Fellow hospice nurse here who just got a divorce after 28 years of marriage. I know exactly what you mean when you say don't know how to be alone. It gets better. We learn to cope and love and live again. You got this. 😉❤️
Thank you for letting me know I'm not alone by saying "I'm really ashamed of it." Thank you for validating that feeling that so many of us experience but hide!
It breaks my heart when someone feels shame like that. Most of the time it isn't really something you can help, the shame or how you get to that point. I hope you have or find your happy place.
A message to you and Hadley, if I may: Feeling shame common, and it is temporary. It also diminishes by talking about it and processing in a safe space. Kudos to you both for your courage in naming your feelings! Without knowing either of you or your situations personally, please allow me to say that I hope you will soon see that there is no shame in taking care of yourself and embracing the person you are meant to be. Things will get better and feel better. Sending best wishes, love, and support your way ❤
“For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” If you place your faith in Jesus, He will forgive you of your sins and you will be saved from hell and you will be given eternal life. Jesus is The Way, The Truth, and The Life. He is forgiving and loves us so much 🌷💕 Repent of your sins and follow Jesus. I’ve done a lot of things I’m ashamed of too and Jesus forgave me of all of it. God bless you 💕
I was married for 13 years and I didn't know how to be alone either. Even after 8 years it can be hard sometimes. Hang in there. Making your space your own is a great start. You are doing wonderful!
wanted to put this here in case it helps one of the ppl who liked it. I am kinda the queen of being by myself. I'm checking in on y'all. Just remember, ruminating about "bad" is just trying to prevent more "bad". Most of the situations we ruminate about, we'll never be in again. Why solve a puzzle you'll never need?! Especially one you don't like. Only sit there if it's enjoyable and progressing. You can do this. You're in control. Do the puzzles YOU want. ❤
I'm sorry for your hurt. Many prayers for you and your children. "Do not fear, for I am with you. Do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, surely I will help you. I will uphold you with My righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10. Strength and peace to you.
Sometimes relationships don't work out. Sometimes it's someone's fault and sometimes it really isn't. That's nothing to be ashamed of. I'm glad you're in therapy and hope it helps you to grow and move past your feelings of shame. You're an amazing person. ❤
@@thinkngskeptic Because sometimes two personalities might not be good together, and they might not be able to tell that ahead of time. It's not like one has to be shitty to the other to be incompatible, just sometimes people find out they don't work well together in a romantic relationship, and sometimes they unfortunately don't figure that out until they're already in it.
@@thinkngskepticI get what you're saying, but longer relationships are suseptible to people changing or not changing, not having unity in relationship goals. It just happens.
Sweetie, you are never alone. I am so sorry for what you are going through. I am sure those lovely old ladies would not have taken so much time to fall out of their chairs when you started in the nursing home had they known. But, then what a shame that would have been! 3 beautiful children have Blessed you. I subscribed about a week ago and I binge-watched almost all your episodes. I'm not dying at the moment, but you give me hope that when I do, it can be a wonderful experience. Stay strong, you got this. Prayers to you, sweet girl. ♥♥♥
😢 I went thru a divorce 23 years ago after a 15 year marriage. It really does feel like a death. Thankfully a year later, God sent me a wonderful man that understood what a real partnership means. Sending prayers your way.
I blossomed when I got divorced. I also became so creative. Its a self love journey that so many of us are on. Welcome to the club love bug. The bed all to ones self is just heavenly.
Some people, no matter how good they have it are always looking for someone else. FOMO and believing those filtered pics are real kill off a lot of relationships.
Oh Hadley, you do not have to be ashamed. Sometimes divorce becomes a part of our story. And that is what it is, just a PART of our story. Divorce does not have to define you. Sometimes you just take life one minute at a time, one breath at a time. Sending you love and hugs! PS - That is a GORGEOUS master suite!!!!!!!!!! Well done ma'am!!!!
“For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” If you place your faith in Jesus, He will forgive you of your sins and you will be saved from hell and you will be given eternal life. Jesus is The Way, The Truth, and The Life. He is forgiving and loves us so much 🌷💕 Repent of your sins and follow Jesus. We have all made mistakes and sinned. But thank God for His forgiveness and kindness. God bless you sweetheart 💕
Welcome back Hadley! I'm looking forward to your future videos. I've missed you! I bought and read your book earlier this year and loved it! Please, don’t beat yourself up over the divorce. This too shall pass. Your new “Barbie” bath and bedroom look awesome! Chin up girl! As you know, life is for the living. I lost my 89yo Mom a week ago. We buried her on Saturday. I miss her, but also understand her work is done here. ❤ Because I 've followed you and read your book earlier this year, I felt informed during her last days when she was on “comfort care.” For this, I want to thank you and encourage you to keep writing. I believe taking the unknown out of the dying process made it a little less difficult to deal with. It won’t stop your heart from breaking, but it does reduce the fear.
Dear Nurse Hadley, I think of you often during my work as with seniors. You are a light, thank you for your videos. Wishing you smooth sailing from her on out.
You are not alone. You have built a wonderful community here on CZcams. Thank you for sharing your experience as a hospice nurse with so many who need to hear your gentle and caring perspective. As a therapist I have been blessed by your insight. It has helped me to walk alongside my clients struggling with grief. Thank you. Also, your master bedroom and bath are absolutely beautiful! It looks like you've created a sanctuary; a refuge where you can find peace. Be gentle with yourself during this season of life. As you know, healing takes time.
It looks beautiful, Hadley ❤ I have been alone since 1997, when my husband passed. It gives you a chance to learn about what you want and need as a person.
Your home looks beautiful! Sending you love and support. I've been where you are now. Divorce is nothing to be ashamed of. You are stronger than you think.
Absolutely beautiful! You have nothing to be embarrassed about. You will move forward, find your feet, and be stronger. Your style choices are so classic and pretty.
There’s nothing to be ashamed of about going through a divorce! Making that choice can be so difficult and comes with many challenges, but making that choice is so much healthier than prolonging a marriage that isn’t working out. I rarely comment on videos, but I just wanted to share some love and send some affirmations your way, you’ve got this and excited to continue to see you grow and bloom! 💓
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.❤️🙏. I love what you did to the bedroom and the bathroom! So happy that you kept the charm of the older home. I look forward to seeing the other projects that you are planning. Send you love and prayers.❤❤
Divorce is never easy, neither is being alone at first, but having been through this myself, I kept myself busy, there are some days that you will long for companionship, it will come, just takes time. Someone will snatch you up, I know I would!
I am new and have watched some of your videos, and I commend you for the difference you make with patients on hospice and their families. I went through this twice with my mom and dad when I was 20 and 32 years old, and I saw everything with both. They were great parents, but the trauma of watching them slowly crumble away from cancer was truly devastating. I actually took care of my mother on hospice until she passed away from breast cancer which had obviously spread everywhere and left her in the bed and not able to walk anymore. It hurts so bad to watch what they have to go through, especially when they cannot eat anymore or drink.😢 I heard her calling to her mother when she was supposed to be pretty knocked out on morphine, and that actually brought peace and happiness for me because I knew at that moment the pain was gone.❤
Omg…I’m SO sorry to hear you’re having to go through this!! You are an amazing woman who WILL always land on your feet! Cry when you need to but also remember to keep smiling and believe in yourself…you got this!!😊
I’m so sorry!! Here I was thinking you were off living a dream life because of your success… it just goes to show we never know what someone is going through. I’m glad to see you back here, and your room/ bathroom are stunning!
Oh I'm sorry! Be good to yourself and take care of yourself! Good to hear you're in therapy! That'll help and thumbs up for the decorations! All the Best Wishes to you & good luck ❤
The bathroom looks amazing! It definitely reflects your personal style! I really hope therapy helps you with what your feeling and experiencing. You have nothing to be ashamed about!
Nurse Hadley, I lost my husband in October. He was in hospice, which drew me to your channel. I don't know how to be alone either. But you're crushing it! Much love to you ❤
I’m so sorry you have to go through this, Hadley! You’re such a beautiful and kind person inside and out, and I hope you know how much you inspire others and brighten everyone’s day!! Sending you so much love and well wishes during this transformational period, and we’ll be here for you through it all❤️
You are such an inspiration. Brave, strong, resilient, compassionate. You’ve been the silver lining for so many; it’s wonderful to see you finding that within yourself, for yourself. “Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out.” Reminds me of you. ❤️ sending you well wishes. Thanks for sharing your journey with us.
There is NO SHAME! You are brilliant and Strong!!! Some choices don't belong to us, it's just what needs to be. Great job on the renovation. It is YOU creating your HOME! Congratulations on such a beautiful job completed!!!
I did this almost 5 years ago and as hard as it was, it is the best thing I’ve ever done for myself and my daughters. I also bought and renovated our house and it feels like mine now 🥰 I have never been happier or more proud of myself. I also bought your book a few months ago, and I want you to know that I loved it and could not put it down! Hang in there, mama 🤗
Everything looks beautiful!! I was married for 18 years and had to learn how to live alone. You've got this, girl!! Just keep building that beautiful house to your dream perfection ❤❤❤
Oh, sweet Hadley! I’m so sorry you are having a hard time. 😢 Sometimes a “project” can be a good distractor when you are going through a difficult season, as well as deliver a great sense of satisfaction when completed. I will pray for peace and strength for you.❤ PS. Your redecorating turned out fantastic!
I was a single Mom once. May God heal you from the loss of your marriage. ❤ I find comfort in reading short bits of scripture out loud over and over again until I feel like it sinks into my heart. I have no idea what is best for you but I pray you will have peace, comfort, and people who love you all around you.
Honey, you are not alone. Your community is here for you. Your place looks amazing. I remember my parents first home. My father redid it room by room (old home too), one room in the spring, one room in the fall. Never in the winter, not in Canada. 🙂 And likewise, not in the summer, too hot. Please come see us whenever you need us. Someone will always be here for you. Love from Canada.
I love it! Absolutely perfect! That's my dream house too! I don't know how to be alone either. My husband is very sick with cancer and I'm very scared. I've been with him since I was 17, and I'm 56.
It is BEAUTIFUL, Hadley! The attention to detail is immaculate. Sending you the warmest of hugs and I appreciate you letting us into your life as I know it is not easy sharing difficult details. I am seeing your video at a time where I am also struggling to find comfort being alone.
Nurse Hadley! I just finished your book a few months ago! I am sorry to hear you’re going through a hard time but I sincerely appreciate your authenticity and I think your home renovations are beautiful and I’m glad you are proud of them and that they make you happy. I hope you continue to heal and that all of you will be happy, whatever that looks like!! I learned so much from you. Thank you for sharing your experiences, honoring your patient’s stories and teaching us in the process. ❤️❤️❤️
I am going through this too first time in adulthood being alone at thirty one and separated. Very hard period of time but ultimately a season for massive growth and freedom sending you so much love.
You have nothing to be ashamed of! My parents are divorced and although it was hard for everyone at the time with me and my sister both being under 3, my whole family has come through 🕊️. You and your family will get through this!!You’re in my prayers!
You are such a beacon of light, thank you for your honest vulnerability and being an example of how we can take steps forward through hard times. I loved your book and bought it for my mom for Christmas. It helped us bond and warmed our hearts. I hope you're kind to yourself and remember that you have a gift for connecting with others. You are capable of such incredible things.
So many of your videos make me shead a tear. Now I am crying like a baby. You are so amazing I have lost a bunch of my friends and family and you have made it a lot easier. I wish that this message is a blessing because you are one of the good ones. Thank you
Im so sorry to hear this. My husband of 33 years left during our homes reno 6 years ago and im finally in a place I can start working on it. As for being alone, its not easy but I realized I never felt more alone than when I was in the same room with him. You got this. Hugs and prayers for you ❤
Wow that bathroom is so beautiful!! I'm sorry you have to go through that, I'm sending you the biggest hug ever ❤❤❤ You are my favorite online nurse ❤❤❤
What you’re going through is hard, the changes you’re making to your home are beautiful and the fact that you’re seeking counselling is incredible. Thank you for sharing, your story helps others going through their own battles. I do pray your journey gets easier for you, you are a truly beautiful human being 🤗.
I got divorced a little over 10yrs ago. It's a lot of changes & it sucks. But finding yourself in the aftermath is one of the amazing benefits! So, I am truly sorry, but also, congratulations! Don't be ashamed of it, or of being yourself! You deserve to be You & Happy (I think that is why we come here. Well, one reason). I am buying a house now, after 10yrs, & finally going to have a place that's truly mine, & it is so amazing! (But it also took me more than 2yrs to find the right place & I had to do a lot of letting go.) Give yourself grace, & remember that it is ok to love yourself
Absolutely beautiful remodel. Since becoming a hospice nurse, your view of the regular world has changed and expanded. And sometimes those around us are not meant to come along on your journey. Being with yourself takes time but it is so worth it.
Oh Hadley. You are seriously so kind and sweet. I am so sorry your going through this ❤ your bathroom looks amazing- feels like such a beautiful, peaceful, cozy safehaven
You are never alone...God is always with you. He will keep you safe and protect you. I hope you belong to a good God centered church. Please keep your faith. You and your daughter will get thru this. Someone in Texas will be praying for you and your daughter. God bless...
I Love Your videos and the compassion you show people during their last moments on earth. You are truly a beautiful soul. I'm sorry you are going through this divorce, I know how hard it can be. I lived with my partner for almost 6 years and it ended really badly and he left me for someone else. It took a long time to get through it all but as time went on it got easier and easier. It is like mourning a death, there is an entire grief process, you are grieving the person you were with, the relationship, and the future you thought you had together. Be easy on yourself and let the stages go as quickly or as slowly as it takes. It does get easier. Over time I've realized he was not the person I wanted to be with for the rest of my Life and I'm a stronger and better person now without him. And please know you are never truly alone, you have your children and you have many spirits looking out for you along your journey! Thank You for all the compassion you put out there into this World!
As a hospice CHA i fully understand your feelings of your new newness. Dealing with patients is challenging enough but going thru what you’re going thru adds to it. Keep projects to occupy your time and prayer to protect your heart and mind. 🙏🏾
I am so sorry to hear about your divorce. I didn’t understand the reason things where happening when my ex and I divorced, but I am a true believer things happen for a reason. 7 yrs after our split, my Dad needed help due to Parkinson’s and dementia. Had I still been married, he never would have moved in with me. It took time, but I was so thankful to be able to care for my Dad. Loving what you are doing with your space, making it your own. You are a multitalented woman!
What gorgeous taste you have. Love the redecorating. You’re going to ROCK being on your own. Being on my own after my husband’s death was the most enlightening journey. I learned who I was and to be my own best friend whom I dearly love, care for, enjoy and treasure. What doesn’t kill us will make us stronger. ❤
Hang in there Nurse Hadley! The bedroom renovation was awesome! It's not easy being single/alone. Over time, you will learn to embrace "alone" time with projects, reading, meditation, exercise, walks, coffee/tea at a local place. There is a whole world waiting for you to join in!
I loved your book, thank you for writing it. I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through a difficult time. Focusing on yourself and your children will help you cope and learn more about yourself as you thrive.❤
When you started crying, you got me good. Please don't feel shame, sadly these things do happen, no need to put yourself through more anguish. I'm so sorry, this is a tough transition so be kind to yourself. Being alone can be hard, no one really teaches you how to navigate that, but hopefully it's a great opportunity to learn a bit more about yourself. Gorgeous bathroom! Absolutely love it.
I have been through it, and I had to learn how to be alone. I wish someone had told me that if I didn't fight it, and just accepted that "I'm doing my own thing today"... the sooner I would be ok with being alone. And it might take some time, but just know that fact is there, your future holds a good mood during alone times for you. Big hugs, you can do this!
That space is so you!!! The bedroom as well as the bath are beautiful! Sorry for what you are going thru, it’s definitely not easy for sure. Can’t wait to see what ya do with the rest of the house !❤
It’s beautiful! I was just thinking about you the other day when I picked your book up to read again. I thought CZcams and tiktok had unsubscribed me. Your community is here for you..❤️
Sorry to hear Hadley. your truly amazing and can do it. I enjoy watching your videos, and have read your book an it was amazing, you can do this you have got this.
I am so glad you're walking forward. My heart goes out to you. You're such a beautiful soul. Walk forward fast and grab all the beauty and love ahead of you and your daughter.
I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. This video resonated with me deeply. I said and felt all these things 5 years ago. You can do this. I hope you feel supported. Wishing you peace and pride in your updated life 💜
Very beautiful work! I just lost my husband to cancer and learning to be alone is difficult. He died on May 4 a few days after we moved in to our new home and he was the organizer so yes I am lost! I will follow your example and get so psychological therapy! I true enjoy your videos as they helped prepare me for his passing. Just like the song Pink sings….your still you and no one can take that away! Take care ❤️❤️
I would think that it would be difficult for someone in your line of work to stay positive. It helps me to always try to remember that everyone you know is fighting a battle none of us knows anything about … so, always try to be keep positive. I suggest taying busy and be with friends. I can tell you are doing your best to keep your chin up, and always stay in the light. BTW, I think your Improvements look fantastic - The DIY folks have nothing on you! Nice Job!
It looks beautiful Hadley. BTW being alone is okay. Its okay to explore who you are and what you like. I spent a year getting to know myself in my 30's since I had never been alone until then. That scene in runaway bride about figuring out what kind of eggs you like was an epiphany for me, I knew I had to get to know what the real me was before I ever was in a relationship again. It was the best advise I had ever given myself. I pray for good things in your life.
Wow your bathroom is absolutely stunning!! I just commented on your most recent video saying I didn’t know about the divorce & then saw that I hadn’t seen this video yet. Like I said in the other comment section, you have a massive community of people to support you! You aren’t alone, you have friends all over the country and all over the world through your platform! & don’t think of this as being alone, take this time for yourself to do all of the things you’ve always wanted to do but felt held back by a partner or the potential of being a burden. Take this time as an opportunity to make new friends, become comfortable with not being alone, but being with yourself! Treat yourself with love and compassion and I know you will get through this! ❤
It looks beautiful!!! ❤ Hey…I know how hard being alone can be, but there is something so precious and healing about aloneness - we get to figure out who we are deep within and how we want to approach the world. Huge hugs…
Fellow hospice nurse here who just got a divorce after 28 years of marriage. I know exactly what you mean when you say don't know how to be alone. It gets better. We learn to cope and love and live again. You got this. 😉❤️
May we know the reason for your divorce?
Thank you for letting me know I'm not alone by saying "I'm really ashamed of it." Thank you for validating that feeling that so many of us experience but hide!
It breaks my heart when someone feels shame like that. Most of the time it isn't really something you can help, the shame or how you get to that point. I hope you have or find your happy place.
A message to you and Hadley, if I may: Feeling shame common, and it is temporary. It also diminishes by talking about it and processing in a safe space. Kudos to you both for your courage in naming your feelings!
Without knowing either of you or your situations personally, please allow me to say that I hope you will soon see that there is no shame in taking care of yourself and embracing the person you are meant to be. Things will get better and feel better. Sending best wishes, love, and support your way ❤
I've been divorced twice. I know how it feels. I hope you know you are not alone. We are all here for you. Sending much hugs❤
Lots of women get divorced, young or old. Sometimes you discover later that you're better off.
“For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” If you place your faith in Jesus, He will forgive you of your sins and you will be saved from hell and you will be given eternal life. Jesus is The Way, The Truth, and The Life. He is forgiving and loves us so much 🌷💕 Repent of your sins and follow Jesus. I’ve done a lot of things I’m ashamed of too and Jesus forgave me of all of it. God bless you 💕
I was married for 13 years and I didn't know how to be alone either. Even after 8 years it can be hard sometimes. Hang in there. Making your space your own is a great start. You are doing wonderful!
wanted to put this here in case it helps one of the ppl who liked it. I am kinda the queen of being by myself. I'm checking in on y'all. Just remember, ruminating about "bad" is just trying to prevent more "bad". Most of the situations we ruminate about, we'll never be in again. Why solve a puzzle you'll never need?! Especially one you don't like. Only sit there if it's enjoyable and progressing. You can do this. You're in control. Do the puzzles YOU want. ❤
I'm sorry for your hurt. Many prayers for you and your children. "Do not fear, for I am with you. Do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, surely I will help you. I will uphold you with My righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10. Strength and peace to you.
Sometimes relationships don't work out. Sometimes it's someone's fault and sometimes it really isn't. That's nothing to be ashamed of. I'm glad you're in therapy and hope it helps you to grow and move past your feelings of shame. You're an amazing person. ❤
How can a divorce not be at least one person's fault?
@@thinkngskeptic Because sometimes two personalities might not be good together, and they might not be able to tell that ahead of time. It's not like one has to be shitty to the other to be incompatible, just sometimes people find out they don't work well together in a romantic relationship, and sometimes they unfortunately don't figure that out until they're already in it.
@@druelia9485 you're supposed to get to know someone before you marry them. The fact that some people don't is a mistake.
@@thinkngskepticI get what you're saying, but longer relationships are suseptible to people changing or not changing, not having unity in relationship goals. It just happens.
@@F_T2D_Drew relationship goals are one of the main topics one should talk about before getting married
Sweetie, you are never alone. I am so sorry for what you are going through. I am sure those lovely old ladies would not have taken so much time to fall out of their chairs when you started in the nursing home had they known. But, then what a shame that would have been! 3 beautiful children have Blessed you. I subscribed about a week ago and I binge-watched almost all your episodes. I'm not dying at the moment, but you give me hope that when I do, it can be a wonderful experience. Stay strong, you got this. Prayers to you, sweet girl. ♥♥♥
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😢 I went thru a divorce 23 years ago after a 15 year marriage. It really does feel like a death. Thankfully a year later, God sent me a wonderful man that understood what a real partnership means. Sending prayers your way.
Amen!
Me too and that lasted till death did us apart. Wonderful man great marriage
I blossomed when I got divorced. I also became so creative. Its a self love journey that so many of us are on. Welcome to the club love bug.
The bed all to ones self is just heavenly.
Who the heck would divorce this woman?
She has such a beautiful soul. Her spirit and aura are beautiful.
An Idiot, that's who. Whoever ends up lucky enough to have a gal like Hadley would be a love lotto winner!
You have no idea what people are like.
@@Kingfisher1215 right but you can get some idea when they talk, can't you?
The statistics says she probably divorced him.
Some people, no matter how good they have it are always looking for someone else. FOMO and believing those filtered pics are real kill off a lot of relationships.
Oh Hadley, you do not have to be ashamed. Sometimes divorce becomes a part of our story. And that is what it is, just a PART of our story. Divorce does not have to define you. Sometimes you just take life one minute at a time, one breath at a time. Sending you love and hugs! PS - That is a GORGEOUS master suite!!!!!!!!!! Well done ma'am!!!!
Divorce is always something to be ashamed of, especially when there are young children involved.
@@thinkngskeptic Oh, Bless Your Heart, aren't you just the most precious thing!
@@ericawilson9732 you're a demon if you think it's ok to hurt children
“For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” If you place your faith in Jesus, He will forgive you of your sins and you will be saved from hell and you will be given eternal life. Jesus is The Way, The Truth, and The Life. He is forgiving and loves us so much 🌷💕 Repent of your sins and follow Jesus. We have all made mistakes and sinned. But thank God for His forgiveness and kindness. God bless you sweetheart 💕
Bathroom looks GORGEOUS!!!! You're not alone! You have the community here and you have GOD! You will make it, have faith. Never lose faith!
Exactly 💯!!
It's a dream! 😍
@@TaunellE What is?
Amen friend
Been alone 30 years it's easy.
Welcome back Hadley! I'm looking forward to your future videos. I've missed you! I bought and read your book earlier this year and loved it! Please, don’t beat yourself up over the divorce. This too shall pass. Your new “Barbie” bath and bedroom look awesome! Chin up girl! As you know, life is for the living.
I lost my 89yo Mom a week ago. We buried her on Saturday. I miss her, but also understand her work is done here. ❤ Because I 've followed you and read your book earlier this year, I felt informed during her last days when she was on “comfort care.” For this, I want to thank you and encourage you to keep writing. I believe taking the unknown out of the dying process made it a little less difficult to deal with. It won’t stop your heart from breaking, but it does reduce the fear.
Sorry, to hear that.....,but self love and care are extremely important at this time. You got this!!!
Dear Nurse Hadley, I think of you often during my work as with seniors. You are a light, thank you for your videos. Wishing you smooth sailing from her on out.
You are not alone. You have built a wonderful community here on CZcams. Thank you for sharing your experience as a hospice nurse with so many who need to hear your gentle and caring perspective. As a therapist I have been blessed by your insight. It has helped me to walk alongside my clients struggling with grief. Thank you. Also, your master bedroom and bath are absolutely beautiful! It looks like you've created a sanctuary; a refuge where you can find peace. Be gentle with yourself during this season of life. As you know, healing takes time.
Sending you love, Hadley, as you grieve this relationship.
It looks beautiful, Hadley ❤ I have been alone since 1997, when my husband passed. It gives you a chance to learn about what you want and need as a person.
Your home looks beautiful! Sending you love and support. I've been where you are now. Divorce is nothing to be ashamed of. You are stronger than you think.
Absolutely beautiful! You have nothing to be embarrassed about. You will move forward, find your feet, and be stronger. Your style choices are so classic and pretty.
Building my ladder 🪜 so I can climb out. You’re an inspiration to us needing to leave but cannot at this time. 🙏🏻💞 🏡
Girl..I would be your friend so bad.
You’re a ray of sunshine! Keep your head up girlie. Love from Canada ❤❤❤
There’s nothing to be ashamed of about going through a divorce! Making that choice can be so difficult and comes with many challenges, but making that choice is so much healthier than prolonging a marriage that isn’t working out. I rarely comment on videos, but I just wanted to share some love and send some affirmations your way, you’ve got this and excited to continue to see you grow and bloom! 💓
Great Comment; resonated with me.
Sending you so much ❤️. Your home looks beautiful.
I'm sorry Hadley. Sending so much love to you. 💕💕
The room and bathroom look beautiful. Great job!
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.❤️🙏. I love what you did to the bedroom and the bathroom! So happy that you kept the charm of the older home. I look forward to seeing the other projects that you are planning. Send you love and prayers.❤❤
Divorce is never easy, neither is being alone at first, but having been through this myself, I kept myself busy, there are some days that you will long for companionship, it will come, just takes time. Someone will snatch you up, I know I would!
I’m so sorry 😿 about the divorce, it gets better day by day.
I am new and have watched some of your videos, and I commend you for the difference you make with patients on hospice and their families.
I went through this twice with my mom and dad when I was 20 and 32 years old, and I saw everything with both.
They were great parents, but the trauma of watching them slowly crumble away from cancer was truly devastating.
I actually took care of my mother on hospice until she passed away from breast cancer which had obviously spread everywhere and left her in the bed and not able to walk anymore.
It hurts so bad to watch what they have to go through, especially when they cannot eat anymore or drink.😢
I heard her calling to her mother when she was supposed to be pretty knocked out on morphine, and that actually brought peace and happiness for me because I knew at that moment the pain was gone.❤
My condolences . God bless you for taking care of your Mom. That's awesome that her Mom was there waiting for her.
Omg…I’m SO sorry to hear you’re having to go through this!! You are an amazing woman who WILL always land on your feet! Cry when you need to but also remember to keep smiling and believe in yourself…you got this!!😊
Loved your book and the remodeling is BEAUTIFUL! You are a blessing to us all. Thank you.
I’m so sorry!! Here I was thinking you were off living a dream life because of your success… it just goes to show we never know what someone is going through. I’m glad to see you back here, and your room/ bathroom are stunning!
Oh I'm sorry! Be good to yourself and take care of yourself! Good to hear you're in therapy! That'll help and thumbs up for the decorations! All the Best Wishes to you & good luck ❤
The bathroom looks amazing! It definitely reflects your personal style! I really hope therapy helps you with what your feeling and experiencing. You have nothing to be ashamed about!
Nurse Hadley, I lost my husband in October. He was in hospice, which drew me to your channel. I don't know how to be alone either. But you're crushing it! Much love to you ❤
God is with you, He will never leave you nor forsake you ❤…. Peace, Blessings and Love I send to you 😊
I’m so sorry you have to go through this, Hadley! You’re such a beautiful and kind person inside and out, and I hope you know how much you inspire others and brighten everyone’s day!! Sending you so much love and well wishes during this transformational period, and we’ll be here for you through it all❤️
Hadley, I’m so sorry❤️ No need to be ashamed. Thanks for being an example of self care. God knows nurses need that more than anyone!💖💖💖
Remodel looks great. Keep making things your own.
Seconded! ❤
🎉good job Nurse Hadley!!!
It's beautiful; I like your taste. I hope you find comfort in your new life soon.
You are such an inspiration. Brave, strong, resilient, compassionate. You’ve been the silver lining for so many; it’s wonderful to see you finding that within yourself, for yourself. “Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out.” Reminds me of you. ❤️ sending you well wishes. Thanks for sharing your journey with us.
There is NO SHAME! You are brilliant and Strong!!! Some choices don't belong to us, it's just what needs to be.
Great job on the renovation. It is YOU creating your HOME! Congratulations on such a beautiful job completed!!!
I did this almost 5 years ago and as hard as it was, it is the best thing I’ve ever done for myself and my daughters. I also bought and renovated our house and it feels like mine now 🥰 I have never been happier or more proud of myself. I also bought your book a few months ago, and I want you to know that I loved it and could not put it down! Hang in there, mama 🤗
A brilliant way to start an alone phase. Clearing space for your next phase. Thanks for trusting us with your new set up! 💝
❤ It is absolutely gorgeous. You are not alone, not really. Hang in there, and good for you for having such a beautiful project completed
Everything looks beautiful!! I was married for 18 years and had to learn how to live alone. You've got this, girl!! Just keep building that beautiful house to your dream perfection ❤❤❤
Oh, sweet Hadley! I’m so sorry you are having a hard time. 😢 Sometimes a “project” can be a good distractor when you are going through a difficult season, as well as deliver a great sense of satisfaction when completed. I will pray for peace and strength for you.❤ PS. Your redecorating turned out fantastic!
I was a single Mom once. May God heal you from the loss of your marriage. ❤ I find comfort in reading short bits of scripture out loud over and over again until I feel like it sinks into my heart. I have no idea what is best for you but I pray you will have peace, comfort, and people who love you all around you.
Honey, you are not alone. Your community is here for you. Your place looks amazing. I remember my parents first home. My father redid it room by room (old home too), one room in the spring, one room in the fall. Never in the winter, not in Canada. 🙂 And likewise, not in the summer, too hot. Please come see us whenever you need us. Someone will always be here for you. Love from Canada.
I love it! Absolutely perfect! That's my dream house too!
I don't know how to be alone either. My husband is very sick with cancer and I'm very scared. I've been with him since I was 17, and I'm 56.
It is BEAUTIFUL, Hadley! The attention to detail is immaculate. Sending you the warmest of hugs and I appreciate you letting us into your life as I know it is not easy sharing difficult details. I am seeing your video at a time where I am also struggling to find comfort being alone.
Great renovation = Great Therapy! Congratulations on a wonderful new chapter of your life. Cheers
Nurse Hadley! I just finished your book a few months ago! I am sorry to hear you’re going through a hard time but I sincerely appreciate your authenticity and I think your home renovations are beautiful and I’m glad you are proud of them and that they make you happy. I hope you continue to heal and that all of you will be happy, whatever that looks like!! I learned so much from you. Thank you for sharing your experiences, honoring your patient’s stories and teaching us in the process. ❤️❤️❤️
I am going through this too first time in adulthood being alone at thirty one and separated. Very hard period of time but ultimately a season for massive growth and freedom sending you so much love.
You have nothing to be ashamed of! My parents are divorced and although it was hard for everyone at the time with me and my sister both being under 3, my whole family has come through 🕊️. You and your family will get through this!!You’re in my prayers!
You are such a beacon of light, thank you for your honest vulnerability and being an example of how we can take steps forward through hard times. I loved your book and bought it for my mom for Christmas. It helped us bond and warmed our hearts. I hope you're kind to yourself and remember that you have a gift for connecting with others. You are capable of such incredible things.
You’re awesome. Thank you for sharing your stories and life lessons with us! ❤
Nothing to be ashamed of. Please take good care of yourself.
Remodel is gorgeous.
God bless ❤
Bless your heart. You’re doing great. ❤
Girl!!! You are amazing. Spending time pouring into yourself is the best THING you can ever do!
So many of your videos make me shead a tear. Now I am crying like a baby. You are so amazing I have lost a bunch of my friends and family and you have made it a lot easier. I wish that this message is a blessing because you are one of the good ones. Thank you
Bless you and thank you for sharing! I truly appreciate the work you do, thank you thank you thank you!
Im so sorry to hear this. My husband of 33 years left during our homes reno 6 years ago and im finally in a place I can start working on it. As for being alone, its not easy but I realized I never felt more alone than when I was in the same room with him. You got this. Hugs and prayers for you ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your journey! I am in a similar one and it helps to hear other women’s stories. You are doing amazing!!!
Wow that bathroom is so beautiful!!
I'm sorry you have to go through that, I'm sending you the biggest hug ever ❤❤❤ You are my favorite online nurse ❤❤❤
Great job Hadley! It looks amazing. You are right where you are supposed to be, and you aren't alone. We followers love you!
I love love the renovation and everything you do and share! Hold fast on your new start. As many have said, you are not alone. ❤
So sorry for your pain and sending love. ❤ You make encouraging videos. Thank you!
What you’re going through is hard, the changes you’re making to your home are beautiful and the fact that you’re seeking counselling is incredible. Thank you for sharing, your story helps others going through their own battles. I do pray your journey gets easier for you, you are a truly beautiful human being 🤗.
I got divorced a little over 10yrs ago. It's a lot of changes & it sucks. But finding yourself in the aftermath is one of the amazing benefits! So, I am truly sorry, but also, congratulations! Don't be ashamed of it, or of being yourself! You deserve to be You & Happy (I think that is why we come here. Well, one reason). I am buying a house now, after 10yrs, & finally going to have a place that's truly mine, & it is so amazing! (But it also took me more than 2yrs to find the right place & I had to do a lot of letting go.) Give yourself grace, & remember that it is ok to love yourself
Absolutely beautiful remodel. Since becoming a hospice nurse, your view of the regular world has changed and expanded. And sometimes those around us are not meant to come along on your journey. Being with yourself takes time but it is so worth it.
Oh Hadley. You are seriously so kind and sweet. I am so sorry your going through this ❤ your bathroom looks amazing- feels like such a beautiful, peaceful, cozy safehaven
You are never alone...God is always with you. He will keep you safe and protect you. I hope you belong to a good God centered church. Please keep your faith. You and your daughter will get thru this.
Someone in Texas will be praying for you and your daughter. God bless...
It is so beautiful. Great job. Stay positive and never lose faith. Your videos have helped me so much. You truly are amazing.
I Love Your videos and the compassion you show people during their last moments on earth. You are truly a beautiful soul. I'm sorry you are going through this divorce, I know how hard it can be. I lived with my partner for almost 6 years and it ended really badly and he left me for someone else. It took a long time to get through it all but as time went on it got easier and easier. It is like mourning a death, there is an entire grief process, you are grieving the person you were with, the relationship, and the future you thought you had together. Be easy on yourself and let the stages go as quickly or as slowly as it takes. It does get easier. Over time I've realized he was not the person I wanted to be with for the rest of my Life and I'm a stronger and better person now without him. And please know you are never truly alone, you have your children and you have many spirits looking out for you along your journey! Thank You for all the compassion you put out there into this World!
Yup Still think so. I love your smile. It lights up a room. So beautiful.
As a hospice CHA i fully understand your feelings of your new newness. Dealing with patients is challenging enough but going thru what you’re going thru adds to it. Keep projects to occupy your time and prayer to protect your heart and mind. 🙏🏾
I am so sorry to hear about your divorce. I didn’t understand the reason things where happening when my ex and I divorced, but I am a true believer things happen for a reason. 7 yrs after our split, my Dad needed help due to Parkinson’s and dementia. Had I still been married, he never would have moved in with me. It took time, but I was so thankful to be able to care for my Dad.
Loving what you are doing with your space, making it your own. You are a multitalented woman!
What gorgeous taste you have. Love the redecorating. You’re going to ROCK being on your own. Being on my own after my husband’s death was the most enlightening journey. I learned who I was and to be my own best friend whom I dearly love, care for, enjoy and treasure. What doesn’t kill us will make us stronger. ❤
Love the new layout and that has to be SO therapeutic for you!!!! Stay strong!!!!!
Hang in there Nurse Hadley! The bedroom renovation was awesome! It's not easy being single/alone. Over time, you will learn to embrace "alone" time with projects, reading, meditation, exercise, walks, coffee/tea at a local place. There is a whole world waiting for you to join in!
I loved your book, thank you for writing it. I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through a difficult time. Focusing on yourself and your children will help you cope and learn more about yourself as you thrive.❤
When you started crying, you got me good. Please don't feel shame, sadly these things do happen, no need to put yourself through more anguish. I'm so sorry, this is a tough transition so be kind to yourself. Being alone can be hard, no one really teaches you how to navigate that, but hopefully it's a great opportunity to learn a bit more about yourself. Gorgeous bathroom! Absolutely love it.
I'm so sorry girl! Sending you love and light! You are an amazing person! ❤
I have been through it, and I had to learn how to be alone. I wish someone had told me that if I didn't fight it, and just accepted that "I'm doing my own thing today"... the sooner I would be ok with being alone. And it might take some time, but just know that fact is there, your future holds a good mood during alone times for you. Big hugs, you can do this!
Aww I’m so sorry for you, praying for too. Love the choices you picked. We are here rooting for you.
Gorgeous!!! Wishing you many blessings in this new chapter of your life. 🙏🏻💖
That redecorating you did is gorgeous!!!!!
Can’t thank you enough for all you share and your channel. I’m so sorry for what you’re going through 😢💕
That space is so you!!! The bedroom as well as the bath are beautiful! Sorry for what you are going thru, it’s definitely not easy for sure. Can’t wait to see what ya do with the rest of the house !❤
Sending love and blessings your way! You got this girl!
It’s beautiful! I was just thinking about you the other day when I picked your book up to read again. I thought CZcams and tiktok had unsubscribed me. Your community is here for you..❤️
Sorry to hear Hadley. your truly amazing and can do it. I enjoy watching your videos, and have read your book an it was amazing, you can do this you have got this.
I am so glad you're walking forward. My heart goes out to you. You're such a beautiful soul. Walk forward fast and grab all the beauty and love ahead of you and your daughter.
I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. This video resonated with me deeply. I said and felt all these things 5 years ago. You can do this. I hope you feel supported. Wishing you peace and pride in your updated life 💜
Very beautiful work! I just lost my husband to cancer and learning to be alone is difficult. He died on May 4 a few days after we moved in to our new home and he was the organizer so yes I am lost! I will follow your example and get so psychological therapy! I true enjoy your videos as they helped prepare me for his passing. Just like the song Pink sings….your still you and no one can take that away! Take care ❤️❤️
I would think that it would be difficult for someone in your line of work to stay positive. It helps me to always try to remember that everyone you know is fighting a battle none of us knows anything about … so, always try to be keep positive. I suggest taying busy and be with friends. I can tell you are doing your best to keep your chin up, and always stay in the light. BTW, I think your Improvements look fantastic - The DIY folks have nothing on you! Nice Job!
Watching you go through the same thing I’m going through gives me so much hope. Keep doing what you’re doing. We love you.
It looks beautiful Hadley. BTW being alone is okay. Its okay to explore who you are and what you like. I spent a year getting to know myself in my 30's since I had never been alone until then. That scene in runaway bride about figuring out what kind of eggs you like was an epiphany for me, I knew I had to get to know what the real me was before I ever was in a relationship again. It was the best advise I had ever given myself. I pray for good things in your life.
Wow your bathroom is absolutely stunning!! I just commented on your most recent video saying I didn’t know about the divorce & then saw that I hadn’t seen this video yet. Like I said in the other comment section, you have a massive community of people to support you! You aren’t alone, you have friends all over the country and all over the world through your platform! & don’t think of this as being alone, take this time for yourself to do all of the things you’ve always wanted to do but felt held back by a partner or the potential of being a burden. Take this time as an opportunity to make new friends, become comfortable with not being alone, but being with yourself! Treat yourself with love and compassion and I know you will get through this! ❤
It looks beautiful!!! ❤ Hey…I know how hard being alone can be, but there is something so precious and healing about aloneness - we get to figure out who we are deep within and how we want to approach the world. Huge hugs…