MEN NEED TO GET BACK TO APPROACHING WOMEN!!

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  • čas přidán 20. 04. 2024
  • In this video i talk about the problem with men in today's society. The problem is men don't want to approach women not just that but most are afraid to make the approach. In the video i talk about the importance of approaching and telling a woman that you find her attractive. You can't soley rely on social media to attract women you have to put yourself out there. Regardless if you get rejected or not every man is going to get rejected. #explore #explorepage #fypシ #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #redpill #bodygame
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Komentáře • 118

  • @frankieice2532
    @frankieice2532 Před 3 měsíci +46

    having the right mindset when approaching women is key, because you're gonna get rejected most of the time and can't take it personal.

  • @turbo1997hsm
    @turbo1997hsm Před 3 měsíci +21

    I just don't want my time to be wasted. Been working on my career since I was 19. I've noticed so many men getting played and cheated on, that I don't even see a point to any of it. Working on getting back in shape, and building my income. Relationships are starting to seem like a liability.

  • @paulogotera4412
    @paulogotera4412 Před 3 měsíci +17

    Approaching women nowadays is rough. They give off mixed signals. And for most men getting rejected is something they cant take.

    • @princelevi1804
      @princelevi1804 Před měsícem +1

      Mixed singals = she’s not it .. if she wants you to. She’ll make it easy for you for the most part

  • @tf7223
    @tf7223 Před 3 měsíci +19

    walking up behind a female is too creeplike for it to work

    • @trickywily2823
      @trickywily2823 Před 3 měsíci +8

      Has this guy got the memo. It's called leave them alone they have. No value

    • @AdilRarbaje
      @AdilRarbaje  Před 3 měsíci +2

      Facts

    • @user-jz6to8md3c
      @user-jz6to8md3c Před 3 měsíci

      Not if you do it with a clown mask.😂

  • @hendrx
    @hendrx Před 3 měsíci +16

    Problem is this type of advice only works in certain locations, where I live in Germany even saying hi can be considered harassment. When I travel back to latin america I always approach women though

    • @Ben256MB
      @Ben256MB Před 3 měsíci

      How?? Do you how strangers you talk to in a day ? Bruh stop being antisocial .

    • @AdilRarbaje
      @AdilRarbaje  Před 3 měsíci

      Works everywhere

    • @hendrx
      @hendrx Před 3 měsíci +4

      @@Ben256MB german women do this thing where they take two steps back with their wtf do you want from me face. Trust me I lived in 5 countries, its not the same everywhere

  • @mamoud6648
    @mamoud6648 Před 3 měsíci +20

    As a dude raised in the early 2000s man I missed those days. Being 18-19 approaching girls at the beach, Apple Store, and target. I lost a lot but I got dates and lays by just doing that. And you get better, back in those days tinder wasn’t like that. It’s scary at first but you learn so much about women and some women actually put me on game as well. But the older you get, you just don’t have time and you gotta focus on the bag eventually. But your early 20s I would say definitely approach women.

    • @cedricmiller4370
      @cedricmiller4370 Před 3 měsíci +7

      Yes 2000-2004 era was different even if you got turned down by one female in public you'd still end up getting another female that was down to chill and keep in contact fast forward to 2024 things are more complicated and lotta guys are just minding they business and focused on making money to survive instead of chasing something with they noise turned up

    • @rickysampson8759
      @rickysampson8759 Před 3 měsíci +5

      You got a lot of dates but no wife

    • @alvincolvin9156
      @alvincolvin9156 Před 3 měsíci

      @@rickysampson8759 men are picky about marriage just like women are picky about who they sleep with

  • @DJ-kw6zk
    @DJ-kw6zk Před 3 měsíci +13

    Forget social media. Real Life is where it’s at. Learn to exist & flourish the way humans are meant to. Learn to read body language. Live life.

    • @AdilRarbaje
      @AdilRarbaje  Před 3 měsíci +5

      They don’t seem to understand that g

  • @palehorse4503
    @palehorse4503 Před 3 měsíci +9

    No we dont.

  • @homiesenatep
    @homiesenatep Před 3 měsíci +20

    I’m not afraid of rejection at all, I just don’t like doing all the work. Why do the work if the woman is not even into you? She won’t even approach you herself and do some work herself, she’ll make you work on the relationship all by yourself while she sits there. That’s why I don’t approach

    • @dweez4703
      @dweez4703 Před 3 měsíci +11

      Nah, u don't approach bc you're scared

    • @Kudanzombe
      @Kudanzombe Před 3 měsíci +4

      Nah you sound delusional gang

    • @AdilRarbaje
      @AdilRarbaje  Před 3 měsíci +4

      Nah you gotta approach you making excuses

    • @homiesenatep
      @homiesenatep Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@dweez4703 no I’m not scared I used to approach all the time

    • @homiesenatep
      @homiesenatep Před 3 měsíci +8

      @@AdilRarbaje I’m not making excuses, I speak from experience

  • @vikramchatterjee4495
    @vikramchatterjee4495 Před 2 měsíci +1

    This dude is on point, i felt that strong silent type video

  • @wordbrah628
    @wordbrah628 Před 3 měsíci +4

    You're jokes bro don't approach a women from behind, had a good laugh appreciate the short story too.

  • @suavitel4376
    @suavitel4376 Před 2 měsíci

    Keep up the great work don’t ever stop❗️💯

  • @lalosalamanca8574
    @lalosalamanca8574 Před 3 měsíci +6

    I been cold approaching since 1996. I ain't Nutting changed but technology Mayne.

    • @dweez4703
      @dweez4703 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Facts, I think it's easier today than back in the day

    • @lalosalamanca8574
      @lalosalamanca8574 Před 3 měsíci +4

      @@dweez4703 yes it is. It's open season. Ain't no body hollering. Back in 96 everybody was macking. Now in 2024 I am probably the only one macking in the club

  • @maskedman5657
    @maskedman5657 Před 3 měsíci +8

    Nah. I don't agree. It's a waste of time.

    • @KevinSamuelsKid
      @KevinSamuelsKid Před 2 měsíci +1

      And that’s why you have Naruto character representing you and he doesn’t

    • @BlackpilledNGL
      @BlackpilledNGL Před 2 měsíci

      Literally how can you even talk😂​@@KevinSamuelsKid

  • @gillermoramirez6657
    @gillermoramirez6657 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Good stuff man keep it up the married women only wanted some validation though and see if you give it to her.

  • @infiniteyouth18
    @infiniteyouth18 Před 3 měsíci +2

    God bless you bro, I wish you nothing but success 👊

  • @italyvii
    @italyvii Před 3 měsíci +1

    It feels better n less suspicious when it’s simple n direct.

  • @zesphirousnetwork3681
    @zesphirousnetwork3681 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Damn homie I'm looking forward to that PAC video , real talk...

  • @modalsoul6511
    @modalsoul6511 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Men have never approached women collectively ( ask any woman ) some men do and some men don’t , I’m a 49 year old man ( 50 tomorrow) and I’ve only approached 10 women in my life.
    I’m self conscious of my looks , I hate my height and my looks , and I hate public attention….. lots of men feel like this so it has nothing to do with rejection.

    • @tyronwoodley1662
      @tyronwoodley1662 Před 2 měsíci

      You lack self confidence and it is clear you have a fear of rejection as you are self conscious of your looks and height!. Everybody has things about themselves that we would all like to change. Life is too short, just go for it bro!.

    • @modalsoul6511
      @modalsoul6511 Před 2 měsíci

      @@tyronwoodley1662 “go for it “ yeah right …. What if I get called out for harassing her then what ? What if other people hear me talking to her in that way? HELL NOOO

  • @dreese9
    @dreese9 Před 3 měsíci +14

    Bruh u catching a case nowadays if it’s the wrong woman. On top of the fact everyone trying to make their money in an inflated America. 😂😂

    • @AdilRarbaje
      @AdilRarbaje  Před 3 měsíci +3

      Ask her how old she is? Y’all boys don’t know how to ask females questions ?

    • @dreese9
      @dreese9 Před 3 měsíci +10

      @@AdilRarbaje I don’t mean age. We live in a day and age where just saying hi can get u ridiculed.

    • @tachometer-flac
      @tachometer-flac Před 3 měsíci +6

      Exactly, he'll figure it out... eventually.

    • @Doidao-xx5vf
      @Doidao-xx5vf Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@AdilRarbajeif you approach them you are creepy, if you don’t you are a disrespectful narcissist 🤷🏻‍♂️ lmao. I’ll approach a woman if I notice she has a nice personality if not I just leave them alone.

  • @jaguar1879
    @jaguar1879 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Why you mad people dont talk to girls you go ahead and live your life however you want

    • @christhomas7687
      @christhomas7687 Před 23 dny

      I've been focusing on Powers Boulevard in Colorado Springs in fact I'll focus on the next overpass project that just started

  • @mel.s6601
    @mel.s6601 Před 3 měsíci +2

    thx Man

  • @kruc5535
    @kruc5535 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Banger

  • @Newrippleeffect991
    @Newrippleeffect991 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Just tried few days ago and lady said she's married and I said well that is why it's hard to approach women out of the fear of rejection. Then I said I understand and you have a good day and I left her alone. At least I tried. Originally was like ain't gonna say nothing, but I told myself to man up and ask because you can't assume the answer will always be no.

  • @RJ-gn6gi
    @RJ-gn6gi Před 8 dny

    I have to approach cause dating apps don’t work

  • @aslysa2277
    @aslysa2277 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Hey Adil do you think you can over some topics in terms of how to keep masculine frame and maintain a relationship with a woman? My girlfriend has been really emotional due to her period lately and has been difficult to talk too have no clue what to do to help besides try and comfort her but she turns me away

    • @perolagrande
      @perolagrande Před 3 měsíci +1

      Get another woman. You shouldn't be taking sh*t from your current one, she has no respect for you.

    • @cedricmiller4370
      @cedricmiller4370 Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@@perolagrandegot that right he not there to kiss her hind part period or not disrespect should not be tolerated sounds like he scared to leave her and find a better replacement

    • @freshlysqueezedaesthetics2942
      @freshlysqueezedaesthetics2942 Před 3 měsíci

      If she keeps turning you away, then stop trying to talk to her; her period is not an excuse for that. Don't get take your efforts for granted.

  • @goon5544
    @goon5544 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Ive gotten rejected a lot. It hurts cuz we are wired to want acceptance from the opposite sex but im to the point where it doesnt phase me as much as well as humble me. I think society narratives are working against young men today and makes it even harder. Keep at it your making me wanna get back at it.

  • @hendrx
    @hendrx Před 3 měsíci +7

    Truth of the matter is, the catcalling dudes have ruined it for everyone else.

    • @Sin_Edulcorante
      @Sin_Edulcorante Před 3 měsíci +9

      Rather feminism narcisism and normopathy. But ok its always the guys fault.

    • @AdilRarbaje
      @AdilRarbaje  Před 3 měsíci

      Who said it was catcalling?

    • @hendrx
      @hendrx Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@AdilRarbaje I mean they made it so that even saying hi is considered harassment

  • @NebulaSon
    @NebulaSon Před 2 měsíci +1

    No we don't

  • @wordbrah628
    @wordbrah628 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Bro this is a fact. Not just with approaching women but life has altered in a way people are living through screens almost like robots. When you approach a women in person there's no time wasted
    Rejected or not. Regret is far worse than rejections.

    • @AdilRarbaje
      @AdilRarbaje  Před 3 měsíci

      Yessir

    • @turbo1997hsm
      @turbo1997hsm Před 3 měsíci +4

      I've never had regret when it comes to not approaching. It's not that serious

    • @AdilRarbaje
      @AdilRarbaje  Před 3 měsíci

      @@turbo1997hsm you’re not lying to me g you’re only lying to yourself

    • @turbo1997hsm
      @turbo1997hsm Před 3 měsíci +5

      @@AdilRarbaje The roi is not worth it to me. Maybe one day. Too many unloyal females out here these days.

    • @coolguycoolguy7267
      @coolguycoolguy7267 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Even if you missed opportunity to approach women, just simply start now

  • @user-jz6to8md3c
    @user-jz6to8md3c Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thats because of what feminism has done brother since the 1960's

  • @atlwoo
    @atlwoo Před 3 měsíci +1

    You said buckhead you in Atlanta ?

  • @AfroHispanicNomad
    @AfroHispanicNomad Před 3 měsíci

    Treat ugly and call ugly women who look like you good and call them beautiful and praise thier looks
    Treat and call beautiful women who look like you bad and talk about all her flaws and make her feel insecure and ugly so she only wants to date attractive men and men who look like her

  • @jmoney1584
    @jmoney1584 Před 3 měsíci +2

    This dude speaking facts

  • @mrlowednreverb8737
    @mrlowednreverb8737 Před 3 měsíci +6

    yea man people are people Just like u and me we all get shy as strangers But I'm at the point where I can litterally talk to celebrities if I came across one Because Why tf not? u human like I am No big deal

  • @Milgamix77
    @Milgamix77 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Maybe if it wasn’t such a hastle

    • @AdilRarbaje
      @AdilRarbaje  Před 3 měsíci

      Ain’t no Hastle just say you scared to approach women

    • @Milgamix77
      @Milgamix77 Před 3 měsíci +7

      @@AdilRarbaje You are part of the problem. There are many other dudes who are saying the same thing im saying and comments like this dont solve anything.

    • @Milgamix77
      @Milgamix77 Před 3 měsíci

      @@AdilRarbaje Im not going to waste my time approaching women who only tolerate 7ft tall travis scott monsters. I approach those who arent so mean though for sure

  • @christopherhorn1161
    @christopherhorn1161 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Lol, foh...

    • @1xincoo
      @1xincoo Před 3 měsíci

      youn get no buns unc

  • @realristtakerFrm6
    @realristtakerFrm6 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Listen to this dh and you’ll be fighting some 300 pound black dude 😂

  • @MrPink1750
    @MrPink1750 Před 3 měsíci

    Oh my god man - you a fan of Alan Roger Currie?? Sheet man. MODE One is the best book ever written for the modern man, homie. Ooh say it again is another banger man. His books are incredible.

  • @Sam-wc3fz
    @Sam-wc3fz Před 3 měsíci

    These comments are sad asf

  • @aiynaiy
    @aiynaiy Před 2 měsíci

    What, modern western women? Whatever dude...outta here 👉

  • @aarongarcia5667
    @aarongarcia5667 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Real talk tho bro . This is strange advice . Men are not supposed to be chasing . If the woman like you she gonna come up to you and that’s the only women you should be dealing with . Become that man with .

    • @AdilRarbaje
      @AdilRarbaje  Před 3 měsíci

      Strange?

    • @BlackpilledNGL
      @BlackpilledNGL Před 2 měsíci

      Nah you are right in a way but not every guy in every situation is gonna be that guy she just walk up too so you do gotta put in effort if you the average guy

  • @DeezyLevelUp718
    @DeezyLevelUp718 Před 3 měsíci +2

    💯💯💯🤝🏾🤝🏾🤝🏾🫡🫡🫡 salute, g.