I too had gone through that trying and trying to make things work going through counseling and stuff staying for my children talking to my pastor because divorce is a sin he opened my eyes by saying it's not going to help if you are dead. So I saved money and got me and my children out lived with my parents and worked extra hard and got us a place divorced. Continued counseling from professional and preacher was able to forgive him for me and my children
I too had gone through that trying and trying to make things work going through counseling and stuff staying for my children talking to my pastor because divorce is a sin he opened my eyes by saying it's not going to help if you are dead. So I saved money and got me and my children out lived with my parents and worked extra hard and got us a place divorced. Continued counseling from professional and preacher was able to forgive him for me and my children