5 Of My "Real Life" Outfits Might Really Surprise You
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I love getting dressed up and that's what you generally see from me here on the channel. But there are some real life situations where that isn't practical or advisable. Like, I'm not wearing a tuxedo to play with the dog. And I'm not putting on a suit to lift weights at the gym!
Believe it or not, athleisure and athleisure wear are a part of my style on most days. So if you're mostly used to seeing me in a suit and tie, this video might come as something of a shock to you--especially if you remember my thoughts on athleisure from back in the day! But, men's style is a journey and our personal styles evolve over time. I hope you enjoy this peek inside my "real life" outfits with an athleisure lookbook and Public Rec review.
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0:00 - Introduction
0:49 - How My Thoughts On Athleisure Have Changed
3:09 - Public Rec Athleisure Wear
3:52 - All Day Every Day Pant
4:53 - Go-To Henley
5:23 - Mock Neck Polo
5:52 - Brave The Elements Shell
6:26 - Waffle-Knit Hoodie
6:48 - Workday Pant 2.0
7:33 - Outfit 1
8:09 - Outfit 2
8:38 - Outfit 3
9:43 - Outfit 4
10:25 - Outfit 5 - Jak na to + styl
I love that you could reflect on your past and have a perspective on it.
You are right, style changes as you evolve. I've been interested in menswear since 10 years back now and I would for sure say my style has become more casual over the years.
I started out like many, only wanting to wear suits and ties and while it's a great look its not always fitting. I really enjoy finding casual style and making it look timeless.
Really love to wear shawl cardigans, suede jackets, layering. There is a lot you can play around with on the casual end but still making it look really stylish.
Love your comment. You totally get it. I often find that people who have a negative and visceral reaction when I post something casual--or "REAL"!!--are likely at a different point on their own style journey. Like you so wonderfully acknowledge, we all start off on this journey really focusing in on the dapper and tailored side of our wardrobes. And we go deep. It's an important part of the process and almost necessary to shun other forms of dressing so you can fully immerse yourself in what is "right". But as I point out in the very beginning of this video, it's just not practical all the time! If you're saying you wear a suit and tie or slacks and a sport coat around the house, I really think you're lying to the world about who you really are. I'm a real person and don't play a character for viewers on the channel--that, to me, is creative expression and a chance to connect with other real people.
What I love about each article of clothing shown is the fact that not ONE piece screams labels/logo. 👏
Same.
Exactly 💯
Quality > Logo
My man actually rocked a suit to the gym! Legend!
Oh, yeah! LOL
I think what you said at 0:26 bears repeating, and really resonates with me, both as a 40 y/o and someone who’s settled outside of a major city. I love being conspicuously dressed up for things - when I show up for work without a jacket of some kind, my coworkers wonder if something happened to me! - but life in the suburbs/exurbs really doesn’t allow for opportunities to be formally dressed, and often you’ll stand out in a bad way if you’re not careful. I think evolving your style, especially as you age, is important, and frankly, there’s a lot more artfulness to elevating a casual wardrobe than the dress-by-numbers approach you often need to do for wearing suits for work.
Really well said. I appreciate your thoughtfulness.
"but life in the suburbs/exurbs really doesn’t allow for opportunities to be formally dressed, and often you’ll stand out in a bad way if you’re not careful."
Amen to that! I find that where I am, stylish everyday wear allows me to stand out some while I fit in.
I like how you made the effort with those clips of you at the gym, taking out the trash etc... I know how much work it is to make just a couple second clip like that, but it made a big difference to the video! Thanks for making the content you do, I find it informative, inspirational and entertaining :-)
Really appreciate that comment. Definitely prefer to make fewer better videos rather than more so-so that look and feel the same.
Hugot jacomet would pick up the trash and workout while wearing cifoneli db !
😂
A real man 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
Double breasted too!
LOL! I think you're right! I'll have to ask Hugo about that when we sit down next.
Cheers, Javi!
I don’t think I’ll ever like a sport coat-hoodie combo. It makes me flinch hard. Great video tho.
To each their own. Glad you liked the video.
Enjoyed hearing your thoughts on this. I’ve been adjusting my look too, from tailoring to casual, without (hopefully) looking sloppy. I think it’s worth saying that there is more at play than an individual style evolution. As much as I love tailoring, the world has changed and I’m not going to wear a suit and tie taking zoom calls from my dining table. I try to find occasions to wear the tailoring I love, but I have to wear something else at other times.
Exactly. Thanks so much for sharing.
I have recently struck a very comfortable balance in my wardrobe where the clothing I'm most comfortable wearing usually include slacks and button ups, and other things that you'd find hovering around the nebulous "smart casual" label. I have jeans and tees, and I have suits and tuxedos, and I'm able to recognize that situations exist that call for those. The majority of the time, though, I find somewhere in the middle to be best, because it allows me to pull from and show off my knowledge of sartorial style and streetwear/modern fashion to look not so stuffy or casual as each respective method would imply in a vacuum.
Awesome! Thanks so much for chiming in and sharing your story.
@@hespokestyle no problem. Input from your channel has been instrumental in this process, so it's you who deserves the thanks!
Great outfits! Love the simplicity!
Thanks so much!
Love the concept, I’ve been trying to level up my “normal” day style
Awesome! Glad to hear it. I really recommend checking out this brand. I was incredibly surprised.
I'm learning so much for this channel - I buy and sew clothes for my husband. Thanks for your videos
You are so welcome! Thanks for the support.
In the infantry, we always talked about METT-TC: mission, enemy, terrain/weather, troops/support available, time available, and civil considerations. Essentially the situation dictates our actions, uniforms, equipment, and courses of action.
I think that’s how you’ve illustrated your approach. Your “uniform” and equipment will be dependent on your activity, your friends, the weather, civil considerations.
One weird thing about Oregon: people seem to hate umbrellas here, for some reason. No matter the civil considerations, I usually have my umbrella because I have a nice one with a whangee handle I bought at an estate sale for $10.
Z! Exactly. Great to hear from you.
Great video! Looks everything fresh and new!
Thanks so much! Glad you liked it.
I can relate to this for sure 😅 over the years my style has also gotten more casual. I still love tailoring but often it just doesn’t fit my lifestyle. I work from home, love working in my garden and have three dogs, so jeans and a t-shirt kinda fits better. Hehe, and strangely enough my wife seems to prefer the casual looks better too 😉
Nice! A fellow style journeyman.
I’ve had a similar journey when it comes to athleisure. I don’t wear it a a lot but I don’t hate it like I used to.
My man.
What is wrong with a suit in the gym ? That is class. 😊
LOL
Huge fan of soft tailoring and even athleisure blended tailoring. For example I've got knitted merino trousers with side adjusters from propercloth, and knitted cotton poly blend shirts from kamakura which don't wrinkle and stretch. I'm looking forward to trying out Articles of styles new comfort collection where they have a suit that's sewn from 3D knitted pieces.
Thanks so much for the comment. Would love for you to check out our stuff in the shop as well!
I mean, if you don‘t take out the trash wearing a suit and tie, that‘s entirely on you pal. 🫠🫠🫠
😮💨
LOL
Like, it’s your funeral, bro
I think athleisure, when done right, looks really nice. Also, it's comfortable. When I'm dressed up, I am always conscious about what I'm doing, my posture, etc, which gets tiring. When I'm in athleisure, I am far less conscious of things and more relaxed. However, one of the things I don't really like about it is that it's very common, and i don't really like to be in similar outfits with most others.
I like #4 the most because of the colours and the balance in the outfit. #5 is nice too, but the hoodie isn't for me personally. And I would avoid mixing dressy clothes with athleisure looks for myself.
Thanks for chiming in!
Extremely useful video!
Dig the jacket, might have to look into that one. Oh, and really need a tweed sport coat, that one's been on the list for a while.
Awesome!
Hi there; As an apparel designer for many years, I wanted to compliment you on your presentation and choices of clothing and how to put it together for the average man. Good job. Carlos
Wow, thank you! Appreciate that, Carolos.
Wow! Congrats on retirement and thank you for your service Brian!!
Appreciate that.
Thanks for sharing Brian 😊
My pleasure! Always appreciate the comments.
HOOAH BATTLE. THANK YOU for your service and Thank you so much for this channel
Thank you, my friend! Appreciate that.
As Sabaton once mused:
'It's the nature of time that the old ways must give in, the new ways come in sin. When new meets the old it always ends the ancient ways.'
Not surprised at the 'hesitation to acceptance' arc. It's always a fun one to see.
When your in your 40s it's a weird space, but I use my favorite style and color and stay monochromatic to pull off looks and I get compliments from ladies, guys and younger guys who are inspired. Going to A couple countries means a blend of casual and comfort in a limited wardrobe is essential.
Cheers.
Hello Brian! I've been following your work from quite a time, I'm glad how you reflect and feel now. You will always be a style and class reference, just like you I like to suit up any chance I have but being realistic it's quite difficult to do it in every single activity you make on a day. You look very elegant, I mean you have jeans and a blazer, your accesories, everything look very good and with quality. Keep going forward, the only scenario I've lived is the trash one 😂 because I was already dressed. Last time I had an outdoors activity during the morning on the evening I suited up and went to the cinema and a coffee shop, you can dress up any chance and people instead of judge should try it! You look very nice and attractive through the years, congrats ! Keep inspiring.
Little late, but I would highly recommend the brand Rhone. They're more on the casual end but their 'chinos' look like really high end chinos yet they're super comfortable and fit just like suit pants would. Their T-shirts and polos (long and short sleeves) are super comfortable as well. They also have outerwear that fits REALLY well.
Love your thoughts on the Apple watch! I'm a watch guy too, and was always interested in getting an Apple watch, but i could never figure out what the "killer app" is for the watch that provides the value I want to get one.
For me, it's the health tracking stuff--HR, workouts, etc. And one of my other favorite parts about it is that it dislodges me from my phone. I hate typing with my fingers so I love just being able to respond to texts via speaking to the watch, which also keeps me focused and less likely to bounce to another app once I'm done.
You are a great fashion influencer. Your vids help me a lot with my workwear. Greetings from Brazil.
I have learned a lot from you, sir. Thank you!
Glad to hear it! Thanks for the support.
Hi Brian
You/folks should check out the Scottish brand called Meander.
They are an alternative cycling clothing company but their Adventure trousers are super comfortable and a great everyday wear.
I'm wearing mine right now in fact!
Thanks for the recommendation. Spent over a month in Edinburgh this summer so I definitely have an affinity for Scotland!
Wow. Did not realize you retired from the Army. Congrats and welcome to the club. Great video. Viouri makes some nice stuff too. Athleisure is casual fashion. Laid back and comfortable. It is what it is. Enjoy it.
Thanks, man. Not out yet. Later this year!
Gotta say, I agree with your comments from your old articles you mentioned LOL.
We’re in different spots.
My wardrobe consists of (1) work clothes which i wear for work, and (2) sports clothes for everything else. The reason I don't like having things in between is exactly because of comfort lol.
Haha. Thanks for sharing.
Definitely some excellent points made here
Many thanks.
Great video - I enjoy a more formal / smart style … but it doesn’t really fit into my lifestyle enough. So it’s interesting to see some ‘everyday’ outfits and get some tips.
I’d love a Henley (after No Time To Die), but they always look like PJ’s on me 😅
I think the same on Henley, i kind fancy them but I cannot pull that look since for me as Italian those are PG. I stay with polos when I need to be casual in public in the summer.
I’ve been rocking the blazer, hoodie, jean look for the better part of a decade. The only challenge is finding the right hoodie. I don’t like the gym hoodie so it’s difficult to find a dress hoodie. And I love henleys.
Have you tried any of the thinner knitted wool hoodies? I think those are quite nice and a little more elevated than a regular one. There are many options but I have the "pascal hoodie" from oscar jacobson which I like, it also doesnt have the kangaroo pounch which is a plus in my opinion.
Awesome. This particular hoodie might be a good choice for you as it lacks the front pocket, which tends to make the overall feel more casual. I would also recommend looking into a thinner cashmere or wool/cashmere blend in hoodie form. They exist! I'll actually be featuring one on the channel next Thursday so stay tuned1
I would love to know the brand/where to find the jacket you wore in outfit no.1.
Been looking for that herringbone textured grey jacket for a while now.
Yes we need that story about that Apple Watch!
👍🏻👍🏻
Long time Brian... amazing as always.
Many thanks!
what i don't like about these sorts of clothes is that they usually incorporate a good amount of what i would just consider plastic in their construction
Great video and I need to order those All Day Every Day pants and jacket. I’ve been wearing an Apple Watch lately and got to say it’s grown on me!
Hey, Nathan! Good to see you. What do you like most about the Apple Watch?
@@hespokestyle I got to tell it has reduced the amount of time a stare at my phone and I really enjoy all the health benefits. Also, having kids in school doing multiple activities I know I won’t miss something. I’ve been really enjoying your recent videos!
Great combos! By the way, is that speedy bracelet the original one?
Thanks! And no. I have the FOIS, which comes with a brown leather strap. The mesh strap is aftermarket from Forstner Bands modeled after the strap worn by astronauts (though mine is not the narrow version).
Hey he's back!
Never left!
I honestly don't agree with your view, but hey it's nice to hear another point of view. I do believe you are correct that wearing a suit to run a general run at target might be over the top. However, I feel the other spectrum is just as bad. You can look good on any side of the spectrum, and I feel that people don't want to put in the least amount of effort. A pair of chinos 98 cotton or 100 jeans are comfortable enough , i don't see the point of garments that try to give the illusion of something more refained when they simply are not .
Appreciate you chiming in.
Enjoyed your video and your selections. I’d like to hear about your Apple Watch.
Coming soon!
Public Rec is fantastic. Their henleys and Politan hoodie are the best in this sphere.
Could you also try the British brand 'Rohan' sometime? It's a very old brand and the OG in athleisure.
Nice recommendations
Glad you like them!
This is awesome. More
Many thanks! What did you like most about it?
“Sweatpants are a sign of defeat. You lost control of your life, so you bought some sweatpants.” Karl Lagerfeld. I think you’re familiar with the quote, as you sort of mentioned it. A very slippery slope here. I tend to agree with 2015-you. The pants are nice but this is still very very casual clothing. I believe the (sorry) trend has been revived with the hideous work-from-home culture, where we all dress in “elevated” pajamas for the entire work week. 🤦♂️ Fine for taking out the trash, hiding from the paparazzi and … that’s it. Please, let’s keep it that way.
Did you miss the first 30 seconds of this video? LOL
Those outfits are actually very casual, and in almost all the outfits you can swap the sneakers for a leather derby, or a chukka boot and looks better and be still comfy. The only outfit that I didn’t like it is the first, for me the hoody is too sporty I cannot see with a blazer or a sport jacket. I will definitely suggest the same look with one of the options that you wear in the other outfits or a Barbour waxed jacket.
Thanks for the comment. I actually tried my Barbour on with some of these looks and it honestly didn't work. The fabrics were just too different.
This was an outstanding video. I think it's time for a wardrobe update.
Hold this sub. I did 11 years in the Army myself and really needed channels like yours to figure out how to look like a professional fashionable civiloan and not just an off duty Officer on the weekend wearing under armour everywhere.
Awesome!
Thank you! Cheers!
Mr Sacawa, I desperately want some new clothes. I’d love to have your opinion on where to buy chinos, shackets, and linen shirts. I’d like chinos with a high rise and a large fit (not giant and baggy but still somewhat large). Keep in mind, I’m broke! Thanks, always appreciate your videos and kind responses!
First, I would say to make a list of everything you want and then prioritize. Set your budget. Do some research and then execute strategically. Buy the best you can afford and don't rush. It takes time to build a wardrobe.
@@hespokestyle thanks a lot
What pant size did you get? Weight and height?
I was hard core, nothing but selvedge jeans and boots 365 days a year 10 years ago. I have loosened up over the years. I embrace shorts in the summer, loafers year round, and sweats. Still dont like athleisure, butter soft is something I'd like to describe my frosting on a cake and not my pants lol. But some classic reigning champ sweats and some birkenstocks and I'm ready for Costco and a movie lol.
Haha. Cheers.
Whats your opinion on clarks shoes ? Thanks
Brian can we have tutorial of shirt suspenders?
I have one! Here you go: czcams.com/video/ZNuvyDw1GOg/video.html
Could you please tell us where you got the blazer from look one? Quite the fit
Yes! It's from our collection. hespokestyle.com/product/gray-herringbone-tweed-blazer/
Dockers Alpha collection is great for comfortable pants that you can wear out
Hello, what is the mesh bracelet on the speed master?
Forstner bands.
That’s an FoiS Speedy, right? Pretty sure it’s not the 321. Either way…. nice choice! Especially with the aftermarket bracelet.
Sure is! Great eye.
It would be cool to see more videos on this topic. You can't really find casual clothing tips on CZcams that isn't street or workout gear.
Well, I must say we must evolve along with our lifestyle. From very young age, just as I was able to afford decent shoes, I used to wear most on leather soles. As time has passed, I do realise rubber sole is much more practical in most scenarios. Honestly, I only keep leather soles for special occasions and evening shoes.
8:12 it's the "Kendall Roy"
I don't watch Succession but I know what you're talking about!
We need a new closet/house tour! It’s been a few years, unless I missed a video!
I just wear older jeans, older shoes and older shirts or t-shirts... cause I never know when I'm gonna tear the clothes because of tool handling, taking care of the house etc... I'm not buying specific clothes for week-ends... I just bleed the old new clothes.
Sweet! Thanks for the comment.
Link to your Apple Watch strap in this vid?
This may sound really stupid but I would really like to see if you have any recommendations for how to dress when sick so that you still look stylish. Might be a stupid video idea, but yeah. A lot of guys dress their worse when sick.
Oh, man, looking stylish when I'm sick is the last thing I want to think about. Priority is getting better and THEN you can think about that. But recovering is the most important thing. Some nice PJs and robe could do the trick though!
This reminds me of Dana White and other billionaires like him for that narrative - they didn't need to dress to impress anyone. Than it got pushed down by influencers to everyone who wants to be a billionaire to act and dress like one. Well, this is the reprocussions . 😆
Can we please get an EDC upstate! I believe it’s been nearly two years! :)
A lot more is going to make sense next Tuesday...
@@hespokestyle Ooooh, now I’m gassed!!
Hollywood incognito really rockzz
Haha thanks!
The 'Alan Wake' special. Hoodie and tweed.
Haha! I wasn't familiar but looked it up and you're right!
Thank you.
You're welcome!
PROTX2 is probably intended to be pronounced like "protex 2" so that it sounds like "protects"
I really think hoodies with sport coats or any other comparatively dressy coat is going to look really dated in the coming decades. I don’t think it looks bad, but I think it’s definitely today. Same for colorful sneakers and suits.
Brian, it is okay to change your mind!
Totally
Common Projects 🙌🏽
These look like a more casual version of the ABC pants from lulu. This material looks great for golf pants but when they try to do this hybrid sweat/chino type pants they always look weak to me. I rather just wear well fitting sweats or chinos depending what the occasion or my day looks like it's shaping up to be. I really hate how people are so against sweets and would rather wear these gymnast type warm up pants, not stylish IMO
To your point, one thing I was interested to experiment with when putting this video together was to see how well these pieces played some of the more tailored pieces in my wardrobe, like a white poplin shirt, for example. As you note, I had the most success when going all in on the casual side of things with the sport coat over the hoodie being a minor exception.
what size is the speedmaster?
It's the FOIS. Look it up!
Thx! can you share the link for the mesh bracelet?
Athleisure wear does work but everybody thinks athleisure wear is tennis shoes or plain white leather sneakers with a blazer or button up shirt, you have to understand what materials complement each other and how every part of the outfit balances the whole outfit
This channel was about quality and style. Never thought I'd see ads about polyester clothes here :(
Well, this is real. If you don't like that, don't know what to tell you. And this channel still is about quality and style! You know that that concept exists in other categories beyond suits and tailored clothing, right?
@@hespokestyle Absolutely! I mentioned it nowhere that quality and style are only about tailored classic menswear. However quality and polyester are absolutely opposite to each other when it comes to clothing. Instead you can go for wool\cotton\cashmere\silk\linen pure or blends for a quality and comfortable polo. And you know it better than me
Can’t lie, deadlifting in a suit is a boss move 😂😂😂
A DB suit to boot! LOL
That facial hair really suits you. Changes your appearance entirely. I had to do a double take 😊
Thanks! A lot of people didn’t recognize me at first when I was at Pitti in January bc of the beard
I think everyone goes through cycles; periods that you want to dress up to feel better, confident, etc and periods that you want to feel comfortable and concentrate your efforts to things, activities that require more thought and 'processing power'. That's just my opinion.
You got me really excited and I bought the Public Rec pants. Waited for them to go on Black Friday sale and everything, and I must say that I was extremely underwhelmed and even disappointed with the quality. Nothing special, and definitely did not warrant the $100+ MSRP price tag for me. I genuinely felt "influenced" by this video. I sent them back. To me, they were average quality and I went and bought a generic brand of similar pants off Amazon that I felt was higher quality for like $30. Genuinely happy with those. Not going to name the brand because I have nothing to gain!
The oversized olive unbuttoned collar-up buttondown is an April Fool's joke, right?
LOL. Nope. That's me. Take it or leave it.
Sorry, athleisurewear is not for me. The worst of the lot is the hoodie. Whenever I see one I think Unibomber.
Well, that's fair.
Great video but I would have been more surprised if one of your outfits consisted of black jeans, cowboy boots, and a Guns and Roses Tshirt with the sleeves ripped off!
LOL. Let's get in the time machine and go back to 1993.
Wow, I usually am a little bit cynical about sponsored content like this, but the sweatpants seem legit
Haha. Thanks. They're not anything like sweatpants at all. And they are legit!
Found your channel recently as I’m planning to surprise my husband with a wardrobe makeover for his 42 birthday. Thank you for your inspiration in putting these pieces together, he’s former military and not used to putting an outfit together beyond the super basic.
So glad you found the channel! I'm actually retiring from the Army this year after 20 years!
@@hespokestyle That's wonderful! He wanted to stay in the army as well, but was injured in 2005 and awarded a purple heart and handshake goodbye.
This one really hit home with me, especially the start about the ever going, changing style journey.
Started my style journey back in 2014.
A few years ago I would hardly leave home without shirt, tie and sports jacket at least on. I loved wearing that and felt good. It was my armour.
Then came the covid pandemic, everything flipped, so did I, became unemployed. I was still wearing my stuff.
But then on the other side, I don't know but I started to dress down. Also I realized that I am someone who likes to walk a lot any time of the year. And while it's nice and certainly doable to walk in more dressed up shoes, trousers and what not, hiking gear is more practical. And it's also who I am feel I am. I am a wanderer, a rambler, it's in my heart and soul. To be true to myself I want to show this.
And my style journey goes on.
Yes! You are who you are. Embrace that and express that. You'll always feel your best that way.
Outfit 2 is Kendell Roy outfit.
Did you have to order a waist size up because they are considered slim?
Nope. Took my usual size.
Do you ever wear color? I mean something bright? I personally prefer color in my wardrobe. I feel that all dark clothes are too depressing. For example, I would never wear black, unless it’s to a funeral. But for spring and summer I believe brighter colors should be added to wardrobe, even casual wardrobe. It’s just my opinion…
Sometimes but I'm not big on bright colors.