MEN USE THEIR PURPOSE AS AN EXCUSE TO NOT TALK TO WOMEN!!

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    In this video i talk about how men use being on their purpose as an excuse to not talk to women . A lot of men are afraid of approaching women and instead try to make excuses. If you find a woman attractive you should make the approach because women will not make the approach . Whether you are a select man or not you have to approach it’s the only way to get your game better . #explore #explorepage #fypシ #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #redpill #bodygame

Komentáře • 121

  • @jessebradford7130
    @jessebradford7130 Před 4 měsíci +18

    Thb, the cold approach saying is what throws us off society from women. Just look at it as talking to girls. Ask a random question, give a compliment that's not about her looks, etc. just look at as socializing. That way the mentality of cold approach won't be does she want me or not? It'll be I'm just enjoying my life talking to people. So, the stress of rejection doesn't really have an opening. That's master ass confidence.

    • @ProdYafa
      @ProdYafa Před 4 měsíci +1

      Blue pill cope

    • @jessebradford7130
      @jessebradford7130 Před 4 měsíci

      @@ProdYafa No, I'm speaking on life in general. You're a little kid follower. You said blue pill only because you heard others say it. GTFO weak.

    • @NebulaSon
      @NebulaSon Před 4 měsíci

      It's just not for me pal

    • @christhomas7687
      @christhomas7687 Před 2 měsíci

      True

    • @jessebradford7130
      @jessebradford7130 Před měsícem

      @@NebulaSon Then do you, sport.

  • @marcus_ohreallyus
    @marcus_ohreallyus Před měsícem +1

    I've noticed this too. I look at the "Sigma" movement as a bunch of guys who have given up trying to relate to women and act like their purpose is more important than forming a relationship(or even having sex with) a female. It's kind of like that "you're not breaking up with me, I'm breaking up with you thing". And you can see in all of their videos that they hate women and give off a vibe of resentment because most likely they were rejected. It's so transparent.

  • @user-jz6to8md3c
    @user-jz6to8md3c Před 4 měsíci +25

    Alot of women play alot of mind games brother.

    • @PARZ90s
      @PARZ90s Před 4 měsíci +6

      Its too much effort. I remember when I thug maxed (Dressing like a thug for easy play) and it worked. But im older now and im not doing all of that just for quickie. Women want thugs!

    • @_youmadbrah
      @_youmadbrah Před 4 měsíci +8

      Only with the dudes they don’t actually want 😂

    • @Ronin-kk4bt
      @Ronin-kk4bt Před 4 měsíci +3

      @@_youmadbrahtrue if she really likes you she will make it easy for you if not expect the games

    • @user-jz6to8md3c
      @user-jz6to8md3c Před 4 měsíci +4

      @@_youmadbrah And many dudes these days because of that dont bother with them anymore they are tired of dealing with it hence MGTOW.

    • @GL0DE3N
      @GL0DE3N Před 4 měsíci

      I'm disabled nothing will work for me people don't wanna date a cripple man. Man I hope I don't live miserably

  • @pretinha718
    @pretinha718 Před 4 měsíci +27

    these dudes be living vicariously through these red pill dudes on social media. you can tell a lot of these dudes don't get play in real life.

    • @GL0DE3N
      @GL0DE3N Před 4 měsíci

      If ur disabled u get none so not everybody has a choice

    • @jamespain2138
      @jamespain2138 Před 4 měsíci

      Dam right!

    • @NebulaSon
      @NebulaSon Před 4 měsíci +1

      Do you have to approach women to get "play"?

  • @danielprado2008
    @danielprado2008 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Bro said nothing but facts!🔥

  • @MrEverest06
    @MrEverest06 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Facts! That's the harsh truth! Good to have purpose, but still live life, and interact with people around you.

  • @babygrind7382
    @babygrind7382 Před 4 měsíci +3

    😂😂😂😂 he preaching fact no cap 🧢 💯💯💯

  • @StrivingForGlory_
    @StrivingForGlory_ Před 4 měsíci +23

    Most dudes don’t be on the purpose,they be 🧢. All I see in public is big simpin 😂.

    • @Precisionetica
      @Precisionetica Před 4 měsíci +4

      Alpha male strategies is Senor big tricking 🤣 . AMS is the one that started the “ Be one your purpose “ trend . This channel keeps it straight up real though.

    • @Dayxh8
      @Dayxh8 Před 4 měsíci +2

      lol yall goofy af

    • @PARZ90s
      @PARZ90s Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@Dayxh8Its true. Yall worship women!

    • @StrivingForGlory_
      @StrivingForGlory_ Před 4 měsíci

      @@Precisionetica he be having chicks eat his ass 😂. Idgaf that’s zesty as hell

  • @Mrdonny908
    @Mrdonny908 Před 4 měsíci +1

    My purpose is more important. RESPECTFULLY.. and you right i am scared years ago when i tried to approach a woman she went and got the cops on me never again.. but i rock with a lot of your content.

    • @timdane6132
      @timdane6132 Před 2 měsíci

      did you try to work it out to improve your game? even if you're a millionaire but still don't have balls to approach and face rejection, you can't keep a woman

    • @christhomas7687
      @christhomas7687 Před měsícem

      Yup RESPECTFULLY the future plans for Powers Boulevard is more important

    • @christhomas7687
      @christhomas7687 Před 9 dny

      Stay on my craft and stick around for those pounds

  • @blackronin5578
    @blackronin5578 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I used to think to focus on my grind first than women later when I younger but I realized that I need to do both cause for all I know she can play a big part in my success in the future.

    • @andrewevans7992
      @andrewevans7992 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Simp

    • @blackronin5578
      @blackronin5578 Před 4 měsíci

      @@andrewevans7992 some people won't see the light but it's cool, more milfs for me💯

  • @liltrill8976
    @liltrill8976 Před 4 měsíci +22

    I won’t feel confident until I master the body game to talk to woman

    • @SeijiZ-rd8xj
      @SeijiZ-rd8xj Před 4 měsíci +35

      this is wrong and I know this because you still won't be confident after obtaining a physique. the confidence comes from something that isn't attached to external things. it comes internally. learn how to be confident now.

    • @Ronin-kk4bt
      @Ronin-kk4bt Před 4 měsíci +1

      ⁠@@SeijiZ-rd8xjthis is true yup

    • @NebulaSon
      @NebulaSon Před 4 měsíci

      Why can't you just master something else?

    • @joelrobert4053
      @joelrobert4053 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@SeijiZ-rd8xjConfidence also comes from external factors. Your not gonna just decide to be confident out of the blue, usually when you master a craft or are good at something that builds your confidence

    • @liltrill8976
      @liltrill8976 Před 2 měsíci

      @@SeijiZ-rd8xj late response but bro I literally follow this page to master the body game look how many doors open for adlil when he mastered it

  • @O1coby
    @O1coby Před 4 měsíci +4

    Kinda off topic but I relate to you in many ways bro just from watching a few of your videos I’m not going to lie the body game the truth I’ve been going to the same gym for 4 years now and woman use to never look my way now they all lookin my way. That being said I still have to make the approach even though they find me attractive. I promise it’s worth it boys.

    • @Dejavu_77341
      @Dejavu_77341 Před 4 měsíci

      You still shouldn’t look up to him because his philosophy towards becoming a man towards women aren’t as logical as your think 😂

    • @GL0DE3N
      @GL0DE3N Před 4 měsíci

      For some people if ur disable be happy with being single forever

  • @Lemon-rk9hq
    @Lemon-rk9hq Před 4 měsíci

    I feel that 100% I was using that same excuse not to talk to women the last 2-3 months I’ve been cold approaching to get more comfortable again and get my confidence up just normal small talk we are all humans there’s no need to be afraid to confront and start a conversation with someone

  • @itstime3171
    @itstime3171 Před 4 měsíci +5

    i get approached at clubs, not allll the time
    but i be getting signals at clubs
    but the boy is right
    gotta cold approach in general most women
    especially the ones you want
    more than likely 9.9x/10 will not approach you, and may not even give you a sign
    unless you are select.. crazy select.
    take it from someone whose still working on all this,
    gotta approach, nothing wrong with being on your purpose and still talking to women
    for all my people who not red pill
    aint nothing better than having a loving women on yourside
    i dont know what that feels like though, but i've heard lol

    • @MrFLstyle
      @MrFLstyle Před 4 měsíci +2

      Even if they come up to you you still gotta know how to talk to them

  • @gabrieldavenport1395
    @gabrieldavenport1395 Před 4 měsíci +14

    It's really not an excuse. It's called priorities, my guy, if you see a girl you find attractive in public you know you have a very slim chance she's going to be into you so why even bother? Especially if you're broke and don't have you're shit together and plus even if the girl likes you they play games with you. So why even waste your time over something you can't control anyways and just move onto something you can control like chasing you're purpose?

    • @AdilRarbaje
      @AdilRarbaje  Před 4 měsíci +7

      Nah you disqualified yourself you already think you not good enough

    • @gabrieldavenport1395
      @gabrieldavenport1395 Před 4 měsíci +3

      @@AdilRarbaje but I'm saying if 100 plus girls don't find you attractive why bother it's not worth it.

    • @lil.leonski
      @lil.leonski Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@gabrieldavenport1395 You are either not trying hard enough, or need to continue working on yourself. Your comments give off the vibe of a man who is lacking self belief, and without a certain level of self belief you are shooting yourself in the foot before you've even seen a woman in person. Building self confidence is not easy, but its either keep trying or give up, and I know which option i'd rather choose...Any man can become the best version of themselves possible, however you must be willing to break past the negative mindsets and thoughts patterns of self doubt that you've gained throughout your life. Then you will be able to fully explore your potential.

    • @GL0DE3N
      @GL0DE3N Před 4 měsíci +4

      ​@@lil.leonski what happens if u have a disability an women don't find that attractive howto change that and what happens if u can't fix it

    • @AgeofCraccadilliaassent
      @AgeofCraccadilliaassent Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@GL0DE3N their advice don't work anyways bro

  • @Closedeyewilly
    @Closedeyewilly Před 4 měsíci +3

    nah bro, if you want quality women to approach you, focus on your purpose. We're not out here building womens confidence and ego up just to be rejected anymore.

    • @timdane6132
      @timdane6132 Před 2 měsíci

      approach women that gives you choosing signals. you're delusional if you think high quality woman will approach you. theyll give you hints and make it easy for you, but at the end of the day, men are still the ones to show courage to approach and keep conversation going

  • @yugiiuk
    @yugiiuk Před 4 měsíci +1

    same here adil people talk shit about me behind closed doors ain't gonna say it to my face tho cause imma defend myself if shit get physical

  • @NebulaSon
    @NebulaSon Před 4 měsíci +3

    And what excuse do women use to not talk to men?

  • @SteveRamos918
    @SteveRamos918 Před 4 měsíci

    Straight facts bro i approached asked this one woman and told her she’s really attractive n ask for her number and she said “ I’m married “ I just kept it moving. It felt like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Yo guys just make the approach don’t make it complicated

  • @NanaTheSoul
    @NanaTheSoul Před 4 měsíci +5

    Bro😂 a man needs to focus on GOD and his purpose to get the right woman a man of value will never chase a woman that’s facts he let’s his energy speak and attract‼️💯

    • @AdilRarbaje
      @AdilRarbaje  Před 4 měsíci +2

      Approaching is chasing?

    • @PARZ90s
      @PARZ90s Před 4 měsíci +5

      ​@AdilRarbaje Bro we just dont want to put in all this effort for a quickie.

    • @NanaTheSoul
      @NanaTheSoul Před 4 měsíci +4

      @@AdilRarbaje if your going out your way all the time to approach a female yes it’s chasing ‼️ only approach women who want you simple as that!

    • @Dejavu_77341
      @Dejavu_77341 Před 4 měsíci

      @@AdilRarbajeAproach is not chasing your just too dumb to understand your content will never blow and that’s the reality of it sorry to break it you but it’s the truth .

    • @Dejavu_77341
      @Dejavu_77341 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@PARZ90sBro be heavily honest with yourself on your mama on god on death on everything bro be honest with yourself man bro to bro are you really taking this dudes quotes and content serious🙄.

  • @MrEverest06
    @MrEverest06 Před 4 měsíci +1

    You kept too real on this 💯💯💯

  • @sr92007
    @sr92007 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Good video bro did some approaches at the mall today but didn't get any numbers yet growing.

    • @petrixsevenz3371
      @petrixsevenz3371 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Good on you, you doing better than all these other man-boys Coping hard for not taking the initiative to shoot your shots.

    • @AdilRarbaje
      @AdilRarbaje  Před 4 měsíci +5

      Keep being comfortable with being uncomfortable my g💯

    • @Troyphy
      @Troyphy Před 4 měsíci +1

      ​@@AdilRarbajeThat needs to be on a T shirt. "Get comfortable with discomfort" 👍🏿

    • @PARZ90s
      @PARZ90s Před 4 měsíci +1

      Bro give it up. If you cant even get a number its over for you. Even if you get a number that doesnt mean you will get laid. Its over.

    • @AgeofCraccadilliaassent
      @AgeofCraccadilliaassent Před 4 měsíci +1

      Yeah save you self the humiliation and embarrassment. Keep your dignity and respect

  • @DJ-kw6zk
    @DJ-kw6zk Před 4 měsíci +4

    100%. Too many young men pay too much attention to the distortions of social media (IG, Dik Doc, etc.) rather than making their way in real life.

  • @MrNinout
    @MrNinout Před 4 měsíci +1

    Only approach women thats giving you choosing signals if shes not doing that for you then shes not interested

  • @bigman5652
    @bigman5652 Před 4 měsíci +1

    The Mighty Ducks!!! hahahha Great Points Man!

  • @andrewevans7992
    @andrewevans7992 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Why should we talk to them fool? Purpose comes first before women

    • @christhomas7687
      @christhomas7687 Před 27 dny

      My degree to do Highway maintenance is more important than women

    • @christhomas7687
      @christhomas7687 Před 17 dny

      Got a million things on my mind executive deals online limited amount of time chasing these dollar signs and you ain’t on your grind

  • @gsharpshooter80
    @gsharpshooter80 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Sup my man love the vids, keep em comin! By any chance you from Queens? Just wondering cuz you remind me of a brotha of mine who walk, talk, and rock the NY snapback just like you and he’s from Queens

    • @AdilRarbaje
      @AdilRarbaje  Před 4 měsíci +2

      Nah g Atlanta but shoutout NY 💯

    • @gsharpshooter80
      @gsharpshooter80 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@AdilRarbaje oh Ight no doubt my man, keep doin your thing. Hope your channel blows up to the top 🚀

  • @dexternjoku5196
    @dexternjoku5196 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I fuck with everything you said except the boyfriend shit, if she say she got a boyfriend I keep it moving. I’m not playing that game, there’s too many women in the world to entertain that shit bro. But that’s just me personally

  • @emeraldlewis3049
    @emeraldlewis3049 Před 4 měsíci

    Talking facts

  • @daimeonbutler962
    @daimeonbutler962 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Dont get caught up in the comments Bro…That happens as you move up with your 🔥 content!!

  • @dannymac56kareoke99
    @dannymac56kareoke99 Před 2 měsíci

    What you learn from getting punched in the face

  • @AdamJPM-sc9zv
    @AdamJPM-sc9zv Před 3 měsíci

    100%

  • @AgeofCraccadilliaassent
    @AgeofCraccadilliaassent Před 4 měsíci +4

    I don't get play and there's no game etc for my face and height. I'm indifferent have accepted the fate it's just nature taking course

  • @GetFitWitMax
    @GetFitWitMax Před 4 měsíci

    Facts

  • @theinfamousop2691
    @theinfamousop2691 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Nothing but mf facts adil

  • @brandonhonaker5493
    @brandonhonaker5493 Před 4 měsíci

    💯

  • @popschannel2496
    @popschannel2496 Před 4 měsíci

    Yes bro im on semen remtention also. Im also a tall guy and in shape.Got this girl bro in gym she keeps making eye contact most the time wen im around. I try not to make it bait. Should i approach in the gym. Not to sure as people go to workout. Anyways another banger video bro

  • @amin4377
    @amin4377 Před 4 měsíci +2

    adil, why you never talk about how was your dating life before you started practicing the body game. i'm very curious about it. did you used to hit the same too?

  • @QdaRICHBARBER
    @QdaRICHBARBER Před 4 měsíci

    💯💯💯💯

  • @FemaleUtopia
    @FemaleUtopia Před 4 měsíci

    Pill horse 🐎 8:35

  • @MrPink1750
    @MrPink1750 Před 4 měsíci

    BOOM

  • @symboIiq
    @symboIiq Před 4 měsíci

    Just approach at least one girl a day. That’s 30 chicks a month. At least one will like you. Ain’t that difficult. But I get why dudes don’t do it. You gotta apply pressure

  • @DEADSTARZ
    @DEADSTARZ Před 4 měsíci

    Most dudes lame fr