What Does It Take to Build a Lasting Marriage? Couples Share Wisdom | Part 2
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- In this video DFW on tour - Part 2 | Warryn Jr. & Erica Campbell, Warryn Sr. & Sandra Campbell, Shanta Atkins, & Jor él Quinn | Dear Future Wifey Podcast
What does it take to build a marriage that lasts for decades? Join Laterras in this special live episode as he sits down with married couples Warryn Jr. and Erica Campbell, Warryn Sr. and Sandra Campbell, and Shanta Atkins and Jor él Quinn to discuss the secrets to lasting love. From stories and wisdom accumulated over nearly five decades of marriage to advice on dating and relationships in today’s world, this panel offers valuable insights and encouragement. Don’t miss out on this heartfelt conversation filled with love, laughter, and valuable lessons for couples and singles alike. Hit the bell icon for notifications on our latest episodes and subscribe for more uplifting stories.
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[00:00] - Opening Segment and Introductions
[08:36] - What does “thankful for love” mean?
[10:38] - Campbell Sr. story of “real” love
[20:55] - What it means to be a husband
[26:18] - Warryn Jr. learnings from parents
[39:27] - Jor él & Shanta’s take on dating
[56:41] - Why Warryn Sr. pursued Sandra
[01:04:38] - Praying against toxic spirits
[01:13:57] - The enemy of love
[01:15:50] - Ignoring the “good parts”?
[01:20:18] - “My truth” vs the truth
[01:23:08] - Q&A from the audience
[01:54:59] - Closing Segment
Key Quotes:
"Love covers a multitude of sins.” - Warryn Campbell Sr.
“Find you a woman who's willing to change your diapers because oftentimes we're looking for superficial things in these women” - Laterras R. Whitfield
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Have Mama Campbell on the podcast 😩😩😩😩 I need to hear more of her. “If He brings you to it, He’ll bring you through it.”
Sr got me over here crying for real, and it just started 😢 My mouth says I give up, but my heart says this is what I long for. Jesus, fix it
THISSS😢😢❤❤ This episode has my heart SO FULL... Im only HALF WAY IN🤦🏽♀️😳🤦🏽♀️... Im on this 2 hour drive home from the office and I had to pull over... A memory I forgot about came back to me...
Laterras asked God for a wife for Christmas and I laughed AND THEN....
I heard WHAT'S SO FUNNY??👀👀 I heard REMEMBER THIS🤔🤔?!!??!!
A memory came to my vision of me going to wake up my Grandpa on Christmas because my Granny said it was time for super... I climbed up on the bench and whispered to him that Granny said its time to eat.. He would say heeyy Sugar..IS IT CHRISTMAS YET?!
We would go down the stairs by the kitchen and he would say is that Yo Granny right there cooking? I would say mmm hmm.. He would call out to her.. DARLING.. she would say hey honey you hungry and cut her eyes at him and smile... He would say My Baby here said it was Christmas!!
And began to SANG to her.. HANG ALL THE MISTLETOES...IM GOING TO GETTTT TOoo KNOOoowwww YOU BETTERRR... And AS I LOOK AROUND..YOOUURRR EYES ARE STILL THE ONLY EYES TO OUTSHINE THE TOWNNN...they dooo...AND THIS CHRISTMAAAASSS will be ANOTHER VERY SPECIAL CHRISTMAAASSS For MEEEEE cause I get to spend another one with you... you'll always be my favorite gift God has EVER given to me... She would blush and turn red, take her cooking towel and hit him with it and he'd grab and kiss her... I used to sit on the stairs and blush too😊🤭... 62 years til death did them part...
Ever seen a blind man's eyes light up??!!! My Grandpa went blind around 87...and whenever he talked about my Granny you could see his soul smiles through the sparkle in his eyes..
THIS CHRISTMAS... in God's time I pray you get that kinda gift...
Thank you for sharing that story! I envision my husband adoring me in that way. Love is such a gift when you are partnered in God's hands. Laterras, I pray for your Christmas gift of a wife. It will happen, and it will give you joyful tears. We will be here to celebrate with you.🎉❤🎄🙏🏽
Beautiful memory!
Absolutely beautiful. This bought tears to my eyes as well❤
Choose to love and choose to stay…. LOVE!!! My parents were married for 51 years until my mother transitioned this year😢!! #goals #comeonmantras
I’m so sorry for your loss. I too lost my mom this year. Praying for you 🙏🏾
I believe to build a marriage that last decades, it takes an understanding of biblical covenant. Both partners have to always remember it is bigger than them. Generations will be impacted. ❤❤
My eyes teared when Campbell Sr’s wife started praying for that young woman!
Beautiful and anointed !
Laterras Whitfield …you have done it again!! I thoroughly enjoyed this podcast. Thank you for having the seasoned Saints on this panel. I received the prayer she prayed from Mother Campbell. Hallelujah!! Outstanding panel!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 They kept it LIT!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😄❤️
It is amazing how much they all clash in the Spirit " think it not strange " God is involved ❤😊
I loved Shanta on this panel. The fears she spoke of I have them as well
I love how this episode highlighted different spirits. It really makes me understand that scripture “we wrestle not against flesh and blood…” so much more.
Shanta is honest... I'm glad she was on here to balance out the podcast. Some are uncomfortable telling the truth because it's not pretty or PC.
Don’t give all access passes to people who only need general admission… sheesh!!!
True❤
This blessed my entire soul! Mother Warren dropped powerful gems to address the mindset of relationshiping in this day and age that sad. Father Warren defined a husband and purpose. This episode was so powerful and if received openly, it can break yolks. Thank you for address the toxicness in the dating belief system. We cannot do better until we address the why we feel social media should determine how we operate in love. ❤❤❤❤
Yes Senior Warren & Mother Warren was the gift & Gem. This was priceless show!!
Thank you Mother Warren for praying and speaking into the Pastor’s life!
Erica preached a whole word!!! Fight the spirit, not people. Fight Satan, prove him wrong in your relationships.
I love MAMA CAMPBELL... Let the man be the man !!! TEACH MAMA CAMPBELL. Erica, Erica I can relate to the ego stronghold. I love & appreciate seeing your sweet, strong spirit. God Bless the panel on their journey.
Love is what Jesus chose to do every day for us so to look like Him in this life we must choose to love through it all . I love this podcast so much!!! My mother was the same way towards my father during his open heart surgery she slept at the hospital there after and then 4 years after my dad went back to the hospital they gave my family and I the whole waiting room as our own personal space to stay over night while my Dad was transitioning from this life to go see Jesus as he said. The doctor said that he was only going to live for 2 weeks because of his heart my dad lived 4 weeks because it wasn't up to the doctors how long my Dad lived it was up to God. My mom and I never left his side I saw my Dad breath his last breath. His last words were going home he said that 14 teen time looked towards the east and surrendered his spirit back to the Lord. Hallelujah!!! To God Be The Glory ❤️❤️❤️
So beautiful. Thank you for sharing this. May we all walk worthing. Hallelujah!
Please have mama and pops Campbell on the podcast i need, no we need the 48 year wisdom!!!
Loved both episodes🥰. The Word the Lord had for me:
(1) Dont put love or God in a box. Prepare, but leave room for growth.
(2) Dont self sabotoge.
(3) Remember the enemy is against kingdom marriage (cast out the spirit of fear).
Hallelujah and Amen! 🙌🏽
Mama Campbell's prayer! My God I thank you!!!
Listen, I was just said this God ordained marriage but nobody’s following his leadership and word on marriage 💯💖😍! Love y’all for this Let’s get it God fearing family!
I think it's beautiful that you adopted your children @Latteras.
Next season, if possible please include wedding pictures of your guest who have been married for ten plus years. 😊
This podcast is all wisdom!
God LITERALLY speaks through everything and I love it so much!
She reached up for him to grab her hand to help her up, she could’ve used the couch and I’m sure she does when he isn’t right there; but the honor and bond that erupts!
Not feeling like a burden, not being irritated by helping someone, appreciating their strength and capacity !
She cares to be assisted by him and he cares to assist!
She’s not in the energy of doing it on her own, she considered him and allowed them to rise as one! 💝
Good interviews
We women have to ask questions and stop assuming. If he doesn't express his intentions or tell you that you are in a relationship...don't assume you are .
Yes, I teach this to the women I coach. We have to stop making assumption and creating our own narratives with out seeking clarity. Ask the questions. Observe. VET. It matters!!!
Love what you said - not to allow a person insecurity to override your purpose. I was dating a guy who was so insecure that he thought the Pastor who is old enough to be my grandfather was messing around First and foremost
not my character. He was allowing Satan to use him to try and stop me from working in the ministry with the youth something God gifted me to. God removed me out of that relationship because he knew I needed someone that was like-minded in the ministry.
The Q&A was so refreshing... Its the mere fact that conversations are being had which says the environment feels safe for Black Men to be heard... I think its pretty safe to say Black Women will have conversations even when we might not feel safe to do it when we get tired enough. I believe Black Men will take it to the grave if they dont feel safe..
Its the honoring of WISDOM that saturates the stage of the DFW podcast... often times we dont make the time to sit at the FEET of our elders and allow them to wash us in wisdom...
To see the few young men basking in it was heart warming.. I cant wait to see that number grow...❤🙏🏽👏🏼
"See non-communioncation as communication "
Lord, PLEASE send me a man like these Campbell men💜💜💜..I want that kind of love.
I came in the door crying listening to the Warren’s. Wow this is one of my favorite episodes so far ❤recently divorced, I’ve gain new dating insight, the importance of choosing love in my relationships and not compromising from the beginning the divine order God set in place, the singles gave new meaning to my singleness and how much of a blessing it really is to wait on God.
Lord it'll be Christmas tomorrow but you can do it!
Wow the segment on the different podcast out there by people who aren't in marriage or even loving relationships. So VERY true!!!
Laterras is absolutely correct. Much prayers for Kevin Samuels but the way things have shifted as a result of all of this division between men and women is wild. It was something believers who sit with God really could sense in the spirit. I too sensed that it was getting out of hand and it was going to cease in some manner. I didn't know it would end the way it did though. Prayers for all.
I am so glad that I watched this episode. It kept coming across my algorithm and I continued to bypass it because I did not want to listen to a panelist session.
Oh my goodness, I am dancing 💃🏽 with excitement from the confirmation and for things that I knew and learned. I am glad that I listened.
Wow.. This episode has me speechless. Wowww🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
This was so delightful! I love Mama Campbell's prayer at the end, I loved Warryn Sr's storytelling and commitment to his wife. I love all the gems dropped by Warryn,Erica, Jorel, Shanta, and you Laterras😊❤
You had me rolling are you going to say something are you going to say a monologue or you going to say a story 😂😂
Whew Lord! To hear mama Campbell go off like that about "my truth" vs "the truth", very powerful. Listen, when a woman who has been married for 48 years says "I love submission", boom, FIX ME LORD!
We will never be ready. We have to trust God each day as He moves us in our purpose and destiny.
I enjoyed this thoroughly. Continue to let God use you Latteras.
Sooooo many nuggets of wisdom in this one...LOVE IT❤❤❤❤❤
That's right King ," you are going to let the purpose and the calling GOD have on my life "" BURDEN " I absolutely salute this panel GOD bless you all married and singles.
Now this panel, I enjoyed its entirety ‼️ Now Shante(hope I spelled name right) the directness for today’s youth and young adults is sooooo needed. Mama Campbell and Pops 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Laterras shows much integrity with having actual married couples and singles to provide their experience/wisdom...these podcasters that do all this arguing and debating about something they don't have the character to participate in themselves are over for me, I don't even listen or watch them. They are just looking to make money off a channel and get attention from unhealed women, who they will inevitably use, abuse, and confuse...lol.
What’s interesting about what Dad said is that he pointed out deception. When we put God in a box we open the door for deception. The devil can wrap gifts too.
Enjoyed both episodes, thank you Laterras. It’s always a pleasure listening to this platform.
I’m telling you. I look forward to Wednesdays boyyy❤❤❤❤❤😊this was fantastic
Loved the real talk ❤
I absolutely loved both parts of this live podcast ❤ the Campbell's 48 yrs of marriage is a blessing and a fact that it can work!! Shaunte and Jerrel single perspectives were definitely a blessing.. thank you all ❤
I love part 2 of this conversation. Warren's parents spoke eloquently on their experience being married and what it takes to have a long lasting marriage like they have. ❤
Yessss I just need someone that know the facts it’s too many coaches out here
True and geniue love is tested in marriage, time will definitely come when we have to show or express exactly how we feel about the other person, could be through financial, health, the ability to make sacrifices or any other challenge, and that's when we know if we have made the right choice or the person we are married to.
Thank you all so much for your vulnerability. I SO needed the messages you shared. It truly blessed me. I want to be better.🙏🏾💕
Another good episode…keep doing what you do!! Your wife is on the way!
This was amazing a lot of gems spoken here. Great job as usual Latteras- Jess
Thank you for both panels of different perspectives on marriage and single perspectives thoughts. I like that you touch in on so many topics of today but letting people know that it’s the same game but a different time .but God has never changed. I love your podcast My future wifey Many Blessings on your continued success.
Momma Campbell your statement about the boss chic is beyond accurate. I have to run away from people and that statement, as well as alpha female. I am simply a woman who had to be strong in every way. I don't make excuses and figurung things out is one of my gifts. As a business owner, I still work other jobs if necessary to ensure I have no lack. Through my non-profit I help so many people because I know what it feels like to not have support . That seems to intimidate men in my age group and it's quite unfortunate.
Laterrus you are the epitome of a husband in so many ways. To desire to help anyone when it's not your requirement is special. You saved their lives as I'm sure they did for you.
Blessings to you all.
This was so good and it really blessed me. It was full of so much love, wisdom, and thankfulness. I learned alot.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💛💛💛🔥🔥🔥
This one was so so so good!!! I like to hear from real married couples that don’t act like it’s been a cake walk. You will have trials. Even God said that. So I like to hear the real and how they overcame. IM newly married and this first few months had me really talking to God like You sure this You😂😂😂😂.
Congratulations newlyweds and much blessings to you both. Too funny that last sentence and God's got you.
@@trishag.lol thank you!
Praying for all single people to not settle, believe God for His best!! 🥰
Mother Warren yesssss I love her wisdom!!
Great Q&A conversation with sincere questions and answers. Entertaining and insightful.
I FINALLY finished this episode... I truly ENJOYED this... There were so many jews here...
Laterras talked about his Sons and having a heart to love Black Boys... I JUST spoke on this topic Monday...
When will we get back to a place where YOUR Black child IS OUR BLACK CHILD... Each and EVERY ONE OF THEM... There should be NO WHERE our black children can go WITHIN OUR COMMUNITY and NOT feel LOVED and SAFE. There should be NO WHERE their Parents cant go within our community and NOT FEEL SUPPORTED BY US...
We are OUR OWN Resource...(with God OF COURSE)... You REALLY wanna know why this podcast has began to touche me deep down to my soul and gives my spirit air ... Its because it provides a blueprint for HEALING... And without our community healing OUR intentionally broken/murdered hearts from a systematic weapon designed to DESTROY US...FIRST... Our generational curse will not be broken... How many of you KNOW FOR SURE we serve a God of RESURRECTION??!!! How many of you know it's LIFE on the otherside of Death.. How many of you can FEEL GOD'S HAND over US while we as a people are on life support??
WE have a LEGACY of Greatness that starts with the HEART OF A BLACK BOY/MAN ... We MUST start with them FIRST... We can ALREADY see what happens when we DONT...gender wars...The trick of the enemy...
Laterras MIGHT NOT EVER fully grasp what Kingdom Royale's Legacy will be... He might just think it's just going to be a luxury home for Black Foster boys..
HOWEVER, I challenge you all to THINK OF THE MOVEMENT this will cause... For other BLACK MEN and WOMEN to do the same in JESUS NAME.. the RESTORATION that is being plowed in SUCH A FEARLESS and GENTLE PUBLIC WAY..
He (LRW) is the FIRST to the 11th hour worker...and he is SHOWING US HOW TO NOT COMPLAIN but have a HEART TO NEGOTIATE WELL on behalf of the others👏🏼👏🏼🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💨💨💨🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🙇🏽♀️🙇🏽♀️🙇🏽♀️ My GOD... SOMEBODY Gotta go first...
Somebody tag Somebody and say THE SAME GOD👏🏼👏🏼🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽...
Cause in the words of Mother Campbell...If he brought you to it HE GONE BRING YOU THROUGH... CAUSE HE'S THE SAME GOD!!!
I might be in here caught up in the spirit BY MYSELF....but guess what... IMA PRAISE HIM unapologetically...Im SO SORRY IM NOT SORRY...
We keep hollering bout reparations... WE'LL MAKE SURE YOU INCLUDE BLACK LOVE IN THAT MANDATE...
WE TAKING BACK EVERYTHING THE ENEMY STOLE FROM US!!! To include our KINGDOM ROYALTIES...AKA OUR BLACK CHILDREN... #KingdomROYALE
Aite Aite Aite...Im done... Yall have an AMAZING HOLIDAY now YOU HEAR?! LOVE YALL❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉😳😊🤗🤭🙏🏽
Wonderful episode as always.
👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽both episodes beautifully done enjoy the conversations
Great podcast, it’s good to hear the perspectives of those who have been married for a long time as well as those who are single. We need more of this!
Absolutely Awesome 👏🏾
I thoroughly ENJOYED. Thank you!!!
Shanta is so well spoken
I loved both uploads truly I learned so much and revisiting some ideologies I have
Your panels really never miss 👏🏾
That was such a great panel. Thankful of love, indeed.
Thank you! This blessed me. 🎉😊
This was amazing! Thank you for this! It further confirms my current relationship being on the right path. God led, growing and in purpose/intentionality together with effective communication.
Oh, this was gooooood!
Man this was awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Awesome, awesome,
awesome.
Thank you🎉
Laterras, I Thank God for your platform. May God continue to bless you and your ministry. You are such a blessing. I pray that God strengthens your voice.
Great episode. Honesty help us prevail over our weakness and make other stron where they would be weak or give up on. Praying for you Mr Whitfield..
This episode was EVERYTHANG❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Mama Campbell knows what up! Wisdom is spoken here y’all. Are you listening with your heart?
I subscribed ASAP. So much wisdom nuggets. I always tell people it is during illness that you can tell how your spouse loves you. The “ I can’t bear to see you like this “ is a lie and a cover up. If you love someone you will bear everything with them and for them. The two shall become one.
Thanks!
This is so good…. ❤
Thank you Mother Warren for praying and speaking i receive that for me also.
There were some good gems in here, although I wish the married couples expounded more on how they knew their spouse was “the one” Really felt like the older guy was dancing around the question lol
That and I didn’t really understand the like 5-10 min of collectively saying “kids these days get participation trophies” as if they are not the ones who created the participation trophies lol
Wisdom soooooooo real and transparency is healthy.
The intro...and I OOP!
Let me go finish Part 1 'fo' I watch Part 2!
Powerful Mama Campbell!!!!!!
🙌🏽
Whatever gifts that God put in a woman will align with the man's purpose and what he is in need of (help) and I believe that's one of the ways you will know
So much wisdom
Oh my goodness King, "general admission", Love it
#DFWpodcast one of the best podcast on CZcams ❤
This is good guys!
Them seniors Campbell's look great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love this episode, but everyone on the panel needs their own episode with the couples together.
Make a short on the highlights, please.
Hay, hay, hay DFW crew
Real talk!!!!!
This was a powerful episode. I didn’t agree in the Q&A the pastor lady saying choose her “pulpit “ over her husband .
Her ministry may be an Idol
Women pastoring is not Biblical. All things are permissible but not all things are profitable.
@@uncommonfavor674 I agree but that’s another subject for another day
She said the husbands walked away. Husband or not you can not shy away from what God is calling you to do. I think people idolize marriage above God.
I swear I love Shantae ❤😂
Yes Laterras I prayed against the Manisphere spirit all the time, even still.