How to be Happy [Even If You've Forgotten What it Feels Like]

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  • How to be happy by using the science of happiness. Try these tips to boost your happiness levels instantly and for life.
    This knowledge is for students or non-students of any age who want to know how to take control of their feelings and create more fulfillment and satisfaction in their life.
    To build skills for a happier life, visit Happify at hpfy.co/2nJWYF2 or grab their iPhone app (hpfy.co/1HfypCP) or Android app(hpfy.co/1MqykvR).
    This video is a collaboration between the wonderful team at Happify (www.happify.com/) and Memorize Academy (www.memorize.academy/)
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Komentáře • 192

  • @MemorizeAcademy
    @MemorizeAcademy  Před 7 lety +65

    If you thought this video was valuable, please give it a thumbs up and leave a comment - then other people will know it's worth watching too!

    • @naveenkumars1110
      @naveenkumars1110 Před 7 lety +1

      One of the best videos i have ever seen on internet soprb , osm and energetic.Luv a lot ;) Keep doing this guyss. #Spread_Happyness

    • @melissarosario6176
      @melissarosario6176 Před 7 lety

      Memorize Academy this make great sense great video 😄😄😄😄

    • @thoavu7497
      @thoavu7497 Před 5 lety

      Awesome :) it's also make me feel happier too ^^

    • @marilynbungar9242
      @marilynbungar9242 Před 2 lety

      happy songs

    • @foreverazalean
      @foreverazalean Před 10 měsíci

      The videl is a garbage. Im only here because of my school

  • @dayanespinoza472
    @dayanespinoza472 Před 6 lety +38

    Happiness goes beyond being positive, it's more about having an invincible and unshakable mind.

  • @snowballandpals
    @snowballandpals Před 3 lety +15

    Health plays a big part in happiness too. Eat healthy and exercise regularly and you will automatically feel better!

  • @Bihgazisvepickice1
    @Bihgazisvepickice1 Před 3 lety +4

    Being grateful everyday (pick at least 3 things you are grateful for) and doing exercise of any kind daily (yoga, walking, lifting, etc) that just takes 15 to 30 minutes will improve happiness

  • @kirstencooley5447
    @kirstencooley5447 Před 3 lety +6

    I feel this video is on target. Happiness is an important element in life. Many people rely on resources to bring happiness.I feel it comes from within and how one takes care of themselves. When a person is healthy, it can bring upon happiness. I am a happier person than I once was as I have taken steps to improve my well-being. I have set boundaries and practice self-care. I feel I can become happier using additional tools presented in this video.

  • @iamannego
    @iamannego Před 7 lety +5

    Of all the "how-to-achieve-happiness" advice videos i have watched. THIS IS THE MOST HELPFUL!! Made sense because of the reality that is happening around us

  • @aanchaltrivedi4316
    @aanchaltrivedi4316 Před 5 lety +6

    I've never thought of happiness as a skill. It's neat to think of it that way.

  • @bot8324
    @bot8324 Před 4 lety +5

    if you can have control over your thoughts and emotions, you'd be very surprised to see how much impact it can have over your happiness. the best way that i recommend is meditation. starting with 5 minutes everyday and then 10 minutes and more later on you will be way more happier and in peace with yourself. consistency is the key.

  • @syroneenriquez1026
    @syroneenriquez1026 Před 7 lety +5

    I'm not feeling well today and this video notified me. What a coincidence it is! Thanks for the vid!

  • @mushahid3253
    @mushahid3253 Před 6 lety +4

    I am writing book on happiness! and I found this video very very true! I appreciate the Memorize Academy for making such a Great Vido! Love from Pakistan

  • @annfoster465
    @annfoster465 Před 6 lety +7

    Feeling happy just by watching this.

  • @eallae
    @eallae Před 7 lety +6

    "avoid having a lack of close friendships"
    yeah but what if you're trying your best everyday and people still hate you or dump you after they've used you.

    • @douaz6905
      @douaz6905 Před 7 lety +2

      lae1819 you just didn't meet the right people yet.. good luck! don't give up and stay true to yourself ^^

    • @michellesapisces8349
      @michellesapisces8349 Před 7 lety +5

      lae1819 it's especially hard when you have social anxiety :/

    • @alextint5987
      @alextint5987 Před 4 lety

      It feels like the negative people are easy to find and the best people are far away

  • @migueldelgado6652
    @migueldelgado6652 Před 7 lety +5

    I really like the video, it is very instructive. I am a Catholic and it have help to cope with the worst moments of my life. Also I have learned how to be a better person in life because most of the tips presented here are the base of my faith. My ultimate goal is being my best and the happier I can be loving God, myself and the people that surround me. Cheers to everyone love you all. :-)

  • @george_wbranchaud_jr2211
    @george_wbranchaud_jr2211 Před 6 lety +4

    An option to sending someone a "Thank You" email would be writing them a note by hand and sending it to them. Your words in your own handwriting will mean more than any text on a computer screen.

    • @MemorizeAcademy
      @MemorizeAcademy  Před 6 lety

      Definitely! That's such an easy way to make someone's day :)

  • @xPixel
    @xPixel Před 7 lety +5

    good vid to have when ur feeling down

  • @professorparker8930
    @professorparker8930 Před 6 lety +5

    This video is really helpful for my English Language Arts School work

  • @abirarsalane
    @abirarsalane Před 7 lety +6

    awesome video as ALWAYS 😍❤ i live for this channel 💙

  • @benjaminweaver5164
    @benjaminweaver5164 Před 5 lety +4

    This is some powerful info, and it explains some of what I know about me and also others I have known!

  • @xplosivjoseph8053
    @xplosivjoseph8053 Před 4 lety +4

    So helpful. Thanks!

  • @naseemashfaq7574
    @naseemashfaq7574 Před 2 lety +2

    Having a good friend too. Is helpfull. Also having a purpose in life too. And goals.

  • @priyaaloni3448
    @priyaaloni3448 Před 6 lety +3

    A great video to use in an ESL (English as a second language) class room.

  • @ayoungman4934
    @ayoungman4934 Před 5 lety +4

    Awesome.Thanks

  • @Ricky-ke5qc
    @Ricky-ke5qc Před 5 lety +3

    Thanks so much!!

  • @FEDARPrinterBrickZhang
    @FEDARPrinterBrickZhang Před 4 lety +4

    Helpful, social support is really important in people’s life, keep good relationship with our friend, family.

  • @abhishekshelke284
    @abhishekshelke284 Před 5 lety +8

    Thank u soo much man you clear my all doubts

  • @robinl.e.2936
    @robinl.e.2936 Před 6 lety +4

    This video is full, refreshingly awesome, a great reminder.

  • @Angell_Lee
    @Angell_Lee Před 3 lety +4

    Great video, thank you so much for all your hardwork!

  • @NancySolariLivingFullOut
    @NancySolariLivingFullOut Před 6 lety +7

    Thank you for making this video! Taking the time to teach the public about positive psychology is a wonderful thing to do. Education is the power each of us need to be happy and live full out!

    • @MemorizeAcademy
      @MemorizeAcademy  Před 6 lety +1

      You're welcome Nancy. Thanks for watching and commenting :)

  • @davidalen9279
    @davidalen9279 Před 6 lety +3

    Helpful. Thank you.

  • @rabslife6109
    @rabslife6109 Před 7 lety +6

    Thanks..i was needing this kind of video:)

  • @ktcooki276
    @ktcooki276 Před 6 lety +3

    Awesome, thanks

  • @rebeccajones9757
    @rebeccajones9757 Před 2 lety +6

    My DNA gives me zero happiness, so that 40% and 10% are all I've got. I work hard at filling my gratitude journal, volunteering, and making time for my hobbies.

    • @heatherwright3953
      @heatherwright3953 Před rokem

      I have tried so many hobbies and nothing sticks so I can not even do that . I have no clue what happy feels like . I clearly am here searching out what does happy feel like just like you . I am about to just give up and just stop fighting the truth the truth is we feel sonmuch pain and darkness that we are not messed up we are a messed up response to a messed up situation this is not us broken it is us being honest . We are not to blame and had no justice given to us to give a ending to our pain others made and walked away from leaving us holding the gun in one hand and the hope of a map to the end of the pain but the X marks the spot is MIA ( Missing In Action) . So we keep searching . I hate that I am just one of the billions more abused people just like me. I am sorry .

  • @andreavonschultzendorff
    @andreavonschultzendorff Před 3 lety +3

    Excellent summary of happiness research, thank you!!!

  • @crbh4600
    @crbh4600 Před 5 lety +3

    Great video! I really enjoyed it.

  • @carmilinevc9697
    @carmilinevc9697 Před 5 lety +3

    Thank You,
    it's true in my life.

  • @johannamartinez2961
    @johannamartinez2961 Před 6 lety +3

    Fantastic, very motivating!

  • @mr.jakirhosenronnyronny4705

    Thank you

  • @TaunellE
    @TaunellE Před 5 lety +3

    Thank You ♡

  • @ikramkadimiskalli4440
    @ikramkadimiskalli4440 Před 7 lety +4

    it's really useful and awsome . It helps me to improve my English and increase increase my knowledge about the happiness . thank you very much

  • @ricardomorales3498
    @ricardomorales3498 Před rokem +1

    Thank you. The references, the visuals, this is absolutely awesome. Will use it in my EFL class.

  • @bestlifewithbecca4039
    @bestlifewithbecca4039 Před 4 lety +4

    Very interesting thank you 😊

  • @LovingVillain
    @LovingVillain Před 5 lety +13

    The hardest thing to find in life is happiness - money is only hard to find because it gets wasted trying to find happiness.

  • @JORGESANCHEZ-nv5qz
    @JORGESANCHEZ-nv5qz Před 5 lety +3

    Thanks!! tomorrow will be the happiness day, i 'll share this video with my students on 7th grade here in Honduras. Greetings

  • @bikashmahapatra1035
    @bikashmahapatra1035 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank u 😍😍👍

  • @dr.sivanagireddyemani
    @dr.sivanagireddyemani Před 3 lety +2

    great ideas to be happy.

  • @mariajoseperaza8634
    @mariajoseperaza8634 Před 7 lety +4

    Very interesting and useful, tks guys!!

  • @naveenkumars1110
    @naveenkumars1110 Před 7 lety +3

    One of the best videos i have ever seen on internet soprb , osm and energetic.Luv a lot ;) Keep doing this guyss. #Spread_Happyness

  • @caseyerin8949
    @caseyerin8949 Před 3 lety +5

    This is a fantastic video! Happiness is truly a state of mind. I started becoming happy when I focused on what I did have instead of what I didn't have. Great advice! Thank you for the video.

  • @sybilgcoleman6545
    @sybilgcoleman6545 Před 2 lety +2

    Very informative and clear delivery of all information presented.

  • @saralaclair483
    @saralaclair483 Před 6 lety +3

    Learn the details awareness 👌 awesome😎📣

  • @lilaazad6241
    @lilaazad6241 Před 6 lety +3

    very well

  • @srujanatmikatechnologies7264

    Its simply superb

  • @gracesklein2567
    @gracesklein2567 Před 2 lety +2

    Great, wise advice and I love the graphics 💖🙏

  • @amirkooshky7656
    @amirkooshky7656 Před 7 lety +2

    Awesome and potentially life changing like all other videos
    you are the first one i'll thank ;)

  • @staytuned1724
    @staytuned1724 Před 5 lety +2

    Awesome

  • @tresawill6247
    @tresawill6247 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks

  • @kowsikowsi238
    @kowsikowsi238 Před 6 lety +4

    Changed my life prespective

  • @chrislogan6403
    @chrislogan6403 Před 6 lety +3

    This video is so awesome

  • @SambitMishra153
    @SambitMishra153 Před 7 lety +5

    Very nice video. So detailedly​ explained. Animations are cool too. I can guarantee you, you are helping millions of people with this powerful and beautiful video. Keep going.

    • @MemorizeAcademy
      @MemorizeAcademy  Před 7 lety +1

      Thanks!

    • @SambitMishra153
      @SambitMishra153 Před 7 lety +2

      Memorize Academy well what I have realized is no matter what the happiness index checks and shows; happiness is a choice. A person consciously needs to choose happiness.

    • @MemorizeAcademy
      @MemorizeAcademy  Před 7 lety +5

      That's right, it requires intention and purpose. Unfortunately, most people don't think of it like that.

  • @mr.jakirhosenronnyronny4705

    I want to learn practice gratitude

  • @banirawat929
    @banirawat929 Před 5 lety +2

    Wowww thanks😊😊😊

  • @benedictadu1254
    @benedictadu1254 Před 7 lety +3

    worth it..watch it

  • @NidhiSingh-xf7yi
    @NidhiSingh-xf7yi Před 6 lety +2

    REALLY NYC N HELPFULL😍

  • @samyukthar5915
    @samyukthar5915 Před 4 lety +5

    Informative..🤙🤙

  • @subhashmodak7890
    @subhashmodak7890 Před 7 lety +2

    Thank you very much

  • @candicechildress9824
    @candicechildress9824 Před 7 lety +3

    This video is amazing! Thanks for sharing! :)

  • @ChristineEartheart
    @ChristineEartheart Před 4 lety +6

    Thanks so much for this delightfully done video! 🤗✨🙏💞

  • @jitendraitankar9722
    @jitendraitankar9722 Před 5 lety +1

    this was really good

  • @perc1393
    @perc1393 Před 3 lety +8

    is it bad that i looked up what it’s like to feel happiness

  • @emoryendres8324
    @emoryendres8324 Před 7 lety +3

    This was great! It really helped me see things for what they could be. Awesome!

  • @EllieManda
    @EllieManda Před 7 lety +2

    I love your videos! I like the fact that you talk about every day things from a scientific point of you and for my geeky self it's just so helpful and enjoyable! Keep up the good work!

    • @MemorizeAcademy
      @MemorizeAcademy  Před 7 lety +1

      Thanks Elissa, I like sharing information that's proven to be true :)

  • @simerpreetkaur4043
    @simerpreetkaur4043 Před 7 lety +2

    thank u........it really works.....!😃👍

  • @ismahenejarboui5959
    @ismahenejarboui5959 Před 6 lety +4

    thank you very much

  • @lhssenlmoutaouakil559
    @lhssenlmoutaouakil559 Před 5 lety +2

    sport specialy runing in tne morning make me so happy with a lot of his benifits !

  • @mfrabbi2
    @mfrabbi2 Před 7 lety +2

    Great video!

  • @itworld4767
    @itworld4767 Před 7 lety +2

    it is true!

  • @petermartin3268
    @petermartin3268 Před 5 lety +5

    I would love to be happy with a nice clean and tidy house

  • @banirawat929
    @banirawat929 Před 5 lety +1

    Thanks to happiness😊😊😊

  • @dileenavikas3736
    @dileenavikas3736 Před 7 lety +2

    amazing video !

  • @liyutang1462
    @liyutang1462 Před 7 lety +2

    so good!

  • @HiNinqi
    @HiNinqi Před 4 lety +2

    So, what is the word to show that which satisfies the conditions of "feeling hunky dory" 'having all the money you desire' 'not seeing the trouble in life' and 'having it last' destination'? Because those are the things I want. is there a term for that?

    • @twilightacademy25
      @twilightacademy25 Před 4 lety +2

      1) studies show that we always want more money, so we are never truly satisfied with what we have. After $75,000/year salary, we don't really see an increase in happiness.
      2) It's hard for us to enjoy and appreciate the good parts of life, when we don't experience struggle and experience what hardship is. And that hardship makes us more resilient in the end, allowing us to remain better off when more hardships occur.
      3) A lot of things we think will bring us happiness (if I get this, I will be happy) typically don't in the long run because we get used to it (hedonic adaptation). Not that we shouldn't aspire for goals, but those shouldn't be a baseline of "I'm doing this to make me happy" because then you're going to assume it will always make you happy, then you become distressed when the experience tapers off.
      I'm not saying that it's wrong to want the things you want, because even money can bring you happiness if you spend it in certain ways (i.e. helping others or you need it for basic necessities), but what you may need to think about is what is your motivation for getting those things besides "it will make me happy". For instance, if I wanted to lose weight because I wanted the perfect body type and that will make me happy, I may not feel like I ever achieve that even if I do lose the weight I want to and I may be worse off in the end. But if I wanted to lose weight because I wanted to be healthier and be able to stick around a long time for my family, and I value family and health, I will probably be much happier with my results and the process in the end.
      I hope this helps

  • @caandiiplayz918
    @caandiiplayz918 Před 4 lety +2

    Amazing, helpful video! Thank you very much! 😄👍🏻

  • @soniverse3844
    @soniverse3844 Před 6 lety +2

    Thank you man..made me happy🤗

  • @yacquubdiite3292
    @yacquubdiite3292 Před 7 lety +3

    Nice video

  • @danieladonis4519
    @danieladonis4519 Před 5 lety +1

    Please make a video on discipline
    I appreciate this video 📹 thanks

  • @simranbedi2387
    @simranbedi2387 Před 7 lety +2

    i really needed this vedio...thanku so muchhh for this vedio and i was wonderful...i will definitely follow these instructions ..

  • @caterpillar9300
    @caterpillar9300 Před 7 lety +4

    This was a brilliant and helpful video. Thanks alot! (:

  • @kennamorgan4106
    @kennamorgan4106 Před 6 lety +6

    great...

  • @uyennguyen9695
    @uyennguyen9695 Před 7 lety +1

    i really like this video

  • @bmcneil112
    @bmcneil112 Před 7 lety +3

    #Amazing

  • @phibsie6494
    @phibsie6494 Před 7 lety +3

    What a great video! Thank you :)

  • @sonjab821
    @sonjab821 Před 7 lety +2

    thank you

  • @merazulhasan402
    @merazulhasan402 Před 7 lety +3

    YUP ..... GOOD..!!!

  • @Mariofajer
    @Mariofajer Před 7 lety +2

    Thanks very much , this video sintetizes the objective of The Science of Happiness! It's amazing! . Please I have a suggestion for the people like me whose our mother language is Spanish could you subtitled ? I can help if you wish.

    • @MemorizeAcademy
      @MemorizeAcademy  Před 7 lety +1

      Hi Mario, I'd love it if you added a Spanish translation!
      You can click the option beneath the video to add your own translation. When it's approved it will then be available to everybody who'd like Spanish subtitles. And you'll be given credit in the video description too :)

    • @Mariofajer
      @Mariofajer Před 7 lety

      Yes I could do it, but you say beneath the video? I can't find it! Could you explain me?

    • @MemorizeAcademy
      @MemorizeAcademy  Před 7 lety +2

      I'm not sure what device you're using Mario, but when you view on a desktop there's a 'More' option (next to 'Share'). When you click 'More' you'll get a dropdown list that includes 'Add translations'.
      Here's the CZcams support article about it: support.google.com/youtube/answer/6054623?hl=en

  • @wangmingshuei
    @wangmingshuei Před 7 lety +2

    Thanks for sharing this video. Great and inspiring.

  • @mspinkflipflops5681
    @mspinkflipflops5681 Před 7 lety +2

    this channel is great

  • @nathancoughey1238
    @nathancoughey1238 Před 7 lety +3

    amazing video

  • @marcozuo1
    @marcozuo1 Před 7 lety

    hello to Memorize Academy, can i translate it into Chinese and give it as a course to the class of my daughter? thanks for your wonderful video.

    • @MemorizeAcademy
      @MemorizeAcademy  Před 7 lety +2

      Hi Marco, you can contribute subtitles for everyone to use by clicking this link - czcams.com/users/timedtext_video?ref=share&v=hsPpaHbvfQs
      You can embed the CZcams video on any website by choosing the 'share' options beneath the video.

    • @marcozuo1
      @marcozuo1 Před 7 lety +2

      happy to see you added the chinese subtitle.

  • @Engycation
    @Engycation Před 3 lety +1

    nice video

  • @memoriarajput
    @memoriarajput Před 7 lety +1

    buen video , voy a hacerlo en español :D