Man killed in dispute over not saying 'thank you' at NYC smoke shop
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- 'It was just about not saying 'thank you' for opening the door for him,' employee Kharef Alsaidi said. Janice Yu reports. 7ny.tv/3f1kf0p
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If someone is rude to you in public, let them keep their unhappy energy to themselves. Be unbothered & keep it moving. You never know who is crazy. 😢
and IT MIGHT JUST SAVE YOUR LIFE!
💯
Yep
Absolutely!!!!
I'd rather die knowing I did the right thing instead of being a b**** and letting things slide, that's a coward. My death wouldn't be in vain
My late father was standing in line one day and a young person stepped in front of him saying she was in a hurry and added, “ you look old enough to be retired so I know you have more time to wait”. He admitted his time on this planet was limited and that was a good thing because he’d have less time to deal with rude and entitled people like her.
LOL, good one.
Yeah I may have less time but that dont mean you can disrespect me. I'd have to remove her from the line.
I'd give her a lesson equality with the back of my hand right there if she spoke to an old man like that
@@IkesPimpHand 😅🤣
@@torig.5864 imagine some young (word beginning with c and ending with unt) speaking to your father like that. Lord help me, I'd get put in prison for what i did and enjoy it.
Wait....did he expect someone to tell him "Thank you" in NYC of all places?
😂true
This is a self-defense case! The victim was the aggressor!
Ask yourself - why was he wearing slash protectors on both arms?
Man died for expecting gratitude. Give it out don't expect it in return. Rest in peace
no man died for NOT giving thanks/ not vice versa
@@lissiflores2262 I think you got it wrong
@@lissiflores2262 The employee is the thug looking creep with the stupid looking armbands is the one who wanted the thank you and got up in the customer's face....Looks like a clear case of self defense.
@@lissiflores2262 listen to the story again and pay attention next time
@@kemolowlow - The guy with white rags wrapped around his arms challenged the guy with a knife. Said I'll kill you without a knife. Oh well he lost. One less psycho in NY.
A lot of men are too emotional and disturbed to the point where any act outside of their " mind" sets them off
gender has zero to do with it..... don't be a feminist simp trying to posture for women
Government funded children
This is what happens when we put pride above humility.
I use to be one of them, however the rare type that could self repair, most will end up dead or shot. They do not know the strength in sitting back and observing non reactively.
Exactly
When I open a door for someone, it's nice to hear a thank-you. If I don't get that acknowledgement, sometimes I say, "You're welcome" anyway.
You just described National Emotive Therapy. Thank you would be nice but if you don't get it do you - lose money? Stop breathing? Have no place to stay? Once you answer No to all these things the result is oh well I don't need the thanks like I originally thought.
@@drtroyturner7464 Learn how to read and comprehend!
I do the same. Not worth fighting over it tho. That was a little over the top.
The "victim" was looking for trouble - the "suspect" was merely defending himself from a lot of aggression. He attacked the "suspect",
followed him outside and tried to prevent him, hands on, from riding off on his bike. Holding the door was simply the aggressor's excuse
to confront someone he thought was weaker. I vote to acquit.
If you do something out of your kind heart don’t ever expect anything in return, not everyone cares that’s just life ….
Definitely not worth your life-
Ego is not your amigo-
Stay on point people -
Life is truly a gift…
Well said! ✌
Absolutely said it well
“Ego is not your amigo” 🤣
the literal best way to tell someone to get over themselves.
100% Walter!!!
Dont worry people, the AG of NYC is suing Trump for reaestate deals. I guess the rampid crime rate will have to wait. Be careful and defend youself, OOPS I forgot, YOU CANT!!!
I've been to this smoke shop a handful of times. Beyond shocked at what happened, especially over a "thank you". Gotta be careful about the people you interact with on the streets b/c there are a lot of mentally unstable folks in the city.
But the stabber wasn't unstable. He was being attacked by the unstable.
@@disf5178 exactly
@@disf5178 exactly
@@disf5178 was you there?no u wasn't so shuttfUp
You mean “criminals”
Another case of someone getting killed over "disrespect".
I’ve held the door open for so many people that at this point it’s become just a habit of mine. This video made me realize that not once have I ever expected a thank you.
What do you want, a cookie?
@@karma4greedyslumlords490 I don't even think you got what the guy said honestly.
@@karma4greedyslumlords490 keyboard warrior alert, hahahaha
@@karma4greedyslumlords490 actually he realizes we do nice things for nothing quite the opposite! This petty man played the game and won!
@@markr1018 Yeahhhhhh....didn't even read your comment dude. You wasted your time 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Can’t believe this headline 🤦🏿♂️ people dying and get killed over the stupidest things you can imagine
New america
Bet it has something to do with addiction,that leads to mental illness.
People react on impulse and emotions rather than logic.
Well if you are saying they are black then you need glasses as well as a little lesson. Because black people aren't the only ones out there in the streets or in prison for that matter. Hispanics in which those guys most likely were have played are large part in crime when it come to gangs and drug trafficking. So stop blaming just black people.
A stabbing over not saying thank you??? I blame Trump and Karens and KKK and Proud Boys and White Supremacists and Kyle Rittenhouse and racist police. They always killing black people.
It's just better not to expect a thank you for doing a good deed. Rude, unhappy people are not going to make or break me!
'No good deed goes unpunished.' Truer than it ever was.
You been watching the gentlemen 😂😂😂
Amen!!!!
The same line went through my head.
He didn't get stabbed for opening the door for someone. He got stabbed for physically attacking a stranger for not saying "thank you". How do people not understand that from this story? The "victim" is the aggressor.
More like, Fuck around and find out
The victim looked like he was looking for a fight and got the worst end of it.
When you realize you have a psychopath in front of you.
He did and lost his life in the process smh
I m confused, the victim is the guy in white shirt and he was not the aggressor.
That's what can happen when you try to beat somone into saying " thank you" and prevent them from escaping your assault, and when they pull knife you taunt them and say stab me if you Can? who is the psychopath 🤪
@@mariamaba9220 He was 100% the aggressor go watch the video, guy who got stabbed keep taking swings at the other guy when he was trying to leave, when guy got on his bike to ride away the "victim" attacked him, and he got stabbed twice during his attack on the guy who was trying to leave.
I have actually had people walking in front of me open a door with barely enough space for their body to get through, dive through the door, then turn around and yank it shut just to eliminate the possibility of me accidentally arriving at even a partially open door.
I just accept that they are stupid and move on.
I am a woman and I hold the door for everyone and men never thank me only women and kids...men here are horrible in NYC. Something ain't right about them.
Not victim blaming but also don't antagonize someone with a weapon as well. The victim was telling that guy "let me see you stab me"
nope , now a days , an Ak-47 shoot-out , is the Norm,
I'm a start doing that
I can't front I've done exactly what you've described . Only when sneaking into the transit station doors though.
Tragic. Easier to be kind. Please take care everyone.
Say no to drugs.
The thing that confuses me is that a polite person who holds the door open can also be a psychopath
Easy. Cos some people are not genuine with their "politeness". They actually do polite things expecting something in return. A real polite person just is. He doesn't care what other people do around him or how they react towards him, he is polite anyway.
Yes.. If somone doesn't say "thank you" you don't resort to trying to beat it out of them..?
The one who held the door was killed
☺️ some of the world's most evil psychopaths & sociopaths were described by family & Friends as " the nicest person you could meet" ...
They’re everywhere and they look like normal people but they’re not, they’re democrats.
How come the reporter said she couldn't provide a physical description of the suspect when they are both shown in the video? I'm no homicide detective, but just tell us which one died - I'd think it would be the other one!
Im guessing is cause he’s not white
@Joe H: Ok, so it's not just me! I thought that would be one of the first comments, but nope. The video is pretty clear. It is only a matter of time before someone identifies him.
Because she repeats the same thing everyday.
one in the white shirt
White shirt
Many outcomes are so avoidable. I saw this same scenario played out a number of times, with the person who opened the door confronting the other person. It's just stupid. Nobody owes you gratitude even though it may be your nature to be helpful.
I've had to wave off folks for holding a door open for me when I'm quite a distance away. It's awkward to be rushed to get to the door so the other person isn't waiting unnecessarily long for me. If I'm moseying along at my own pace, I don't want be rushed. Running to the door is more effort than opening the door myself.
@@oahuhawaii2141Who rushed you and how? Of all the things that never happened….
I was having a conversation yesterday with a client about people not holding doors open for others and people not saying thank you for things. I said it bothers me but it doesn’t stop me from doing it. I can’t imagine getting into a fight that leads to death over something so minor. You can’t go back and rewrite this.
Thank you!!! Finally someone that gets it!!! He caused this himself!! Was it REALLY necessary to open your his mouth!! 🙄🤡 And look where it got him, the morgue!
@@AnastasiaBeaverhousn I still feel sorry for the victim but I agree that it really isn’t worth getting into an argument over someone not saying ‘thank you’. Some people don’t have any manners and you just have to shake your head sometimes and keep moving
Yes, he was a victim of his own actions.. if he was such a nice courteous guy then why Physically attact the guy for not saying thank you.. Just leave it.. Then when the guy pulled the knife he taunted him Saying stab Me If you can! then falls into store screaming He stabbed me ,, He stabbed me 🙄
You ppl have major issues if you’re gonna side with a murderer over something petty as this smh
Why does it bother you?
Be nice to people without expectations. This was so avoidable. Self-defense!!!
Avoidable you mean.
Avoidable
Your comment was avoidable.
NYC doesn't have self defence laws like other parts of the country. THe guy who did the s@bbing WILL BE CHARGED as soon as they find him.
Definitely self defense. Dude who got stabbed started the arguement, started getting physical, wouldn’t let him leave, he got what was coming to him.
Don't hold the door open for someone if that's how you think. If you expect something for doing something like this you ain't had the right intentions in it to begin with.
I swear these headlines keep getting funnier and funnier. Sad situation but still wtf lmao
Why would you expect someone to say thank you in New York City lol
My neighbor and his wife threatened me. I stopped talking to them for over a year. They now hold open the door every time they see me. I force myself to say thank you each time. I’m not victim blaming but ppl are so unstable since the panini. I think it’s best not to add fuel to the fire. RIP to this man.
Since the toasted sandwich?
@Gratitude Griot? Force? Well maybe they feel bad they threaten you. You know remorseful?
Paninis definitely are different now
What?
Yeah, I'm never eating another panini .
Listen, if you choose to be nice, never expect anything in return, most of the times, being nice will lead to disappointment. It's either be nice, sincere and go on with it or keep to yourself, the latter hurts nobody anyway.
@ being walked over for years makes it hard to to be nice just for the sake of being nice. But you just gotta learn the difference of being nice and doing favors for people who will never return one. I know I had to learn.
@@yayawawasy This. Just being nice to people in general has helped fight my depression so much. After a while being nice and just smiling can become an amazingly positive habit.
Facts
Well said I learn being kind to people does pay off as time went on I do less keep my distance
Thats why i never help people unless theyre elderly or you know they cant help themselves
I cant wait for the phisical description to come since my brain is way to underdevelopped to get it's own description from the video you just showed :)
This makes me glad
that
I don't bother holding the door for people
I avoid people as much as possible.
Same thing I said!
*Mental Health Is Important*
*SMH*
Unfortunately mental health in America is a thing of the past.
It's not always mental health...some people have SOCIALIZATION skills, as well as lack impulse control. Anger management is also a factor. The environment, say, an abusive, dysfunctional household, imprisonment, physical abuse, etc. also shapes one's behavior. EVERYONE can't just be crazy; way too many. It's just not that common.
Only if individuals have brains...to begin with
Exactly🎯💯
Racial separation is more important.
You can't always expect everyone to be kind even if you do a good deed for them that's just the way it is, this was so senseless.
Exactly!
It ain't a good deed if you want a reward
OMG so scary!!
RIP to this young man! 💔😓🥀
If you expect something in return for doing something for another...then you are doing it for the wrong reason
Absolutely...
Pretty much sums it up.
Yap. The "i do it yet nobody appreciate me" is a line I tell people to stop using. If ypu decide to help do it and keep it moving.
I heard this from a wise man, You bless others and look to God for a reward. Most of the time you are repaying all of the blessing the lord has already gave you.
“Tic for Tac” as my Dad says at times
According to the witness, the victim dragged the suspect in and out of the store and would not let the suspect leave. This sounds like 100% self defense.
Yeah bringing a knife 🔪 to a fist fight. Such cowardice is praised nowadays smmfh
@@bronxboroughpresident3608
30 years ago two bullies attacked me in a parking lot. The one that went to the hospital was automatically called the victim. The term victim then and in this case means the one that lose the fight.
@@chaplainsoffice6907 TRUE TRUE TRUE
The victim is the guy who defended himself.
The thug who assaulted him is dead.
Works for me!
Yes it is 100%.
No good deed goes unpunished.
@Wockhardt_Warlock
well in the meantime,,,,, NO GOOD DEED GOES UNPUNISHED.
@Wockhardt_Warlockno u don't understand. The dude in the white held the door, dude in black didn't say thank u. Dude in white starts the argument and got killed. So yea no Good Deed Goes Unpunished.
What was the good deed 2 seconds of door holding or screaming in the man’s face as he tried to walk away? Maybe it was a hate crime yeah let’s go with that and even more let’s pretend we can’t see fear on the face of one and anger on the other. I didn’t ask you to hold my door nor do I need you too. I got beat into being polite as a kid tho so I don’t give a duck what someone does I thank them out of fear of my mothers backhand
Now I know why my parents taught me to always say thank you
Fighting over something so dumb and stupid
He obviously wanted to find a reason to hurt the guy...
Black culture at its finest.
I guess democrats will have one less vote this year... no wait, I forgot everyone votes democrat after death.
Sounds like he provoked his own death 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ we gotta control our temper!!!!
EXACTLY
True. If no one appreciates what sometimes we do for others, we must not expect a thank you.
@@carloswater7 and dont keep giving to people thats going to continue to hurt u
Yet people making him the victim
@@msunje9862 Like who?
Imagine being the kind of dude who holds the door for others. But also kills them when they don't say 'thank you' 😮
Blacks am i right
@@Darnell_369 neither one in the video clip is black, lol
Home boy held the door for biker, biker didn't say thank you so home boy assaulted him, biker stabbed home boy in defense and home boy died
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"IF YOU DON'T TIP ME, YOU ARE DEAD!!!"
Without your consent, "volunteers" open the door as they have printed on their forehead:
"IF YOU DON'T TIP ME, YOU ARE DEAD!!!
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Man I’ve held the door sometimes & people don’t say thank you. It bothers me but I make no big deal about it and just go on with my day. I will continue to hold the door for people if the situation presents itself. Doesn’t ruin my day honestly life is too short for this nonsense.
Won't say thank you but will shank you...
Bars....
😂😂
To be very honest, the guy in the white shirt (the one killed who held the door open) was a complete aggressor and provoked the stabber multiple times and caused the whole physical fight between them. He picked the wrong one to physically attack that day and lost his life because of it.
I was thinking the same thing. Victim was escalating while suspect was trying to just take off at that point. RIP to him but he def also brought it on himself.
He had good intentions at first, but it was poorly executed. He let his ego get the best of him and somehow picked the right wrong guy.
Shortly, mess around and find out
@@SpicyBxtch7 The world has that sweetie, it’s not America exclusive. But believe what you’d like. Evil exists where it can.
That's the wrong attitude, and honestly critical thinking is more of a hindrance in today's age than anything. If you are in a life or death situation, just call the police and kindly ask the aggressor to hold off until the proper authorities arrive.
There is no reason for any man to carrying a knife. Cowards defend themselves with knives. Plus what is it to simply say "I'm sorry Thank you." What a way to lose a life and to ruin a life. 25 to life for murder over a thank you.
I held the door open for a guy once and he said to me "F you I can do it myself"
1:35 "Keep calm and vape" 😂🤣
I never expect a thank you when I do something for someone. You will be horribly let down if you have expectations for people.
You never get dissapointments when u have no expectations. True that
Well said…..Old saying, If you expect, expect to be disappointed…..
@@bertdom5707 I do expect a thank you if I do something kind for someone and when I don’t get a thank you I won’t do it again.
You can get fairly disappointed in expectations of your own behavior.
Then, why even do it? Where are you a sheep
I'm usually too busy to even WAIT for a thank u. I only hold door open as a courtesy and I always say thank u when they hold it for me bc its how we should treat ppl regardless. What a stupid thing to die over.
It does feel disrespectful when you hold the door for someone and they walk through without acknowledging you. But it’s not worth getting into a fight over
Yeah it's kind of awkward. I usually don't care if they say thank you or not
I ignore almost everyone i walk past idgaf if u hold the door or not if i dont kno u move out my way 😂😂😂
This is also my mentality now. lol
Imagine losing your life over not saying thank you 👀 I swear people out here losing their minds.
You got it mixed, and the media is twisting it. Home boy held the door for the biker, when the biker didn't say thank you, home boy got physical. Biker defended himself by stabbing home boy and home boy died.
😂😂😂😂😂I haven’t even watched it yet and the tile got me weeezing
Imagine holding the door open for your killer
That guy was much bigger
And swinging around like a rag doll
Imagine beating up a guy just for not saying thank you forcing him to stab you in self-defense
We living in a nasty world rude people out there it's sad
Something has to give in this 2020's decade, cause this is the worst one yet.
So true. Very uncultured individuals living in our society lacking basic socialization skills and respect. 😞 Sad that this tragedy occurred; RIP to the deceased.
Absolutely just yesterday I waited 20 minutes to cross a tiny street there was traffic up ahead and a red light but they would not move their cars a few inches to just let me pass...it's just Me first society. Such pigs...20 minutes to cross the street 😖
Did eyewitness news just make you realize that?
Ppl don’t owe you nothing out here. Get over yourself
As the killer rode away on his E-bike, he didn't say, "thank you." However, he WAS heard to say, "You're welcome."
Always say 'Thank you', 'Please' and 'I am Sorry'.
Putting your hands on anyone for any reason may result in your demise. Best to stay in your own lane until you really have to defend yourself or someone else from evil.
Exactly. That was uncalled for. He didn't owe him anything for opening that door. He should have kept it moving and went on about his day. Instead, he wanted to teach him a "lesson", but the joke was on him.
in 1985 when i was 21 I bumped into a young black guy in the mall..i am white by the way, just part of the story....neither of us wanted to move out of the way and we collided shoulder to shoulder somewhat....he looked in his late teens, but was way smaller then me....i went into a store and about 5 minutes later i was met by the kid i bumped into and an older black male who was about 40....the older male said to me "You bumped into my friend and I want you to say your sorry to him"....I got a bad feeling about this and said I was sorry....the older male said "Thank God"....and they left me....looking back years later I do believe that could have been my death day by either a gun or knife....at the end of the day it is not worth marking your territory so to speak against someone who you will never see again...
@@daisymae3883looks like he didn't open the door out of kindness, but to purposely start a fight. Why was he wearing slash protectors on his arms?
I have never once commented to someone that did not say thank you when I held the door. Its sad 😔 that he lost his life over this.
But it seems that that the victim just wouldn’t let it go
yeah its pretty petty, are you holding the door cause you want to be nice or cause you want to hear a thank you?
You a survivor keep up the good work
It's like folks carnt find enough things to fight over. What a Total waste. Just because of a door. This is getting crazier and crazier.😳
It's rude but certainly not something to kill someone over. Not something to even hit someone over either. You just ignore it and move on because there's always going to be bitter people in this world.
Its not only Thank you, its courtesy, its one of our basic social principles.
It’s getting crazy out there!😮
If you don’t have expectations you don’t have disappointments
Exactly!
The guy who got stabbed looks and seems like the instigator in this situation.
I will always thank whoever holds a door for me, especially if it is a child. They have been brought up to be polite so it's only fair to be extra polite to them
Mom always use to tell us. “ say please, and thank you”. When I hold the door for someone, I don’t expect any thanks. As the person enters and has the door, I’m off
You just never know what a man has in his mind...ppl have suppressed rage ...be kind to ppl and if they reciprocate cool if not keep being kind...dont disappoint yourself from a stranger...its not personal. A sad situation. 🙏🏽
keep it str8 movin
Also saying thank you for someone opening a door is kinda dumb it's just a nicety not many people actually need you to open the door for them it's just nice to see people being nice to one another...then he starts a fight over it.
especially men. they are unskilled with their emotions.
@@grawakendream8980 this is a fact...most men dont have experience in emotional intelligence 💯💯
@@red_words i see no lies told here 💯
I'm upset that she's reporting a story that she doesn't have pertinent details about. This is poor. She couldn't tell us the gentlemen's name, or point out who was who in the video.
Journalism died years ago.
They don't have the information yet.
Exactly.
She’s just reporting what was handed to her.
If these reporters had good inside NYPD sources which today they don't - but they did "back in the day" - they would have the details they need. I'm betting few reporters have good relations with NYPD beyond the public information office, due to the adversarial way the media has been acting in recent years.
😞😞RIP,Man.
My condolences
I hold the door open for people all the time out of respect and being raised the right way. Thank you is not needed for me. GOD always blessed me daily.💯👍🙏🏾🙏🏾
What is the world coming to??? This is literally senseless killing…wow… Over a thank you… it’s really a scary world that we live in now…😖
another AMERICANS saying world LOL
Diversity + Proximity = Conflict
This is nothing new people like you need to stop thinking this world is a fairy tale
Senseless killings:
Too much Mayo @ Subway
People are unstable and unhinged. Probably meds that pushes them over the edge and their own bad judgements.
"We haven't gotten any information on a physical description"???? Hello, you just showed a video of the fight inside the store.
Meanwhile the door
"🚪 ...aw man I did it again "
I used to be very offended and upset whenever I would open or hold a door open and the person didn't thank me. I've learned that I do the things that I do because it's who I am and I would want the same treatment. I've also recognized, that everyone's different and there are more than one person that you don't get that thank you..you don't however allow it to influence how you feel and respond. The suspect, I felt for him, but at the same time the fact that he put that much energy and power into two mere words is an indication that he has serious anger issues.
Is there an uncensored full length version?
That door will slam in your face if you think I'm going to hold it open for you in NYC.
Just a question...why wouldn't you open the Door for me though I live in NY...what is it about the people that I need to kno about 🤨😳
@@prophecygloryentertainment5805 Just how you worded the question " open the door for me " sounds entitled and someone that won't say thank you.
Exactly 😂
@@prophecygloryentertainment5805 open your own door munchy
Most people will hold the door for you and i will do the same, except for those times when my mind is miles away, and then I will apologize to the person
If you only give in order to receive gratitude, your intentions aren't as pure as you think.
That's why don't bother holding doors for people. 🤣😂
Same here!
Just watched the video and they did not even identify which was the one who got stabbed, I'm assuming its the guy without the backpack but what do I know. Then she reports they still don't have a physical description. Say what! There is a clear video. Reporting these days never likes to actually report the needed info. Someone was killed we have video but we don't need to report who's who....
I think the one in the white shirt died
They said the messenger had a knife on his bike the dude with the backpack I'd assume was the messenger
Exactly. Terrible reporting. She was stumbling through that whole story. Like she don't know what the fucc goin on.
This news story reporting was really confusing. I like to think I'm pretty smart but I didn't understand it!
You can see the knife in the right hand of the guy in the backpack
Imagine being such an insecure, pathetic person to want to fight someone over not saying thank you. Some people have overly fragile egos.
Bigger lesson to be learned dummy
@@zenithofcourse5369 Are you defending that fragile ego person who fought someone over not saying thank you?
@@hogant.551 More ASSumptions…you really are a dummy.
Virtue is its own reward
The irony is now he's at heavens gate and I'm sure he ain't gonna say thank you to Saint Peter😂
I mean it annoys me too sometimes when people don’t say thank you after I hold the door for them, but I’m not going to bring it up. It’s not required for you to hold it for anyone anyways. They can simply get their own door of course. Sadly you can’t trust anybody these days in terms of their character. Makes you wonder what could’ve been had the victim not brought it up. May he RIP. Condolences to his friends and family. Too many sick people out there.
no one owes you anything for things they didnt ask you to do. you offer and I ignored you and went about my business then whats the issue... not because you give, you should be praised for giving. open the door , hold the door open, and move the heck on... its that simple
If it annoys. You stop doing it you're not required to hold a door for anyone. Dooofus
I hold doors open “for MY convenience,” and not because I want to or even expect anyone else to speak “meaningless words,” which are empty platitudes.
@@bjvu9460 with the situation that happen, who knows what it may have led to next. For instants, " why you close the door in my face" and so on
@@bjvu9460 well that the problem, the guy felt slighted when the homeless guy asked for a thank you, instead of moving on getting his smokes and leaving, he went out and got a knife to stab the homeless guy. He can't control his emotions or feelings so no he's going to prison.
I remember decades ago I lived with a family overseas for 6 months. They were so very nice to me and I would thank them each time they did something for my comfort (e.g. bring tea, water, food, blanket, etc.) After awhile they revealed to me that they thought it was too formal and just totally unnecessary. It was hard for me to change because saying “thank you” had been ingrained in me since childhood. Now, as I interact with people around the city, I always keep in mind there might be cultural differences.
Chinese or what country?
@@Nandinandito It was a North African Arabic speaking country.
Yeah. Alot of people don't know how to receive kindness as they've never experienced it which is sad tbh. They take it as someone wanting something from them or being in genuine... or like you say too formal or unnecessary. I think it's very necessary
@@sakkysha5496 oh interesting! Thanks!
It's still best to err on the side of safety and keep saying "Thank you" to all who do you a courtesy.
Thank you everyone.
I hold the door open I don’t even expect a thank you. If you’re holding the door open and expecting a thank you please just don’t hold the door open. Lol.
When I’m in NY, I don’t speak, give no eye contact and keep moving. The wolves are out 🙏
Facts
You better, see the twinkle in killers eyes and knife in his hand, must be alert, look at ppl face don’t be scared , if I don’t do that I’m easy target
You just described they type that wolves hunt, the unaware. Always look at potential problems. That how you avoid getting robbed or pushed in the train tracks.
Don't forget the ravens
That's nice in theory... but then some bum goes "DONT IGNORE ME" and there's a problem anyway. Stay armed, stay vigilant.
I always hold doors and say, “thank you,” and “you’re welcome.” Also, it sounds like self defense according to the witness.
this is how you become a doormat
@@chuckiegravesfield3170 This doesn't even make any sense lol
@@Iliketowalk478 it does. Everyone be praising here how they hold doors for people, Who cares? you want a cookie?, Literally no one asked
The killer left the store to get his knife from his scooter and returned to the store to stab the guy who demanded the "Thank You!"
Killer could've gone elsewhere to let the situation cool down, but decided it was his imperative to stab the aggressive guy who demanded the "Thank You!"
@@oahuhawaii2141if I’m reading the situation right the guy in blue has a knife and tried to use it in their scuffle. Guy in white just came back to fight him after almost getting stabbed. It really turned into revenge after inflated egos.
Let that be a lesson, if you.hold a door for someone they do not have to say thank you. They do not owe you a verbal thanks because you expected it to be that way. Hell he didn't even ask you to hold the door.
Yeah, some crazy bitch verbally harassed me the whole time I was in the store one time because I didn't thank her for holding the stupid door for me. I told her to go home and take her medication, because she's nuts!
Some crazy bitch verbally harassed me the entire time I was in a store just because I didn't say thank you for holding the stupid door for me. I told her to go home and take her medication, because she's nuts! Lol.
“YO YOU NOT GON SAY THANK YOU”
Nah im good
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Lmaoooo "nahhhhhh I'm good" lololol
You diss a specking me. You finta gets deez hands fo dissing ons me likes dat. 🤣😭 Our race is finished.
Imagine losing your life over a "thank you". I always hold the door, and if they don't thank me, I just say, "No problem" and continue with my day
I don't even say anything or expect a thank you when i just hold door open for ppl.. I really don't mind if I don't get a thank you but there's lots ppl out there who want a thank you or they'll call you rude or talk behind your back .. it's just holding a door open for a sec for god's sake
Still petty. Why open your mouth at all? You're subconsciously provoking an argument because you're sensitive af.
Yea this world now a days ain't Kansas anymore. Ppl trip over dumb things, I just keep my mouth shut I'm in and out and I worry about me and my family. We all live in a cruel world reminds me of Sin City or Gotham. Smh
@@markcormier5750 Facts, brother. No reason to start something with an absolute stranger.
@@markcormier5750 It ain't the world bro, it's just us.
He wanted a Thank You card, and he got better...a Death Certificate.
Wait......what???? So we are coming to this mental state of mind now? Wow
I hold the door for people all the time and I never expect a thank you. Sometimes we just have to humble ourselves. Not everyone on this planet is sane or even logical. People kill for little to no reason. Not worth your life. Not in this day an age in New York. It is best to avoid almost all types of confrontation. This is what happens when 2 bad energies collide
Too many fragile men out there. Not everyone is going to be polite or thank you for your help. Now you killed someone because you wanted a reward. 🤦♂️
Actually you're wrong. The guy that wanted a thank you was killed by the thug that didn't say thank you.
And you need to thank Roy for correcting you
Re-watch the video coz you got it all wrong. As per Ray's comment here.
Who expects a thank you in NYC anyway.
He got killed because he wanted a reward. You are right not everyone is going to thank you, so don't hold the door if you are expecting one. Do it because you are a good person. Also if you don't get a thank you, don't beech and confront the person. Just go about your way.
If you hold the door fir someone, and they dont say "thank you " just chalk it up to rudeness n just go about your day. This was a totally unnecessary crime and over something so petty .
He messed with the wrong one. It's ironic because the guy who stabbed him to death didn't even look like the aggressive type but then again most killers usually don't.
My Condolences to that man family & friends, it's so dangerous now. R.I.P
The so called "victim" was the aggressor lol.
Two people on video fighting. One is dead. And, the news cannot describe the one that is wanted? (PS...it's the one not dead). How lame is reporting in our country that I have to go to Sky News for real journalism.
And then she started stumbling over her words like she went off script. She was all over the place...smh
Blessed are the pure are of heart, for they will love and not demand love in return, and curseth the man who does.
Senseless tragedy😢
This is really Pathetic...No one deserves to die over something so petty however, I do notice people these days find it so difficult to utter...A thank you, I'm sorry (not Victim blaming) These are words of gesture that go a long way...
The victim was the aggressor watch the video again
He opened door while pulling smaller victim if he didn't stab that guy.. it was just a matter of time before he slammed into the glass.
No one deserves to die for assaulting physically someone who didn’t say thank you? How about no one deserves to get beaten up for being impolite or having a bad day.