OCHAZUKE | 3types of Rice in Green tea
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- Welcome to Kimono Mom's Kitchen! This is a cooking show by a Japanese mom and her daughter. Today we madeOcha-zuke. It's easy to make with ingredients you can find anywhere in the world! Please give it a try! If you make it, please tag me and share it!
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Thanks for your support as always! As I said on Instagram, I'm mad at Sutan from 1:40 to 3:55, so skip it if you don't want to see it. For me, it's a learning experience as a parent to keep filming our everyday life. She didn't drop the rice on purpose. And I didn't have to look so scary, she could have understood if I talked to her normally. I really feel everyday that Raising children makes us grow up!
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Keep doing this great job, that's raising a toddler, for me every parents need to learn that they must taught their children how to behave and be respectful
its fine Moe 🥺 its part of the journey of being a mom and daighter relationship
You realizing that is enough... there are so many parents out there that for some reason, they don't feel guilt when they shame their children or shout at them, or even hit them just because of whatever mistake they did. Sutan is lucky to have you as a mother.
You did the correct process for Sutan. She has learned a valuable lesson. You are a good role model.
You know best Moe-san and you're the best at what you do.. it did really hurt my heart a little bit seeing sutan getting disciplined by you, seeing her little nervous smile but I'm so glad she took it well and was very much involved in the cooking after the "scary face". Thanks for sharing your slice of life, I and all of us here really appreciate it Arigatou Gozaimasu ❤️
The biggest thing I appreciate is how Moe was able to move on from the rice incident and talk to Sutan normally within minutes. A lot of parents discipline their child for much longer than necessary or healthy. Having your Mom be mad at you for hours or the entire day because of one mistake is a horrible experience for a child and can create tons of emotional regulation issues down the road if it’s done consistently.
my family farms rice and i got a little emotional when you talked about how important each grain is. it feels good to know the work we do is appreciated.
Thank you for sharing 💕 I’m not even a farmer but having a background in environmental sustainability, I know the cost of the worlds food systems and also got emotional and inspired to know that each grain is appreciated (because that is definitely not the case everywhere in the world
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yess. My parents too talked about how important not only rice itself is, but how important the people who work to grow and harvest every grain of rice are, so i'm grateful to all those who make having a full stomach much easier these days. Thank you guys for all your hard work!
Rice is amazing thank you
As a Japanese American, I remember our family growing up in the US with being told this as well. Wasting food was not allowed. Each grain of rice was valuable.
I like that Moe shows herself disciplining Sutan. It's real. All parents go through it and you can't avoid it. Moe's struggles and frustrations validate other mothers and parents that are raising toddlers. Parenting isn't always laughter, giggles, and having fun and looking perfect on CZcams. Parents have a tough job of instilling responsibility, discipline, and meaning in their children. Moe was very calm and explained things very well to Sutan. Great job Moe.
What Moe did was very important but most importantly very well done. She didn't yell, she didn't make loud noise but she showed that she was very serious. Sutan knows that when she smiles, Moe also smiles after her, she saw that her mom was angry and understood that there are consequences to her actions (in this case, Moe scolding her) Food is a privilege, something that many people can't afford, it's very important that Sutan understands from young age this concept and Moe did it very well teaching her that
I agree. As a pre-school/kindergarten teacher of 5 years, I personally think she responded superbly. I am happy she included this in the video.
I don't think toddlers can understand this reasoning
@@lunaromance2243 no they don't. But it's better that Sutan or any other toddler be taught at a young age that food is not to be messed or play with. Besides, what's great of what Moe did is that she was firm, serious and calm in talking to Sutan. Some parents (incl. mine) were just either violent or angry without giving an easy explanation as to why food is not something to play or drop on the ground.
@@kalimerishy the explanation is not needed when the kid doesn't understand it
@@lunaromance2243 some kids can grasp an explanation more than others. What I said in my previous comment may have been vague, but I'll say it again. It's important for parents to teach or discipline their child. Whether it's through an explanation of showing it through actions. Sure, kids don't fully understand, but any form of discipline would be better for parents to include an explanation. Even in the simplest of words. It's a way of teaching children what's wrong and right.
I actually don't think Moe did anything wrong with her discipline when Sutan dropped the rice. You can immediately see just how angry and frustrated she got, but she still took several seconds to breathe and compose herself before addressing it. Then, she explained to Sutan very calmly and firmly why it is so important not to drop the food and the value of the food. I totally understand the feeling of guilt that Moe feels because now she knows it was an accident and not intentional. It's important to remember that, as humans, we can't always immediately brush off something that upsets us. Moe was upset for a few minutes and then makes a visible effort to move on. And that is such a great way to go about this whole thing. Idk, that's just me, i actually think she executed the discipline perfectly. She reigned in her emotions, explained the reason she was upset, and did her best to move on. I personally probably would not have so much self-control in a similar situation
Absolutely, I completely agree with all that. Even if it was an accident, Sutan was, in fact, careless and, as a growing toddler, needs to learn to control her actions and that actions have consequences. Moe did that but also made sure Sutan knew that she still loved her.
Yes, this will be something Sutan remembers, she had an accident but it's very important that she thinks and is careful in the kitchen because she could get hurt. Impulses are normal for little kids but so is learning to control them. She knows and this helps her brain remember.
Yes I also think that is what discipline should be. Not displays of angers, no yelling, no tears.
I'm glad she kept this moment in the edidting and let us see it. I am amazed about how Moe responded to this, with no yelling even if she look very upset. It must have been hard for her to keep her anger in, she did so well! It looks like Sutan understood how serious the matter was, she was focus to what her mama says, did not cries or have a tantrum. I will keep that scene in mind, if one day I have children Moe will be one of my parenting models, for sure.
What i have observed thus far is that in almost every episode, whenever she turns around to grab something, she always had her stuff close to sutan. Maybe just put the things further away so she cant just grab it out of nowhere and accidents like this wont likely happen.
@@shinjid3705 That's a good idea too, but as she gets older Moe should trust her more too not to have that happen anyway. It's just a slow process they both have to work on.
Sutan maintained the eye contact when Moe was explaining to her. That speaks a lot me , means she tried to understand her mom’s words, feelings and her own. Me as a kid and adult usually avert my eyes whenever I am having a difficult conversation or try to avoid confrontation. The fact that a kid does a better job again shows the tremendous effort her parents put in raising her.
Be careful to not misinterpret. Depending on the person avoiding eye contact can actually be a sign of intent listening.
For extreme introverts like me any eye contact is stressful. In a tense situation even more, so I turn my eyes away to be able to concentrate on what is said.
@@steemlenn8797 I do agree it differs person to person, Here to me it seemed like Sutan initially tried to diffuse with laughter then grew serious and paid attention. She seemed to be following along better by maintaining eye contact.
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@@steemlenn8797 well she did understand. watch the mixed rice video.
I got chills when Moe scolded Sutan, it was so “professionally” done
One of the most labor intensive, hardest jobs in the world is rice farming. It's probably better now with modern farming equipment, but I can remember seeing rice farmers working all day, every day.
What she did really what my mom and my aunts does when I was kid. We need to appreciate the effort of the farmers. 👍🏻
More is a great mum ❤️ We are from Ireland and before the pandemic started! Japan is such a beautiful place! Thank you for sharing this video! Sutan is cheeky you are such a good mother ❤️ sending love from IReland 🇮🇪
I can personally attest to this notion of it a grueling labor intense job.
No farmers No food.
It is pretty easy now for japanese rice farmers.
They have specialized equipment to plant and harvest the rice.
If I were a kid, my mom would have just yelled and screamed at me, even about things that were genuine accidents, and to this day I flinch when anyone raises their voice around me. I appreciate this kind of parenting-- it's not easy, for sure, but Sutan is gonna grow up to be healthy and well-adjusted, and learn how to cope with stress and strong emotions well.
Same. Also my mother would go on about it for weeks and unpack everything I did wrong since the day I was born. I also flinch around raised voices, don't like when people speak loudly as it gives me anxiety and am I'm perfectionist which I'm trying hard to let go of. It's nice to see a positive example for a change.
I'm coming back to this episode to say thank you Moe for showing us the "real" side of parenting. I learn so much from you. Thank you for not cutting out the part from 1:40 - 3:55
Growing up in a family who has a rice farm background, my parents did tell me the same about rice, how important it is to them to care and cherish even a little peace of rice.
Moe's way of teaching almost made me cry and I was happy to see other's thought. Thank you for sharing that moment!!!
This are Indian values ingrained in Japanese society although the influence of India in Japan has greatly reduced starting from 1600s but sometimes it shows in the way people think how they behave
I really appreciate that you included the part about teaching Sutan about the rice. I'm from the Philippines and my father came from a family of farmers. I remember that when I was a kid, I was having a bit of a tantrum and I refused to finish my rice. My parents got angry, understandably. My Dad then told me the story of how he had a rough childhood helping out at his parents' farm and how he planted rice himself from an early age. Of course, it was hard work because he had to study and farm at the same time. From then on, I tried to only take food that I could finish and not waste rice. This is a really valuable lesson that Sutan will take until adulthood. Thank you very much. I feel the respect you have for people, especially farmers, who strive to put food on everyone's tables.
Moe was superb ….Kept her cool , taught Sutan what she did wrong than proceeded with filming a happy video
Sutan did no wrong, it was an accident.
@@carole8142 Yes but it's still good to learn that lesson from her mother. So she'll be more careful next time.
@@carole8142 accident? It's her who take the bowl, she made a mistake & she needs to learn from it
MOE YOU are SUCH a good mother!! We are from Ireland and before the pandemic started! Japan is such a beautiful place! Thank you for sharing this video! Sutan is cheeky you are such a good mother ❤️ sending love from IReland 🇮🇪
Riiiight???! Firm but fair - respect the food~ good lesson taught in a way Sutan can understand.
This is the best example of a parent disciplining their child. No shouting, no rage. Just a calm and collected explanation of why Sutan was in the wrong. You’re such an amazing example for other parents and i hope one day when I’m a mother, I can be just as calm and collected as you are
This reminds me back when i was a kid and just trying to help in the kitchen. When i made a mistake, i was scolded and asked to go out of the kitchen. Its makes me sad and hesitant when i wanted to help again. What Moe did here is splendid. She did scolding Sutan but also teach her to pay respect to the food and after Sutan promised that she wont do that again, Moe continued to let her helping and even get to brighten up the mood. I just wish i was teached like this and i'm happy for Sutan to have such a great mother. Hope you guys stay healthy ❤
I appreciate so much that you included the part explaining to sutan the importance of rice and why we need to treat our food with respect🧡🧡🧡 Moe you’re an amazing parent, keep doing you!
exactly just how Donald Trump explains the value of Rice And Real Estate ! Wonderful !
I can relate to Moe because rice historically is sacred for East Asians. We are very fortunate today to have food easily available. I had to kneel down for 2 hours facing my ancestral tablet to contemplate on my actions, when I was young if I wasted or played with my food. It seemed very harsh and unreasonable to me at that time. However, if you've experienced extreme hunger before, you will understand why we should never treat wasting food lightly. I think Moe did a very good job explaining to Sutan. Comparing to my childhood experience!🤪😜
What you and others write here is like from another world for the Western countries. Having to pay money and put a lot of effort to avoid obesity says a lot about the value of food in this part of the world.
Yes, it felt senseless for Sutan being scolded by her mom. But this is because for me, an obese guy, I have no issue wasting food. Yeah, I know, it's sad.
@@sfappetrupavelandrei you’re very self aware and contemplative about your situation and life; it means a lot!
South east asian as well, happened to me too when i was a kid, my mom will mad at me whenever i played the rice,
Amazing Mom.
She didn't scold her but taught her a great lesson.
Amazing Mom and daughter
Oh my GOD Moe is such a champ when it's about patience and discipline, she was able to get Sutan to understand without shouting or any sort of corporal punishment. Again a good example of what an idealized parenting should imho. 🧡🧡🧡
Moe , so proud of you being firm with Sutan yet not getting freaked out and upset !! Sutan is smart and grasped how you explained the importance of why she must be careful .❤❤ Sutan still the sweet little girl !!! 👧
A silence has overcome any words. I think Sutan understood what she did after seeing Moe’s attitude. And Moe’s words were actually so impressive. My mother used to talk about respecting a piece of rice. You did a great job!!
私はお米農家の家で育ったので、お米を大切に扱ってくれてとても嬉しかったです。ありがとうございます。
I don't have kids so I really cannot imagine the ups and downs of parenting, the huge responsibilities that come with it especially in educating your kids to be good people when they grow up. Moe-san, thank you for keeping it real, for sharing how you teach Sutan to respect food and appreciate the efforts that come with food production and food making. Respect to all hard working parents out there!
Just like how Donald Trump raises Barron Trump ! Amazing !
The lesson of respect in each tiny grain of rice actually made me reevaluate my own priorities! 😲
LOL! Me too! I needed that moment myself sad to say as a grown up person.
We grew up in a Korean household and my grandmothers and mother told me the same thing: each grain of rice is precious. I tell my children the same thing now. Your patience and love for Sutan is all I see when you interact with her. Thank you for being a role model for all frazzled moms out there!
Allowing us to see this interaction was brave. I appreciate that this is real life in your household and the way you handled it was very rational. The guilt for having scolded your child shows how much love you have for her. We don’t want anyone to hurt our children, including ourselves. I wanted to hug and comfort both of you so much. Daijobu Moe-Chan, daijobu 💕🌸
I. Appreciate the way Moe spoke to Sutan and made her understand the hard work of fielders.
This video had everything: Cuteness, laughs, a teachable moment, a special guest appearance by Moto-San and a very special ending where Sutan shows off her bi-lingual skills.
Kimono mom isn't only about cooking. This channel has everything emotions of a parent, value, respect, patience, love, fun, and delicious recipes and I'm glad to be a part of this family. Beautiful video, truly appreciate your work Moe💜
The look you gave Sutan was the equivalent of an American child being called by their entire name. She knew you meant business. I love that you made sure she understood how important our food is and how hard people work to grow it.
sutan completing the intro by herself is so adorable!!
The beginning of her taking over the channel 😂
@@martinkhoe4997 That is something I predicted six months ago. 😁
@@martinkhoe4997 The important thing is that there is a beginning, but there is no end.
@@rinardman It won't be long before she is fully in charge and mom's the assistant 😂
So cute! 💕
Moe, you are a really good mother. I appreciate the way you raise your daughter because you emphasize the importance of food and how she should understand it. Each parent has their own way of bringing up so I can't criticize parents who don't do the same with their children, but I can appreciate how you make Sutan understand from a very young age how not everything is fun and should be taken lightly. She is a lovely child who is still learning about life, but I am sure these teachings will make her a responsible and caring adult in the future. Inspiration
I’m grateful there are parents like you in the world. Mom is so patient and lovingly teaches even when understandably frustrated. Dad works hard but still takes over with daughter after work and isn’t afraid to be hands on and loving with his daughter. Thank you both for being wonderful examples of what it means to be human and to teach children with humility. And as always Moe, thank you for teaching me delicious healthy Japanese food! I make your recipes often with the best ingredients I can find in the USA.
I think Moe's response to Sutan dropping the rice was perfect, calm, and serious. It's important to help kids to understand not to waste food. She didn't yell or do anything abusive, she simply showed Sutan the seriousness of what happened. I think Moe did the right thing
I like the part about the rice, Filipinos believed that rice is special too, same way like Japanese’s and other countries that use rice.
Very special and we don’t want a single piece wasted.
I love how you rear her. Great mom, great job.
Wow thank you for sharing the lesson of the gods in each grain of rice. That was an amazing lesson for Sutan and resonated for myself to learn. In Māori culture you never play with food. Without food our iwi (tribe) would die, so it was respected and treated with respect.
It's actually educating to see how Moms teach their kid about bad and right things. It's actually good since people who have kid might actually implement it in their life too. Some people just let their kids do everything that it could lead to bad habit such as not appreciate the food. Happens a lot in developing country actually.
For me, the most interesting thing about watching Moe scold Sutan was how calmly she did it, and it still didn't affect how serious she was. It was eye-opening and honestly quite refreshing. Do u know how many of us would've been hit or screamed at if we as children did the same thing Sutan did, even if it was an accident?
I understand that parenting isn't easy, but this just shows that u don't have to beat ur children to discipline them (and u would be surprised by the amount of people who would find that strange).
Thank u for showing that Moe, and please don't feel bad about it!
Sutan is lucky to have such a great mother.
She will definitely be a great cooking expert in the future.
amazing ! Just like Melania Trump !
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oh, really？
@@Marhava2023 yep ! thanks !
Moe is lucky to have such a great daughter.
お米やお野菜、お肉やお魚などなど食材を育ててくださった方への感謝って本当に大切ですよね☺️✨✨ 今週も素敵な動画ありがとうございます🥳
I think the amazing part is that dad Moto has telepathic power to sense mommy Moe and Sutan in some awkward situation. Light up both the smile of Mommy Moe and Sutan. 👪 ❤️
In no particular order, the first words that come to mind when I see or think of KIMONO are: culture, tradition, elegance, grace, calmness. You are the living embodiment of the Kimono just as your moniker says. I cannot think of being able to handle the “rice accident” any better than how you handled it on the fly. You turned a very stressful situation into a learning experience for Sutan. She will appreciate this as she grows older and eventually becomes a mother. You are a role model to parenting for us as well whether it be cooking Japanese dishes or these learning moments. Thank you for being real and truly sharing without much editing your life. One last thing, social media always has jealous people and those “haters” that will give thumbs down on anything they don’t agree with-please don’t let that bother you. You will never be able to please everyone, but remember they are a very, very small minority. I can see that Tama and the entire Hanamachi is so very proud of you. いつもおおきにMoe-san. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙇🏻Aloha from Hawaii 🌺🌈🌸
So lovely to see you teach sutan the preciousness of food & how important it is not to waste it, even a single grain!
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*Mom,* took the time to explain things to Sutan, and what she has done. I believe she comprehended, and she will never do it again. *She's a wonderful little girl.*
Perfectly appropriate response: “you need to help clean it up” in a quiet yet firm voice-there are such sweet parenting skills to be learned here!!
I love how you instantly go into serious parenting mode and teach Sutan to respect the rice. Always respect the rice.
What a good Mom! You did a great job helping Sutan understand the importance of food and how hard people had to work so we can have rice. I am more impressed how you handled your self when angry. Top notch parenting! And again thank you for sharing your life with us!
i think it's absolutely fine to teach young children what is important in life. you did a very good job moe, you didn't shout or scold her harshly, you only told her what is important with a stern voice. sutan will learn from you what is a joke and what is not a joke, she will grow up to be a respectful girl that will show respect towards food :)
This must be really difficult to edit and you still included that part in your content. I think that alone is already super amazing. In my country, there's a saying that, "A grain of rice is like equal to one drop of the farmer's sweat", so, we should be thankful for the food and do not waste it.
I love the Japanese culture even more, teaching others to be extremely considerate and honourable to others effects or work, such an important lesson in life. Moe-san, I do this everyday and it teaches me so much. Thank you Moe-san! ✌️🥰
Dear Moe, don’t be so hard on yourself!
You very calmly explained to Sutan what she did wrong and the importance of food, which was the right thing to do. Nobody’s perfect, but we all know that you’re an amazing mother.
And I know that, when older, Sutan will be very proud of you and the education you gave her. 🤍
From corsica (Ajaccio)you so cute☝ ❤🐭
@@davidsensei2128 hummm, me?
@@martameira ouiiii you 🐸☝️♥️
@@davidsensei2128 Merci, mec ✌🏼
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Moe, you did a perfect job with Sutan. We learned what worked best for our sons (now ages 20 and 14) was that we were firm, we explained what they did wrong, explained why it was wrong, made sure they understood, and then made sure that they knew no matter what happened we still loved them. Your event with Sutan brought back a lot of memories. :) Very well done. And the Ocha-zuke looks wonderful!
People say that you can't be a parent and a friend to your child. I don't believe that but I do think being a parent comes first. That means both teaching and disciplining them. The goal is always to be helpful and not hurtful. To guide while not trying to guilt them. Not an easy thing to do because regret and disappointment comes within the territory of joy and love. The hope is always that the good memories outweigh the bad but as we know in life, bad memories are often the ones that stick out in our minds the most. What I know is this, Moe is an excellent mom and her love for Sutan shows through in every video. Keep up the good work Kimono Mom. 👍👍👍
I think that saying just shows a wrong understand of what friend means. It's talking about facebook friends, not friends.
Thank you so much for including the full incident and for sharing it with us. Not only did you do a wonderful job of correcting and being stern while not reacting in yelling or anger, but we got to watch you go through your own decision making on how to handle the situation. I have jumped straight to reaction too many times in the past, and my reaction has hurt (not physical, but emotionally) my child far too many times. I’m learning how to teach without reacting. Watching you in real time struggling with this moment, then knowing you chose to show this makes me see you as even more authentic and genuine. I appreciate your integrity. Thank you for being you and being open to share your moments of struggle with us.
One of my absolute favorite videos so far. It’s very important for us to see that rearing children is not always sunshine and rainbows; discipling your child is just as important as showing them affection. Moe-sensei handled this excellently and was able to teach Sutan a good lesson while maintaining her calm despite being very upset. No yelling, no hitting, just a firm reminder that while dealing with certain tasks, we have to use a certain level of respect. I love Kimono-mom even more for this. ❤️
I think you are a wonderful mom and you did the right thing..Sutan now realizes how important food is and she seemed fine how you let her know.
It feels bittersweet seeing Sutan grow! I miss her as a cute little baby but I'm also excited to see her act more and more mature and independent 💖
She looks so young and the baby is so cute~~
I love how Moe always told another way of cooking for her international fans that may not able to have some local Japanese ingredients, and she even demonstrate that cooking way knowing that she can use her Japanese one🥺🥺🥺🥺 that’s so nice.
Moe I appreciate you leaving in being mad about the rice. That was a very patient way of explaining the importance of not wasting food. My mom used to tell me that the hands that farmed the food ached when food was wasted 😑 seems extreme but when I got older I never take more food than I can eat and try my best to not waste food.
I’m just over here giggling every time she repeats, “This is Sutan!”, or the intro. 🥰 Great job! 👏🏾
I think this might be my first comment on this channel. I was impressed by your lesson for Sutan. It was gentle but firm, this is important for kids. As a korean, I grew up and raised by my korean mum, she wasn't always calm and gentle but she taught me a lot of things that now I really appreciate it. She was always firm but thoughtful. My mum still says she is sorry that she was so scary to me and she didn't pamper me when I was little but I'm so grateful that she didn't pamper me and I grew up well! I am not that calm and gentle like you but I hope I can be a mum who can teach my children about importance of things gently and firmly in the future. Thanks for the video, I learned a new thing from you today! Mums are strong, send much love to all mums in the world xx
You taught her a lesson. There's nothing wrong with that! You didn't scream. You just talked with the right tone. Just to understand that it's not a toy. Well done!
Moe-san has the patience level of a Monk. 🙏🏼
ikr if it were me i would’ve lost my cool
We can feel the love between Sutan and her dad every video 💖💖💖💖💖💖
I really liked the fact that you corrected her. Many parents pamper their kids so much that they will use laugh off the incident without the kids learning. Respect to you Moe! I am definitely subscribing! Respect and love to you
I don't have kids, but that reprimand and lesson in respect was beautifully done. I'm pretty sure if it were me, I would have gone full on berserker. You're a legend, Moe!
Great job explaining to Sutan the importance of not playing with food. She is so cute and easy not to get angry with. So much respect.
She wasn't playing with it though. She accidentally dropped it. Replay it
@@bbghoul_x She grabbed the bowl and tried to grab a fistful of rice and sprinkle it back to the bowl like sand. She definitely did and it’s okay to admit mistakes.
She took over the intro, this is gonna be Sutan's channel omg soo cute.
2:07 ahh now i understand Moe's comments about showing a "scary face" and i have to say, Moe had better control than my mother when i did things that made her mad.
Keep working hard Moe-san, we're rooting for you
The 7 gods she's talking about in the rice are: Ebisu, Hotei, Benzaiten, Bishamonten, Daikokuten, Jurōjin, and Fukurokuju.
Moe, that was the most brilliant parenting. What an amazing teachable moment. I may not be your mother, but I feel so very proud of you and the way you taught Sutan to respect the food. Always know that you are an amazing role model to so many people. So...well done. Don't ever second guess yourself. You are doing everything, wonderfully. Much love to you and God bless.
Japanese rice is often called sushi rice here in australia for anyone looking, or you can try australian grown rice which is in smaller packets & grown dry (not in rice paddys full of water) so that precious water isnt wasted here. Its really yummy & buying local rice is far better for the environment than imported rice & food in general! 😊
Good work Moe. We were taught to respect rice and never leave a grain in the bowl.
Thank you for keeping the camera rolling during a very important teaching moment of respect. Such a wonderful Mother 母親
i love people who really appreciate rice or food, cause its very important in our life
That extremely long look was universal! 🤣 Poor Moe
That being said, she handled that situation BEAUTIFULLY. My parents are white and don't regard rice the same way, but they still would've screamed at me, kicked me out, and taken dinner away. It's important to explain WHY what a child did was wrong and its refreshing to see a level-headed and kind approach.
When I was a kid, I would be hit by my mom if I did that mistake. XD
Moe scolded Sutan but not in a scary way and after that it seemed that Sutan felt what she did was wrong. I believe she reflected on her actions.
BTW Sutan practicing her script is so cute.
@@limwowo5902 that’s abuse
When i was little, i often didn't finish my food and my father scolded me. After that every time I eat, I always eat my food clean (without any grains left). It tastes better and more yummy that way (idk why though) and it makes me appreciate food more. Thanks Papa for educating me 💕 i want to try making rice + tea recipes, I hope i would like it ✨
Sutan is a very lucky girl she will be very happy to have you as a mother when she grows up she will be very thankful for you she's so lucky to grow in such good manners
It was one of the greatest things to happen to me, on youtube, to discover your channel! Sending love to you and your family from Europe!
Agree! This cannot be said enough!
This is an example of great parenting, thank you Moe! 🙏
Moe-san, actually for me, the beginning part of this video is a gem. It's very important to be gentle even though in mad. I am still not married nor have my own child, but in many times i see parents scolded their children not in a good way and I feel very sorry to the children. I believe being gentle to children is something that we have to learn, it's not merely a gift. I learn a lot from this video. Thank you very much Moe-san for being a good example.
the way she treats food and specifically rice reminds me so much of how my asian grandmother and mother gave me the same kind of scolding when i was young for wasting rice
叱る時とその後の切り替え方に尊敬します✨子育て以外にも、人として大事だと思いました。
I'm Australian and had no idea rice was sacred or so special. I googled the Gods and learned a lot from you including that scene in this video. Thank you Moe, i've got a new found respect for rice and food in general and I will never drop another grain without paying my respects hahaha
This is probably one of my favorite Kimono Mom videos because it shows Japan's strong ties to its culture and ethics despite all the changes around them, through this simple mother/daughter exchange. It's what makes Japan such a respected culture. CZcams is not about just showing the lovely dovey but also moments like these of transparency and handling difficult situations.
Sutan is so cute and she realised when she made a mistake when she sees mom's serious face,still trying to cheer her up with smiles
Yes. I agree.
Before Sutan dropped the rice bowl I feared that she would do that, and when it happened I took my hands to my face in despair. Moe, you did good! You explained to Sutan why this was not a laughing matter. You are a great mom to this adorable little girl!
Scolding is part of raising a child, otherwise it wont apreciate things in life. Sometimes you need to be harsh,so the children learn whats good and what is not. My father told me as a boy that i should stay away from the stove because its hot and I could burn, all the time, but at one point he just let me touch it, because i didnt listen to him, he was ready to react in fast wi cold water and a salve, so I learned the hard way and he just calmly said "see? i told you its hot, just listen to me when i say something" and I did, never ever toched the stove as a child. And important also is, dont hold a grudge against your child, scold and after that go on nomral, as long as they are so young,they wouldnt understand a long grudge anyways. Sutan shows ,that she can remember really well whats enjoyable and what not (pouring salt for example) so she will not let rice fall down on purpose in the near future ;)
So Moe, dont worry too much, you dont use violence against your child ,just some strict words and after that you are good again, so Sutan now knows to not do stupid stuff or mommy gets angry, and a child dont want angry parents, fun is so much better,and she has a lot of fun, so ;) a good ending
Even though dropping the rice was an accident, it’s probably best that Sutan learns not to grab things from the counter without your permission. If the object was hot or sharp, she could get hurt. Your instincts as a mother are always to keep her safe. You are doing an excellent job as a mother and a teacher. 💕💕💕
To the Japanese rice is life. When my grandmother was alive she taught me to be careful when washing the rice (yes we always wash it to remove excess starch) because “if you waste one grain of rice, someday you’ll cry for that piece”. I’ve always always been careful and even now at 52 I still remember those words when I’m at the sink and feel bad if I drop any… it’s really hard because with the short grain rice that is used, they’re just like little pearls of tapioca and they wanna escape! 😅 Sutanchan will never forget her lesson from Mo, and someday she’ll teach her child 😊❤
Yes we do have sashimi over seas, and the way Moe described the rice was so beautiful
I’m glad you kept the rice part in. People (including myself) needs to be reminded that having food is a blessing.
Be careful , lovely and cute Sutan ! Don't fall down 😊
"Raising children makes us grow up." YES MOE! I feel your frustration in the video but it's so so true! I'm trying to be the best example for my baby girl who turned one yesterday! It's so challenging sometimes and I make the same "mistakes" as you. 💛
Sutan is just so good at conversations
My twins are the same age as Sutan and I've definitely had those speechless moments when they do something and you don't really know what to say or do. You really just need a moment to calm yourself and figure out what's the best way to go about teaching them and disciplining them. Making Sutan clean it up is a good way to do it.
This is an interesting look into Shintoism. The Japanese respect for items that make life enjoyable is very admirable. I do not think that Moe did anything wrong in being very serious about it. My parents were very serious about our religion growing up and I am thankful for it.
You are an amazing parent...good parenting gives good values...love ur videos...lots of love from South Africa