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❤💖💜💙💚💛💥 July 2,24 TRUTH. MY NARCISSIST IS HISTORY SINCE 8/28/23. GRATEFUL , HAPPY, STRONGER. YES, HE SHOWS UP. THAT IS WHY THE NO TRESPASSING SIGN IS DISPLAYED😊😂❤

Never seen such bullshit before.

I hope it is real. I recently heard that one other girl is madly in love with him.

Thank you very much. I had the major awakening a couple of weeks ago. Been in a relationship with a narcissist for almost 2 years. I am confrontational and never afraid to call him out (and yes, all arguments have turned ugly and in the end everything was my fault). I am grateful that I have realized this, before he could even ruin me completely. The only damage he did to me was almost having me brainwashed and love bombed me into believing that I mattered and that he was worthy and deserving of the numerous times I have taken him back and forgave him. I still thank God and my mom for spiritual guidance and being my moral compass and for always assuring me that I do not need this person in my life and that I am blessed with good people around me. This person will do nothing but destroy me and I have finally seen it. Through these videos, survivors like me are given the validation and education that leaving these people for good is the best decision we have ever made.

Thank you very much. I had the major awakening a couple of weeks ago. Been in a relationship with a narcissist for almost 2 years. I am confrontational and never afraid to call him out (and yes, all arguments have turned ugly and in the end everything was my fault). I am grateful that I have realized this, before he could even ruin me completely. The only damage he did to me was almost having me brainwashed and love bombed me into believing that I mattered and that he was worthy and deserving of the numerous times I have taken him back and forgave him. I still thank God and my mom for spiritual guidance and being my moral compass and for always assuring me that I do not need this person in my life and that I am blessed with good people around me. This person will do nothing but destroy me and I have finally seen it. Through these videos, survivors like me are given the validation and education that leaving these people for good is the best decision we have ever made.

Yes a lot of years with Randy that I love and still love with all my heart and soul, but I know it’s time to let go, but he taught me the way that he wanted me to be and it’s hard to break his way but he has to be in control, but now that him don’t let his applyI don’t have to take him being control up under his command anymore. I can move my life forward now. Disregard all his belonging out of my house and move on with my life and be happy and I think that’s what some people used to do move on.

47 years; finally left him with Gods help; still very painful; 47 years of lies😢He has hovered me and sucked me in only to pull the rug from under me😢 never again What’s worse is we were missionaries: he still works with the church; he was addicted to porn and blamed it on me! H E lied about our financiers and his control of me and everything in our lives! He’s the devil in sheep clothing! But God has the final call He is accountAble to our Heavenly Father; In the end he’s accountable to God!😊

"No matter how much you want to believe there was something real, you need to remove that thought." This on loop until it's like a reflex. Thank you.

Omg yes they always say that oh i would do the same thing that’s a dam lie

I wish i could block him that’s what i normally do but we have a child together and every time we talk we end up arguing but i have chosen to stop arguing with him im focusing on my child and myself i can’t keep giving him my energy

I went no contact with my narc over 15 years ago and haven't spoken to her since. Every few years, I catch her driving past my house. Most recently last year. If you walk away from them and never return, they will NEVER get over it. They will obsess about you for the rest of their lives.

Narcs can’t love, they don’t have empathy, they use abuse and move on to next source of supply. They create drama, chaos, destruction wherever they go. They destroy their own families

Yep

I left the narcissist and they went crazy even though she had someone else. She stalked me tried to attack me because I wasn't affected by her deception. I've dated other women and the narcissist cried but I didn't fall for the manipulation. I just started to enjoy myself dating and being around friends and the narc hates that and I've manipulated the narc back because I had some money business going on that they were involved with but I got the money and acted like it didn't fall through. Now I deleted the narcissist phone number and blocked her

my x actually said “I don’t regret one thing i have said or done to you”… black eyed demon .

not to mention the money they steal! always get a pre-nup ladies if you have assets.

Thank you SO MUCH for this! I just left my CN …ew.. no not MY CN…THE CN i was living with for the past almost 13yrs. Everything you said, and i mean EVERYTHING was spot on! I’ve watched so many videos, listened to so many podcasts and read a ton of books and articles on this subject, but your narrating this was like you were looking in the window of my soul. No other media said it like this. And no other explained exactly every single thing he did, including, surprisingly, when you said they’d retreat to their favorite room. Yes!! The bedroom. He’d stay in there for days sometimes. I knew he was hiding. In fact he invited me to allow my elderly mom to stay at his house with us until i could find another facility for her. He hid in the bedroom for over a week while she was there. He wanted to appear as such a great person for offering, yet no one knows how he hid from us for a week. What a jerk. I have such HATE in my heart for this man, i can’t even tell you. He ruined my life, caused me to lose my job of 13yrs, i lost everything in my storage unit, I am about to lose my car, and i can’t even pay the rent and electric at the new place, my fico score was getting good and now it’s tanked and everyone is hounding me for money. I need a pro Bono attorney and haven’t a clue where or how to find one that understands who they’d be dealing with. I also want to warn anyone who ever comes in contact with him to know what he is. I cannot imagine allowing myself to ever see him with another woman that will be destroyed if i don’t. I need help. Please.

Your narration is extremely frustrating and slow, sigh 👎 even awkward, sir.

The music isannoying

Yep. This is EXACTLY what I went through. Two months out, and finally starting to wrap my head around what she really is. It's almost impossible for me to believe people like this actually exist, but they do. They really do.

YEP

I love your videos I hope you make more! Thank you for all this information and encouragement

Very well said😊 nailed it... beautiful done. Bless

Even though you may feel so very sorry for them and the horrible disorder they have, there is nothing you can do to save them. You can only save yourself, for yourself and all of the people that truly DO love you.

Yep and WOW, too.

This letters seems like a grief , the narc doesnt care about this and you embaress yourself

WoooooW Your explantation show how creepy they are. Psychos. Oooh...

Punching bag is probably to same level as them... more like doormat or toilet... I went from porcelain doll on pedastal in the beginning to porcelain toilet infected with all their crap, peed on... leaking methane gas and loose screws, half filled basin, cracked lid, no seat ever replaced since broken.

They wont even say "bravo" because they cant give you any credit or even admit younare right, perceptive or anything other than NEGATIVE or opposing you. Instead, they would probably call you Einstein, some names or most likely not even respond.

The point of no contact is you can't reason with them and they will never change plus that means you are in control

They live in an alternate reality.

Good message and great voice!

Great!😁

I wasted 40 years. The last 10 I proved I wasn’t worth anything if he couldn’t use me. But he kept me because he knew he couldn’t get anyone else, and we shared kids. But he kept on playing dirty tricks as a way to vent his anger and jealousy.

Don’t waste your time, focus on myself and understand they will never change. They are their own worst enemy👈🏻

very good video. Thank you, I needed this.

Every thing you have said is sooooooooo true and I appreciate it so very much!!!!!!!! These narcs know their behavior is wrong and not excepted so they choose a target that they know and destroy it

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Awesome video!!!! Thanks ❤

when you go silent on them is when you will truly begin to heal and find peace in your life.

“YEP”💔😢

The trauma bond that is created, is like a drug addiction. They know we have empathy, preying on that empathy we have, is so malicious. They are parasites. I went No Contact 2.5 years ago. It was so difficult. But I did it. I needed to give that Love to myself. Not to a parasite. My health started to improved after the first 6 months. Stay strong, it is a journey, not a race. We can heal. ❤️

Let this cup pass from me: she's taco Tom's problem now.

No they know exactly what they are doing everything they do after the fake love bombing stage is premeditated calculated and intentional. Criminals they should heal their traumas and be normal. They are capable.

WOW Wow Wow Wow Wow! That was FREAKING AWESOME!!!

Thank you for your prayers I felt that. I send my blessings to the narcissist and children. I did gave my all. Good luck finding greener pastures somewhere else just not with me. 🙏❤️❤️

You are so right, I am stronger than I thought. All my narcissist try to come back with their karma and burden into my life. Oh no I see you trying to drag me down too oh no you got to stay away from me. I’m doing good on my own don’t need no one stressed or burden. Everyone has baggage for you to deal with. You got to learn to let those baggage go.

A 105 pound woman nearly ended me. Two days ago, my eyes were opened to what was happening to me. I crushed her. Not physically. I don't hit women. I don't abuse people and I dislike bullies. I'm a man's man, but I'm not toxic. I'm decent and kind, but I'm also dangerous. I'm a good man, but a man cannot be good without being dangerous. I know my shadow, therefore I don't have to live inside of it. I'm very well aware of who I am, and who I can be when pushed too far. She made that mistake and it woke me up. I did my homework and was able to wrap my head around the gaslighting and the lying and how I had been tricked into believing I was something I am not. I took my time while looking at who she is and then I came at her with exactly what it took to destroy her. I took no pleasure in it. I thought I loved her. At first I thought maybe I could help her, but as I went further into what these people are, I realized all I could do was save myself. Then I found out about the cheating and the other men. So, I found the first one in a bar, alone. Despair filled his eyes. He was where I had just been. I questioned myself about what I should do? Do I walk away and allow this man to go through what I had just escaped? Is that being my brother's keeper? Am I being a rat if I tell him. I thought about and walked over and asked if he'd lend me a hand with my truck for a minute and I'd buy him a beer. We got outside and I told him I didn't need his help, but I wanted to help him. I gave him the rundown. We shook hands and I made a new friend. I'm not mad at him. He didn't know I existed, just as I didn't know he existed. There is one more I have to find. It's my mission. They can do what they will with the information I give them, but they need it. I wish somebody had approached me before it got as bad as it did. but, I'm strong and if had to happen to somebody, then I was the guy. I'm on the mend. I'm staying to myself for the time being, except for trying to help these other men. I am my brother's keeper and always will be. I love women and always will and there is no doubt I'll be back out there and I will meet another woman but I will know the warning signs. My heart goes out to any person, man or woman, that has to deal with this. It's cruel and painful and I barely escaped. Here's to all of you who have managed to come through an ordeal with the narcissist. I'm not angry and I don't hate her. I'm just full of gratitude that I was somehow able to escape and be ok. I'll be fine, but there are many who will not and I wonder if there is a way I can help others? Is this something we have to deal with on our own? Would we listen if somebody warned us? Would I have listened if somebody explained this while I was stuck in the middle of it? I don't know. I think it was something I had to deal with on my own, but I've always been like that and never accept the help of others. Is there help I can offer? Any insight would be welcomed. Much love to all of you.