Wrecking a Wedding
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- čas přidán 13. 09. 2024
- The plaintiff says the defendant is her ex-husband of 25 years. She alleges he owes her money for their son’s wedding, and she’s suing for every penny. The defendant says he never agreed to split the cost of the wedding, and he insists his ex actually owes him her portion of their kids’ college tuition. He’s countersuing for college fees.
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29 year olds should be paying for their own wedding
I 100% agree!!!
Wedding.. they’ll divorce anyways. Country of divorce
@@hera_avria9265 Weddings! 😏
She's a piece of work... He paid hundreds of thousands for their education, and yet she couldn't cover a few grand? Really? And I bet he paid even more for other aspects of their life.
As soon as the litigants’ son heard about this dispute, he should have offered to give his mom the $3k , even if it took him a long time to do it. There’s no way I would let my parents’ sue each other over an expense related to my wedding.
His dad doesn't even know what he does
@@LeolaGlamour Obviously nothing great if he needs his parents to legally fight in public over 3k.
@@questioneverything8572
Or he knows his dad is a jerk. Its telling he doesn't know what his kids do.
@@LeolaGlamour If the father is a "jerk" over $3,000, do you have an insulting name for the mother who owes him $100,000?
@@broeheemed32
She doesn't owe him that and he never expected her to pay even close to that. He probably expected her to pay over the course of 4 years 20k or so. Btw 100k is just the cost of any run of the mill college so... if he couldn't afford it he wouldn't have paid.
I feel sorry for the dad. This woman is something else. Live off everyone and don’t work
Which is why they are divorced
You can literally feel his frustration with that bird. But it's probably still better than living with her. 😅👍🏾
Weddings are so useless and financially devastating. Theres no real value to spending thousands on an outdated ritual.
I got married for 1000 bucks and it was a wonderful ceremony and great food and great reception.. the amount people pay is ridiculous and wasteful.. ive been happily married 16 years since and neither of us have any regret that our wedding day wasn't a ridiculous waste of money lol we spent it on our future and were happy we did.. only entitled nut jobs have to have 30k dollar weddings or more.. its nuts
She's been living off of him for 25 years. Good grief! They need to get rid of alimony.
I don't know if they need to get rid of alimony. But, maybe cap it at 5 years or something, especially if the other person was a stay-at-home parent. They need a few years to start a career and everything.
He defiled her and she birthed him two kids. To some men she was now tainted. Why not pay alimony 😂😂😂
@@teiashort1451go back to your cave. This isn't the stone age.
No they don’t lol
They were married and he was the bread winner
Pathetic that 2 grown men are letting their parents sue each other over 3k. The boys are clearly spoiled and feel that they shouldn't have to pay a dime towards their future. The mother is also pathetic.
I don’t know if you were paying close attention, but the parents were paying for a very limited number of expenses for the wedding and the rehearsal dinner.
Wow, you are angry. The parents paid for their son’s college and the rehearsal dinner for their wedding. That is not uncommon and doesn’t make children spoiled that their parents loved them and had the means to get them started in life. Just because you didn’t get that doesn’t mean you should tear down people who do.
@@oldageisdumbthe mom is poor yet spends 3 k for a night rehersal dinner knowing she would get it later from dad. My rehearsal dinner cost less than 1 k and I had at least 20 guests
@@MrSturdystratus Ok? Not sure why that applies to my comment?
@@oldageisdumb more if agreeing with your comment and adding on hah
Hold on ... Parents are expected to pay for a wedding for 29 year old ( professional ) ????
YES.
@@susiesolangesimpson2828lol yes? My parents quit paying anything for me the minute i walked out the door at 17. Including my education and marriage 😂 i would say its not a common expectation.
It sounds like he paid for college too!
No it's tradition that the groom side pay for the rehearsal dinner. And that's all they paid for. Just sounds like a lot because they had a super fancy dinner rehearsal. Sounds like mom was trying to keep up with the fancy wedding. When I got married I made sure that the dinner rehearsal was not expensive I think the whole dinner was around $200.
$6K was only a fraction of the expenses (rehearsal dinner, some flowers, a brunch after). Sounds like that was their "gift" to the couple. It wasn't paying for the whole wedding.
That woman and her sons have been picking the defendant's pocket for much too long. The 29 year old should pay his own way.
I bet the defendant gave him a big wedding gift. $$$$$
Facts
I don’t think it’s fair to lump the sons in there. What has he paid for that goes above and beyond normal parenting? Most parents pay for rehearsal dinners and many parents pay for college? The mom on the on the other hand… not working for 25 years after she gets divorced.. yeah that’s ridiculous.
His pockets are probably loaded😂
@shannenlucky7900
What do you suppose he does for a living? My guess is used car salesman. 😂
@@colleenknapp8626 , Plumber
If she didn't put towards their education its ridiculous to think he needs to pay for wedding expenses on top of it
That's modern womanthink..... men are money machines and little else.... especially in and after the divorce.
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The judgment had nothing to do with the ethics or morality of the case. It all came down to contract law. Not always fair, but then the law rarely is.
He obligated himself. If he'd said no up front he would't have had to pay.
@@broeheemed32not all modern women. there are still some of us that believe in paying our own way 😊😊😊 but i get where you are coming from!
The man spent over $200k for the education of their sons and she sues him for $3000. Karma is slow and patient. It will come when she least expects it.
Ridiculous. He is the child’s father; he needs to pay half of the wedding expenses. And I HIGHLY doubt he has paid $200,000 out of pocket for tuition. 🙄
The boys were raised by their mother and inherited her leeching ways. He is nothing more than a cash cow to them. Very common phenomenon unfortunately, especially in Western countries.
@@BeKind2AllKindsa child isnt getting married a man is and it's ridiculous to expect parents to pay for a wedding when you are 29 yo.
@@BeKind2AllKindsWhy would you doubt that? Many parents do. Do you know how much college costs? $200k is the cost of a mediocre college for two people. Good/private colleges would be twice that.
@@eclectichomeschoolkansas2676What if the parents offered? Why is it so ridiculous that parents who love their kids want to gift their kids with a beautiful wedding?
I really feel bad for the dad. I think it drained him financially and it got to the point that he is just flat out frustrated and livid.
Plaintiff might have won the legal case but she should know she’s in the wrong about her own morals.
Unfortunately she’s probably basking in the win, laughing like an evil maniac with fists full of his money 😈
He should have just said no, she was relying on him paying half.
I agree!!
Oh please, women like that don't worry about work. Look at her clothes and hand bag. Playing the victim
This lady is a piece of work. This man paid for their children’s college education and she still wanted him to pay for wedding expenses.
I feel so sorry for the dad. This woman is a piece of work.
No shes lit af
This is what a lot of men go thru. Woman don’t give a damn pay everything lol
@@Mark5023w hell yes brother
Yoooo I’m a woman and agree🤷🏽♀️
The dad really got the short end of the stick. Next time i think he learns to say No instead of walking away or not talking about it.
She has been living off of him for over 20 years. "I'm working now" Big deal! She's gonna get away with this because that's how the court system works in this country. Sorry dad, I feel for you!
I agree that she lived off him for the 20 years. And I don't think much of her. But legally he clearly indicated he would pay. I don't like that he had to pay. But that was the correct and legal judgement. Often judge Milian is sexist, but not in this case.
Don't feel too bad for him. The show pays, and he is out nothing here...
@@barbarawallach1334I believe u missed the point.
You are 100% right !!
In the divorce settlement she got the gold mine and he got the shaft
They split it right down the middle, and then they gave her the better half.
@@deewah1698 Exactly. That’s how it ALWAYS happens.
I had to pay my X wife $270K and she was the one who had a mattress strapped to her back.
She’d been around the block so many times that it was a traffic circle.
She had rounded heels. Every time a new person walked up to her, she fell on her back.
I found out that her last pregnancy, there was only a 25% chance that it was my child. She miscarried that child.
I’ve Always been faithful in All my relationships but she cheated on me countless times.
Three years after our divorce she had been married and divorced 2 more times.
I’m just glad she’s someone else’s problem now.
My second and current wife is the best woman for me. She’s completely opposite of my first wife and I’m still over the moon with my wife. I love her more today than the day we were married.
I was single for 14 years before I remarried.
I feel sorry for the dad 💔
So absurd.
@@BeKind2AllKindswhy? He still pays her alimony (we know this bc he asks why she can’t work for the last 25 years. And he is from NJ where alimony is in perpetuity! She is a dead beat human) , he paid child support their entire lives through college, he paid for their college. How dare he draw the line at not wanting to pay for their wedding(s)? Wtf does the mom do besides use him as an ATM?
I don't ! The dude is rich, that means he have to contribute a lot more than his ex wife for their sons if she is not rich. He is mean ! The money is the contribution for the son's wedding.
He doesn’t even know what his kids do for a living but sure
@Maya-1975 Just cause he worked his ass off a lot more to be rich doesn't mean he should share it with the gold digging ex wife of 25yrs. She could've worked and done her part but wanted to use his money. No one is required to pay for a wedding. Outdated standard. People are responsible for their own expenses.
I would've been on the father's side if it wasnt for him agreeing to paying half in the first place. If only he had refused BEFOREHAND, then it wouldn't have been an issue. But he agreed 🤷♀️ that's on him now.
Right! He has major communication issues. Instead of saying NO, he would run off to the bathroom or push her off the phone? He needs to grow up. He caused this mess himself. He couldn’t even communicate his case clearly to the judge.
No evidence was shown that he ever did agree and he probably didn’t. She knew that irritating him and having him tell her whatever to shut her up, would be enough evidence to convince a small claims judge to side with her. It’s screwed up, but it does deserve to be mentioned. This is an example of why you just block people and ignore them.
Oh you have a phone,that he probably paid for!
"Children" nearing their 30's should pay for their own wedding and related expenses.
Unless the parents offered to pay for the wedding, perhaps as a wedding gift from them to the groom and bride.
Why? What’s wrong with loving parents wanting to give their kids a gift? Plus we know he was 28 (29 now) maybe his wife is 23/24?
Its a big tradition that the parents pay for some of their kids wedding. But no one has to do it
Weddings are a waste of time and money. They have no value
He seems to b a good dad, his kids were little ones when they got divorced and he payed child support and is in their lives, more than I can say for some of the dads out there.
Good dad? Doesn’t even know what his kids do for work
There are serious consequences to not paying child support. Also parental alienation is a thing. Just because he decides to see them once in a while And pays for the children he created doesn't mean he's automatically a good dad.
@@chavezlancehe literally said what they did.
If the son has a good paying job. Just maybe pay back Dad some of the money for college. Just saying. 🤷♀️
I like the way you think 👍
The son didn't ask his dad to get his mom pregnant, so why should he? If you have a child please understand in todays world YOU NEED TO PAY FOR THEIR EDUCATION.
Absolutely!
@@LeolaGlamourno but he applied to college and grad school though… or was he obligated to do those at birth. Sit down somewhere. You’re eroding the respect women have in society
@@dwhit2612
You all whining about money that wasn't yours is eroding the respect of the human species. This martyr suffering attitude is sickening. People want everyone else to struggle because they had to struggle. The man paid their college because he WANTED to. Period.
I believe Dad. She's been spending his money her entire kids' lives. Its what she's used to. She told him at the wedding they were gonna pay half. He didn't agree to that...he just didn't correct her either.
This guy is a true man in the sense that he supported every one of the family make sure his entire family has what they need.... But yet gets run over through the rails by the spouse who just takes takes takes
Is your ex in the room with you right now?
Based on his personality and age, I’m sure he’s conservative and believes women should be stay at home house keepers, chefs, sex slave and babysitter while he brings in the money and does what he wants… 20yrs he knew what he made her sign up for and what the arrangement would be…
Women love to scream 'unfair because I'm woman' yet also scream I'm the BOSS and I don't need help 😂 Modern women, yo.
@@16MedicRN Tell me you hate women without telling me you hate women 🙄
@@cosmos34 I'm a woman biotch 😂😂😂 and I know HOW to be a woman ✌️💞 I'm not the type to expect my husband to protect me when things go bump in the night and wake up the next day expecting him to lick the bottom of my shoes and act like I'm an untouchable goddess 😂 YO, tell me you're a 'liberated' woman without telling me you're a liberated woman 😏
This is why this country is so screwed . The dad pays 200k and the lady is dying to pay 6 k . And excuse after excuse as to why she never worked . There is a special place God has for such people .
He wanted a trophy wife. He got one. They both know the score.
This guy strikes me as the type of person that just goes with the flow of things. Unfortunately, this attitude bit him in the ass on his divorce agreement and now it bit him on agreeing to pay for half the wedding. I can only imagine what the alimony payments have equaled up to over the past 20 years. I love it how Judge M asked her why she hasn't worked in 20 years and she said it was because her son was sick for a year. That says everything. She takes one issue and makes it a lifetime excuse.
"I wasn't working because my son was ill and I was taking care of my mother"
Translation;
"I wasn't working because I had an alimony check."
I am a civil engineer or in finance, I'd rather give my mother her 6k back than to see my parents go to court over one of my expenses.
This judge changes her rulings like the wind blows. In another case she said just because someone promises to give you something is NOT a contract but now it is without much proof. She doesnt have him saying in text or writing "i will pay xyz"
I think they both should loose and each pay what they payed. Him college, her wedding the end.
I remember she said that too
I thought it was only customary to pay for the daughters wedding , but when you're in you late 20's or early 30's that so called rule shouldn't apply time to fly own your own !
It’s a tradition that only applies to rich parents on both sides. The reason why brides family pays, is because the groom has to take care of her the rest of her life. It’s just not realistic anymore. People always pay too much for weddings though lol. Mine was beautiful and free, and 22 years later we are still married.
Usually the grooms family pays for the rehearsal dinner
It is but groom’s family pays for the rehearsal dinner
Especially if they have been living together which most people are at that age.
Yes!!!
She needs to BE ASHAMED of HERSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Shame on you mom!!!!!!!
I feel for the dad. I bet he has paid so much to that woman. Ridiculous she didn't pay anything for their education.
She raised the children. Children who went to college. That's work.
Yeah, but why aren't college students responsible for their college tab? I mean, parents aren't attending college.
This Dad is a great dad!!! Someone should tell him. Because he looks like it’s been hard
Oh yes, he’s such a great dad that he’s not sure what his sons do for a living. And as shown by the voicemail, he lied about agreeing to pay at least a portion for the rehearsal dinner. He’s just mad that their divorce decree didn’t require her to pay anything for college.
The divorce decree was based on her not ever working so the court makes the husband continue to pay for the wife because that's the life she's been accustomed to..... It's been the standard the courts use to determine what the woman will receive,never the man, and will never change.
Oh yeah, outstanding dad, couldn't tell you a thing about his son's but a real winner of a dad.
Just because you financially provided for your child, it doesn't necessarily make you a great dad.
I agree!
Judge got this wrong, too emotional no evidence of agreeing.
Did you miss the part about him agreeing to take the receipts?
Guy’s been through A LOT and you can see it.
The son is 29 years old. Probably has a good job. Has a new wife. Got lots of gifts. Why doesn't he pay for his own wedding. Why does mommy and daddy have to pay for this wedding. And daddy paid for college 🎓. Wow. Wow. Let the son pay.
Court system has messed with dads last 40 years.
You have no idea what it was like for a woman to get divorced in the past. No idea. They got nothing. The court system is finally catching up and taking care of mothers.
She taking his ass for a ride. Feel kinda bad for him
Shame on those boys for letting their dad be embarrassed in court. They should pay.
I am GOB-SMACKED! I cannot imagine how many people must have been at that rehearsal dinner to make the dinner & flowers cost $6000.!
The face she made when he was talking about how she just keeps at you until you give in says it all
This was a terrible ruling. That voicemail wasn't solid proof. She is a money hungry lady who gets him to pay for everything and orders him around. He is sick of her crap. Guess he shouldn't have married a young gal, looking for easy cash.
If the happy couple can’t pay….go to the courthouse.
No amount of money is worth embarrassing my children on national TV and ruining the memories of my son's wedding.
Weddings are useless. No value whatsoever.
I wouldn't have given mom one red cent! She's been paid enough!
It’s all his money anyway. She didn’t work so she used the alimony he paid to pay for the wedding and now gets more of his money! SMH 🤦🏿♀️
When they started I said to myself this is an issue of “detrimental reliance”. Look who was right. I watch too much people’s court😂
He needs to tell her to lose his number. Just say no!😂😂
I feel awful for the dad not only do those twenty-nine-year-old children have reputable jobs with good pay like they're all still mooching off of him the mom the kids awful
I think she's horrible! Sounds like he's taken care of her for the last 25 years. The courts now days would never let her get away without working. And I hope his kids appreciate him he really is rare. What a good man and amazing dad!!
Such a good dad but doesn't know what his kids do 🙄
@@LeolaGlamourdoesn’t matter. My mom calls me my brothers name all the time and says I’m in the navy when he is. She’s old. So is he. Point is, he is in NJ where alimony is permanent and he paid child support for 20+ years on tops of it and paid hundreds of thousands for their education. How dare he draw the line at not splitting wedding costs🙄. Wonder why some people don’t get respected in other areas of life. She’s a grown dependent. A dead beat human.
@@dwhit2612
You might want to have your mom checked for that that is not normal for her to confuse your jobs. Anyways he could have simply said no, he played stupid games and a got a stupid prize. And spending money doesn't make you a good parent. My mom was a good parent but many times I would have rather had her time than money. She bought me things and I wanted her time.
This woman is ridiculous. In this day and age to be dependent on alimony, have your ex pay every dime of college for your kids, and then be suing for some measly 3k when instead she could finally get a job and give the brunch to her son as a gift?Come on. Shout out to the single mothers who take care of their kids by themselves, work, go to school, and actually have some self respect.
This woman used him all the way. She agrees to pay for stuff and he has to pay….
29 year old having his parents pay for his wedding. What a spoiled bum… pay for your own wedding. No one paid for my wedding, I had to open my wallet. It wasn’t some 500 person 3 day gala. It was all our friends and family all together having a good time, it was perfect.
Trash gold digger is all that "mom" is. She didn't pony up anything and i bet it was the same way during the marriage.
Stole money of the ex husband in the divorce decree and now entitled to continue doing so .
That plaintiff is a total KAREN!!!!
Unless the person can pay the wedding cost on it's own, they should really forget about it.
And poor dad :(
Just stop doing weddings. They are expensive. They have 0 actual value. Hardly anyone stays for life anymore. Waste of time and money
Yes. Pay for your own wedding
The defendant looks like a heart attack waiting to happen.
I’ve had an ex that thought I was her personal atm for years after our divorce. It sounds like this plaintiff is just like my ex, and I believe he paid for the kid’s college 100% and she’s greedy.
SON SHOULD PAY FOR HIS OWN WEDDING! christ, what a baby.
She took this guy to the cleaners for years!
Dad is the bank machine!
I feel bad for him, he clearly feels like he’s been screwed over but almost seems hopeless
He seems like an arrogant jerk.
He has been screwed
The real question is why are they paying for his wedding to begin w/. All that money invested in his education, be grateful, be thankful. If u can't afford ur own wedding, don't get married until u can. If it's important to get married, go to city hall, then save money and have a wedding @ a later date.
@@KimmyLisenbyWhy does everyone assume the kids demanded the parents pay? I’m sure the bride’s parents saved and offered.
@@oldageisdumb : The same reason you are assuming I assumed the kids demanded the parents pay.
Poor dad . So many times this happens . The man is just supposed to be a "man" . Mom shoulda got a job twenty years ago and $7000 wouldn't have hurt her
My suggestion is the next time she comes for money, he needs to NO, PERIOD. She has become accustomed to him paying for everything.
Can't the grown men now pay for their own weddings. They have careers.
Horrible divorce decree. Basically said "they will try to work it out" 100% vague and means nothing.
All that for $3k. It’s sad. The dad looks like he has health issues and has clearly gone above and beyond for his kids. The dad isn’t going to cover a penny for anything else in those kids unless she goes in half.
Plaintiff needs to stop asking Defendant for money for anything. He already paid child support, and alimony, and 100% of their sons' college tuitions. He doesn't owe her any more money, period. Judge made the wrong ruling on this one.
She’s asking for too much, I just want to cry for the defendant because I can see the unfairness in his face
Once again the father loses no MATTER WHAT JM SAYS
He definitely agreed to pay, but he’s so over her being a leach.
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Yeah and how can the judge not see it
@@Bebedollie She is biased, like many judges. If the roles were reversed she would have called the man a leech for 20+ minutes.
@@Bebedollie
Thats not law
@@questioneverything8572the plaintiff had evidence that her ex agreed to pay..... why else would he have left a voicemail telling her where to leave the receipts🤷♀️?
I have an idea. How about his grown ass children pay for their own wedding?
I don't get the impression he is the kind of guy who is "scared" to tell people yes or no lol.
His whole demeanour is like, "Why Am I Even Here?"
When they asked why she didn't work... Lmaoo.. Her answers was BS she looks like a user.
He doesn't even know what his kids do for living
If he paid 200k for college, his child support had to be enough to take care of their children and her. Divorced for over 25 years and still want money
That woman feels entitled to what she does not deserve.
Dad has paid 200K for their sons’ college bill and she is suing for $3000? Good grief.
These women always say my sons, like only they are her sons
If the son id getting civil engineer or a finance salary, why can't they pay for their own wedding?
She lived off of him for years without working while he spent hundreds of thousands on her and the children. She ethically owes him and she should have gotten a job many years ago.
They need to put this guy in movies, he has the look and the voice
Must be nice to have mommy and daddy pay for a wedding when 50% of marrages dont last in the US and $200,000 plus for college!? Ridiculous!!
Im pretty sure she was leaning in her favor even before the vmail! She’s said numerous times before what a contract is and isn’t! Him telling her to put the receipts in the Escalade could be for anything! If this wasn’t for tv a ok lawyer woulda got this thrown out immediately! Even the lawyers on that show suits coulda won this case! Judge was beyond biasis in this order! He won cause the show pays the verdict out of the appearance fee! He can afford it even if she hadn’t this was all about principal! And he won it hands down
I LOVE judge Milian. But it’s the most annoying thing how her and Judge Judy act like they’re not being paid to be there…towards the end of every case they act like it isn’t their job and they’re being bothered 😂 “no no no stick a fork in me I’m done”
He's tired. I have known many a woman who takes and takes and yet never seems to contribute. They no longer want to be married to this particular man but have no problem wanting money. (I am not speaking about child support; both male and female are obligated ) Since I do not know these people, this is my guess. I wish them both well.
U can see he's drained
Yeah you can see he's just like of course I have to pay her again. He's becoming numb to it
And I know many ahole men who ditch their wife and kids without paying a dime or being in their kid’s lives. There are way more deadbeat dads than moms.
If a grown couple can't afford their wedding - they probably shouldn't be getting married
The adult children should pay for their own wedding….
Exactly!
age 29, definitely.
If the parents, out of their own accord, offered to pay then why should the children refuse ? When a great freebie is offered, you accept it.
No wonder he divorced her. She hasn’t worked for over 20 yrs. Dad pays child support college education and she has the balls to sue for a few k. I bet she acted high and mighty when paying for the dinner and wedding then she’s him later when no one sees
Is it just me, or does the x-husband look like Mickey Rourke?
He seems like a good guy. Shame on the x-wife for causing family drama & division
over such a small amount of money.
No, I thought the same exact thing!! He favors Rourke for sure.
Family of groom traditionally pays for rehearsal dinner and a few other things.
Wonder if the defendant would've still won the case if she didn't get a chance to play her evidence on her phone? She literally had to almost force Milian to hear the evidence! geesh
She would have won anyway, because he already implied he was going to pay for half.
He should had just took her fishing 20 years ago, it would've been cheaper 😂😂
I love the D’s accent. 😂
How can the judge rule in her favor,,,???