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  • One doctor in India gave many of her HIV/AIDs patients hope by helping them find partners. More than two million Indians are HIV positive. Many conceal their illness because of the stigma.
    Doctor and microbiologist Suniti Solomon was a pioneer in India in the field of HIV and AIDs. She diagnosed the first AIDs cases on the subcontinent among prostitutes in Chennai. But she also made a name for herself because of her matchmaking. She gave new hope to patients who had become isolated because of the social stigma attached to the disease, bringing together countless couples, such as Karthik and Manu. With the doctor’s help, they found each other, a new life, and a new outlook on living with HIV. Suniti Solomon died in 2015.
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  • @abha87
    @abha87 Před 6 měsíci +899

    The grace of this doctor to not attend her patients wedding so as not to make them uncomfortable - there is so much beauty in her!

  • @nwayshinemin
    @nwayshinemin Před 3 lety +6133

    She should get a Nobel peace prize!!

    • @selinakhan18
      @selinakhan18 Před 3 lety +151

      Defo the work she did, she should have been regarded as the "mother Teresa" of AID/HIV. We lost an amazing person.

    • @1712msa
      @1712msa Před 3 lety +28

      Yes!! She deserves it !!

    • @anjuk6255
      @anjuk6255 Před 3 lety +160

      Yes..but she was definitely awarded Padmashri, the 4th highest ranked civilian award in india

    • @arvindkumarvartiya9577
      @arvindkumarvartiya9577 Před 3 lety +93

      I think Nobel prize are only made for westerner only
      I don't even think how evil Donal trump choosen for noble peace prize 🤔

    • @ladhimona9611
      @ladhimona9611 Před 3 lety +46

      Unfortunately she passed away, a few years ago.

  • @peacevidz
    @peacevidz Před 2 lety +1733

    Dr Suniti passed away 6 years ago thankfully she was recognised and awarded the Padma Shri.
    But she'll never be forgotten and I absolutely love the "lovesick" story or Karthik and Manu. I wish them long life and prosperity.
    I loved this documentary

    • @j.umipig4269
      @j.umipig4269 Před 7 měsíci +23

      her legacy will live on.

    • @KA-yz2ld
      @KA-yz2ld Před 4 měsíci +6

      RIP

    • @Dan-xx5jq
      @Dan-xx5jq Před 4 měsíci +16

      oh so sad. she was a Saint.

    • @blazefairchild465
      @blazefairchild465 Před 4 měsíci +8

      A beautiful lady inside and out.

    • @suzannah1057
      @suzannah1057 Před 4 měsíci +9

      You broke my heart!
      What a beautiful, beautiful lady, I know she sits right beside the Gods on high!

  • @lizxu322
    @lizxu322 Před 2 lety +932

    Remember all these patients willingly came forward and asked for partners in the same boat - a lot of HIV positive people would have kept their diagnosis a secret and ruined lives due to their selfishness. These people are brave and moral, and suffered a bit for it.

    • @el-maiki
      @el-maiki Před 7 měsíci +54

      HIV positive patients can be with someone with doesn’t have HIV. that is because as long as they take their meds and the virus is undetected in blood, is impossible to transmit it to others. I assume in this case they just wanted to avoid further complications with people who do not know about this illness

    • @tvtube8389
      @tvtube8389 Před 7 měsíci +101

      ​@el-maiki no matter their intentions, they should be honest and let the other person know.

    • @lizxu322
      @lizxu322 Před 7 měsíci +57

      @@tvtube8389 200% agree. Especially if there is a chance the person doesn't take the meds regularly all the time etc, the chance of catching it may be low but never 0. The other person needs full disclosure to properly consent

    • @Mariamsadventure
      @Mariamsadventure Před 5 měsíci +22

      @@el-maikiyou completely missed the point intentionally.

    • @blazefairchild465
      @blazefairchild465 Před 4 měsíci +6

      Like Manus first husband.

  • @lmss3309
    @lmss3309 Před 3 lety +598

    She was in a service for so long but India awarded her with padmashri after 2 years of her death. it's true that we realize the importance of someone only after they are gone.

    • @Vscorner_love
      @Vscorner_love Před 3 lety +11

      I literally have a frog in my throat. Thank you Dr Solomon. LDL=Untransmitable. Love your concept 😭😭😭😭😭 I'm so touched by your work

  • @manthan22218
    @manthan22218 Před 3 lety +3823

    The Doctor was A century ahead in thinking and was forward-thinking - wish we have more women like her
    The world will be a better place

    • @alisonfraser3305
      @alisonfraser3305 Před 3 lety +53

      We do have, but there are people standing in their way from the moment of birth. Before birth, in some cases!

    • @swatichauhan7912
      @swatichauhan7912 Před 3 lety +35

      Young girls are stopped on every step she wants to think ahead ... But we will still think ahead ... It won't stop us .. because we are gonna be future mother's .. we have to be efficient enough and also be prepared to give good values and forward thinking to our kids .. we just can't live for ourselves we have to live and think for the future .

    • @RM-fs8ub
      @RM-fs8ub Před 3 lety +21

      Am in total admiration for this doctor! Working with the unloved is a true mark of her dedication to life.

    • @thaliadacosta7206
      @thaliadacosta7206 Před 3 lety +14

      she saw that every life has meaning. religion, class, and health were of no importance to her rather how to keep ppl healthy and find happiness. this is having an open mind this is what the world needs. yes she was a brilliant dr and I cried and said a prayer for her. she was covered by all religions it seems and I hope for the sake of the world she comes back to us in some other beautiful form.

    • @Hintedbymarina
      @Hintedbymarina Před 2 lety +5

      absolutely!! God bless that woman...I hope her practice was able to continue to function after her passing...

  • @Elizabeth-iv3gn
    @Elizabeth-iv3gn Před 7 měsíci +691

    Shame on that man's family who knew their son had HIV and hurried the wedding along, fully understanding that his new wife/their daughter in law is going to get infected with HIV as well... like why?! They knowingly transmitted this disease to her 😡😠 They knew they would consummate their marriage on wedding night and clearly didn't give two sh*ts. That's like knowingly giving someone cancer.... I bet their excuse was, "but.. but... our son has right to marry as well" 🙄

    • @lydia27xoxo
      @lydia27xoxo Před 6 měsíci +70

      Big shame on them

    • @siddyray3361
      @siddyray3361 Před 6 měsíci +35

      Probably because of Societal Pressure.
      Very loose moral.

    • @provrr
      @provrr Před 5 měsíci +25

      Exactly, too many pressures for marriage and children, like it's the end of the world.

    • @rojamillerover
      @rojamillerover Před 4 měsíci +37

      It's actually a punishable offence by jail term. I wonder if its the case in India too

    • @paulinemuthena6545
      @paulinemuthena6545 Před 4 měsíci +12

      I hope she left him because of his dishonesty.

  • @successfulOn3
    @successfulOn3 Před 8 měsíci +252

    The ending was devastating 😢.... heartbreaking to learn she passed away from cancer... she didn't deserve that.... she was doing compassionate things for her people

    • @nishantjoshi6393
      @nishantjoshi6393 Před 6 měsíci +8

      So true 😢

    • @ortneww
      @ortneww Před 5 měsíci +7

      I agree 🙁 so sad 💔

    • @Dan-xx5jq
      @Dan-xx5jq Před 4 měsíci +21

      she is with her husband who she missed so much.

  • @sinceritydjp
    @sinceritydjp Před 3 lety +3092

    When she said her husband said do whatever you like...that made me cry because it showed how much he loved her and how much he treasured her.

    • @rahilhasan9095
      @rahilhasan9095 Před 3 lety +96

      i say the same thing to my sisters they can do whatever they want but they have to be sure that itll bring happiness to them or else ill be the one to be blamed. after my mom passed away on oct 17 2020 i take care of them

    • @sinceritydjp
      @sinceritydjp Před 3 lety +50

      @@rahilhasan9095 thats a nice thing to say to your sister. I respect you for that and taking care of them.

    • @theinkbrain
      @theinkbrain Před 3 lety +61

      Yes. That was exceptional for an Indian man, which is why people find it remarkable. Indian women are expected to let their husbands "do whatever he likes." Its just taken for granted, and that is a shame.

    • @gangarajeshwar2036
      @gangarajeshwar2036 Před 3 lety

      Absolutely u r rt

    • @theinkbrain
      @theinkbrain Před 3 lety +10

      @THE ZOLDICS Its sooooo true. Indian women are 2nd class citizens.

  • @testingacocunt4267
    @testingacocunt4267 Před 3 lety +3158

    HIV and STD plus general health check should be mandatory before wedding. Indian parents spend money on astrologer amd gold but this is essential too

  • @humblegod8279
    @humblegod8279 Před 7 měsíci +147

    Dr. Suniti deserves an Noble Prize.
    And this documentary deserves an Oscar.

  • @sharonkaczorowski8690
    @sharonkaczorowski8690 Před 2 lety +340

    Early on in the epidemic a friend’s nephew came to our workplace. He had HIV and many health issues. When he got up to leave, I hugged him. He started crying and said no one had touched him since his diagnosis. I felt so angry that people were so damn determined to be ignorant and judgmental. Even at that time it was very clear how the disease is transmitted.

    • @Beex848
      @Beex848 Před 8 měsíci +19

      Don't be angry, people were scared

    • @aleyammarenjiv7978
      @aleyammarenjiv7978 Před 8 měsíci +24

      Nothing will happen. I know someone for 20yrs we touch , hug and eat together

    • @sharonkaczorowski8690
      @sharonkaczorowski8690 Před 8 měsíci

      @@aleyammarenjiv7978 Absolutely and depending in the treatment they may not be contagious at all.

    • @yesterdayitrained
      @yesterdayitrained Před měsícem

      @@Beex848Being scared doesn’t make it OK or excuse losing your humanity and shunning those already in difficult situations.
      ETA: Those same scared people reacted with anger and hate. So who shouldn’t be angry again?

  • @arlismills3133
    @arlismills3133 Před 3 lety +675

    She had a lovely marriage, then she guided others to a treasure she no longer possessed. Truly a blessing.

  • @evamai3545
    @evamai3545 Před 3 lety +677

    this is the most beautiful love story ever!! ''instead of matching horoscopes we match clinical history''

  • @Noname-yn1qi
    @Noname-yn1qi Před 2 lety +991

    A beautiful documentary.. the doctor was such a kind hearted soul.. I hope her legacy is passed on.. I wish the best to the couple ❤️

  • @queentinadoire6931
    @queentinadoire6931 Před 8 měsíci +96

    I feel so sorry for Manu. Her family did not press charges on the guy who gave her HIV because yhey wanted to protect the name of the family.

  • @testingacocunt4267
    @testingacocunt4267 Před 3 lety +922

    Mano should have filed case against the husband and his family. It is inhumane to not use protection and infect mano knowing he had HIV. Karma should do his job.

    • @TashHag108
      @TashHag108 Před 3 lety +47

      i was just wondering if he is in prison where he belongs

    • @V.E.R.O.
      @V.E.R.O. Před 3 lety +36

      They probably didn't because of the stigma attached to it.

    • @yashny
      @yashny Před 3 lety +15

      It is illegal too if someone already know that they have it and still transmit it to another. He would have been punished if she pressed charges against him.

    • @enataliek7369
      @enataliek7369 Před 3 lety

      True

    • @alyssabuffington6842
      @alyssabuffington6842 Před 2 lety +1

      It is in America- is it illegal in India?

  • @tanwar6944
    @tanwar6944 Před 3 lety +1956

    A beautifully written and structured documentary. The idea of saving their face reveals for the ending is genius. I wish more documentaries were this creative.

    • @DWDocumentary
      @DWDocumentary  Před 3 lety +70

      Thank you for watching and taking the time to comment, @Tanwar!

    • @manukarthik4301
      @manukarthik4301 Před 2 lety +53

      Thank you for watching our story @Tanwar. Thank you @DW for hosting this documentary.

    • @derekdolcy5839
      @derekdolcy5839 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes tanwar

    • @lyrehc77
      @lyrehc77 Před 2 lety +15

      @@manukarthik4301 You guys have a beautiful story! Wishing you both more blessings. I will pray for you and Dr. Solomon, what a caring soul she was!!!

    • @derekdolcy5839
      @derekdolcy5839 Před 2 lety

      Tanwar yes ur right namasta 🙏😊😊😊😊😊♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💋💋💋💋💋💋😅

  • @kirbywiggins5643
    @kirbywiggins5643 Před 2 lety +116

    My hats off to this doctor. She deserved the Nobel Peace Prize. What a great love story. There are many people people related to me with AIDS and HIV. It's a blessing to know they can still fall in love get married and have babies.

  • @ontherocks7426
    @ontherocks7426 Před 2 lety +234

    The world deserves many more doctors like her... What a documentary!!

    • @zararoyce319
      @zararoyce319 Před 2 lety +1

      There are a lot of very good doctors, but it depends, some may be narcissists who will cook crazy things because they are so stuck on certain points, I have seen such things

  • @deshwasu3146
    @deshwasu3146 Před 3 lety +1682

    Dr. Suniti Solomon is such a tolerant, understanding, and beautiful human being. Excellent documentary. Heart Warming.

  • @manishshankar4977
    @manishshankar4977 Před 3 lety +951

    Being a doctor is noble choice to serve people, but making a difference in someone's life with that choice is what gives that service value. Rest in peace Dr. Solomon.

    • @mahimakadam00
      @mahimakadam00 Před 2 lety +2

      ❤❤❤

    • @zararoyce319
      @zararoyce319 Před 2 lety +1

      It depends, some are very narcissistic and abuse there is supposed “expert knowledge“ for to cook the most outrageous ideas every case is different

    • @acosiak6191
      @acosiak6191 Před 2 lety

      Very true.

    • @Melnokina.-.
      @Melnokina.-. Před 8 měsíci

      Not true. I have disabilities and doctors are the worst. I see over 10 every year and it isn't good

    • @Sim-po1mc
      @Sim-po1mc Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@zararoyce319thanks for your negativity we really needed that 🤔

  • @paolagrando5079
    @paolagrando5079 Před 2 lety +176

    She made such a massive difference, not just medically, but in society. I'm sure that thanks to her more and more doctors behaviour changed for the better and the same about people, common citizens.
    India you had a great doctor, a great activist, a great woman who imprived the country. Don't forget about her, she is a perfect example of how to be as a person, as a professional, as a partner. Greetings from Italy.

  • @chandrakiran7925
    @chandrakiran7925 Před 7 měsíci +77

    This made me cry😭, she is one of the great doctor world would ever have again. Where many doctors work for money but just few or it's rare to see such doctors with heartful who treat patients as family other than profession. RIP Dr. Solomon. In a world full of dishonesty we found a gem💎 through DW Documentary. Thank you DW documentary.

  • @nabztaztic582
    @nabztaztic582 Před 3 lety +1098

    Why was she awarded a medal after her death? They should have given it when she was alive, she would have been happy 😔

    • @emilegriffith1473
      @emilegriffith1473 Před 3 lety +4

      So she involuntarily had sex workers blood drawn after being raided by police " which she said with a smile"? This is a demon

    • @blackngrey4424
      @blackngrey4424 Před 3 lety +124

      @@emilegriffith1473 Well earlier and even now ... prostitutions r being raided by police , that was not controlled by her plus she made a good use out of opportunity and she just wanted to spread awareness amongst people regardings HIV viruse and there is nothing wrong with that bcoz once u take a Hippocratic oath , u have to help people even in their most vulnerable stage ... Is this thing demonic to u ? ... I think she did what a doc must to do and that is research & help . Hope u have a good day ...

    • @bondiagent0079
      @bondiagent0079 Před 3 lety +50

      But her intention was for the betterment of society. God bless her soul🤲

    • @cnashford2
      @cnashford2 Před 3 lety +3

      @@emilegriffith1473 I totally missed that someone mentioned it being involuntary.

    • @emilegriffith1473
      @emilegriffith1473 Před 3 lety +1

      @@blackngrey4424 no that is against everything the hippocratic oath stands for.. Involuntarily taking someone's blood... Smiling about poor sex workers trying to make money. Demonic

  • @_eyesmile
    @_eyesmile Před 3 lety +853

    it‘s unfortunate that the Doctor already passed away. She must have helped a lot of people.

    • @saniyaahmad3153
      @saniyaahmad3153 Před 3 lety +6

      I want to meet her 😭😭

    • @nathann7913
      @nathann7913 Před 3 lety +21

      When she passed away? She is in heaven for sure 😢

    • @ellelyng4764
      @ellelyng4764 Před 3 lety +8

      OMG we loss an angel ready what a great loss to us n our country..

    • @wowso4
      @wowso4 Před 3 lety +2

      R.i.P to the lovely doctor my condolences to her family.

    • @sonaelizabeth1156
      @sonaelizabeth1156 Před 3 lety +1

      😭😭😭😭

  • @soupp7168
    @soupp7168 Před 6 měsíci +52

    She was such a pure soul, we need more doctors like her

  • @niulaef3867
    @niulaef3867 Před 2 lety +354

    I really hope that her work both in medical research and psychosocial care will be carried on by other likeminded people after her passing. RIP Dr Solomon. What a rare Gem.

    • @derekdolcy5839
      @derekdolcy5839 Před rokem +1

      Hi 😊 there niu laef ur right namasta 🙏😊

  • @MsPinkston
    @MsPinkston Před 3 lety +877

    Even though she helped people she was kinda isolated from sharing in others joy because of the stigma that came with her job. Oh my gosh, she really sacrificed for others.

    • @adriennethompson3382
      @adriennethompson3382 Před 3 lety +27

      Yea, it sucks that she couldn’t partake in the joy and excitement she helped create for her patients to find love.

    • @siouxmaelstrom4042
      @siouxmaelstrom4042 Před 3 lety +51

      She truly did, she left a prestigious job to look for HIV in India in 1986.
      At a time when people were not o ly evicted from their homes, but they were left to die and even expelled from villages for being sick.
      Even today you cannot tell people in india that you have an STD without being judged severely, especially if you are a female.

    • @uchihasaske11
      @uchihasaske11 Před 3 lety +14

      Maybe thats her happiness to help and give hope to other people.

    • @clairetingling6633
      @clairetingling6633 Před 3 lety +20

      I'm going to add to this story ,my partner ( ex partner) infected me with HIV that he knew he had ,but I'm not going to be angry any more but enjoy what is my life and keep looking forward . God bless xx your not alone, for along time I felt I was .

    • @YPM498
      @YPM498 Před 3 lety +5

      @@clairetingling6633 Thank you for sharing your story❤️ You can still live a normal life after being infected with HIV since we live in a society where medicine is continuously advancing.

  • @elizabethx1869
    @elizabethx1869 Před 3 lety +357

    I almost cried when the respectable doctor said that she had never attended her patients' wedding. Fight for a better and more welcoming world✊

    • @cpr9720
      @cpr9720 Před 3 lety +7

      Absolutely

    • @kiranp5611
      @kiranp5611 Před 3 lety +16

      Citizens like her make us believe in the idea of India !

  • @donnachrismorris4340
    @donnachrismorris4340 Před 2 lety +61

    That was one of the best docs I have ever seen. Very touching & romantic. My best friend died of AIDS in the 80s when AIDS first came out. I am extremely pleased they have meds for this disease.

  • @angelafeldhahn4849
    @angelafeldhahn4849 Před 2 lety +126

    This doctor is a saint! I love how she is like a mother to all of her patients. She has given so much while being so humble. ❤️

  • @nungsangmen6378
    @nungsangmen6378 Před 3 lety +610

    My heart broke when she said her patients tell her not to come to their weddings.

    • @sapnesuhaneladakpankeallep8828
      @sapnesuhaneladakpankeallep8828 Před 3 lety +51

      So ppl won't detect their hiv status?

    • @tiyamukherjee3298
      @tiyamukherjee3298 Před 3 lety +46

      same here I was also very sad , but on the other side you can't do anything about it as the disease is notorious not only in India worldwide

    • @SukhdeepSingh-xi6gc
      @SukhdeepSingh-xi6gc Před 2 lety

      @@tiyamukherjee3298 ,,, Do u get this problem from ur Boyfriend,,?

    • @paengkeov1486
      @paengkeov1486 Před 2 lety +5

      I was also sad to hear her patients didn’t welcome her to their weddings.

    • @kishore1261
      @kishore1261 Před 2 lety +9

      It is the second oath they took ‘to protect the integrity of their patients at any cost’ .🖤

  • @_devil536
    @_devil536 Před 3 lety +2392

    parents in India
    before 25 "you can't have sex "
    after 30 "why aren't you having sex"

    • @lynneufeld3175
      @lynneufeld3175 Před 3 lety +129

      More like why aren't you married?

    • @Siddeo
      @Siddeo Před 3 lety +135

      @@lynneufeld3175 I don’t think those parents who insist their children to marry are insisting for sexless marriage

    • @mohitgoswami7478
      @mohitgoswami7478 Před 3 lety +3

      There are 5 years in between.

    • @rangoman1815
      @rangoman1815 Před 3 lety +25

      Mainland India to be precise! NE region (except Assam) is not so much strict to neither girls or boys...maybe it all comes down to religion...

    • @AnnaANNA-bm1wn
      @AnnaANNA-bm1wn Před 3 lety

      Why you cant have sex before 25 years?

  • @drfattie
    @drfattie Před 2 lety +143

    I am a chiropractor so very different than an MD. I see several clients with HIV and when they tell me or I see it in their forms it’s as if saying the sky is just a different shade of blue, and we carry on. I could never imagine treating them any differently than anyone else. This doc is someone special.

    • @talkuchil1855
      @talkuchil1855 Před 2 lety

      Where are you from Fatimah

    • @streamx7806
      @streamx7806 Před 2 lety

      You are as special as her, i really hope you know that.

    • @streamx7806
      @streamx7806 Před 2 lety +1

      @@talkuchil1855 Iran, as an Afghan I can tell from her last name.

    • @talkuchil1855
      @talkuchil1855 Před 2 lety +1

      @@streamx7806 are you girl ?

    • @streamx7806
      @streamx7806 Před 2 lety

      @@talkuchil1855 no, why?

  • @wickandde
    @wickandde Před 8 měsíci +85

    It's so sad how they ended up with HIV, no fault of their own but such a beautiful ending, I hope they have a beautiful life together ❤

    • @9roselove9
      @9roselove9 Před 5 měsíci

      Pretty sure the men got it from prostitutes

  • @sudhirkataria9958130
    @sudhirkataria9958130 Před 3 lety +1907

    Dr Solomon was so inspiring. World need women like her..RIP

    • @funDAYsmiling
      @funDAYsmiling Před 3 lety +22

      I guess she is proof that we in the West love “Indians,” for a reason as I know they’ve done so much with so little, relatively quickly, over there in India. Sadly, because unlike the Chinese, Hindustan, much like the West has built-in Hindu society the belief of Karma which Christianity also tries to teach us through the “Life After Death, and Judgement after death,” allegory, India will take at least 100, if not 200 years to take its rightful place as the leader of the world since unlike China we, won’t take slaves and enslave either our own or any minorities just to get rich quick.

    • @kaleahcollins4567
      @kaleahcollins4567 Před 3 lety +17

      @@funDAYsmiling You lying. What about the tamil people what about the siddi people . THE SO CALLED UNTOUCHABLES WHO CANNOT ADVANCE BECAUSE OF SO CALLED THATS THEIR FAMILY CASTE AT BIRTH THE SO CALLED KARMA OF THEIR ANCESTORS. BOTH CHINA INDIA AND THE WEST LEACH OFF OF AFRICA THEN NOW AND FOREVER. AFRICA IS THE ONLY CONTINENT WITH REPLENISHING RESOURCES. KNOW YOUR FACTZ

    • @patoteto2
      @patoteto2 Před 3 lety +21

      She died ? 🥺🥺🥺 it’s always the good ones

    • @korro5870
      @korro5870 Před 3 lety +2

      Wow What a Loss - How long ago was this documentary made?

    • @moonhera8966
      @moonhera8966 Před 3 lety +2

      @@patoteto2 Yes year 2015

  • @jd517
    @jd517 Před 3 lety +446

    I didn't expect to start tearing up by the end. This was a very well done documentary about such a taboo topic. May Dr. Solomon rest in peace.

  • @sevenoctobers7471
    @sevenoctobers7471 Před 2 lety +80

    I usually don't cry at weddings but I did with this one. Manu and Karthik sound so happy to have found each other. Many joyful years to the both of them and their families. 💞

  • @Gigi-qj6yp
    @Gigi-qj6yp Před 9 měsíci +52

    I was smiling like a teenage girl during the sweet text and wedding. I loved this.

  • @HarpreetSingh-ds2zo
    @HarpreetSingh-ds2zo Před 3 lety +695

    She was my teacher and an inspiring model in my life. Miss u maam😢

  • @abhinandansharma1999
    @abhinandansharma1999 Před 3 lety +250

    pretty much ashamed that i as Indian i didn't know Dr. Suniti. Thank you so much DW.
    i hope some day our Indian media will learn something from you

    • @abhinandansharma1999
      @abhinandansharma1999 Před 3 lety +3

      @Tikesh i know n I'm not demonizing my culture

    • @praffulmalkoti4407
      @praffulmalkoti4407 Před 3 lety +1

      @@abhinandansharma1999 another cry baby I am ashamed of my culture seriously you guys are such a soyboy

    • @clovebeans713
      @clovebeans713 Před 2 lety +7

      @@praffulmalkoti4407 He didnt mention anything about being ashamed of Indian culture? Reading compression 0

    • @theblissedcorner1728
      @theblissedcorner1728 Před rokem +1

      Cringy things are getting famous in india ..... people like dr suniti is really a gem for the mankind .... it's a big loss for us we lose her....om shanti

  • @deirdreyearwood3383
    @deirdreyearwood3383 Před 2 lety +43

    This Doctor was so amazing. May her soul continue to rest in peace. She gave her all and stayed true to her calling ❤

  • @nancypiccirillo405
    @nancypiccirillo405 Před 2 lety +29

    This doctor brought so much light through the darkest of times. I am in aw of her may she be remembered always. Rip

  • @VickyMulema
    @VickyMulema Před 3 lety +567

    This is the best, most hopeful, encouraging documentary i've watched in a long time. Dr. Solomon played her part so well on the planet. may she rest in peace.

    • @DWDocumentary
      @DWDocumentary  Před 3 lety +22

      Hi @Vicky Mulema, thanks for watching and taking the time to share your thoughts!

    • @kavitaverma5557
      @kavitaverma5557 Před 3 lety +5

      This is the best and most inspired reality I 've watched. Salute to the heroes of this real picture

    • @manukarthik4301
      @manukarthik4301 Před 2 lety

      @@DWDocumentary ♥️

    • @manukarthik4301
      @manukarthik4301 Před 2 lety

      @@kavitaverma5557 ♥️

  • @shaz2868
    @shaz2868 Před 2 lety +546

    By the end of this documentary I shed a few tears. What an amazing woman Dr Solomon was RIP.

    • @derekdolcy5839
      @derekdolcy5839 Před 2 lety +3

      Yes rip to her Sha kadir namasta 🙏😊😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💜💜💜💜💋💋💋💋🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @ds8290
    @ds8290 Před 6 měsíci +15

    In America. I remember there was a time that each person had to get tested for std’s before being allowed to marry. They should go back to those times, so each person is aware of whether or not they have something. That should be mandatory everywhere, so it gives the other person the choice. It is a human right to know if their partner has something.

  • @hellosikha
    @hellosikha Před 8 měsíci +56

    A movie should be made about her...& people should normalize this topic the way she did❤❤

  • @sauravanand6047
    @sauravanand6047 Před 3 lety +756

    Indian government has given "Padma Shri " (one of thehighest civilian ) award to the doctor Solomon posthumously . She died in 2015 due to pancreatic cancer

    • @akashdas9292
      @akashdas9292 Před 3 lety +21

      Sorry but India's highest civilian award is 'Bharat Ratna' not 'Padma Shri'

    • @sauravanand6047
      @sauravanand6047 Před 3 lety +4

      @@akashdas9292 edited thanks

    • @annabethjackson1871
      @annabethjackson1871 Před 3 lety +26

      @ARYAN KHAREL No, but it's the least we can do, since she isn't among us anymore

    • @mashal2567
      @mashal2567 Před 3 lety +8

      Ugh... why do always the most beautiful and amazing people die from cancer... or suffer from some sort of disease.

    • @qjtvaddict
      @qjtvaddict Před 3 lety +2

      @@mashal2567 don’t worry Covid19 is killing the most selfish people nowadays there will be balance

  • @reshilvalle5366
    @reshilvalle5366 Před 3 lety +597

    that was deep, "we'll take care of her and make sure she survives and enjoy life"
    Dr Solomon for President! RIP. Great lady.

  • @volcanictempest78
    @volcanictempest78 Před 2 lety +80

    Just finished watching within moments of being happy for their marriage ..my heart sank when i heard of Dr Suniti's demise....If Manu and Karthik are seeing the comment...I wish the world of happiness for you...Just one doubt won't the face reveal pose a problem...if you could give us how that experience was it would be very insightful..thank you

  • @mini-mini_387
    @mini-mini_387 Před 2 lety +49

    This was a beautiful documentary and Dr Solomon compassion and care for her patients are beautifully exceptional. What a wonderful woman. Her time on this earth was a true blessing to this world. May she forever rest in peace and may all her matches be forever happy,healthy and loving.

  • @thedrifflife5792
    @thedrifflife5792 Před 3 lety +1028

    This doctor was God sent. My heart sank at the end, when I’ve read that she’s passed. She’s blessed so many lives, never treated anyone differently. What a lovely, kind hearted person. May she rest in perfect peace ❤️

  • @lilethm.alvarez7330
    @lilethm.alvarez7330 Před 2 lety +355

    My fav part was the joy in their voice as their relationship grew. 💗💗

  • @tomlovesimran
    @tomlovesimran Před 11 měsíci +11

    We need this kind of doctors in this world. She is so sweet, humble and way ahead of her time- the right time

  • @Malu-lx8hd
    @Malu-lx8hd Před 2 lety +14

    Wow, I wished that someone was continuing the doctor's legacy. She was a jewel to those patients.

  • @harshdeepkaur4481
    @harshdeepkaur4481 Před 3 lety +277

    This doctor made great efforts by not only keeping her patients alive but to make their life happy and fulfilled .

  • @kiranp5611
    @kiranp5611 Před 3 lety +307

    Did anyone notice, her voice elated after they met each other, unlike before when her voice was filled with pain !

    • @PraDeepYaDav-ym8xe
      @PraDeepYaDav-ym8xe Před 3 lety +3

      yup i did

    • @sentiimchen2168
      @sentiimchen2168 Před 3 lety +31

      Yes! Infact both their voices had this excited bubble after they started talking!

    • @Annie-Ruth
      @Annie-Ruth Před 3 lety +11

      They are so sweet together.

    • @dejaporter7338
      @dejaporter7338 Před 3 lety +3

      @@Annie-Ruth ikr 🥴 I'm still smiling ☺️

    • @manukarthik4301
      @manukarthik4301 Před 2 lety +2

      You are right in your observation @Kiran thank you so much ♥️🙏

  • @metalheadlass9868
    @metalheadlass9868 Před 8 měsíci +8

    This woman is someone every country and every city needs. Great human being.

  • @RavenBreeTaliatao
    @RavenBreeTaliatao Před 2 lety +22

    I'm glad they were able to find eachother after such hardships.

  • @happywanderer2874
    @happywanderer2874 Před 3 lety +187

    This documentary should win an award. What an incredible doctor and a compassionate human.

  • @ravikumar-rj8fn
    @ravikumar-rj8fn Před 3 lety +418

    She was a good example of good human being, kind hearted, beautifulness, elegance...i really love the documentary...❤️💐

    • @DWDocumentary
      @DWDocumentary  Před 3 lety +20

      Hi @ravi kumar,
      Thanks a lot for watching and taking the time to comment and share your thoughts. We're glad you liked the documentary. :-)
      Best,
      The DW Documentary Team

    • @kcdmine3635
      @kcdmine3635 Před 3 lety +2

      Absolutely

    • @gangarajeshwar2036
      @gangarajeshwar2036 Před 3 lety

      Yah i too

  • @janeann3331
    @janeann3331 Před 2 lety +8

    WOW, BRAVO! I cried my eyes out with this documentary. Such beautiful work!!!

  • @lettebee
    @lettebee Před 6 měsíci +8

    A strong, kind and courageous woman, she deserves credit for all those she helped!

  • @naveershain
    @naveershain Před 3 lety +448

    It hurt me when I came to know that Doctor is no more...... I was taken back when She said, '' I love my husband for 43 years''. She was really an ideal woman. She is no more is a lost of humanity. 💔 Respect from Pakistan

    • @DeserieDrew
      @DeserieDrew Před 3 lety +23

      She loved him even though he was a Christian. Such a beautiful person. Ahead of her time for sure.

    • @sb1406
      @sb1406 Před 3 lety +3

      Pakistan=India. Don’t forget that.

    • @insectbite1714
      @insectbite1714 Před 3 lety +1

      @@sb1406 China wants to invade Pakistan to destroy India.

    • @sb1406
      @sb1406 Před 3 lety +2

      @@insectbite1714 Let them maybe then that country will wake up.

    • @sb1406
      @sb1406 Před 3 lety +2

      @I Love Cookies No they aren’t the people are the same it has been for thousands of years.

  • @vishi125
    @vishi125 Před 3 lety +365

    One of the most beautiful love stories..... but knowing that the Dr has passed away is the saddest part of this story

    • @IAmQube
      @IAmQube Před 3 lety +23

      I know right, she did NOT deserve cancer. The world needs more beautiful souls like her.

    • @cjgh2812
      @cjgh2812 Před 3 lety +6

      @@IAmQube
      I agree with you 100%.

    • @rishavrishu1065
      @rishavrishu1065 Před 3 lety +2

      Rip

  • @jbadianyama
    @jbadianyama Před 2 lety +15

    I like how they showed their faces at the end. Great documentary!

  • @horizon5549
    @horizon5549 Před rokem +18

    We need more doctors like her. More power to her

  • @templatelf
    @templatelf Před 3 lety +420

    Medical Colleges in India should show documentaries like these of such Indian Pioneers. It's a shame most of the students pass out of MBBS not knowing these people.

    • @syedanaziyafatima2816
      @syedanaziyafatima2816 Před 2 lety +1

      Happy i found it whilst I'm here🙂

    • @SSS-dn3uz
      @SSS-dn3uz Před 2 lety +7

      Not only in medical field, every field must show documentary of selfless professional persons, so they will work selflessly ,why only docters?

    • @templatelf
      @templatelf Před 2 lety

      @@SSS-dn3uz I never mentioned only medical fields or doctors.

    • @SSS-dn3uz
      @SSS-dn3uz Před 2 lety +2

      @@templatelf u blind read u comment above, and remember docter studies for 6yrmbbs +1yr rural service+ 1yr pg exam prep+ 3 yr pg + 1to 3 yr of pg rural service+ after that specialist course for 3 yrs not to live in poverty they will charge what they deserve ,if u hv such good mind for to help people u should become ur self a docter and treat the people for free , I will appreciate then not giving advice to somebody , no one work for free that is reality even begger don't come to u for begging if u not give any money , everything is investment and returns
      I don't like advice by those people who didn't helped any one in their whole life , will advise ambani should donate his money to poor
      Help may be of any kind ,u can also help by paying 100/ month to needy ,did ever done that?

    • @templatelf
      @templatelf Před 2 lety +2

      @@SSS-dn3uz Maybe you should think before you speak and learn english properly next time.
      I completed my MBBS as of 2020. I was implying in my original comment that as we are taught about great medical people like Y.Subba Rao from India this Doctor should've also been mentioned in our curriculum. I only came to know about her in youtube, she wasn't mentioned once in our community medicine textbook in infectious diseases which is why I made this comment. And also I didnt say "only" I said such Indian pioneers meaning not just limited to medical profession. But since the subject was about medicine & the video was related to medicine I mentioned medical colleges and in my 2nd comment that is what I again repeated.
      By reading your comment I can safely now can say that you know crap about the medical field.
      mbbs is 5 yrs not 6. 1yr rural service is not compulsory now, government has removed it, atleast for my state it is. The same applies for PG you only have to do 1year of Senior Residency after 3yrs of PG to be a Assistant. Super Specialty is optional, not every branch needs it there's something called end branches too.
      Finally I don't need to prove myself to a idiot like you who can't understand what another person is saying. Also maybe from next time use your brain more and use your tongue less.

  • @shahnawazahmad4562
    @shahnawazahmad4562 Před 3 lety +101

    "Her wish is my desire"
    What a lovely thing.

  • @jkiel5792
    @jkiel5792 Před 2 lety +7

    What a beautiful gift this Dr. Was to so many people who are still stigmatized.

  • @paixamourchanel9084
    @paixamourchanel9084 Před 8 měsíci +22

    What a wonderful documentary on a great topic!
    Immunocompromised or not - match making using blood work is something amazing! I’m glad she used it in pursuit of a great cause.
    And what a sweet soul. She treats all the patients like her own children…down to the “Did you finish your tea?”

  • @loveislove4879
    @loveislove4879 Před 3 lety +388

    im in my 30s. i got this disease as a teenager during my first "encounter". In the USA there is a big stigma if youre "poz". there are some 1.2 million poz men n women here. Gay and straight, rich and poor, black and white. A matching program like this is greatly needed here as well as all around the world. some days the loneliness is a lot to take.

    • @preetamkumar9496
      @preetamkumar9496 Před 3 lety +1

      Looking forward to it :)

    • @nagratna793
      @nagratna793 Před 3 lety +11

      Hope u find someone 👍

    • @bancynkonge9288
      @bancynkonge9288 Před 3 lety +4

      I agree,problems should be faced head on. taking into account the burden they bring with

    • @jhamadhu2809
      @jhamadhu2809 Před 3 lety +2

      😢

    • @alisonfraser3305
      @alisonfraser3305 Před 3 lety +14

      I'm sorry life has dealt you some tough cards. I often worry the younger generations have forgotten the horror of the early days of HIV/AIDS and the huge disservice to humanity by drug companies and politicians. It was genocide, plain and simple. With better treatments and the waning media attention, people in the Western world seem to think it only happens "in Africa" or somewhere else that does not concern them. It concerns everyone. I hope one thing that comes from the current pandemic is a recognition that we have a duty to support one another in illness and keep each other safe from harm. Nobody should be left behind. This documentary really illustrates that, whether medicine or marriage, it's all the same thing. Love for our fellow humans. Know that I never forget you are out there and still suffering. I hope 2021 brings something wonderful your way.

  • @annadeak1184
    @annadeak1184 Před 3 lety +180

    Your happiness is so contagious, I've been smiling for 20 minutes now. Thank you both that you allowed your journey to be taken on camera!

    • @DWDocumentary
      @DWDocumentary  Před 3 lety +8

      Hi @Anna Deák, thanks for watching and taking the time to share your thoughts!

  • @antheiaevelyn8330
    @antheiaevelyn8330 Před 2 lety +23

    Omg, I wasn't expecting the end. I thought she was continuing her work in India with HIV patients. Her vision for happiness and attainment of love or family should be a goal for other physicians treating patients who are HIV positive. They should not treat but also advocate for them to have a fulfilling life. In addition, I'm happy for both Manu and Karthik. I respect their choice of not procreating. I hope they enjoy each other for all the days of their marriage.

  • @theodorebandamartin
    @theodorebandamartin Před 4 měsíci +9

    wow..what a powerful woman..she did the unthinkable and attended to those that needed it the most..give life a fair go..thanks Doctor Solomon.

  • @unapologeticallyme8513
    @unapologeticallyme8513 Před 3 lety +220

    "They're all flowers of the same god" what a beautiful way to put it ♡

  • @tabishshah8785
    @tabishshah8785 Před 3 lety +96

    My thinking towards HIV patients totally changed after watching this!

    • @memyselfandeye76
      @memyselfandeye76 Před 3 lety +11

      open mindedness and education is a beautiful thing, isn't it?

    • @lenab.m.3708
      @lenab.m.3708 Před 2 lety +1

      @@memyselfandeye76 i really wonder what you assumed

    • @misselle1430
      @misselle1430 Před 2 lety

      @@lenab.m.3708 maybe that in this day and age there is no excuse for ignorance.

  • @Twilightmoon1972
    @Twilightmoon1972 Před rokem +7

    I am so touched by this documentary...I wish there were more doctors or others who would play Matchmaker to people with this disease and others.

  • @GabbyF
    @GabbyF Před 4 měsíci +12

    I have no words to describe how beautiful this documentary is 😍 may the doctor's soul rest in peace and that the marriages last forever ♾️ very beautiful, hugs from Brazil 🇧🇷

  • @tafannumkagojitwisha2132
    @tafannumkagojitwisha2132 Před 3 lety +134

    in the end when their faces were reveled and the music played, pal pal...that part was sooo touching

  • @yoyos4133
    @yoyos4133 Před 3 lety +482

    Dr. Solomon surely made a lot of people’s life happier. She must be smiling looking down to all the people she helped. I hope Karthik and Manu are living a happy life❤️😊

  • @lauram4168
    @lauram4168 Před 2 lety +15

    Wow that Doctor was an Angel, such a wonderful human being. I hope that things have changed a little and women are more appreciated in India. This was a very touching documentary

  • @ankitpurohit3010
    @ankitpurohit3010 Před 6 měsíci +12

    You know that when a kind person does things for society, they donot expect to come back in any form, they just keep their good work....this is what I learn to such videos and this is also one of them.
    Dr. Solomon thanks to your passion to work for the society, where kind person like you will always be remembered. ❤RIP

  • @chaberwil13
    @chaberwil13 Před 3 lety +617

    I wholeheartedly wish Manu and Karthik a happily every after and Dr. Solomon a long life. Such lovely souls.
    Edit: My heart sank when I saw the very last portion of the video... Rest in peace Dr. This world needs more people like you.

    • @manukarthik4301
      @manukarthik4301 Před 2 lety +82

      @T.Wil Thank you so much dear....its been a beautiful happily ever after for both of us. Unfortunately Dr Suniti is no more with us, but we feel her presence all the time. We are so thankful to @DW

    • @africanmermaid234
      @africanmermaid234 Před 2 lety +30

      @@manukarthik4301 oh my gosh it’s you!!!! Many blessings to you for a peaceful and happy and prosperous life. Love heals 💕❤️

    • @meluk6991
      @meluk6991 Před 2 lety +21

      @@manukarthik4301 thank you for sharing your beautiful story with the world. Hello to Karthik.

    • @cynergy7985
      @cynergy7985 Před 2 lety +8

      @@manukarthik4301 your love story has me in tears!!!! I'm SO thankful you both found each other & what a beautifully sweet love that you both have!!!!🥰 CONGRATS!!!!💞🎉🎊

    • @mariahewitt9787
      @mariahewitt9787 Před 2 lety +4

      @@manukarthik4301
      I'm so happy that you have found each other. May you have a long and happy life together.
      God bless you.

  • @mslatif3378
    @mslatif3378 Před 2 lety +415

    So sad to hear of Dr. Solomon passing away. She touched many people’s lives. She opened her heart and showed compassion & empathy to her patients!! Bravo 👏 👏

    • @dancing523
      @dancing523 Před 2 lety +4

      She died??? What a wonderful soul!!!!

    • @tanih_bhat
      @tanih_bhat Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@dancing523 in 2015

    • @Indian12023
      @Indian12023 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Ohhh really is the doctor no more 😢😢😢😢???

    • @annetteodanga
      @annetteodanga Před 6 měsíci

      She died of cancer,so sad@@Indian12023

    • @beeblake7591
      @beeblake7591 Před 5 měsíci +1

      So very saddening 😢 the world needs people like her .. May she rip 🕊️

  • @LoveHealsAndProtects
    @LoveHealsAndProtects Před 5 měsíci +12

    I had shivers down my spine when the captions said after 2 years virus was almost undetectable. Love heals and protects!!! ❤❤❤

  • @desiinfrance908
    @desiinfrance908 Před 2 lety +9

    It is for videos like these that CZcams needs to add a "superlike" button ! Beautifully made and heartwarming. Thanks for your service Dr Solomon !

    • @DWDocumentary
      @DWDocumentary  Před 2 lety

      Thanks a lot for watching and for your positive feedback. We appreciate you taking the time to comment and are glad you like our content!

  • @saibliss7976
    @saibliss7976 Před 3 lety +87

    The sheer happiness in Karthik's laugh & voice when he talked about meeting her... it feels like it's the first time he's really laughed.

  • @Atyantanand9656
    @Atyantanand9656 Před 3 lety +307

    She is one of the most inspiring and Frank lady I have seen.

  • @nidhinvarghese4993
    @nidhinvarghese4993 Před 4 měsíci +8

    One of the best documentaries I have seen...
    Heart touching.

  • @doodledame38
    @doodledame38 Před 2 lety +5

    Fantastic documentary! So well-made. The doctor was a God sent. I was so sad when reading about her death at the end. RIP.

  • @somethingaboutbeaute
    @somethingaboutbeaute Před 3 lety +181

    I've watched this documentary a few times now and I still feel so sad knowing all of the beautiful work she did and how caring she was and how she never discriminated against anyone who had HIV/AIDS only to pass away from Cancer!!! She's a true hero and angel in my eyes!!!!! ❤ *RIP* ❤

  • @zenolachance1181
    @zenolachance1181 Před 3 lety +237

    I spent ten years with the love OF my life before she passed away from aids..it WAS the best ten years of my life.. I am hiv- but we were cautious and I'm still negative.....

    • @enidpkmp8442
      @enidpkmp8442 Před 3 lety

      how did your wife got infective?

    • @zenolachance1181
      @zenolachance1181 Před 3 lety +33

      @@enidpkmp8442 she was infected when I met her. She had been infected for ten years already. She said when she was in her 20s she was using drugs and she really didn't know if she got it from sex or IV drug use. She didn't really seem to be interested and where she contracted it. It was just part of her life now and she didn't like to dwell on it

    • @Littleone124
      @Littleone124 Před 3 lety +10

      I'm sorry for your loss

    • @luyando3585
      @luyando3585 Před 3 lety +4

      Sorry for your loss... was she on treatment?

    • @roja7426
      @roja7426 Před 3 lety +14

      Zeno Lachance
      Thank you for sharing your story. I’m happy to hear to got to spend years of life with your partner. It seems as though a lot of education needs to be done in India to remove that stigma that is attached to HIV/AIDS. Hope the future generation is more understanding.

  • @carolchen2320
    @carolchen2320 Před 2 lety +1

    One of the most beautiful documentaries I have ever watched - tearing up at the library right now

  • @ywrry5088
    @ywrry5088 Před 8 měsíci +7

    What a beautiful film 😢 Rest in peace Dr. Solomon and wishing you a long, happy life together Karthik and Manu 🌹

  • @pawanbhatta5435
    @pawanbhatta5435 Před 3 lety +185

    It amazes me that the DW team waited years to cover all the story of this couple. Hats off.

    • @pepe2813
      @pepe2813 Před 3 lety

      Yeahh, so much of hard work theyve put in!

    • @manukarthik4301
      @manukarthik4301 Před 2 lety +2

      Years of hard work was done by the directors of this documentary Priya and Ann

  • @apheshavaldez405
    @apheshavaldez405 Před 3 lety +92

    Unfortunately the doctor passed away, but I'm sure her legacy lives on. May she rest in peace 🙏

  • @phoe23nix58
    @phoe23nix58 Před 2 lety +9

    Dr. Solomon was a true visionary. I hope Manu and Karthik have long and happy lives together. Thank you for being brave enough to share your stories.

  • @mjs3370
    @mjs3370 Před 4 měsíci +5

    One of the most beautiful documentaries I’ve watched. Loved it.