New Parent Mistakes That Can Lead to Developmental Delays
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- čas přidán 30. 01. 2024
- These 5 mistakes can potentially delay a newborn's development, and they're really common because they're so easy to overlook. None of this is the fault of any new parent. Some are caused by simple habits that are a result of modern life, while others are simply a result of not spotting the warning signs as early as possible.
Either way, after watching this video I hope you feel a little more comfortable and confident in knowing some best practices you can follow to reduce the risk of developmental delays, as well as what to watch out for so you spot potential problems that could delay development early.
As always, I hope you find it helpful!
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My baby is 4 months old and likes to be hold in our arms facing forward to see what is happening around her. Can this cause issues as well? I am worried now. Thank you for all the helpful videos.
Incredible insight on the importance of correct baby-wearing to prevent hip development issues. Many first-time parents might be surprised to learn about the 'M' position and its role in healthy hip joint formation. This video serves as a valuable resource, highlighting the significance of informed parenting choices. A must-watch for all new parents looking to support their baby's development.
Can you make a video on why toddlers store food in their mouth and if is okay ❤
My baby has developmental delay. Would this suits him?
Regarding hip displacement, I use a wrap like item to hold my child and keep him legs tucked in together inside the wrap. Would that cause hip displacement?
After 3 kids who all didnt crawl without help and walked super late, i feel like this is the missing piece. I will be conscious of limiting container use with #4 coming soon. Thank you so much!
how much late ? my baby is still not walking or crawling
How old’s your wee one? She (Emma Hubbard) has some links to developmental milestones that may help if you’d rather not say on here 👍🏼 do you have access to a medical professional if you’re concerned?
@@bariharaza633 18 months
@@rayofsunshineish he's 2 now and needed physical therapy to get to his milestones. He just graduated early intervention. My other 2 walked at the same time, just without professional help.
Sounds like it may be genetic, did your parents share how you developed as a wee one? I’ve found my daughter in particular has been very similar to me ❤ and sounds like you’re super switched on btw, your kiddies are lucky to have you
So, I never restricted my sons movements from birth per your advice in previous videos. When he was awake, I would put him on the floor on a play mat and did lots of tummy time. His pushchair was a bassinet type, so he would still be able to move about while being on his back.
From two months he was able to slowly push himself towards. At 4 months, he was sitting up. At 5 months, he was pushing crawling backwards. At 6 months, he was crawling properly on his hands and knees and had learned to stand. So I definitely agree with the advice.
When did you start tummy time? My son is 2.5 weeks old and the doctor said I we can start the tummy time once he is 4 weeks old.
I started tummy time a week after my baby was born and she met all her milestones early or right on time. I will say you can do tummy time on your chest when they are new borns and it’s just as helpful
Exactly the same result, except we use infant seat for strolling around. Shes 7 months and pulls herself up to standing. I don’t know about u but at first i was worried about the amount of movement but now I believe she is/was just working out those little muscles before game day… and then bam she’s cruising today.
@@andrestrindadefrom day 1 on my stomach, and only a minute or two from 6 weeks. He's always been able to lift his head up. I also used a nursing pillow for his tummy time. A mirror and black and white books for him to look at.
@andrestrindade I started from birth. And but him the floor at 4 weeks. Tummy time can be from your chest which I did. Once hid belly button healed I would give him a few minutes on his stomach until he could hold his head up.
By 2 months he rolled over,
Seat with assistance at 4, unassisted at 5
Crawled 5.5, stood up at 6, cruised at 7 and walked at 8.
All to say I let him run free and help me when he was stuck to teach him.
This is good general advice, but I think people can take it the wrong way.
Reaching baby milestones is not a race, and no one but you will remember if they rolled at 2 months or 4. As long as you don't do anything egregious or unsafe, it's totally fine to let your baby develop at his/her own pace.
We did tummy time every wake period since day #1 (at our pediatrician's advice) and pretty much did everything that this video suggested. He hit all his motor milestones exactly at the median or a bit later: rolling back to front at 4.5m, sitting at 6.5m, crawling/cruising at 9m, walking at 14m. I think a lot is temperament: he's just very cautious and risk-averse (so are his parents).
People laughed at me because i was so adamant about lots of tummy time. Glad my mother Intuition was right
I walked at 4 months
My baby is already rolling over at 3 weeks lol
G5 vy@@trackstarlexi
We definitely don’t want to rush milestones in general, but I think the longer a baby crawls, the better that is for their development. I think that might be the point of her argument.
your channel has changed my life! first time mom w a 5 month old i watched so many of ur videos while i was pregnant her pediatrician always says how advanced she is thank you for all your tips and advice! truly does work cant wait to see how far she comes in the next few months
My girl is 5 months too 😊
Sounds like you were hopeless. I wonder who parented you?
What are the things you did differently
This is so informative,, my 4 month old son actually dislikes being in a swing or chair for too long which is great plus I love to see him wiggle around 😊
This is super informative! Especially the sections on container hopping and positional plagiocephaly. I've shared your channel before with new parents because the information you share is really helpful, but I'd love to share it with my newsletter subscribers in the near future.🙂
My son (10 months) never liked containers. He strted walking at 10 months. Hes everywhere and anywhere. Its alot of work but my fiancé and i love it
Once I heard a doctor saying that a baby develops on the floor. I always kept my baby as much as possible on the floor. I don’t know if it’s related but he started to walk at 9.5 months.
Edited to say I followed other tips from dr Emma like keeping baby barefoot at home for playtime and not teaching him to walk holding his hands.
Congratulations for walking so early! But, as someone with a child care and development degree, its okay for a child to learn to walk later. Its all about overall development. Some will learn later. But putting an emphasis on activities is the best way to set your child up for a good start.
@@Celestichthysmargaritatus Thanks. I know it’s okay. Each baby develops at their own on pace.
Did you leave your baby on its back or stomach?
@@CamelJockey562 both but he did a lot of tummy time
Barefoot barefoot or are socks ok?
I 💯 agree with this. I preferred a playmat over a bouncer, and I believe thus truly made a difference for my daughter's muscle development.
Fantastic video and a must-watch for all new parents! The emphasis on minimizing 'container hopping' and encouraging floor play provides an essential foundation for healthy development. It's incredible how simple changes in our daily routines can significantly enhance our baby's physical and cognitive growth.
I'd like to add a point about the importance of 'tummy time' for newborns, which complements the video's message wonderfully. Tummy time, when a baby is awake and supervised, is crucial for developing neck and shoulder muscles, improving motor skills, and preventing flat spots on the back of the head. Starting tummy time early, even for just a few minutes a day, and gradually increasing the duration can make a big difference in your baby's development.
Additionally, engaging with your baby through face-to-face interaction, talking, singing, and reading during floor play can greatly boost cognitive and emotional development. These interactions not only strengthen your bond with your baby but also support language development and social skills.
Thank you for sharing such invaluable insights and practical tips. Your guidance helps us create a nurturing environment that supports our little ones' growth and well-being.
How can I read, sing, or have face to face interaction with my child while they’re in the floor…?
@@dandriabarnett7980You get down on the floor with them.
Thanks so much for sharing this very important information. It’s more than helpful ❤️🙏🏾
You are so welcome :)
Your videos and some i saw on tiktok before my 11 month old was born really promoted floor and tummy time and i really went for it! Yes i still use containers especially now that he is very mobile and in everything but his early days i tried to keep it to a minimum despite both grandmas had a lot to say about this haha but! He starting moving around really quick! ❤
Wow, as a Montessori infancy educator, I find this particular video of yours very educational!
Glad it was helpful!
Another great video Emma. The container hoper definitely surprised me as you don’t realize how much you do it through the day!
Wow i have learnt a lot thanks so much.❤❤❤
Glad it was helpful!
As a first-time mother-to-be, I have been watching your videos so much. Your channel is one of a few trustworthy sources with all the evidence-based information. I would like to ask if you can do a video on second language learning. I and my husband are not-so-fluent English speakers. How can we teach our infant or at least expose him to English at home, without hiring a native English-speaking nanny or using any 'language learning' videos? Thank you so much!!
If you live in an English speaking country, dont even worry about it. Theres no way they wont pick up the English language. School, going out, movies, TV shows etc
with your advices my baby girl was normal walking at 8 mo, thank you! ❤
My kids were in a bouncer and car seat a lot. None of them had any issues and were athletic and active. I remember getting advice to put them in a seat aftet feeding to prevent reflux and spit up. I have triplet grandbabies now and we are just learning about this 😮 the triplets are preemie boys born 2 months early. They are almost 2 months now and their due date is the 29th of this month. 2 of them are already rolling. They wiggle and squirm constantly and we are avoiding seats.
Whenever my babies fell asleep in the carseat and I really didn't want to wake them up, I propped the seat to lean backwards, so I could see that the chin is not touching their neck and their backs are horizontal. I also kept them close and checked if they're breathing every few minutes. Also if they fell asleep during the car ride, I would check on their breathing on every red light, just in case.
Interesting ❤ I've learnt some mistakes I need to correct now.
THANK YOU!
The disease that is sitting all day is even grasping small children!
Thanks for this!!!
Glad you liked it!
I’m really glad you talked about positional asphyxiation, car seats are a big one for that especially now it’s common to have a clip that attaches car seats to prams.
Please don’t do this unless the total amount of time for both trip there, around the store/park/whatever and back home is less than 40 mins- this isn’t a made up figure the NHS in the UK have it on their site for a reason.
I live so far from stores and family that I had to purchase a “car cot” - it’s a flat lying down car seat made by maxi cosi and used that for the first 6 months of my sons life because everywhere I needed to go like stores and the GP were an hour away, family being 7 hours away.
Don’t take risks with your kids ❤❤❤ You’d be horrified to know how many babies are being brought to A&E limp due to positional asphyxiation in car seats these days 😢
I get really anxious when im out with my 6 weeks old in her car seat, I did wonder if there was something else! Thanks
I made a mistake of not picking up my son much as a baby he’s 3 now n healthy n very talkative
This is a great video. I don’t believe in giving kids electronics they become hypnotized and numb! I don’t like to see it either but to each his own 🤷🏽♀️
Thank you, these are great tips!
I do believe the baby is too low in your 'correct babywearing' video, which could also cause asphixiation! The M shape is important but that too!
Yes, you’re right but it’s very hard with a toddler who climbs on everything that she sees even me.
I was actually told by a doc in emergency department to let my 2 month old sleep in her car seat or chair at night because she was very congested with a respiratory virus. I didn't take the advice though. I just stayed awake most of the night to hold her while she slept.
I was told the same thing
thats shocking the only reason i can think why he might suggest this is its a more up right possition and mucus or congestion will be less likely to clog airways. I would not follow that advice as i think concern of aphxyation is more likely (sorry for spelling).
This is temporary which is kind of irrelevant to the video the video is talking about overall/long term
I didnt walk till i was almost 2 because my mother always had me in a high chair to keep me from moving around.
My daughter startrd walking alone without assistance after her first birthday. I made sure to always be actuvw with her. Taking her to the park everyday and staying active indoors with her ladder.
Mine was 13 months when they walked for the first time, delayed from a few things from covid lockdowns
Thanks very much
Very informative 👍🏿
Glad you liked it
Thank you very much for such amazing content ❤
Glad you enjoy it!
Great channel Emma
Thank you so much!
THANK YOU!
No problem
This makes me feel better about holding my 2 month old like 90% of the time
Yes I did this with my last one and he was walking at 7 almost 8 months
Yes I did this with my third. She walked 8 months but sometimes I say 9 because no one believes me. 😅
@@briserenity 🤣 I always have to show them a dated video! My firstborn started swinging from things at 6 months, by 7 months she was walking holding on to things and by 9 months she was walking pretty balanced.
Mine was vacuuming at 10.5 months
Does anyones 6 month old hate tummy time??? My baby cries into the floor and stops trying to move? She hasn’t rolled on her own yet and i feel i give her lots of tummy and back time. She meets the milestones of ;tracking ,grabbing stuff, responding to her name, laughs, and makes eye contact and grabs toes and rocks side to side etc. but she wont roll, help!
My lil is 5 months and disliked tummy time. I started rolling him over and back as a fun activity. Sometimes I would lay him on his belly and coax him to lift his head for 2 mins and slowly increased over time or when he gets very fussy. His doc recommended Pt and after the first appt I noticed an increased difference- he dos not dislike it as much especially now that he can roll over from tummy to back. He started now rolling from back to tummy.
Also seeing another baby do it and get round I think encouraged him.
I would start his tummy time when he woke up in the morning- to limit spit up and plus he is more complacent since he is still waking up.
I would do a lil morning stretch to get him started when he was on his back. It also helped relieve any excess gas, then rolled him over. Then I imitate the movement or motion I wanted him to try. He would look at me like “silly mommy” or sometimes actually try to mimic me for a few minutes before he is like I’m over it and ready to eat.
I would do this after every nap time and a bit before he goes to bed- 3-5 times a day. Starting at 2 mins and then try to work it up to 5 mins. He would mainly last 2 mins and the.n start to fuss. But I learned a lot at P.T and using the Kinedu app has very useful activities that ranges and some are just 5 mins. It is pricey but it’s annual and has helped me a lot. Especially since I can’t afford a lot of gadgets or toys.
Mine hated it! Yet he achieved his milestones on time. It depends on the baby i guess....
We're having the same issue with my baby. Just turned 6months and hates tummy time and doesn't roll over yet...
My 5 months plus baby rolls over her tummy on her own,stays in that position for upto 5mins before she tries to get up. She gets up on her feet when you hold both hands.
Thank you very much. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
No problem 😊
My baby have torticollis and she presented signs at 3 months. She is with a Physical Therapist and Chiropractor. Both of these specialist recommends the football hold. They said it’s the #1 recommended hold.
Thank you for the video . I made a lot of mistakes too . Please post more video 🙏❤
Thankfully I had my children before "containers" were the norm. However, most babies at that time were being carted around in container-like buggies. I was the proud owner of a lovely Silver Cross classical pram & when my youngest was very tiny, I was waiting in a queue in Marks & Spencer's along with several other mums with screaming babies in their buggies. A lovely, elderly lady came along, looked at my peacefully sleeping infant & commented that she was lucky to be in a comfortable pram, not in those awful contraptions that the other poor babies were in, it was no wonder that they were all crying. I think she was right. 😊
Why didn't you add car seats to the list of things that can cause positional asphyxiation? It's so common for parents to just leave their babies in the car seats to sleep after a car journey, not realising how dangerous that is. Or not making enough brakes out of the car seat during a journey.
Agreed. My daughter almost died in a car seat and she was in there for not long, just going to the doctor. it's dangerous if you leave them in a car seat and then take them into the supermarket in that car seat or transfer to pram especially in hot weather.
The diagram you used for positional plagiocephaly is actually a picture for a more serious condition called craniosynostosis. In positional plagiocephaly the sutures would still remain open, but the image that was used showed the lamboid suture as fused, hence being cranio. It might be good to do a video at some point on paediatric issues to spread awareness like craniosynostosis, undescendend testes, tongue ties, plagiocephaly and tortocollis (repetition), breastfeeding difficulties, jaundice etc. Just a really basic introduction, not medical advice, but just a bit of information so people know about common conditions to know if they may need to seek medical attention for their kid.
id be so happy for her to do this video! I actually know a few people who's children had this condition and it went undiagnosed for a very long time because everyone told them that babies have weird heads till they are older... terrible advice
@themarieoakes yes, my baby had torticollis/flat head. I caught it at a few weeks old. Looking back I felt something was wrong when she was first born. It took many months and multiple providers for her to be correctly diagnosed and set up for PT. This set her back for many things. PT was not working after months she still couldn't turn her head. So the therapist suggested having her tongue and lip ties looked at. Again misdiagnosed many times. Finally found someone that said she had both. Had the surgery done and she finally started making progress with turning her head, and drinking a full bottle without crying.
My baby is super active. Climbs, walks, crawls as early as 8 months. At the same time, she totally freezes if put in a container or carry her in hands. If I do not let her play on the floor in her Playpen she would not move a muscle all day.
I've been container hopping my son for the last 9 months 😢 he only started rolling a month ago and I felt like something was wrong, he is wobbbily sitting up and often falls over and hasn't crawled
I always just placed him on his mat, gave him a lot of space so he at 7 months is rolling, sitting, almost crawling...he moves SO MUCH! reaches for everything and basically goes anywhere he wants, we have only used his baby swing for short periods of time and on very specific moments, i always took care of switching him each week on his basinet so he would turn to look at me, like i didn't know this things were important, but kinda seemed to make sense to do them this way on instict...
Hey did you do that from birth? is it safe to put them on the floor on a mat as soon as theyre born?
@30251 as long as you are doing tummy time multiple times a day their good to go, tummy time can be done on the floor or mat or even your chest but should never be left unattended due to the fact that they can't roll and could go straight face down and suffocate. Essentially don't put them in a fixed position container for extended amount of time, use them to get a chore done or use the restroom. Then for all other times ether be holding the baby or lay them on their backs so they can wiggle and move.
@@30251also tummy time ends when they start not being able to lift their heads, early on it ends in a few minutes as time goes by they go for about 15 minutes
Thank you for sharing your story. Please dont find me rude for asking, did your daughter ever watch anything on tv/ipad ? Theres studies to say using tablets/tv slows down speech development etc. i am always interested to learn case by case whether that has impacted the delayed speech / maybe not impacted on autism but could it contribute at all?
My second son 3 month old loves floor play .. whenever I find him unsettling I put him on floor he plays and rolls from back to stomach .. now he is trying to roll from stomach to back but still couldn’t .,,
Well my baby spent plenty time in the stroller she start rolling back and forth at 4month she began rolling on one side 3months now she kicks out of the stroller. It didnt stop her
Very informative video thanks
Glad it was helpful!
I am so confused when to introduce floor play. Our son was born 6 weeks premature and his official due date was late Feb. His pattern is still very much: change diaper, eat, hugs, sleep every 3 hours. When in between should I do floor play? He still seems to need a lot of sleep.
Please don't give screens to kids. Virtual autism is a real thing. My son doesn't qualify for autism but he has no eye contact, little attention and langauge delay.
I pray and hope it becomes easy for you.
I am currently having these issues with my two year old daughter😢😢. I had it stopped completely as she’s displaying the symptoms of autism as a result of prolonged screen time. Never again!!!
Is it because you learned about screens the hard way? Sorry to hear that. I pray he is OK
I think screening just needs to be managed. 10 minutes a day or even every other day, shouldn't cause these issues.
Why is it autism, and not a reaction to the screen time? I'm very confused. Can he work with the right kind of maybe occupational therapist for help?
I left all three of my babies on the floor with their toys and just made sure their surroundings were safe. My firstborn started walking while holding on to things at 7 months, my second was a big crawler at 6 months and started walking holding on to things at 8 months. Both walked pretty balanced by 9 months. Now with my third he’s 7 months and a crawler. I would definitely say that besides floor play, I also spent a lot of time practicing on the bed and couch to strengthen their core.
I didn’t buy any containers, that’s why my son hit all his milestones either early or in time. No screen, no containers. The only thing I am worried is that sometimes I get angry at him and I hope it won’t have negative effects
They can try your patience. You'll never regret taking a deep breath and finding a little more patience. But you likely will regret raising your voice etc. Hang in there!
They didn't know about correcting the torticollis when I was a baby to the point that my neck ended up tilted on one side and I had to have surgery at 2yo. Thank you for educating parents on this now!
This is way easier said than done. I live in a little house with nothing put concrete flooring everywhere. I also have to take my daughter to school every morning which puts us in the car for about 30 minutes total at least unless I have to stop and shop somewhere also so he can be in the car seat for an hour to a few hours sometimes but I take him out to breastfeed him before we head home. I had to do a lot of this with my daughter also and she turned out fine. Of course I'm going to try to get him on a flat surface more now that I have a little rug and I'm going to put some blankets down but I can't just leave him there when I have so much to do like wash clothes by hand. I might try using our pack and play it just feels so uncomfortable but I guess it's better than the concrete floor lol
I have heard tummy time is important for them to build strength in their neck to hold their head up too. I'm also going to buy an otteroo floaty that goes around their neck so my daughter can start swimming in the tub at two weeks.
In India we hate strolers and car seats earlier, but now due to this modernization its slowly crawling into our society too.. My wife & myself carry my toddler around when going out and we never bought walker as well, my baby walked by 2.5 years naturaly...
The normal day part missed the periods of wild crying every time you try to put them anywhere but on my chest
I wish I had known this before! My baby is almost 5 months old and she hated tummy time, couldn't roll over yet, too. I wonder if it's too late to introduce a lot of floor play now.
Not at all. It's never to late.
my 2-month-old baby boy sleeps a lot during the day and is only calm when sleeping in a carrier.. the upright position also helps with stomach problems. So I can't really do without using a carrier.
My bassinet has a tilt setting it’s by delta children. Sometimes babies just cry for a few minutes before settling into a new position/place
I don't know how people put babies in so many containers,my baby complained as soon as he was put in anything. He was on the floor most of the day.
Hey Emma I like watching your videos because they always teach me something new. I notice that my baby loves to play and crawl all over the floor. I just wish i could bring him to someone elses house because theres not very much room in the room I stay at.
this is great, but what if your little one hates floor time? my 4 month old screams and gets super unhappy if i put him on the floor. i dont want to leave him to cry and scream for even a little bit. he loves his swing and almost everytime it calms him down if hes crying.
Thank you 😊
You're welcome 😊
How do you prevent a flat head? Tips and advice is appreciated! New girl dad!
I already noticed my bubba likes her head to the right hand side so I've started balancing.
Do not leave baby in same position for hours everyday.
Changed her position (left to right or right to left) after every feed, diaper change etc. If she prefers one position talk to your Dr
Im new born dad and thank u
Welcome to the father hood and same here I’m a new born Dad and it’s amazing
Thank you so much ❤
Would you please tell us why babies fall down their food?
Does it mean they are full?
I am really tired of cleaning.
When it will be finished?
My boy is 11 months old.
my son is almost 3 and sometimes he will still throw food on the floor (although rarely), but when he was about 1.5 years old things with food got much easier. don't take my advice as medical advice but as long as you still feed him breast milk\ formula you don't need to be stressed about him throwing the food away when he is done, it could be for multiple reasons- he could be full\ not like the food\ or just bored and wanting to play..at this age they are still just starting their journey with food and the best advice I have been given is to let them decide when they are finished with food and not stress about it even tho cleaning afterwards is a pain. try to make each meal time a positive experience with new things or new presentation of food, and eat with him next to him..this will help him the best way to open up to new kinds of food and also to manners and what to do or not to do...besides that brace yourself with some more patience and soon it will be rewarded!
Thank you so much for this information! 🙏🤍
My pleasure!
My baby of 7 months doesn't maintain eyes contact and hasn't sit on her own yet,i pray God help us
SOS - ADVICE PLS
My 12week old baby (3months on the 21st of April) is said to be advanced. She was holding her head up without a wobble for long periods since she was about 3wks, is highly alert, and can keep focus on her eyes 4w, rolls to tummy and back since around 8-9wks, laughs, sleeps through the night etc.
However, I cant do to much to make sure she stays ahead.. bc I need back surgery. Im basically disabled and am in constant intense, paralyzing pain so all we do is sit in the swing, cuddle in the bed, watch tv, i read to her and do flash cards, and do postive conformations and I hold her OFTEN.
What is some things I can do to make sure im not stunting her growth?
I just really wish I could do more, wish I could go out for walks and or be able to move around with her. Im also basically a single mother so I have no one else to help fill my slack till I get surgery.
Give me ideas on what i should do ??
Set up a mat and let her move freely. Also you can clear the bed and let her move around just make sure the bed is against the wall and you’re on the side that isn’t against the wall .
Your baby will be fine. Relax and enjoy your little one; focus on healing. Babies are resilient and in the long term It’s not going to make THAT much of a differance if at all in your child’s life.
No wonder my baby didn’t walk until 15 months smh….. I feel like a bad mom
This is a very informative video but my question is what are you supposed to do? You have to sometimes put your baby in this devices, so what’s the best way to handle it to protect your child?
Good question! I'm not saying don't use them at all. You're right, they are helpful at times. Just try to make sure they aren't spending a lot of time in containers.
😂 I bought a baby swing and my baby girl doesn’t like it at all i put her and she starts to cry 😂 thanks for sharing that information 🙏🙏
My daughter rolled from tummy to back at 4 months . Is that normal?
"Container baby" - does this include swaddling? My 6 month old will not!!! sleep unless swaddled as he wakes himself up constantly and still acts like a wiggly 3/4 month old :/ idk what to do
This is great info and kinda proves that my mayyyyyybe I should listen to my dad more 😂😂😂😂
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Ok but once baby can hold their head up well is the positional asphyxiation still a risk?
My baby is 7 months and she is not sitting up so good as yet I have to still use pillows to put her to sit up. When she is on her tummy on the floor she does not move around and she does not crawl what can I do. I am thinking about buying a sit up chair for her
Hi Emma, I have been watching your videos for almost a year now and I have a question for you. On the topic of sleep bumpers, which you say is a forbidden baby product. What then is the best solution to helping my baby who sleeps and turns a lot and hits his head on the side of the bed often? It's really scaring to see it via the baby monitor. I have tried everything from moving him back to the middle of the bed, to using blankets to stop his turns. All are unsuccessful. Please I need help!
How old is your baby?
Mine would scooch all over the crib and get her legs caught in the crib posts all night long. I tried different mattresses. Until I realized she was uncomfortable from torticollis, acid reflux, and gas pain from dairy sensitivity.
He is about to be 8 months in 2 days. He sleeps really fine, with no issues. Except for the fact that he turns a lot and enjoys sleeping on his stomach.@@LoveLife-zf1jf
My baby was born with torticolis, stop putting baby to car seat for prolonged time!! Switch their position in the crop often from the north!
Amazing video. Is this information in spanish anywhere??? I need it for some family members
Hi, see if you can turn on the closed captions and select Spanish language
Good video.
Thanks!
I want to give my 3 month old babies room to freely move, but they have reflux so they hate laying flat. Any advice? I have them propped in their twin z pillow for most of their wake window to help with the reflux (they’re on medication for it as well) but I feel bad about it!
I get so stressed when I see people carrying their little ones in the carrier too low and/or with basically straight legs 😢
what about newborns that sleep all the time? he always sleeps on his side at least but all i do is feed him and he sleeps. not a lot of time for floor time. i do let him sleep on my chest a lot so that’s tummy time
That is pretty normal for a newborn! I’ve had 2 babies (now going on 4 and the other 17 months) and newborns just eat and sleep.
As your baby gets a little older his/her wake window will get longer and when baby wakes to feed he/she will stay up a little longer and then it just grows.
I usually just held my newborns fed them and then held them. I would lay them in their crib for periods of time.
As they wake and are awake longer that’s when I would do more tummy time and floor time!
I’ve read to work up to 60-90minutes of tummy time by 3months old
I’m glad I came across this 😓 I feel bad my baby hasn’t been doing enough tummy time
My 6 week old goes through containers. What else can I even do at this age?
My son is a premie baby born at 29 weeks. He is currently 6 months 3 months adjusted. We have been doing tummy time and he hates it. He shows no signs of wanting to lift his head but is also wearing a helmet, so not aure if that may be why. Any advice or methods to make tummy time more enjoyable
Try 'tiger in the tree hold' it's a good alternative to tummy time
My 3 month old hates to lay on the ground or in the swing etc. Tummy time works for a couple of minutes but laying on the back makes him cry after very short time even when I'm shaking rattles or making faces for him. What can I do to support him playing on the ground?
Just keep doing tummy time for the amount of time he will tolerate. As his muscle strength increases, the amount of time he tolerates it and the amount of enjoyment will increase slowly. It might take a week to get to 5 minutes and a month to get to 15 minutes. Every baby is different. Smile and cheer him on. Slowly, he’ll be happier about it.
@@winterk1ssthanks for your motivation!
I needed a helmet due to severe neglect as a baby.
Good job Emma🇭🇷🖐
I have a 3 month old and I have been making these mistakes 😭
Its okay. You're not too late to change lifestyles you feel your might baby need. I made all of these mistakes, and my baby is meeting her milestones before her marks. Its all subjective. All this content creator is doing is informing people of _potential_ issues. Dont let the baby-fear get to you, your little one will be okay. Its not too late to make those changes if it helps you and your little one
I don’t let my 10 week old sleep in the bouncer, but she falls asleep in the car seat when driving. Which is the same angled position as bouncers etc. I can’t stop her from sleeping in the car so how do you manage this?
Hey, never mind. I saw the rest of the video so your question is very valid
We had our baby in stroller bassinett till 6 months old and she doesn't have a removable car seat because I couldn't carry anything heavy post c section. Then she would either go in a very reclined bouncer seat (maxi- cosy) or baby gym, floor, etc. I madsage her and we exercise, do tummy time, but she tends to lie there like a potato and not do much. She seems not to be overly interested in reaching for toys and still is not rolling over on her own. Advice?
I have 7 month old who was in these devices too, as I also had a csection and no "village" to help me. My son used to hate tummy time and being on his stomach. Until about 5 months and doing exercises that stimulate their instinct to roll. My advice would be to have high contrast toys and soft baby books or a play mat (black & white) to catch their attention, it helped my boy. Now at 7 months (almost 8) he loves tummy time, he rolls over, holds his head up, plays with his toys and is now instinctively trying to crawl.
@@silentscreams3776hi we dint gave much floor tummy time till 6 mths and now he is 7 mths but not rolling over.. plz help
@@sonalsohani3448 Greetings. I would first suggest doing exercises that stimulate the natural instinct to roll (there are videos on CZcams to show how.) I held his hands and feet together and gently rocked/rolled him from one side to the other. I also had stimulating high contrast (black & white) pictures/flash cards that my baby would find interesting causing them to want to roll and hold their head up to see it better. Toys that make noise, like raddles or squeaker or crinkling. If or when baby gets upset or frustrated during tummy time, dont stress, calmly sooth them, and try again later or another day. Persistence + patience = progress Hope this helps 🙏
I would lay on the ground with my baby when he was playing on the baby gym and i would point at stuff and talk to him, we also used constrast cards a lot and he loved it!
If she’s not interested in toys they may be beyond her developmental phase still, such as vision isn’t as far along yet. (Hypothesis). You can trigger the pupil dilation reflex to strengthen her eye muscles. I didn’t shine a light in my babys eyes. But at night we did turn on and off the room lamp. And even the next day my LO was more interested in toys. It’s also ok, good even, to shove rattles in their fists. I used a balloon string at first cus my baby’s hands were so tight! But she was able to pull on the balloon and it was high contrast against my ceiling. So she was still learning cause and effect and using her eyes. Babies really don’t just hit milestones on their own, they need inputs
Any advice for when baby’s fall asleep in car seat in the back seat? Kinda out of the parents control no?
They have car seat mirrors that can show you your babies face when you look in your rear view so you’d know to pull over if your baby looks blue
My baby doesn’t like her swing as much as she used to… she likes being in a car seat but only when it’s moving… if we are in the car at the stop light she will cry😂😂
Is the popular Ergobaby Omni Classic 360 carrier good for baby hip development?
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When used correctly, the Omni 360 is fine in the tummy to tummy position! It allows you to keep baby’s legs in that M shape, their spine curved, etc. I believe all Ergobany carriers are certified by the Hip Dysplasia Institute. Just be sure to read and follow the manufacturer’s instructions.
@@Ruth-tu9mu Oh, we were planning on using the Omni 360 with the baby facing outward.
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We did this with our baby till 6 mths and now he is not rolling over.. not achieved his 1st milestone too.. we started giving after 6 mths .. now he is 7 and we are still waiting
Share your concerns with his pediatrician
i feel u. some babies is not motivated to move. I do so much floor play since birth but my bubs just doesn't want to move. best to tall to dr for intervention