mad tsai - that friend (lyric video)
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Lyrics:
Well I guess I’m that friend
The one walking three steps behind cause’ the sidewalk’s not wide enough and my friends talk on by
Never included in the conversation
I’m the king of my plane of existence
I guess I’m a ghost
Alone and my friends and I aren’t close cause’ they think I’m a burden so I don’t let my feelings show
They forgot when it was my birthday
At least the tears in my cake were gourmet
I’m tired of being last pick
Treated like a side chick
A background character for all of my life
Well I guess I’m that friend and my friends just pretend that I’m somebody that they like
I guess I’m that friend
The one that hangs with the group that ain’t close enough to anyone to have someone to talk to
I got friends but I’m still lonely
If we played the quiet game I’d win all the trophies
I guess I just exist
I’m not missed no one seems to even notice that I’m listening I got feelings and I ain’t very outspoken
They forgot to invite me to the party
Got a text like “we forgot you we’re sorry!”
I’m tired of being last pick
Treated like a side chick
A background character for all of my life
Well I guess I’m that friend and my friends just pretend that I’m somebody that they like
Don’t wanna be your door mat
Not someone you can step on
Just hear me out before I leave
Don’t wanna be invisible
This friendship is so miserable
I’m someone you don’t want or need
I’m tired of being last pick
Treated like a side chick
A background character for all of my life
Well I guess I’m that friend and my friends just pretend that I’m somebody that they like - Hudba
AHHH it’s my birthday today!!! I’m officially 20 and I feel so old HAHA anyways I love you guys sm and just want to say thank you for supporting my music!!! 🥺💖 madtsai.fanlink.to/thatfriend
Happy birthday! You’re amazing
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Happy Birthday Dude! Love ur music
happy birthday😊❤️
Ahhh Happy Birthday! You'll always be the first pick today
"at least the tears in my cake were gourmet" love this line but in all seriousness, he kinda made the sheet ghost outfit with sunglasses look work lol
Ikr like it’s kinda a vibe-
He looked hella cute when he did that 🥺💕
I love your pfp
@@TheNoxNoctis ty
@@TheNoxNoctis ikr @Sofie Bonaparte's pfp is so cute
It’s sad how many of us relate to this, we should all become a friend group lol
We should!
Count me in bestie 😩✊
I'm down
I was literally thinking the same thing lol
omg yes
its hurt when u realize that u r no longer exist in someone's eyes. Still you, but not your true personality.
Ouch..
That hurt so much
I can't be myself around anyone
Family? No they'll just make fun of my voice so I dont talk
Friends? Nope.. No one talks to me..
Two childhood friends? I mean I guess their friends but they seem like they have better friends to talk to. And I dont even act like myself when Im around them
Siblings? Nope. He doesn't like talking to me. I used to be his bestfriend but now he's with better friends
I'm just starting to feel like I'm the annoying one...
Omg yess I relate to this so much
@@Jo-yc3lq That's true. My best friend and I have been friends for 5 years and since we entered high school I feel they already have better friends than me. I think I'm not special anymore to them. Sorry for bad grammar.
"if we played the quiet game I'd win all the trophies" this line's 4me🥺🤧
In my "friend group" I talk the most but I get ignored so much and turned down I'd win too :D
@@pancake1113 I understand what bein *ignored* feels( T_T)
Same:(
@@pancake1113 relatable
your songs are so perfect for midnight breakdowns
Truue
CANT DISAGREE
or 3am crying sessions lol
Did I literally add this to my playlist full of songs for when I'm breaking down? Yes, yes I did XD
@@princessaurora1111 omg what’s the name of the playlist pls sis
HA CAN'T MAKE A BAD SONG. ALL HUS SONGS ARE AMAZING.
Nice grammer
YASS HIS SONGS ARE AMAZING
ha hu
Your so happy that you mispelled his and he, lol
@@griffin_fudge_ nice *grammar to you too
The 2 dislikes are the friends he's talking about ngl
nahh the dislikes are just people who relate so much but dont wanna believe it
even the friends hes talking about would like this cuz they would be like "damn cant believe i missed out on him"
The dislikes are the “friends who shut me out”
I SWEAR I THOUGHT THAT TOO
27*
This hits home ,my friends just feel like payed actors if you know what I mean
Malus Sanchez, I know what u mean but I hope that you and all the others find true friends one day who'll never get tired of being with you and give you the world 🥺💕 and omg this song is so addictive!!😍
I EXACTLY know what you mean
This has no point to be funny 😭😭😭😭
The Truman show
I know 😌
I never knew how to express my emotion, like I have friends but… they’re not friends? It’s just like I know a bunch of people but I’m not really friends with them.. I’ve noticed that I’ve always been the wierd kid just because I want to stand out, to be different, to have people notice me. Obviously that worked horribly but I still can’t seem to shake off that habit. Whenever I do make a friend or when I like someone (both romantically and not romantically) I get really clingy and talk to them 24/7, wait for them to send a message, all that. They usually get annoyed and end up leaving. Idk what to do :(
You will meet the right ones don't worry, life is temporary but not all people are temporary, One day u will meet the people u can express yourself to without worrying and im sure they will appreciate you!＼(￣▽￣; don't give up on yourself and even tho idk you I'm proud of you for going this far in life .
@@no-le2rd tysm, whenever I try to explain how I'm feeling people just say "Omg, let me be ur friend :)" but then the friendship just ends up dying after 2 days. So far there have been 3 people in my life who have felt like friends to me but we don't talk anymore.
I can be ur friend 🙂
@@Alexis-go5cd damn. Relatable. Everytimes I thought that I finally have a friend, reality proved otherwise. We started texting less and less to the point that one day they left me on seen. It's so goddamn hurt everytimes and I could never used to that but I always have to accept this and I don't even dare to raise my hope up when I meet new people because I know this might happen again...
@@desdemonaesurruse7118 after I’ve lost like a few true friends due to the friendship just dying or whatever I now don’t rlly feel like I have a friend anymore, when me and others start texting less and less I slowly just, don’t care about them anymore. It’s weird, like I can’t see anyone as a friend anymore, just an acquaintance
This hits my heart a little to hard…
Ha. I’ve been that friend… that’s why I’ve got like 5 friends now. No one deserves to be a side character, the one who remembers the birthdays but then no one remembers them. Even if your group of close friends or contacts is small, it’s better to have a handful of people you know love and care than all fingers and toes worth of people who don’t even remember you when you’re right there .. walking along a few steps behind them.
One day, you won’t just be “that friend” to somebody. And I’m hoping that one day you’ll feel loved
Ik this seems really random coming from a stranger but I need advice. I just started high school but the kids there aren't exactly real friends, I still talk to my old friends alot though so should I just try to be friends with my old friends more (aka the people who actually care about me) or just try and get closer with some other kids at the new school so I'm not lonely at school?
@@Audrey-dd4pt OKAY SO THIS WAS LITERALLY MY SITUATION LAST YEAR!! My advice to you is to definitely not lose touch with your old friends because they will keep you grounded. I still regularly hang out with my old friends and talk to them. Making new friends definitely takes a lot of adjusting especially to the point where you feel heard and stuff but just hold on and just make a little bit of progress everyday. Try to surround yourself with people that have similar interest as you or just nice people in general and be the one to reach out to them if you need to. Also getting involved at school is what really helped me. I suck at sports but I joined the field hockey team with no experience or anything and it helped a lot with making friends. And if you aren’t into sports then join a club or something! I know it’s hard but try to get out of ur comfort zone and I promise it will be worth it!! :))
I've got some friends, but it feels like they only msg me when they're need something. Even my close friend treats me that way lol. At this time I don't believe in friends anymore. Well, everyone will be alone in the end of day.
I feel the same as you, if I look at my chats with some "friends" like 99% of the messages from them are asking for help on school stuff 😅
@@catca6656 that's really suck :'))
@@catca6656 same!!!!
@@syifach.3235 it was the same case for me they only text for work don't include me in group conversation etc but Finally I have found my two greatest buddies of all time and I love them
@@junekafaltiya4514 Im happy for you
This is scarily accurate. Crazy how strangers and songs know you better than your own friend and parents-
My whole life compressed in one song, I'm using this for my birthday theme in a few days.
Nah same- that shit hurts sm- btw happy belated birthday!
At least us "that friend"s can stick together in this comment section, right?
Happy birthday mad tsai!!!!!!!
🤡
2:00 i love how he just stabs the cake with a fork. it kinda shows how he’s tired of the bullshit that his so called “friends” have put him through.
anyways, happy birthday mad!
i’m a closeted bisexual and i love your song boy bi it’s a really great song 💖💜💙
I love that song too lol
good luck!!
@@ana._.carolee thank you i appreciate it 😊
Same hereee I'm a closeted bisexual too. And I LOVEEEE his song Boy Bi 😌💜
Same, and I love that song 💖💜💙
Damn, if my 12 year old self heard this, she'd be vibing, relating and crying as heck. Dont worry, I finally decided to avoid them when high school came and found way way better friends. It gets better guys:) you'll meet greater people.
Damn- my 12 year old self is listening to this, crying, relating and vining as heck-
I'm sending this song to my "Friends" just to let them know *I'm done.*
@@pancake1113 I'm really sorry about that, but it's really brave of you to finally do something about it, noone deserves to be treated like that, especially by the people who you'd call your 'friends'. I'm sure you'll find way better people, they're there if you look hard enough. I hope you feel better soon:)
@@ohman2257 I already feel better know that we all are going to different middle schools and I'm most likely never seeing them again :)
I'm so serious now..
Let's be friends all we will never get left alone than
Lol.:')
12 yr olds say heyyyyyy. …..hHEYy
It’s sad that so may people like me can relate to this, but recently I just learned you just need to get rid of those people that treat you like that and you will feel so much better.
to get rid of it, and found a new one it's really hardest thing to do :'D
I’m not this friend, but I feel bad for all the friends who feel left out and I try to include them as much as I can! Cuz I learn to include myself in and be like the one to keep the friend together so I try not to leave anyone out! Love all the people who have to deal with this it must be hard! Also THIS SONG IS SO GOOD I LOVE IT
You are such a good person for actually trying to include people. When I see people lonely I help them too but when I have no one to be with people ignore me.
@@Audrey-dd4pt thank you I try! And sorry about that it must suck :(
Yea kinda does but thanks for doing a good thing for others
Whenever I am included, I try to bring everyone together, but every time my friends are together and I'm left out they just ignore me
AHHHHHHHHHHH LOVE HIM SO MUCH AND ITS SO RELATABLE
rather than not having friends, its more like we all cant come clear with our feelings. its no ones fault sometimes. notice i said sometimes. sometimes our friends just have feelings that they dont know how to express too, and in the end people fall apart. some are meant to stay, some are meant to be with you for a while. god made them come into your life just for a while to make you happy, before he could give you someone who could truly makes you happy forever. sometimes its not friends that makes us happy forever, sometimes its family, or even pets. i love my cats. have a nice day yall, we all have ups and downs
Crazy to find someone who knows exactly how I feel hahaha feels nice
i don't believe in god but i used to think it's nice that there's someone watching over humanity
even now i think the same thing
maybe god did bring us people, maybe they didn't, but whatever the case, we had those people for a while, and even now that they're gone, at least you have the memories you made
and there's always going to be more people to make memories with
I relate to this so much I hate it. I've always been that friend since I was in primary school. For every group of 3 besties I made, I became the outsider. That's why I end up with zero best friends who I can trust and share the same sense of humour.
same. in elementary school i made friends, but in the end, we’d all walk together at recess, but id be trailing a few steps behind and keeping to myself as they talked and had a great time. even then, when i was too little to feel too much, i hated it. i just didn’t know it was so wrong
Lol same sometimes it feels like sh*t
I'm so lonely I need someone please and I end up Laughing and saying it's fine 😂
aw
i'll be your friend!
ok but like hes literally so talanted 😩
Who needs friends when you've got cake
Nobody.
What do you do when you don’t have cake😭?
'That friend' ; My version,
Last year, on a fine sunny day during history class, before my teacher started our lesson he asked us "anyone wants to change their class(nxt door)?" (our class already reached the maximum amount of student so it's super crowded-due to the pandemic we need some students to move next door)
No one volunteered. So our teacher tried suggesting some of us name by name.
When our teacher said my friends name (boys/girls) most of my friends gave a sad reaction saying tht they don't want him/her to exchange class.
But what's the most painful part is, when the teacher said my name no one gave that kind of reaction. As if they're fine whether I'm in the class or not. Ever since then I realize that I actually don't have friends among my batch mates/classmates (I do realize all of this before but this made it more convincing) I may be friendly, have lots of 'friends', befriend with lots of people. But y'know what... this is what 'having friends' called hahaha.
Nah, Im fine befriending with people that i met. I'm glad i have friends even though, y'know hahahahaha
this song is giving me depressed vibes but it's too good to make me stop listening GAHHH i'm crying but still listening T -T
I'm still not over the first time I heard 'that friend'. It was like somebody had read my mind and put my mess of thoughts in order, to a melody
he looks like he needs a hug
This hits so different when you are that friend.
This hits hard when you get abandoned by your friends. Literally. Like they forgot to invite me, or didnt want to, i dunno which is worse. I didnt even know until another friend asked me why i didnt go. She couldnt go as she wasnt in town. Like. Yeah, man. I feel you.
To all of the people like me: Does it really hurt this much every time?
I can relate to this so much, one time in high school I had to leave class for a club meeting, I came back 10 minutes later, even missed roll call, my friends apparently didn’t even notice that I was gone
This is my whole middle school life
THIS SONG IS LITERALLY ME. I'M THAT FRIEND WHO'S LAST AT EVERYTHING 😭
As someone who used to relate to this song, years ago I decided that I'll make sure everyone I spend time with always feel included.
the king dropped another absolute bop to bawl to
Oop finally a song that’s shows exactly how I feel sobs
I used to live this song, didn't get hints at first, then started to get the cold shoulder, they would see me coming,and change directions as if I wouldn't notice, and when I used to say something they would look at each other weirdly,
I didn't like getting pushed so the moment I realised I stopped hanging out with them,
Then got better friends
Your self respect is above everything.
Respect yourself and people will start respecting you:)
why is this song so relatable 😭😭
wow this song is so me in high school love your music mad tsai 💖
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@@likn1489 oof
"I got friends but i'm still lonely" I also have this feeling and I feel that without friends is better :((
Happy Bday! BUT, WHY THIS IS SO SAD? I can't stop crying :(
I wish this song had been around when I was younger and needed it, Now its just sort of nostalgic because I finally have real friends.
I saw that sign in the background! Can't wait for the homecoming release!
the first time i heard this song i was thinking “oh my god, i used to feel exactly like this!”
well, a few weeks ago, it started to get like that again. i remembered this song, and cried when i listened, because this is exactly how i feel…
my homecoming dance is tomorrow. i dont have a date, and none of my friends have invited me to go with them either. but i still bought a ticket, i guess im going…
i dont want to go. i know it’ll be three hours of panic attacks and trying not to cry because i’ll be so lonely, cause i’m last pick. im someone to talk to when theres no one else. and there’s always someone else at the dance. but i don’t want to have wasted $10, and i dont want my family to worry about me when i pretended to be so excited for it
That must be so hard for you😥 pretend, panic attack, lonely, that is so much to take girl.. I hope you doing alright right now
it actually went pretty well. i ended up hanging out with a friend who likely was in the same boat most of the time. thanks dude, and i am feeling better now
@@lw1824 That's great! And it's nothing btw
:))
"A background character for all of my life" That line describe my entire life
Wow. This song is wayyyy too relatable. If I had a soundtrack for my life this would be it.
He deserves way more than 139k! He is so talented and I’m surprised more people aren’t subscribe to someone so good.
i am indeed that friend who is bi
you songs are my anthems
You are an example for people who want to make a music video but they don't have a camera or something like this ,thinking it will be bad , BUT LOOK AT YOU ✨YOU ✨ARE✨ AMAZING ✨
This song describes my life- I only have 2 close friends and they're amazing! But all my other 'friends' and I only hang out when we hang out with someone else we know. There really is no room on the sidewalk for me. I'll walk home with them after school and I'm literally on the side of the rode but they take up the sidewalk and even if I do get space I'm behind them. They never ask for my opinion on anything and I can tell I'm a burden. But I'm trying to find new friends, it's just hard.
Remember us when you’re famous damn all your songs really hit hard 💀🤚
ohho if only i could send this video to a "friend" who asked me why i left back then :"D great song and relatable af as always!
Mad Tsai’s songs are such moods and bops 😩
sure made me realise soo many things afTER A HORRIBLE EXAM
love the song though
We bisexuals are always the background character 😔
I can relate so much on this like I have some friends but they don't seem to actually interact with me, I just seem left out, I sit next to my "best friend" but he doesn't actually talk with me that much, only in class and at school in total. Anyways love your music, you deserve more attention❤️
“I’m tired of being last pick. Treated like a side chick”
The fact that I can relate to this line so much
I had a friend like this and she always gets really depressed about these things and I would feel too guilty cause I get more attention and she would get left out and I try to put the spotlight to her but she’s was too nice to allow me to her, there was no fault at all, she’s just left out a lot, she would often overthink that reason we don’t give her attention more is because we like her less but that’s just honestly false, I learned a lot in this video cause at least I would know how she truly feels :)
TALK ABOUT RELATABLE
This is one of the most relatable songs I've heard in my life 🌟
Also just saying that sweater you were wearing at 2:05 .... YOU LOOK SO CUTE IN IT
the ghost w/ the heart sunglasses is my new fuckin halloween costume now, its just so cute.
we all have"that friend" that instantly comes to mind.....
I really love tihs song, hits diffrent for me, also happy birthday Mad idk when it was but i think its was yesterday, anyways ily
it's crazy how much we all relate to their songs-
“walking three steps behind cause the sidewalk not wide enough for my friends talking by”
hits hard
This is so relatable
When we are happy we enjoy the music but when we are sad we understand the lyrics !
I can relate to this song so that's why whenever I'm calling my friends.. i leave the call and listen to this song
You just put my feelings in the last 6 months in a song thank you so much! this is beautifully sung, DAMN YOU FOR GIVING ME MORE FAVOURITE SONGS
That why I don't feel confortable in big group of "friend", if you're not close enough to some, they forget you. It happened to me the 2 last years. I coudn't get closer to anyone. In that case I just prefer to be alone. Luckily I have true friends, but I live far away from them now. Being the ghost friend is really bad for mental health because it makes you feel worthless, that you could not exist and it would be the same.
Well the fact that this is real makes me feel so sad about my life.
I can't stop listening this song, but I can't share it with my friends cause I don't wanna make them feel angry
I know I’ll see you in LA writing songs :) You’re so talented and I know you make a lot of people feel safer. Thank you so much :)
some of the songs he makes are too relatable…
I'm 27 and this is the story of my life, but hey I'd rather be alone than with people who make me feel lonely.
i'm excited for this
Same
Me too
It’s like all of your songs fit into my life-..
That cake smash was personal.
instead of learning how to blend in and make more friend,i learned to enjoy life alone :")
The more I listen, the more I relate :’)
I never realized how much I would relate to this song. Like I told my friends one day that I kinda felt like I was a third wheel they said I wasn’t but a few days later we’re sitting at a table they are whispering to eachother right in front of me, 3 times they forgot to tell me or pick me up to go some place, and also one of them has repeatedly said that the other friend is their #1 BFF but I’m tied for 2nd with 3 other people. Sorry for ranting just wanted to get this off my chest
as a person who experiences social anxiety this is how I feel even though I sure my friends are nice to me but I'm always doubtful that they accept me as a friend
this is so freaking relatable, it's a beautiful song
No les pasa que la cancion les transmite nostalgia
El verdadero artista✨
To anyone who can relate to this song, i hope someday u aren't that friend anymore and this song will just be a memory
2024? Dang this song still hits hard
Happy Birthday Mad Tsai! I know you probably never see this comment, but I just wanted to remind you than you have people who care, and people who will never let you be 'that friend'! I've been listening to your songs for over 3 months on repeat now, and I am just simply obsessed! I have made multiple edits on many of your tiktoks too, like Killer Queen, Love like the movies and more~ And although I am aware that you will probably never see this or my dms, I just hope you know you are loved immensely and we accept you for who you are! Sending lots of love my fellow bisexual
i love these lyric videos
It’s kind of sad, but comforting that so many other people relate to this.
I had a friend group where I would just fall behind and walk away and no one would notice but luckily I found other friends but this song still hits different
I love this song so much! You're just incredible, your songs really help me and it's the first time I ever feel that way on listening songs. Thank you for everything.
the 4 dislikes are "the friends" he's talking about. i love this song ur amazing
When he stabbed the cake- such a mood
I remembered this song today and spent 30 minutes looking for it, thank you so much
Okay I'm not even "that" friend but I felt this. Felt it so hard that I proceeded to cry. Something is seriously wrong with me
Congratulations on turning 20!! 🍾✨ I love this song but it’s kinda sad because i can actually relate this, I’ve experienced being “last pick, treated like a side chick a background character for all of my life”. Stay safe guys, much love from a random girl on the internet! ✨
This songs so good. I have listened to it like 9 times already since it was released
this song describes my friends and how they treat me