I was Forced to Marry a Dead Man, We Now have 3 Kids together (NIGERIA)
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- Female subjugation is a global issue. In Nigeria, specifically in the Ndegu Okpuitumo community in Ebonyi state, young girls are subjected to marrying dead men in a bid to continue their bloodlines because of sudden death due to communal war between then and Osopo Esato, a neighboring community in Cross River state, Nigeria.
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@@DavidNkwasir please for her safety maybe you should cover her face because I don’t know how the community leaders will react to this if they see that said thanks this
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When she said his mother is a native doctor the debate was closed!
She is the one that was torturing the girl !!! What evilness is this?!
Exactly! She scared her to agree to it and she can't even take care of her and her children. What a wicked woman. I just pity the children and the lady. She should have run away and go directly to churches like winners, mfm or others
You just said my mind
@prelifegoeson7058 she can't run away they will stiff her in the house she can't go anywhere even if they will be cutting her meat in the house, she need to very prayerful one day the charm will break
That's the way of they living, it is they culture . That's they life. Of course I'm European, I don't understand it, but I'm European, different culture and believes of course. Also now all those people from this particular country, and others, ( similar countries to this one including) they all now going to live in Europe. We don't have enough jobs for us, , we don't have enough resources for us, I don't say about them invading whole Europe . They every where literary. Now I do understand why they don't want to live and stay in they own country and moving to Europe, it specially UK, England. Where they are involved in drug dealing, prostitution. That's what they do when they come to Europe. It specially they woman they agree for every think literary. (black woman) Also they destroying other female family's , relationship's. (Why no idea why , but those black woman they usually run after married man ) They don't care ( black people) when they in Europe, they don't care about suffering they do to others around them, it is tragic for us Europeans. It specially black woman who's doing for man what ever they ask, cause we white woman we have our pride and value our bodies, and we not agree to be slaves for a man, or do for them every think , we not agree to be prostitutes , we not, - but those ones, (black ones) they no shy to offer to local man they sex services. Black woman no shy at all, to offering to white man such thinks, and it is disgusting. I hope they will deal with they problems in they own country , where they are now , and I also hope they will stay there. It will be magical.
@@Lita-bj5ir ?!?!!! What are you talking about?!
1- in Europe you have disgusting things going on as well in your culture so STOP STIGMATIZING A HOLE CONTINENT BECAUSE YOU FEEL BITTER INSIDE !!
2- talking about immigration, that's a long and complicated topic to have with you but to cut it short, OUR men and women who are coming to Europe are following our stuff YOU "(white people)" took from us and you don't have to cry here!. What goes around comes around. Especially UK.
You are from the UK and you can't even write in English?! Bref .
As for your "(white men)" they have always been attracted to us and this will never change.
- NOT ALL MARRIED MEN HAVE MISTRESS AT ALL!!! Those with mistress aren't forced to go into that, so stop crying in the internet and go take care of your man.
3- as for the prostitution, You "(white women)" have started with that by not giving yourself for free and you call it PROUD.
Can a white woman talk about PROUD Infront of an African woman?! Hell No!
BUT SOME white women (likeYOU) can compare themself to an expat Afro looking for a way to survive where she feels like the only way is to give herself to men or married men like YOURS cause that's your level.
4- stop putting your desperate comment under mine.
*I'm married to a white man and you know what? That's minus ➖ 01 man from your community and you are lucky he's not from the UK!
Tsuuuuup!
The elders who allow and perpetrate these traditions and customs need to be jailed. Starting with that mother in law
What nonsense is this God! Help this ladies in Jesus ny
And people are saying let's go back to our root,I reject
As a Nigerian, I'm just seeing this for the first time.
This is not common.
😂..
Reject it in Jesus name
The light has already shine and the glory of the Lord has risen. In Jesus Kristo name
Something demonic and manipulative about this process. May God deliver them from it in Jesus Name 🙏🏽
Exactly. It was a demon conjured by her MIL that was appearing to her. All she needed was deliverance . She has such a good heart, poor thing.
@@moa5351how did U know all this rubbish? You people always have or know solutions to other people problems expect your own 😅😅😅
Jesus doesn't do anything oga , people are funny sha, so U think all the people in this world have not heard of Jesus before
So demonic, Jesus Christ can deliver her from this bondage. She has no life, even the children are born into this evil situation.
@@danetteukattah7728 I thought jesus created us? So why did Jesus create the children into the evil?
😮😢This needs to stop😡
These people are crazy. Without knowledge the people will perish. Congratulations for helping these women.
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Utter ignorance and foolishness in the year 2024.
I'm soooo sooo tired as a woman & things we have been forced to endure but I think this is the worst thing I have heard.. I'm shocked to the core that anyone can survive such a cruelty & ordeal....What evil depths is this?? What else?😢😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😭😭😭
@@ReynelleGreaves time the women wake up and start living real lives. Leave these villages.
There is no honor in keeping traditions that are harmful and demeaning. Stop the nonsense, you looking silly to the rest of the world.
I wanna speak to the young lady directly. I plan to renovate her room, but I need to speak to her or see her on a video call. I understand izzi. I was born and raised there
God bless your heart ❤. .And may you never lack 🙏
Ameeen yarabi
Amen
Amen bless you🙏🏽 message him look in description you will see ways of reaching him
Stop this ugly culture, is better than to repair her home, and let her continue leaving this miserable life😢😢😢😢
She has a spiritual husband the only remedy for her is to accept Jesus Christ and be delivered that's the only way out
💯 percent she really needs Jesus Christ in her life
She's weak in Christ
@@ChinakaJacinta-zn2zchow?
@@roaxelie what do u mean again by how does my English hard for u to understand ?
I simply said she's weak in Christ read to understand pls
@@ChinakaJacinta-zn2zc you said shes weak in Christ and I asked you how? I understood what you wrote, I just asked you tp elaborate
That is pure evil.
Demonic…. Everything about this whole situation is demonic
Hence the poverty 😫
This is the same thing I thought immediately I heard it. This is demonic.
This is so wrong 😭💔pure evil. The devil is in control of this community 😢
A very sad world we live in now. Soon my Lord will come and fix the suffering forever.
What world? You mean Nigeria
@@taharka3897 Do you think Nigeria is the only place where people are suffering? I think not. The entire world is suffering because of who runs the world! Christ will return to fix all these things.
Rubbish
Amen and Amen
@@yambafonjah2583 This usually where normally people say something mean or unkind! I hope that you find Jehovah as I did! His peace in MY LIFE is real. I use to kill for a living for a murderous “Democracy” now I share peace. Let me share this peace with you! Please?
May the Lord of Heavens Army rise up and fight for you. No witch, no warlock, no strong man or woman can hold you down in Jesus name, Amen!
Please tell this lady to read the bible and pray, Jesus has given us authority to step on serpents and scorpions, and there’s nothing that the kingdom of darkness can do to us.
Please help that woman, and find a pastor for her to deliver her.There' nothing God can not do.
pastor they are the same like this people's 😂😂😂😂
She doesn't need a pastor. She needs your support. Don't be fooled though. It has been organised to look pathetic. It is their culture. She hasn't been forced to come back. When she gets enough money you will see her wearing mini skirts and iPhone. What exactly stops her from running away now?
Not all of them @@user-pc3hg7lg8b
Pastor is moving away from fraying pan to a direct fire.
My people perish because of ignorance " the Bible says" you're right she doesn't need a pastor she needs deliverance but still God uses pastors to deliver his people,the help is needed but God's intevation is needed most@@gettininiede9025
His mother needs to leave her alone.with that spell .
All this because of fear. Fear is such a strong emotion, we need to study it honestly. When we let go of it, we truly can sit on the driver seat of our lives.
I've witnessed a lot of people die from this powers you commonly call "fear" if you don't have a higher power, especially Christ, you'll fall a prey.
If you like travel to the ends of the earth, if you want to test it go to your village and challenge the witches there then go back to the city without living your address.
You'll know for yourself.
Chaii, culture and tradition has truly kept some of my people in the dark with no light at the end of the tunnel. May God help all those in these sort of situations.😢
The interpreter did a good job
This is the craziest thing. How cam a deadman lineage continue when the children are from another
It is their tradition. Common in Igbo land. Please respect peoples traditions even if it is different from your.
@AjuuFarm a tradition that holds firmly to subjugation cannot be respected. This is blatant rape. Cultures like this have to evolve, so that our societies can be better.
@@AjuuFarmno. Wrong is wrong
@@AjuuFarmyou are a Christian is that an igbo tradition?
@@taharka3897 I am not a Christian.
This really sad.. and this is still happens now in 2024.. I share this to all my friends.. Thank you David for all the work you did and always doing, God bless you ,
the other issue is, Nigerian society uses culture, tribe, religion and poverty to mentally cage these people
Exactly, particularly if u are poor
Good find and great sharing. I had heard about this community and culture but am not sure about the storyline as a child. Thank you for educating us.
Wow, i watched same story in a nollywood movie i never thought it could be true story 😢😢
Thank you so much. I appreciate you providing a way to support her.
Where are the children when a strange man knock the door to make their mother pregnant. So dirty. So terrible. Children are exposed to everything. Stop this!!!!!!!!!!
We should help these families scratch out better living conditions. Show that you care by supporting them. You will smile after 6 months to see the rewards of your support.
Dave, I will continue to commend you for all that you do.
Thankyou for bringing this to light...may our abba protect his children
The mother _in-law is a big witch, and is actually behind this woman's woes. I pray, in the name of Jesus, that Jehovah El-roi will arise on behalf of this women!!!
Amen. Exactly.. you got it.
AMEN 🙏🏾
Amen
Amen
I'm skeptical that the man was appearing to her the way she described. It’s the fear that was deeply ingrained in her, affecting her mental well-being due to the pressure to have grandchildren for this family. She was sexually trafficked. Forced her to sleep with numerous men against her wishes for offsprings. They exploited her for their selfish motives, despite the children not being biologically related to them. Furthermore, she wasn't married to him before his passing. she still has the option to leave.
This juju culture and transition is too deep deeper than we outsider could fathom . They manipulate demons to appear in the body of the dead , it’s a dark spiritual things .
Bravo! Well said. No one forced her. Just fear and greed to acquire the gifts. If she had maintained her initial decision not to come back the only option left for the dead warrior parents would be to marry another woman for their son. I am an Igbo man. It happens in almost igbo communities. Nothing wrong with that. Just our way of life. The NHO woman is just running a prostitution ring.
Psychology is one thing, Astral projection is another and very real. a lot of people can be manipulated with this. The fiber of the voodoo we see today is largely dependent on the latter.
On this story who forced the girl to marry the man is it the mother?
It wasn't fear. They were real demons conjured by the late man's mother.
This is a plan by the in laws, how can a dead person lineage continue if another one man is the father of kids
This can never be me, where are the human rights activists?
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Mumu people
Really sad. Nigeria strikes me like a really messed up place.
This is just one tribe practicing this evil,you can't condemn the whole country.
Am sorry, I didn't mean to condemn the entire country. I am a fan of Nigeria and really do hope that the lives of most people there are improved for the better, someday. I have seen and heard too many horrible stories from all corners of the country in the last 25 years or so, since I first took interest in the country. Just heartbreaking to see how so many people still live, and with not much of advancement in practically all aspects. I do hope that you guys get it right some time soon.
@@uyuy5131From whe're U?
Nigeria is a messed up place. We know that. I am a Nigerian and more especially Igbo. I love and respect my community tradition. My ancestors were not stupid when they made the traditions. Every African tradition made sense then and now. Though the European would do anything to admonish our traditions for theirs.
This is more of a cultural practice: Nigeria as a whole does not practice this.
I pray she can get out of there and get her deliverance in Jesus mighty name. Lady run
Thank you so much for all you do, David. I just hope the Minister for Women Affairs can see all this.
This was one of such difficult field works we always have to engage. We visit to give help, even get emotional sometimes but they live these realities.
Thank Mr David, you are amazing ❤
This is so sad thanks for this update David 😢
David has been deceived this time. As usual I like his coverages. I call him Indiana Jones of Africa. He should be more objective.
This is evil. They building on the ignorance of these girls and women. They also need spiritual help.
It is not evil. I didn't see in the video where anyone forced her to come back. She did so on her own. She can refused the gifts and marriage rights. We should hear from her mother in-law.
I can not believe this backwardness is allowed to happen in Nigeria in modern times. What a pathetic government.
Its no about the government its the people practising this kind of barbaric traditions that are pathetic..The government cannot impose this horrific traditions on people..I can't imagine this and the way nigetia is blessed with annointed pastors and gospel singers..God help us!
It is only where you get to in Nigeria that you know,that ebonyi that share boundary with Cross River...A lot of things is happening there
I pray that the Lord will save the incoming generation in those territory
Imagine such stupidity
What business is it if government to settle what they practice as tradition..if governments do anything against it same Nigerians will say why are they penetration into another man’s tradition
@@Everythingreactionswithkemi it became my business when it was posted on CZcams. If you really believe in traditions you would not be a Cristian or Muslim. I got 20 like 👍🏾 from people that agreed with me, let's see how much people agreed with your nonsense comment.
Some culture is Babaric....Kudos to the interpreter Nkechi....she was my senior in secondary school.
How could this happen in extraordinary Nigeria???
How bizarre?
This is nonsense, you should have run away from that community and seek spiritual help from a true church to pray with you. Those relatives of the dead man and the witch doctor were the ones attacking you spiritually and making you to hallucinate about your dead friend so that you will agree to their nonsense. You were not married to him and even if you were married you have the right to leave after his death.
The sensible thing you said is hallucination. If you watch the video again notice what the young woman said initially - afraid when the boy friend died. It is the fear in her mind that caused the hallucinations. No one put a spell on her. I am not saying they didn't try. All these juju, magic, native doctors, spiritualist and pastors charms are pure nonsense. Mind power. Not everyone has the power to control their minds.
Don't crucify her. She was manipulated by d native tradionalist mother in law with demons. N u can see that she isn't educated. N most igbo communities r deeply entrenched in their questionable traditions n customs. So don't blame this woman. Any enlightened lady would have battled d ghost of d dead with hot prayers n fasting, were she a good Christian. She was manipulated
Agree it nonsense,
Leave to go where?with no money she was stuck mentally and financially
Lately Nigerian stories have traumatized me 😢 if they are not employing little children as housemaids and tearing them apart with hot knives they are sending them out at midnight to fetch water miles away, now this one is having 3 whole babies with a ghost 👻..
Not literarily. She is having children with other men approved by the mother in law and herself. That is how it is done. Selective breeding. If she has sex with other men for the fun of it that is her business. How many men and women have sex out of wedlock or in wedlock. She is only having these children to carry on her late partner's lineage. It is in the name of the father. Just like adoption or surrogacy.
Now I know the reason why mist of the Igbo bloggers are bullying Wunmi and Liam Aloba. Why did they come here to ask for dna?
Dave ,thank for the good job .
How did you find out about this story boss? You're a genius CZcamsr May Allah bless you for things that you are sharing to us
Imagining what these young girls go through... Not having a say even in what goes on with their own bodies.. i realize how brave and how strong they have to be while they are still children themselves. I wish they could have different choices..
I can’t watch this , too much for me 😮 😞. I watched long enough to understand , I still can’t . This GIVES the word sad ,and weird a whole new meaning smh .
May God help you and guide you sister.
That mother in law is a witch , I’m convinced that she had a hand in what that young lady was experiencing.
Im thinking they want her to produce future warlords, considering the fact that the land they stay in is in ceaseless warring
Deadly traditions 😢. Ooh my goodness. I hope this young mother gets help.
Jehovah is watching over you lady.
I volunteered with Kachem Young Initiative as a youth corps member in Ebonyi state.
This story is just one out of the many horrendous experiences women face in Ebonyi state.
Is this really true
@@user-kw2ho2sv8h Yes o
I believe her 100%
So she has a spiritual spouse. She needs deliverance.
This woman is a victim
This is so so sad. Almighty God please help these ladies
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 I can't believe this. May God have mercy....
Im also belong to a tribe with so much tradition to follow and fortunately I have a family who are very openminded and give us freedom as long as we dont do anything that can harm us(tribe).
Amen & Amen: The FGN, state and loca governments are liable for this evil - Our constitution and laws do not tolerate such crimes again daughters of this nation🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️
MIL is anative doctor,she just torturing this gal...she called the ghost to follow the gal every where.the kids belongs to those guys.watching from Uganda 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
😢Jesus!! Thank GOD for Melva & her fearless work, may this wickedness end in Jesus name!! David 🤯 is unreal 🙏🙏
Amen. Melva needs support. She really needs to build a safe home for these women.
She will get it in jesus name
Sorry I cannot. One minute talking about local deity next minute talking about God. At some point you gotta love yourself. Even if you gotta run away. Traditions and culture is for man. Man is not for traditions and culture. These people make idol out of traditions.
Sending up prayers for my sisters in Africa🙏🏾
May the God of the universe deliver all of these women in Jesus name
God bless these women. Our world is fucked up, and sadly no one cares. I most definitely will be spreading the word about this. 1 Luv
I pray for these young women and children to be comforted and losed in the name of Jesus
May God bless her and her family and friends amen
These are the documentary our media houses should be bring out yet they seat on their station to cast news and discuss nonsense issues.
Ohh My God ❤ This Is So Sad
Education is key to ending the evils of the world
May God almighty come through for this lady
Almighty God, Your children are going through a lot please remember us😢
This is very disturbing!!!
I urge the Ebonyi state government to wade into this matter.
This should not be happening in the 21st century!!!
My dear pray to God
Very Barbaric mess called culture in this village and we need to protect this ngo lady by all means….kindly furnish me with the ngo details to support her campaign for these women and the innocent children.
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It wasn't the ghost it was one of the family witches in the family of the guy
Lack of education is the cause of all this ignorance to people.
very sad may God help you one side story I cannot say too much
Proud American here. Just happy to be free
Same here
Watching from South Africa
No wonder ebony children is every where in Anambra state to plenty suffering like refuges living in uncompleted building especially ifite ,most of them now have turned to the arm robbers robbing student and people at ifite awka. Educated and town ebony people should stop all this things things cos this type of village people are ruining their identity out there!
People in my school though i was from ebony and never wanted to associate with me ontill the saw on my ID that i am not from ebony. 😢
Its eady to call the mother in law evil but dont you all realize that it is men that establish these customs and women are enforcers under the same pressures that continue these customs. The men tgat also sleep with these women but dont even give them money are also evil. WHY WHY WHY do we not HOLD MEN AS ACCOUNTABLE AS WE DO WOMEN???!!! That is ignorant and evil to let them off the hook too!
I agree with with you this is pure evil how can a man impregnate a women without giving her support 😢
As these people don’t have to unbelievable quantity of distraction we have in the west , phones, internet , tv etc they are much closer to what we were supposed to be and how we should have lived, there spirituality is much purer and stronger , black magic is real and these people truly know how to use it ❤❤❤❤
I only hear bad stories about Nigeria this is extremely scary , poor woman I've never seen or heard anything like that😢.
Where have you been getting your so called stories from?
Wao 😂😂😂i just learn i don't no it tooo.thanks favour 😊😊😊
😢 women are suffering oh God
This is purely demonic,all in the name of culture.
This lady needs our help. How do we do it ?
She needs stronger spiritual help,material, etc
GOD show us mercy 🥺.
Beautiful children, though! Please help rescue these women and potential ones from such barbaric practice..Nigeria!!
Nigeria is full of wonders oooooh
This has to stop. 😢 she will be free.
Wow amazing
Nigeria is Rich country,ot has enough funds to help such people i believe
Lord have mercy 🙏
May Almighty God take you out from slavery in the name of Jesus Christ 🙏.
Carry her to Mountain of Fire for serious prayers for deliverance.
Oh my God😭may God help.her😢
I Always Thought This Is The Custom And Tradition Of People Of South Eastern People Of Nigeria. In The Nigeria Movie I Have See Series Of Similar Stories Like This.
You're right,but not by force
It's actually biblical Deuteronomy 25 5-10 If brothers dwell together, and one of them dies and has no son, the widow of the dead man shall not be married to a stranger outside the family; her husband’s brother shall go in to her, take her as his wife, and perform the duty of a husband’s brother to her. 6 And it shall be that the firstborn son which she bears will succeed to the name of his dead brother, that his name may not be blotted out of Israel. 7 But if the man does not want to take his brother’s wife, then let his brother’s wife go up to the gate to the elders, and say, ‘My husband’s brother refuses to raise up a name to his brother in Israel; he will not perform the duty of my husband’s brother.’ 8 Then the elders of his city shall call him and speak to him. But if he stands firm and says, ‘I do not want to take her,’ 9 then his brother’s wife shall come to him in the presence of the elders, remove his sandal from his foot, spit in his face, and answer and say, ‘So shall it be done to the man who will not build up his brother’s house.’ 10 And his name shall be called in Israel, ‘The house of him who had his sandal removed.’
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This is just terrible. The men wouldn't want to provide for the kids hence they customarily do not belong to them.
Well, you and Nkechi are doing so well. Hoping they get liberated
Look for a man of God to deliver and liberation
A very pathetic story. Ebonyi state Governor and Abakiliki LGA chairman should swing into action to mitigate the Negative Publicity this story is portraying about the State. I am very 💔💔💔 that such barbaric act is ongoing in this present time.
Please help her to report to the authorities 😮!