Why We Are Leaving Canada PT 2 : The Racism Problem
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Sadly racism exists in every corner of this world 😢
I am from a low-income country in Africa, and I must let you know that racism is everywhere. You are very likely to be treated fairly in Arab Middle Eastern countries ONLY because of your husband's race and your passport. So, this tells you that racism honestly is everywhere in many forms. You just have to be smart about it.
I think they know tht
I disagree. As someone who lived in Africa, the Middle East and north America, that is not the case.
I am also from low income country in Africa. I lived in two Middle East countries. I never experienced racism from the locals. From forigners? Yes!....but not from the locals!
Yeah but some place is extreme
I disagree. yeah, maybe racism is everywhere, but the degree of it is different. there's one where people may look at you a little weird, but there's another where you may lose your livelihood or even your life
I fear that if you're running from racism, you're going to spend your life running. Racism is everywhere. I hope that you find a safer place to raise your children.
While unfortunately true, some places are better than others.
Ugh this is so true 💔
They're seeking the well being of their children. I am sure,they won't leave if they didn't have children.
In the Quran, men are allowed to marry pre-pubescent girls:
Sura 65:1, 4 says:
65:1 O Prophet, when you (and the believers) divorce women, divorce them for their prescribed waiting-period and count the waiting-period accurately . . . 4 And if you are in doubt about those of your women who have despaired of menstruation, (you should know that) their waiting period is three months, and the same applies to those who have not menstruated as yet. As for pregnant women, their period ends when they have delivered their burden. (Maududi, vol. 5, pp. 599 and 617, emphasis added)@@sameerolail
That is so true, you can run all your life. If it's not religion, it's skin color. If you think in a Muslim state is no racism, you must be kidding. I have seen with my own eyes, how domestics are treated, if you think, it's perfectly alright to treat people badly, because they come from other country to work for the rich Muslim, than you are not better as the ones you point the finger on
I’m sorry for these mean responses. I’m an American Christian and this is so wrong. I follow you because I want to educate myself and thank you for sharing your lives with us. I look forward to your journey
You will find that there is racism in every country in the world. As you live in other countries you will find the real feelings of people when you are not a tourist. People always hide behind the computer when they want to make negative comments about other people and not necessarily about racism.
But if they move to an arabic country, they'll be in the majority religion and race, and white people don't face as much racism. Sure black people will experience racism, but they won't experience that so they'll be like 'wow so inclusive no racism at all'. Obviously if you're in the majority religion which is literally enforced in the laws you're probably not going to feel discrimination lmao.
I'm American but lived in Canada (Montreal) between 2001-2004. It seemed very multicultural and accepting back then. I'm sorry to hear that has changed, and you don't feel safe there. You're so right about the "keyboard warriors" and so much hate being spread online and it emboldening unstable people! At the end of the day, you have to do what's best for you family and don't listen to the haters.
My husband and I were discussing this same thing last night. It's not only racism but also ignorance too. In general, I find that the West isn't that educated or aware of the rest of the world.
Totally, how many western people know women are only woth half that of a man in Islam?
Quran Sura 2:282 says:
And let two men from among you bear witness to all such documents [contracts of loans without interest]. But if two men be not available, there should be one man and two women to bear witness so that if one of the women forgets (anything), the other may remind her. (Maududi, vol. 1, p. 205).
Westerners also don't realise women are not considered chattel in other parts of the world and therefore aren't owned by their husbands (Source: every Western woman who takes her husband's name, Vol. 0)
Because they believe they don’t need to know anyone. Everyone needs to know them and treat them
Like some mighty human beings. Even if they are living a deprived life in North America themselves.
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Qu'ran S [5:47] So let the people of the Gospel rule according to what God revealed in it. Those who do not rule according to what God revealed are the sinners.
@@wwilson4433 found the bible thumper
For myself i am an American white Christian and i have always been taught that we are not to judge. I lived for a while with a Muslim family who were very good friends of my family and i learned so much from them. I wish people could learn from others differences and stop judging what they do not understand. I love your videos and have definitely learned a lot..❤❤
يا ريت تقرأ عن الإسلام .. سوف تنبَهِر من معلومات تصلح لاستقامة جميع البشر و العيش في سعادة و راحة بال فوق الخيال بطول العُمر .. تحيًاتي .. 🌹
I definitely resonate with this as a New Zealander, because our country is almost seen as a 'little Canada' in the sense of being somewhere full of really nice, friendly people and where 'bad' things just don't happen. So much of how NZ is reported on internationally is a highlight reel of all the good moments; you hear very little about the bad. People from overseas are generally shocked to hear that yes, racism is a problem, xenophobia is a problem, etc. (I'm from Christchurch - I know this better than anyone).
Woah I wish I could like this comment more than once! Well said👏 I'm also living in Chch and reading your comment has made me feel less alone. You have no idea❤
Well, same happenned in Canada.
Wishing peace and joy in all your adventures! ❤🤲🏻
Just a thought…your current unhappiness would change when you move but as time went by you could become dissatisfied in your new life as well. There are no perfect places. Malaysia has strong ties with China. Check it out and freedoms available that could change over time. Your concerns about genocide are understandable. However, beware that wherever you go, you will face issues of one sort of another.?
As a Malaysian, I can assure you that having strong ties with China don't have anything negative implication or anything. It is good for us economically and for our safety in this region. The danger we would face is likely coming from you, The West. Historically, China never colonizes us, but it was Europeans who conquered us and messed up the whole region.
You guys are in for a culture shock. You dont realize the freedom you truly have. Youll be back and your visa onky allows a short time as well. Grass is not always greener on the other side
@@samuelrigaud6595 They will indeed. You can't run away from your life. Face it head on
Lol so salty
I'm very sorry to hear you and your friends have experienced racism. I'm an American Christian and can say it seems to be in every country. There is sin in everyone's heart and it is tearing apart the fabric of all of our communities. Stay safe and I hope you find a place you love!
This is why as a Canadian I'm sad to see you go. We need more good Canadians.
ربًنا يهديك ..لا تأذي النّاس ..هذا ليس سلوك سوِيّ ..أنت تنشر العداوة بين البشر ..تصرًفك مرض نفسي عالِجه
Good luck. Hope this test run works out. Family safety is vital. Be safe.
Greetings from Malaysia 🇲🇾
There's no perfect country on this earth but somehow I pray that you can find the best place to settle down on this planet..aamiin
I think you guys are doing the best thing for yourselves and your family. Insha'Allah you will be happy and in peace.
You guys speak the truth! Good luck on your journey!
This is inspiring and I am sorry you have to go through that.the work you do is truly inspirational and your decision is great for your situation
Good luck🤗and I’m glad you had the opportunity and resources to make this decision.
Well, not Canadian but over the past 10 years or so have seen an insane rise in racism in the USA, so suspect the same is happening in Canada. Realistically? It is your life, your families life and you need to do what is best for you! That is no ones' business but yours.
After watching your first video, I'm very sure God brought you two together for reasons beyond all of us. I also believe that your videos are 1.) a delight and 2.) an example of faithful life for every one to appreciate & learn from. (Not sure that it matters, but I say that as a Christian ;)
I am so glad to have found you and am looking forward to learning about your experiences! Thank you so much for posting!
I am concerned that the bold Statement....Of Canadians is a Blanketed statement, and I 100% hope you are able to find no Racism in your Future?!
It is a Problem that I believe exists Everywhere!
May God Bless
They're not trying to find a country with NO racism.
They're moving to a place where racism and Islamophobia aren't as rampant as in the West.
Be honest and say that you want to move to a country that has Islam as its base religion.
They can't tell the truth because it's not in them .. they have yet to admit on here that the very people they're complaining about are not welcome in Islamic countries & IF the people they're complaining about defamed their Muhammad, who's dead as a doornail, in Islamic nations we would be severely punished .. the oppressors are returning home
May God bless you and your family with the peace and liberty you search for!
I’m guessing Malaysia is your top choice for your new home. Malaysia has a racism problem too. There are several articles online addressing this issue. Sadly, racism is endemic in most countries today. On top of that, as foreigners in a new land, you may experience xenophobia as well . So while you won’t face religious discrimination in a Muslim majority country, you likely won’t be immune to other forms of discrimination and prejudice.
This case may be different for Muslims, because in Malaysia Muslims are highly respected
Yep Bangladeshis are discriminated group in Malaysia and let's not even talk about Rohingyas.
Just made-up stories from online media, the real world isn't like that at all. Those Bangladeshis are over stayed workers, mostly illegals and the Rohingyas are over stayed refugees the UN leave them unattended. There are a lot of effort from the foreign media to give us bad name.
Majority in malaysia are malays. In malaysia going into college has quotas. Not based on merits. Just one example.
Compared to Muslim countries, Malaysia is better
It's heartbreaking that your family is getting so much hate. Unfortunately, there is hate anywhere you go. I live in a mixed home. My mom is white, my stepdad is Japanese, I'm half black, and my brother is half Italian. We were taught that we all bleed red, we all laugh the same language, and cry the same language. I'm firm believer in judge not yest ye shall be judged. Why can't people mind their own business, and get themselves right before sticking their nose where it doesn't belong. May your family be blessed.
How many languages did you pick up in your multilingual family ? : )
Thank you so much for shearing your truth and telling us how things really are. You are beautiful family, and i think it's wonderful that you protect your children and mooving out of Canada..personally i am not Muslim, but i strongly belive in a higher energy, knowing what you give ,you recive! It just feels good to be a good honest person...much blessings and love to u guys.❤
Congratulations to you and your family! I am excited to hear about your journey. Wishing you the best and many peace and blessings! I applaud you for this move for your kids❤
❤️❤️❤️ I pray you all find the peace you are looking for ❤❤❤ please remember There are also good people everywhere too!
I'm a southern white woman and love your videos. Yall are very personable and relatable. You have opened my eyes to quite a bit, especially after spending time in Afghanistan.
ill still watch yall no matter where you live
Wishing your family the best on your journey. May it be filled with exciting experiences, personal growth, and endless possibilities.
Go out there and make your dreams a reality!
Why, exactly, are you you still here ?
Would you like me to come over and help you pack your bags...?
Awe Sammy that’s so kind of you but we aren’t even in the country. We left weeks ago.
@@SalehFamily Congratulations.
I am glad you guys addressed this. I was shocked by the comments of the other video.
Agree sadly racism is worse last few years
Don’t run away from racism cause you will be running for ever. I’ve been the subject of it, it’s sad. Best to you and your family!
Not sure. Racism in countries like Malaysia and the UAE isn't an issue at all. No one will ever hurt you because of your race, even in Saudi Arabia even if they don't like you.
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The true happiness is when you follow you highest values.
I am not from Canada, from Belguim but i wanted to wish you all the luck! Save travels and I think you are verry brave to move across the World with kids. From one human being to another be safe and good luck
Y’all, anyone notice Ramadan is one month!
glad you are doing what is right for your family. May your travels and new home be blessed
I am so sorry that y’all have to deal with that!! I am an American but I’m also half Canadian and I can’t understand racism in a country!! It’s not fair and it’s not kind!! I was raised to love everyone regardless of race, color, ethnicity, etc.,. It’s so sad that racism happens!! I hope y’all find what y’all are looking for just know you’re loved!!❤️
Very much appreciate and enjoy your videos. You two are so cute together... However, this is the first one that I've seen where you have talked over one another to a larger degree. I think part of your charm is that you've both allowed the other to speak their part thus showing a great respect for each other. Keep up the good info and good luck in your move...As far as racism in Canada I can't say but sadly I see racism, hate, and social ills in other countries. Perhaps home schooling your children is a better solution--at least you have a little more control over their environment for a little longer.
Have a safe journey, may Allah protect you and your family, Sana
As a brown immigrant myself with a daughter, I see ur point but I would much rather raise her here than anywhere else, barring Europe or Australia.
This is your suitable reason that I love your video. Thanks for your sharing ❤💖
I am so sorry that you are experiencing this, please know there are many Canadians that are not like that. I wish you all the best wherever you and your family end up, but I'm sad that you feel the need to leave Canada :)
As Salaam Alaikum May Allah swt grant you peace and safety in your future endeavors. I look forward to sharing your journey
Good luck. I hope it works out for all of you. ❤
Can't forget the treatment of indigenous peoples in Canada even today
I agree with everything you guys said and doing
It's important to approach discussions about racism with empathy and understanding. However, it seems that this couple may have other motives behind their claims. While it's valid to express concerns about racism, it's also crucial to consider the broader context and motivations. Let's encourage open dialogue and constructive solutions rather than spreading negativity or making unsubstantiated claims for personal gain.
Mixed marriages with children, whether by race or religion (conversion) or both, have faced challenges since their inception. Add putting yourself out there in the public eye and drawing attention to yourself- however altruistic your intention may be- certainly puts some of the onus on you. Your attempts to normalize Islam in a predominately Christian country is another challenge. Perhaps you will find safety in a predominately Muslim country?
This couple has a hidden agenda to promote racism in Canada. They most likely get paid to do this. The "race" card usually is mentioned in their vlogs. And you can see how ungrateful they are to be Canadian...pretty pathetic!
I think you are conflating Islamophobia with racism.
I think they're experiencing both based on what's been said, I think they know the difference
@@justjo_kingNah they don't and it's obvious
I didn't know Islam was a race 🤔
It's not anyone can be Muslim
Wow thank you for telling us. I love you guys and appreciate your voice and willing to share your life with us. I’m heartbroken to know how vicious and hateful people have been toward you. I respect your choice to live where you feel safe. Sending you love, kindness and compassion.
Enjoy your new home ,may Almighty Allah keep your family safe.
Stumbled upon your channel and this series of videos about your decision to move. I’m from the US and we are seriously thinking of doing the same (and if I’m guessing correctly, we are considering the same country as you). I can say with full confidence that many, MANY Muslims in North America share your sentiments, especially with the wonderful presidential candidates we have lined up, as well as our world renown gun problems. Seems like the time to do Hijra is near. I hope you’ll keep updating about your moving experiences as I’m sure it would help many of us!
Same here.
Thank you so much for following our journey. We hope it helps!
I have lived in more then one country, Canadian racism is light compared to other places. No racism is exclusively worse in one place or the other. It’s ALL plan bad!!! BUT WE GET IT , you want to live in a Muslim country and I can see that is important to you and your family so I wish you well and hope you find the peace, happiness your looking for.
Hello. I am a subscriber from Sweden. It make me upset that you, the nicest, loving family have to face all this negative comments.
You have spread so much knowledge and joy in your video's.
I wish you all the best and i will be there with you during the journey.. Love from Sweden 🙋♀️🤗💕👍
This means so much to us. Thank you 🇸🇪
Sending peace and love, those comments are so disgusting and I am truly sorry people think it is okay to say anything along that hate speech. I've been hearing about the hate crimes that have been occuring in Canada against the indigenous people but I did not know about the hate crimes towards the muslim population and racially motivated hate crimes, in the US most foreign news is so filtered out even on social media that we remain majorily ignorate to the troubles that occur else where.
Safe travels and I am excited for this next chapter in your families lives. All the best wishes towards a bright and wonderful future
they said 'hate speech' themselves. they're against LGBTQP values.
How do you know the commenters are Canadian ? I don’t think you will find a country without its share of angry keyboard warriors.
barakallahufikuma, inshallah you will have safe travels and I hope you find a great new home. inshallah allah will reward you and your children for this beautiful Hijrah for the sake of allah.
I understand your concerns about racism, which is indeed a global issue, including in Canada. However, it's important to recognize Canada's ongoing efforts towards inclusivity and multiculturalism. While no country is perfect, many communities here are actively working to combat racism and foster a welcoming environment for all. Leaving might seem like a solution, but engaging and contributing to positive change can be even more powerful.
How do you know the people who are leaving the hateful comments are Canadian?
They are speaking about “ their daily life experience in Canada “
@@samuelrigaud6595 I don’t lie , watch the video…. The titel is “ why we are leaving Canada “ they speaking about their daily life there!!!!!!!!
Allah be with you in your travels. Im sure you will learn a lot
May Allah help you guys in your journey inshaAllah 💟. You guys are motivation for others 🌟
Stay strong against the haters! ❤ ...they are just jealous because they wish they could make drastic changes and can't. (Maybe not necessaarily moving to another country - but big changes in their life). They are scared. They are unducated in this religion and the middle-east.
You are absolutely right! - this country needs help in SOOOO many ways.
Go enjoy your lives in whichever ways works for you!! ❤
Love you guys so much
Ah, you are a very sweet and nice family; but as Yoda said, "Much to learn, you have". Good luck on your journey...
I'm seeing the same happen in the US. There is a extreme rise in hate, bigotry, and racism.
Where ever you go stay with together always be happy with families. Our family is our most powerfull weapon. after long time you came on CZcams. Assalamualaikum .
You are both a beautiful couple. Hope you both find the peace you seek.
It makes me sad to hear of people leaving.... I understand that people have to follow their own paths.... but just like the English Quebeckers who moved out west or to Ontario, if they stayed who knows what impact they could have had in their own communities, in their own province... the grass is greener where you water it.......best wishes always....
May Allah bless you keep going
حفظكم الله ورعاكم وسدد خطاكم
Thanks for great content
Great vlog guys 👍
And you think there isn’t racism anywhere else ??
The grass is greener...trust me, ppl are ppl. Minorities are always subject to such things.
May Allah bless you and your family for having the guts to speak out. May Allah help the Muslim ummah to come together and become one and may Allah give us all the means to be able to go and live where ever we want for the sake of bettering ourselves and our families. Ameen
Assalamualaikum
Well done you are going to take awesome step towards new place for the upbringing in safe and secure environment for children
May Allah bless you and protect your family aameen
Its their right to get healthy and safe environment for bright future good luck
jazakAllah Khair for sharing nice information
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I'm sorry to hear all the bad comments you guys got here on youtube. It came from unhappy people that learnt from their parents and will pass on to their children, and so on. And until the country change it for the better with all the "good heart and intention" better you live with your family where you feel more comfortable. Yes, there are problems everywhere but with the support of your community it is easier to go through. For more happier days.
I’m Canadian but I’m relocating to 🇹🇷 at some point in 2024. I totally understand where you are coming from.
relocating where? whats TR?
@@NH-hp2nn Turkey
@@NH-hp2nn Oh sorry... I made a typo. I'm relocating to Turkey. I lived and worked in Turkey for over a year. Turkey might have its problems....but the people are amazing, the culture is awesome, the music, art and history are amazing.
@@jenicaepp awesome thank you!
Me and my family are also considering Turkey to live as British Nationals. Good Luck with everything. Insha’ALLAH all will work out for us.
Thanks for your channel, I appreciate the education regarding islamic practice and tradition. I’ll be curious to see if you find the utopia you seek, but I personally believe that you can’t escape bigotry and intolerance, it will just manifest differently and be directed at different groups of people depending on where you are. It’s just more tolerable and easier to not see it when you belong to the group that isn’t being maligned. Hopefully you can find the balance where you feel comfortable and what best fits your family, wherever that happens to be.
I completely agree with you guys
One can understand some people may be upset by your criticism of Canada and some Canadians. You seem like a very pleasant, polite couple and you must know that there are people from all faiths/cultures who think of their way as better than others. Recent immigrants are not the only ones who can feel uncomfortable where they live because of the attitude of their neighbours. Could it get to the stage where countries are assigned to exclusively particular religions/non-believers etc. Sounds far fetched but all of us need to accommodate each other to live in harmony. Regards from Blighty :).
I moved to Britain in the 90s from another European country. I'm noticing that increase in racism too. Not to me, but to my Muslim friends. It breaks my heart. You do what's right for you and your lovely family. Wishing you all the best ❤️❤️❤️
As a Canadian myself we moved out of Canada for alot of the resons tou have mentioned in recent videos.
I am from Canada and this breaks my heart. I too have seen it change in the last few years and not for the better. I wish you much love and hope you find a place to raise your beautiful family. I moved away 17 years ago because of retirement and could no longer afford to live there.
where did you move to if I may ask?
I'm Somali and my extended family and relatives were a victim of an islamophobic attack in a park in my town and the video of it is on youtube and it was really heartbreaking to watch. I commend you for making this choice because some of my family members have started moving out of the UK and back to their homeland or other Muslim countries, and this video inspired me a lot ♥️
As Salaamu Alaikum
As a "white" Muslim it is my duty to point out that there is no difference between Arab or non-Arab, Black or White.
There are racists of all colors.
"Whites" aren't the problem, ignorance is.
"Whites" embraced the printing press, non-whites rejected it and this has resulted in many non-whites naming their ignorance on "Whites".
Please, note you'll find racism everywhere
Good points, well made!😊
It’s so sad what our world has become. I’d be proud to have you as neighbors because I only see you as a beautiful family looking out for each other and living your faith. I so enjoy your videos and learning about the Muslim faith, actually I enjoy learning about all faiths! We are all God’s children. Please stay safe in this world of uncertainty.
I hope your family finds the space you're searching for
We are the most passive aggressive country and we are also very good at pretending everything is ok. I’m so sad that people are so mean and hateful. Thank you for bringing light to this. I wish you the best in your new journey and hope you find peace and healing! Also what people say is a reflection of themselves not you and who you are.
I too would move if I had opportunity. You are lucky, take your kids away from this madness! Wishing you all best in your country of destination! 🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻💜👋🏻
@@samuelrigaud6595 there are many better places in the World than US, Canada and Somalia 😉
Wishing you blessings
Mansha Allah may allah bless your family
6:46 we love to hear it. You do you for what’s best for your family 🧕🏽💛
I think you two are very courageous and brave for doing what you feel is right and needed for you and your family. I do have one question though, what do you think your kids will take/learn from this experience? You can run away from your problems? Or you can switch the problems by moving and switch them for another? As well as enforcing stereotypes and making general statements is what leads to racism, so some of your wording seems a bit odd. Because aren't you than contributing to the problem just indirectly?
I am sorry you have experienced this. I am Canadian and have no place for rasisium. My friends are from all backgounds. I have travelled to other countries and found rascisim is everywhere. We are all human and need respect and love.
Please tell it to the Christian or their apostates
You are such a beautiful family. God be with you on your journey.❤
I’m new to your channel but did see that you were both born in BC, so you’ve likely lived a life so far that 6 or 7 billion other people on this planet would HAVE DIED TO HAVE LIVED. American non-Muslim here and I suspect you’re in for some major culture shock by moving to an Muslim majority country, ESPECIALLY your husband. Malaysia might be a bit more forgiving than other countries in the Middle East though. Good Luck to you though and hope you find what you’re searching for!
Her husband can marry 3 more wives in a Muslim country
The Quran in Sura 4:3 says:
And if you be apprehensive that you will not be able to do justice to the orphans, you may marry two or three or four women whom you choose. But if you apprehend that you might not be able to do justice to them, then marry only one wife, or marry those who have fallen in your possession. (Maududi, vol. 1, p. 305)
@@wwilson4433yes but there are strict rules for polygamy under Islam. And it says very clearly in the Quran , that if a man knows he cannot be fair, he should just have one wife.
@@wwilson4433Do you think that’s why he wants to move?
I wouldn't want to speculate.
Another, even darker aspect of Islamic law is child-marriage:
Quran in Sura 65:1, 4 says:
65:1 O Prophet, when you (and the believers) divorce women, divorce them for their prescribed waiting-period and count the waiting-period accurately . . . 4 And if you are in doubt about those of your women who have despaired of menstruation, (you should know that) their waiting period is three months, and the same applies to those who have not menstruated as yet. As for pregnant women, their period ends when they have delivered their burden. (Maududi, vol. 5, pp. 599 and 617, emphasis added)
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@@wwilson4433have you seen western swingers, and western people practicing polygamy (unmarried) that’s applauded on social media? Same thing. Except they marry these women and the men are responsible for the upkeep for the women&children & they are entitled to receive inheritance. anyway i did offer my husb, if he wants more wives (why not, he’s rich) but he doesnt want to