6 Clear Signs A Woman Thinks You're Good Looking

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    We’ve all been there before, you’re talking to someone you like and you can’t quite tell if they’re flirting with you or just being friendly. You might feel this uncertainty when talking to someone you’ve just met, or maybe with someone you’ve known for a while but have trouble reading. Either way, in this video we’ll go through 6 subtle signs you can look for to figure out if someone is attracted to you.
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    0:00 - Intro.
    0:49 - #1: Watch for preening.
    2:21 - #2: Pay attention to a drag or lingering touch.
    3:18 - #3: Focus on frequent, unnecessary little touches.
    4:29 - #4: Look for the direction someone points their body.
    5:42 - #5: See if they lean their body towards you.
    6:48 - #6: Notice the "smiling eye dart".
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  • @Carlos1234jfk
    @Carlos1234jfk Před 3 lety +13874

    I got 2 things out of this:
    - Be Craig Ferguson
    - The girl I like doesn't like me back

    • @kanekowalski4715
      @kanekowalski4715 Před 3 lety +161

      So change it, buddy.

    • @allmusicplays
      @allmusicplays Před 3 lety +71

      One more day another world of possibility

    • @lungs808
      @lungs808 Před 3 lety +193

      "Dont worry boys we will get them next time"

    • @notakebaks
      @notakebaks Před 3 lety +50

      Honestly, Craig is a snacc

    • @sly11benal7
      @sly11benal7 Před 3 lety +26

      On to the next prospect friend. Confidence n just relax, be urself. Wear nice cologne. Usually separate urself from the pack. Something fresh clean unique....

  • @timesink8947
    @timesink8947 Před 3 lety +19515

    My wife has given me two kids and I'm still not sure she's attracted to me.

  • @user-es8zy9zr7t
    @user-es8zy9zr7t Před 16 dny +515

    There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

  • @pl1676
    @pl1676 Před rokem +143

    Pointing body is actually a sign of being interested, not attracted, but it is similiar and ofc if someone is attracted to you does also means is interested. But one can be just interested but without any attraction. Leaning towards someone while laughing means being friendly to that person and also trusting that person. Not necessarily physical attraction, but I do kinda agree about it in the basics - being friendly and trusting someone often corelate with attraction towards that person. Eyes darting / peeking at someone, is usually the the most accurate and significant indicator of pure physical attraction.

    • @thevegastan
      @thevegastan Před 10 měsíci

      Yeah that's what I totally too.

    • @MrBeetsGaming
      @MrBeetsGaming Před 2 měsíci +1

      Reading body language is pseudoscience and everyone on the internet thinks they're an expert in it....

  • @emptyhusk150
    @emptyhusk150 Před 3 lety +23614

    She pushes you onto her bed and starts undressing. Is she into you?
    Well, you can't really tell.

    • @Ntnt11
      @Ntnt11 Před 3 lety +2377

      She gets down on her knees and begs you for your seed. Is she into you?
      Cant really tell.

    • @RheaPatranabis
      @RheaPatranabis Před 3 lety +883

      It's true. You can't tell with women

    • @riseALK
      @riseALK Před 3 lety +578

      @@Ntnt11 seed ... you watch too much porn.

    • @alexnickolaev
      @alexnickolaev Před 3 lety +654

      Does she do it to you more often than to other friends of yours?

    • @MariaL-ib4gw
      @MariaL-ib4gw Před 3 lety +581

      Casually explained, am I right;)

  • @celine_marie
    @celine_marie Před 3 lety +13738

    This is in reality a compilation proving that practically everyone is into Craig Ferguson

    • @Bunndog
      @Bunndog Před 3 lety +549

      All living things are into Craig Ferguson

    • @720pGoatSoup
      @720pGoatSoup Před 3 lety +882

      And I don't even know who he is.

    • @trungcao1021
      @trungcao1021 Před 3 lety +80

      It's true, love him

    • @RoselineJerryA
      @RoselineJerryA Před 3 lety +95

      dont know who he is but I'm in love

    • @mdntctyvlcn
      @mdntctyvlcn Před 3 lety +41

      Craig Ferguson has good taste.

  • @shinom0ri
    @shinom0ri Před rokem +253

    Every once in a while I wory that people might like me and that I'm just not picking it up.
    I'm very greatful for videos like this confirming that I am not missing anything. ;)

    • @tedarcher9120
      @tedarcher9120 Před rokem +3

      And you end up being right, I call that a win-win situation

    • @Decently.kinkyy
      @Decently.kinkyy Před 2 měsíci

      Pseudo science mainly. Anyways, just ask if they are, easy to do for you or no?

    • @WasReallyDoingYourMom
      @WasReallyDoingYourMom Před 7 dny

      I doubted it then 2 years later I overhear her friend say she was interested

  • @pstuddy
    @pstuddy Před rokem +20

    0:45 gal gadot was so adorable right here. the stare, the smile, the lip bite, and then that typical “uh oh someone might catch me” bashful lookaway stare to the ground gaaah ❤

  • @jacobvaughn1683
    @jacobvaughn1683 Před 2 lety +3923

    Honestly, a girl could do every single one of these, and I’d still be like, “But does she actually like me?” - I’ll always second guess it.

    • @loyalpanda4890
      @loyalpanda4890 Před 2 lety +45

      FR

    • @ohhhhhhmygodbecky
      @ohhhhhhmygodbecky Před 2 lety +66

      There's no shame in just asking her out

    • @phaestor
      @phaestor Před 2 lety +28

      If she is pregnant, she might be trying to frame you with someone else's child. If you are wealthy she could also be trying to frame you for sexual abuse. Best to have her sign some sort of legal document where she clearly states her intentions.

    • @demukazz
      @demukazz Před 2 lety +12

      Yeah, right! I like then they don't respond at all after me asking was it teasing or more.

    • @Sleepless4Life
      @Sleepless4Life Před 2 lety +67

      That's why I make it a point to get straight to business if I'm really into her. Can't say my success rate has ever been over 25% with this method, but at least I know where we (and by "we" I mean me) stand. It clears up lots of misunderstandings and confusion.

  • @PhatKat77777
    @PhatKat77777 Před 3 lety +5429

    Lemme just watch this and delusionally convince myself someone is actually into me real quick

  • @Moultdog
    @Moultdog Před 2 lety +72

    A really good sign that I never see talked about is when someone maintains eye contact while taking a drink, especially if they are smiling while doing it. You actually see some of this in the video. It shows they are completely engaged and don't want to allow that momentary interruption even though they are literally blocking part of their face. Another one that is blatantly obvious most people miss is when someone tries to isolate you from the group. A lot of times when we are interacting we won't notice subtle, often unintentional, manipulations to get one-on-one time with you. It could be as overt as touching someone's arm or elbow or back to move them away from others or simply leaning a certain way, etc. It is most often realized in retrospect and/or pointed out by an observer, which could be another sign because why are THEY watching you. It is all a massive convoluted dance of human interaction made all the more complicated by romantic inclinations. Unfortunately there are some people out there that will do these things just to get you to engage to make themselves feel better or look better to their friends. I saw this happen a lot working bars for several years across multiple states and yes it also happened to me. Always take these kinds of things with a grain of salt when you're dealing with people who depend on your support, like people in the service industry or salespeople or entertainers or politicians, etc. They are automatically attempting to get you to like them and engage with them for self-preservation.

  • @suaptoest
    @suaptoest Před rokem +41

    Only when married does a man know what is true happiness .
    But then it's already too late.

  • @iForix
    @iForix Před 3 lety +2293

    "We've all been there before"
    *Sure...*

    • @Bolter024
      @Bolter024 Před 3 lety +37

      ikr..

    • @Batman-bh6vw
      @Batman-bh6vw Před 3 lety +69

      One second in and I'm already feeling personally attacked.

    • @dianeaishamonday9125
      @dianeaishamonday9125 Před 3 lety +25

      "We've ALL been there before"
      Only a Sith deals in absolutes, Charisma On Demand!

    • @youwaisef
      @youwaisef Před 3 lety +17

      *Yes I dream in my sleep too*

    • @guillermodolla4776
      @guillermodolla4776 Před 3 lety +5

      I came looking for this coment hahahha

  • @thedrasc1465
    @thedrasc1465 Před 3 lety +4154

    Some of these clips had so much chemistry that I felt like an intruding third-wheel watching this 🤣

  • @messemphanger
    @messemphanger Před rokem +75

    Don't forget the aura, you can "feel" it when talking to someone the chemistry between you two.

    • @burgundyjayde
      @burgundyjayde Před rokem +6

      OMG yes I feel it with this guy I know

    • @tracksmanbeats1467
      @tracksmanbeats1467 Před rokem +8

      Facts bro!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 energy doesn’t lie

    • @livingcontradiction2249
      @livingcontradiction2249 Před rokem +14

      But then again, as a man, you can't really know.

    • @Classickoolcars
      @Classickoolcars Před rokem

      Best feeling EVER…🤣🤣👍

    • @the_sin.is.ter_9528
      @the_sin.is.ter_9528 Před 9 měsíci

      And here's I am who's struggling with the "chemistry" subject, very especially the "organic" one, and then the "inorganic" one😴😴

  • @user-up1sc8br4d
    @user-up1sc8br4d Před rokem +5

    How great it is to not only hear but also to see what you're telling us
    Great examples, thank u!

  • @hel2727
    @hel2727 Před 3 lety +1593

    You've been married for 70 years, have 9 children, 6 grandchildren, 4 great-grandchildren and 8 dogs.
    Are they into you?
    Again, you can't really tell.

  • @rickysmith923
    @rickysmith923 Před 3 lety +3981

    Girl: does all these things
    Me: she’s probably from Canada and is just being polite

    • @Alex-sr7xu
      @Alex-sr7xu Před 3 lety +143

      She probably just thought you were Craig Ferguson

    • @jacksbackable
      @jacksbackable Před 3 lety +10

      Are you telling me that people from the only country with forced speech are polite........!? Doesn’t seem to go together, you’ll have to excuse me! 😎🏖🌴☀️🇦🇺

    • @Maqalx
      @Maqalx Před 3 lety +25

      They did not get the reference lol 😂

    • @jeffpro8
      @jeffpro8 Před 3 lety +17

      From my experience, Canadians aren't that polite.

    • @nishie.e
      @nishie.e Před 3 lety +5

      @@jeffpro8 maybe they just didn't like you or weren't in a good mood.

  • @florianpierredumont4775
    @florianpierredumont4775 Před rokem +70

    > wants to spend more time with you.
    > voice tone changes when she talks with you.
    > likes when you compliment her, isn't afraid of physical contact, through hugs and kisses on the cheek, front and hands.
    > never let you down, refuse to let you talk bad about yourself. Asks you to "remotive" her too, and hugs/kisses you when you do, so you can build a link of affection.
    > wants a sit close to you at the dinner table.
    > isn't afraid to put a hand on your arm or leg, openly or with discretion.
    > keeps the said hand on your arm/leg for a moment, asking for your reaction.
    > let you touch her hand in return, play with her palm, caress her skin, and eventually, unites fingers with yours for a few minutes before you signal her that you need your hand back.
    > looks at you in every occasion, for a moment, smiles brightly, and gives you a compliment. Many times.
    > give you advices or ask you directly to put something off, or back, because "it makes you more attractive with(out) it."
    > laughs a lot to all you are saying, agrees with you, asks you to repeat what you already told her lately, so you can have conversation.
    > eyes are shining. Brightly.
    Her besty : gives us obvious clues that we both SHOULD go a little bit further.
    My besty : gives me signs to carry on and go further, such as wide open eyes and thumbs up.
    > in the end, thanks you for all you did with/for her, acknowledge your qualities (also gives you a list of said qualities), and says she is proud to know you, and eager to know you more in the future.
    Thank you, girlfriend, for these moments. Those were the best weeks of my life.

    • @sidr8920
      @sidr8920 Před rokem

      :(

    • @mayo_nnais3
      @mayo_nnais3 Před rokem +1

      I complimented a woman and she liked it. Is she into me?

    • @FlamingCockatiel
      @FlamingCockatiel Před 11 měsíci +4

      This is a sweet comment.

    • @GenXMafia
      @GenXMafia Před 7 měsíci +3

      I had to go rub one out after reading this....

    • @happygoat2867
      @happygoat2867 Před 7 měsíci +1

      and what do I do if I want to kiss her and she rejects me

  • @kirosmatavastros
    @kirosmatavastros Před rokem +3

    I always do lingering hug, be it love interest or a friend or even another guy - just because it's the most enjoyable type of hug to a receiver.
    There is no other motivation, then being the king of enjoyable hugs.

  • @alexandermallinckrodt2847
    @alexandermallinckrodt2847 Před 3 lety +2892

    What I take from this - Craig Ferguson is a player.

    • @josephm6719
      @josephm6719 Před 3 lety

      @Ozymandias Heliogabal Nullifidian Egad...

    • @josephm6719
      @josephm6719 Před 3 lety +1

      @Ozymandias Heliogabal Nullifidian heya!

    • @kdawg5427
      @kdawg5427 Před 3 lety

      I'm 666th like

    • @shiv_ring
      @shiv_ring Před 3 lety

      @Ozymandias Heliogabal Nullifidian "Jedem das Seine" is German for "To each his own."

    • @kishanchali8752
      @kishanchali8752 Před 3 lety +5

      @@paulogorris18 no one would notice him if he wasn't a celebrity

  • @jbratt
    @jbratt Před 3 lety +4312

    If a girl farts really loud in front of you and laughs, it means she is comfortable around you.

    • @ballkicker2391
      @ballkicker2391 Před 2 lety +154

      lmfao

    • @gustavofring4363
      @gustavofring4363 Před 2 lety +361

      I wouldn't want that to happen near me tbh😂 no matter how good we connect... If she farts purposely when I'm in the room, I'm out

    • @trendingstories8922
      @trendingstories8922 Před 2 lety +176

      it means she doesn't care about your feelings

    • @Sleepless4Life
      @Sleepless4Life Před 2 lety +75

      Yeah... about that. She might be into me, but I'll defo not be into her after that if you catch my drift.

    • @user-qe5uv1cj1x
      @user-qe5uv1cj1x Před 2 lety +45

      *snifffffff*

  • @icomment2226
    @icomment2226 Před rokem

    Thanks! I probably need to binge these kinds of channels. Whenever I see a girl smiling at me, I run after her.

  • @matthewbittenbender9191
    @matthewbittenbender9191 Před rokem +5

    Take preening with a grain of salt. I've seen a lot of girls twirl their hair or touch their face out of anxiety or nervousness. But touching is an excellent sign, almost a green light.

  • @mitchfindergeneral
    @mitchfindergeneral Před 3 lety +3519

    6 Subtle Signs Someone Feels Attracted To You
    1. You are Craig Ferguson.
    2. You are Craig Ferguson.
    3. You are Craig Ferguson.
    4. You are Craig Ferguson.
    5. You are Craig Ferguson.
    6. You are Craig Ferguson.

    • @AiyaJ
      @AiyaJ Před 3 lety +18

      FACTS

    • @Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733
      @Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733 Před 3 lety +10

      Dude is like Gator from The Other Guys

    • @Hallelujur
      @Hallelujur Před 3 lety +12

      He's a creep. 😤 And the women are mostly responding to his constant flirtatious energy towards every female guest he has. 🙄😷

    • @alexiberthe2574
      @alexiberthe2574 Před 3 lety +1

      Bonus : Craig Ferguson is who you are

    • @moka1251
      @moka1251 Před 3 lety +1

      thank you this helped so mcuh ❤

  • @Simon9Mr
    @Simon9Mr Před 3 lety +4062

    The most important thing women love is sincerity. Be very sincere.
    If you can fake that, you've got it made.

    • @theamadan429
      @theamadan429 Před 2 lety +55

      HA!

    • @adrianchandler7853
      @adrianchandler7853 Před 2 lety +56

      Nice! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @justinosborn1105
      @justinosborn1105 Před 2 lety +12

      Haha

    • @blueberrycobbler
      @blueberrycobbler Před 2 lety +175

      Except when she discovers that the sincerity was a lie and you were being manipulative, then you’ll truly find out what is the most important thing to women…honesty. Good luck.

    • @oregondude9411
      @oregondude9411 Před 2 lety +59

      Fake sincerity? Isn't that an oxymoron?

  • @edwardprice140
    @edwardprice140 Před rokem +1

    The most beautiful eye contact ever is the video of Anita Carter looking at
    Hank Williams 1952 singing I Cant Help It.

  • @roadrunner2658
    @roadrunner2658 Před rokem +3

    It’s a blessing and a curse. It’s relationships have always been struggle a struggle for me. “Beautiful people never know who to trust”

  • @Matuchin0
    @Matuchin0 Před 2 lety +1171

    She turns her body in your direction, laughs and leans over towards you, grabs your arm and doesn't let go until the very last moment, constantly plays with her hair and checks you out, hugs you and won't disconnect, gives you the smiling eye dart... Is she into you?... yeah again, you really can't be too sure, it's too dark in the room so she can't really see you properly.

  • @serpentphoenix
    @serpentphoenix Před 3 lety +1687

    Just so you guys understand. Body language is not magic, but it is a lot like Occlumency and Legilimency from Harry Potter. If you know what the body language for flirting are, it can also be faked by someone just to pretend that they have a interest in you for whatever reason. They can also learn to be self aware of their body language and mask them before acting in a way.
    Salespeople, actors and politicians are generally extremely good at this and I'm quite certain they fake it while in public. It really comes down to practice and constant interaction with people, watching their cues, etc.

    • @eliopalombi
      @eliopalombi Před 3 lety +65

      Oclumency? Harry Potter? MARRY ME

    • @NoblesseOblige-17
      @NoblesseOblige-17 Před 3 lety +41

      I have an inkling that Jesus Christ might be attracted to you.

    • @kungfuman82
      @kungfuman82 Před 3 lety +118

      People joke that this channel is a goldmine for sociopaths (paraphrasing, of course) and, while it is humorous, there's probably a bit of truth in it.

    • @vincentlucena8335
      @vincentlucena8335 Před 3 lety +83

      @@kungfuman82 There's definitely some truth, but I feel like most of the charm developed by people with anti-social disorders comes from experience or is just a result of their illness.
      I feel like psychopaths and sociopaths lack the feeling of anxiety so they come off as charming due to their confidence

    • @kookiefly
      @kookiefly Před 3 lety +2

      I think you've got such a good point! Ppl should also take these things into account.

  • @LoraIee
    @LoraIee Před rokem

    Always great to see Craig. It is amusing when people try to turn this into a science. This part of life is a puzzle.

  • @dal_allen
    @dal_allen Před rokem +5

    I trusted u 😭, the way my friend look at me is the same way u said that she secretly loves me, so I told her how I feel about her & that I know she likes me from the way she looks at me…
    Now she said she doesn't wanna see me for the upcoming million years 😵

    • @Newbro-fk9xe
      @Newbro-fk9xe Před 2 měsíci +1

      Is that true?

    • @dal_allen
      @dal_allen Před 2 měsíci

      @@Newbro-fk9xe so true bruh, I'm still single 🤧

    • @Newbro-fk9xe
      @Newbro-fk9xe Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@dal_allen u must'vs gotten it wrong big time or she was playing with yo

  • @ImmortalGirl
    @ImmortalGirl Před 3 lety +376

    People can ask to sleep with me and my insecurities would be like "naah they just being friendly"

    • @jbratt
      @jbratt Před 3 lety +10

      You had 69 thumbs up. It made me laugh so I hit the thumbs up and ruined it.

    • @peripheralparadox4218
      @peripheralparadox4218 Před 3 lety +9

      When I’m getting a head job I just assume she’s super friendly.

  • @aevsol
    @aevsol Před 2 lety +1061

    Signs person is attracted
    1. Preening: (fixing, standing straighter playing) is subconscious
    2. Pay attention to a drag or lingering touch
    3. Focus on frequent, unnecessary touches
    4. Look where the person orientates his body
    5. Person is leaning towards you
    6. Person looks at you, smiles and looks away

  • @Adonis.D.Prince
    @Adonis.D.Prince Před 10 měsíci +1

    It's been years since I last upgraded my personality. This channel is really adding some DLC to my brain.

  • @flamingmonkeyxii
    @flamingmonkeyxii Před rokem +7

    All this time I thought I was bad on picking up on signs of flirting. Turns out just no one was flirting with me!

    • @charles2241
      @charles2241 Před 7 měsíci

      Those inebriated tend to do more sketchy things. I like how they make such a big deal out of women grabbing his leg, when the perv puts it out there specifically for them to do that. I mean, what do they have? Their chair, themselves, and his leg, there's not much else to do. It's so fake.

  • @JoeWagner21
    @JoeWagner21 Před 3 lety +938

    I've concluded nobody has ever been attracted to me.

    • @cecilyerker
      @cecilyerker Před 3 lety +10

      Now who’s fault is that

    • @JoeWagner21
      @JoeWagner21 Před 3 lety +109

      @@cecilyerker God

    • @windmill4581
      @windmill4581 Před 3 lety +41

      Cecily Erker definitely not his. Do you think he just controls who is attracted to him? You’re the same women who cheats on a dude and says “it’s your fault for not liking me enough”

    • @Caine61
      @Caine61 Před 3 lety +41

      @Cecily Erker It’s your fault. Apologize.

    • @LeonBosset
      @LeonBosset Před 3 lety +12

      Hilarious post! Yet somehow, I find myself unable to laugh.

  • @PowerMatrixAnime
    @PowerMatrixAnime Před 3 lety +593

    One sign: she qualifies herself to you. If you tell her that you like responsible/smart/charming women, she will start finding ways to hint at it, either overtly or covertly like telling a story.

    • @Carlos1234jfk
      @Carlos1234jfk Před 3 lety +21

      That's brilliant. Gonna try this

    • @HenryCejudoTripIeC
      @HenryCejudoTripIeC Před 3 lety +2

      Sherloid Bai hello from the dark side

    • @arraikcruor6407
      @arraikcruor6407 Před 3 lety +12

      Men do this too!

    • @LeonBosset
      @LeonBosset Před 3 lety +7

      So you tell her what qualities you like, and she will attempt to manifest them to you? I've been doing it wrong all this time, trying to figure out what she wants.

    • @glossbaus2128
      @glossbaus2128 Před 3 lety +27

      I have instances where men do this too. Usually the person who is interested would ask you what qualities you are looking for.. you answer them and suddenly they are trying to "qualify" themselves to you..

  • @d.e.b.b5788
    @d.e.b.b5788 Před rokem +6

    Thank you for teaching men how to understand when girls are interested. Far too many men are absolutely clueless, and no matter how many times a girl gives them attention, they absolutely miss it entirely.

    • @kjones7270
      @kjones7270 Před rokem +7

      Because woman play alot of mind games, so that man is now safeguarding himself from future games

    • @deathrager2404
      @deathrager2404 Před rokem

      why dont youjust open your worthless mouth and straight up TELL US you like one of us? ya women and your mindgames are exactly why everyone is single.

    • @S.P.01
      @S.P.01 Před 9 měsíci

      Women have to make it easier and more obvious. It doesn't have to be some puzzle Men should fix in order to get it. All the games can be avoided.

    • @lavatr8322
      @lavatr8322 Před 4 měsíci +1

      These could mean everything OR nothing
      Training a pigeon is easier than understand a woman

  • @Freakwave26
    @Freakwave26 Před rokem +1

    7:00 Aaaahahaha the trap he set for her and the dirty smirk afterwards are so golden.

  • @funkymonkeylovin
    @funkymonkeylovin Před 3 lety +1248

    Two takeaways from this:
    1. Be Craig Ferguson
    2. Don't be me.

  • @Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733

    Lets take a moment of silence for those of us that get zero of those signs..

    • @sly11benal7
      @sly11benal7 Před 3 lety +2

      Loll come on bruh. Go to a bar(s) n flirt with bartenders/waitresses. See what happens. It's easy...

    • @Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733
      @Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733 Před 3 lety +62

      Sly11B Enal Those are the last people that want to be hit on. They just pretend to be nice for tips

    • @sly11benal7
      @sly11benal7 Před 3 lety

      @@Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733 not true...lol I guess different worlds.

    • @mreverybody1150
      @mreverybody1150 Před 3 lety +2

      Some signs of attraction last only a millisecond..Ive noticed them before.

    • @User-rz7de
      @User-rz7de Před 2 lety

      Lol

  • @tony853
    @tony853 Před rokem +2

    Thank you for this video, I now realized that my 5 year long crush never liked me. It was just simple eye contact. It was all in my head. Don't listen to the voice inside ur head.

  • @jimmybutler7202
    @jimmybutler7202 Před rokem

    Great vid!!! But I've never actually seen any of these signs directed towards me!!!

  • @MisterPol
    @MisterPol Před 3 lety +502

    Focus on improving yourself before you can help others. It's just like in an airplane, you need to put your own oxygen mask on first before you can help others put theirs on!

    • @MisterPol
      @MisterPol Před 3 lety +17

      And thank you for inspiring me to get into self development!! ❤️

    • @venetiancopper6032
      @venetiancopper6032 Před 3 lety +4

      True bro

    • @tensae4725
      @tensae4725 Před 3 lety

      Kathan Jani do you watch Alpha M too ? Because I’ve seen this guy there.

    • @rickybobby9840
      @rickybobby9840 Před 3 lety

      Shoutout logic

    • @johnny2x459
      @johnny2x459 Před 3 lety

      @@MisterPol most stoopid comparison example I have ever read I mean the oxygen mask in the plane.

  • @SmellMyKnee15
    @SmellMyKnee15 Před 2 lety +251

    A lot of guys are so clueless i prefer to just tell a guy if i like him. It’s so much easier to live life this way lol

    • @waynepayne9875
      @waynepayne9875 Před 2 lety +99

      Thank you I wish all women would just tell us because if we assume you like us and you don't we end up looking like creeps

    • @JV-ty6iv
      @JV-ty6iv Před 2 lety +22

      That's impressive. Kudos to you

    • @timm8998
      @timm8998 Před 2 lety +4

      Usually there is a reason why guys are clueless :D

    • @leomduffy794
      @leomduffy794 Před 2 lety +2

      Thats unheard of at least now and days. Fr

    • @SmellMyKnee15
      @SmellMyKnee15 Před 2 lety +1

      @@timm8998 why! I want to know. Sometimes I’m just like damn. WAKE UP!!!

  • @pebcak
    @pebcak Před 2 lety +9

    A girl liked my Instagram post. Should I propose to her?

  • @mitchkania8457
    @mitchkania8457 Před 3 lety +590

    I love the Gal Gadot face when she realizes she’s on camera and shouldn’t be pining over Pine.

    • @sharonyang3927
      @sharonyang3927 Před 2 lety +72

      Intended or not, I love that you chose the wording "pining over Pine"

    • @TranslatedAssumption
      @TranslatedAssumption Před 2 lety +44

      I would lose it if Gal Gadot was interested in me, mega crush here.

    • @epbrown01
      @epbrown01 Před 2 lety +6

      I feel bad that she will never live that down, but it really was adorable. :-)

    • @ceoofracism206
      @ceoofracism206 Před 2 lety +1

      🥁 🥁 tsssss

    • @makidtrej
      @makidtrej Před 2 lety +22

      @@epbrown01 Why bad? I mean let's be honest: if Gal was not married, she'd totally be dating Chris. If anything i kinda feel bad for her husband.He is considerably less attractive than Chris and It must have been really awkward for him to see that interview. I mean, let's be frank: no one likes to see our s.o. looking at someone else that way. And tbh, he might have a small doubt (at least i know i'd be wondering) if something might have happened behind the scenes between them.

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid Před 3 lety +379

    If you don't go after what you want, you'll never have it. If you don't ask, the answer is always no. If you don't step forward, you're always in the same place.
    -Nora Roberts

    • @FromDkWithLove
      @FromDkWithLove Před 3 lety +50

      You're absolutely right. I need to step it up. I need to watch much more anime. 48 hour binge session here I go!

    • @exaygeetee9454
      @exaygeetee9454 Před 3 lety +4

      100% .... There is brilliance in boldness.

    • @mrkiky
      @mrkiky Před 3 lety +20

      If you're standing on the edge of a cliff, you can do worse than staying in the same place, jussayin....

    • @dakedakinson64
      @dakedakinson64 Před 2 lety +9

      I did that, got restriction orders.

    • @Hey-ey9jn
      @Hey-ey9jn Před 2 lety +7

      I did that, got nothing.

  • @lynic-0091
    @lynic-0091 Před 11 měsíci

    "in times of social distancing"
    You just triggered my ptsd 🤣🤣

  • @TanvirAhmed24
    @TanvirAhmed24 Před 3 lety +899

    Unfortunately, it's impossible to know whether or not someone is attracted to you. People might also feel attracted to you, but choose not to act upon it. The best thing to do is enjoy yourself and trust the right person will notice and ask you out. Flirt a little with the people you're interested in and see what happens.

    • @fullmetalalchemist471
      @fullmetalalchemist471 Před 3 lety +3

      Yep!

    • @jessmith7324
      @jessmith7324 Před 3 lety +53

      Agreed. Everyone feels attraction to others even when in relationships. If thats the case, they wont normally do anything but enjoy the moment of'he's/she's cute'

    • @ashleedugan2875
      @ashleedugan2875 Před 3 lety +33

      Definitely agreed. I've been aware of these things for a long time (open body language, touch, eye contact, etc.) and used that knowledge to actively do the opposite to hide my attraction. They're decent indicators of someone who wants you to know they're attracted to you, but they're not tell-alls.

    • @FromDkWithLove
      @FromDkWithLove Před 3 lety +3

      Feels like this ought to be common knowledge, but it's a nugget of wisdom all the same.

    • @mworld2611
      @mworld2611 Před 3 lety +2

      A man of wisdom

  • @mcfly9175
    @mcfly9175 Před 3 lety +563

    When no one does this to you lol

  • @JustinBarzak
    @JustinBarzak Před 10 měsíci +1

    This channel has taught me through many videos that Craig Ferguson is just killing it with women

  • @guillervz
    @guillervz Před rokem +2

    I had never considered the standing straight as preening. It makes a lot of sense. Now I know why the girl I like was so standing like that when I first saw her after a long time.

  • @simonsheridan5906
    @simonsheridan5906 Před 2 lety +314

    “We’ve all been there. You’re talking with someone you like and you’re not quite sure if they’re flirting with you...”
    Have we?! 😂

  • @srandres
    @srandres Před 3 lety +214

    Watching this not to tell when someone is attracted to me, but to know how to express my attraction to someone else.

    • @colescalisthenics
      @colescalisthenics Před rokem +13

      Interesting pov

    • @giuliar2539
      @giuliar2539 Před rokem +5

      Same

    • @snarkygnome619
      @snarkygnome619 Před rokem +3

      I try to learn these to convey subliminal signs of attraction that neurotypicals would maybe understand better than I would.

    • @facundosoler2200
      @facundosoler2200 Před 11 měsíci

      It's not gonna work. They're not gonna pick it up lol

  • @IAmTheSupremeEmperorOfFails

    I’m currently saving my money as I’d really like to go through charisma University, wish me luck guys my goal is to start working extra hours and in the next 5 weeks I’ll be joining up

  • @reckszkingzactivitiesrkat.4134

    This list is accurate for sure 🔥

  • @HamzaALASLI
    @HamzaALASLI Před 3 lety +225

    When she keeps laughing at your repeated terrible jokes

    • @Loguer
      @Loguer Před 2 lety +5

      I mean, I do that...

    • @arcturus4762
      @arcturus4762 Před 2 lety +8

      When she supports your military expeditions and your devotion to the empire

    • @thebeyonder4961
      @thebeyonder4961 Před 2 lety

      @@arcturus4762 idk the empire is pretty chill

    • @deathrager2404
      @deathrager2404 Před rokem

      @@arcturus4762 nd then yougo out on a mission and she bangin yo bestfriend.

  • @paft
    @paft Před 2 lety +121

    Attraction is tricky. A person could be attracted to you, but is aware of potential signs and doesn't want to show it, being self-conscious and trying to avoid the signs. Like a hug for example...intentionally pulling away quickly. I've done it.

    • @ShalomSimplified
      @ShalomSimplified Před rokem +19

      Right, I've done it, too. In fact, shaking his hand rather than hugging him. Literally no one, as far as I could ever tell, figured out I had a crush on him, him included. To this day, only two people know, and only because I told them. Not that I never gave a single sign, but someone would have had to have ben deliberately studying me to ever catch it, and it would have still been so vague that they likely wouldn't have gotten it.
      But typically, if someone is hiding it that much, there's probably a good reason. In my case, it was because he already was courting someone else!

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq Před rokem +4

      @@ShalomSimplified Correct! Appearances can be deceptive. Let yourself be genuine. Walk by faith (and love), not by sight. Also participate in creating the good that you want to come about; Don't just passively rely on giving or sending signals.

    • @Anna-yw8yg
      @Anna-yw8yg Před rokem +4

      Exactly. If you're into body language like some people are then most likely they will do the opposite if they don't want their feelings to be known or if they're embarrassed or shy about it

    • @MrParkerman6
      @MrParkerman6 Před rokem

      ...except if they are willing to hug at all, they probably like you.

    • @paft
      @paft Před rokem +2

      @@MrParkerman6 Hug was a bad example. But some people are like that, or touchy by nature and yet it doesn't mean anything. It isn't always black and white.

  • @jordansrhoads
    @jordansrhoads Před 2 lety +4

    5:13 To be fair. This could also be her trying to put as much distance as possible between her and James Cordon.

  • @Ivantheterrible81280
    @Ivantheterrible81280 Před rokem

    Craig is underrated in terms of how smooth he is.

  • @kleeblattchen38
    @kleeblattchen38 Před 3 lety +115

    She literally tells you that she likes you. Is she into you?
    Well, you can't really tell...
    she might be just joking around you know...

    • @user-wi1hl2hx3r
      @user-wi1hl2hx3r Před 2 lety +4

      Damn, he’s right

    • @rustyhowe3907
      @rustyhowe3907 Před rokem +2

      I had this once just for them to tell me they were joking just to make me awkward, now I'm dating their ex and guess who's gonna get invited to the wedding?😈

  • @mauler5858
    @mauler5858 Před 3 lety +823

    Im a dude, and full disclosure I'd look at Henry Cavill the same way too.

  • @SGOrion86
    @SGOrion86 Před rokem +2

    Always been bad at picking up the signs. Been told it on numerous occasions. At least I have a few things to look for now 😂

  • @SaniyaSachinm
    @SaniyaSachinm Před 9 měsíci

    Thanks for this video it will help me.

  • @CaseyBurnsInvesting
    @CaseyBurnsInvesting Před 3 lety +315

    This is the channel I needed in High School.

    • @zonkentshangase4419
      @zonkentshangase4419 Před 3 lety +4

      But i have it in highschool

    • @ratsass7201
      @ratsass7201 Před 3 lety +1

      If it were not for covid then this would be perfect timing for me.

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      @itiswhatitis2145 Před 3 lety

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    • @unsalted_pepper550
      @unsalted_pepper550 Před 3 lety

      I was thinking the same thing! I wanted to experiment these tips on people but sadly, my last year of highschool has been ruined by covid😑

  • @naughtiusmaximus
    @naughtiusmaximus Před 3 lety +48

    Now I realize why every girl I have ever talked to, stood like a drill instructor not looking at me in my general direction.

  • @TheElMuffin
    @TheElMuffin Před 8 měsíci

    Honestly, this video makes me question a lot of times in the past when I thought a girl liked me but I brushed it off. Oh well, onto the next part of my life where I also continues to miss clues.

  • @gsgk9674
    @gsgk9674 Před rokem

    Craig is a master, just loved his show.

  • @danwellsanddangmtb2302
    @danwellsanddangmtb2302 Před 3 lety +460

    Is girls running away and screaming whilst puking a sign that they are attracted to me?

    • @AiyaJ
      @AiyaJ Před 3 lety +10

      Mhmm 🥴

    • @poet279
      @poet279 Před 3 lety +25

      That means she wants the D.

    • @that1goat369
      @that1goat369 Před 3 lety +3

      It means you a psychopath who drugged her. I mean she drugged herself

    • @alexiberthe2574
      @alexiberthe2574 Před 3 lety +29

      Go for it, follow her

    • @HandofOmega
      @HandofOmega Před 3 lety +7

      According to Pepe LePew, YES!!

  • @davidkonevky7372
    @davidkonevky7372 Před 3 lety +153

    I remember there was a time where me and my crush started being more close to each other, we would laugh, we would talk a lot, I felt great, I truly think she may have liked me on that way. But we both ruined it by not taking action, I will try to be more direct next time, and improve myself.

    • @Frankya92
      @Frankya92 Před 3 lety +5

      Been through this too. I still regret it to this day

    • @tomorrowcomestoday1621
      @tomorrowcomestoday1621 Před 3 lety

      What do you mean by taking action

    • @juleslefumiste9204
      @juleslefumiste9204 Před 3 lety +1

      So it didn't escalate into the most erotic copulation between you two?

    • @davidkonevky7372
      @davidkonevky7372 Před 3 lety +9

      @@tomorrowcomestoday1621 making a move basically

    • @num1Jaysta
      @num1Jaysta Před 2 lety +1

      I've been there during high school

  • @theboykingamon
    @theboykingamon Před rokem

    I freakin love this channel

  • @THE77
    @THE77 Před rokem

    THIS WAS SUPER HELPFUIL TY :))) :D

  • @joshhernandez58
    @joshhernandez58 Před 3 lety +114

    Got it. After reviewing this I can, in fact, confirm that no one has ever been interested in me. lol

  • @THE______TRUTH
    @THE______TRUTH Před 3 lety +470

    Today I learned that Craig Ferguson is an absolute ladies man. Real talk the man is one of the funniest talk shoe hosts ever and I dont understand why he isnt a bigger show host.

    • @wolfman231
      @wolfman231 Před 2 lety +12

      They dicked Craig over. He is too edgy for mainstream and the advertisers to fill the earlier slot. Conan got the same unfair treatment.

    • @Baci302
      @Baci302 Před 2 lety +7

      I couldn't deal with his accent. My hearing isn't the greatest and between the accent and the fact that he talks a bit fast caused to give up on the show without giving him a proper chance. Looks like I could've picked up a few pointers if I had. lol

    • @itsAurora-zq8cb
      @itsAurora-zq8cb Před 2 lety +5

      @@Baci302 damn I love the accent...Scottish accents 😍

    • @HerveBoisde
      @HerveBoisde Před 2 lety +14

      He’s too witty for the average American

    • @Aditya-sj4ev
      @Aditya-sj4ev Před rokem +1

      Hes the chancellor of rizz university in my books

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm Před 9 měsíci

    This stuff works. There was a woman I liked who never gave me any indication she liked me. Maybe she thought we were friends. One time I went up to her and said hi with a light touch on her arm, a smile and a funny comment and eye contact and we had a nice chat. Next time I saw her I thought I saw her sneaking looks at me which shocked me.

  • @jozefb6986
    @jozefb6986 Před 3 lety +120

    Conclusion: study Craig's The Late Late Show lady interviews.

  • @isavellapapazikopoulou2090
    @isavellapapazikopoulou2090 Před 3 lety +76

    I'll still ask myself this even after 40 years of marriage, I swear

  • @coreycleven8414
    @coreycleven8414 Před rokem

    I love this side of yt that boils down to 'Vague, suggestive suggestions may be the cause of this, or not at all.'

  • @DoodlePoodle199
    @DoodlePoodle199 Před 2 měsíci

    The eye contact one is a big one for me.

  • @micheabell4978
    @micheabell4978 Před 3 lety +178

    THE LADIES AIN’T AN ISSUE TO CRAIG😭😭

    • @tmjre6138
      @tmjre6138 Před 3 lety +6

      For Craig. You cute though.😜

  • @837301
    @837301 Před 3 lety +253

    Sign #7: they sit on your face

    • @countlitmogaphil392
      @countlitmogaphil392 Před 3 lety +2

      Omg

    • @neonkscksc
      @neonkscksc Před 3 lety +12

      So, when a bully bulies someone at school by sitting on their face, It's love?...
      Man, If I ever have kids, they'll be homeschooled.

    • @OhridSase
      @OhridSase Před 3 lety +1

      Unfortunately not on your face, but on C.Ferguson's face

    • @mizzoupatriot8814
      @mizzoupatriot8814 Před 3 lety

      Dead giveaway lol.

    • @juleslefumiste9204
      @juleslefumiste9204 Před 3 lety

      Hey, it depends on the context. It could be they just want to be nice to you

  • @hardstylelife5749
    @hardstylelife5749 Před rokem +20

    So that means Anne Hathaway is attracted by literally everybody on this planet? Lol

  • @dodoraptor8387
    @dodoraptor8387 Před rokem +5

    Lose it all...Job, career, home, cash...If she's still by your side, then she loves you

  • @PhluppeHimself
    @PhluppeHimself Před 3 lety +581

    * Sister gives long hug during our dad's funeral *
    "She's into me!"

  • @Wolf88888
    @Wolf88888 Před 2 lety +43

    I am both a practitioner, and trainer, in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). I have also been trained in Neuro-Subliminal Communication (NSC), which, essentially, focuses on the meaning behind pre-conscious gestures, such as preening, or things like subconsciously swallowing during a negotiation. With all that said, I would like to say that this video is very accurate. The couple of things that I would add , that somewhat complicate matters, are the effect of context and inter-relational dynamics. For example, if a person is in an environment, or in the type of relationship (such as boss/subordinate, or friend/best friend's partner, dynamic), where it could viewed as highly-inappropriate to demonstrate attraction, or where impulses toward attraction need to be suppressed, then one might see a seemingly paradoxical reversal of the behaviors listed in this video. Basically, this means that, depending on the context, if someone seems to go out of their way to suppress these responses, then it might just mean they are attracted to you, but want to hide it, perhaps even from themselves. Still, pre-conscious 'leakage', such as blush responses, eye dilation, etc., are still likely to occur. One just has to employ more acuity in observation.

    • @FrodeFalch
      @FrodeFalch Před rokem

      Confidence and Alpha body language >> being a nerd with alot of written knowledge

    • @Mustakrakish1337
      @Mustakrakish1337 Před 2 měsíci

      What happens at work ends up on reddit. Seriously though, all great points.

  • @OwGash
    @OwGash Před rokem

    7:02 was so adorable lol. Her smile is beyond adorable

  • @BrentsBistro
    @BrentsBistro Před 2 měsíci

    The A-Frame hug lol

  • @SithCelia
    @SithCelia Před 2 lety +83

    I recently started flirting with a guy who's only slightly worse at flirting than I am, but now I'm to the point where I'm convinced that there are men as well as women who only flirt to make themselves feel better and have no intention whatsoever of pursuing things further.

    • @Black.Sabbath
      @Black.Sabbath Před 2 lety +1

      Are you a Smith?

    • @cheap_car_stories
      @cheap_car_stories Před 2 lety +2

      pretty spot on for me, i like the game but have lost my interest in what developes from there.

    • @davidshillaker7578
      @davidshillaker7578 Před 2 lety +4

      Nah, us guys are just emotionally stunted. We only care about sports and complaining about politics

  • @lyfeldvalencia3495
    @lyfeldvalencia3495 Před 2 lety +81

    I think all this can happen when a person feels like they are heard and appreciated, especially women. Not necessarily romantic interest, as the disclaimer said. If you truly want to know if someone wants to be romantically involved with you, is to feel see their intent on their behavior. As someone said, you'll feel the heat if there's any as long as you keep a keen sense. If you can't, just ask.

  • @thesilentcartographer5575
    @thesilentcartographer5575 Před 8 měsíci +1

    My coworker used to do a lot of these towards me, although she had a bf. So I never acted on it and now I assume shes moved on much to my dismay.

  • @west264
    @west264 Před rokem +2

    The gal gadot look is amazing.

  • @youtuber-tg1pu
    @youtuber-tg1pu Před rokem +6

    Also sidenote: A girl can do all these things just to mess with you, she doesn't fw you.

  • @alexmartin3433
    @alexmartin3433 Před 3 lety +73

    I got one thing out of this: no one has ever been attracted to me

  • @Kissfan96dr
    @Kissfan96dr Před 3 lety +14

    another sign at work or school, if they regularly come by your desk to ask a question they can easily find the answer themselves. #2 - you give them little unnecessary commands and they comfortably obey.

  • @blackmetalerik962
    @blackmetalerik962 Před rokem +3

    this video just tells me i'm forever alone😔

  • @dazknight9326
    @dazknight9326 Před 2 lety

    I certainly have no idea. But I do not bother with such things. You are brought into my life or separated by differences. Never gave it much thought really.

  • @ericm.3791
    @ericm.3791 Před 2 lety +27

    I usually manage to know if she isn’t interested in me by her saying one of two possible words, boyfriend or husband. I seem to get that a lot.

    • @RARochester
      @RARochester Před 2 lety +2

      It's just the opposite bro; she's saying I like you and would f*ck you so don't tempt me. Trust me I've been the other man so many times....

    • @Wize817
      @Wize817 Před 2 lety +1

      ​@@RARochester Nah, I think he just gets the "Sorry, I have bf/husband." line. I know what you're saying, but what lines do they say to you that make it the clear they're down despite the bf/husband?

  • @johndo9165
    @johndo9165 Před 3 lety +19

    Also, if they almost continuously have quick glances at you, even when you don't engage in conversations in a group meeting, then that's 100% it. However, as a guy, you almost certainly won't notice them.