What Narcissists Do When They Are Unmasked

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  • čas přidán 19. 12. 2022
  • What Narcissists Do When They Are Unmasked.
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Komentáře • 37

  • @ninath13
    @ninath13 Před rokem +7

    Run and hide...

  • @Onibocho11
    @Onibocho11 Před rokem +7

    I just wish I had this information before I married one.

    • @z32luvr
      @z32luvr Před rokem

      One of your parents is most likely a narcissist.

  • @djw8504
    @djw8504 Před rokem +18

    I’m a month of no contact, after he started ignoring me and acting very cold. I tried to understand and thght he was just going thru something, but after several times of him ghosting, I went full no contact, and he’s telling everyone tht i broke up with him over Fb, and does not tell the whole story. I’m feeling healthier and happier! My hair is growing bck! No turning bck!! 🙏

    • @catlady6938
      @catlady6938 Před rokem +5

      My hair was falling out when I was with the narcissist, 5 months no contact and it is only now getting back to the condition it was before I met him.

    • @breakingthenarccode
      @breakingthenarccode  Před rokem +2

      Thanks so much for sharing this, djw!

    • @MandaFox76
      @MandaFox76 Před rokem +4

      My hair started falling out as well. Along with some nerve problems. You do not realize the narcissist abuse is affecting your health until you do some research. I knew mental abuse physically effected your brain, but never thought it was happening to me at first. Had hormone problems too.

    • @kirsikka3752
      @kirsikka3752 Před rokem +2

      I have lost hair three times, three narcissist.

    • @kekecampbell812
      @kekecampbell812 Před rokem

      Omg same!

  • @bessieoriotis5104
    @bessieoriotis5104 Před rokem +10

    By the time you figure out what is going on, you question why you couldn't figure it out. They don't ever change even when they promise to.
    Walk out before you need therapy to find yourself again, like I had to.
    .

  • @Micah7-8
    @Micah7-8 Před rokem +4

    Frankly I’m devastated over seeing this in someone I believed to be a very close friend. After over 5 years I started seeing some things. But just let me say what I endured along the way I needed to make sure it wasn’t just me. Once I did I went cold turkey in no contact and went silent. Heart broken and very sad to see this behavior. But looking back in retrospect, I can see how many of these areas were on display all along.

    • @breakingthenarccode
      @breakingthenarccode  Před rokem +2

      Yeah sometimes it takes a long time to really understand what's going on. They are very skilled at grooming people.

  • @joselyngomes3075
    @joselyngomes3075 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Ever since i left my daughter father im feeling sooooo happy im even loving myself more dressing myself getting more closer and loving my kids even more to where when i leave to work i miss them. My hair is growing not falling out any more god knows pple even say i look happy.

  • @senadatabic197
    @senadatabic197 Před rokem +5

    My twin brother’s wife is covert narc. He figured it out 18 years later. We made plan for him to go no contact. New city, new life, new job. We had it all ready. Enough money too. Two years later he is still with her and went no contact with me 😢

    • @breakingthenarccode
      @breakingthenarccode  Před rokem +2

      Wow! That's a tough one. I guess it just wasn't time for your brother to make that leap. I get how Disappointing that must be for you.

    • @senadatabic197
      @senadatabic197 Před rokem

      Thank you

  • @shackartionmchenry9516
    @shackartionmchenry9516 Před rokem +2

    Why is that u is so on point with my wife! Cold hearted hateful person with no empathy. She lie and a cold blood cheater! I unmask her and she ghost me and went to my sister house and told lies on me and disrespect me to the up most. 13 years and now it's over and I'm trying to come out a hole. I am straight forward now with every woman I deal with after. AZ))

    • @breakingthenarccode
      @breakingthenarccode  Před rokem +1

      I'm glad you were able to get out and make yourself whole again. Stay strong!

  • @emmamonroe3311
    @emmamonroe3311 Před 2 měsíci

    Don’t waste your time, focus on myself and understand they will never change. They are their own worst enemy👈🏻

  • @mrsimo7144
    @mrsimo7144 Před rokem +6

    Thanks for this upload. I got too close and saw the other side. A covert narcissist. She got me so stressed that I ended up having a seizure. I'm out of the hospital, and two weeks away from her, but it's a dangerous path to walk. Funny thing is that she was overweight, and I don't usually go for larger ladies. Should have gone with my gut. A part of me inside died from the abuse and my head is still spinning with a 1000 unanswered questions. If you're new to this, please do your due diligence and be strong.

    • @breakingthenarccode
      @breakingthenarccode  Před rokem +1

      thanks for sharing, Mr. Simo. I greatly appreciate it!

    • @mrsimo7144
      @mrsimo7144 Před rokem

      @@breakingthenarccode Thank you so much for your efforts and amazing advice.

  • @darrawindish9932
    @darrawindish9932 Před rokem +3

    In my life it has become a spiritual battle. It was not my war, but I will fight for His end. Be Blessed.

  • @catlady6938
    @catlady6938 Před rokem +5

    Thank you this is so true

  • @ariesdelfuego
    @ariesdelfuego Před rokem +3

    SPOT ON!!

  • @kevinmcnamara2082
    @kevinmcnamara2082 Před rokem +1

    Going 5 months now? I forget but yeah you have to literally treat em like they treated you when they ghosted you the whole relationship. Expect no closure with these demons. You have to lose your empathy for them and mirror their narcissistic behavior. But once you do that you find you again. You heal, you stay focused and you know what? You will grow sooooo much!!! I love your channel but honestly? This is my last post on this subject. I’m finding my strength again!

  • @loopyloo788
    @loopyloo788 Před rokem +3

    Excellent advice. Thank you.

  • @lynnkrol3769
    @lynnkrol3769 Před rokem +3

    Thank you for the good explanation! You are so right, but it hurts…still healing….

    • @breakingthenarccode
      @breakingthenarccode  Před rokem

      Thanks so much, Lynn. Keep Strong and keep healing...you'll get there!

  • @crystalm.5755
    @crystalm.5755 Před rokem +2

    Yes a master plan 🌟

  • @ericamedina4486
    @ericamedina4486 Před rokem +3

    🎯🎯🎯🎯

  • @davidmalpass7129
    @davidmalpass7129 Před rokem +3

    OK so now you have recognised the narcissism in your world, now is not the time to play your own little games with it, repeat this 10 times and live happily ever after "I can not help you, you bellend so piss off". Then squeeze your thumbnail 10 times. You are welcome my friends.

    • @breakingthenarccode
      @breakingthenarccode  Před rokem +2

      Thanks David...if it was just that easy...but I agree...after enough pain...I hope everyone can get to that point.

  • @alienplug5251
    @alienplug5251 Před rokem +1

    Its all true .but my mom give me her urine for my career...so yea ..ill just check her %65 of the time