Give What You Want | The Other Half | Holly Furtick
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- When we keep score in our relationships, everyone loses. But since things are rarely 50/50, what are we supposed to do? How can we expect to receive what we need, when we feel like we're the only one giving?
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I LOVE hearing this woman speak. She is so gifted in communicating the gospel and I love the insight God gives her. You go girl!
I loved this message. Almost everyday we hear Pastor Furtick sermons on our way to school and my little one told me that Pastor Furtick and Holly should preach together one day!
My reward for serving and giving comes from God, not from man. Profound word Sister Holly.
Holly Furtick, this has helped me really see more clearly. I know this was 2 years ago but it has helped me and confirmed what I need to do today. Thank you for this.
Each time I listen to Holly Furtick my life is transformed. Great sermon
5 years later......... my first time listening to Holly! And God knew I needed this message! Amazing Holly!! Thank you
@Mason Outdoors, thanks for joining us. Holly's You Tube Channel has all of her sermons and much more. czcams.com/channels/Qjr4qo9tgFtYOF9QXbTIQQ.html
This was life changing message.
Felt like flowing water.
This sermon was EVERYTHING. This sermon was preached almost three years ago but its still soo timely!
THANK you Pastor Steven and Pastor Holly Furtick, for the beautiful and powerful sermon!
I wish I would have understood this a few years ago...but am grateful to hear it now.
Great sermon.
This message is almost 3 years old and was right ON TIME for me today. Thanks for allowing God to use you!
Wow! Such a wise woman of God! So privileged and blessed to listen to this message. Bless you!
So I wasn't into this at first, then she touched on something I thought about every time I was tired or sick and didn't want to cook. Jonathan would say I'll cook babe, "no that's ok, I got it!" Insert snotty attitude... Then I would use that against my family "I do everything, no one does anything for me..." Holly absolutely delivered God's word. Recent tragedy renewed my faith, and excercising my faith in God opened me up to receive His word. This spoke to me, I hear you! Praise God
Wow! Just wow!! You are so the women spoken of in proverbs!
GIVE WHAT YOU WANT
Luke 6:38
give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you."
1)GIVE and it will be given
Give : Rationally not only financially like serving, loving, encouraging(heart and soul of our relationships)
{We only want or expect from others}
One place to start with is "Give what you want"
Jesus said "forgive and you will be forgiven" - Matthew 6:14
YOU WANT RESPECT ? GIVE RESPECT
GIVE GIVE GIVE
DONT WAIT FOR THE FEELINGS TO COME - YOU HAVE TO DO IT IN OBEDIENCE TO CHRIST.
Jesus didn't die on the cross cause "He felt like doing it" - He acted in obedience to what He was called to do on the earth.
Philippians 2:8:11
Says he humbled himself, becoming obedient to the point of death.
And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.
We are not reducing God to a formula " Give what you want" - like "hey God last week I got Starbucks for everyone at work, when are they gonna get my latte?" STOP! Look around and see how you can bless others.
*When you are giving make sure your motives are in the right place - When i am serving to be served, when I am giving to receive - then I am doing it all for the wrong reason.*
JESUS TOLD US TO GIVE WITHOUT EXPECTING ANYTHING IN RETURN. *SOMETIMES I REALLY HAVE TO CHECK MYSELF* - Why I'm I doing all this stuff? 🧐
Why I'm I bringing Starbucks for everyone at work? Is it because I want everybody to love me? Or is it because I'm generous? 🧐
*WHEN IM WALKING AROUND ANNOUNCING ALL THE THINGS THAT IM DOING - IM JUST CREATING STRESS FOR MYSELF - CAUSE IT DOESN'T ACCOMPLISH ANYTHING*
Sometimes when iam given to others it is like I'm trying to take control over them. Sometimes I'm just running around doing stuff just for people to notice how busy iam. Any people will be like " wow she is a very nice person " *IF* those are the reasons why iam giving - they are all wrong motives.
GOD IS INTO OUR MOTIVES. He rewards us according to our motives.
2 kings 4
Elisha and the Shunammite women - wealthy women
The bible tells us that whenever prophet Elisha comes to the town she would have him in her home for a meal. And one day she tells her husband "let us build a room for this prophet, he is a man of God and he comes here often so that he can stay here whenever he comes." So she did it that she put in great details in the room. HER MOTIVES WERE PURE. She simply wanted to bless the prophet and we know this because the prophet came to her and said "you've gone into all this trouble for me,what can info for you" and guess what she said to him - I'M GOOD - He said "no, no I can go to the king and make a request to the commander of the army" and she said "No I'm good, I have a house among my people" - SHE SAW A NEED AND GAVE IT OUT IN ABUNDANCE. Sometimes we give out of obedience, other times we see a need and get really excited about it and we wanna give to that person either way - as long as our motives are right - then we will be reward.
2) Give and IT will be given to you.
God us our heavenly father and he sees us and he wants to reward us, He promises to reward us but WHAT IS THE *IT"* GIVEN *IT* will be given to you?
When I give, when I serve, when I love, when I forgive "What is given to me?" And this is the answer GIVE WHAT YOU WANT AND YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU NEED and the thing is that GOD KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT YOU NEED today. He knows you need acceptance, he knows you need encouragement, he knows you need a miracle in your marriage or in your relationships. Sometimes *IT* is the very thing that I gave. Other times *when you give, God meets a deeper need inside of you.*
He gives you something that - maybe you gave up a long time ago and that's what is happening in our story of the Shunammite woman. The prophet Elisha wasn't satisfied with her answer, he was determined to do something for her and he found out from another person that she had never had any children and so he told the women "this time, next year you will hold a son in your arms". You know what she said ? "No, no please don't say that to me if it is not true".
I'd like to think that maybe she had prayed for years for a child and then somewhere along the way she had just given up on having a son. But you see God brought back to life that very desire in her because if her gift. *It's the thing that you gave, sometimes it's the thing that you gave up on, Sometimes God gives you things that you didn't even know that you needed.*
{Forgiveness is an act of the will - it's not an emotion, it's not a feeling -Access something you didn't know you had because you did something you didn't want to do - like you wanna forgive someone but u just can't and u make a tiny prayer and god fills you with his love and you can just forgive them}
Sometimes when you give, God blesses you with something you didn't even know you need it.
*GIVE WHAT YOU WANT AND YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU NEED.*
3) give and it will be *GIVEN*
We must come to understand that God is the GIVER
*True fulfillment doesn't come from my relationship with others. It comes from my relationship with God. He may bless me through others but my true fulfillment comes from my relationship with God.*
Colossians 3:23
Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ.
We just come to a realization that when we are serving others we are actually not serving the people in our life but we are serving God himself.
The bible doesn't promise "you do for them, they'll do for you", the Bible tells us that God is the GIVER - He is the one ultimately that iam serving, He is the one that gives me the strength to serve and he is the one that rewards me.
If you are giving so that others will see you, or others will need you - you've missed the whole point - Because the reward is so much deeper than that and when I truly understand that the one Iam serving is God I can be set free from the need to be noticed by others and that's the whole essence of this message today - that when I truly understand that God is the one whom I'm serving then I can find 100 clothes of laundry without anybody thanking me, that I can go an extra mile for a friend because ultimately iam doing it for JESUS.
Luke 6:35 says
But love ye your enemies, and do good and lend, *hoping for nothing in return;* and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest; for He is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.
WHY DON'T YOU BE THE NEED METER? GOD IS THE ONE WHO IS SUPPLYING ALL OF YOUR NEEDS ACCORDING TO HIS RICHES AND GLORY IN CHRIST JESUS.
WHEN YOU GIVE, YOU RECEIVE AND GOD IS THE GIVER OF EVERY GOOD AND PERFECT GIFT.
Watch your videos on CZcams, TBN and just LOVE your ministry Holly (and you Steven) I'm 62 years young, from Durban South Africa and receive what you preach - LOVE IT!
Durban! You ever been to Christian Family Church?
Oh Pastor Holly - this is 4 years ago but still so relevant and timely! Thank you! I’ll now find the entire series.
I just truly wanted to say from the depths of my heart, that this series of " The Other Half" has touched me so profoundly. I mean right on time with every single issue, feeling, & situation I am currently going through. I have felt lost for a few months now and yes sulking and drowning in it all. I am my own prisoner of Offense. I just want to thank you both for what do; speaking and reaching out to all those in need. You are helping me in every moment with recognition of what has truly been occurring and opening my eyes to Gods love and true intention. Thank you for helping me understand.
Praise be to the holy god... it was really a blessing to hear it.... your sermon has even reached to the people of India....
I needed to hear this. Made me cry and listened to it to work and on the way home again. I was struggling so much over a several months asking my husband and 4 adult children to pray God would give me direction. One of my sons sent this to me. It gave me the answer to our prayers.❤️ Thank you, Jesus.
You are a great Pastor and woman of God!! Please keep preaching! I am praying over you, your church and marriage! God Bless You Pastor Holly!
I love this sermon Holly! Thank you for your beautiful love for God and people 💕✝️ you and pastor Steven are so very transparent and real!! This has been our church now since Covid! So one year now 😊 and I have been saved for a very very long time, but I have to be transparent with you guys! I have never been able to except so much truth about my self and the wrong about me and what I need to work until God sent us Elevation Church , who would of thought in my own living room week after week I and being transformed like never before... Thank you again! We love you
Awesome Sermon! Thank you guys for making it available online, so that a danish guy like me can prosper from it
I haven't seen her other video's but I like how she gives all the glory to God.
God bless you, Holly furtick.
"Your reward for giving to others comes from Him, not from them." Amen
I to thought this scripture meant monetary, but it makes sense. Thank you for shedding light on this scripture.
Just heard "Give What You Want. .."! Awesome, awesome teaching. I "got" it! Thank you, Holly Furtick!
Love listening to Holly, she is a realistic person who comes across as a humble person. Sharing her life lessons brings home the truth in her messages which I can relate to.
coming back from the mother's day message about oil and hearing this First Lady say "i'm not about props" God is good
So blessed mama! More grace and anointing for you and your entire family ijn, Amen!🙏🏾
Cheers
What a beautiful message. Thank you ♡♡♡
What a way to deliver the word!!! I AM HOOKED!
Thankyou God for this woman. Amen
I feel so Blessed to have found you Holly & Pastor Steven My Life Will Never Be The Same Only Better Thank You 💞💫
awesome message Holly! God bless sending tons of ❤ from NYC
Wow, God led me to this message at just the right time! Thank you and God bless you both from the UK
Thank you for this. As a mum "always giving" this was my word for this season.
Be blessed.
Such a great sermon. Really.
Timeless
So Amazing, loved it, it is EVIDENT that this family is Truly BLESSED by God🙏
Thank you Holly for the wonderful sermon...xx Its my first time listening to your sermon but a very strong powerful message to alot of people out there. Many of us want to be valued and appreciated for what we do and and what we stand for...but the root of it all is when we give its because God puts it into our hearts to give.
You are so right to say that true fullfillment does not come from the relationships that we have with others but it comes from God.
It is written in (Colossians 3:23-24)... Thank you so much.
Infact I was wanting to put a bible quote on facebook today but I would normally share what I have read or heard and you have answered my question .
THANK YOU .
This message has blessed me so much! Thank you for sharing ❤️
Wow wow wow, that story made me cry, what a powerful testimony, 🙏
Thank you!! You all are a tremendous blessing!!
You are a blessing in my life Holly. Every time i open sermon you are preaching it always bless me in a special way.God bless you
Wow... I’ve needed to hear this sermon for a long time now. Thank you God and thank you Holly 🙂
Just amazing! Such a blessing to have come across this message! Greetings from Barcelona!
This was just what I needed to hear. I think Ive spent my whole life waiting to be loved, respected, appreciated, forgiven etc.... Some times I think im the only olive branch giver in my family...... they always say that the joy of giving is better reward than that of receiving... Time to give it a go. Thank you xxx
She is great! and y'all are a beautiful couple!!
Pastor Holly the way you look at Pastor Steve omg I couldn't stop smiling! lmfo Great word this week I'll be the one reaching out to people to spend time with God because that's an area of encouragement I've been needed these past weeks. And go to the extend to hold people accountable by checking in on them and what they've learned.
I loved this message and wanted to thank you for it. I just recently found Pastor Steven on CZcams and have been watching daily. It was nice to hear from his wife. God bless!
Had such a revelation while watching this video
Wow! This really impacted my understanding of this verse. Loved the minute to win it segment at the end. Thanks for sharing!
You really made me cry today with your second message..I really enjoyed it a lot! You've blessed me.. xxx
Pastor Steven is my all time favorite Pastor but now after receiving the word from Holly Furtick, she is so so amazing. ( Sarasota Florida) so the 21st location should be here, so I’ll keep praying
So thankful for the both of you!!!
Praise God ‼️
Seriously God is good.I read Luke verse the give and it will be given to you, and I asked God to explain it better.I asked him for understanding of it.I love that I clicked this video.Thank you so much, I feel good really wants me to hear this word even tho, I live by this already, but I can work harder on it.Tjanks Holly.
Thank you, God bless you I really needed to hear this 🙏🏾
Thank you so much for your message! it's such an amazing yet challenging message! Thank you for sharing your heart!
I know that this series is for me and this word is for me. She was just finished talking about giving the very thing that we need and I paused the video. I prayed to God asking him to not send me people to encourage me (the thing I have been asking God for, for a while) but rather help me to encourage others even when I feel that I am lacking in it myself. Literally a few second after I resumed the video and she said, "By encouraging someone, I recieve encourage ment." I couldn't help but thank God in that moment. 🙏🏾
Wow.... that is a truly beautiful message Mrs. Holly. That really touched me and helped me and encouraged me. You're a wonderful speaker, sister, and I thank you for this message! Very very powerful. You're a great speaker and encourager! I love how you talk about Corri ten Boon as well! God bless you sister.
Thank you! This relationship series is well needed!
Thank God for his perfect timing.
Great relationship advice is so easy to come by exactly when we need God to speak to us,when we are Christian.
Praise God that you spoke about this.
God Bless you Furtick family.
This message encouraged me to apologize to someone that hurt me. Thank you 🙏
Love this message. Thank you Holly
thrilled to see holly preaching again, she's the best! :) Hope to see her preaching again soon. :)
This is the first time I have listened to Holly, I have found so much through paster Steven and this was a blessing to me ❤️🤷♀️🤷♀️❤️❤️🤷♀️
This is an amazing sermon, so well spoken and on point
what an amazing message.GOD bless you.
God bless you all! This helped me out a lot and I related so much!! thank you so much, Glory to God! I love you brother and sister!
GREAT message! very much needed!
This is an Awesome message ❤️ I feel like I'm always the Giver in my marriage. I used to feel like the maid, cook, gofer for errands. I've come to the realization that I am just thankful that God gives me the opportunity to do these things.
Love this! Pastor Holly has such a generous heart. I'm excited to live it #needmeeter
Wow i am blessed, thank you Mrs Furtic😊 may God continue to bless you, you're amazing
Holly you have a very sweet voice and the message touched my heart because it is exactly how I lived my life..always pleasing and giving and being sad for not being given back in some ways or another. Thank you Holly.
This is so good holly i really needed this i started to cry thank u god bless u
This is so incredible and inspirational....I've shared it with my wife because it's just exactly what we need....with a troubled marriage and confusion in our midst, its chaos and only God can redeem us through this situation. Thanks somuch for the message and to be honest it's such a huge blessing to us.
Awesome. Thanking God. Thanks Holly
she is so clear on explaining the word n the third-party story love her teaching this is how teaching shud be today because it tells me that we all even if is pastors bishop etc have dirty live bur still on the right saves not make it seems like they have prefect life so good god bless her n family
Wow! I needed to hear this. I have been so focused on reciprocity, this Word so helped me this morning.
Thank you for shining a light.
Omgoodness! I love love you two! What a blessing! Thank you!
Thank you for this message! Praise God 💞
This is great! 'I AM SET FREE from the need to be noticed'!
GRACE OKOI amen!!!!! A GREAT gift from God!!!
Thank you for this word Pastor! I didn't know I needed this word until I heard it. Finding this message today was so timely !! #grateful
What a wonderful message!
I was gonna stop the message when I saw it was holly and not her husband but decided to listen to her. She is really good I’m glad I listened.
Holly is amazing would love to see more of her!
Simple message but profound and refreshing. We must NOT do what we do simply for reward from God, or to receive it back from others. I loved the Corey testimony of forgiveness. I need that . Bless God for His unfailing love!!!!! Amazing Grace!!!!!!!
I love this sermon! Yes, Holly! Amazing!!!! Love you!!
Stumbled upon this video .Its amazing.Love from a malaysian living in the UK.God bless everyone.
Amazing word! Just what I needed. Thank you, Holly. Blessings to you and the church, in the name of Jesus! 💙
I love this!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you, Jesus! Hallelujah God, your word is awesome
wow!..profound! thank you Jesus for your word. Amen
Laura Damaris-O., amen. Thankful for the word!!!
She's so beautiful her soul is beautiful and it shows💜
Wow wow wow all I can say is wow. This sermon was beautiful and well said. Thank you God. Thank you Lord for elevation church and it's CZcams videos that I can watch anytime when I need the word of God.
I'm so touched my first time to listen to her sermons thank you Jesus May God bless you Sister
Amazing word! Exactly what I had been struggling with! Thanks so much!
My gosh this was so timely and good for me in my dating experience RIGHT NOW.
needed this... thank you so much. brought tears to my eyes. i always give and felt like id get nothing back but the way you put it... god gives back what we need. and i will no longer expect anything cuz i know God will give back to me as he always does. Thank you for shining light and opening my eyes to see it this way. LOVE this so much and love Gods words.