AITA for abandoning my family after I found my wife's cheating and being knocked out by my s...

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024

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  • @happynightmares4688
    @happynightmares4688 Před 4 měsíci +199

    I feel bad for him and also his daughter. Ruined by mother’s infidelity and son’s assault.

    • @skywingnight
      @skywingnight Před 4 měsíci +3

      I bet in the son mind he was jus protecting his mom but because he didn't know the truth all dis happen

    • @happynightmares4688
      @happynightmares4688 Před 4 měsíci +9

      @@skywingnight I man regardless, initiating physical assault in a non physical condition to the point of beating someone to passing out when the other person is already down, and then drinking afterwards to that point instead of reporting it to police. This is just a failed human.

    • @leanderhartl9504
      @leanderhartl9504 Před měsícem

      @@skywingnightHe doesn‘t have to „protect“ his mother. It isn‘t the 1960‘s anymore and never in these months, OP made any gestures that should have made him worry about his mommy.

    • @skywingnight
      @skywingnight Před měsícem

      @@leanderhartl9504 no matter the year if u see someone u love in danger u go want to protect them

  • @shortspecimen
    @shortspecimen Před 4 měsíci +152

    The fact that ur son is 22 meters is even more crazy

  • @Justin-mu2ei
    @Justin-mu2ei Před 4 měsíci +169

    I need an update bruh this shit is so sad but sounds like a reality TV show

    • @AHFAN11
      @AHFAN11 Před 4 měsíci +12

      might be fake. found it on reddit and the overwhelming majority say its fake

    • @Marpurrsa
      @Marpurrsa Před 4 měsíci +25

      @@AHFAN11 i mean its pretty obvious its fake
      it is increcibly difficult for your average person to just walk into the woods and survive for a year
      op said he foraged alot, how does he know whats safe and what isnt

    • @sldarwin5615
      @sldarwin5615 Před 4 měsíci +11

      Yeah I’m 90% sure it was fake when he started talking about how he lived a year in the forest

    • @jesschen5513
      @jesschen5513 Před 4 měsíci +6

      ​@@Marpurrsadifficult is not impossible. Otherwise yeah.

    • @corinnemia1359
      @corinnemia1359 Před 4 měsíci +6

      ​@Marpurrsa difficult but not impossible. as a girl scout they teach you all that and im guessing they do in boy scouts too and he just didnt mention it. he also said he took his hunting knife so he knows a thing or two about nature

  • @Runningoff5hoursofsleep
    @Runningoff5hoursofsleep Před 4 měsíci +51

    NTA I think OP should reconnect with his daughter and make his boundaries abut his son and "wife" clear if he has any. Also get legally divorced from the "wife".

    • @jamestown8398
      @jamestown8398 Před 4 měsíci +4

      I agree. Daughter is the only member of OP’s family who deserves to have contact with him.

  • @shannonrichardson5129
    @shannonrichardson5129 Před 4 měsíci +7

    I feel so bad for OP and his daughter. It sounds like the poor man had a psychotic episode. I hope the father in law told everyone about what the wife did.

  • @agx8447
    @agx8447 Před 4 měsíci +116

    Daughter didn’t do anything wrong. Son shouldn’t have gotten physical but it seems like he didn’t have the full context and I respect that he protected his mother, albeit misguided. Should get legally divorced from the wife, but the kids aren’t bad like she is

    • @2xtreem4u
      @2xtreem4u Před 4 měsíci +27

      he should be in jail

    • @agx8447
      @agx8447 Před 4 měsíci +11

      @@2xtreem4u yeah, he should, but he should also receive a second chance considering it was a genuine mistake. Plus, his father raised him to be a fighter who protects his loved ones, then refused to give him context when he got aggressive with his mother and told him to leave. What did you expect the son to do?

    • @2xtreem4u
      @2xtreem4u Před 4 měsíci +13

      ​@@agx8447 And he lost his dad because of that

    • @stephonmanny7555
      @stephonmanny7555 Před 4 měsíci +26

      ⁠@@agx8447Sucker punching someone because they said something mean to your mother isn’t protecting her. Kids going to end in jail someday if he doesn’t get his anger under control.

    • @agx8447
      @agx8447 Před 4 měsíci +5

      @@stephonmanny7555 there’s a difference between a mean comment and screaming obscenities. Again, I haven’t said anywhere that the punch was justified, it wasn’t, and he deserves consequences for that, but I’m saying the dad did not paint a comprehensive picture at all and facilitated the misunderstanding his son had by not explaining anything and telling him to get out. Yes the son needs consequences, yes he needs professional help, but I guarantee if the dad was the one who cheated, the situation could play out exactly the same way and nobody would have any issue with what the son did as at that point everyone would agree he was just defending his mother. He had limited info, and while what he did was wrong it’s not unforgivable considering his upbringing and the limited info he had on the situation

  • @mad4manga435
    @mad4manga435 Před 4 měsíci +95

    Nta, don't reconnect
    Let them search eternity then have a post of ur new life, they will get crushed

    • @ardynba2342
      @ardynba2342 Před 4 měsíci +12

      And his daughter ?!

    • @2xtreem4u
      @2xtreem4u Před 4 měsíci +3

      @@ardynba2342 collateral damage

    • @Ksinloveee
      @Ksinloveee Před 4 měsíci

      @@ardynba2342he could contact her but only her because If I was him I wouldn’t want to speak to them but would feel bad for my daughter

    • @jesschen5513
      @jesschen5513 Před 4 měsíci +1

      ​@@ardynba2342 Sad, but you reap what you sow, don't matter if she hates OP, just matters if she hates her mother more.

    • @mad4manga435
      @mad4manga435 Před 4 měsíci

      @@ardynba2342 he should have secret relationship with her

  • @user-hv2vv1ok9d
    @user-hv2vv1ok9d Před 4 měsíci +44

    I really need the update because I search for it but I didn't find any thing at all.

    • @Leyladjdjx
      @Leyladjdjx Před 4 měsíci

      It's probably deleted because it's fake. Stories that are unnecessarily long are all fake

  • @mantislevin8445
    @mantislevin8445 Před 4 měsíci +25

    PLEASE tell me if there is ever an update or if anyone finds the link to this i need to hear any updates

    • @8ofclubs362
      @8ofclubs362 Před 4 měsíci +2

      I just praying someone has their reddit handle or smth

    • @mantislevin8445
      @mantislevin8445 Před 4 měsíci

      @@8ofclubs362 PREACH BRO im sitting here on the edge of my seat its crazy 😭

  • @gluttonouswolf980
    @gluttonouswolf980 Před 4 měsíci +30

    The only ah thing is that he left his daughter without saying anything. But he didn’t completely abandon his family. He left all the money he saved up.
    Wife screwed up. And she better have explained what she did to make him so mad. The son screwed up because the father didn’t attack. And it doesn’t matter that he was protecting his mother, he didn’t know what was going on and the dad was only verbal.
    The only one who didn’t do anything is the daughter. But what’s really messed up, is how many people think he’s the ah. He is the victim and he blames himself.
    He should focus on reconnecting with his daughter, and make sure she understands. Cause I’m not sure anyone got in trouble for their actions.

  • @user-ex5qu8yu3z
    @user-ex5qu8yu3z Před 4 měsíci +8

    Son doesn't know anything he just wants to protect his mother.😢 Poor daughter. But mom what a P.O.S🤬🤬

  • @chrissy6822
    @chrissy6822 Před 4 měsíci +58

    I'm getting Forrest Gump vibes and I'm calling absolute BS on this load of AI-written crap.

    • @Sage24555
      @Sage24555 Před 4 měsíci +5

      Clearly you had a nice childhood, not knowing that this exact story is the reality for a lot of us. Maybe not exactly but comparable.

    • @chrissy6822
      @chrissy6822 Před 4 měsíci

      @@Sage24555 So a lot of you are mentally weak and easily willing to abandon your children bc of the issues you have with your spouse? Thanks for letting me know. Also, this story is still fake. Go seek therapy elsewhere.

  • @jamestown8398
    @jamestown8398 Před 4 měsíci +1

    NTA. I’m not going to blame OP for having a mental break.
    Here is what OP should do.
    1. Contact his lawyer and finalize the divorce.
    2. Contact his daughter, and ask to meet her alone. Make it clear that if her mother or brother are there, in any way, shape, or form, then the meeting will be cancelled and she won’t get another one. At the meeting, give an explanation. Show her the post too.
    3. Don’t reconnect with ex-wife or son ever again. Make it clear they lost OP forever by their actions. Lay on the condemnation thick. “Ex-wife, I wish I never met you. I hate you. Ex-son, you chose a cheating wh*re over me.”

  • @waynec4018
    @waynec4018 Před 26 dny

    He built a cabin in the woods? I call bullshit

  • @annadlv6040
    @annadlv6040 Před 4 měsíci +17

    Have anyone the name from the story writer? I need to know if there is an update

    • @Mia-dt3gl
      @Mia-dt3gl Před 4 měsíci +4

      The story went up less than a day ago so there’s been no update yet. If you copy/paste the story title into a search engine you’ll find it.

  • @user-hv2vv1ok9d
    @user-hv2vv1ok9d Před 4 měsíci +42

    this is soooo missed up 💀.

  • @awfan221
    @awfan221 Před 3 měsíci

    Is he the asshole as the father for leaving his kids? Arguably. Is he the asshole as a husband leaving his wife? No.

  • @needs_more_dakka5774
    @needs_more_dakka5774 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Creative writing exercise.

  • @Iflie
    @Iflie Před 4 měsíci +6

    I guess he is survival man? These days how would you not run into people if you are trying to hunt enough food to stay alive in the woods? Not to mention having to build fires to stay warm. Dogwalkers would be round your place.

    • @jamestown8398
      @jamestown8398 Před 4 měsíci

      National parks in the US can be quite massive.

    • @Iflie
      @Iflie Před 4 měsíci

      @@jamestown8398 Yeah but you'd also see smoke for miles, and you'd have to travel quite a bit to get food. And people will fly over and walk dogs, go hiking for days.
      It's not easy to dissapear as it used to be.

  • @Henry.25
    @Henry.25 Před měsícem

    F off. OP didn't abandon everything and become homeless, having rap battles with other homeless people, built a cabin in the woods and after a year of isolation, his first instinct was to call a friend and to go to reddit and post the story? 😂😂😂😂😂😂
    I don't know what the assignment was, but I want to know what was the grade the teacher gave the author of this mess.

  • @empresspalpatine8792
    @empresspalpatine8792 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I'm excited for the update.

  • @thenerdbeast7375
    @thenerdbeast7375 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Author needs to work on his creative writing skills, he lost me when the protagonist went SuperTramp.

  • @anthonycrawford4671
    @anthonycrawford4671 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Let me know if their is update

  • @untiedshoelaces2588
    @untiedshoelaces2588 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I need updates for this.

  • @JetLagRecords
    @JetLagRecords Před 4 měsíci +3

    Favourite Stories, This video is fantastic! I liked it a lot!

  • @shashankkulkarni1040
    @shashankkulkarni1040 Před 3 měsíci

    NTA the things that your "wife" did and how your son assaulted you after getting to know only half part of the story is crazy. but if OP wants to reconnect with his daughter i suggest somewhere he could find in his heart to forgive his son as dealing with these stuff can cause huge stress and can take a toll on a person's health. you should really just move ahead and live a better life

  • @lhuynh731
    @lhuynh731 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Connect with the daughter not the mother and son duo.

  • @Mrstigger747
    @Mrstigger747 Před měsícem

    Where is the update?

  • @miadebbas6593
    @miadebbas6593 Před 4 měsíci +2

    couldn’t he change the name on the deed of the house before the divorce? and why did he not add his name as well, I know love makes people do dumb thinhs but seriously he doesn’t have protection for his assests? And does the wife know that her boss can see the slack messges?

  • @smsff7
    @smsff7 Před 3 měsíci +1

    OP is an AH for abandoning his daughter. I can understand leaving the wife and violent son, but the daughter was left in the dark and her father ran off without saying anything.

  • @fenris8wolf604
    @fenris8wolf604 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Update if you can, please

  • @kristentaylor5359
    @kristentaylor5359 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Give me a break with this BS story. I could follow it up until oh I left my family and started being homeless and somebody took me in and I started foraging, omg. This whole story is a bunch of crap and I'm really tired of people using AI for stories just so they can get likes

  • @diamondly6250
    @diamondly6250 Před 4 měsíci

    this is fake you cant just go into a NATONAL forest and build a cabin 🤣

  • @msnawrecka9786
    @msnawrecka9786 Před 4 měsíci +1

    A lot of these could actually be true. This isn’t one of those stories.

  • @bluebells6494
    @bluebells6494 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Can someone send link to the Reddit post

  • @cloudyboy1756
    @cloudyboy1756 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I’m not gonna lie my personal last resort is walking into the woods and staying till I want to return

  • @Emmanuel-ws3qo
    @Emmanuel-ws3qo Před 4 měsíci

    the end sounds pretty fake

  • @CoolGhoul666
    @CoolGhoul666 Před 4 měsíci +14

    Sounds super fake

    • @Ksinloveee
      @Ksinloveee Před 4 měsíci +1

      Obviously is

    • @jesschen5513
      @jesschen5513 Před 4 měsíci +1

      ​@@Ksinloveee Doesn't stop there from being an update.

    • @Ksinloveee
      @Ksinloveee Před 4 měsíci

      @@jesschen5513 never said it did…what does it being fake have to do with there being a update??

    • @jesschen5513
      @jesschen5513 Před 4 měsíci

      @@Ksinloveee you didn't have to answer my comment it was a joke.

    • @criert135
      @criert135 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I was on board until the “I walked off into the woods and built a cabin and lived there” part. As if.

  • @CBNM1
    @CBNM1 Před 4 měsíci +5

    NTA

  • @Black-Rose12
    @Black-Rose12 Před 4 měsíci

    Kinda for abandoning the daughter but for the rest NTA also I thiught the son who pinched w9uld be 15 or something but 22 metres

  • @dikshithaariyawansa1299
    @dikshithaariyawansa1299 Před 3 měsíci

    Wow when you think he couldnt be any more pathetic he runs away. He is a loser afterall.

  • @alexdavies5705
    @alexdavies5705 Před 4 měsíci +3

    fake af

  • @LTBH69
    @LTBH69 Před 4 měsíci +1

    there is no update its only just been posted could be AI doe

  • @staby3956
    @staby3956 Před 4 měsíci +16

    YTA for abandoning your children. Yeah, get rid of the wife cause she’s shit but the kids love you and need you. It’s entirely your fault your son punched you. You raised him to be strong and to protect the people he loves and in that moment you were a huge threat and instead of explaining the situation to him you tried to make him leave which brought up even bigger red flags. Go back to your kids and clear your name with them and divorce the cheater.

    • @M.Abdullah-ps7me
      @M.Abdullah-ps7me Před 4 měsíci +22

      Wtf

    • @michellekk1941
      @michellekk1941 Před 4 měsíci +5

      Yeah I agree.The wife needs to go but the son had no context and just saw his dad being unnecessarily aggressive so he did what he thought was best the daughter literally didn't do anything.I understand he was upset but he should have just left for like a week and came back to clear things up.A year?!?! With kids is crazy just at least let the daughter know you are fine.She might think you're dead plus I can't find this on Reddit so might be creative writing mabye 😅. MIGHT!

    • @princetonginger2001
      @princetonginger2001 Před 4 měsíci

      Honestly if this was my father, I’d be glad he dropped off the face of the world.
      The mom is the asshole for cheating, but he’s the asshole for literally everything else 😅

    • @zae_llama9111
      @zae_llama9111 Před 4 měsíci +22

      Why is there always somebody with a shit take fighting blaming the victim? Bro got cheated on, beaten up and basically shown he was nothing to them. No clue how walking away from people that don’t care about you makes YOU the asshole and not them….

    • @shortspecimen
      @shortspecimen Před 4 měsíci +5

      ​@@zae_llama9111 but as the guy in the story mentioned, the daughter was a rlly nice person. He is the victim but he could have dealt with it better

  • @LTBH69
    @LTBH69 Před 4 měsíci +1

    seems fake asf looked up the reddit post only thing posted

  • @anjalysescott1085
    @anjalysescott1085 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Esh