How I'm Getting Through Stalking & Depression
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Hi! My name is Jina Kim, and I was born and raised in Korea. I'd like to introduce some locations to visit to you guys along with some tips about Korean culture. I hope you can enjoy traveling to Korea with my videos!
Never be ashamed of who you are.
We all think you are cool as fuck.
That's why we are all here, and that's why we will always be here to cheer you up! 💪
Aww thank you so much ❤ it means a lot to me
Jina, stay safe and be happy. I wish this deranged person would disappear. You deserve to have a happy life free of the stress of this person's acts. Remember, all of us who follow you, love and care about you.
You are a strong woman to admit depression, sadness, etc. You are not alone... Surround yourself w/good family & friends to help uplift you during difficult times...
I’m so sorry Jina, I know you’re a strong woman, but all people have their max limits, please take care and remember we all care about you! You’ve got this sunshine!
As for depression…it’s hard thing to pinpoint and make better because not all days are the same but we believe in you! You can do your best! And even if you don’t, it’s okay because we will always support you if you need a shoulder to rest on! You’ve got this! W
This exactly my process, I was going through depression for 5 years to the point I didn't want to speak or meet ANYONE, no social events, gatherings or even with friends. However, I said the same thing as Jina, I NEED to love myself first before I can love anyone else, so I FORCED myself to the gym, now, got into Kpop and that made me soooo much happier and better, mentally, and after 3 years of that, depressions gone, still at the gym and ready to date hopefully next year. It's all about time, patience and determination.
Kpop makes everyone happy! Unless the idols are unhappy...
I've been following for a few yrs now and can relate to some of what you go through because I am the same age. It can be very overwhelming trying to make it career wise, let alone relationship wise and I am always proud when I see your successes. Keep going Jina, we believe in you!
Thanks a lot for your comment! My heart became so warm ❤
Hi Jina, I am glad you feel better. I am so sorry about that person. I hope the authorities will do something soon. Fighting ❤
Jina, you look fantastic. You are so genuine and honest and I think that's one of the many reasons people are drawn to you. Delighted to hear you are feeling good at the moment. One day at a time.
Yes!! I’m trying to be okay everyday. Thanks a lot ❤
Hi Jina - always look over your shoulder, be aware of your surroundings, when you walk home, if possible, take a different way home each time to confuse the stalker, obviously, try your best for now not to walk outside by yourself at night. There is only one Jina!
Be safe!
No matter what happens or what you’re going through- don’t ever be afraid to share your true feelings or thoughts. Every subscriber who’s made it this far with you genuinely loves you and cares about you. In some ways we’re like your family. You’re never alone and we’ll always be here with you till the end no matter what. ❤
As for your stalker; as someone who’s friend is also a Korean female and was stalked by her American-military ex boyfriend, if you can, do not stop reporting him to the authorities over in Germany or wherever he lives, even if you have to get a local who lives there to help report him for you. This man has been doing this to you for years and is deranged and mentally unstable. Also don’t stop informing us about him too. We’ve always got your back and will always be here to support you. We love you and hope you stay safe and healthy. I wish there was more that i could do.❤
😇 😢 All well said! Basically summarizes what I wanted also to say. Definitely, will support and be there for Jina!
Glad to hear you are feeling better Jina!! Sending you much love from the UK ☺. Everything will fall into place, just keep going!!!
Thank you for being genuine! Glad you are feeling happier in your routine ❤️
Unnie I'm also going through depression for so long,,So I don't know how can I comfort you But You're so amazing whenever I watch your videos I get positive vibes I hope You soon recover from depression ,,Nd be healthy and happy nd just do whatever you like ❤❤🙌
Thanks for sharing your experience. I hope everything goes okay with you, too ❤
😊thx
Hey Jina love from india. U r always an amazing person❤
Hi Jina, you are such a positive person!😊 ..to get rid of your stalker one measure would be not to mention him anymore publically. He generates negative energy out of your pain and continues. To cut this vicious circle it would be better not to "feed "him publically any further.....pity that this happens to you😵 ...you will make it😊
Yay Jina! Glad you're on the up! Love from the UK xxx
Jina, I wish I had some sort of helpful advice but I know that everyone has been sending you ideas and I'm sure one more won't help. I know that helpless feeling and I can only send my love and support and I am always here if you need to talk - as I'm sure all of your followers are! ❤
Hi Jina, it’s been awhile since I visited your channel because most of my time is spent taking care of sick family members. Thank you for the update and stay safe -stalker situation is horrible but glad you continue to move forward. Always appreciate your honesty about how you feel.
Jina, we ❤️ you and will always support you . When u do not update us, I personally begin to worry. Take care of yourself, dear . Everything is going to be ok. You look beautiful . Good things always come to good people . One of them is definitely, you .
Thanks always for your support! ❤❤❤ I will keep that in mind 😊
This hurts my heart 💔. I wish I could help. Please stay safe Jina, we love you. I hope things get better ❤
Love you Jina. Best wishes to you.
I really appreciate your transparency and progression of how things don’t stay at the low moment of fear.
Being in action with the current moment is always the best way to set ourselves up for success
Love you Jina! Although you didn't meet a suitable guy yet, I feel quite positive that you will. I see how much you grow, become more mature and confident so surely you will find someone good for you. Much love. Hope the stalker situation is solved soon too!!
It’s great that you’re doing well and trying so many different things! You’re doing things right I think. Definitely agree with dating yourself, I do the same ☺️✨ good food and good times for you 😄
Everything will be ok, it’ll all work out 😊 Don’t blame yourself for what someone else does like this
i love your honesty in your videos. please takecare and always remember to love yourself. you are deserving of it. ❤❤❤ stay happy xo
Glad that you're doing so well, Gina. Keep it up and maybe one day you'll not have to feel like you're on the run.
Jina, I watched your video to the end. Certain things are very annoying , but you have to ignore them. Happy moving to your new place ❤️
Hey Jina, i’m coping through as well. Been keeping myself busy and spending time alone too. But, i agree sometimes it hits rock bottom and i feel sad and all those negative emotions strongly.
❤ I know how hard it is… To keep coping through and in it trying to be happy. We will overcome this. Better days are ahead, for sure. 💗💗
I pray for you, May God bless you and keep you safe!
Jina, stop calling him *your* stalker. That person could be getting off on the attention. Dont call the stalker yours. That person probably very mentally ill and could get into delusions. He's a shitty person. Call him that. Hope you're safe and hopefully brighter times will come. You deserve to be happy and free of this person!
Jinaaaaaaa I am happy you feel better!!! Recover well
I wish there were more ways to get protection against stalkers. It seem like the technology world is evolving, but not the policies or laws. Jina you're a strong woman, sending you love~
I live in Germany, can I help you somehow with that stalker? I’m sorry to hear that :(
Stay strong Gina, I hope so much that terrible drama ends soon, he’s stalking you already for so long and it’s do scary what he types
Hi Jina,
i suggest you strating therapy : a psychologist and/or a hypnotherapist, i think it will help you a lot.
Therapy is not only for "crazy people" it can help you with self esteem, confidence, belief....etc. it will help you handle the stalker situation.
And why not trying to met men through hobbies. You can start taking class to learn swiming or golf class.
I think you need to meet more people in real life.
You are brave Jina 💚💚💚.
PS: Maybe considering going to germany and taking a lawyer there will be more effective.
Jina, you are an amazing person and so down to earth. Just continue to keep yourself active and take one day at a time, and live in the moment. We have to love ourselves before we can love others so spend quality time with yourself and don't worry about being alone during this phase of your life. Believe me I can relate to you on this topic. The right man will enter your life when you least expect it, isn't it funny how these things workout in life. It is very unfortunate that you have this mentally ill individual stalking you. Just remember we are the thinker of our thoughts so don't give attention to those thoughts that will send us to the emotional dumpster. It is a hard habit to kick but it can be done. We Have Your Back!
Wow, such strange encounters and experiences
Hi Jina you are such a kind and positive person. Easier said than done but try not to let the stalker see you stressed out he is feeding off your pain and depression. Stay strong, sending hugs to you. ❤ 🤗
안돼요, don't unfollow anyone 🙃. This is exactly what he wants anyway, 알잖아요 😅🤔? Complete and total isolation. That said, I'm glad you found something that melts the stresses away, even if it's for an hour or two 🙂. You'll get through this 😄. 힘내세요 😊. Much love 🩵🩵. 화이팅 💪🏼!
I wish you wellness. I’m your supporter, here in Canada
Jina you are such a beautiful person. I pray Allah keeps you safe and guided.
OMG! You are like my twin But you are much hard working person than i am. I swear i roughly get depressed around same time as you and have similar issues with the guys I meet...And just realised I need to focus on improving my relationship with myself and enjoy my own com😢before meeting someone new like 2 months ago. You are younger than me but you inspire so much Kim Jina .
That bastard stalking u will do something stupid and ruin himself when least expect it. It Not your fault Jina . Criminal do crime for their own stupid selfish reasons
Im going to Seoul Korea in Oct, if i like it, i will be living and working there... Hope to meet people like you. Enjoy for videos... glad you doing great
Jinaaaaaaa love youuu💗
Love you too!! ❤
You are great. All of us are great. Its up to other people to see how great we are. Just be contented in what you have.
You are dealing with a lot so you have a right to feel just exhausted with life. Your family are amazing though so hang in there.x
Don't worry sister all gona be fine
We know that you are a brave and lovely girl so you always be prepare for facing all the problems
Love from India,Odisha❤
You look so cute. Stylish as always Ms Gina Kim. ❤
Hey Jina. Little late to the video but firstly,
I'm so sorry you're dealing wirh a stalker. Do not give up. Your real friends and family should stick by you. I know some people might think this is a consequence of being an influencer but it's not.
You have fans like me who don't know you really willing to do whatever is necessary to help you. You need a lawyer, we will help fund it. Seriously. That's no joke.
As for dating. Just started trying again myself. It's been almost 7 years since I stopped. Take a break, love yourself, AND know that you deserve a healthy, well communicating partner. It's truly cringe what you've dealt with on dates but, if you'd like a romance unfortunately we gotta keep trying. So when you decide you're ready (if you do) don't lose hope.
Anyway, your friendly foriegner fan in Busan wishes you well. Thanks for all your hard work.
You are an amazing woman.
You are so strong Jina.파이팅...
I wish you Luck
Hello Ms Jina. Be safe and well. Please try to stay calm and don't get depressed. You half one life so try to be happy.
There is only one thing you got wrong. Nothing of this is because of you, it's esclusively because of him. You have enough on your plate already without guilt tripping yourself about something you have no control over. It doesn't make it any less stressful, but it's nto fair to yourself to say it's "because of you"
OMG!!! Congrats on your new family member! Cute little nephew! I remember when my brother's kids were that age.
Now they are in university! Where does the time go?!
don't let your stalker win~ keep fighting you can do this..
Love the outfit❤
Jina you looks so pretty 💙💙❤️🥰
Thanks 😂❤
Jina! I'm so sorry that this guy still sending u dead threat, stalking and harassing you. This is crazy. I don't understand why the law allow this. This is even worst bec he can do it from anywhere. It is hard to be a public person and do what you do and still have to handle all of this aside. Hard for it doesn't affect you mentally and physically besides your other stress. I really hope he get jail time and leave you peace. I feel bad that you scare that your friends and acquaintance get attack as well. Crazy how he has the time and money to do all of this. Stay safe and we love you!!
About the stalker: what you can do is hire a team of detectives to get legal proof you're being stalked (pictures, videos, etc). That way you can go to court and get a law enforcement on the guy, so that he stops by law. If you do hire them, don't share it on the channel (basic stuff sometimes has to be mentioned).
If I were you I'd buy a new, cheap phone and contact the detectives through that phone, so that nobody knows. 😘
PS: Have you thought about changing phone number, phone, passwords, pc, etc? Not sure if he managed to hack your phone through a message containing a link, picture, etc.
Jina! my ex-gf is stalking me like crazy, she paid some guy to come beat me up. she never goes away and the worst part is her parents are multi-millionaires they bail her out of everything.
was kind of expecting a solution or you asking people for advice - i hope you're situation is better 🤎
Hey Gina, no need to feel ashamed! We all love you
Merci, get well son, positive thinking
I am so sorry this is happening. Don't give up. He is trying to wear you down. I wish he could be admitted to a mental institution for the rest of his life so he could leave you alone.
i love u jina
Wonderful 😊😊😊
Congratulations jina Learning , Japanese
Jina you look radiating, I'm so sorry to hear that this man is so evil. This is definitely not your fault. Are you able to take legal action because of him contacting you? I hope things will be looking up for you.
Just want to wish you well.😊 I have been bingewatching some of your videos today and you seem like a really great and caring person, so it is sad that you are going through all that you are. I am not a creative person, but I think it is wonderful that you and other you tubers are, (not discounting your other platforms). I hope your depression improves soon, though I know it is a long journey.😢
As for your stalker, he makes me sorry I am a male too, he and all other men who do such things are pathetic. Hopefully he will encounter a bit of karma or drop dead soon. And please dont keep blaming your self for the things that creep does, you don't deserve that.
I can see that you get a lot of positive support from your subcribers, and now you get somemore from Hoju.😅 Be well, and be happy, we need more happy in this world.😂 Annyeong.
Every time Jina says "I dated Five Guys" the image in my head is Jina having a date with a cheeseburger. 😅🤣
❤❤ much love to you .... 🤗🤗🤗
Thanks a lot ❤❤❤
My experience with them was before following you. He specifically targets Asian people. He made a fake account “the8thelosin” to impersonate me and accusing me of pedophile. He literally tried to video call me
You look much better, but then you always look good ... but you look like you feeling yourself again. Happy you are learning Japanese and is helping u switch off
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And this is for the second part: NO it is NOT BC OF YOU. It is bc of that man harrasing you. Dont blame yourself for that.
The problems with the stalker. Is not your fault.
Your glasses are cool. What is the name of the frame.
Hi Jina, I share some similarities with you and I think you are doing exactly the right thing… come to peace with yourself. I am taking an opportunity to work on myself too, alone, on lots of different levels. Everyone is different so different techniques work across people. Explore and find a way that suits you! Good luck! If you’re interested I can share what works for me. Cheers, Greg 🕉️
Your oufit is cute btw
Take care
애기 so cute 🥰
ONCEbittenTWICWshyshy says it prefect, And for your stalker there is a city bus with his name on it, and PS Looking so beautiful as always girl. Stay Health and safe Jina ❤️🤗😊
You can find healing and restoration in God who loves you and wants you to see you happy and healthy in every aspect and situation you may be facing❤
He is got you and everyone going through this as well
It's cool you can forget everything else when you study Japanese. I wish I could focus like that studying Korean. To me, that's a super-power. I always forget what I learned in two days.
From the Catholic Saint Bible of Jerusalem: A prayer in Psalm 91, it says:
You who live in the secret place of Elyon, spend your nights in the shelter of Shaddai, saying to Yahweh, 'My refuge, my fortress, my God in whom I trust!' He rescues you from the snare of the fowler set on destruction; he covers you with his pinions, you find shelter under his wings. His constancy is shield and protection. You need not fear the terrors of night, the arrow that flies in the daytime, the plague that stalks in the darkness, the scourge that wreaks havoc at high noon. Though a thousand fall at your side, ten thousand at your right hand, you yourself will remain unscathed. You have only to keep your eyes open to see how the wicked are repaid, you who say, 'Yahweh my refuge!' and make Elyon your fortress. No disaster can overtake you, no plague come near your tent; he has given his angels orders about you to guard you wherever you go. They will carry you in their arms in case you trip over a stone. You will walk upon wild beast and adder, you will trample young lions and snakes. 'Since he clings to me I rescue him, I raise him high, since he acknowledges my name. He calls to me and I answer him: in distress I am at his side, I rescue him and bring him honour. I shall satisfy him with long life, and grant him to see my salvation.'
comment: say it everysingle day with Faith. Do not doubt you have God that will protect you.
Just ask all your friends and followers to ignore the death threats, your stalker will not dare to come to Korea to kill them anyway. Create other IG private account without using your real name and profile photo only for all your friends.
I mean Jina you expect so much from guys... they are just like that and you are just too smart. When you become smart enough you cannot accept men's conditions and they just look stupid that's the reality. Im same age than you and i can relate to how you are feeling about life in general. We have really no much hopes for the future but we still have to live and enjoy our lives.
Do vlog in chicago
Honey, if this guy contacted you after he signed the cease and desist, you can report this to the police and he might get jail time for it!!
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u love making tiktok videos now i will follow you 💗
Cute baby
Clean your room, clean room clean mind . I found it helped with depression
Stalking is pretty serious, you never know what these ppl are up to. Always be careful, carry bear spray or even a pen, always tell people where your at
oh ur right i also have depression so it's more challenging to find a partner for us
yeah gin
So did this stalking start ever since you did that dating series a while ago? It’s pretty ridiculous considering the potential risks other CZcamsrs are taking when going on blind dates with random people from the internet. It’s like as soon as they do that they invite the worst the Internet has to offer.
When you have time, maybe you can listen to self help videos. Leo Skepi gives good advices. "How to be OK alone" etc.
Feel better, take care.
15:24 sound like rhyme😅
Anyone who stalks or hurt Jina, they will get a taste of my falcon punch!!!!!!!!!!!
are you ok?
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