// Pick A Card ~ 🤭 What Is The TRUTH Of This Connection? 🤭

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  • čas přidán 22. 08. 2024
  • ~ WELCOME ~
    I am The Hermit and this is my FREE tarot reading channel. Today we are asking Spirit about your connection / relationship / situation-ship...What Is The Truth Of This Connection?
    Lately, I've read a lot of comments about people who are not sure why certain people were brought into their lives or what the purpose their connection is. It seems we are all trying out best to elevate and be the best version of ourselves. My aim of this reading is to offer perspective, clarity, confirmation and guidance from Spirit.
    As always, I aim to offer you clarity, guidance and support on your journey through love, life and everything in-between.
    ~ TIMESTAMPS ~
    Group 1 - 02:07
    (SONG: Beautiful Wreck by MØ)
    Group 2 - 36:58
    (SONG: I've Been Waiting For Her by Mac Demarco)
    Group 3 - 01:08:09
    (SONG: NobodyLikeYou by Winston Surfshirt)
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    Love + Light

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  • @vincentmichaud609
    @vincentmichaud609 Před 4 lety +586

    The level of accuracy in this reading is ASTRONOMICAL

  • @thealignmentmovement
    @thealignmentmovement Před 4 lety +279

    To whoever reading this remember that you are a gorgeous being and your beautiful souls deserve the best from the universe. Lots of love :) you’re blessed

  • @jiyiqing7208
    @jiyiqing7208 Před 4 lety +66

    2, Control their emotions, words, and behaviors. True, disempowered my potential. Only take, never give. Make me realize what kind of love I truly want. Glad I made a decision to leave away, and never turning back.

  • @onionoilx4797
    @onionoilx4797 Před 4 lety +50

    Pile 2: the connection was exhausted, the highs were high, lows were low. She was kind of controlling and acted with a lack of maturity, taking so much for granted. She said she had never had this kind of deep connection before and didn’t know to to deal with it, it brought her fears sometimes. Now we have no contact for a month. I have other readings recently saying that if the connection comes back that person would have been through a transformation. Either way, I’m living more grounded now and truly feel that I deserve genuine unconditional love and would not take crumbs any more

  • @SageIsabella
    @SageIsabella Před 4 lety +33

    If you were apart of group 2 like me, I hope you all are getting through this healing and pushing through the pain of how fucking broken this relationship made us. Don’t go back. We have made it out to the other side and we are warriors. Hang in there guys. Much love to you all.

  • @mhow8059
    @mhow8059 Před 4 lety +64

    HE IS A VERY DAMAGED MAN.
    BUT I LEARNED. GOD HAS BLESSED ME WITH A KING. HE CALLS ME 20X A DAY, SPOILS ME, TAKES ME EVERYWHERE, LOVES MY CURVES, WILL DO ANYTHING, PUTS ME FIRST.
    THANKYOU GOD 4 NEW LIFE. IM WIDOWED. I HAVE CRIED FOR YEARS.

  • @evelynbdjdkxndabrego6529
    @evelynbdjdkxndabrego6529 Před 4 lety +105

    Pile 3: “Ooo some of y’all might be pregnant” who else’s heart dropped when she said that 😭💀💀like I hope not

  • @JP-gf3fs
    @JP-gf3fs Před 4 lety +96

    Group 1: I am beyond speechless. It was just like you were doing a personal reading tbh. Soooo mind blown.

  • @musewounded
    @musewounded Před 4 lety +121

    pile 3 ... God I want him. it has to be true. I wish I wasn't so eager

  • @shivaninaidoo2483
    @shivaninaidoo2483 Před 4 lety +160

    This was insanely accurate. It made me emotional. Like you were seeing into my life and validating what I had been gaslighted for 😔

  • @jirlie5787
    @jirlie5787 Před 4 lety +90

    Group 2 - oh my goshhhhhhh. I wish I could jump through the screen and give you a hug right now! Ive never had a reading that resonated with me as much as this one did. Everything you said either made me scream or shed tears because of the accuracy. I really lost myself in my last relationship. He constantly left me in the dark, gaslighted me, and overall made me feel like I didn't even exist sometimes. I always excused his behavior because he had an extremely rough childhood that still affects him till this day. I thought that I could help him overcome his demons. I thought that if I nurtured him enough and stuck by his side, things would start to look up for him. I turned his problems into my own and this weighed so heavy on me. He started to rely more on alcohol and thats when things started to take a turn. At one point in our relationship I asked him if he still wanted to be with me and he told me that he didn't know. Afterwards I asked him if he still wanted to be friends and he said that he didn't mind either way. Open ended answers that got me nowhere! So I took it upon myself to leave. As I look back, our relationship was a repetitive cycle of him leaving and coming back when he felt like it. The highs were really high and the lows were really low. I loved him so much and I still do. But I love myself more and I will always choose myself. I had my doubts that maybe I was being selfish. Maybe I should've stayed and helped him more. But I've learned that as much as you might want to help someone, you cant always do the work for them. They have to want to help themselves. I wish him nothing but healing and happiness. I will continue to work on myself and stand my ground. Thank you so much for this. This really gave me the extra boost of confidence that I needed.

    • @ME-cw2tj
      @ME-cw2tj Před 4 lety +5

      You did the RIGHT THING as you left!!!!
      TRUST THAT! And YOURSELF further even more 👍🙏💕💗🤗

    • @jirlie5787
      @jirlie5787 Před 4 lety +1

      Loco Poco thank you! 💕

    • @InNatureSpiritual
      @InNatureSpiritual Před 4 lety +1

      I got group 2 too! Glad you got out too! Glad to hear you are working on yourself. I am myself am one year and a month free of my narcissistic ex (yes I count it as a former addict would) and it's still hard and I still love him a lot. But I now see it was a soul mate that I had to learn a hard lesson from. And for that I am grateful. He is still coming up in readings even though I blocked him! Love, Light, and Strength to you!

    • @lunaluna5471
      @lunaluna5471 Před 3 lety

      Wow! You’re situation is exactly the same as mine!! But I’m still with him now and I’m thinking of ending it myself but I’m scared to do so and we also have a child which makes it even harder 😞

  • @ana__silva
    @ana__silva Před 4 lety +99

    Pile 3: everything resonated... In the beginning, when you talked about the sexual attraction, the fact that this connection never got the chance to evolve to something more, how draining and fast this all was and you even nailed it when you said that I spontaneously expressed what I felt. I started crying. And yes... I've grown so much because of this connection, that's how I started my spiritual journey. When he entered my life, I finally started to be confident and one of the things that I learned was that I deserve true happiness, so yeah... I've changed my perspective completely because of him. He entering my life was a blessing, either I end up with him or not. 🙏

    • @vaisriv
      @vaisriv Před 4 lety +5

      Exactly the same here. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼✨✨✨🌙🌙🌙

    • @kizumekojilee2255
      @kizumekojilee2255 Před 4 lety +5

      I became more spiritual because of him. Somehow it was a good thing that I met him. 😂

  • @elinwennstrom3267
    @elinwennstrom3267 Před 4 lety +48

    I never leave comments on CZcams, but, I. Am. Shook.
    Pile 2...
    I clicked on this video expecting to (snoop) gain some clarity about my crush. However, you just painted the "perfect" picture of my ex. He was an abusive, narcissitic, gaslighting man that robbed me of so much of myself and took away my freedom for way to many years. I tried to leave over and over. But it wasn't until I figured that he was cheating that he couldnt hold me back anymore - so I ran.
    I am healing now. I am really trying. I am truly thankful for the messages you were able to give from spirit, just watching this video was healing. I wasnt crazy, I have potential and I deserve more. Thank you♡

    • @therethouart
      @therethouart Před 4 lety +1

      Oh my god, I know! Sometimes I watch a pick a card/crystal/charm/whatever in hopes of gaining clarity on one connection and as times goes by I realise it's about another connection. Maybe because, unconsciously, I had that energy during that day. I get super confused and just try to tune in a certain "vibration", if you will, for more accuracy.
      And I feel you... Relationships like that can really take a toll on you. I too was in a damaged relationship previously, though in my case I think he wasn't the only one acting wrong. Either way, you deserve so much more.

  • @karlaruelas8894
    @karlaruelas8894 Před 4 lety +39

    Group 1, where you at? You are my people ✌🏼🙌🏼🎉 Literally my life story 🔥💓 all of it! Every single word! Wow! 🎉😝🙌🏼🥳
    🕊️I spiritually awoke, I've been moving faster than he has. We met unexpectedly, he came to my work and surprised me.
    😲 He seemed like he went from 0 to 60 mph in a second with his feelings and desires ❤️, and all of a sudden he stopped.
    🥺We stayed in very sporadic contact for a little over a year. I did date someone in between our separation, but I always had a strong pull back to him.
    🥰 In this past months we have communicated ☎️🤳more (all though "more" is a relative word 😝).
    ✨🏡 My life has completely changed, and he has come to visit me in my new home twice!! 🎉🔥 Which has been very beautiful surprises.🥳
    I thought I was already patient, but with this connection, I now know the real meaning 😉🙃 and I know Spirit is keeping us apart right now because, we are so firey 🔥 to the point that we can become obsessed with each other (all consuming) if we don't learn to self restrain ourselves.
    ✨💡🕯️I know my calling is in focus right now, and Spirit wants me to do light work to help others, and I was losing that focus.
    But I'm back on track with my mission 💓✨ and I hope and pray 🙏 this connection gets back on track and becomes grounded into reality (3D) because I long for him❤️🥺😶 all the time and it feels so beautiful 💗 I want to see this union through ❤️🌞🥳🤓😎

  • @solarstarlightt4259
    @solarstarlightt4259 Před 4 lety +41

    pile 1. so many things have happened since I’ve met him good and bad. I’ve changed a lot for the better and I can’t thank him enough. I just want to come in union but I trust divine timing💗

  • @carolinenewman3460
    @carolinenewman3460 Před 4 lety +119

    Group 2. That was bizarrely accurate. You would have chills if you knew the conversation i had earlier. I dont see him for who he truly is. I hold my hands over my eyes. And that message. Almost like he was saying it. "PATIENCE" ugh yuck. I love him and I thought trusting him was right. Why do I give of myself so. Here I am. Trample me. Maybe silence is best going forward. Also in the states. Just up coming back from the ER and terrible night and now I'm word vomiting. Lol timing was freaky

    • @amynussbaum5183
      @amynussbaum5183 Před 4 lety +3

      You know I had to comment. With me and my connection, it's been 20 years since I last saw him. Since January we have been talking via phone and text. A week ago he even told me he loved me right as we were hanging up. I froze...literally was speechless. My life is changing for the wow this is so good! I made a conscious decision 4 months ago to change my entire life, for me. I couldn't be happier. I sold my house and property within a week, told my husband I'm divorcing him, just altering my life. I've never felt so much more alive all because I'm doing the work for me. As hard as it is, focus on you. Believe me they are noticing. When the time is right (divine timing!!!) It will happen. Be well friend! Light and love!

    • @ME-cw2tj
      @ME-cw2tj Před 4 lety +1

      @@amynussbaum5183 LOVE YOU!👍❤💕💝🙏

    • @amynussbaum5183
      @amynussbaum5183 Před 4 lety

      @@ME-cw2tj aww Love you too! I hope what I'm saying helps.

    • @mitalighosh5011
      @mitalighosh5011 Před 4 lety +3

      Group 2. He does pick on young people

  • @jainetrindade
    @jainetrindade Před 4 lety +40

    Group 3: ...WOW, I don't know what to say, I needed to sleep after the reading because I was too shocked, and came back to comment! IT WAS LIKE A PERSONAL READING, I still shocked! Thank you soooo much for your work, you're AMAZING! ❤

  • @loveandmathematics99
    @loveandmathematics99 Před 4 lety +52

    Group 3. Scary accurate. We started talking on fb never met in person and I can’t stop thinking about him and it’s been months. I’m not someone who is in any lack of men interested in dating me...it makes no logical sense that I feel this strongly about him and I barely know him. Lol funny you said the message about the alcohol because he texted me telling me he loves me when he was drunk 🤣

    • @shubhangisaxena9137
      @shubhangisaxena9137 Před 3 lety +2

      Saaaameee situation!🙌🤣❤️

    • @aditigaur8459
      @aditigaur8459 Před 3 lety +1

      omg, each time he communicated with me after we broke up was when he was intoxicated. Each time he would say "I love you and I miss you so much and i'm sorry for messing up" and I understood that when you are drunk the truth did come out, but I wanted the sober version to tell me that. We are together now and lemme tell you our connection is so deep now, it's like we descovered each other all over again and re-fell in love!

    • @loveandmathematics99
      @loveandmathematics99 Před 3 lety

      @@aditigaur8459 awww I’m so happy to hear that!

    • @willedpower3291
      @willedpower3291 Před 3 lety +1

      Same we met in a fb group. He’s been nothing but a friend so far though.

  • @carladilisio4819
    @carladilisio4819 Před 3 lety +9

    Pile 3: "Ugh, I'm frustrated right now"
    WELCOME TO MY LIFE! Holy moly this is accurate! Image how frustrated I am with all of this. He's the one that didn't take the opportunity...

  • @Nothingstutube
    @Nothingstutube Před 4 lety +36

    Pile 2. I felt sick to my stomach hearing this. I know i needed to
    hear it. Thank you.

  • @GeminiGlitters
    @GeminiGlitters Před 4 lety +72

    Pile 2- that is hard to hear but glad I did hear it , Now while they’re not a bad person they did take a toll on me in some aspect . Felt like a god send but maybe not so . 😑

    • @farfetched9296
      @farfetched9296 Před 4 lety +5

      Don't feel bad Sis. You're not alone. Pile 2 chose me. It was a message I needed to hear.

  • @mckennas3139
    @mckennas3139 Před 4 lety +32

    Group 3 - thank you for the beautiful message and confirmation. My intuition always told me this was the one but others thought I was crazy for sticking around. We both have issues with communicating our feelings and have discovered we are twin flames. I was the one who told my feelings in past using alchohol and now I'm seeing they need to do same which is fine. We have been in seperation for a few months because they are still with karmic but we still communicate and I see a change in them for the better

    • @mckennas3139
      @mckennas3139 Před 4 lety +1

      @@kxlxy well i have heard several times listen to your heart and your intuition. I have my doubts sometimes but have to redirect my thoughts because I do know deep down what we have. Both of us agree we never had a connection like this before and when we see each other its intense. I always saw pictures on social media of them and karmic and made me doubt things but than starting noticing them text me when they were on vacation with the partner so you know that means they aren't happy. Just try to let go and trust the universe. If it's meant to be it won't pass you by. Sending you hugs!

    • @mckennas3139
      @mckennas3139 Před 4 lety

      @@kxlxy I am doing well. I hope you are too! I just heard it again to listen to your intuition/heart so that was definitely a message for you and me being i saw your comment this am. 😊

  • @barefootninja_
    @barefootninja_ Před 3 lety +8

    Group 3: I'm honestly shocked how a general reading can provide so many incredibly specific details. Mind blown.

  • @InNatureSpiritual
    @InNatureSpiritual Před 4 lety +189

    Group 2- why does my narcissist ex keep coming up in my readings even when I am asking about another person!?

    • @harshitaaa4602
      @harshitaaa4602 Před 4 lety +10

      😂😂 I hope you release it LOL

    • @amandaconstanza
      @amandaconstanza Před 4 lety +6

      I feel just like you, someone recommended me to have reiki sessions for karmic healing.

    • @sbxmusic
      @sbxmusic Před 4 lety

      SAME

    • @harshitaaa4602
      @harshitaaa4602 Před 4 lety +15

      Someone told me words are powerful! So, type it down in comments section saying that,
      I am and will release all karmic cycles and I'll have a beautiful, peaceful life! And I dont need a reason as to why. Simple! Period.

    • @TheJtheboss
      @TheJtheboss Před 4 lety +1

      Same

  • @emelinax9052
    @emelinax9052 Před 4 lety +18

    Pile 2... yeah just how you felt fooled over the letter is how I feel over the entire thing... resonates completely. Thank you for your time and clarity ❤️

  • @12120582
    @12120582 Před 4 lety +5

    Pile 3 So incredibly spot on!!! It’s been 2 years and he came back last week telling me he want an honest start, ho much he misses me. How he knows he hasn’t been the best person. He said he wasn’t ready emotionally. He no longer is scared of me, or himself. He has always loved me never stopped. He wants to prove his love to me and take the time to do what it is. It’s just insane, very single message.

  • @jc3566able
    @jc3566able Před 4 lety +17

    3. A long long waiting, hard journey. Worst of all, it’s hidden... thx wise lady.

  • @bridger5477
    @bridger5477 Před 4 lety +13

    #1 was scarily accurate for me. like damn she even mentioned a situationship, and this whole time i been like "i just want a relationship not a situationship" bruh😭

  • @bluebirdinthenightsky2491
    @bluebirdinthenightsky2491 Před 4 lety +121

    Number 2, he was absolutely evil, I wasn't even here for him I was here for someone else and he comes up again, stay back Satan LOL

    • @currancy8964
      @currancy8964 Před 4 lety +12

      Group 2 as well, the exact same thing happened to me. Wasn’t here for him but he’s sneaking slimy ass shows up.

    • @bluebirdinthenightsky2491
      @bluebirdinthenightsky2491 Před 4 lety +6

      @@currancy8964 get the sage out sis 😂

    • @currancy8964
      @currancy8964 Před 4 lety +4

      @@bluebirdinthenightsky2491 HAHA, seriously!

    • @nicolegiles1034
      @nicolegiles1034 Před 4 lety +1

      I picked the same as you! Hell and bk ten times over!

    • @DeeplyJenny
      @DeeplyJenny Před 4 lety +2

      Group 2 as well. I met the devil himself.

  • @EvaCteKnizky
    @EvaCteKnizky Před 4 lety +21

    Group 1. Great, great reading. Literally everything you said rang true. Good to know I'm not crazy and hysterical, still having him on my mind for no obvious reason.
    And all my life I have this urge to save the world and spread love and happiness and care. But first I need to save myself.
    I feel like I know now who I am much better than ever before.
    Also, I just found out the Chariot is my birth card.

  • @TayTayStar101
    @TayTayStar101 Před 4 lety +20

    Pile 1. So spot on! It’s like you looked into my life and read me personally.

  • @aylsc444
    @aylsc444 Před 4 lety +10

    Group 3. Omg! “I want to get you drunk is” sooooooooo accurate 😂😭

  • @marktr53
    @marktr53 Před 4 lety +36

    #3............... my Heart's crying

  • @lololhe1479
    @lololhe1479 Před 4 lety +12

    Group 2 and it was very accurate. Thank you for this reading, I’m more empowered now and I think I’ll have the guts to leave this connection. I can’t believe I ignored the red flags for 2 years now, this connection was draining me. He was an ex lover and a FRIEND that’s what it makes harder to leave. I’m 18 and young, I won’t let this kind of people to ruin my peace. Thank you.

  • @LuNa7xd
    @LuNa7xd Před 4 lety +19

    #2 Really accurate, most of the time I was confused because on one side he was super generous and kind and seemed genuinely in love, but on the other hand when he got drunk he had a really sharp tongue and ended up hurting me and our dogs in different ways. We started living together before the quarantine started and it caught me by surprise because he went to rehab and to therapy before all this started and I thought he was a totally different person than he was before (we broke up years ago but got back together in November). But he didn't tell me some important things that happened after we broke up like robbery and stuff like that. He painted an illusion of change and I fell for it because it really looked like he changed. But when the quarantine started he ended up drinking again and it spiraled downwards from then. He looked like a totally different person when he was sober, he would regret everything he had done and make up for it as much as he could but would end up drinking again at the end of the day and everyday was a loop of Dr Jekyl and Mr Hyde. I ran away from that house multiple times and somehow ended up going back again there. Until one day after all calmed down I decided to go back to my parents' house for a couple of days. Now I don't really want to go back even though we're not at a low point currently, all my stuff is there and I'm still thinking about how can I solve all this situation without hurting or getting hurt. I know I have to be more assertive and I learned a lot about speaking up and standing up for myself in moments of danger, now I don't really feel as insecure as I was before all this started. I know that I'm capable of surviving when my worst fears appear in front of me, I can fight back, negociate, run away and not let toxic people get inside my head anymore. I just need to close this chapter and move on.

    • @ME-cw2tj
      @ME-cw2tj Před 4 lety +3

      Yes, YOU ARE MORE THAN CAPABLE!
      YOU ARE SO VERY STRONG...., AND YOU SAW THAT ALREADY. You can now trust that and yourself 💯% 👍🙏😉

  • @dorsazamanian3269
    @dorsazamanian3269 Před 4 lety +9

    Group 3. My face in the first 3 minutes went 😳! This was so so accurate! I have no idea how you do it, but thank you. I needed this.

  • @fywhsmosn9932
    @fywhsmosn9932 Před 4 lety +10

    #3 This has explained my situation so accurately. I've been so drained and tired but I've grown. I'm ready for a more positive and balanced outcome. Also I LOVE the song it's perfect 💖

  • @fledglingrenn
    @fledglingrenn Před 4 lety +13

    Group 3 ; resonated like crazy, matched with the other readings ive had. I love that you tell it like it is,the good and the bad

  • @tereza7400
    @tereza7400 Před 4 lety +14

    Pile 1: This was very strong, powerful and even emotional! And it fits so perfectly! Spot on..... It is a truly challenging connection and a lot of patience is needed but I believe in it and I wouldn't want it any other way! :) Thank you so much! :) :)

  • @KartikChhabra-rr8zr
    @KartikChhabra-rr8zr Před 4 lety +36

    chose pile 1, saw 2:22 during the reading and you said the words: synchronicities and two during that as well. strongly feel pile 1 is for me

    • @KartikChhabra-rr8zr
      @KartikChhabra-rr8zr Před 4 lety +2

      also i saw a lot of syncs 1010, 44, 303

    • @KartikChhabra-rr8zr
      @KartikChhabra-rr8zr Před 4 lety +1

      after the words part i saw 33:33

    • @amynussbaum5183
      @amynussbaum5183 Před 4 lety +2

      Yes the numbers...lol...totally seeing all of them...13...every single day without looking!!!!!

    • @KartikChhabra-rr8zr
      @KartikChhabra-rr8zr Před 4 lety +2

      @@amynussbaum5183 yeah mass spiritual awakening is happening and everyone is being guided by the divine 💫💫

    • @amynussbaum5183
      @amynussbaum5183 Před 4 lety

      @@KartikChhabra-rr8zr it's absolutely wonderful. I'm beside myself with a stern spirit!

  • @julie3722
    @julie3722 Před 4 lety +33

    Pile 3: It's definitely me who hasn't taken the option but that was all too fast and occured out of nowhere and let into a complete emotional chaos. I haven't ever been in such a chaotic situation with anyone in such a short time which also stopped unexpected. It was a shocking experience.

    • @julie3722
      @julie3722 Před 4 lety +1

      @@muskandhargave71 I didn't take much time. He was talking about a genuine relationship on the second day what is way too fast. This whole situation isn't explainable cause it went weird from the start. Emotions were running wild since we started talking and it ended also after one month out of nowhere as he said he just wanted to be friends. We met only time. There was no time who get to know each other in any proper way. I wasn't actually also not ready for going immediately into a relationship who I don't know. Inspite of that I just ended one before.

    • @julie3722
      @julie3722 Před 4 lety +1

      @@muskandhargave71 same. I had no text via text with him over 8 months but it's not all on him. I was texting him before an overload of what I am thinking and feeling and some days ago I decided to delete everything cause I felt stupid writing someone so much about my inner world. I still have the feeling me meet or he will write some day. Till then I will focus on myself.

    • @therethouart
      @therethouart Před 4 lety +2

      Same! In my case it wasn't chaotic per say but it was intense and super unexpected! and I feel the previous comments so much, I don't like to bother people too much so I seem like I hop off the wagon when in reality I didn't 😅

    • @julie3722
      @julie3722 Před 4 lety +1

      @@therethouart Exactly intense! Intensity can lead you when two intense people meet to an emotional roller-coaster which appears on as chaos. Don't worry. You don't bother. It's nice you are sharing your experiences with othersI like to share my experiences. The world need more communication and interaction. 💙💙💙

    • @therethouart
      @therethouart Před 4 lety +1

      @@julie3722 Exactly. I didn't expect it at all, I had broken up with someone for some time and was just focusing on myself and all of a sudden comes this interesting and intense individual so I tried to keep my cool but I guess it was a bit too much control. 😅
      We still talk from time to time but I feel my energy a little off and I thought it was intuition or something telling me he didn't want it so that influenced my communication style. Ever since a bit before our quarantine. And we can't exactly meet.
      And thank you for the reassurance! 😌 Lord knows how communication is important in amidst all that has been going on. Been worried about everyone out there and been feeling super drained lately.

  • @kalenaaa
    @kalenaaa Před 4 lety +9

    Group 2 absolutely resonated!! I oddly appreciate when you say things like “I’m nervous” or “I hope this is right”, because I get those feelings all the time when I read and it gives me confidence that it’s okay to feel like that sometimes💜

  • @janetdebeer6092
    @janetdebeer6092 Před 4 lety +6

    Group#2 - thank you SO much, it was 100% spot on.
    My take - you can only become a queen, after learning the lessons as a page and you can only become an empress after learning the lessons as a queen.
    Lots of love💗

  • @izzlebizzle
    @izzlebizzle Před 4 lety +6

    wowwww pile 3 is SO ON POINT!!! all of it was soo accurate. you are the most accurate and thorough reader I have ever come across and i have watched a lot. thank you soo much!!!

  • @athenatheshewolf
    @athenatheshewolf Před 4 lety +6

    #3. What I love about your readings is that you go in depth and explore all the facets instead of leaving us high and dry, and I really appreciate that. So many readers leave us hanging, I feel you deliver full messages and answer all the questions. Thank you so much, please never change the way you read :)

  • @AnuVaisanavy
    @AnuVaisanavy Před 4 lety +14

    Pile 1. I have never resonated with a tarot reading this much ever. Thank youuu ❤

  • @devinefemininetarot
    @devinefemininetarot Před 4 lety +10

    OMG... group 2... I rejected him first, then he rejected me when I realised that I had feelings for him👀 we were stuck in a cycle for sure, we were never on the same page... he’s always one step ahead me... he’s selfish and controlling, left me in cold all of a sudden and moved on with another girl 😂 it was a massive relief when I released him. I felt so much happier and peaceful. He tried to reach out again few days ago on his birthday but I didn’t pick up his call. I am certain that I don’t want him in my life anymore. ❤️ he’s god sent to teach me that he is something I don’t need in my life

  • @revelinmockglory
    @revelinmockglory Před 4 lety +9

    Picked pile 3 and it resonated so much. We never got the chance to experience the “3D connection” because he is still with his girlfriend (he doesnt know that I know) and I’ve been very confused about our connection! Thanks for the clarity ❤️

  • @user-nh7ll3qp2o
    @user-nh7ll3qp2o Před 4 lety +44

    Pile 1
    You: “i don’t want this to be a 40 minute reading”
    The reading: 40 minutes 😂

  • @HiThereLove16
    @HiThereLove16 Před 4 lety +10

    Pile 3. Thank you. This was the clarity I was looking for all along, I cried at a couple points. I appreciate you taking the time to deep dive into the message. It was very enlightening and now I'm almost certain of the circumstances surrounding this situation I've found myself in lately.

  • @sperm69
    @sperm69 Před 4 lety +16

    I swear this felt like a personal reading....I chose pile 3

  • @joannadaniowicz6022
    @joannadaniowicz6022 Před 4 lety +11

    Group 1 resonated so strongly I started crying. :D thank you for that reading!

  • @vaisriv
    @vaisriv Před 4 lety +6

    #3
    Why did I get tears in my eyes when you said "You deserve a happy ending"? My Karmic Sagittarius ex cheated on me and this reading was for my Cancer DM, who is a runner. I hope I find my happy ending too.
    I have decided to let him go.

  • @kaydabear9487
    @kaydabear9487 Před 4 lety +6

    #2 Thank you. Thank you. During the first part of the reading I was actually wondering if this was really for me or not. Then you said " They gave you a clear idea of what your future should look like.". Honestly I lost it. 😭😭😭 I needed to hear that from someone else besides myself. Validation I suppose it was. Then i rewatched this and really listened. So spot on. The entire thing. Thank you for this. I wish I could hug you. 🌻

  • @nikkinicole1266
    @nikkinicole1266 Před 4 lety +2

    #3 resonates. Thank you. :)

  • @tanyasinha7469
    @tanyasinha7469 Před 4 lety +9

    Tarot readings, in a way, unify us with our similar experiences in life regardless where we all are coming from or where we truly belong! Kudos to everyone who survived the most hurtful experiences in life!! 🙏🏼 .. God has it’s own way of teaching us lessons we all require, i just wish things were little less hurtful though.. But anyways, may God continue to guide us all 🙂 ❤️ 🙏🏼

  • @lilnikky
    @lilnikky Před 4 lety +14

    Group 2. Everything was spot on. Thank you so much for this reading. Was with a sociopathic abusive alcoholic so trust me never going back! Thank you again! 💕

    • @kristylei2439
      @kristylei2439 Před 4 lety +3

      same here.. alcoholic and gambling addiction.. but always put on a mask that he's perfect and show you love, and reject when it's too close. Playing game.

    • @lilnikky
      @lilnikky Před 4 lety +2

      Kristy Lei girl don’t I know it. I’m so sorry that you had to go through something like that. I would never wish that upon my worst enemy! If you ever want to chat or trade stories let me know! You’re amazing and strong!

    • @muncealopez2747
      @muncealopez2747 Před 4 lety

      Yes

  • @fairawenplays727
    @fairawenplays727 Před 4 lety +3

    Pile 2 - You know, I've been a tarot reader for over 15 years now, and even still, I sometimes think, "Nah, maybe all of us are just seeing what we want to see. I watch a lot of pick-a-pile readings about the guy I'm interested in, and they're all so positive... maybe we're just projecting."
    And then I get this reading. And it's about my ex-husband, who I've been stuck living with until the pandemic decides to wrap up. Wow, the accuracy. It's so like him to get defensive, even during a reading! It's hilarious in a way. I feel much better after hearing all this. It's been hard to move on, there was so much codependency. I'm still working on it, and I still will until I'm living in my own place. But this gave me hope and confidence that I have the strength to move on. Thank you.

  • @leroygreeneii7477
    @leroygreeneii7477 Před 4 lety +2

    Picked #3...yea...resonated. Seems to be the situation very closely but we did have some thing in 3D...and I do hope for success. Especially the parts on communication, timing...very much resonated. Thanks for the reading!

  • @tia2484
    @tia2484 Před 4 lety +2

    WOW. Group 2 SPOT ON. thank you so much

    • @tia2484
      @tia2484 Před 4 lety

      AND he does have an alcohol problem and covers things up instead of dealing head on. Same with how we ended. And all that is left is healing and keeping the benefits you kept talking about!!!! lol we planned a life in another city, sold house, bought land, built house quit jobs, and he left me here the last week at my job. I'm still here, hes there, we visit one another for the aforementioned 😉 & this answered so many of my questions. Wow wow wow. Thank you.
      Btw, if I wouldn't have stayed, I would have never had the privilege of meeting my new coworker who is also on his healing journey..I hope when we are both healed, with the connection we have, hes the next one to step in. Sounds crazy, but I wish you could do a spread over that too.

  • @sparongi
    @sparongi Před 4 lety +4

    Group 2. I originally asked about one person, but as soon as you started talking I KNEW it was my ex. Everything you said was completely accurate..he did gaslight me constantly, he was narcissistic and I started crying when you mentioned picking someone with potential and essentially draining them. Yep. He was a master at portraying himself as a victim and never taking responsibility for his actions. I was the one who finally ended the relationship and ultimately had to go no contact because he kept trying to get a reaction from me so that he could feel that he was back in control. Thank you so much for validating every thing that I thought had been happening. Your reaction to the message afterwards was dead on...he could be a complete ass then act like he loved me so much and would convince other people that he loved me.

  • @aylsc444
    @aylsc444 Před 4 lety +5

    Group 3. Soo true 😭 he has a girlfriend and now they’re pregnant but i wish them nothing but happiness

  • @dinspired460
    @dinspired460 Před 4 lety +1

    Pile 3- spot on!

  • @hithere3627
    @hithere3627 Před 4 lety +9

    Card #3 - me and my ex were in on and off relationship. And yes - the sexual expression never truly expressed from my side. I always felt somehow like a block from him.
    Even though there was alot of passionate and i truly loved him. I just never felt like i could connect to him, or feel comfortable around him.
    4 years weve been on and off
    And now with a baby 8 months old ,and finaly decided to breakup for good
    Just felt like it drained me so much ..
    It felt like the connection was taking away all of my energy .

  • @Amy-it7rk
    @Amy-it7rk Před 4 lety +3

    Group 3 This resonates and the person is avoiding me. I feel rejected and not worthy of love. If this connection was supposed to show that it did the opposite. I'm so confused.

  • @farfetched9296
    @farfetched9296 Před 4 lety +3

    Pile 2 was so accurate it gave me chills, goosebumps, tears, smiles just a mix of emotions like how he left me...but I'm working my way out of the heartbreak. We were intimate which caught me off guard. I told him to bounce because I didn't want cycles with him like 2 previous relationships. He is a prideful years younger than me man. I'm 10 years his senior he turned me into a little school gal. He came off like a Pharaoh literally. But I paid attention. He's a weird one. He rather lurk in the shadows and watch me. I'm not one for games. I changed my number and left town. I still feel his energy. I'm constantly aura cleansing and bathing but he's a very strong being psychically it's annoying. I just want to move on and not be reminded. Wonderful read even if it was painful I respect the truth of staying strong and moving on....

  • @Megan-gb5pj
    @Megan-gb5pj Před 4 lety +2

    Group two - This has me in tears. My last relationship ended in a massive inner battle where I did NOT want to listen to my intuition while it was screaming at me that there was something better and more aligned for me in the future if I just trusted what my body was telling me and took time to learn how to be alone. I just didn't want to have to do the work.
    It not only made me realize what I don't want in a partner, but it made the image of the life that i am manifesting crystal clear.

  • @olipoo123
    @olipoo123 Před 4 lety +4

    Pile 2. I had actually come to this reading thinking about a completely different person, but the moment you started talking, something told me that it was her. I dont know how, but i guess the energy from the situation was strong enough to make me pick that certain pile. As everyone else is saying, it is scarily accurate. This connection for me was something i held onto for the longest time, and disregarded any negative aspects of it. Now that its over, everything is starting to clear itself up. Their behavior, their fakeness etc. It is strange how blind i was to it. It might have been my strive or loneliness that resulted in being in a toxic friendship with them. Thank you for this. I have deleted my messages that i sent them because they arent worth my time. You have made my night. Bless you.

  • @ltacoach7650
    @ltacoach7650 Před 4 lety +4

    Pile 3... initially it was so passionate and then outta nowhere I was friend zoned which I didn’t accept. 9 months of not talking she came back only to try to friendzone me again and say there was no spark! Another 6 months no contact and she has come back again but ‘friendzone’ is still playing out so I don’t understand why she keeps coming back to have it rubbbed in my face that she is dating other people and denying any feelings for me! I feel like I’m on a roundabout with nothing changing in them.

  • @beelin3820
    @beelin3820 Před 4 lety +5

    I claim #pile3! This was so accurate. I’m blown away! Everything you said resonated. Especially the advices from the spirit. I’m letting go of the expectations and timing of our connection. I am prioritizing myself right now. Working on empowering myself and channeling my inner strength. I’m giving myself the love and respect that I truly deserve. I’m no longer afraid to check people who wronged me and to clap back to put them in place. I am protecting my energy whenever he’s around. I know he misses the way I used to be so chatty and silly with him. But he got himself a gf during quarantine. So, I’m giving him all the space he needs and then some. 😊 He needs to make a decision. Because I’m not chasing after him. 😂 Thank you for such a great reading! 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️

  • @ana891
    @ana891 Před 4 lety +7

    pile 1 was absurdly accurate! now imagine my face when you said “archangel RAFAEL” cause that’s my person’s name!!!!

  • @KARMAROSSO
    @KARMAROSSO Před 4 lety +5

    #1. Twin Flame situation over here. I was hoping it was not getting confirmed. Thanks though, you are really good at what you do.

  • @mankosdream6138
    @mankosdream6138 Před 4 lety +5

    pile 3: THE ACCURACY IN THE FIRST TEO CARDS ALONE WAS SO SHOCKING OMG he was dating this girl i didn’t like and we were good friends at the time. we both confessed this year after he came back abroad. gonna finish the reading buT HOLY MOLY

    • @nefarious_n.i.c8755
      @nefarious_n.i.c8755 Před 4 lety +1

      WOW!! That is TOTALLY the same situation I experienced with my person! OMG!! I met him when we were like in our early teenage years and I became best friends with his older sister, while creating a close friendship with him for years and years later we finally got together. Crazy similar. LOL

  • @laurena7409
    @laurena7409 Před 4 lety +6

    This is the most brilliant reading. I really needed to heard it. Pile 2 really resonated.
    One of the most painful things I have ever been through but it made me so strong and taught me self-love.

  • @z.284
    @z.284 Před 4 lety +1

    Pile #3
    It was on spot. Everything you said was true!😶and I was just wow! How?!😂😐you're amazing

  • @Theonethatgotaway-dk4tu
    @Theonethatgotaway-dk4tu Před 4 lety +6

    Group 3: I resonated with every single word you said 🤯 when you said that you admired them from afar you felt like you couldn’t be together its because we met 2 weeks into his new relationship with someone else... even the deceit card plays into that as well i walked away because its the right thing but I can’t stop thinking of him

  • @thewordiac8911
    @thewordiac8911 Před 4 lety +35

    #2 I'm so confused what the heck 😂 A lot of what you said rang true. Personally I haven't witnessed this person being narcissistic, the opposite actually, but definitely feel as though he's wearing a mask. He's been wounded in the past so I've been understanding but I'm tired of this hot/cold energy. I've been throwing so much time and energy into this connection and it didn't get me anywhere lol. It's like you said, this connection made me understand what I really want in a connection- I want someone who's able to be vulnerable, a person who's dependable... not whatever this is 🙄

    • @smileyguerrero1969
      @smileyguerrero1969 Před 4 lety +1

      Pile 1😊 im SAGG,,,, RESONATES😊❤️ THANK YOU,,,,
      STAY SAFE❤️

    • @alextarot
      @alextarot Před 4 lety +1

      Well then be vulnerable toward #2person and dependable for them, cuz you are currently not. What you give is what you get. It's a Cosmic law.

    • @thewordiac8911
      @thewordiac8911 Před 4 lety +3

      @@alextarot True, but I have. I've been there for them when they needed me, reached out and also shared my own fears and doubts... I'm not saying this connection hasn't helped me be vulnerable (cause it has), but it's not offering the balance I need right now- and why keep screaming at a wall? I'll look elsewhere thank you very much 💜

    • @alextarot
      @alextarot Před 4 lety +1

      @@thewordiac8911 you're screaming at the wall bcs you don't get that whatever bothers you about them is what you need to fix and change within yourself. Twins and divine counterparts are given for our healing and they work as a mirror. When your hair is messy, do you comb the mirror or your head?
      Just saying..

    • @skorpiosunrising7041
      @skorpiosunrising7041 Před 4 lety +3

      Similar to me, but I feel we both had problems opening up, lots of fears and triggering and we didn't trust eachother. It's sad because it could have been beautiful but it was like a missed opportunity because we couldn't be vulnerable with each other

  • @clairefinch3110
    @clairefinch3110 Před 4 lety +3

    Pile 1 WOW Hermit!!! WOW!!Unbelievably resonate!! It was exactly like a personal reading!! Example: The FIRST two cards out were my person and me, Scorpio and Pisces, (Death and Hanged Man) everything that followed was spot on, yes, this relationship is risky, no we cannot be together at this time, yes, we were both forced into deep, deep personal growth and healing. Four year journey so far, mostly in separation. Feeling so strong, open to whatever Spirit has next!! Thank you and God Bless You!!!🙏🏻💙

  • @pennystarshine
    @pennystarshine Před 4 lety +1

    Hi lovely. Crystal picked 3 Resonates. So glad I found your video. Have subscribed . He is a Sagittarius I am a Pisces. Knew him from 2004 to 2006. We worked together. He was in a relationship. Found out we were twin flames in 2016. Other outer worldly things happened .We didn’t engage we were friends. Gave me mixed messages. I am older than him. I left my details. I love him unconditionally.so spot on I have surrendered to this journey. Thank you. 🔥🔥💕

  • @angelgr76
    @angelgr76 Před 4 lety +2

    #2 So accurate! When you said that you felt like you had been fooled, that's exactly how it made me feel! Great job!!

  • @annstewart4542
    @annstewart4542 Před 4 lety +37

    Congratulations on getting 20,000 subscribers. You are really good. Glad I recently discovered you.

    • @TheHermitTarot1
      @TheHermitTarot1  Před 4 lety +3

      Thank you so much! And welcome to the community 😊🙏🏽💖

  • @szendrich
    @szendrich Před 4 lety +4

    #3: OMG, you're so good! You've just read my situation to a Tee. This is a work connection for me, but so strong I just couldn't let it go. Exactly as you say. It kept pulling me back even though this person rejected me, then ghosted me, never responding to my communications except via his assistant. I couldn't quite understand why this was so important to me, why this person in particular. I'm glad it was reciprocated because I haven't seen any emotion in 3D. It has indeed drained me. Almost two years I've managed to hang on to it, because my gut was telling me that he was the right person for me. And, yes, it has to do with my abundance and career success. Thank so much for the validation. I can understand why he will come over as cold in his first communication. He'll want to sound professional, no doubt, especially if he has those kinds of feelings for me.

  • @gugunkosi4351
    @gugunkosi4351 Před rokem

    The fooled you felt when you opened the letter is how I felt at the end of the relationship 😅 working on healing and slowly but surely will get there

  • @KiranPaul20
    @KiranPaul20 Před 4 lety +1

    Group 2 here. Totally accurate reading. Wow wow wow! This connection was whirlwind and barely lasted 3 days. It felt very fated or karmic. I'm still reeling from its after effects. Can't believe it happened. Your reading helped me put things in perspective and not blame myself for what happened. Thank you so much.

  • @nishivasnik2838
    @nishivasnik2838 Před 4 lety +5

    Pile 1 - this is exactly what I want to confirm 💜

  • @b.j.h.1706
    @b.j.h.1706 Před 4 lety +3

    Pile 3. Thank you for this. I hope he shows up because we've been in No Contact mode for months.

  • @ileanamat4113
    @ileanamat4113 Před 4 lety +2

    Pile 3...thank you ✨🌞

  • @rupachimarak2782
    @rupachimarak2782 Před 4 lety +2

    Pile3...Woah!!! U were spot on!! The reading was for me.. I needed to hear that from u... I never got clear reading from any other readers... U R right we never got a chance to bring our connection to the 3d world.. It was still in the 5d..BTW, it was divinely guided.. I had never met him in person... Didn't even know him before i was told by God in my dream that he is the one whom He made for me....He told me his name... I was still clueless and was just patiently waiting for somebody with that name...and then one day he texted me,when i saw the msg i was shivering i didn't what to reply to him but then somehow i managed to reply to his msgs.. We started talking after few days and i told him about my dream.. I think he was intimidated with the intensity of our connection.. He has a strong sexual desire towards me... We both couldn't stop thinking about each other but at the same time he was giving me a lot of hot and cold energy ... I was very patient beacuse i knew my patience were required to make it work... He was trying to divert his feelings towards others ...but i could feel his desires and feelings towards me...and i could tell his thoughts too.. he was doubting me i guess and was not ready commit to the connection but still i was patient with him until one day he when he told me about his physical connection with other girl... Well, i could've just kept quiet and walked away because we weren't in a relationship...but i couldn't tolerate that...it was too much for me... I realised that i need to set the healthy boundary between this connection to regain my self respect and value myself.. So, i shut him down...asked him to delete my no. And not to call me or even text me anymore.. I tried so hard to forget about him but i can't, i even tried to distract myself with others but the more i tried the more i was pulled towards him.. I know he feels the same way towards me... No matter how hard he tries he can never distract himself from me... I can feel his energy...i know he will be back beacuse we are meant for with each..I don't doubt my Spirits, my Angels and the Universe anymore... I'm just patiently waiting for him... I will not even try to distract myself becuse that is pointless... Thank you so much for your reading💓 and God bless u🙏

    • @rupachimarak2782
      @rupachimarak2782 Před 4 lety

      Even the other readers said that i will get happiness from this connection and that we have a happy ending😊.. i claim the universe my happiness in this connection🙏

  • @Angela34
    @Angela34 Před 4 lety +16

    3, thank you. WOW. Fire & patience, we can’t see each other due to coronavirus. We both felt the connection. One didn’t feel it right away- yes ungrounded energy, connection. No expression! This all wasn’t expected. Confusion. Someone didn’t take the offer given to them- hiding emotion... maybe in the future- Yea... afraid of others opinions.. was guided to help me that I deserve love, grace, abundance. I’m aware & thank you Sister. I don’t hide - I want to show him off to the world... sigh. No balance w him & I. We are the Ying & Yang. Unexpressed, yea can’t go on. Inadequate-communication. I’m changing my perception- yep. A new opportunity coming. The uncertainty of our connection is draining me. I love him but he is scared. Hard to stay positive. I’m carrying the connection. Secrets to be revealed very soon... I’m not loosing faith. Hot & cold ending- action is coming to me- his mask is coming off. He is choosing to go w energy instead of his head- but isn’t totally clear. Will take time to communicate w me. My time of being single will be come to an end, he will offer his heart eventually. He needs more time. Yes our future will change to be together. He was intimidated by me- a new opportunity in love, when we do come together. I’m intense... I never stop thinking of him. Sigh. He also w me. He has tried to get away the more he gets closer to me- I can see this. Advice: door to value, I’ve surrendered the connection to just be. Yep! Be patient with myself- yes always to continue to learn. Expect the unexpected.... ok. 6th chakra- it’s open & clear. What is shifting: deceit- expression, sacral chakra the need to come together. Continue on my own happiness- do t put to much pressure on the connection w him, just mine. My person to tell me: Yes he’s coming, he is working on himself. I know. He is ready soon. He wants to make up for what he has put me through- his past made him the way he was w me, but he’s learning to heal. He misses me- planning to see me, almost ready. I told him I would wait. He appreciates me doing so- I know. He thinks about me a ton- I know. Me too. Lol alcohol involved w the setting... hahahaha! 2 of cups he wants a future but wants to have it right, he values me. He has a ton of integrity! I’m proud of him- & love him unconditionally. The song... nobody like you. 13, 17, 111.... yes this is all true. He’s watching me blow up- he’s told me, and he’s timid but not.
    THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH SISTER ❤️❤️

    • @princesschanel469
      @princesschanel469 Před 4 lety +1

      You have a beautiful name btw I love the name Angela❤I hope you get everything you want someday

  • @demwyyy888
    @demwyyy888 Před 4 lety +5

    Wow Pile 2 is so accurate .. thank you so much

  • @Manuela-dq9yc
    @Manuela-dq9yc Před 4 lety +1

    Well..well..well. #2. That is my child's father. Not sure why he decided to show up. We have not been together for 4 years. Something must have happened on his end. BUT very accurate. Still working on finding myself again. Narcissist. I am just mad at myself for not seeing it. I am to old to fall for it. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ but here we are. Lessons learned. Made it. He manipulated so many people.. it will all catch up with him one day. Guess something is coming for it to show up now. I know why too. Appreciate the heads up. Thank you💖💖

  • @crystalmason829
    @crystalmason829 Před 4 lety +1

    Pile 3 yes I been patiently waiting

  • @karennmaee
    @karennmaee Před 4 lety +4

    i chose group 1, and i honestly had to pause the video like every thirty seconds to react to the ACCURACY. giiiirl, this reading might as well have been my personal reading😅😂

  • @rebeccafarquhar5502
    @rebeccafarquhar5502 Před 4 lety +3

    Group 3. Thank you for a beautiful reading. It’s been a bit of a roller coaster ride!

  • @anlolol
    @anlolol Před 4 lety +1

    Group 3. It’s crazy how all your readings links together

  • @geniebeanie6988
    @geniebeanie6988 Před 3 lety

    Pile 2 is so spot on. I just ended things with the most manipulative person I’ve ever encountered. Two weeks of his gaslighting was enough to make my head spin.
    Very thankful for the strength I have to get out so quickly and see right through that b.s.

  • @nikkibrillante6626
    @nikkibrillante6626 Před 4 lety +11

    #2 He gaslighted me and he was an air sign. Gemini, narcissist, deceitful and controlling.

    • @shaymaamahmoud6739
      @shaymaamahmoud6739 Před 4 lety +1

      SAME. I can´t ever look at Geminis the same. So many bad experiences, and then this one took the cake.

    • @zehrazeee136
      @zehrazeee136 Před 3 lety

      For me I'm a Gemini but my case aquarius is narcissist and lying making mistakes and projecting his insecurities on me and making my life miserable I'm so broken but just trying to heal

  • @Rose-gf1se
    @Rose-gf1se Před 4 lety +64

    Can you please do a third party reading? 🥺🥺 like if you should wait for them or move on BECAUSE FOR SOME REASONS IM UNABLE TO MOVE ON. And i love u so much ur readings are the only ones that resonated so far ❤️❤️

    • @marianneformento9830
      @marianneformento9830 Před 4 lety +4

      I can relate to you hnngg

    • @redefinedliving5974
      @redefinedliving5974 Před 4 lety +4

      I suggest Myria shes so good too and adoras light

    • @TheHermitTarot1
      @TheHermitTarot1  Před 4 lety +20

      I second this suggestion - both beautiful readers! 😊 I personally will never direct a reading to inform you to wait or stay in a connection but I do understand how complicated 3rd party connections are. I will always aim to offer as much clarity and guidance from Spirit as possible so that you can make an informed decision for yourself 💖🙏🏽

    • @charlottebradshaw9735
      @charlottebradshaw9735 Před 4 lety +3

      @@TheHermitTarot1 there is third party situation and most of your reading do suggest but I understand u don't label that for our own good however if u can provide guidance for third party situation it would be blessing darling 👌🙏🙏
      Thank u love
      Sending u so much lovely and gratitude energy 🌹🌻🌹🌻

    • @chriszenith5238
      @chriszenith5238 Před 4 lety +2

      Yes third party situations will be awesome...I loved your reading again as always n I'm pile 2😆😆

  • @mermaidcirianneaqua
    @mermaidcirianneaqua Před 4 lety +1

    Pile 2 - cannot express how accurate this reading was. Tears were shed, everything you said was true. I called him my guardian angel and I saw him as a huge blessing from God. In the last few months of my relationship with him, we just kept going on this cycle where he constantly brought up the past (when he accused me of cheating on him) and where he shamed my line of work. It got to the point where I thought of quiting but I had to remind myself that it was what I wanted, and im just glad that I managed to not quit my job since I love what I do. He gaslighted me, and basically made me feel that I was the reason why he was hurting and feeling stressed, and why he was doing poorly in his classes, even when I made the effort to help him do his work, or even do it for him sometimes. Before we got into a relationship, I was very love negative, and he changed that, which is why I was awestruck when it came to him. He was definitely in control of all his emotions and actions and words, and he definitely put up that romantic image, while I was completely blinded by his manipulative and narcissistic actions. I definitely lost what small ounce of self-worth I had back then, as well as my identity. He was my first love too, and we were together for about a year and a half. He made me feel that I couldn’t live without him, and that he was all I ever needed. Even though he broke up with me, im so grateful to be free. Its been nearly a year since we parted ways, and I’m living my best life rn. Ik for a fact that I will never go back to him for he lost me. Im currently loving myself and I’ve never been more free to become who im meant to be.
    Thank you so much for this reading. There is so much more that I could say but I think ive said enough hahaha. I have never had more accurate readings since I came across your channel. This really hit home, and im just gobsmacked rn at how accurate everything is....

  • @crystalm3th573
    @crystalm3th573 Před 4 lety +1

    PILE 2 :
    Thank you for confirming! *Emotional and generous sometimes, but controlling, talks down to me to feel right, defensive, isn't emotionally aware, his heart was empty and he needed me meaning codependent, which was fine by me because I thought I'll be patient, but on top of everything, he was selfish and arrogant. Also, very sexually drawn to me, wanted me to be with him ALL THE TIME.*
    I've reached a point in life where few conversations let me know what someone is all about. When he argued and fought, I stayed calm because I realized I was talking to someone with pain and IMMENSE pride in his heart.
    I literally told him "It's either your way or the high way isn't it?". It was emotionally taxing.
    I felt bad about leaving and I DID CARE A LOT for him,, what I had was unconditional and genuine and giving, but I had to. The connection although unique and strong, it was unhealthy, he was everything that would drain someone as giving as me.
    After leaving, I told myself I'll never go for someone who dictates my life choices and makes me feel like I need them to feel happy.