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🎥😂 "Entitled Moms Gone Wild! 😱🤦♀️ Unbelievable Encounters!"
Hey fam, it's your girl Charlotte Dobre back at it again with another jaw-dropping video! 🙌 Get ready to witness the wildest encounters with entitled moms that'll leave you laughing and facepalming at the same time! 🤣
From the supermarket showdowns to playground dramas, these entitled moms have mastered the art of demanding the impossible! 🛒🏋️♀️ Brace yourself for the "Can I speak to the manager?" moments that redefine epic meltdowns! 🤷♂️💥
But wait, there's more! 🍿🎉 We've got exclusive footage of the infamous "Karen" army attempting to take over the world, one complaint at a time! 😈💢
You won't believe the audacity of some moms as they claim the entire universe revolves around their precious little angels. 🌟👼🌍 So grab your popcorn and get ready for an insane rollercoaster ride of entitlement that'll have you saying, "No way, Karen! Just no way!" 🙅♀️💫
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As a mother and grandmother, I would never expect someone to give up their place in line for them. Having kids does not make someone special.
The only time I give up my spot for a mom in line is to the bathroom I got three under three so I get the need for a restroom break immediately.
But most moms think it does
If I had a dollar for every time a mom ask me to let their kid sit in my sit the window I would have 56 dollars.
❤ OP, Society and I are sincerely grateful for your sensibilities ❤
I really, really mean this 😊
I have a phrase that works "Your rights end at the end of your arm and mine ( or someone else's) begin".
As a disabled person myself, I always say 'Having a child is a choice and a privilege, having a disability is not' when seeing mother's steal or belittle our need for adaptations.
Agreed.
I am thinking the same thing. I am disabled as well and it's tricky because people expect me to simply forget my needs and my limitations if there is a child involved. Because they are a child and I am an adult. But it doesn't work that way.
Having a baby doesn't trump the needs of others.
😅 I love that! May I put it in my arsenal for the same thing, please?
I'm disabled but I'm someone with a disease that can't be seen. I have lupus, plus I've fought leukemia and so far, so good 👍 and then, in 2022 Covid came knocking. My immune system is compromised, so I always wore my mask, but that's when people stopped wearing their masks and made fun of me. My friend wound up finding me with a 104° temperature and my oxygen saturation was between 40-50%. The ER doctor told her that I would have lasted maybe 2 more days at the most if she'd not gotten me to the hospital when she did. I was in the hospital with covid double pneumonia. Now, my lungs are permanently scarred, and I've had 3 major chest infections since 2023. SO, I'm entitled to that space. If I am feeling stronger than usual, I won't take the spot, I leave it open for someone in pain. NOT, for someone who has a pain currently attached to her ass.
I feel bad for the first lady. She waited since she was a kid to see Jack Sparrow, then some random lady ruined her experience by mocking her and bullying her for her spot in line. I hope she got her picture.
And from what I hear halloween is the only time people can dress up, as a 27 year old who's never gone I run into those kinds of people frequently and its unfortunate but I hope she had a great time anyway the kid will probably only remember her mother arguing with many people that day
As a Disney adult, who does not like children, and has gone to Disney 3 times, I can positively say that the children at Disney are not the problem. It is always the PARENTS. ESPECIALLY PARENTS WITH KIDS IN STROLLERS THEY WILL LITERALLY SHOVE THEIR WAY THROUGH!
Disney IS for kids. YOU are the problem. Grow up
LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!!👏👏
There is no such thing as Disney adults regardless of what culty society members say. There are 18+ people still going to Disney like they’re 10 who are definitely mentally unstable people who think it’s OK to get pissed off at a bunch of children who are just trying to enjoy their childhoods.
@@Apocketfullofbs Disney is meant for everybody. That’s what Walt made the park for. Also, a lot of Disney adults didn’t have childhoods and are trying to enjoy why they should’ve been able to. Are some problematic? Yes, but there are problematic people everywhere. Especially you, who think its okay to call people you don’t know “mentally unstable” without a medical degree.
What it’s not for is parents who think because they have kids means they can break all the rules and disrespect everyone who goes without children.
Disney adults may be a problem but so are parents who weaponize their children. Nobody is more special because they decided to let someone knock them up. Fuck them and their kids if they have that mindset.
@@ApocketfullofbsGuess my friend, who is 30+, is mentally unstable to enjoy Disney then. Good to know it’s only for mentally unstable adults if they are not kids. She is from a country that doesn’t even have a Disneyland and never got to go when she was a child. Guess she has to be a mentally unstable person if she still wanted to enjoy her time in Disney.
I’m a single mom and I could never. The world doesn’t owe us we owe our kids
I agree; however you're putting your kids first so your potential partner should have that quality.
I agree with that as well.
Single parents are amazing people. My mom was widowed and never remarried, my brother got custody of my nephew when he was eight. You have a good heart.
Right though this guy's bogus claim of "single moms" "all independent women" is bullshit. Plenty of idiot dads out here thinking other people should take on their kids after two dates, no questions asked. Entitlement is equal opportunity!
Ok same!
Raised by a single mom.
A lot is put on mother's in general.
But especially single mom's.
I'm getting sick of seeing entitled single mom's making videos showing off how awful their attitudes are.
And I'm also sick of seeing videos slamming ALL "independent women" by these so called "high value alpha males" who get off from shitting on women ....
I knew a woman who had 6 young children (half were a set of triplets, God love her). They were the most well-behaved kids I've ever seen. I'm telling ya, it's the parents who are the problem.
I bore seven and mine were well behaved. I took them with me, If I couldn’t take them, I didn’t go.
Absolutely right!
It needs to be taught in school!!! Mandatory, not as an elective. We can't count on new parents having access to the necessary resources. Additionally if all teens/preteens are taught the responsibilities involved, they might give more thought to abstinence/ safe sex. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
Yep. My brother and his wife had 5 kids under the age of 8. Those children were tidy, polite, and well behaved. 100% parents and/or grandparents are at fault.
I was a nanny for 2 kids for like 7 years. Only once did i have to raise my voice and that was only because the little boy was about to accidentally hurt himself not because he was misbehaving. The parents never shouted at them or punished them. Even as little kids they would politely wait for adults to stop talking before speaking themselves. I lost count of the times I told them to write a book on parenting and they'd always respond "we're clearly doing something right the problem is we have no idea what that is"😂 I miss those kids
You’re absolutely right. The grandmother deserves child support. Having to care is one thing, LIVING AND BEING SOLE CARETAKER, pay up sis.
Well, if we accept her mother do not have to support her daughter, her daugther will not have to support her mother when her mother becames incapable of taking care of herself or her husband, or if she is in problems.
If grandma want to go this way, she can't expect inconditional support from her child later and no person will be allowed to judge the daughter as a "bad daugther".
You will have what you sow.
it's one thing to OFFER to watch the kids while your at school but it's another to expect her to be a free babysitter
@@FireFang97 well, then the mother can not expect live with them of having care of them if she is in a bad situation, oh, wait, only a weekend if her daugther OFFERS it. By the way, that shows how much the grandma cares of his grandchild. Love conditioned to money. Because she ask for money: she can just say no, i can not take care of him. But she just want money.
@@JustIsTime890I disagree. Children are expensive. It’s not the grandmas responsibility, financially or personally, to raise her grandchild. Those are expenses she didn’t expect or plan for. Most people are living paycheck to paycheck, especially if they’re retired or on social security. The mother does have a personal and financial responsibility for the child, she created and conceived her. Simple. You can just have a couple kids and drop them at your parents, and expect them to drop everything and find a was to pay for them. The daughter is using her mother for free care. Just because you love someone, does not make the cost of caring for them disappear.
@@Hortonheardahoe well, disagree all you want. Law say otherwisw. And as I told, when you are in need then do not expect your children to help you. Planning does not means all is going to be as you want. Not expectation of something because is not in your plans does not take away responsabilities.
And sorry, is not only the mother who has responsibility here. The father have also and he is not there. I don't think that was planned. And if the mother can't doing all alone is the family who must take care of that child. You are forgetting the child is inocent and has rigths. The child didn't ask to be born.
As a mom of a special needs 6 year old girl(cerebral palsy, non verbal, doesn’t walk) it does make my butt itch seeing parents not teach their teachable kids manners
IKR?!?
Mine are special needs, but with hella work on the part of the KIDS, with my help and support, they came to SHINE! One still has some challenges when emotions go high, but gives himself absolutely NO excuses, only a measure of self-forgiveness and ALWAYS looks to learn and DO BETTER..
If single-mom-me and others (both partnered and not) of intense needs kiddos (mines AuDHD, btw) can help them learn, then there really is no excuse for taking normally developing children and turning those poor little humans into miserable monsters!
I want to throttle those parents. They are raising those little ones to be MISERABLE.
Also, MAJOR PROPS to you Momma! I hope you have support, and do not spend TOO MUCH of your life sleep deprived 🥹🥰🥰
Disney mom missed a great opportunity to show her kids that you can keep having fun all up into adulthood. 🤦🏽♀️
The girl telling the story needed to have her facts straight though, 1) you can't just dress up and go to the parks because it's Halloween, you can ONLY dress up as an adult and go to the parks during the Halloween Party which is a special event during spooky season and 2) Jack isn't a special event character, he is out every day at Magic Kingdom in Adventureland for meet and greet opportunities. If she has been to Disney World as many times as she claims she would have known all of that information. I get that she was only going in for 1 night and I do not think she should give up her spot just because kids, all I'm saying is maybe put out valid truthful information rather than omitting stuff to make yourself look better and validate your position.
@@Ash-83I think she said DisneyLand. Maybe it’s different there
Disney girl needs to go on real holidays, not kid’s ones.
@@nicolad8822 Disney Land can be fun for both. Plus, there are so many kids who didn't get to go and decided to go as adults.
I don't think that standing in line to meet a random person wearing a costume is something to strive for in adulthood. She isn't meeting Johnny Depp. She is meeting a person the park hired to dress up as the character. That is something that should definitely be left for the kids. I don't see how an adult could find it fun to wait in a long line for essentially nothing.
In my country, it's very common for grandmothers to retire and become full time child carers, but it's expected that the parents will support them fully, especially in a multigenerational household.
Exactly, it is not grandma's job to pay for and watch your children 24/7 without some form of repayment to be made.
Well that makes sense and would be very beneficial for the entire family! ❤
My mom would still be in charge tho😂😂😂
Same in my country. I spent summer holidays at one nanna's house, weekends at the other nanna's house and so did my husband from a different country. But guess what, neither his parents or my parents (well mine are in a different country, but they don't even call) are particularly interested to see the kids which is very sad.
This makes sense. Like, everyone working together to make life better. But, the mom here wasn't contributing to caring for the home or, from the diaper remark, even for her child. It's not a grandparents job to do it all. Sure, I'm lucky that I have parents that can help me out financially & with childcare, but I don't use it often because it's my spot in life to do these things for my kids. My parents already raised children for over 30 years, they should be focusing on themselves right now.
Did anyone else catch that she's living rent free with her mom (the grandma) as well as expecting her mom to not only care for but pay all of the items needed to care for her child? If nothing else, I can see that they seem to love each other it's just the daughter is seeing she has a little more money now that she has a promotion and is a bit forgetful of some of the benefits of living rent free with mom.
That mother holding their child responsible for treating them like an unpaid nanny is perfection.
I cracked up at "everything the light touches is our kingdom" used as an example of what entitled mothers teach their kids! 🤣
My mom was on a flight when a dad with his infant boarded....and cried and cried and cried. My mom offered to help. Father accepted the help. Baby loved my mom and they sat in the seat quietly and happily for most of the flight. My mom was paid in free drinks by the flight staff.
On planes, I always offer to hold fussing babies lol like it fills my heart with joy to settle them, and to give the parents a break. And the parents can rest easy cuz where am I going to go with their kid? It’s all safe
That's exactly how society should work. Your mum is a good woman. ❤️
@@MommaB74 Bless you!!!
I would always buy packs of ear plugs to give to the people around us should my baby cry.
@@jenni8982 fantastic idea
Asking a man to pay for the babysitter, so he can then pay to take you out on a date is some real thought logic
I've seen a video where a single mom wanted the date to buy a 3rd meal that she could bring home in a doggie bag for her kid.
@@larry01902 there was a period on reddit when people were posting their single mom datign stories. I was very surprised how common it was for the moms to order a bunch of to go food at the end of the meal for their kids and expect their date to pay for it.
@@larry01902I’ve seen similar videos where the woman had multiple kids she expected meals for and even one where she brought two friends with her and expected him to pay for all of them. 🤦🏻♂️ I’m glad Miss Charlotte introduced me to the term “delulu” cuz it is a perfect descriptor.
Not just ask but expect/demand.
At this point, they need to get used to being single. Because they are GUARANTEEING it.
I used to work at the W.I.C office (for those who don’t know it for women infant and children you would have to qualify to get free formula, milk, eggs, cheese etc.) I’ve have seen a LOT of entitled moms. Two people that jumped in my head first was……
1) A young girl comes in with a attitude complaining the her baby don’t have any more formula and she won’t get her benefits for another week. I explained to her that WIC is a supplemental program we’re here to help feed your baby not take care of your baby. She then slammed her hand on the counter and in that same hand was a pack of Newport cigarettes. So I said well instead of buying cigarettes you could’ve brought your baby some formula with that money. My supervisor always gave me the people who complained because I will tell them about their self but kindly. So kindly that whatever I said probably didn’t hit them at that moment but thinks about it later lol. I’m not putting down people who smoke cigarettes because I used to as well but if I were in her situation my baby formula came first.
2) Another lady came in on a Monday we issue her benefits for her first month no problem. By Wednesday she came in complaining that her baby needs a special kid of formula so I tell her to bring a doctors note come back and we’ll switch the formula. She gets the note and comes back the same day. The formula she needs for the baby was something we never heard and we don’t have a code for it so we were unable to issue it that day. My supervisor said come back the next morning and she will find out how to get the milk. Keep in mind from day 1 she had an attitude. She comes in the next afternoon at around 12:05pm (our lunch break is 12-1pm) she comes to the counter yelling that she called corporate and they said that “BY LAW” we have to give her the formula I said oh really okay. Well “BY LAW” we’re on lunch come back at 1. Ever since that day we named her the “BY LAW LADY”
Yeah I agree the smokes can wait baby needs formula. That’s just insane to me that she bought smokes vs good for her child. Is there a male version of wic ?
@@Carla-kb1xd yes a male can get WIC for their child up to the age of 5 but nothing for him personally. The mother gets WIC from pregnancy until the baby is born. Once the baby comes if she’s breastfeeding she stays on until she stops but if she’s not breastfeeding then the mom gets cut off once the baby becomes 1yr old. I haven’t worked there for a few years so things may have changed since 2009
Yikes. The entitlement of folks really grind my gears. I truly boggles my mind the amount of people that don’t understand the word “supplemental”. If you can’t feed your kid, DONT HAVE KIDS. WIC is a great program, I used it for the first 6 months of both of my boys life to get similac allimentum , then we swapped to the orange similac, which back then wic didn’t/couldn’t carry.. SO I BOUGHT IT. That’s what you do, you figure it out. It’s literally only for a year that your baby drinks formula. I cut corners, cut my spending to afford it. People are just way too comfortable taking handouts.
I had to use WIC when I had my son. Y’all were lifesavers during that time 💜💜💜
@@redglassesart I was on wic worker there too it definitely helps
Definitely not a single mom, but my sister was throughout most of my nephew’s growing up. My folks expected her to pay utilities in exchange for not just watching my nephew but feeding, clothing him, taking him to school etc. Luckily, my folks hardly charged her a dime because I too was growing up in the same household - a teenager - and shared that responsibility with my folks. But honestly, it was just a lot of fun. Having a little nephew live with you while in junior high and high school is like having a little brother. My sister and I are 13 years apart, and so, understandably, she had an adult life that I wasn’t a part of. My sister never took advantage of the situation. She’s a very generous person and works incredibly hard to provide a life for herself and my nephew who’s just now becoming an adult in the “real world.” I think what it really comes down to is character.
As someone who has dated numerous single dads, they ABSOLUTELY think the world is out there to save them. A week into dating they're expecting you to look after their kids, pick them up from school, get irritable if you're not at their beck and call or unwilling to come over and "help around the house" The vast majority don't want to be active parents in their kids' lives and will rush you into a commitment because they're desperate to find someone to dump they're parental responsibilities on.
If single moms are entitled, single dads are PARASITES. If you're a young single girl and you run into a single dad, RUN. They aren't looking for a partner, they're looking for an unpaid nanny.
Oh yeah this absolutely happens. Just because of where we are at as a society with gender roles. Woman = likes children = takes care of the children. Simple equation. So when some of these single dads find you they slot you into that role immediately, after all it’s not their role right?
The solution is easy. Don't date single dads. I don't date single moms. I have no desire to be a stepfather.
@@jeffreyclinard2002 Believe me, I no longer do. I've learned my damn lesson.
@@Ilikefrogs.. Stay the fuck away from all men honestly. It's so funny to me- I was out with a girlfriend today- 1 of 2 women I know who is still with the father of her children- & he works full-time & they have a house- & he still treats her like shit 😆😆😆. I'm 41, not having kids, & every single year it's more obvious that it's the best fucking choice. AND I have plenty of kids in my life, bc drop-kick dad's leave so much slack to be picked up... I love kids, but it's great having no shit-bitch baby-daddy in my life. NEVER DO IT.
Also that “modern women” is such a dog whistle for someone who is misogynistic, he will refuse to see the single dads who are just as entitled as some single mothers. From what I know, the good single parents don’t reveal they have kids till the 3rd date for the safety of themselves and their kids! People out here are crazy sometimes!
Ugh as a mother I apologize for all delusional mothers who think just cause you had a kid makes you entitled to shit.
No ma’am! You do NOT get to take on any of their blame while you’re out here doing things right! The fault/blames/shame/ridicule/consequences are solely their own. You keep rocking motherhood!
Seriously, I'd never demand anyone do something for me cause I have a little guy. Makes me feel guilty seeing other mums acting this way. I'd be mortified to even think the things these people are doing.
Same
Although...Just because there are way OTT Entitled nut cases out there LOL don’t ever let the fear of looking like one of them stop you from taking the things in life that you are actually entitled to. You don’t need to overcompensate for the lulu lemons out here
Don't worry, we know most mothers aren't like this.
There is about the same percentage of entitled people in every demographic
I have a positive Disney mom story.
My husband and I were watching the Star Wars exhibit where Darth Vader fights it out with Luke when a lady tapped me on the shoulder and asked if her kd could get ahead of us to be able to see. We said yes and she asked the next people but they said no. Fair enough so she tried to hold her kid up to see but she was too short, so my husband offered to hold the kid up. He watched the whole show with the kid on his shoulders❤️
Charlotte being confused about slang is the cutest thing ever. For anyone else unaware, "crotch goblin" literally just means "child"; doesn't have to be an unruly brat at all
Hmmm I respectfully disagree…goblins are not positive imaginary creatures so if it’s a good child I suppose the term would be crotch unicorn and not crotch goblin.
@@Elizabeth-rq1vi you can think the term sucks, but that’s not how it works lol you can’t just decide as one person to change the established meaning of a word or term
@@bambino9235 I just love the Term Crotch Goblins and it just fits so well, ever since I heard it the first time, I mostly refer to annoying children as Crotch Goblins, or well the Children of Annyoig parents, as it just makes them mad, if I call their special child a Crotch Goblin.
And you can use Google. It is free.
@@Elizabeth-rq1vi”crotch goblin” is a bit like “little shit”; you could love the kid to bits, but you still get incredibly annoyed with stuff they do. If you’ve ever been scolded by your parents, you’ve been a little shit
My only statement to the entitled single mother: when my parents went on their first date, my mom didn’t tell him she had kids. He came to the house, saw my older brother, and changed the plans for the whole night and took them both out to see a movie and get dinner. She’d had a sitter and everything lined up, but he volunteered to accommodate the fact that she was a single mother. Not all men would do that, but it should never be expected.
Your dad sounds awesome. But like you said, this is not the expectation, it's just a happy surprise. Hope you and your family stay happy and well.
that's a keeper right there.
It generally isn't? Most single parents I know don't even let the guys they date know they have kids because there are creeps out there who target single moms.
@@MonsterPrincessLala this was a different time. They met in 1982, before true crime and “everyone is suspect” was prevalent.
I would never do that, honestly. Your dad is a very special person with a big heart.
Wow that woman is a saint babysitting an infant for an entire flight!! Hell to the nooo!!
I would have sat that baby on their mother and snapped that mask "Morning ma'am, this is your kid, not mine"
I would have told the flight attendant and had cps get invovled. I doubt that's the first time something like that happened and definitely wasn't the last. What kind of parent...??? Poor kid, I hope nothing happens to them.
How can you sleep.... While a complete and total stranger has your baby?
WTF?
I couldn't even nap while my husband had our baby😂😂😂
So concerned baby will need something and anyone else won't know what to do for him 😂😂😂
He'll to the no! What if it needed a diaper change? Was she going to let a stranger do it? That could have went wrong on so many ways!! I couldn't do that, u sleep when your baby sleeps lol that's how I copied!! Crazy bitch lmao😂😂😂
@@alanwolf8210 I would do the same to her.
Entitled people will use any reason to have their way
-she’s a child
- she “young”
- her job title
- her husbands job title
- she’s pregnant
- she has a baby
- she has kids
- she’s just an old lady
I married my second husband when I had a 8 year old and an 11 year old (one with a disability that requires lots of care) and he had a 5 year old and a two year old. Long story short - I fell in love with him through phone calls and text messages (totally conned me about what sort of person he truly was) and was dumb and married him a week after meeting in real life. He was a terrible single father. He owed so much back child support that the first year we filed taxes jointly, my tax return was all taken to pay some of it. He often would expect me to take care of his kids when he had them and would just like disappear for hours on end while I watched them. The last time this happened his 5 yr old looked at me and said “my Dad is not a nice person, is he?” Well my ex’s ex-wife got in a car accident and their son died before we ever saw them again. I’ll never forget how the last time we had him my asshole Ex wasn’t even there and his son saw his Dad’s true character. Then everything my ex did after was all about, “oh no my son died poor me….” And it was like, you didn’t even want to be around him when he was alive you complete waste of a human being. (I could go on and on about the complete shit of a person my ex was but yeah.)
I have a handicapped placard due to a genetic disorder called Ehlers Danlos Syndrome. To simplify it my joints pop in and out at will causing lots of pain and difficulty walking. So I drop off and pick up my grandkids often at school. Idiots constantly park in the handicapped spots to drop off and pick up. So I now park behind them until I'm done dropping them off or picking them up. It still doesn't change their behavior.
Oh, hon... sorry about the EDS...
I'm hyperflexive, and have somehow managed to not have EDS, but unfortunately my nephew does. Also a couple friends that suffer with this.
The problem is, it isn't always "visible" as a disability, and entitled people try to pull crap claiming "you look fine to [them]".
I hope you find a therapy that helps.
And, take photos/report/call cops on the idiots who use the accessibility spots.
If they are doing it there, they are doing it everywhere. They need to be taught "No."
I’m sorry about the EDS. And having to deal with people taking the handicapped spots. I have EDS myself and know what it’s like.
My dad has a heart condition and he takes my niece to and from school and alomost always someone without anykind of handicap placard parks in the spots, or people decide to park in front of them just off the curb to go pick up or drop off kids. Certain people just absolutely suck
Also an EDS zebra. I have to have rids put back into place literally weekly, my knees and hip always want to slip out of place too and my ankles give out a least twice a week sometimes resulting in a bad fall. Didn’t know you could get a handicap parking thing for EDS, I’m gonna check it out, being able to use on high pain days would be helpful.
I used to work with a lady who had once worked at Disney land. I was so excited to hear that and she looked at me and said “it was the worst job I had in my entire life”. People can be rabid when their expectations are not met.
We just got back from a trip to Disney. The staff there are amazing. There were multiple times where they exceeded our expectations and we made sure to let them know how appreciated it was. I'm sure they get their share of problems guests though.
My bestie just got back from Disneyland yesterday!
Her, her husband and their 9 year old daughter.
Her 32 year old little sister.
Her mom and stepdad and his grown daughter and her 8 year old daughter....
4 days, 3 nights and spent much of the time in the hotel room 😮
It was sooooo hot, too expensive, lines waaaaaay too long and everyone was just miserable and tired beyond that first day!
She says it's a total waste of money and "they should've paid me, for all the free child care" her daughter and step niece would make friends at breakfast, at stores and in line ... And those parents would just IGNORE their children like "oh good they've made a friend that has an attentive mom, I can take a 20-30 minute break until my kid acts up and I HAVE to be a mom again" 😂😂😂
Wtf?
@@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066
I think going to Disney world in the summer is the worst idea. I think it’s better to go during the colder seasons so you don’t deal with the heat
@@argrette right?
It's just not worth the heat stroke and sunburns!
That's absolutely anywhere with a 3 hour line in 95+ heat!
In college I knew a couple of people in the hospitality program that did the Disney internship. I had a friend do it as well. All of them talked about how much it sucked.
You know, I was raised by a single mother who stopped dating when I was young because she decided that men weren't worth her time, and she was literally so right
8:12 OK but I guarantee you this mother always tells the story about the woman who took care of her baby on a flight when she was completely exhausted. 😭🤣 she probably really genuinely think you did her the biggest favor on earth.
I agree but maybe ask first next time not everyone will be so willing
You know, I really needed this video. Lately I’ve been feeling like an inadequate mom for my 4yo and all these entitled moms have proved me otherwise. Shout out to all fellow moms out there! We’re not perfect but we’re doing the best we can.
I don’t know a single inadequate mom who worries about being inadequate. Don’t get me wrong, there are inadequate parents; they just don’t worry about it. Kudos to you for being aware of how you show up for your little one!
Since you are aware that you are feeling a bit of overwhelm, you are really doing fine! Try to identify what three things are the most concerning and then seek a solution. Treat yourself like you would a good friend who needs some kind advice. And ask for help. You got this. I mean, come on, four year olds can be little terrors! The change from cuddly infant to opinionated toddler requires new strategies! Best of luck to you as you navigate this motherhood journey. 🤍
As a mom of a 4yo all I can say is 'you are not alone' - wow life escalated quickly
Right?
Honestly, just the fact you worry about being a bad mom means you’re prob a VERY GOOD MOM ❤
There’s a difference between looking after on a regular basis, your grandchild, and being fully responsible for your grandbaby, so that your daughter can still have a life. As a mother of two, who raise them on my own, I would never have expected my parents in their golden years to give up their lives, because I decided to have children. Come on ladies.
4:18 "You always wanted a grandchild didn't you" I felt that. I felt those expectation and pressures. Maybe that woman who said that felt it too. If grandmother did not pressure for "GRANDBABIES NOWWWW" then she wouldn't be a single mother. Then maybe she wouldn't be struggling. Maybe in another timeline/another life, she would've been a successful CEO with a doctorate and childless. Who knows, what we do know is that Grandmother pushed for grandbabies and is now saying "where's my baby sitting money". Don't force grandbabies if you don't want to take care of grandbabies.
@@Surfer669 I felt the pressure from grandma in that video as well. Better, I have my own experience with my mum, when she came into my room when I was 21-22, and asked me when I want to have kids. Mind you, at this point in my life I was single, a virgin, and planning to move out of my country (which I did). Luckily I have a sensible mum and I explained her that asking the same question from my older brother who was in a long term relationship, about to get engaged would make a lot more sense.
But not all mothers are sensible, some are really grandbaby crazy. This grandmother said it herself: "I was hoping you would be married by the time you have a baby." So Grandma had a solid idea for the daughter, and daughter wasn't tough enough to tell her that her plans were different from that. She gave in to her Mum's wishes, or happened to get pregnant, and thought "Oh well, that's what my Mother was always asking for, a grandchild, so I will keep the baby", and now it's a source of conflict.
Lesson to learn: let your kids make their own decisions, even if it doesn't give you the grandchildren you wanted.
My mother has been singing in my head since I turned 20 to give her a grandchild that didn't pressure me to have a child before I became financially stable lol
Regardless whether she pressured her or not there HER kids SHE popped them out there HER responsibility
SO SHE SHOULD BE TAKING CARE OF HER KIDS AND NOT DUMPING THE RESPONSIBILITY OF THE KIDS SHE PUSHED OUT SHE NEED TO TAKE CARE OF HER KIDS SHE IS NOT ENTITLED TO FREE DAYCARE HER MOTHER IS NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR HER DAUGHTER'S KIDS
@zoeylunakaname8282 I can't tell if you typing in all CAPS is a sign of yelling or letting your own frustrations out on us (strangers on the internet). What you believe is what everyone believes. What are your cultural values are not everyone's cultural values. How you were raised was not how everyone else is raised.
I can relate to the girl on the plane who was left to entertain someone else’s baby. Several years ago, I had a roommate I was also best friends with and she was a single mom. I didn’t have kids then and I don’t have kids now, by choice, but I do think they’re cute (as long as I can return them to their parents after interacting with them). My roommate’s son was about 4 and he didn’t live with us full time, he lived with my roommates’ parents. She did go over there a lot and help out but it’s not like she dealt with him 24 hours a day by herself. I started to notice that every time she’d bring him to the apt, she’d pretend to play on the floor with us and then suddenly say she’d be right back and close my bedroom door. So I’d continue playing cars or legos or whatever with the kid and then eventually I’d look at the time and realize she’s been gone for almost 2 hours. So I’d go out to the living area to check on her and without fail, every time, she’d be asleep on the couch. I didn’t mind playing with the kid, he was adorable, but it’s kinda funny bc she wasn’t even technically a full time caretaker of him and still never missed a chance to have me babysit so she could nap lol
As someone who was a single mother for a long time... I could never imagine asking him to pay for my child care 😂😂😂😂
Alas we call some together, for the tour by Delulu Land with our amazing five star guide Charlotte Dobre ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
I delululove you
@@CharlotteDobre I loves yous too Ms. Dobre. Thank you for another hilarious video, and reinforcing my choice to be childless. You have a stupendous day and congrats to you and Mike. PS in Calgary my friends were staying at a giant house at the edge of the city so no Golden Bell for me. However, NEXT TIME on a solo trip I am hitting it up. Thanks again for the recommendation.
I was divorced and had 4 children, 1-4-7-7 and when I met my current husband he knew I had children. He actually took me to places where my children could go and if he planned a date just for us he offered to pay for a sitter. We dated a couple of years. He was a keeper and we were married 40+ years when he passed. ❤
this comment made me genuinely sad. When i saw the past tense i was like ''oh no did they get divorced'' and then saw that he passed. I hope you're doing well ❤
that's too cute for words 💖😭😊
@@havidikevidi I am taking it day to day and just focusing on our great memories. And trust me their are many. ❤️
40 years ago was a different story, men were actually acting like men instead of weeping about being emasculated by women. Today's men hate feminism only until it's time to pay the bills, traditional men had no problem with that. Feminism is all horrible but when it's time to split the bill, when it's time to split the custody, split the household rent and bills, sleep around with women with zero responsiblity, they have those luxuries due to feminism. Feminism has caused more damage to women than anything, only it's smart enough to make women think it's their friend. And now we have feminism supporting men changing in women's locker rooms.
@@albertacole3372Do you have any other advice on how you get through it?
I’m terrified of this and don’t think I would be able to cope. How can I also live more in the moment with them?
You seem to have had a joyous and wonderful life with him. It’s memorable.
Thank you💛
Me and my 5 y/o son literally just took a trip to Disneyland and you would not imagine how many entitled line jumpers and just plain rude people are there. I had to “excuse me!” A few times. 😂
As a young single mother I worked as much as possible whilst living with just my child. When my child turned 4 my parents asked me to move back in with them. The reason we’re so I could seek regular employment and they could spend time with their, then, only grandchild. Once I gained employment I gave my parents a third of my income. They asked for less but I felt they were due more.
That 12 year old has probably been embarrassed by his mother multiple times already! He's probably already a more functioning member of society than his mother. 🙂
Ya. That's what I was thinking too
He's probably already in a spot in line and is facepalming as his mother got back muttering something about he is 12 and shouldn't have to wait so long
@@curleyqreviews9793 yep!
I'm almost willing to bet that she was the one who didn't want to wait and was just using her kid as an excuse. Her kid was 12, not 4. I can't imagine a 12-year-old being that much of a baby about waiting in line.
@@gregbrown8881 Good point!
While I was going through my divorce I moved in with my mom, she was retired and home paid for. I worked and she babysat for me, I paid her utilities and bought all the food. She never wanted rent and didn't even want me to pay that much but I insisted. Miss u mom thanks for all the love.
You and your mom sound like lovely people. Judging by your last sentence, it sounds like she may have passed on? If that's the case, I'm sorry for your loss. Have a blessed day. ❤
Your mom sounds like a lovely person. God bless her! However, this daughter was paying for nothing and her expectations of having her mother pay for everything is wrong. YOU paid the utilities and food to which can only assume your mom was extremely appreciative. Your relationship with your mom sounds very special but different from this daughter in the video. Our parents care for us all there living days and even after. For this daughter to take advantage of the situation is wrong and certainly not teaching her child responsibility.
"I don't need to accommodate your bad decisions" 😂😂😂😂😂
I love the way our European friends tell stories. That one Irish(?) lady had me in tears. “I was 22 and shy at the time… if it were now, I’d have poked it awake and said *Oi! This is YOUR baby* “ 😂😂😂
Scottish, I think lol. She’s wonderful
@@caljones she really is. I could not stop giggling 😭
I love how queue jumpers always turn it around, as if it's you who is in the wrong. Happened to me a couple of days ago. Unbelievably, instead of telling this person there was a queue, the staff member apologised to the queue jumper because the rest of us were angry at her. WTF!
Unfortunately, after working customer service, I have seen that or similar way too many times. It usually comes down to the manager/supervisor, and many of them do not have the training, or the personality to stand up to those people. If it isn't one of those, usually it's some poor sap who isn't paid enough to deal with it and is so used to being walked over by customers because of upper management policy that they could double as an entry mat. I've unfortunately been that person. So they do everything to accommodate the entitled person and unfortunately they, and their children learn that they can get away with it.
At one job I got depressed enough that money was no longer a motivator for work because for 8 hrs a day it was a constant stream of entitled people screaming at me for discounts. The irony is that when I had people who just treated me with basic human decency, I happily gave them discounts ( we had a small percentage we could do without management's approval for whoever we wanted) they didn't ask for because I was so grateful to not be getting screamed, yelled, or glared at for having to follow the procedures of my job. The manager never stood up for us employees, then was taken aback when we didn't have her back when dealing with a bad customer.
Leaving there was the best decision, my only regret was not doing it sooner.
I'm a shop assistant, that's insane. No jumping allowed in my queue.
I would have just left and never come back.
I would have had to leave a bad review for that shop. A couple of you in the line sharing your experience in the reviews and the shop will have to do something about their staff or culture.
Not a regular queue but my county fair has the free concerts and you can line up beforehand. HOWEVER, line means nothing because once you’re in the arena, it’s a free for all. Went one year with a friend and we got close to the stage and this group of girls came up behind us and threw an absolute tantrum that we “cut them in line.”
2:31 as a fellow Disney adult, we hate that mom 😒 I’ve lived less than an hour away from Disney my entire life and I was only able to go a few times with all but one being a school trip. Now at 25, I love going and enjoying the magic and honestly forgetting the rest of the world exists. Now, I get to take my daughter!! we’re lucky enough to have passes, and one rule I always have is “never have fun at someone else’s expense” there are people and families there that save for years to be able to enjoy a little Disney magic, I couldn’t imagine acting this entitled (especially in front of your own kids👀🤢)
We love this “attitude” of yours! That is what Miss Charlotte’s community is all about; having/sharing fun times! How can we contribute to your Disney passes so that more positivity can be on display? (Also, do you have Petty gear to represent your fellow Tater Tots?)
You sound like an amazing role model 😊
@@davidguidry657thank you! I honestly think we all just need a little more understanding of each other ❤ No merch yet, although I watch her everyday for over 2 years now 😅 I’m hoping for the track suit set for Christmas!!! As far as the passes, we have the pixie pass for my husband and myself (our 1 year old is still free hehe) but that only allows for us to go on the weekdays. We’d love to be able to go on the weekends as a family since my hubs works mon-fri, but can’t afford the upgrade. I was thinking of making my own shirt with sharklotte on it tho 😂😂
@@ambra8957Thank you so much! If I can teach my kids, or anyone for that matter, anything; it’s to lead with love and kindness (but also take no shit) 😂
Exactly right, very well said. I was also someone who grew up how your kid is growing up now (parents took me to Disney all the time), and it was amazing! And speaking from experience when you're a kid everything is so dang chaotic I 100% guarantee I wouldn't have noticed if I had to wait an extra few mins for something. Entitled mom was totally just using that excuse for herself more than the kids. Just wait in line, lady, enjoy the Disney vibes and relax
First woman gave me compassion for Disney Adults. Get it girl!
The only time any of my daughters were allowed to get to the front of the line was when they were 2-4 years old and waiting in line for the ladies restroom. I never asked, all the women just instinctively knew to let the little person get to the toilet. Thank you Ladies!
3:40 I don’t like the woman saying she’s entitled to free babysitting but I don’t like the guy commentating on it either, why does she have to be the one example? Why does this mean across the board single dads are ALWAYS better? We don’t have to make assumptions about everyone suddenly. Icky
Because he's lk/hk misogynistic, she's a good enough example for him to use to make the argument that all women are "bad" and that there is a good reason to hate, instead of simply singling her out for her own behavior/actions without sh ..ing on women entirely, he was pretty much making it a point that it's women in general.
As a mom, these videos are hilarious and embarrassing. 😂
When you are a new mom, I feel like something about your thinking and needing sleep breaks your brain! 😂 Not ok, but I get it.
As someone whose only babies will ever be cats, these videos just reinforce my decision to never have kids lol 😂
I hear you 🤦🏻♀️ unbelievable 🤣
Ugh, the mother of the 12YO cutting in line brought back memories for me. We were staying at a hotel that had a Santa Claus at Christmas time. My son was around 4 or 5 at the time. There were kids that were playing with the luggage carts in a really unsafe way, rolling them into each other, pushing each other around on them, etc. My son wanted to join in, and I told him no. He wanted to know why the other kids could. I said, "Well, they're lucky. They don't have your Mom." LOL I still think that was one of my more clever comebacks as a parent. ;)
Honestly… the mom on that plane…. WERK’D 😂🎉
Ran into a few unhinged moms on planes. I always pay extra for my window seat and had a few get upset that I wouldn't switch with them to accommodate. One even got upset I wouldn't let their kid sit on my lap so they could look out of the window. I'm a mom and I've never felt entitled to other people going out of their way for me.
My first flight ever some lady stole my window seat because she wanted to put her head on the window. I paid for a window seat so I can look out the window. I should have complained but my social anxiety was very extreme at that time.
The thought of someone shoving their kid in my lap makes me feel sickly, I don't do kids and that sounds awful
I was on a flight and this kid behind me kept kicking the back of my seat. Asked the mother to make her kid stop. She completely ignored me. Spoke with flight attendant who made the mother and child move. We had window seats. As they were moving she called me an asshole then spat on me. I declined to press charges. I kept thinking what example is she setting for this kid.
Holy cannoli! Some of these stories! I took my 5 year old twins to Disney for the first time this summer, and we waited in line...A LOT. We talked about the importance of waiting our turn. I played games with them. I pulled out all of my momma tricks to help them navigate waiting their turn and being patient, while also trying to respect others waiting in line. It wasn't easy, but it was my responsibility as a parent.
I applaud you! You likely taught your kids more life lessons in that line then any entitled parent taught their own kids in 18 years. Thank you for raising kind, decent, responsible kids who will thrive as adults!
This is a good momma right here 🙈 we need more moms like this!!!!
Even Princess Diana made her boys stand in line at McDonald's.
I remember meeting tigger for the first time at Disney Paris for my 18th birthday.
It was so emotional for me. I full on cried and felt so bad because this poor man/woman in a costume isn’t allowed to stop hugging a crying me until I stop 😂 they were so sweet. They patted my hair and their “handler” simply said in my ear “when they got casted they cried too. They get it” and it made me hold on tighter and laugh. It was honestly the best experience.
Tigger was my support as a kid. And I was honoured to meet the person who allowed me to experience that ❤️
I had something like this happen to me at a restaurant very recently. My mom and I stopped at our fave restaurant for lunch after my heart dr appt. I'm disabled and walk with a cane, my mom is 76. We were standing right in front of the hostess station because we were next in line to be seated. The hostess was gone seating 2 tables that were before us. In comes some grandpa, maybe a couple years older than my mom. He walks around us and to the side of the station.
When the hostess comes back, she glances at him, then looks at us and asks how many? He steps right up against my mom crowding her and says 2. I knew my mom wouldn't say anything, it's just who she is. But me? I'm not like my mom. I immediately respond with "Excuse me grandpa, but we were here long before you. Your age affords you respect, but not entitlement and certainly not over two women who were here first, one of whom is disabled." He had the nerve to say he was there first. I responded "Well, you weren't inside and the parking lot doesn't count". The hostess then stepped in and said I'm sorry sir, but they were here before you. I'll be back to seat you". I made sure to tell the hostess on the way to the table about the 2 couples who came in before him. I hate when people think they are more entitled to something that is rightfully yours.
Rightfully yours? A seat? Get over yourself
@Eris-_ Actually, yes. At a busy restaurant with a hostess, it's first come, first served. He cut the line, not just in front of us, but 2 other groups. All of which had been waiting patiently to be seated. He needed to wait his turn like everyone else. Not be a complete jerk and practically push my 76 yr old mother out of his way. He's lucky my cane didn't get swung at his head. He was a rich asshole who thought he was better than the old woman and her disabled daughter.
If he had simply been polite and said something like like I'm pressed for time, would you mind if I be seated next, we would have let him.
So yes, that spot was rightfully ours. You wait your damn turn.
Why don't you find another channel troll. Or is your life that miserable that you have to come on here and try to make others miserable too? 🤡
@@Eris-_a place in the queue is "rightfully yours" no matter how small the queue is. Respect for rules and others around starts from such small things.
@@Eris-_in most places in western countries it is a societal norm to wait patiently in line in the order in which you arrived to that line. So quit butting in!
As a former teacher, entitled parents and or entitled parents educating their kids to be entitled is the worst. Every educator has stories that are close to nightmare encounters with entitlement. One fellow teacher received a note with a needle and thread asking that she sew the button on her child’s coat as the mother“ didn’t have time”. Another first year teacher who was dealing with a young “ crotch goblin” who was a brat and received disciplinary actions from not just the classroom, but music, gym class and elsewhere in the school, her father approached her primary teacher and remark, “ There wouldn’t be a problem if you treated my daughter like the princess that she is.” Now, considering all the other issues in education today, teachers do not need to be creating entitled young adults. My favorite parents and kids were the ones who looked out for others, were generous, thoughtful and did not take advantage of others. And though my teaching career began in 1989, I was in several schools where it seemed to come into fashion where moms would come into the school in pajamas or the pajama bottoms. I am a rather liberal person, but putting a little effort coming into your child’s school just seems appropriate. And don’t get me started on a child being on free breakfast and lunch and a parent coming in with a fresh tattoo. Parents: your child comes first for food, love , clothing and shelter, but not an attitude of entitlement, which means sacrifice.And people wonder why the U.S. need more educators?
"If you treated my daughter like the princess that she is"?! OMG, that child is going to grow up to be a massively spoilt, entitled woman who thinks the world owes her everything. That father is doing more harm than good.
I have taught, I have worked in a hospital and helped in community service in which parents brought their toddlers to play with them. They were all bad, I hated working on the maternity ward because some of those women were ridiculously entitled and in the community group, the parents would dress their children in their best clothes, whinge about paint and glitter (its part of learning, don't put your children in their best clothes) and sit in a big group, gossiping and eating toast (which we provided) while we ran round after their children. It used to annoy me and it was so clique-y too.
I also do not understand why some parents go in pyjamas?! I think it’s so so tacky.
On top of that, the wages and salaries teachers receive (at least in the US) are sad. My dad makes more per hour in an office job than I do with my salary, and I have a bachelor's degree in education.
Not just schools. My landlord told me a story that happened years ago. The place he worked for would give back around Christmas. They sent him to this family's apartment to bring by holiday food. He peeks inside & sees a new stereo, giant TV, a guitar & amplifier. Seeing that disgusted him. There are literally people starving & can't feed themselves, yet that family either mooched the system or misused the money they were given for food.
I worked with a woman in the high school cafeteria and she would make her granddaughter lunch so she didn’t have to wait in line with the other kids. When I said something to her about it, her exact words to me were “ my granddaughter is not a stand in line kinda girl”
I love that female judge. She is the new judge Judy. She treats everyone with a dose of a reality check regardless of race or gender.
There's a lady I know who goes to socials frequently... and had an infant.
Her solution was to let someone get caught by the baby's cuteness and leave them with the baby for the whole social.
I fell victim to this for months until a better friend took my hand and pulled me away to explain.
I love waiting in line. As an adult it is the only time the only thing that is demanded of me is to stand still and be quiet. No one wants me to get them a drink no one's asking me to cook them food, I just stand there and wait quietly with my own thoughts. I love a long line
Don't forget the single mom demanding the guy pay for her babysitter is already expecting him to plan, execute and pay for the dinner date already.
Watching support court will make you laugh and cry. That case between mother and grandmother was mild.
Single mom for 7 years, and NEVER did I ask a date to pay for babysitting. Also, I paid my mom the same as I would have paid a day care center. Honestly, she gave my daughter more attention and love than day care ever could. ❤️
It blows my mind people are paying grandparents to watch kids.
She wasn’t even parked in the handicap spot, she was parked on the handicap ramp. 😂
The Disneyland entitlement of parents are real tho😂 What I experienced was worse in Hong Kong Disneyland. It was literally my 1st time ever being able to go to Disneyland (I was 20 years old). I didn’t have that privilege when I was young. So I was really very excited for the parade! I camped at main street 1 hour before the parade started to ensure I get 1st row view. This mother with her 3 year old toddler just came swooping in front of me 5 mins before the parade started and took my 1st row away from me 😭 being 20 years old I didn’t have the confidence to speak up for myself, sadly. My 1st ever Disneyland experience was ruined like this 😂 by entitled parents. Please be a better example for your child. Teach them not to be gremlins.
"Just because you have kids, doesn't mean you deserve any privileges or that I have to accommodate your poor decisions" incredible quote fir the ages right there
I was at the lawyers office with my sister and while I was in the waiting area, there was a woman there with her baby. I LOVE children, so I was smiling and waving at the baby. The mother walked over to me and just handed me her kid, without saying a word. She then went to the other side of the waiting area, sat down, started drinking her coffee, pulled out her cell phone and proceeded to make a phone call, while ignoring me and her kid for 20 minutes.
Oh no ma'am. You are probably nicer than I am. Her kid would promptly be deposited back on her lap.
Not the same but kinda? I work with kids(preschool educator) and when my nieces and nephews were little I was always assigned, without my consent, the kids. And I had my own baby! “Oh you’re good with kids, here” like no? I don’t like when I’m expected rather than asked. Don’t assume.
That’s absolutely wild what that mom did!! I have 3 and could never!!
What if you were a kidnapper or a murderer? That woman put a lot of trust in a stranger.
My mom had 3 daughters. As soon as they started getting married, mom would announce "don't expect me to be a babysitter. " she loved her grandkids, and spent good time with all, but she wanted to make it clear NOT TO ASSUME SHE WOULD DROP EVERYTHING TO BABYSIT. Right on, mom. I miss her so much. She was born in 1925 BTW.
My mum said that to me, however I’m still single and I’ve got no intention of them kids actually I can’t have kids either side points mute
I bet when you urgently needed a sitter for your kids and it was an emergency she still babysat - as would any person with a heart.
Yes, you are right. I will tell my parents to "not expect me I will take care of you when the day that you can't do it for yourselves comes". They will have to manage theirs problems like I will have to manage with mines. That is today's family ❤.
yes, of course.@@franhunne8929
not at all the same, and it seems you misunderstood the point.@@JustIsTime890
I quit my job and moved in with my son and his wife when the pandemic hit. So that I could take care of my 2 grandkids while they worked. My oldest grandchild had to do virtual school and my granddaughter was still a baby. It was supposed to be temporary but has since became permanent. I've never and would never ask to be paid. They make sure I have everything I need and even things I just want 😊
My sister-in-law took my 2yr nephew on a one hour flight and did so much prep beforehand. She downloaded some of his favourite videos/tv shows onto their iPad for him to watch, she got him some cheap over the ear noise cancelling wireless headphones for toddlers, and made sure to pack his favourite snacks. When they ended up getting delayed on the way back, he just happily sat with his headphones on and watched his iPad videos while eating snacks.
I'm so heartened reading all the comments from mothers agreeing that this kind of behaviour is delulu. As a single person I'm so sick of being told I "need" to accommodate a mother and her child(ren) just because she's a mother. Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU to all you awesome moms who agree this behaviour is abhorrent; I salute you! 💖
I became disabled after the birth of my child. My mum looks after my son when I'm in hospital and of course I give her anything I have for doing so! She's an angel and I wouldn't be here without her.
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Your kids have been waiting 9 years to see Jack Sparrow. This lady has been waiting 25 years.
controversial opinion: you can only truly enjoy Disney World as an adult. As a child, you'll forget most things, there's lots of activities you're restricted from and because you don't plan the trip there's lots of stuff you won't know you missed until you're older. I went there at like 14yo and luckily I could do all the attractions (and you bet my add I did them all lmao), but there is SO much I didn't do because my parents didn't know it was possible and some activities were not as enjoyable to me because I didn't fully get them. Plus, there's a lot I forgot. It's cute to take your kids there and I bet they will love it (I loved it at 14, almost cried the minute I got inside lol), but as an adult there's more possibilities for enjoyment.
I've been to Disneyland in Tokyo this summer and it's amazing how a respectful culture affects even the little things. For the parade, people start waiting early BUT everyone sits on the floor during it. So even when it's full of people and families everybody, adults and kids, gets to enjoy it and be happy because there's an unobstructed view of the whole space. I've been to Disneyland in both Paris and Tokyo a couple of times and the atmosphere and the people in the latter one really made everything feel more magical.
Is it just America that don't respect queues?
@@tonycowin No.
That seems amazing
I can agree. I have been to Paris, California and Tokyo Disneyland. And the most fun I had in Tokio becaus the people where so much more respectful of other peoples space and time.
This sounds great in theory, but also I have trouble getting on and off the ground for medical reasons. I wonder if after the parade was over some nice people would help get me up again. 😂
We took a Disney vacation . Absolutely the worst vacation of my life. Standing in long lines. Everything you do you have to stand in a long line. I stood in line for 35 minutes to use the bathroom. Biggest waste of money of my life .
I agree with you took the family to Disney everyone had a miserable time. Standing in line all day is not fun
You got that right pay a fortune to stand in lines all day. Please explain to me how is that the happiest place on earth
I'd like to know who named it to happiest place on earth. It was miserable the heat was unbearable. The prices of everything is ridiculous. And the wait times to do anything is just outrageous
If you went to WDW, never go during summer. It gets way too hot. As for bathrooms, don’t use the ones in fantasyland. Those are the most crowded.
@@mindyschocolate you got that right middle of summer it's unbearable
When Charlkie the shark acts like a crouch goblin she goes IN THE DRAWER😅😂
That second one: didn’t know YOUR kid was MY responsibility.
The babysitting one I seen another one where this woman left her kids at her sister’s and never came back! She decided she didn’t want them anymore and left em for her sister to raise. She actually said she didn’t want them anymore!! 😡 The judge is like don’t you think you should pay child support? She was like no I don’t have the money 🤦🏻♀️ Judge is like well you gonna pay child support 😂
The woman with the babysitting mom should realize that not all grandmothers will do this. I had twins and my mom wouldn't even keep them for an overnight, let alone watch them while I went to work. Count your blessings. Day care is expensive.
The most I have got was a few times my Dad watched my son, longest being around is 3- 3.5 hours less than 6 times and he's almost 5. An overnight sounds like Bliss!!!!
I thought it interesting that the daughter said "I can't do this on my own." about 20 seconds after Grandma told her she should have been married before having a kid.
Wow, your mom is heartless. I don't have kids yet but I know my mom would babysit my kids everytime I would need her to without asking to pay her anything. She's the type who would even ask me to bring them to her to spend time with her. I'm very lucky to have her.
Not heartless, just she has a life. I'm sure she loved visiting and being with her grandkids. The point is, not to ASSUME Granny will be your free babysitter.
My ex mother in law wouldn't come three blocks to meet her new grandchild...but instead, she'd send me dick pics on Facebook of men she was absolutely paying to screw.
Adult/Parent here. I live 2 hours from Orlando and used to visit Disney World regularly. I think Disney is only the "Happiest place on Earth" as long as you go without your kids.
I love Judge Vonda B! She’s a VERY fair Texas child support judge-and she left her channel, she was elected to office!
As a mom, I would berate another mom for ever acting like any of these moms. Kids need to learn patience and they need to learn they are not going to always get their way and be catered to.
It made me mad seeing that mother using the handicapped spot to drop off her daughter at school. I know people who really are disabled & have the right to those spots. She's teaching her daughter to say screw the law & do whatever she wants.
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Becoming a Grandma is the most wonderful thing to happen besides being a Mom. I will watch them ANYTIME day or night.
Right? Like sure there's limits and boundaries that can be crossed. I guess in my mind when I signed up for kids I signed up for life, not just 18 years. I know how important my time with my grandma was for me. I know how important my time to have date nights is for us and that's only possible cause my parents are happy to babysit. I can't imagine denying that grandparent bond to my grandkids or the much needed break for my kids.
You! Young Lady! Charlotte, you are a RIOT!!😂
What a rude lady - glad you told her no - like you could sense that she was undeserving - why even ask? Nobody cares if you have kids 😂
Lol, I sure the hell wouldn't 😒
So when I was doing a ride along with a police officer, we got a call to do a lock out on a car. (Lady locked her keys in the car.) We get to this elementary school, during the summer so there were just a few teachers there, and the woman that was locked out was in a handicapped spot. Up until this point, this cop had been the most mellow guy. Hadn’t pulled anyone over, even when he had reason to, mediated an argument between roommates that was escalating with the calmest demeanor ever, and had been telling me how people are just seeing him on their worst day most of the time so he always tries to give them a break. Seriously, an amazing guy.
Anyway, we get there and the woman comes running out of the school saying “Oh my gosh, thank you so much!” He looks at her plates, looks on her windshield, and just kind of nods his head. He then goes and unlocks her car, tells her to hold on one second he has something she needs to sign. Which I knew was weird because he hadn’t had any of the other lockouts we did sign anything. He comes back and says, “Do you realize you’re parked in the handicap spot?” She kind of just goes yeah, and making excuses saying she was just dropping something off that she was donating to her daughters teacher….blah blah blah. HE THEN GAVE HER A TICKET. Told her there was never an excuse and we drove away. Turns out his daughter uses a handicapped placard, and he will never let anyone that doesn’t have a placard go without a ticket.
“I wash my hands of this weirdness” was just too perfect 🏴☠️
As someone who was raised by a single mother, whose dad was and continues to be a deadbeat, the second video did not sit well with me when he brought up Father’s Day. Like, my “dad” didn’t want to see me growing up so was I supposed to be sad all day or celebrate with my mom because she was there and she did the work!! That goes both ways, if you’re a single parent and the other parent isn’t in the picture, celebrate both days.
As a mother who was single, I had so many guys get upset because I wouldn't just up and leave my then young child to go on a date with them that hour or that day. I would tell them that since I had a kid, I needed to plan it so a couple days in advance or on a weekend was perfect. They never went for that and would call me a w word for not abandoning my kid whenever they wanted. So yes, I started saying unless you're paying for a babysitter for today/tonight, another day will be fine so I can plan out getting one myself.
As you should. If you want to date a single mother then you need to be realistic about your expectations.
Hopefully that was enough for you to deny a date with them altogether. For them to get upset and call you names, that’s enough of a red flag not to go on that date with them at all
Agreed! Also realistically, if a man is dating a single mom, this is an interview for fatherhood. Or that's how I always saw it, when I was in that position. Moms and babies are a package deal & sometimes you gotta pay to play!
It's easier to just not date as a mom. It's so much easier to do it alone and not be judged.
I can understand “I can’t just drop off my kid at the drop of a hat.” But it’s definitely not sone random guy’s responsibility to pay for a babysitter. 🤦♀️
The plane lady:,excuse me, what?! You just let a random stranger take your kid and you go to sleep? That woman is lucky she got her child back, period.
Yas! It’s been a while since I last flew but if the toilets are the same they’ll slurp a baby down in .05 seconds with formidable force!
I could understand if you're in a committed long term relationship being like "Hey honey, can you pitch in on the sitter?" but to be like, "Oh hi random Tinder dude, Vennmo me some babysitter coin and also pay for dinner?" LOLOLOL he didn't make a baby with you. He has his own expenses.
They were on a plane, where could anybody have run off with a baby?
@@jenni8982 i was thinking more if mom hadn’t woken up until after when they landed.
Babysitting lady literally had the kid strapped to her. She could have gotten herself lost in the crowd before mom woke up
Seems like the lady on the plane babysitting unwillingly needs to learn the game "pinch the baby" 🤣🤣😂🤣😂
My mother took care of my sons when I was working... it was natural for her. She never had to pay for baby food, diapers, etc.
We tried to "pay" her, but she didn't want to take any money. So instead, we regularly took her on trips and/or went out to eat with her.
As a childfree by choice woman, I can confirm that I don't hate kids. I have 2 biological niblings and my hubby has a nephew and my best friend has a daughter. There are kids in my life that I love with all my heart and would do anything for. I just don't want to experience it for myself (and luckily, neither does hubby).
honestly you're not missing out on much, if you feel like wanting a kid, you can volunteer at a local church and then you're swiftly reminded how good it feels to leave those little buggers and have a good night's sleep! LOL !!! i also love kids and im very good with em but haven't been lucky in concieving, so im enjoying sleeping in all day :D hehe
@@Kittyxoxo yep, I enjoy my sleep and when the kiddos get to rowdy I can just give them back to their parents. It's perfect!
How lucky you have niblings.
@@charlesming7875 thank you! I do feel very lucky to have them, they are two incredible individuals and I love them dearly. I wish that you will one day experience it too
Well. I think is the best for you. For me, I enjoy my own kids. It is not the same experience at all having others kids that your own kids. And I am happy to have that experience in my life. It is different experience but now I have it, I can't imagine another life. For me it would be empty without them 😍.
But I understand the fact that thr same this experience is fantastic for me doesn't means that can be horrible for other persons.
Where my entitled momma babies at? It really makes you jaded to the world when you were brought into it by a narcissist.
My ex was raised by one. Both her sons ruined their relationships and have no connections to their kids. Narcissists are skilled in sending their sh*t storm down the line. I disconnected and it was the best thing I ever did.
My mother used me and my sister as a bargaining chip to get money from other family members, and after a while they stopped asking to see us so I grew up thinking none of my extended family loved me
Not me, but my cousin 😢
I'm 12 years older than my baby cousin so my aunt decided I would be her babysitter!
I loved it ❤
But my mom let me know I was being taken advantage of.... But we're family and I really loved spending time with my little cousin.
Sometimes I had to cancel plans and I wasn't paid but.... That's my baby girl ❤
My husband and I took a trip to Disney World several years ago and we thoroughly enjoyed our visit. it was just the 2 of us. We were in line for a ride and there was a couple with a small kid (too young to be taking them to Disney in my opinion as they won't remember any of it). The kid was fussing and crying and the parents were miserable. There was another couple around our ages behind them and we all looked at each other and smiled knowing we were having a much better time.
The last time I went to Disneyland, it was my first time back after 10 years of not being able to go so ofc I was really excited but unfortunately I kept noticing so many parents in the parks who thought they were entitled to special access just because they had their kids. Shoving in lines, arguing with people, one parent even tried to grab a custom pair of Mickey ears out of the hands of this teenage girl because they were the last ones in stock in that particular style and she screamed that her four year old "needed them". I even had my own encounter with an EM when she shoved past me and ran over my foot with her giant stroller than snapped at me for "getting in HER way" (I was off to the side walking, not even in the middle of any street or pathway😑)
I’m not sure what’s worse, the kids or the parents. I was told once by my sister that I owed her kids because we’re blood. My response was I have absolutely no responsibility for her nor her children. They were offend and the money and time I had been spending on them stopped!
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Yea grandma deserves more monetarily. My son and i lived with my mom for a couple years (birth to 3) and i bent over backwards to make sure she was always all good if she babysat him for me when i pulled double shifts or had class. Never left her needing to buy extra food, diapers or supplies. She was doing me the greatest favor and i recognized it. Shes a saint and id never give her less than what she deserves ❤
Years ago, I was in line for concert tickets. When they were getting ready to start sales (they were released at a specific time) dude comes up to me (I was fairly close to the front) and asks if he can get in line ahead of me as he was in a rush... I spoke up (so others could hear) and said "sure, as long as everyone behind us is okay with it too." 😊 and gestured towards the massive line behind us... he walked to the back of the line... 😅
For the record, I have never expected a man to pay for a sitter. However, they often offer, so I'm not saying no to a night out with good company and getting to feel human. 😂 Iykyk!