your vlogs! Always so real, honest and relatable❤️
Whoever said you “over talk” is wrong! I love your vlogs! They are so lively and just happy! Thank you so much for sharing your life and love of books with us! Love you!
your mum is so cute with the amount of effort she went for your birthday 🥹
des, I love your videos just the way they are. Just how you are is awesome! Don’t stop talking about your anxiety or “over explaining” just continue being you! ❤
I’m in my 30s (yeah imagine) and I feel like you being open is helpful for all ages. Negative comments usually come from negative people. And they’re usually that way because they are hurt or someone has hurt them (or they’re psychopaths 😂)
Anyhoo, I’m not too old to admit I pretty much cried through this and really wanted to reach through and let you know you are doing good! You are okay and everything will work out as it should!!
You do sound unwell - take it easy, it’s okay to do that.
Do the Lego set slowly. Being someone with anxiety myself I know any type of competitive pressure will quadruple your anxiety. Take your time…
I don’t comment too much but my face was getting all teared up and I just feel like you needed someone or all of us to let you know how you’re seen!
Sign up for the marathon - even if you walk half the way.
Athletic or not - you are doing great.
Self-confidence does get better with age.
Anxiety is crippling but by thinking of coping mechanisms, you’re doing brilliant.
Don’t change!! Share as much as you wish and scroll past the comments that don’t deserve your attention!
Happy 21st! Keep being unapologetically you 🎀
61 and I totally agree xx I do think though that the Alani energy drinks are probably not helping the anxiety.
@@MelHamilton-Brownoh I know but she’s 21. It could be a worse vice to have. I’m sure she has 1000s telling her about that but I can relate to trying to find something that gives me a bit of a buzz but isn’t good for me. Just didn’t think destiny needed to hear that on this particular post. I always try to be strengths based with people but I don’t disagree. ❤❤
DES WE LOVE U BEING CHATTY DONT STOP OR LISTEN TO PEOPLE CUZ THIS IS WHY I WATCH IT LOL
i know a lot of other people are saying the same thing, but seeing someone on the internet talk about what it is like living with anxiety is like i feel so validated. you are so special! thank you for everything you do and share with us!
Don't scale back on talking about your anxiety unless it's something you want to do. As an anxious girly, I appreciate when mental health is discussed openly. 💜
i agree even if i can be a sensitive subject,😊
As a 20 y/o girl who suffers from anxiety, ur videos and the way you talk about ur anxiety and describe things rly honestly help me and so many other people. It’s nice to see a CZcamsr talk about struggles they have that people can relate to, since we never rly see that. We love u Des, and Happy Birthday!!! 🤍✨
Des, I’m a new runner too! It can feel really overwhelming but if a half is something you want to do, go for it! Sign up for a race so you feel held accountable to your training. Stick to a running plan and as long as you can run about 10 miles at one time before your race, you will totally be able to do the rest on adrenaline! This was advice someone gave me and it helped me feel so much more confident. Also, don’t worry about running at a ‘slower’ pace - I do too and idc as long as I am just able to finish 😊
As someone who also has anxiety, letting go of caffeine has helped me tremendously. I know it seems like it’s something you can’t live without and it took me forever to stop but I feel so much better. I actually have more energy at the end of the day, less anxiety, and less headaches. It won’t cure your anxiety but it something that could help!! ❤️ you des
Nurse and anxiety sufferer here....the energy drinks are a huge catalyst for more anxiety. I got on Escitalopram and Wellbutrin and gave up high caffeine drinks...life changing! I would try removing the energy drinks first. They also have chemical in the artificial sweeteners that can cause anxiety and worsen ADHD. I totally know what you are feeling! Good Luck!
I wish I could take meds sometimes. I also have cptsd and the side effects of Escitalopram with ptsd is awful. just wanted to also put that out there for others to consider. i stick to flower instead 🍃
PSA to the girlies who read Libby on their kindles: before the ebook returns, my bf always puts his kindle on airplane mode and you can keep reading it even after the book returns 😌
does it disappear when you turn airplane mode off tho
@@ren.sparksprobably, but if you finish the book then it’ll return after you finish so it’s all good 😊
I’m so happy you got tickets! If anyone deserves to see her it’s you!
I love when you ramble, its kind of something that sets you apart from others!
I love your weekly vlogs ❤ I suffer from anxiety and depression and it's nice to see you openly talk about it and how it affects you......Happy Birthday and thanks for another vlog
You and your mom laughing made me so happy you guys are so cute !!!! Also, please never stop talking about your anxiety and bringing awareness to it. It really helps knowing others are experiencing the same things . Love you Des!!
Whatever you’re going through, even if it’s ’small’ things, they’re still important. Everything happens for a reason babe, stay strong - you got this 🫡🫶🏻 believe in ya ❤️
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE QUEEN!! i already know this vlog is gonna be epic
i actually love your mom she’s so sweet
Destinyyyy! happy 21st babes ❤ as someone who’s old enough to be a big sis plz plz plz be careful with the energy drinks! i’m sure you’ve heard it before. it can also be attributing to your anxiety. i know i know it sucks to hear but I used to drink them every day too and when i slowed down so did my anxiety 🎉
I’m normally a silent follower but Destiny I just wanted to say how loved you are by so many people and how much I appreciate your videos! I’ve been watching your videos for a few years now and you never fail to brighten my day. Also when you mentioned ‘the house that built me’ it brought back memories for me not because of my old house but because that was my dance performance song when I was 14 and it never fails to bring tears to my eyes. Anyways I just wanted to say how grateful I am for you and that through this tough season in your life I’ll be praying for you. I’ve gone through some of the most challenging years of my life in the past 3/4 years and your videos have been a joyful spot. And God has held me close in my toughest times and I pray that you know that you can go to him in the good and bad! God cares so so much and you are so incredibly valuable to Him!!
Me SOBBING when you mom hugs you and tells you that you deserve everything 🥲
des just know that talking so freely about your feelings and your anxiety makes you the best role model. there's a ton of people out there, little kids even, im sure, that look up to you, feel seen, feel heard. thank you a lot.
I’ve literally become obsessed with legos this month, I even created a separate LEGO CZcams channel a month ago 😂 Omg what a crazy coincidence! I didn’t grow up with legos either but they’ve helped me relax so much. Can’t wait to see more of your builds in the future!
Des please keep talking the way you have been!! Also, you can get Libby books for 7, 14, or 21 days. You can change that option when you borrow a book!
You can absolutely talk freely about your anxiety!! It’s important that you talk about :)
I love Libby!!! If you didn't know you can send the books from Libby to your kindle (and put your kindle on airplane mode so the book doesn't return when the loan expires) 💖😊
Des, there is a reason you have so many followers. You are ADORABLE! And I love how open you are about how you are feeling and what you are doing. I ran my first half marathon at the age of 42, and I had the same doubts and insecurities going into it. Let me tell you, crossing that finish line was one of the best experiences of my life! I will never forget it. Stick with it and I promise that feeling of accomplishment at the end will make it all worth it! You keep being you. Let the haters hate and the rest of us will sit back and enjoy every minute of your videos. ❤
i dont get more excited for someone to post a video than destiny!! i love your videos SOOO much! seriosly every day you post a video i know that my day will be great just because you posted a vid! you are just so pretty, joyful and genuine you are amazing💖
You sharing about your anxiety isn't annoying or negative, it's real and relatable and so reassuring for someone like me who has been feeling exactly like you're describing. Thank you so much for being vulnerable and making me feel less alone ❤🩹
Running on the treadmill is always an exercise and mental strength for me. It’s so incredibly hard to run long-distance on a treadmill. You rocked it!
Please never stop talking about your anxiety bc what you say is so real and I feel so safe to listen to you ❤❤❤
I have suffered with anxiety for years, you sharing about your anxiety will actually help you. Using stuff like Lego or diamond painting are some of the best distraction methods you can use to help with your anxiety. Any time you can feel it building take yourself to the distraction method of choice pop on an audiobook and just absorb yourself and divert and distract yourself so the anxiety dissolves xx
Since I live in nz vlogs come out on Mondays for me so Monday is my new favourite day and I run everyday so I love hearing about the running. Happy birthday!!
Makes me so happy to see you’re close with your mom. My mom passed last year I’m only 24 and miss her so much she was my bestie you guys remind me of me and my mom makes me happy for you
Lego is great and helps so much with exactly what you are looking for! So excited for this new adventure for you. It’s definitely changed my life for the best :)
Firstly, if you’re comfortable, you talking about your anxiety in the vlogs is really relatable and makes me feel far less alone. Second, I watch the vlogs on the treadmill so I’m so thankful for the long content. It’s so comforting!!
Please feel free to talk about your anxiety, it’s so important to be open about your feeling and we’re always here to listen
I literally look forward to your videos all week. Do not change anything about your vlogs!!! You talking about your anxiety makes me feel less alone with mine- it’s nice to know that other people out there are going through the same thing!! Your videos are so motivating and while I know it is easy to let the self doubt creep in, rest assured you are doing absolutely amazing and are helping so many people out there. Happy 21st!! 💕🎀🪩🐶📚🤠💐🧁
I’m a newer subscriber so I’m not sure if you do this already but alongside the LEGO idea to help with your anxiety, I’d highly recommend a journal. Get a couple of cheap ones, some nice pens and then use it to just spill everything out of your mind onto the paper. Writing your thoughts out by hand can be really cathartic. It gives those thoughts a place to go and stay, and you can return to it later if that makes sense, like it temporarily takes the weight off because you’ve put those thoughts somewhere. Hope this helps! And happy belated birthday! 🎉
HAPPY BIRTHDAY :)
Hi des if ur feeling anxious about running a half marathon I would highly recommend signing up for a 10k first! I think it’ll rly boost ur confidence and alleviate those fears. I used to not be able to run even 1k without stopping but I just completed my first half marathon last year! Race day adrenaline honestly will carry u through the race. Good luck!!
I love that you talk about your anxiety as someone who goes through the same thing it really helps! I also just turned 21 Jan 30th!!! Happy birthday!!!!
des, I really love how you have the confidence to talk openly about the anxiety that you experience ❤ don't listen to the haters that find it annoying
Des is my Taylor Swift. As someone who has panic and anxiety attacks on a daily basis, she’s so relatable. I just love her
I love when you talk on vlogs, I much prefer that than people putting music on and stuff it's just more fun and especially if someone is driving or doing something, having more talking is so much more enjoyable 🥰
You can always be vulnerable. It’s so relatable and makes us feel like we aren’t alone in that. 💜
As someone who also has anxiety I quite like hearing u talk out about it
As an anxious girly please don’t stop talking about your anxiety! It’s really comforting knowing other people are going through the same thing! & I admire how you talk about it so openly, I get a tight chest and feel like I can’t breathe daily with my anxiety & it honestly brings so much comfort hearing someone else talking about it too🫶🏽
destiny is the most comforting and relatable youtuber i watch ❤️
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DESTINY!!! I appreciate you and your vlogs so much 🩷
My anxiety affects my life everyday so much! Hearing you talk about yours brings awareness and helps me not feel alone about it ❤
your weekly vlogs are my favorite! happy birthday des 💓
Girlie- I loveeeee love love when you talk to us directly in your vlogs. I watch you while getting ready for the day and it like being on a face time call. We all love you soooo much 🤍 Haters will hate cause they don’t have nothing better to do.
i know a lot of others have said this and i 1000% agree with them, i love when you are open about your mental health! it makes me less alone to know that other people also struggle with similar issues. and on the topic of that i also want to start building legos for the same reason so def lets us know how they work for your anxiety!!
so I am also struggeling with anxiety for quite a while now and I just love watching you videos and they help so much! Thank you
As someone who can easily get in their head with negative thoughts, Lego sets help me so much!! I have so many now that I have a full blown mini village on top of now of my bookshelves. I highly recommend them for helping get your mind off of things!! Works wonders for me and I hope it does the same for you Des ☺
omg happy birthday!! i always get so excited when your vlogs come out!!
you’re my comfort person. thank you for your transparency and realness. i love you always 💖
I appreciate your transparency and rambles! I feel like we are very similar personality wise and it’s refreshing to see your style of vlogs! You’re very relatable and real in your content. As someone with very debilitating anxiety that is high functioning I feel less alone 🤍
do not let anyone tell you that you talk too much. i LOVE watching these because i’m the exact same way so it all makes perfect sense to me and works in my brain
Destiny I love when you talk so much in videos and explain everything it’s so comforting and nice to listen too. I also love when you talk about your anxiety because the past month I’ve been struggling so much with my own issues and it reminds me that I’m alone. Keep in mind that everyone loves you and you being so many people joy and happiness ❤
hope you feel better soon, sunshine
as someone who also struggles with anxiety i find a strange send of calm in a way when you talk about yours because then i feel like im not so alone. Sometimes you really motivate me too keep going so thank you, talk about your anxiety as much or as little as you want. It's not negative or annoying it's just reality . I literally adore you and all the work that you do and effort you put into your job, and letting us go through things with you🩷.
your moms love for you is so wholesome!! you are so loved 🩷 happy 21st birthday girl!
your weekly vlogs are my FAVORITEEE!! i look forward to these sm. & don’t you worry girl we love your rants/ explanations 🫶🫶
I've been watching a lot of your videos recently and I honestly think you are the kindest soul
HAPPY BIRTHDAY QUEEN! You literally bring me so much joy when you post 😁🥰
I love when u get all chatty and go on tangents! And I appreciate when ur open about ur anxiety bc I deal with it SOOOO BAD! Whatever u put out I love either way tho💖
We appreciate and love you and your content!!!!! Don’t let anyone dim your light girlie 🩵🫶🏽
Talk to yourself the way you would talk to your friend. I used to have pretty severe acne and I used to always look at myself and tell myself how disgusting I was and so on- then one day I realized, if my friends had acne like I did, I would NEVER think or say that they were disgusting. Give yourself the grace you would give your friends ❤
Happy birthday BESTIE!!! hope 21 treats you well and omfg this vlog just made my sunday 10000000x better thankyou des for that💗💗💗
The anticipation and excitement for this vlog!! (I love the chatty vlogs💗 and your rants and rambles) your hair is gorgeous and the birthday photos are stunning 😍
the way i look forward to the weekly vlogs🤌
i literally love your content so much and you’ve inspired me to read and run more!!❤️❤️
thank you for openly talking about your anxiety. it means a lot to know that I’m not alone. you are amazing des. I appreciate you❤️❤️❤️
Seeing you uncontrollably laughing with your mom is the sweetest most wholesome thing ever!!❤️
God bless you Des, always here to pray for you for whatever you need 🙏🏼 you are strong & capable!! 💗
Who is annoyed by you?! I am a 44-year-old woman and I absolutely adore you. You remind me so much of me at 21 and now my daughter who is 22. We think you are an absolute gem and I will fight anyone who says differently. Please do not change in anyway because I look forward to hanging out with you weekly.
i find it so comforting when you talk about things that may make you vulnerable because i can relate to a lot of it even though I’m a teenage girl but i think it’s so important to hear about people who go through similar things as you so thank you🫶🏼
You’re so vulnerable in your videos and I feel so honored that you let us know your hardships and things. I really hope your anxiety gets better. Also, your hair always looks so good.
i literally love your vlogs so muchhh 💕 i love listening to you talk and it’s just so comforting to hear you talk about your anxiety and daily life 🎀🫶
Des we love your chatty vlogs never stop doing what you love🫶🏻
sending you all the love bestie, you deserve the world and thank you for sharing how you feel, hoping you’ll feel better soon, and know that you’re sunshine 🤍
i love your vlogs so much. the moments where u talk about ur anxiety feels so validating? i can’t explain it but i feel understood and seen❤️🩹
I relate to you so much and absolutely love your vlogs, just be you girl! we watch you for a reason
I absolutely love seeing clips of you with your mom! Y’all are so happy around each other❤
this is exactly why i read it makes my anxiety pause and makes my brain slow down! thanks for being real ❤️
Just love all of your videos! They bring me peace ☮️! Thank you!