Hey everyone! I'm sorry if I maybe came off kind of overly defensive in this video and that it came out more rambly/rant-y than I intended. 😅🤣 I honestly didn't expect anyone to watch this video so I kind of was more off-the-cuff and not as concise with my thoughts as I usually am in my other videos. Thank you so much for watching 🙏❤
You don't have to apologize, you didn't come off that way at all. I'm sure since you grew up poor and had to take initiative and learn to provide for yourself at a young age, being written off as a spoiled brat by ignorant people can be a soft spot for you. I don't know you as well as your friends and family, but I'm blessed enough to have gotten to know you over these past few weeks, and I have to say, you truly are a genuine and kind person. I mean, since when does a content creator take as much time to talk with one of their commentors as you do? Not even just something generic, like "hey, thanks so much for your support!" I mean, we've had full conversations right here in the comments about a bunch of stuff. I was so nervous about dming you, I was afraid I'd be bothering you, but you were completely cool about it, you never made me feel like you were too busy for me, or like I'm not worth your time. You're a friendly, caring, compassionate girl, you're down to earth and so easy to get along with, I'm sure your family has seen you at your best and worst moments, none of us are perfect, but you never come off arrogant or snobby, or like you're putting up a facade. Honestly, with how self-conscious and nervous I am, you've been so encouraging and uplifting to me, and I can't say enough how much I appreciate it. Honestly, I really enjoyed the video, I agreed with a lot of the stuff you mentioned, there's so many products and services nowadays that people indulge in either out of pure laziness or just having more money than they know what to do with, and I've just never felt the need to use most of them.
@@superstarmario101 aw thank you so very much as always for your kind comments and ongoing support 🙏 it truly means the world to me to know I have subscribers that genuinely like my content and connect with me on things, at the end of the day, that was why i made a youtube channel: to connect with people so that we can feel less alone in our struggles and uplift eachother :) thank you so much as always for your kindness 🙏
@@aniveve You're welcome, I can't relate to any of the makeup reviews or fashion stuff of course, but I can still appreciate how beautiful you are and at least from an artistic standpoint, I can appreciate your sense of style. I can definitely relate to this one when it comes to being mature and responsible with money and taking care of yourself. You certainly have made me feel less lonely, I mean, I have plenty of love in my life already with my family, as I've said before, I never want to take that for granted, but it's nice to feel like I have a friend to hang out with too, and I can't thank you enough for being a friend to me.
@@mor.a aww thank you so much 🥹 i always try to be as real and honest as possible. Thank you for watching my purse reviews and for your kind comment 🥰🙏
Exactly, I so much agree. My friends and even my family accused me of being irresponsible financially since I had months spending big chunks of money at once. I just save, I cunt every grosz(cent) and then you can be supprised how much money you can save. Btw it would be much nicer to watch if you would include timestamps 😊
@@asada1024 thank you for your comment! :) and yes sorry this video ended up being way more rambly and rant-y than intended 😅🤣 i will try to make it more concise next time for sure
People are so presumptuous and hateful, I never wrote you off as rich or spoiled, I think it's excellent that you've worked so hard and earned everything you have, you should be able to treat yourself once in a while, you deserve it. This is so relatable, I almost never eat out, especially not fast food, it's all unhealthy junk and way too expensive, besides, I love to cook, it's so much fun, and it's so rewarding being able to cook for your family and see them enjoy it. Your hair always looks gorgeous, it goes to show you don't need any of those ridiculous tools, cosmetics, or pricey hair care products, it's easy to see you take great care of yourself, you always look nice, and you're thrifty about it too. It's refreshing to hear from someone who doesn't drink or smoke, niether do I, it's just stupid and self-destructive, not to mention in makes you toxic to everyone around you. I don't watch tv either, the last time I ever watched tv was like seven years ago when a show I grew up with was brought back for a final season, I'm really not interested in any shows nowadays, and I won't waste money on streaming services. We could probably talk forever about stuff niether of us waste money on, this is more like fifty more reasons you're the coolest girl ever.
@@superstarmario101 wow im so glad to hear im not the only one who doesnt spend money on things like eating out constantly/watching tv/smoking or drinking etc etc!! Its so refreshing to know i am not alone! I originally made this video to make others feel less alone, but in the end you are all the ones making ME feel less alone in your responses, so thank you so much 🥹🙏 and aw thats so sweet and wholesome that you enjoy cooking for your family, you are blessed to have eachother 😊 and thank you as always for your kindness 🙏
Agree with you on takeout! I grew up in a family that cooks all our meals, only getting takeout maybe 1-2 times a month. The culture here is so different because people are regularly getting food delivered which is more expensive than just buying ingredients at the store and cooking. Not buying one-off drinks is difficult for me when college starts again lol because there’s a Starbucks right in the library and it smells so good, but I control myself unless I feel hungry and need a drink or snack. I’ll try to make my own iced matcha lattes from now on & take it with me to school.
@@cinnamonteeth yes i grew up with a family that never got takeout either! So maybe its ingrained in us to not do so in adulthood as well 😅🤣 getting takeout/eating at a restaurant was like a special event or big deal. And i totally get the one-off drinks thing for sure, its such a nice, instant dopamine rush for not much money. Once in awhile theyre fine as a treat to yourself 😊 but yes learning to make them at home will be game-changing for sure!!
We can tell by your videos how sweet you are and you don’t come across spoiled at all! You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone . Work hard & treat yourself ! Those people don’t pay your bills ❤
@@missdee7173 omg thank you so very much for your sweet comment, hun 🥺💗 it is so reassurring to me that I dont come off spoiled at all, as it is such a big misconception people seem to have of me, especially on tik tok. And you're so right, they don't! ✊️ thank you for your ongoing support, i appreciate you so much 🥰
I’m five minutes in and this video reads as very self-conscious and reflexive. People may have said some things that were untrue about you, but instead of just saying it isn’t true (and moving on to the content), you’re taking it like someone is calling you names, and getting defensive/reactive. This isn’t an educational video - it’s a video all about YOU and how people perceive YOU and how YOU feel about what some comments said. You, you, you. Edit: I’ll add, early in the video I was thinking, “this is interesting, she decides what’s important in her life and is teaching people how to be really intentional about how they spend money.” I think the premise is in place and that’s great that you’re showing people how being frugal in most areas lets you spend money on the things you really care about. It’s just too bad it comes across like a rebuttal instead of a learning experience.
I got to the bag rant about 22 minutes in, and it really cemented the tone of the video for me. It’s “crazy” to you to spend over $1000 on a handbag, but you aspire to…? So many of the items you mentioned not spending money on are beauty-related things. It would never occur to me, for example, to say I don’t spend money on Botox or red-light-face-things, or twelve step skin care regimens, because of course I don’t. It wouldn’t even occur to me. Why is that even on the list? Clearly I’m not your audience and shouldn’t have been recommended this video. This is a video for people who put their appearance before other things. That’s an okay thing to do… but it also explains why this video is so self conscious and self focussed. Thanks for teaching me a few things about makeup&handbag people. It’s been insightful.
What's your problem? So she simply addressed that people can be presumptuous and rude and assume that she's spoiled when in actuality, she's worked hard for everything she has. If she wants to talk about herself, it's her channel and her video, she can do that, and yes, it's about her own personal experiences and things she views as superfluous luxuries that are just a waste of money, and frankly, I agree with most of the things she mentioned. If you don't like the video, or it wasn't a good recommendation for you, just skip it and move one, no need to leave a comment criticizing her, it comes off like you're just looking for attention.
@@faiora judging by some of your favorites, you seem like the kind of person who despises anyone who actually has a sense of personal responsibility and works hard to achieve something for themselves, writing them off as having some sort of "privelege" you probably think it would be better if all they had was appropriated and given to people who were unwilling to work instead.
Hey everyone! I'm sorry if I maybe came off kind of overly defensive in this video and that it came out more rambly/rant-y than I intended. 😅🤣 I honestly didn't expect anyone to watch this video so I kind of was more off-the-cuff and not as concise with my thoughts as I usually am in my other videos. Thank you so much for watching 🙏❤
You don't have to apologize, you didn't come off that way at all. I'm sure since you grew up poor and had to take initiative and learn to provide for yourself at a young age, being written off as a spoiled brat by ignorant people can be a soft spot for you. I don't know you as well as your friends and family, but I'm blessed enough to have gotten to know you over these past few weeks, and I have to say, you truly are a genuine and kind person. I mean, since when does a content creator take as much time to talk with one of their commentors as you do? Not even just something generic, like "hey, thanks so much for your support!" I mean, we've had full conversations right here in the comments about a bunch of stuff. I was so nervous about dming you, I was afraid I'd be bothering you, but you were completely cool about it, you never made me feel like you were too busy for me, or like I'm not worth your time. You're a friendly, caring, compassionate girl, you're down to earth and so easy to get along with, I'm sure your family has seen you at your best and worst moments, none of us are perfect, but you never come off arrogant or snobby, or like you're putting up a facade. Honestly, with how self-conscious and nervous I am, you've been so encouraging and uplifting to me, and I can't say enough how much I appreciate it. Honestly, I really enjoyed the video, I agreed with a lot of the stuff you mentioned, there's so many products and services nowadays that people indulge in either out of pure laziness or just having more money than they know what to do with, and I've just never felt the need to use most of them.
@@superstarmario101 aw thank you so very much as always for your kind comments and ongoing support 🙏 it truly means the world to me to know I have subscribers that genuinely like my content and connect with me on things, at the end of the day, that was why i made a youtube channel: to connect with people so that we can feel less alone in our struggles and uplift eachother :) thank you so much as always for your kindness 🙏
@@aniveve You're welcome, I can't relate to any of the makeup reviews or fashion stuff of course, but I can still appreciate how beautiful you are and at least from an artistic standpoint, I can appreciate your sense of style. I can definitely relate to this one when it comes to being mature and responsible with money and taking care of yourself. You certainly have made me feel less lonely, I mean, I have plenty of love in my life already with my family, as I've said before, I never want to take that for granted, but it's nice to feel like I have a friend to hang out with too, and I can't thank you enough for being a friend to me.
You are sooo honest person i love watching your videos of purse reviews❤
@@mor.a aww thank you so much 🥹 i always try to be as real and honest as possible. Thank you for watching my purse reviews and for your kind comment 🥰🙏
Exactly, I so much agree. My friends and even my family accused me of being irresponsible financially since I had months spending big chunks of money at once. I just save, I cunt every grosz(cent) and then you can be supprised how much money you can save.
Btw it would be much nicer to watch if you would include timestamps 😊
@@asada1024 thank you for your comment! :) and yes sorry this video ended up being way more rambly and rant-y than intended 😅🤣 i will try to make it more concise next time for sure
People are so presumptuous and hateful, I never wrote you off as rich or spoiled, I think it's excellent that you've worked so hard and earned everything you have, you should be able to treat yourself once in a while, you deserve it. This is so relatable, I almost never eat out, especially not fast food, it's all unhealthy junk and way too expensive, besides, I love to cook, it's so much fun, and it's so rewarding being able to cook for your family and see them enjoy it. Your hair always looks gorgeous, it goes to show you don't need any of those ridiculous tools, cosmetics, or pricey hair care products, it's easy to see you take great care of yourself, you always look nice, and you're thrifty about it too. It's refreshing to hear from someone who doesn't drink or smoke, niether do I, it's just stupid and self-destructive, not to mention in makes you toxic to everyone around you. I don't watch tv either, the last time I ever watched tv was like seven years ago when a show I grew up with was brought back for a final season, I'm really not interested in any shows nowadays, and I won't waste money on streaming services. We could probably talk forever about stuff niether of us waste money on, this is more like fifty more reasons you're the coolest girl ever.
@@superstarmario101 wow im so glad to hear im not the only one who doesnt spend money on things like eating out constantly/watching tv/smoking or drinking etc etc!! Its so refreshing to know i am not alone! I originally made this video to make others feel less alone, but in the end you are all the ones making ME feel less alone in your responses, so thank you so much 🥹🙏 and aw thats so sweet and wholesome that you enjoy cooking for your family, you are blessed to have eachother 😊 and thank you as always for your kindness 🙏
@@aniveve You're welcome, it was a comfort to me too knowing there's someone else out there that feels the same way, so we helped eachother!
Agree with you on takeout! I grew up in a family that cooks all our meals, only getting takeout maybe 1-2 times a month. The culture here is so different because people are regularly getting food delivered which is more expensive than just buying ingredients at the store and cooking.
Not buying one-off drinks is difficult for me when college starts again lol because there’s a Starbucks right in the library and it smells so good, but I control myself unless I feel hungry and need a drink or snack. I’ll try to make my own iced matcha lattes from now on & take it with me to school.
@@cinnamonteeth yes i grew up with a family that never got takeout either! So maybe its ingrained in us to not do so in adulthood as well 😅🤣 getting takeout/eating at a restaurant was like a special event or big deal. And i totally get the one-off drinks thing for sure, its such a nice, instant dopamine rush for not much money. Once in awhile theyre fine as a treat to yourself 😊 but yes learning to make them at home will be game-changing for sure!!
We can tell by your videos how sweet you are and you don’t come across spoiled at all! You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone . Work hard & treat yourself ! Those people don’t pay your bills ❤
@@missdee7173 omg thank you so very much for your sweet comment, hun 🥺💗 it is so reassurring to me that I dont come off spoiled at all, as it is such a big misconception people seem to have of me, especially on tik tok. And you're so right, they don't! ✊️ thank you for your ongoing support, i appreciate you so much 🥰
Video starts at 5:00
I’m five minutes in and this video reads as very self-conscious and reflexive.
People may have said some things that were untrue about you, but instead of just saying it isn’t true (and moving on to the content), you’re taking it like someone is calling you names, and getting defensive/reactive.
This isn’t an educational video - it’s a video all about YOU and how people perceive YOU and how YOU feel about what some comments said. You, you, you.
Edit: I’ll add, early in the video I was thinking, “this is interesting, she decides what’s important in her life and is teaching people how to be really intentional about how they spend money.” I think the premise is in place and that’s great that you’re showing people how being frugal in most areas lets you spend money on the things you really care about.
It’s just too bad it comes across like a rebuttal instead of a learning experience.
I got to the bag rant about 22 minutes in, and it really cemented the tone of the video for me. It’s “crazy” to you to spend over $1000 on a handbag, but you aspire to…?
So many of the items you mentioned not spending money on are beauty-related things. It would never occur to me, for example, to say I don’t spend money on Botox or red-light-face-things, or twelve step skin care regimens, because of course I don’t. It wouldn’t even occur to me. Why is that even on the list?
Clearly I’m not your audience and shouldn’t have been recommended this video.
This is a video for people who put their appearance before other things. That’s an okay thing to do… but it also explains why this video is so self conscious and self focussed.
Thanks for teaching me a few things about makeup&handbag people. It’s been insightful.
What's your problem? So she simply addressed that people can be presumptuous and rude and assume that she's spoiled when in actuality, she's worked hard for everything she has. If she wants to talk about herself, it's her channel and her video, she can do that, and yes, it's about her own personal experiences and things she views as superfluous luxuries that are just a waste of money, and frankly, I agree with most of the things she mentioned. If you don't like the video, or it wasn't a good recommendation for you, just skip it and move one, no need to leave a comment criticizing her, it comes off like you're just looking for attention.
@@faiora judging by some of your favorites, you seem like the kind of person who despises anyone who actually has a sense of personal responsibility and works hard to achieve something for themselves, writing them off as having some sort of "privelege" you probably think it would be better if all they had was appropriated and given to people who were unwilling to work instead.