What NOT to say when rushing a fraternity FratRush101
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If you 're rushing a fraternity and you need some pointers on what to say
Don't look like a fool and make sure you go in confidently
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As a rush Chair, my only advice is don't ever wear a double pocket button like the guy is wearing. Please
How to be a geed
yeah he looks like a fucking chef
I like double pockets.
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Shirt looks like what my grandpa would wear.
Just be yourself, don’t try to be someone your not. Integrity is key to fraternity, don’t to be fake, don’t try to be a frat star when you’re not, don’t put someone else down for the sake of boosting yourself up. Just be honest, open, and be willing to do stuff with some of the guys to get to know them. The best thing to be is honest and open, when I was rushing the frat I eventually joined had cigars and poker night. I had no idea how to play poker but I do like cigars and I had some Cubans that a brought to the event. I showed up and was honest that I didn’t know how to play poker, I didn’t pretend to be a poker star to try and impress them, I just told them I have no idea how to play. And guess what? I got into a long conversation with the guys on how to play and the strategies and everything and we bonded as a result. They were cool with me not knowing and took me in and explained everything. That’s how I knew these guys were cool and they respected me for being honest. Also the “cigars” everyone was smoking were mostly just blunts but I don’t smoke weed and I just said “fuck it I’ll smoke what I want to smoke” smoked my cigar instead and they respected it. If you don’t follow the wave and do your own thing that’s the best way to stand out.
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@@pencilbox2214 did u just correct a comment from 2 years ago xD bruh
Ima fact check this as a rush chair at a big frat at a big 10 school:
1. Talking about alcohol and partying- correct, don’t do it. Cringy af. It’s okay if they bring it up.
2. Honestly if u feel like a convo isn’t going anywhere ask about stuff from highschool. It’s not that bad. But you wanna use it to bring out a better topic. Like if he played football and you did to, start making connections on it. How good was he? How good were you? If you weren’t good sometimes it’s funny to say that, lol. Be honest and use highschool if necessary; they understand it’s where you’re just coming from. It’s all you know.
3. Those r good questions, but don’t ask why they joined that frat. It’s the same answer every time everywhere and it’s boring to answer. Literally ask stupid shit like why they jerk off if you two are having a good time. Don’t talk negative about anyone anytime unless it’s a celebrity. Even if they bring it up, even if they initiate the shit talk, take the high road. “Nah he’s chill” works.
They’re going to have sorority girls there to ask you specifically fucked up questions, like “what position would you fuck me in?” or if there’s three girls “fuck, marry, kill and why?”. Don’t say “I gotta respect the girl, I’m not answering that”. Answer the question in a funny way. Go into detail about how long you’d last if they ask. Sorority girls want to know the guys joining the house are going to show them a good time, and even if that’s not sexual, the funnier the answer, the more likely you are to know how to have a good time. Sorority girls are always in the room when we’re picking who we’re offering bids to. Remember that.
Even if you don’t come from partying hard or with a ton experience in the bed room, don’t be nervous. Tell them that. They wanna have fun corrupting kids.
People will tell you it’s about being yourself; and that’s 100% true. But if you don’t exaggerate and hype yourself up, it ain’t gonna work.
Shiiii this is some good ass advice. I just had a rush event a few hours ago and next time there’s an event this will def help out
I didn’t really have to try this hard when I went through rush. I was split for a few days but at the end when I knew what I wanted it felt like a natural conversation and it honestly felt like I knew all of them before that. In my opinion it’ll come naturally but the biggest advice I could have is…
•Pay attention to your potential rush class
•Take reputation with a grain of salt in some cases
•don’t force the conversation
•don’t talk down on other people/fraternities
The biggest one…
•DONT TELL LIES TO LOOK BETTER
Rush shouldn’t be too stressful and honestly you only get one rush week so make the most out of it and have fun and meet new people.
"Do you have because I'm not joining if you don't haze"
during an interview for a frat my freshmen year when they asked me what my hobbies were i literally said "Smoke weed and watch anime"
ichigo kurosaki did you get in? Or into any frat for that matter?
ichigo kurosaki lmao
and he probably responded with "hell yeah"
I couldn't even say what my hobbies were but then I told the interviewer what music & TV shows I liked. I think I was afraid to tell my hobbies because I found out what kind of fraternity it was during rush, knew I wasn't athletic enough for a specific house and because I forgot to research the fraternities beforehand. I wish I've taken your advice on saying that I'm willing to learn whatever the chapter likes to do for fun, so a house can consider me for a bid.
My little cousin is attending a school this fall that has formal rush (mine was informal). Maybe you can make a vid explaining the process, like what "pref day" and "bid day" are.
He should start his own chapter
I need more videos my man!
Good job!
My dad was a Delt, and I’m pledging AKL
Great stuff man, keep it up!
+cubsstink911 Thanks! Let me know if there are any topics you would like covered.
Any more vids?
thank you so much for these
I agree with you but after all of the knowledge that we give these young men, they seem to be bigger than the chapter; acting like after they go through weeks and weeks of pledging, they don't want to know more about their fraternity afterwards. Also I believe in "making the letters", and not letting those letters making you. I say these young men has long ways to go.
not sure why im watching this. There is no greek system where im from lol
Wanna start a chapter, get at me
I’m getting officiated today to start the pledge process idk what to expect i hope I don’t walk off on the first day it would be embarrassing 😢
Man you helped me a lot when i was rushing! Now I'm initiated at Kappa Sigma!
Pietro D'Elia A-B brother
That fucking blows sorry to hear that
Pussy Sigma
what a flex lmao they take anyone
@@daloganman9703 A little update, I’m about to graduate and 10/10 would not recommend
Check Body language of college
Grads first boarding, then leaving
what they got invited to aboard
the Navy's ship.
Can you do a video on attire?
+sun1489 You bet. I will work on that today. Anything specifically you would like covered?
hazing video!
Hey dude I'm currently a senior in high school and been really looking up to joining one ,since I'm attending out of state how hard is it really now a days are you frat guys like picky or no
Jack Hatcher rush sigma chi
If u wanna start ur own chapter hmu
Well how’d it go
Yeah how did it go
Thanks man!
my mans shit looking like a chef shirt, lmao. Besides that, In Hoc to all my sigma chis out there
It is all about PRIORITIZING academics!
I'm transferring to university Of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign as a junior can I still join a frat or is too late at this point?
Turn Up no it's not you can rush whenever you want, a guy in my pledge class he was a senior!
Turn Up why would you want to as a junior
You’ll probably get a lower pin but I’m also pledging Sigma Chi at SIU, I’m also a junior
Mathew Abuali did it work
Mathew Abuali well guessing from your profile picture it did🤣
they just beat me for 45 seconds and after that I got put on and made official
do community colleges have fraternities
No
If you can whack it and hit the keyboard, you deserve to get it.
If you are actually watching this you shouldn't rush. period.
Jake Kantor wtf is ur problem I’m watching this cuz I’m in g9 and idk what frats r all about.
Well i founded my own chapter soo
Rahhh delts
Just be a GDI. Don’t pay for friends
Don't rush at all. Save your time and money. Joining a fraternity is pointless. It's nothing close to real brotherhood.
I think this is just basic social skills
Honestly don't even join.
The first thing not to say is the word “frat.” Call it a fraternity because people who say frat sound dumb.
Rah Delt
Cap
Rah Rah Delta Tau
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