I’m Pregnant AGAIN and My Life is a MESS!
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- čas přidán 25. 08. 2024
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I have no words.. So many questions... None of which are my business.... Are you with the father? You deserve so much better. I hope you are with the father... The daycare wait list for this baby!?! You were just getting your life back on track. You deserve a relationship than babies! Not a wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am
I feel very sad for Vanessa. I can’t understand why she is laughing. What is so exciting about having another baby when you are struggling with the first one? I wish her the best but I would be very concerned
I thought you and Penelope’s dad weren’t together anymore? So different dad? I thought you were in debt… so how can you afford a new baby?
Omg this is hard to watch, why share this Vanessa..👆
I share random videos of my real life.
Wishing you all the best ❤
I really am confused! You are pregnant but didn’t say anything about being in a relationship. Then you were on a weightloss journey and then you were on a debt free journey and now pregnant with or without a dad again.
I understand that your personal life is no one's business but this channel is very chaotic and makes zero sense to me anymore.
Good luck to you and your family and your channel. Im out.
I just see a whole lot of very poor decisions on this channel…
Its official… i can no longer take you seriously Vanessa…
You told everyone on here's you are a single mum with a small baby girl now you are telling everyone on here you are having a baby you told everyone you are not in a relationship so what happing
Stay tuned! 🤍
What's happening is that you're asking things that aren't your business
@@dianebaugher3919 sorry but when you share on social media you have to expect people to have questions. It becomes everyone’s business when you put it all out there.
It takes two to make a baby. A man who is not there for the long haul should make sure he uses protection as well. Unfortunately, many relationships don’t last, but a child should be conceived with love in both parents’ hearts.
I had a second child with my son's dad while single, too, actually. What happened was we broke up while I was pregnant with my son (typical cheating), then when my son was four the dad invited himself on our already planned vacation and end up staying for like 3 weeks that summer (he lives in a different state) then a week or two after he went back home I had a positive test. We didn't get back together because he was still the same person but I'm over the moon about my daughter and she was totally meant to be here. It happens, and I'm not struggling, we have a great life!❤
Thank you so much for sharing this! 🤍
@@heyvanessamartin❤️
Well good luck, you’re going to need it.
This makes perfect sense to me. Financial situations can change in an instant but you can't go get your fertile years back once you're financially stable. She's in her 30s not a teenager. Her years to give Penelope a sibling are limited and the fact that they'll have the same dad is ideal. I think it was smart to use the opportunity. A lot of other people here can't see the big picture. Congratulations! 🎉
Thank you so much! 🤍🤍
I agree with this comment 100%!! Even though people WILL judge! I just had by baby 3 months ago. I'll be 30 in June this year. I realized that I REEEEALLY want another child and before I hit 33 at the latest so that they can be close in age, and because I'm entering the threshold of fertility that makes me nervous. I've been with my now husband since I was 19 and we had an ectopic pregnancy almost 2 years ago . For yeaaaars before that, no pregnancies! The way the economy is makes me anxious to even allow myself to be okay with the idea of trying to get pregnant again so soon! Even though that's exactly what my husband and I want, I can't help but hate feeling judged by the world. I personally feel like people that are actually "close" to me like my "family" would be the ones that have something to say about my being "irresponsible". I mean when I told my mom I was pregnant for my 3 month old, she reacted like I was a literal teenager telling her I was pregnant by a random guy. Ummm... no ma'am. I am actually your youngest child that is the only one of your children in a committed relationship(married) and did that before getting pregnant. [Not that everyone has to do this. I just wanted this. I'm the only one in my family that wanted this] I am trying to stop caring what others say and trusting God's time line. If He blesses us with another baby, I'll be just as excited as you! Money and security CAN be lost in a blink. Then what? Nothing is guaranteed. And fertility will come and go, but so will age. So if we wait around until we feel pperfectly ready to have children soley based on how much money we have, then 1. us as a population would probably not even exist and 2. You'll wait your whole life! I admire that you have the courage to put your life online because it's hard out here. Regardless people will judge. Whether is strangers, or people closest to you. I pray that Father God Yahweh will watch over you, your daughter, and your brewin' baby ❤. They truly are a GIFT and BLESSING from GOD. Try to cherish the joy and privilege of BEING pregnant! Because it'll be hard there after, but that's just life! You got this, girl!!❤
Thank you so much for this kind and thoughtful comment!! ❤️❤️❤️
Vanessa I am confused. Why share this at this time? Most single mothers don’t have this reaction. Blessings
Why not? It’s what we’re here for
This woman is so emotionally unstable!! Immature too!!😳
I’m her dad this is a disgrace for you to say!!!!!
She is 100%
and you are a unempathetic psycho
Why do I feel so sad? I care so much for you Vanessa and your little family, we had no idea you were even in a relationship and I feel so confused, hate to see you struggle. I know we are all just your online family but we care about you….just shocked is all.
Thank you it means a lot to me! Will explain in a new video! 🤍
Wow. Is Penelope's dad the father?
That really would be none of your business.
@missymunro9071 It is an honest question. I remember in a video she mentioned him not being in their life much. She deserves to be happy. I am happy for her.
@@missymunro9071it would be because she puts her entire life on the internet for people to comment on…
@@heyvanessamartin Thank you for being honest and sharing. My understanding was that you weren't seeing him anymore, only for Penelope? Are you dating him? You didn't seem super surprised that you're pregnant, were you wanting to get pregnant? Of course only share what you're comfortable with. I would ask all of these same questions to a close friend which is why I'm curious. Sending love to you, P, and baby bean ❤
@@annac9534 still doesn’t give anyone the right to ask personal questions about someone’s private life. 🙄 Until she brings it up on her own it is no one’s business.
A baby is a blessing! 😊 I think you're such a great mum, and such a loving "happy go lucky" lady! I'm excited to see bump grow and more mommy vlogs.
You look happy to find out you're pregnant 😊 What a lovely moment to share with everyone online!
I just pray 🙏 for a healthy pregnancy, and delivery. You look super excited to have an addition to your family! ❤
Thank you so much for such a sweet comment! 🤍
No judgment here but I’m going through custody / court in America and it sucks. I’m a 32 year old women but I have decided I won’t have children besides my daughter with another man unless it’s her father. I don’t want multiple baby daddies.
It’s gonna be hard but it’s gonna be ok! Life is the wildest ride. ❤️
Thank you 🤍
Congrats to you and your family. Life happens. I had 5 5 and under by the time i was 23..now that im 49 and theyre all doing their own things and such. It goes by in the blink of an eye. Life goes on no matter what youre doing within it. I hope everything goes on ok and whatever is a mess straightens can be worked out.
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Thank you so much! 🤍
Aww congratulations! Do they have the same father? 😊🥰 I remember you saying recently how heartbroken you were about not having a future with him 😢 I hope this is a new beginning for you whether with him or with someone else 🥰 You & your family deserve to be happy & loved! 🥰
Wow. How can you afford another baby when you were at the food bank a few months ago? This is wild and irresponsible.
Here for the train wreck to come
Didn’t even know you were in a relationship. When were you actually gonna tell us?
It’s called Canada - you get paid to have babies here. And free healthcare and subsidized day care. Honestly, it’s financially smart to have as many as she can
@@veterinarytechnicianx94even actually the literal second she gets in one
So financially great, she was at the food bank.
Careless AND irresponsible!! So Sad!!!!
I hope it’s twinzies!!!!
Judgemental much!
Are you going to be paying for it? Quit the preaching
So disappointed. I thought the road to recovery was in full swing.
@@ZXX984 what’s more therapeutic than a new baby? Recovery: on track!
Wait a minute, the last video I watched, you were eating out of food banks to feed you and your baby. How can you afford another? This is what’s wrong with this generation. So irresponsible.😡😡
I recently found your video's. It's great to hear another single mama's life experiences. So thank you.
I am a bit speechless but happy for you.
God never gives us more than we can handle. You got this!!!
Thank you so much for being here and watching! 🤍🤍
I’m excited if you are, but of course I’m worried as well 😔
Was it the Tinder date?
It’s always the Tindr!
ok well congratulations but do you really need another baby right now..................
Congratulations, sweet mama! Your life isn't a mess. It's exactly what it is meant to be! I'm happy for you. My oldest two are about the same age difference and it is nice when they have a sibling ❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much!! 🤍🤍
Hi sweetheart so happy for you,he or she will be just as loved as your little darling, everything will work out, just take care of yourself darling ❤❤❤😊
Thank you so much!! 🤍
This was disturbing to watch , because what you were saying didn't match to what your body was saying. I hope you're well
This was disturbing to read. You’re just analyzing YT’ers body language?
Interesting. I’m doing well. Sore lower back and exhausted.
@@heyvanessamartin what you’re saying doesn’t match the font you’re using. So disturbing…
The fact that you didn’t add “lol” to the end of your comment is disturbing…
Congratulations. A baby is a beautiful blessing. Was this planned? Have you stopped taking your mental health meds? If you can't afford one child, is it up to your government to provide? This is exactly why my husband & I provided our sons with condoms and educated them on unprotected sex (not just disease but lifelong financial & parenting responsibility). We encouraged them to plan on having children with someone they wanted a lifelong partnership with. If Penelope's dad is the father, I'm worried about your mental health Vanessa. You have cried and poured out your heart to us about him. It will be a battle for Penelope if her future holds a father that doesn't want to participate in her upbringing. I am praying for you & your children. May God watch over you, may you have a healthy pregnancy and many blessings along the way. 🙏
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Unlike the United States where trillions go to fund endless wars, Canada has universal Healthcare and robust social safety nets that care for all of its citizenry.
@@loricanada4403Canada won't be able to help children raised by a mother with fragile mental health. There aren't enough social programs for that.
@@heyvanessamartin A few days ago you were talking about fostering. If another child was part of the plan, how did you figure fostering would work with a new baby & toddler? My mind went to maybe you are off your meds and making quick decisions. I'm asking questions because you share your life with us. But understand that I believe children are a blessing no matter when they enter our lives. I am pro-life, Christian and believe God never gives us more than we can handle. You are an exceptional mother to Penelope and if you had 5 kids, they would be so loved and taken care of.
I think fostering has been placed on my heart but not in my near future. I would love to be a foster parent in the future. At the time when I made the fostering video, it was just something I wanted to share and chat about during my lunch break. I didn’t know I was pregnant and now that I do, it would even more so not be appropriate to foster for probably at least 10 years lol who knows what the future holds. ❤️
Unhinged.
100 percent. wasnt she posting about food bank hauls and being in debt and loving her childs father and wishing it could be different etc.. trainwreck
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Wow! Congrats! I hope this pregnancy is a more peaceful and positive experience for you. Everything you had to go through while you were carrying Penelope sounded really hard.
Thank you so much!! 🤍🤍
Congratulations!! Having a baby is a blessing no matter what the timing or circumstance is. I have 7 children’s and some were planned by me and some weren’t but all were planned by God. Honestly it’s your life. I’ve commented on one other video before because some of the negative comments make my stomach literally hurt. People are so cruel but it’s kinda comical to watch people act like they pay for anything or do anything in your life to have a say. But they sure watch your videos. Crazy weird how invested people get. But congratulations and I’m excited to see your new journey. Like I said, I have 7 and it’s crazy but I wouldn’t ever change a thing about it!! ❤ I’m fortunate enough to have a husband who works really hard for me to be a stay at home mom but at the beginning it wasn’t always that easy. God works in ways we don’t see coming!
To many shock videos lately.. I’m questioning if this is even real .. I will believe it when I see an actual baby.. I think it’s planned out . Next will be I had a miscarriage.. could be wrong we will see!
Wow that is really crappy to say to someone.
Wait - So you think I used someone else’s positive pregnancy test?! This is real, like all of my videos.
I’m waiting to see baby number three! I’m in it for the long haul!
Rude
@@sandraenglandful so rude isn’t it
Whaaat?! I thought you’re single!
Single people have sex too.
And I thought she was practicing Christianity???
True just curious now to find out who the father is
Single can mean a lot of things! I'm sure she will share more when and if she is comfortable doing so! Either way it is such a blessing for them both❤
And a Christian. Yikes!!
Congratulations, Vanessa! A baby is a blessing. You’re a wonderful mother to Penelope and will be to this child as well 🎉❤
Thank you so much! 🤍
Well your content deff isnt boring HAHA :P Congrats! I support you :) Hopefully there will be lots of awesome new content to come! xx
Thank you so much!! 🤍
The babies are the ones who suffer the consequences for the poor choices a grown women/men does. Needing to be left at daycares that are potentially abusing them, the absence of a parent. I just don’t get it. Have fun don’t but why keep bringing babies into the world to suffer.
100%
just what you need hon not...
People and their opinions. Ugh. If she’s happy I’m happy for her. If she’s not asking you for money for her kids it’s not your concern. And don’t say you pay “taxes” because you would be paying those regardless.
It hurt me that Vanessa is gettin hated at for having a another baby!!!! Like leave the mom alone for gods sake!!! I agree with you !
The saying, "Opinions are like ass##### everyone's got one" keeps coming to my head😁
Praying for you. I hope everything works out for you and Penelope and the baby.
Thank you so much!! 🤍
Stop criticising this woman a baby is a blessing and when you have to cope you do . x
Exactly I lokked at the comments and there were some criticism towards Vanessa and I don’t appreciate it at all!! Vanessa ignore the negativity!!!
Congratulations, kinda confused though to who the father is as you state you are a single parent and never talked about a boyfriend in any other video.
Uh
Have you heard about birth control. Your a single mom that is struggling to make ends meet and then your having a baby. Get it together. Not using protection is just not thinking long term. Just thinking in the moment obviously.
Vanessa, I am reaching out today because you have been on my mind a lot lately. I hope you are OK! I miss your videos and I LOVE your content! Don't let anyone bring you down! You've got this! Praying for you today and always!🙏❤
Are yall at least together and he can hwlp financially??
I am so sorry I a. But sad really you have been thrygh it your job now and penlepoe settling in nursery school I hope I feel happy for you is the dad the same if so hope you will be a family soon 👶🏻👪
Congratulations Vanessa! All children are a blessing. I'm sorry you have to deal with such negative comments. God bless you, Penelope and baby to come
Thank you! 🤍
To young to understand what your really saying to her.
What month baby DUE ??
Congratulations! Out of curiosity, will you be getting married ?
Thank you! Only God knows! 🤍
Lord all these ppl act like they were there when this baby was conceived and are going to be financially responsible for her and the baby smh let the girl have her happy moment
Wow that came out of left field lol
That’s not where babies come from
Crap. Babies are a joy but incredibly hard alone. Two is alot, one is hard enough. I hope you have help from the dad and you don't have to do it all alone.
Congratulations. You are going to be a busy Mama🌺
Thank you! 🤍
Congratulations! Hope everything is okay! Every child is a gift from God and Penelope will be happy to have a sibling to play with! So happy for you!
Congrats Vanessa and Penelope! Babies are such a precious blessing!
Thank you! 🤍
Dang you are keeping this interesting, congratulations! Here for it!
NCS! You should see how interesting it is IRL! MEGATIME!!
@@HiStuartWard I'm sure it is, glad she is sharing this vulnerable time. She needs support.
Thank UUU! 🤍🤍
???
Do you need someone to explain pregnancy to you?
Do you mind sharing how old you are?
I am 32!
@@heyvanessamartin she acts 12, and so unstable.
Congrats! One of the best moms I’ve ever known was a single mom for many years. You don’t need to do everything traditionally to be a good mom.
Thank you! 🤍
Congratulations Vanessa! Penelope will be a sweet big sister. Xx
Thank you so much! 🤍
You know what? Dont hear what people say! God send you this baby and propably so your daughter has a sibling. I wish I could have a second child
wow!! Maybe get on some birth control until you have a stable life and a husband and father for a child. 🤷🏼♀🤷🏼♀
I will never take birth control.
I do have a father for my child. That's basic biology.
Congratulations Vanessa!This was a big surprise.
Children are a blessing from God.Praying for a healthy pregnancy.❤
Penelope will be a great big sister.❤
Thank you so much! 🤍🤍
Congratulations! ❤ I'm in a similar position as you, on my 3rd pregnancy.
It takes chemistry to align and create life so when it happens I believe it's meant to be. All in His timing! I chose to embrace the unexpected. 😊
You will do great! Wish your family all the best! ❤
Congratulations to you too! Thank you 🤍🤍
Babies are such a blessing. I hope you have a safe pregnancy!
Thank you! 🤍🤍🤍
Congragulations!! What a Blessing from above!! everything comes in Gods perfect timing. You are an amazing Mother!!
Thank you so much! 🤍
Congratulations!! Idk how you're feeling, but you seem genuinely happy. So I'm asuming you wanted another child while you could. People will judge whether they're strangers or family. Time stops for NOBODY. But money can be gained and can be lost. Fertility is never guaranteed, either! I pray you keep yourself and your family safe. Try to enjoy the feeling of being pregnant!! Hopefully it's not a rough one. ❤ Congratulations again!! May God continue to bless you!
Thank you so much! 🤍
You will figure everything out. Babies are a blessing.
Thank you! 🤍
Babies are a blessing. You got this girl. ❤🎉
Thank you! 🤍
Honestly kinda refreshing to see a normal persons life on CZcams. Raw and unplanned,it’s all our first time doing this and it isn’t easy. 😅 sending love 💕
Thank you so much for saying this!!! ❤️❤️
Wow congratulation it’s your body and life you do what makes you happy! Wishing you guys nothing but love and happiness! 😊
Thank you so much!! 🤍
@@heyvanessamartin your very welcome 😊
Penelope is going to be sooooo jealous
My BABY!!! 🐥💕
I’m happy for you if you’re happy. Just confused because GIRL YA SAID YOU WERE SINGLE! 😂 seriously, congratulations a baby is always a blessing!
People in here act like single people don't have sex 😂
Thank you!! 🤍
Omg😲
Congratulations 🎉 Every little girl needs a sibling and you are a great momma ❤ So happy for you. You’ve got this.
Thank you so much!! 🤍
Congrats 🎉 💐
Congratulations!!! I am so happy for you... Children are blessings..
Thank you so much!! Yes they are 🤍🤍🤍
Congratulations!! ❤
Thank you! 🤍
Aww congrats! I hope you have a safe & healthy pregnancy. 🩵
Thank you so much!! 🤍
Congratulations!!
Girlll, dont leave us hangin 😆 Love your videos ❤
Nunyadamnbusiness
No need to turn positive energy into negative energy...
Don’t worry! I will share this whole journey! 🤍
Gonna be rough in the beginning but you got it
Congratulations!
Thank you! 🤍
Congrats on your growing family!
Thank you so much!! 🤍
Congratulations beautiful lady!! Your newest member is a blessing 🎉❤
Thank you so much! 🤍🤍🤍
Wow, did not even know you are dating! Congratulations!
I don’t think shebis
we will see in the future! When she is comfortable to let us know more I’m sure she will
Thank you! 🤍 Not dating!
@@heyvanessamartin obvi
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Awesome. :D I’m so happy for you!!!!!
Thank you so much! 🤍
OMG! 😳
Exactly!!
@@jodigales4356double exactly
Exactly x3
More like omFg!!!
OMFGWTFAIGTD?!!
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉 a new baby how cool 💛💛💛
Thank you so much! 🤍
Congratulations Vanessa😘
Thank you!! 🤍
The fact that she chooses to share her life both good & bad is up to her , but why hate ? I understand some of the ?s I really do but she isn’t asking anyone for anything so maybe just wish her well , she very obviously a great Mama and I think she’s very brave , so no hate whatsoever coming from me , I’m here to support her journey . 🙏🏼🤍🤍
I love that Vanessa hearts negative comments, lol! Your engagement is gonna be great. Make your money, girl!😂
Yes! Thank you! 🤍
Yesssssss! Lets be concerned about the important thing her channel engagement. Not the fact that she'll soon be on here whining about how hard it is now being a struggling single mom of two.
Congratulations! It’s definitely a blessing. And we all are messes lol. Hugs ❤
Thank you!!! 🤍🤍
Congratulations! ❤
Thank you so much! 🤍🤍🤍
Congrats, Vanessa! 💕🎉
Thank you! 🤍
Congratulations. I am really happy for you.
Nothing in life is guaranteed.
It’s your life, your body so you do what is right for you.
I am excited to follow your journey.❤
Thank you so much! 🤍
Congratulations Vanessa
Thank you! 🤍
Ha ur reaction would be mine if I got pregnancy for the 3rd time