Hitting A Husband Where it Hurts
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- čas přidán 29. 08. 2024
- The plaintiff says the defendant is his wife, and even though they’ve separated, they still live together and split time in the bedroom. He’s suing her for her portion of the mortgage payments. The defendant says the plaintiff is being childish since she covers all the bills in the household. He doesn’t pay anything toward those, so she says she owes him nothing.
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People are commenting on the defendant's appearance. She's not the superficial standard of beauty, many of us are not either. But she has gorgeous skin, beautiful thick healthy hair, a nice figure, and seems to have a great personality. Yeah, she has a lazy eye and needs some dental work. Those things are easily fixed. So many people need way more done than that to look as beautiful as the defendant does.
Well said.
People act like every person living is the most beautiful person to the eye. She’s fine to someone. Doesn’t mean others should down her for looking like her family. People have basic minds and no uniqueness. I agree with you!
Well said! I'll never understand why appearance has anything to do with court cases. Justice for All, no matter their appearance. 😊
Agreed
Shes beautiful. Id do anything to be half as pretty as she is.
He don’t want her to leave because he need help paying the bills in the house. He wants a roommate not a wife
Big Facts!
Exactly
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@@HighDesign31 I agree. Even though he makes more he wants her to pay HIS mortgage? I think he was using her to help him pay his bills off so he could kick her out after she helped him pay for his house. Did everyone notice how he filed for divorce days before the court case?
He dont wanna divorce the fish he caught
He doesn't want her to move out. But he wants a divorce. Thats just crazy.
He wants her to help pay things duh
HE pays EVERYTHING! what are you talking about?@@Orlandoloc83
Sounds like help me finish paying this house off and then get the hell on
The sex must be good.
Right!@@jamesde74
My grandpa who was married for 71 years told me, "Trust is no longer the #1 tip in marriage. It's communication."
True dat. But if I were the woman, it's an easy solution. Pay some of his bills (if not all), continue paying for cable & live-streaming, do his laundry (you're doing yours anyway), cook 2-3 meals a week (home-cooked meals are cheaper anyway and you eat too), watch a netflix movie together with popcorn, and don't bring any men to the house. Be a good roommate and negotiate something in lieu of paying rent. Men don't want to be lonely and you don't want to move out.
@@mabuhayPinay😂😂😂 it was hard to tell that you were being sarcastic
He needs a roommate not a wife. 👩🏿⚖️
Plaintiff is beyond pettyyyyyyyyyy
There is no love or fondness between them. I think work is her refuge.
Judge Judy would dismiss this case in 3 minutes. Shes not going to entertain this foolishness, her lunch is in 5 minutes and shes hungry. Goodbye!
Judge Mathis will dismiss this case after 5 minutes of making jokes and stating that you cant sue your current marital spouse because a shared/joint property. Your claim is dismissed sir. Have a good day
Facts...lmbo
😂😂😂😂
It's not martial property smh listen to comprehend
Yes judge Judy don't play that
@nadjet1977 Sometimes, her "Quiet Generation" attitude shows but I've grown to respect that because some of these litigants be pussy footing around the topic and it can be draining
If he evicts her then he has to pay all the utilities which he isnt paying nor wants to pay.
Exactly
Exactly! I truly believe he wants her to help him pay his mortgage off and then he'll kick her out. He's using the utilities as an excuse because he makes more money than her. He knows her wages are being garnished for back taxes yet he wants her to keep shelling out to pay what's essentially HIS bills because nothing belongs to her and he knows it. He doesn't consider her a wife but a roommate.
@michellebaker2573 how u figure lol cable and Netflix is not a utility smh
@@bongoikno4994Right? 😂
HE has proof that HE pays ALL the bills.
This is a great example of a what a 1/2 and 1/2 man will be like … run ladies 🏃♀️
They want your labor, not your love.
Every time I have the “50/50” argument with someone I ask what happens if your spouse don’t have their half? Do you kick them out? Do you sue them? Weird
@@deangelabriggs6413exactly smh somebody will get evicted or sued.
yall like erything free coz of tang in da mmiddle , yall know we get tired of it right? pay da dam bill!
Egggzactly!
@@blackjapanshorts41 then go get the tang you have if you’re tired but pw$$y comes with privilege PERIOD
The sigh and look the defendant gave when the judge went on about her husbands behavior said everything we needed to hear about the case. The defendant sounds so fed up with his shit.
I sense past trauma, depression, and possibly addiction.
Exactly
@@wadilotus No addiction
She should leave him and all his bills right in that house alone.
Amen!!
He can’t afford to evict her. He needs the little money she’s contributing. He better get a second job!
THAT PART! Likeeeee be a man!!!
It's not as if she wasn't paying anything,🤔... she need to just go on get herself a one bedroom apartment..let him have his house
....she probably feel it is easier!!!!
Agreed
Exactly
Smh Netflix and cable are not real bills
She did finally leave the bum and created a better life for herself.
This takes marriage to a whole other level. How does this equal a tenant landlord when he just filed for divorce? This was weird. She should move out and let him fend for himself.
Spoken like a woman lol..yall actually think everything is free
You are so right
All she paying is Netflix I think he'll be alright
@tashanapink7688 💯.
@@bongoikno4994 no she’s also says she’s paying utilities. Obviously he won’t since he still needs her to pay half of the mortgage so much so that he brought her to court to get it.
Judge Judy would’ve thrown this out IMMEDIATELY LOL
This case confuses me. They’re still married. Why wasn’t this case dismissed w/o prejudice and sent to divorce court to figure out?
Cause they’re not divorced just separated.
@@timelizz7719not even that. and she said that he’s already filed for divorce, this matter should’ve waited until then…
Because this was about the mortgage, which is not marital property. The plaintiff owned the house before they got married. Therefore it’s not a divorce court issue. As the judge said, he can choose to evict her.
@@timelizz7719they are not separated living in the same house.
He owned the home prior to divorce so it's not marital property
The judge telling the Plaintiff he needs to evict the Defendant which is still legally his wife is the most insane thing I have ever heard of.
The house is in his name only and they're separated, so he has every right to put her out if he wants.
How is it insane when he already filed for divorce what's insane is you thinking she can stay after he already filed for divorce is the real issue swear y'all morons don't think at all
@@dlj2922 they ate not technically divorced... and please keep the name calling to a minimum 🙂 🙄 😒
@@delenareed9731 he filed that's all that matters once that happens it's time to move out and move on and for the record telling someone what to do is a form of control you don't control nothing over here so when I decide to call someone a moron I'll do just that not sure what tf you thinking go have some kids and run them and stop acting like a weirdo
@@dlj2922 you just as silly as you look...go play in traffic🤡🤡🤡
Defendant is pretty and her personality is so chill. You just know she gives him a hard time not entertaining his BS
Huh?
Wait... what
Did you say pretty?
Need stronger glasses prescription?
His BS??? The fact he had to drag that grown ass woman to court just to get her to pay her bills that she knew she was supposed to pay anyway was ridiculous, so no its more like her BS, if it was me I would have been put her out.
Any husband of mine takes me 2 court , i become a Miss.
Why wasn’t this case dismissed they are still legally married
Don’t you mean divorced?
@@91PHS10they said they’re still married
@@91PHS10he filed for divorce right before he filed for this case but they were still married
He can't afford the 2400 in monthly bills, and she probably pays for food in the house and other stuff. He needs a roommate to live comfortably, and that's why he doesn't want her to leave. There doesn't appear to be any love there, just comfort and security.
She’s a good lady working two jobs. He should be happy she’s not a gold digger
That's sad, he's a terrible husband.. I feel sorry for her
She is also a terrible wife. Feel sorry for both of them. Neither understand what a real marriage is.
You are naive. Water seeks its own level. She wouldn’t be with him if she didn’t share in his ideologies, behavior etc. keep living, you gone learn
He want someone to help pay his mortgage... sir pay your own mortgage
I don't get that either! Move out lady pay for a 1 bedroom apartment bump him!
I don’t think you people understand how rent works. She’s living there using the house. Why should she live for free? She either pays rent to him or she moves out and pays rent to an apartment complex. You can phrase it like she’s paying down his mortgage but that’s what everyone does when they rent. They pay money to someone who owns the property.
@oldageisdumb she paying all utilities!!! So when she moves out he can pay the mortgage,and the utilities.
@@mariemells3510
🎯.....
@@mariemells3510….she doesn’t want to move. Probably can’t make it on her own.
If my husband ever decides to bring me to court I’m moving out because that speaks volumes. If he really loved her he wouldn’t be doing this. As a husband if you love your wife, I believe your role is to be a provider (ensuring bills are paid, roof over your heads etc) and shouldn’t have a problem doing that unless something happens and you need your wife to chip in and help.
Well said
Yes! Well said! She works two jobs and he works one. She said he expects her to cook and clean, even on her days off! Now he has the nerve to sue her, HIS WIFE? Thank goodness they don’t have children, at least it looked that way! What a weak excuse for a so called man! He’s pathetic and nauseating! He won $933 on national TV to prove his emasculating beta male point.
I disagree with Judge Milian. A husband has an absolute obligation to provide for his family. YOU’RE MARRIED!!! Period. It even says this in the Bible!
They're separated, so I doubt love has anything to do with it.
They are separated just living together…but he’s still financially supporting her when the deal was that she contribute to the bills if she wants to stay and she agreed…but ended up not paying anything and has just been staying there bill free…he owes her nothing she’s looking for a free ride…
Well - we know she goes to work.
Why would they stay in a state of limbo? She’s totally disconnected from him. I hope they found happiness and moved on.
Sir I'm not paying your mortgage gtfo. Especially if she is paying the other bills.
Why not? Do you have an apartment or rental house? That’s exactly what rent is. It’s paying someone else to live on their property. Do you think she just gets to live for free?
@@oldageisdumb that's her husband. HE is supposed to protect and provide for his family. It seems that men only want a traditional woman when it suits them.
@@oldageisdumb I'd rather not have a husband and just pay my own rent.🤷🏽♀️
@@LeolaGlamour That’s your choice. I was just clarifying for the OP why it’s appropriate for her to pay rent if they have ended the relationship
@@ChocoBeauty8 Yeah, not really how it works. When you marry someone you become partners. That’s pretty shitty if you think you, as a woman, get to sit around while your husband does all the work. But that doesn’t apply to this case anyway. They had ended their relationship so she was a tenant, not a wife.
Girl I hope you are not paying for half the food 😂
You don't see a case like THIS everyday. Seems like he just wants a roommate. I probably wouldn't pay either...lol. I'm so confused
This is one of the biggest waste of time cases I ever seen. And judge entertained this shit show way too long. Judge Judy would’ve thrown this out less than 5 mins in.
Sure would have.
Yes.. and not paid a penny
Agreed. They are married... ive never seen any other judge rule on a married couples anything...
I totally agree!
@@TheQueenrevolutionit’s because the house was before the marriage and they agreed on the payment
If she works so much, she should be able to afford her own place.
Her checks were being garnished. That explains why she worked so much. One paycheck probably went to Uncle Sam
Have you looked at the cost of rent in most cities? My husband earns over $100,000 a year and we have $0 debt. Yet, we're concerned about moving to a larger place and paying higher rent than we currently pay.
I have been working 14 hours days for the past year just to make ends meet. Even with my 2 college degrees, it means nothing when it comes to financial obligations
About tired of her and her I jus work b.s. then get yo asss ya own spot!!!
Well, I gotta say, my wife's been takin' a break from the workin' world for a spell now. Sometimes I jest around, tellin' her she oughta git her rear in gear and find herself a job. But truth is, we made a choice. We didn't want strangers raisin' our young'uns. So, she's been holdin' down the fort, right here at home, tendin' to our little ones day in and day out. It's a tough job, but she does it with a heart as big as Texas. And that's worth more than any paycheck, I tell ya.
remote work is always an option. I work from home and am able to take care of kiddos and home.
@@almathomas8325 the lies
@@almathomas8325yeah but it’s nice to be able to put all your time and energy to the kids. If they can afford it.
Unless they filed this case originally through the courts I’m thinking they just want the show to pay for their house bills💁🏻♀️
How did these two even get together and even marry. Lord have mercy 🙀😳
Someone send her SheraSeven’s channel. That’s not your husband, that’s your roommate!
Can’t make a wife pay rent.
Oh but he did
Of course you can. Think of another asset. If your husband buys you a car and he’s the registered owner but tells you to pay the note, if you stop paying the note, can he repossess the vehicle? The man owns the house. It’s not her property at all.
Why df not? What she working two jobs for then?
Okay. You guys don't have to gush over what a wonderful & gorgeous person she is just because she looks a little special. You know dang well if she looked differently you'd all be saying she's annoying and he needs to kick her out & move on. Pretty ridiculous.
I wish my bills were only $2400/month!!
All that woman says is "I go to work." Ok we get it. Geez us.
She goes to work...
She doesn’t have time to do anything else lol. She has two jobs
I think she was saying that to say I really don’t give a f*** which I thought was hilarious cus sis was nonchalant
He has done something to cross her for her to have total lack of emotion
Unbelievable ! how they're not together but still live in the same home and sleeps in the same bed.🙄
......because she WANTS to LIVE OFF HIM!! It doesn't seem the having Sexual Relations!!
I know a couple thats like that today
I did that for a year w my ex. We got along better than being in a relationship 😂
They're not divorced yet 🤔
she is working two jobs and paying all the bills. Calm down, Karen.@@jeanicelewis510
Everybody saying he doesn’t want her to leave because he wants a room mate but what about her not wanting to leave because its convenient for her. She could pretty much use him and not pay because she knows he doesn’t really want her to leave.
They are both ridiculous and weird
The defendant acts like just because the "goes to work" that makes her some kind if saint. Whether you work from home or not you don't get applause for doing what you're supposed to do! Now, pay your rent!
I do not know what state law the judge is discussing here. Any state I have lived in once you are married any appreciation in the value of the home becomes split 50/50 as it is concidered both contributed to living there. The original main value would be go to the original owner. Even if it is his name it is concidered the marital home and he cannot evict her.
So if he does go through with the divorce she would be entitled to a small percent of the homes value, I'm guessing.
I wouldn't have her pay anymore " rent" or any repairs or upgrades. Just pay the utilities.
She seems just chill about anything, I don't think she would even pursue anything house related.
This was strange though. I didn't think you could sue a spouse.
Y’all are missing or willfully overlooking the point that the house is his….ONLY his because it was purchased prior to the marriage. This is why she’s considered a tenant and he can actually evict her now that he’s filed for divorce. It is an incorrect assumption that marriage equates to 50/50 in all aspects. The key factor is whether the acquisition of property/assets occurred prior to or after marriage. The other point that was clear is that the marriage is over. They’re totally disconnected from one another and only still living together because both are struggling financially.
Let me ask you a question do you work?🤣🤣🤣🤣
They are going right back to the same house to live how they were until either finds a partner
My husband asked me what's for dinner one time I did a 12 hour shift and he was off. It never happened again😂😂😂😂
This woman is Kool Moe Dee ' only a few will get that 😂
I absolutely got it! 😂😂😂😂
Me too...lmbo
Cruel
That's mean.
"How ya like me now?" 🤐
How did/does a husband & wife relationship turn into a tenant landlord relationship I’m confused so marriage means nothing ?
This couple lived like roommates rather than married adults.
I took a friend to the movies and he was supposed to pay for his ticket. I paid for up both and never got reimbursed for his ticket. It's the case of "I've got two tickets to court". 😂
They need marriage counseling. Neither of them want to leave each other.
Sounds like an arranged marriage
The thickness of her hair...i love it. I wish I was as easygoing and chill as her lol.
If she is going to pay 50% of everything, she needs to make him put the deed for the house in her name.
NOT a fan of JM going hard for him to evict his ex wife. If he doesn't want to, he's being a decent dude - leave him alone!
SHES STILL HIS WIFE, THEY ARE NOT DIVORCED YET
JM's giving him the hard, honest advice that he needs to hear. It's up to him wether he wants to carry it out or not.
I’ve never seen a defendant with more sassiness than the Judge 🤣
Sis isn’t sassy she is tttyyyyeeed. She probably is wondering why she is there and he is bum
He thought/saw her being a hard working woman so he lowkey married her to help him pay for the bills her created before even meeting her. Seems like married roommates if ya ask me... To each his own. Also her nonchalant attitude doesn't match up to par with her appearance and isn't helping her out either. Ijs.
A lot of men do this. Women need to be very careful. Just because a dude has a job and a house it doesn’t mean that he can afford it. Those 50/50 guys do this all the time.
How can the judge make the wife to pay the rent when they still live in the same house and same bed? JM your judgment in this case was totally wrong.
He owns the house. It was his before the marriage. It is not marital property. The law says he can sue for rent. JM knows the law and she said all of that.
You just answered your own question. Because she lives there. If you live somewhere and you don’t own it, you pay rent.
I'm glad u put this cuz I was getting upset listening. I want her to move out and leave his ass high and dry it won't 1200 each month if he has to pay all the bills. I'll go to a shelter before I help his trifling ass. Poor excuse for a husband
There is no rent, she pays his mortgage due to her working. he cannot evict her due to the fact he would then have to pay rent and utilities. And all in his name.
@@trekgirl65 You do realize that if you rent a house from someone you don’t know, you are paying their mortgage. What’s the difference. What do you think renting is??
I thought he was a lady. (Stud)? He may be lazy. 😅😂😂😂😂
I did to 😂
He need to get him a cat or a dog. One a minute! They can't pay rent 😂
Married people please take Dave Ramsay’s course on Financial Peace. This is no way to live like a roommate I’m sorry I’d rather be alone.
Definitely sounds as if this marriage has developed into a roommate situation. They seem to get along as roommates except for the bills. Seems like the best course of action would be to get the divorce, then draw up a lease stating what her rent would be to stay.
The blank stare when she asked her how she felt about the eviction😂 😂
Judge Judy would have looked at this as a money grab soon as she said they slept in the same bed... she would have sent both back from whence they came😅
Hope he doesn’t EVICT her & she leaves on her own🏠
If it’s his house he should pay his own mortgage if she paying all other bills. That house not in her name and he married her so technically it’s not her obligation.
Yeah, if he sold it, he would get all the money. So she doesn't need to pay on the mortgage, especially since she pays the other bills.
What good is a house with no electricity??
Loved how the defendant carried herself. Beautiful lady and her attitude remained positive although she took an L.
I'd rather struggle than to live with my husband if we divorce. The tensions would be too much.
He can actually owe her what she has put into the house during their marriage when they divorce. Its his home. Depends on the state they are in.
She said she helped with the kitchen remodel but the judge talked over her
If she's smart she's getting half that house in the divorce
@kakishisfriend1126 been there she could never get half of the house. If she did help with any renovation to help the property gain equity she can possibly get a percentage of the equity
@@Tee0twonot never... actually there is a way..
@TheZogie oh ok. Im in Georgia and I wasn't able to get the full house or half but I got some of the equity. I've seen other people get some equity but never the whole house or half as well, now maybe if their name is added to the deed then that's different but I've even seen some get some of the business that the spouse was thought was covered by an LLC
He was a fool for marrying her because she clearly was only looking for a situation where she would be able to fix her financial situation from the previous bad decisions that she had made and he played right into it 🤦🏾♂️
He is stuck too he needs her money soo
I get the feeling she is fed up with him, but yet she needs to pay her bills too.
She pays so much she might as well get her own place, he wants her to stay so she pays the utilities and mortgage so he doesn't have to and save his money on everything
That’s sad that their marriage couldn’t last, it honestly seems like he doesn’t even try. Why is she even having to work two jobs and he’s only working one?
EXACTLY! I’m amazing at how many are defending the plaintiff. To me, he’s an effeminate male. Definitely not a man.
@@sarahlynn7894Exactly!!
IF THEY DIVORCE HE WILL HAVE TO PAY EVERYTHING, MORTGAGE , ALL UTILITIES, FOOD, CABLE, CAR INSURANCE, CAR NOTE, ETC... ITS TERRIBLE SHE HAS TO HELP PAY HIS MORTGAGE AND WORK TWO JOBS, SMH.... WHAT WAS SHE THINKING GETTING WITH THAT CHEAP LOSER... SHE NEED TO BUY HER OWN HOME...THEY ARE NOTHING BUT ROOMMATES.... SMH
She looks as crazy as this case 😂
Sounds like he just wants her to help with bills
I don't understand this ruling. They are married.
Why tf is he charging her rent.. they are still married. He was paying the mortgage before her, he can pay it now
She has such a nice demeanor
The defendant should leave just on the principal of bringing her to court... Damn that plantiff
we’re you not listening?? they aren’t together (just on paper) and she’s not paying anything on bills..yea sue her.. next start the eviction process
It's his house, she will get nothing. She just needs to move and leave him with his house.
Good morning jury
Good morning foreman
Good morning!
Hello
She's WAAAY TOO passive. It's annoying 😮😮
What utter rubbish. Playing with each other etc.and the court
LIFE GOES ON!!! "MESSAGE"!!!
He just want a roommate he don't want her I don't blame him 😂😂😂
So he want her to pay HIS house.
Meaning, she are paying for a value she never own.
Rent,for a wife ?
I would never pay half,when one part own the house. Then they need to own the house TOGETHER. THEN its fair to pay half of everything.
Get a divorce,lady ,your paying like your single , while he is paying down a mortage.
Nope,nope,no. Not ok.
People do this all the time guys not everyone is financially capable to live apart after a split up . Sometimes people just agree to be amicable . I hope they can work this out they both seem pretty reasonable, perhaps they both met at the hospital since they both work at one (I assume the same one). Please stop asking why he even likes her , that’s his business . There is nothing wrong with her ❤
Absolutely agree! Sometimes it's just financially feasible. I've seen pretty women on here with such a horrible nasty attitude and they looked ugly to me. He has some complete NERVE while making MORE money asking her to pay HIS mortgage. Last time I saw you can't sue your wife and if I'm correct he filed for divorce right BEFORE the show? Instead of her looks people need to start talking about what kind of husband does that.
On honey child, the dude is able to work. She is and doing fine. Bet she found a better home without the man mess.
She gotta go point blank period 😂
He nagging her about paying the mortgage on a house that he owned!!! How was he paying it prior to the marriage. Then he wants dinner and clean house. He has lost his mind
How do people feel like you can sue your spouse
The messed up part is the people who can do this, are the people who never considered them to be their spouse or equal in the first place.
@@Shellygrrl2573 facts
Gotta love America…. Clearly you can
There was no love in this relationship
he wanted her to keep paying his bills since he was too lazy to work.
Forget love, she doesn't even like this man as a person. They need to split.
Baby they do not want to break up. I don’t who they think they’re fooling. Lol
Judge: When did things stop looking good?
Cameraman: 🤪
If they call this a marriage, these two are equally crazy and desperate. They share the same bed but hardly see one another. Things are as cold as ice between them.
Nothing that they do says this is a loving partnership. There is something deeply wrong about this situation. I pray that they never have children together and ruin more lives in their paths.
Tbh a part me thinks they still have feelings for each other too, at least to an extent. “Can’t live with you, can’t live without you” kinda deal
He was paying for more then a year by himself. Just because he wants it to be paid doesn’t mean he can’t afford it lol
What do people feel like they should be taken care of ?🤔
Team work makes the dream work!!!
Just because someone makes more money than the other person doesn’t mean they should have to pay more. I see it all the time on here.
She PAYS ALL THE OTHER BILLS , ITS EVEN I DONT GET IT