How Narcissistic Wives Treat Their Husbands
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- How Narcissistic Wives Treat Their Husbands? You’ve probably heard of a celebrity that built his career for years and was destroyed in a snap. We didn’t notice that this was because of the narcissistic wife’s influence that shattered the career of that famous celebrity. How about you? Are you being maltreated with your narcissistic wife? In this case, here are the 10 ways that narcissistic wives treat their husbands.
If there are narcissistic husbands, there’s also narcissistic wives, and the way they treat their husbands are very different from the way narcissistic husbands treat their wives. Most males do physical contact by abusing and bruising the female. While narcissistic wives take advantage of their husbands income. Most of the time, narcissistic wives leech out their husbands money to use for themselves.
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00:32 10 THEY ALWAYS GET DISAPPOINTED EVERYDAY
01:26 9 THEY’RE ALWAYS AGAINST THEIR HUSBANDS
02:37 8 ALWAYS FANTASIZE THEY’RE THE QUEEN AND HUSBANDS ARE SERVANTS
03:48 7 THEY LET THEIR HUSBANDS TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR MISTAKES
04:33 6 ALWAYS DISTANT IN TERMS OF PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL
05:27 5 PREVENTS THEIR HUSBAND FROM MAKING FRIENDS ESPECIALLY WOMEN
06:19 4 THEY PLACE THE BLAME ON THEIR HUSBANDS IN EVERYTHING
07:01 3 LETTING HUSBANDS FEEL GUILTY IF THEY WANT TO BE INTIMATE
07:52 2 ALWAYS THREATEN TO LEAVE THEIR HUSBANDS
08:27 1 DOESN’T REMEMBER THEIR SPECIAL DAYS LIKE ANNIVERSARY
09:03 OUTRO
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00:00 INTRO
00:32 10 THEY ALWAYS GET DISAPPOINTED EVERYDAY
01:26 9 THEY’RE ALWAYS AGAINST THEIR HUSBANDS
02:37 8 ALWAYS FANTASIZE THEY’RE THE QUEEN AND HUSBANDS ARE SERVANTS
03:48 7 THEY LET THEIR HUSBANDS TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR MISTAKES
04:33 6 ALWAYS DISTANT IN TERMS OF PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL
05:27 5 PREVENTS THEIR HUSBAND FROM MAKING FRIENDS ESPECIALLY WOMEN
06:19 4 THEY PLACE THE BLAME ON THEIR HUSBANDS IN EVERYTHING
07:01 3 LETTING HUSBANDS FEEL GUILTY IF THEY WANT TO BE INTIMATE
07:52 2 ALWAYS THREATEN TO LEAVE THEIR HUSBANDS
08:27 1 DOESN’T REMEMBER THEIR SPECIAL DAYS LIKE ANNIVERSARY
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On point
You will be treated like gold for months. Everything is hot and heavy - you found the perfect partner who is attentive, affectionate and passionate. The first red flag is they keep sharing their own stories (non stop blabbing from their aide) and don’t seem to be too interested in what’s going on in your life. The convos always switch back to what’s going on with them. Suddenly there is a switch and they are indifferent. For NO reason. There was no argument, no fight - in fact, the night before might have been one of your best nights together. After that switch, they will never ever come back to normal. You will be faced with constant silent treatment. You will be walking on eggshells. The minute you corner them and ask them what the hell is going on - you will be stonewalled. They gain power this way. You will be CONFUSED af. You will do everything you can to have the “old” them back, because you don’t like this new version. What you need to realize is the “old” version never existed. It was a complete lie and act - learned from friends, movies etc. It was a character made just for you - it’s no surprise you had a lot in common and now suddenly you don’t. The person you fell in love with completely disappeared, they are ghost. It is absolutely heartbreaking and devastating. All you see is the same body without the same soul. The more frustrated they see you - the more the run and push you away because they don’t want you to see that it was all a mask. Affection is out the window at this point. They can barely kiss or hold hands, but when earlier you were on their lap 247. The real them came out and the mask is off - they hate any from of emotion or love because they are not capable of it. You will be faced with constant gaslighting and they will try to distort your reality so you don’t see them for who they really are. You need to run like the wind - this relationship only makes you destroyed. Their friends don’t know.. for the covert ones - only their romantic relationship partners can figure it out. Because they are so careful with their image, it’s all about perception management. And one day… after all the cognitive dissonance and sleepless nights and feeling sick to your stomach.. you open CZcams and it’s a door to all your answers. You are well with a narcissistic psychopath that has no feelings. Leave and never look back. Additionally, Metaspyhub@gmail. com is a company that is ideal if you need to be able to confront a cheating spouse because they have some of the most advanced features in the industry.
It makes me sick to my stomach my heart hurts that I was so stupid to get myself in this situation
Same here. My fault however. Her parents warned me. I didn't listen. Now divorced with two adult children, I'm free at last.
It doesnt seem you are alone. I was in it for 8 horrible years
Get this... you are alive, free from narc, free from abuse cheating, destroy properties, we sent the devil away
3 years free for narc and divorce
The cover narc woman a demon
with.... human skin ☠
@@jonerrek7806 Damn even her parents could see her b.s.
We all feel that way
I wish my father would have had enough courage to leave my terribly narcissistic mother. She destroyed our family and she destroyed him.
Do you think it was better for you, if your dad left and leaving you with her? Do you believe the outcome would be better for you? I am to hesitate to leave, I attend she destroying me, I am not who will success me protecting my kids or she destroying me.
@@Pharaoo2012 if dad would have left and the mom was truly toxic the kids could have came with him.....
@nTrubl3 not if a court says otherwise.
Father's have no courage to loose their children future.
Been there. Oh my goodness, its mind-blowing, the loneliness, the whirlwind of flagrant financial ruin, the dominance, the Queen barking out orders, never a rational discussion, no warmth, completely patronising, manipulative, threatening, destructive, condescending, hypocritic, puts you in the child position, puts the children before you, uses you, a real fish wife, trouble, thinks she knows best, tantrums and moods, no closeness, no support, instructs you on how to be a dad .. that's just pure arrogance, takes away our gift of parental agency, yet it seems to be acceptable. It's a living cold destructive nightmare. You give your heart and soul, try your utmost for the family .. and they take the lot and wouldnt care less if you end up on the street, and the kids, you lose them and your place as parent in their lives. Its hideous, diabolical, criminal, and they get away with it and are applauded for how powerful they were, how they sorted us out. Its disgusting, and other men and women alike condone it (thankfully we have some women who speak up on our behalf .. we're not taken seriously so thank goodness for them helping to talk about it).
100% spot on. Just recently gotten out of a relationship like this....problem is now that I'm not reacting she's stopped my son from seeing me. He's 21 months old, 9 weeks since I've seen him. Fighting through the court systems every day. It's tiring but my boy needs me. I will NEVER GIVE UP OR GIVE IN!!!! FUCK HER!!!!!
@@Shanthan33 I'm really sorry. Yes, f*ck her, she knew all along what she was doing, took everything you had, deceived you, betrayed you, nothing was good enough, and they still want your demise and deny your right and gift as equal parent. The justice system is absolutely inadequate and shame on them for allowing child abuse to happen. That's the way in .. not fighting for custody or claiming parental alienation, but pushing your deep concern for the child's wellbeing as a safeguarding issue, the disruption of the primary attachment system between you and your child. Approach it in terms of the detrimental effects it will have on your child to be denied equal contact with both parents, and push it in court as her needing help and education in this area so that she can provide the best emotional and psychological support for your child. I feel for you. I lost my children, they're now completely turned and believe its justified. You still can battle .. just change the tactic. It makes me so angry. Keep well
@@Shanthan33 my prayers are with you, stay strong mate. You will win ❤ take care of yourself
Her parents warned me, but I didn't listen. Now she is some other guys problem.
This happened to my son. He ended up with the female equivalent of what his father did to me. I knew when he was running out of hope and was going to “check out” so I went and saw him and said if you need permission to save yourself then I’m giving it to you. He told me what would people say she’s a woman etc, etc! I said if your dead then she’s going to have to deal with this herself. She if course fell on her feet but the next day he cut her out cold turkey when she threatened to kill her self once too often. She bleed him in every single area of his life.
Blame shifting, projection, manipulation, along with minimizing, rationalizing, and justifying their controlling and abusive behaviors...sums it up!!
Don't leave out changing the subject when confronted with bitter truths!
I lived that for 10+ yrs. I still have PTSD after 30 yrs of divorce 😡
Thats me too !
This is what I'm worried about for my son. He has been with her 15 years and he is getting anxiety.
@@BrittJoshua24-15 it is a nightmare, i didnt realize how bad it was. FYI, I am very fit, work out daily to help with anxiety. I developed coronary artery disease and type 2 diabetes. I almost died with 97% blockage. I am happily married to a woman that is totally opposite, and I still have nightmares and trigger points that cause anxiety. I hope you son can get out of his misery.
@@dannyyarbrough3409 stay away from sugar to cure ur type 2..its in most processed food too and beer
Me too but he was my husband 😥😥😥😥. Now my 54 year old son has been with a narcissist for 25 years. I haven't seen him for five years. He lives two hours away 😥. She has removed me, his dad , his friends. But I text or talk to him once a week to tell him I love you. She won't win. I pray to God to help him.
I've lived it. This is spot on. she even told me she never wanted children. No heart. no empathy. They can't take accountability for anything. If you want to be intimate with her you had better have your money ready. Being intimate with a narcissistic wife is like sleeping with a log. I even went to therapy wondering what was wrong until my doctor mentioned the term " Narcissism ".
I’m so so sorry; you deserve SO much better!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
The root of any sex activity is based on if they want something. Notice I say sex and not intimacy, which they incapable.
Couldn't agree more. They don't want you to think they are enjoying anything that involves you.
Me too, only now i know that s a mental. I sympathy with you. I have been always blamed myself very bad but dont know that did i do wrong
Hi George, I’m not peeing in your Wheeties I promise.
But “never wanting children” is the most important gift they can ever give to society. I didn’t see her narc mask until we got home from the hospital with my daughter…10 years ago.
Narcissists cause so much damage and pain.
You forgot to add that narcissistic women dismiss your feelings and turn to victimhood you don't understand and that your feelings are invalid and of course the gaslighting
I still don’t understand why they resent us when we did/do so much for them. They are pathetic.
Because they don't see us. They see the abuser that made them this way and they are attempting to "flip the script" and do to us what has been done to them but from the perspective of an otherwise spoiled child. You can't help them, no matter how much you try. They are stuck in twilight reality, unable to accept that it's of their own making, blocking out any evidence, even attempting to erase it when it surfaces. Idk if there is a "right one" for her, but it's surely not us if we're the target.
Too true bro
Well said
They are evil.
These sick disturbed people know exactly what they do and who to do it to. I used to make excuses for my wife and say things like “she doesn’t mean it” or “she is just unwell mentally”, but I was wrong. She doesn’t act this way at work or treat me like garbage when she is in front of other people so I KNOW it’s an active choice she makes to be a narcissist. She does know better, in fact when she wants something from me she is a completely different person but once she gets it she is back to being her true self. So I have absolutely no sympathy for narcissistic people because they actually want and desire to treat people like trash and they literally enjoy it.
Straight facts
My mother in law was like this and tortured me for years telling me I was a poor provider, Her husband lay in a bed mentally and emotionally destroyed, I did not know it at the time but My wife was a ''Mommas girl'' with this woman and forced us to live with her ''to help take care of her '' no matter how much I made $ it was never enough, I literally lived at work,Had a child with my wife and was put down in front of my child and made the scape goat by her relatives ie Sister and sisters boyfriend that would buddy up to me to get information that he would take back to the sister and he would put a slant on it mixing basic truth with his lies and made sure the Mother in law got the information.. While I was at work they would get together and have a hate session with me as the hated, Often my wife would sit in on the sessions but knowone would tell me what these horrible things I had done were, My wife would eventually begin treating me as they did and said she wished I would just leave ... UNTIL Roasting me was not enough so they started roasting my wife .. When that happened wife told me wrather reluctantly she was with me now ! and we would be moving out .. I was so happy I was afraid to say too much as she could change her mind...
It took me 20 years to see this. Having been raised by a narcissist made me convinced that I am the problem 💯 %
33 years mate the last 10 years without her the best years of my life
Ditto
I wasn't raised by one. I think that's why I didn't see it for 20y.
@@mjc4942I think one or both your parents were narcissist! That the only reason you attract them in the first place!!
Something about 20 years... About the same here and lots of others. The covert ones are very hard to figure out while inside and just trying harder to be the good guy/husband.
Anyone suffering through any form of domestic abuse has my sympathy. Sadly, that kind of hell only ends with divorce, or death. I chose to divorce instead of either committing suicide, or suffering a long agonizing death if I remained. I may not know where I am going, but at least I am not there, anymore.
The day we walked down the aisle was JUST like a light switch turning off.....she immediately cancelled our honeymoon so that we could go Christmas shopping for her children from a previous marriage instead. She liked sex, but there was never intimacy, you were kept at arm's length emotionally. She was indeed the queen, I was a mere vassal. The TV remote, the check book, the home thermostat were hers only. When I told her I was taking a fifty dollar allowance (only) from each monthly paycheck so that I could pay for our dinners out, she brought us before a marriage counselor. If you were ever sick with a fever, you stayed in the bed by yourself until you got yourself well. EVERYTHING was a control issue for her, but never was she consistent.....she always argued the opposite side of my desires to either shame me or control me. When we separated, I sent her a "Thank You!! for divorcing me!!" card from Hallmark !!
Know the feeling - my way or the highway. Intimacy one sided - there are set times for bed - set times for cutting off calls in the evening and get in the mornings but they can lay in the bed and talk and talk any hour - your phone light is an issue but they do the same. Be home before I get there - I need my sex - you sometimes feel like you were paid for especially if she is in a better position - camera in almost every room - male friends call and flirt - your female friends want to have sex with you or you want them - you had sex with her - obsessed with checking your phone - don't watch her - I am going to leave you and get a better man. And the beat goes on and on .. if you get a phone call from anyone including a mother they are annoyed unless they have her to help tear you down - jealous even of male friends - all that you use to like doing even if you make her a part of it you can never please her. Don't dear want a better education or car. Treating anyone nicely often brings about the term "what about me"..
Majority of them cheat constantly- bitter cold individuals that trust nobody. If guys see these traits it's time to exit - change the number because it will never stop ringing for days if you live apart. And if you live together she will maybe try to destroy you with scandal or lies that may send you to jail. Provoke you to retaliate - it the if I can't have you nobody will or must - If you can't get out immediately start keeping records - if you told her you want out and looking for a place - make it clear you don't want any sex. It can be used against you to bring rape charges you better tell her you are not doing anything with evidence - note this is the period she will claim to be pregnant.. await her period and exit. Many men hearts are soft so better exit and tell her you are hearing voices and seeing a doctor and can't continue the relationship with this frame of mind - play mad it might save your life.
It’s called a Jezabel spirit
You are 100% Correct 👍
I have the same problem with my wife for 39 years , 😢
Bad, but true..
Finally talking truth about these devil woman.
I fell victim to one and she cost me everything I ever cared for. She still shows up in my life anytime she thinks she can sabotage me. This is such an terrible woman . She has gone unchecked for decades. They take hostages and think 2 steps ahead of how to control or crash a good man. They refuse to be responsible and blame all breakdowns on the man just as you spoke of.
Men want a woman to be there friend ,lover and confidant. These woman prey upon these great qualities in men.
Good video.
Think on this. They consciously seek out men for their husbands who will be subservient to them and do their bidding and not give them trouble. In other words, truly nice guys like yourself. And they do this with sex and these kind of women are beautiful and consciously have honed their craft before they got to and chose you. Oh yes they had this all thought out ahead of time. I guess I was never good enough for one of these vivacious beautiful women and in retrospect thank God.
This has been and is my life precisely. Leaves you mentally broken. All I've done is question my own actions and inadequacy and not realised until recently seeing videos like this that I shouldn't blame myself.
Gentlemen,
I am in prayer for all of you going through these horrendous circumstances.
My daughter is a malicious narcissist.
I called her out on it and now my daughter has told me I am no longer allowed to see or speak to my grandson whom I have been his main caretaker for 7 years. She demeans and devalues my grandson...refers to my grandson as her prisoner. She keeps my 7 yr old grandson in a state of mourning.
I had my grandson everyday and weekends. She never wanted to raise him , only use me to get him to an age she could terrorize him into submission. Evil.
My daughter crushed my grandson's father in court so he is not in my grandson's life.
She claims to be the victim. No justice served there.
I truly feel deeply sorry for you men.
I remain in prayer for you and your children 🙏
OMG!! Tears well down my cheeks! I am also in orayer for all those men living this hell! Prayers for your little grandson! God will intervene! 😢
I would get legal help to rescue him if in emotional or physical danger. God help you
@@marisamartin3664 Oh my dear, we have sought legal counsel and were told as long as my daughter was maintaining her job and appearing to care for my grandson on a daily basis that my daughter would retain custody.
Even though my daughter is a highly functioning alcoholic and substance abuser, as long as she gets away with it she can do what she wants.
She tries to instill fear in my grandson.
Not easy for the grandparents.
Sounds much easier than it accually is as we have found out.
Short of a prison sentence the laws are in favor of the custodial parent.
We remain in prayer.
@@deyanirazandbergen5023 Grateful dear one for your prayers.🙏🕊❤️
My wife has all the 10 traits mentioned here. I have tried my best to retain my marriage vows because of my children. However, these days, she even treats my children badly. I give her loads of money but it has never been enough. I pay for everything and work hard. Yet she does nothing but when she does, she would claim that she does everything. I am now considering walking away. She is driving me nuts.
Get out,after 17 years I did.
My son is in the same boat. They have 3 sons. She has cheated on him. She is cruel. She is the boss. My son makes good money and she demands so much of him. She withdraws alot of money and hides it. She has been a stay at home mom but my son does the cleaning, cooking and shopping. He even makes the boys lunches. She continually yells and calls him names and the kids too. My grandchildren have issues. I have prayed for their marriage for years but I see nothing is changing its only getting worse. He wants to leave but he knows if he does the kids would not be taken care of at all. He did recently see a lawyer and the lawyer said she would get the children because she has been a stay at home wife. She controls everything he does. She tracks his every move. She calls him all day at work accusing him of cheating. He is so tired of it. Now I just pray this will end somehow.
My story exactly
I was finally discarded
Got a good settlement
Your mental and physical health are at risk
Get out now
Trust in God. He is on your side
Dude, you gotta formula a plan to cut her loose and get custody of your children. Yeah, I know, awfully bold of me to suggest this to a complete stranger. It's just I absolutely loved my brother so much, and our entire family has suffered terribly due to the witch my brother married. He was as good as they come, she drove him to an early grave. Get out while you are still young, don't waste yourself. Be blessed.❤️
Nothing you ever do will be enough... Ever. You will be blamed for everything by everyone. Plan your escape meticulously and lawyer up.
My former best friend is a narcissistic wife. She controls everyone in the house. Everything has to be her way or no way. Her children are stressed out because they have to be perfect. She complains if they inconvenience her. She thinks her children are better than other children yet they are never good enough for her smh. She has an amazing husband but she treats him horribly. She doesn’t like his children from a previous marriage but he embraces her children from her other marriages. She’s been married 5 times. I cut off our friendship last year because I found out she was talking about me behind my back. She told people my kids aren’t talented as hers and I’m lazy because I was a stay at home mom for a couple years. I just felt like friends don’t treat friends that way. So I went no contact with her. Of course that didn’t go over well so she went to FB with it. I’m trying my best to ignore it.
Your friend is a simp. That’s the heart of his problem. Any man who even considers marrying a woman with multiple divorces is a fool asking for hell. I’m sorry to say it but the truth hurts.
Help him get out and to never look back. Be the true friend he desperately needs. Good luck.
This sounds exactly how my narcissistic wife treats me. 😢
My NPD Ex had a heritage of narcissists in her family...maternal grandmother divorced her husband, mother & D.C. lobbyist-attorney father, uncle committed suicide & I stupidly thought that these were environmental issue that would resolve themselves. In 1978 I knew nothing of NPD aloof from Greek Mythology. Best thing was when she divorced me & I took that excuse to move far away from that toxic chaos!
Typically the friends of narcissistic woman like yourself are used to tear down their partners also. I dealt with a narcissistic woman and all her friends tore me down further mainly on social media.
Got to get out of their the first sign of a red flag. Trust me, my bestfriend for 20 years is a narc. I figured since she wasn’t coming at me that I was safe, that I was exempt. And she didnt. She never came at me. But at a certain point her behavior towards other people became intolerable. When you see wrong- you have to bring them to justice. Otherwise you are justifying their horrendous treatment of people. If you dont tell them they are wrong and stand up for something, you’re advocating for their f’d up behavior. You never know when that karma hits back.
I was married to one and now divorced. I didn’t know until I was divorced what I was dealing with.
Same here.
Amen! When I divorced my wife in 2010, I knew she was self-absorbed and impossible to please. Now, I realize she is damaged because of her own narcissistic mother. I also know now that she picked me as a simp empath, who said I was 95% responsible for all problems in our marriage. No sex for last 12 years of our marriage. Our four kids have nothing to do with me. My oldest son is getting married May 13, but he has not spoken to me for ten years. Lord have mercy on us all!
@markthomas6436 We need to grab a beer some time. Any chance you are in the Northeast? Read your comment. Sounds identical to my experience. I didn't even realize the manipulation I was succumbing to and accepting until I snapped out of it finally. Yup, empath simp. Me too. The daughter mimics the mother. Yup. They're deeply wounded by their mothers, but rather than heal themselves and recognize the root problem, they just follow the same script. Feel bad for our wives, but worse for us. I hear you. 👍🏻
@@Bradley-Young Sorry, I live in Illinois. Kindred Souls? My 35 year-old son was to be married May 13, but ceremony was cancelled. I have no further info. Wouldn't surprise me if my ex put the kibosh on it, but no proof. I feel for you brother!
@@Bradley-Young I hope you’re having a wonderful day.
I sure don’t but it would have been awesome to chat with you and I hope life is grand for you ..
The last 5 years i have watched numerous videos about Narcissists...maybe this is among top 3 !❤❤
This is spot on and regarding birthdays - they do remember them but the gifts they get you are a joke. They are thoughtless at best. A friend of mine also had a narc wife and we laugh at the types of crap gifts we were given over the years how sh$6 they were lol. The interesting part about getting out of this type of relationship is it’s like Boot Camp. In a new relationship you can work half as hard and be twice as appreciated with someone else.
You just read my 31 years of marriage and I’m about to let it go
Totally feel you
It’s a traumatic experience! Relive your life mate ❤
@DJWOLF LIVE same situation here, but 41 years. You are smarter than me by 10 years. I’m leaving now also. Why oh why did it take me so long? Loyalty? Stand up guy? Loved her? It’s hard to sort out.
8 Years of B.s . she threatened to leave one day with our daughter and I was like you could have left 9 years ago in my mind. It's been an year and I have soo much peace ✌️ Full of live and joy. 😂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@@SammifromMiamido not worry about the number of years it’s not your fault they know what they do
Also the narcissist wife will teach the son how it's totally OK to exploit his own dad and give him silent treatment
Dealing with this right now. 8 yr old son she isolates and takes him to his room, to watch tv i disapprove of. Past 3-6 months its gotten so bad.
Just live your own life your son will live his
Yep
My 21 year old son is doing this now. I'm excluded from family talks with him.
Dont feel bad guys, there are great women right out here wanting to love someone for real. If you are in this situation just heal yourself, take care and love yourself because there are good women here ❤ there is hope for true love 🙂
I normally don’t watch stuff like this but this is so true it’s scary gotta get out this situation asap
My wife says ,"happy wife, happy life" often to me. She never reciprocates.
EEEEEFFFFFFF that dumb cliche
It should be " happy spouse happy house "
Every Father should teach his son the following:
-Dont court the girl, court the family. Her family background and past is your future
-Watch out for red flags. Too much adoration is love bombing.
-What assets does she bring to the marriage table? What negatives does she bring?
-Is she financially stable or is she after your money?
-Do her parents have a pension? You may be seen as their future source of support
Is she overly attractive and knows it?
-Is she a divorcee? Careful. You may be marrying some other guy’s problem.
-Could you see being married to her Mother?
-Does she have many old lifelong friends?
If in doubt, get out and save yourself the grief so many of us have gone through
If you think single life is lonely, a bad marriage is much worse
…And if married to a narc, know that it is hopeless.
Get out now. Time not money is your most precious currency
I'm living this hell right now. My wife uses money and our sons against me daily. I realize there is no way to "win" and the more I fight, the more she tries to destroy our family.
I also feel trapped because she makes twice my wage. If I tried divorce, she will get everything and I'll probably never see my sons.
I should add that was it my 6 years of military service that allowed us to buy our home and not have crazy med bills.
I got your thoughts bro. I am now same as yours situation. Only know i know how is a narcissist wife is.
It's time to take advantage of the military benefits you earned by serving and level up. I make 3 times what I my narcissistic wife makes, and I hide it from her. I pretend everything is ok, while she does all this stuff. I am just arming myself up and making sure I am good. I swear she may have some multiple personality disorder stuff going on as well. She is a constant roller coaster of a 💩storm.
@someguy9132 Yes working on that. I'm concerned if I hide it, it will end up being used against me later. Been married 8 years now, someone said 10 years is alimony territory.
@@TheArmadon not sure how she could use it against you in a legal sense. But if she were to berate you I guess I could see her doing something along those lines. But keep your head up brother, and know your worth. Level up and get a great lawyer, but in the meantime, build a case. Get pictures, videos, take lots of detailed notes. Trust me I live with one and I have a body camera. I have screenshots of berating messages, videos of her admitting to and laughing about things she's done to me. I have a pretty detailed log of all her junk, and I have already been seeking legal counsel. I feel like a have a pretty strong case to get my way when things finally go South. I would suggest doing the same, and be as detailed as possible.
I'm right there with you brother. My wife in just 2 years of being married has destroyed my credit run me into bankruptcy and alienated me from all my friends and family, all while she is wearing Prada and Louis Viton. The kids are the only reason we are still together.
Don't ever expect anything else, you'll only be disappointed.
I ticked every item in that list except number 3 (threatening to leave their husbands). In my case, she threatened a few times early on in our marriage. Later, she made good on her threat and saw other men all while she was living with me and our kids.
Been there....No support. No affection or intimacy. No help with the kids or daily/weekly chores. Every responsibility got dumped on me. She finally left us. She tried coming back two months later. When I said No, she tried destroying all of us. Relieved she is gone.
After 9 years of hellish life, I am glad I learned this terrible pattern. She has been exactly what is in this video. I have paid emotional, financial and social price. I started divorcing her a year ago and stopped the proceedings because of kids and hopping she would learn from her mistakes. But now I regret that decision. For a month she appeared changed and then back to square 1. The good part of this whole thing is I learned what the problem is. She is narcissistic and I wish I knew this years back. Knowing the problem is first step for solution.
This sounds just like my ex best friend! Married 4 times, 2 baby daddies, multiple affairs, sleeps with SO MANY men, has never been faithful to any of her husbands, hoards money, puts so much emphasis on money, everything is about MONEY, she thinks her kids are the best, and the brightest, and everyone else’s kids suck, she thinks her way is the only way, and if you don’t do exactly what she thinks you should do, she cuts you off. I never tried to contact her again after her last discard. We’ve gone back and forth with our relationship, for over 25 years, with me always being the one to apologize, for unknown reasons. Her last discard was when I really needed close friends, I was going through a really rough divorce from a malignant narcissist, and of course that’s when she decided I needed to be punished. I’ve always attracted these types of people. It’s been close to 5 years, and if she knew me now, she’s be shocked at how much I just don’t give AF anymore. I almost wish for the opportunity to be able to tell her about herself, but Ive come to far spiritually, and wouldn’t want to ever subject myself to evil like that again.
She’s the perfect example of God giving someone over to a reprobate mind 👌💯💯
Love respects "No", Control does not.
Our mother did this to our father. He didn't deserve her, and she certainly didn't deserve him. She wished she'd never married him but was too proud to leave because she was pregnant with me, and she already had an illegitimate child, so going home to her parents was out of the question. So, instead, she lived an endless vendetta against him and us children and anybody who tried to intervene. She even tried to kill herself in front of us because of her rage and hatred.
I was in my 30s when I told him, "I can't tell if you're the world's biggest wimp or the world's greatest saint; because, if I were you, I'd write her a check for a million dollars to go away, or I put her in a hole somewhere and forget about her." It was then that he started opening up to me about the torture of living with her, though he still enabled her, still joined in when she was backbiting and abusing us kids, someone at church, someone who trusted her. etc.
Mom was the most horrible, most difficult person I've ever known, and that's saying a lot!
I’d put my ex wife up against your mom anyway. I’d go toe to toe with anyone, lol. She was a demon from hell. My poor kids probably thought just as you do. I stayed to protect them.
He has a heart of diamond and is putting her first and fears she will kill herself but trust that she won't .. they love themselves too much. But if he decides to go he has to have her stay very far and play a stunt where you be a flying monkey and say Dad is seeing a mental doctor and he is hearing voices... Use their game against them when they are this psychotic
@@This_Planet Sadly, they're both gone: Dad was murdered, and Mom died due to COVID given to her by her flying monkey middle son or one of his kids -- he took them to see her immediately after their symptoms dissipated, rather than respect protocols.
The four of us scapegoats can't help but think he gave her COVID on purpose, knowing it would likely kill her. He shared a very large bank account with her. She instructed him to distribute the money, but so far as we can see he's kept it all to himself.
Based on all that was said over the years, I'm sure Dad stayed to protect us kids, and to keep from being broke for decades due to child support and alimony payments.
I almost married a girl that I met in my Freshman year of Law School. She actually was a nice girl up to a point. BUT her mother was a deadly Sociopath who actively ruined peoples lives and she even told me about what she did. Thank God my girlfriend dumped me because the rule of thumb is that they will be like their gender parent as time goes on and her mother was literally the Devil. Her father was the nicest guy you ever met. Shame. I really liked him.
Living in this hell right now actually.
Get out, document everything, focus on the children. The kids will be used as a weapon against you, prepare both you and them for that eventuality. Nothing will change, it will get worse, what will go wrong, will go wrong.
Put in place measures to protect your children and dip. If you can get full or75 % custody do so.
Thank you for confirming so much. I always wondered why she didn't want children. I always wondered why the only emotion she expressed was anger and disappointment toward me
You got this right! It's long overdue to focus on this topic. I could write a book! The narcissistic wife cannot be satisfied by their husband when they make love. And their little disagreements about other aspects of their lives remind her of her sexual dissatisfaction with him. Chances are, she's secretly attracted to other women and just pretending to be heterosexual. She could also be bi-sexual. The root cause is likely sexually maladaptive inner turmoil that can't be fixed or treated.
Wow I never though of that!
I can't satisfy my wife and women seem to find her very attractive and any gay women always go to her... interesting..we are about to split because I can't take the drama and fighting anymore. Her adult son and girlfriend and to kids moved back in for the 4th time and every minute is dedicated to them. I though I was just being selfish until I started learning all this..the guilt is such a strong tool. And she uses it alot!
@@jimbrunner7386 Sorry to hear what you’ve been through/are still going through but really glad you are learning about this female narcissism thing. Since they can’t be helped and for our own peace and safety, we men need to seriously consider walking away-no explanations-just go and never speak to them again. It’s often a very difficult step to take, and it must be given very serious consideration . Stay safe at all times.
my ex gf told me she was Bi...i eventually realised she meant Bi Polar
@@WillyEckaslikeEither one or both can make life extra difficult in a heterosexual marriage. Hope you are on the mend.
@@dolittle6781 i was joking..my ex was a malignant narc..evil to the core...take each day as it comes
My ex tried to destroy me and cover up her adultery while both of my parents were dying. The hardest part is seeing her influence manifest in our daughter.
She would say "Happy Wife, Happy Life" Oh so everything is dependent on serving you and your needs. They will also blame you for all their problems at work, with their family and with their friends.
Leave the 304s alone, brother. It’s the best advice we could ever give each other. Every cluster b woman is one.
@@user-kcrpine Indeed, they will wreck your life. The key is to spot them early on and then exit as soon as possible. Always pay attention to how they react when you say no, offer a different view or opinion? If it is met with anger, blackmail, guilt tripping, silent treatment, get out.
Oh dude I'm going through the same thing. But here's the deal. I came to a point where I can't divorce her. I have no clue what could be done at this point :(
Can a wife really be happy when that happiness comes from making everyone else in the household miserable?
Any woman that thinks a successful marriage means, “happy wife, happy life,” is self-centered, and not about the partnership. That is a huge relationship 🚩.
An admirable analysis, of this type of woman.
More commonplace; than spoken about.
I would say, I experienced 8; out of those behavioural patterns.
I shared your video.
Thanks for the advice. ✅
Highly visible signs of my now covert narcissist ex wife became amplified once the decided to start the divorce process. Best way to describe her behavior is war like. We had one 5 year old child. My ex began aggressive parental alienation that has lasted 13 years. If you think your narc wife will get better after a divorce, you may be terribly mistaken. Best to find a divorce attorney familiar with high tension relationships and prolonged custody issue. It's a cruel process for men - the courts are changing slowly but still favor the mothers.
I thought things were bad when I was married to the malignant narcissist wife. She wanted a divorce after 10 years. After I found out her affair, I realized it was time to file for divorce. She tried in a half-hearted way to come back. I said No and got the divorce done in 5 months. I got the kids and the new house that we were in for only 2 months before she left. Her hatred towards the kids and me increased 10X. Our kids become her pawns and she use to bring them home hungry and crying after her visitation. She bribed our oldest daughter at 17 with a car to move in with her. Then the Parent Alienation went into full drive. The Parent Alienation has been going on for 18 years now. The oldest daughter is just like her mother, hateful and vindictive. I would not wish this on my worst enemy. The only consolation is its quiet and peaceful in my life.
The parental alienation just gets worse.
Spot on. Mine was in charge of the house and my thoughts and opinions didn’t matter.
I was married to a narcissist for 8 years and she broke me.. We've been divorced for 4 years and I can't get past it..She turned my kids against me and every friend that we had..She has told lies to everyone she can..To this day, she still makes Facebook posts about me.. I've been living a life of seclusion for 3 years now and I just don't see how I can get my life back.
Wow this is an accurate description of my " legal union"...a total Twighlight Zone....
OMG, you have described my wife perfectly!
ALL true! That’s why I’m out of this relationship
This is my mother. To a tee! My ex-husband is also a narcissist. It’s very complicated at first trying to understand the motive that these parasites operate under. Great video, I took notes!
Please do one on how DIL treat their husband's family, especially using children and becoming estranged from the grandparents.
What is DIL?
@@soal3415 Daughter in Law
I would love to hear one about DIL
Wow Peggy, that is spot on. I could write 20 paragraphs on this exact situation. But I’ll just say my super sweet loving son is married to a woman who has driven her own parents out of their lives and just last month has done the same to us. Sadly I saw that my son has become a constant nervous wreck and has appeared to have lost almost all his personality and only parrots what she tells him to say. At this point it would seem that their 4 year old and 9 month old will never be allowed to have a relationship with any grandparents. 95% of the videos and articles are on narcissistic husbands but I think this is a huge problem also.
I saw many of these traits in my mother in she treated my stepdad, and my stepmom and how she treated my dad. This made for an unstable and unhappy childhood.
OMG so trueI was married to one for 17 years
And all your descriptions of her are 100% true
It is not fair for a person to marry someone when they have this disorder
My bad luck was that it was an arranged marriage and the flaws I noticed in her were asked to be ignored thinking that it will be fine after marriage
Im free now, for 9yrs I lived that life. Im at peace now.
Crazy how accurate every point is in my life
I lived it for 8 years, we are in the middle of splitting up because she lied to me about a guy and instead of taking the blame and apologizing she turns it around and says she lied because of me, because I wouldn’t like to hear the truth, she wont even take accountability. The problem is that when she threatens to leave me i beg her and when its the other way around she could care less if i leave or stay.
Same story with my wife. The fact that I think that maybe she will realize the value of our marriage and family after her affair makes me think how low self esteem I am.
The best revenge you can have is leave without saying a word... Pack up you stuff secretly and exit swift because they normally act like they don't care but when they realize you are serious they start begging crying and some threaten suicide which is a scare tactic. The thing is victims tend to live on hope, logics, faith in God even but there is no helping them or getting them to love you. Many of them cheat because they vacillate and many times are over the victim. It's like self preservation to them so they cheat to say oh at least I f this person.. some will even tell you upon seeing your exit just leave and know it's not worth it whether they cheat or not. Sometimes men even forgive narcissistic women because they fell for them so much and think if they see how they have hurt them and that they are caught they will stop but no they won't. They are empty rusty painted over shells filled with maggots eating whatever flesh left off the skeletons they have locked away.
Why is this so universal? And to answer the final question, no they don't change.
You forgot isolating you from your friends and family so they can control you.
Saw that happen to my youngest son. After she had their second child things really went to hell. She always said she wanted to be a stay at home mom. Nothing was ever right he’d try and get a good paying job. But it was never right . Either to far away or the wrong hours. He would come home from working all night, go to school 9:48 and still have do his own cooking. Not to mention having to handle the kids while she slept. Could not see his friends to play volleyball . Would not go anywhere with his friends or accept invitations to get together . Demonized his family so we rarely got to see them. And when we did it was always so tense. She controlled all the money. Even down to his phone and bank account which was in her name. He tried to fight back but then she would get the kids in the middle of their fights putting their father down calling him a liar and other disparaging names. It was her plan to literally drive him mad and when she got close and he would leave she would say he had abandoned the family. Today he’s a shell of the son that I once knew. When he could no longer work because of anxiety and stress induced psychosis she told him to either get a job or live on the street. It was two years before I even knew where he was. Now we are trying to pickup the pieces.
Went through this for 14 years!
That is too long oh my God hope you are out.
Wow you just described my whole marriage
This video is so on point it’s talking points everything it fucking sounds like a personal bio of my wife in my relationship help me please!!! And she’ll be the first one to tell you. She is not a narcissist. But every time I run into that word and definition, all the attributes and descriptions that allow that game to be used against you she has every single one. Every subject matter she has times five.
You described my EX-Wife perfectly!
Lucky dude...
Some of these things made me think I fit the bill of a narcissistic wife. Then I realized I was the one who worked for years,
and did not ask for records of how money was spent. No children thankfully. Hmm, and he is now blaming me for his problems. So I actually think he is the one with narc tendencies. Add substance use that started imploding our marriage.
I was never jealous or insecure until he told me he had fallen in love with another woman - and blamed me. Oh and he blames me for his physical pain. On and on.
U are so right .
Am going through it now , and it hurts more than a salted cut ...
Spot on ! My wife left after 33 years as I found out she was moving money.
Yeah absolutely right. I went through it
I was ready for annulment before the end of the first year…butt…her primary answer always was, “I DON’T CARE !!! “ 😱😱😱
I'm living it now but I feel like it's a hit or miss with Narcissist. Not all are the same but very similar in alot traits and behaviors.
After reading all of these comments, I feel as if I've got off lightly, only wasted 10 yrs of my life , she treated me like dirt for nearly 10 yrs,
Thankyou
I knew that it was something wrong with our relationship, but I always thought that I was the problem, she can have a good time making friends and I don’t even want to think about it . I don’t have identity any more and for some reason I can’t leave. She’s a stay home mom and I make all the money witch is never enough. Health wise, not doing good and I think it’s related to a toxic environment. I tell her that I don’t feel good and don’t even care. I’ve been married before for 30 years and never was in a relationship like this. I way in my stage of my life that I don’t care any more. We’re not intimate any more because I always been criticized. And this is what I think about toxic behavior in a woman, too much semen from another men interfering with their genes and brain cells that the current man, is not enough.
It's hard to believe but eventually you see the light
It's not all about money, but if it's there, they will abuse it. I still carry the scars of such a relationship 35 years after divorce but I can forgive her for that, but for our sons scars, I will never forgive.
I know of a man who found himself in an argument about assets with his ex...
She put her arms around him and kissed him intimately...
She pulled away and then said with a sneer..
'Your DNA is in my mouth and can have you for sexual assault'
He called The Police straightaway...
Anything happen law wise?
Of course not!
Why did I see this video so late!
This is dead on... ❤❤
My wife punch me in the face spit In my face Call the cops lied to the cops telling them I hit her I went to jail The reason she punched me in the face it’s because I pointed a finger and laughed at her during an argument
I had the same experience.
I went to jail. Cost me in business and socially. Being charged. I beat the case . The damage had been done.
Pure evil.
Damn Right sadly me too. But never again .
She even blamed me for Sept 11.
Psycho
Until this video I never realized my wife is a Narcissist. Since giving birth she has displayed nearly all these traits. I am her cleanup man she buries herself in debt & comes crying to me to fix the problem, sexless with me yet she cheated with coworkers, never says anything nice about me, constantly says I need to win her over, freaks out if I leave home for any reason other than doing errands for her, just the opposite of what she was like when we were dating.
What you said about narc wife…it is quite similar to how a narc husband is. Even the narc husband wants the money the wife earns…never asking if she wants any of it nor do they think they deserve any of it (which sounds ridiculous if she is the one who earned it but …)
They are not different. They are the same.
One difference though is the narc husband is usually stronger…physically…and louder. They often have the financial control and many a housewife’s end up trapped with children and no money or means to support themselves if they leave.
The never keep their wedding vows because they never loved you in the first place.
True story... I married a narc woman and moved out ten days later never to return.
Jada Pinket
Yes that’s her
will is gay and a hollywood rent boy essentially i dont think its jada mate
1,001 questions about anything and everything and needs answers to every one of them. It's all about control...
Took me a long time to come to this conclusion, guess I was in denial. I just got to figure out how to get my life back.
I am not a narcissist but I was married to a malignant sadistic narcissistic man. Yes, I was disappointed in his behavior almost daily- because he was very abusive and controlling.
Yea. No shit. My husband has done everything a spouse shouldn’t do. And guess what I reacted. Imagine that. You should have heard the crazy shit he said to me just today. It’s disgusting. I can’t wait to get away from him.
blame him and make it about you cos you are triggered by one point on this list? sounds like you need to reflect on that xD
yea. I mean he has cheated on me and promised never to again. I stood by him and believed him. He turned his phone off, went to his cheating grounds last night and got caught and said he was there sitting and wanted me to find out. I mean he thinks im fucking dumb. He has taken 100k and pissed it away on drones, pellet guns, pellets, 3d printers and everything under the sun for that shit. I take 3500$ and buy a machine and started a business that has earned me enough for this husband of mine to cut his work schedule from 5 days to 3. I’m not triggered. I’m fed up. I live my life wanting to help people. If I can do anything to make someone’s day easier, I’m beyond happy to do that. I love my friends and family. I have 30+ year friendships because I nurture them. I love with every fiber of my being. Im proud of who I am. And many others have told me how proud they are of me too. Not him. Never once in 20 yrs. So I’m not blaming him for anything, Im just no longer allowing him to act badly, upset me, then get upset at me and blame it on me. There is a cause and effect. I was the wife that literally couldn’t wait for him to get home. I missed him all day. I loved him beyond comprehension. He didn’t care. He lives for only himself. His hobbies, his feelings, his needs, his wants. He doesn’t celebrate anyone but everyone better celebrate him or the wrath. He has left me and the kids for weeks and months at a time. With no money or anything. Our 2daughter was just home from the nicu. I was still recovering from post pregnancy dangerously high blood pressure he left me and went to fuck other people and I wasn’t working my daughter was a little over a month old and I was sick he left no money no formula I couldn’t breast feed because she wasn’t tolerating it. No diapers. Nothing. He has failed me so many times and ways and I alway believe him when he says he will change. I loved him. Ok fast forward with so many abusive times to me and the kids in the past 7 years to night before last, He went to his cheat spot. The night before Mother’s Day. Every holiday has some memory attached to it like this one he made today. Then he texts me how sorry he is. That he didn’t cheat on me. Like to see how stupid I could be. And then pleads with me he will do anything to make this marriage of almost 20 yrs work. He loves me. He’s so sorry for all the cruel things he has done to me over the years. I don’t accept it. And less than an hour later he’s right back to being abusive. Even sends me this video!!
@@aesoprockslig sounds like a child narcisscist sorry to hear this awful story sounda like he needs serious help
I’m a woman who’s had narcissistic female roommates for 11 years. One was covert, one was overt. I didn’t realize the covert one was subtly abusing me for years until a really overt one moved in and used her to triangulate me into serving the both of them. These women deeply wanted to be in relationships and were always seeking men. The covert one just got married. So now I have so much empathy for men who have dated or married these types of women. Even as a woman I was so confused by them. I can imagine a man thinking for a while that they just need to be more sensitive because that’s just how woman are. But NO, a narcissist is highly offended by every little thing. Constant eggshells. These women were Christian too so they could look angelic and so sweet. What a freaking nightmare. So any man that has done time with these type of women, think of yourself as a veteran because living with these demons is a whole war. Everyday is a battlefield. Just trying to find peace and not try to step on a land mine.
I grew up with a parent like this so I was programmed to think this is normal. So I’ve been through the trenches my entire life. Dealt with decades of this rollercoaster devaluing chaos. 😪The craziest thing is the overt one set me free. She’s the one who brought up the term narcissist in the first place and was convinced her ex bf was one. Before that I thought a narcissist was just a vain person. Someone who like to post pictures on social media and just talk about themselves. I had no idea there was a abuse aspect to it.
So I celebrate you all who have been forged by fire and I pray for you to be able to forgive yourselves, heal, and move on to healthy relationships. Not all women are like this. I’ve been ruminating on so many things I wish I said. I feel like this is so demonic and spiritual, that’s why they all instinctively do the same exact tactics. Forgive yourself. You’ve only been on this earth for so long, these tactics have been mastered for thousands of years. This is not their first rodeo. Dust yourself off and keep on going forwards not backwards. This medal is for you! 🎖️🏅🥇🏆⚔️✨🔥🪖💪
Being berated for every little thing, them showing ZERO interest in anything you like, no affection being shown, no emotional support, constant complaining and the list goes on....
I'm getting to where I don't take everyone who starts taking about their narcissistic wife/mother/father/husband/etc at face value.
Not 100% sure what this says about me or the people I deal with, anymore...
Also, I am constantly wondering I'm the
narcissistic/toxic/gaslighting person in relationships or if I'm surrounding myself with a certain type of person.
Lived through this
this is all my mom and dad's relationship
Mine too. I watched my mom destroy my dad over the last 40 something years.😢
I have been suffering so much. She destroyed my eldest and he does not even know. The thing is no one can understand how hopeless it feels and how much it saps your happiness and energy. Its a horrible situation to be in and worst is everyone things its your fault. There is no proper sex also
Realise that you did it to yourself too, that you had an equal part in every aspect of the relationship. Then the healing really starts
Jesus. So accurate, even if she didn't become my wife and thanks God for that! While before, not long ago, I would have cried watching this as I would recognise what I was living, now I feel incredibly lucky that I moved away from it, even though it drove me into a huge depression. I'm thankful I'm recovering, enjoying more and more a normal life.
70 percent correct
70% You must be referring to the percent of divorces which are initiated by the wife? 😂 (Sadly I’m not joking.)
Years ago had a long term narcissistic g/f......woke up one day and decided i was not going to be treated like this all my life, walked away and never looked back... Ignored all letters, cut her off dead..... A couple of months later i met my fantastic wife... Been together nearly 30 years, my lifes been fantastic with her........ If you're in that position get out asap, especially if your young 😉
Solid advice.. they will string you along for years.
@@This_Planet i was 22 and already 2-3 yrs in of on /off Bs and drama, walking away cold was the best life decision i ever made.......
My father had such a wife. I think he only stayed with her because of us-kids. My mother turned us against my father, she was never happy, she never respected him, and as children we thought that our father was actually evil... Fortunately, when I grew up, I understood what was actually happening in my home. I managed to appreciate my father and truly love him only when I left home and everyday contact with my toxic mother.She stole and destroyed my childhood.
I am dealing with all this shit at just an age of 24, I really need help😢😢