My Partner Always Blames Me | Relationship Q&A

"Nothing I do is right, not good enough. I do my best but it seems it's never enough."
Do you feel that way much of the time with your partner, your mother, or a boss? Not just occasionally, but most of the time?
Strange as it sounds, Hijackals don't sit up at night trying to think how to rake you over the coals and make you feel not good enough.
It's just how they think and react in the world.
They learned early on that the world is a very unsafe place and they need to be both offensive and defensive if they are going to survive. That's a difficult way to live, and deserving of compassion.
It is absolutely imperative, though, that you neither condone or enable their behavior.
A full-blown Hijackal needs to feel in control and in charge at all times. It is a need: s/he is hugely anxious when not feeling in control. And, s/he will also up the ante in a heartbeat to regain and maintain control.
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* * Remember, narcissists and other toxic people come in all genders and ages * *
and toxic relationships can be at home, at work, at play... with your parent, boss, spouse, sibling, friend, co-worker.
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