I've heard your story before and it still Just makes me sick to my stomach that people bullied you so much and said those horrendous things about you and your baby. I'm glad you had your family by your side. People forget once upon a time not too long ago it was completely normal to be a teen parent and to marry very young..
Should you encourage teen pregnancy? No. But if your child comes to you saying they are pregnant should you support them and make them feel loved? ABSOLUTELY YES.
@@manicpixiecoffeelovr not the place for what, the truth? The truth casts no shadow on the fact that the owner of the channel is amazing, strong and very likely a great mother (if that's your concern). Btw, "having options" goes in line with the original comment's opening remark "one shouldn't encourage teen pregnancies". As for the second part "if your child comes to you and says they're pregnant -- make them feel loved" -- definitely yes. As for the course of actions after that -- totally depends on CHOICE. I've taught my niece English and she watches a lot of English vids now. After she sent me this one with a comment "maybe this is what we girls should do", I decided to leave my comment. However, she might've been sarcastic. Gonna talk to her when I see her.
@@mayakuduwudu3299 not the place for you to talk about abortion... and encourage it, rather than being strong and helping them through it instead you take the easy way out.
Your mom’s reaction to your pregnancy was impeccable. “It’s going to be okay, we love babies in this house” No more perfect words could have been spoken in that moment. That is a mother who showed her child pure love and support. Kudos to your mom!
Lovely and beautiful story,you are blessed with such a mother,you mentioned something about praying and God in your story.I have no doubt your mother was in prayer for the outcome,God’s blessings is always there you just have to ask for it,and He will deliver, Amen?may God bless you ,your daughter, and your mother, and your family always. Amen.
Completely agree. You got caught getting pregnant. But, I fully believe God creates babies and for a reason. He decided you and your family needed this little girl. Glad your family was supportive instead of pushing you into an abortion. I am sure your the Lord had to speak to your mother's heart before she gave you her reaction. Blessings to you all.
Ikr!!! That was the most amazing part of the story for me. I can’t imagine how relieved she’d have felt… just think, you think your mum is gonna disown you and then she just hugs you and says THAT.💕💕☺️
I had my first child 2 months after turning 14 yrs old in 1987 , so i completely understand what you’re going through..I am now 50 and he is 36yrs old..YOU GOT THIS
It frustrates me that in situations like this, the girl is always accused (being called names) whereas the boy isn't at all bullied. I'm happy you made it out okay despite all that. Great video, I'm proud of you too :)
That little girl is her EVERYTHING 😍 she's such an amazing mother. I'm 23, I have an almost 6 year old and an almost 3 year old, and I'm SO proud of Maddie and inspired by her
Thank you…I am proud of all five of my daughters …all beautiful, talented musicians and singers besides their careers and being wonderful mothers …and our youngest who is almost a mother, is a talented graphic designer just like her third big sister who arrested the Dallas Art Institute…and her oldest big sister who is the first in our family to get her masters in education, and her second big sister who is a smashing photographer, and her next big sister who is only 22 months older and who was in the Texas All State Band for three years and has her BA in Music Education…not to forget my youngest son who is the protector of his five sisters since we lost my oldest son and who is a super collision repair specialist and who knows how to do those fancy paint jobs on cars…yes, I am proud of them… true marvels and miracles of creation…I love them and all 21 of their children as well…mine, my mother’s, my grandmother’s and my great-grandmother’s legacies as well. Sometime we have to believe that our children and our grandchildren are the reason we were put on this earth. I have always hoped that my being an EMT-Intermediate for 7 years might have been part of the reason my oldest grand son has the word Doctor in front of his name. I believe all 17 of my grandsons and my three granddaughters are all destined to do something wonderful in this world and do something that will help mankind in some way…something to be proud of indeed.
“Arrested” the Dallas Art Institute…lol… now that would be quite a feat indeed…sometimes I do not understand autocorrect. My third daughter attended and graduated from the Dallas Art Institute but don’t think she ever tried to arrest them…oh, my, my.
I truly think that this young lady for what all she has been through is an amazing and outstanding mother and example for parents everywhere. Her daughter is a lucky little girl and she is a lucky daughter and mother as well. God knows what he is doing.
Hi Maddie. My names Kylie and I am 15 years old. I am 28 weeks going on 29 weeks pregnant. And I loved hearing your story. And it made me feel a lot better about my situation as well. I’m so happy to see you grow and happy. God bless you ❤
even if it may seem like the end of the world, dont give up. in a few years, you'll look down at your baby and think: "i am so glad i kept you!" keep going, it all be fine! 💗
The same thing happened to my sister and she went on to get her Masters in Sociology and had a successful career as a social worker (she’s retired now) and raised her daughter, who is also an amazing woman. You got this! Praying for you.
My mother-in-law had my husband at 14. Her own father and step-mom gave her money to get an abortion. She didn't want to do it but her father told her he'd kick her out if she kept the baby. She went to the clinic, paid the fee, and met with the nurse who brought her back to the procedure room. The nurse told my mother-in-law, "You don't have to do this. You can keep the baby if you want." Thank God for that nurse!!
@@destituteanddecadent9106 You play with words to hide reality. Fetus is just the Latin word for "little one". That little one had all it's DNA on day one of conception and it's heart was beating by week 6. So by "disposing" of him you mean kill him, since he was clearly alive even though he wasn't fully developed. If you're okay with killing live babies, at least have the guts to say it.
My mom straight up asked me if I might be pregnant. I finally admitted it outloud not knowing what the reaction would be. She said "your dad and I want you to know that even though we wish the circumstances were different, we love you and were actually excited to be grandparents." The relief that there was no anger or moral judgment, just acknowledging that being pregnant at 16 was going to be rough. Btw...I ended up having twins and they're amazing!
Maddie, I am 15 and recently lost my V-Card and told my mom two days later (one week and one day before i am writing this) i was so so so scared that i was pregnant. when i told my mom we had to break up which absolutely sucks sm bc he was my first love. it has completely gotten spread around my high school. your story has honestly helped me realize just how lucky i am. there was also no protection. your story has helped me realize that my life isn’t over. it will get better. thank you so much Maddie. much love from Oklahoma, Aubrey
I loved the part where you said that all your fears disappeared when you saw your baby 😭😭 that happened to me too! (And I had my baby at 33) everybody says that having babies is a bad decision but I think having them too late is worst, less energy and a harder time to be generous and to adapt easily to your new life, kudos for you and the great job you're doing for your baby 😍
@@signdebb Please take care of your health and try to make sure she is OK with you being an old mum because I was in the same situation and since I was 20 I started being TERRIFIED of losing my parents.
@@Serena-or7sl that is definitely a fear that my daughter has, however, I also had a fear of losing my parents when I was a child, and they were young when I was born. I think the fear if losing a parent is a fear that many children have, regardless of their parents age. I have talked to my daughter about this, and about the fact that nobody gets out of this life alive. The best we can do is love each other and appreciate the time we have while we're alive. Knowing that our time on earth is limited, we should try not to take anything for granted. Take care ~
i agree. i waited until i was 30 before i even considered it. then i was like, crap i better hurry if i want 3. i ended finally pregnant at 31, had her at 32, and we almost died due to the severity of my hyperemasis. not fun. i ended up with 1 more at 37 (ironically less hyperemasis as i was older) and Lord have mercy on me, i wish i did it 10 years sooner😂
I had a baby at 16: got pregnant at 15. I had to give her up for adoption and thought of her everyday. When she turned 46 she decided to find me and find me she did. We’ve had a beautiful friendship since then. She has 4 boys which I ❤️ love. I was unable to keep her. My parents were alcoholics and didn’t want to raise another one. Abortion was off the table and the year was 1967. No government help programs. No anything. Kudos to you for your girl, aren’t they the cuties? You have my respect and admiration.
I am so, so sorry you had to give up your child. The world was a harsh place for women then. It makes me sick to my stomach when one reads about the cruelty that was inflicted on women and children even up to the 1980s. I had friends who had babies at 16 & 17 in Scotland in the late 1970s. Still slightly scandalous- BUT the welfare rules changed and they were entitled to a small flat, a benefit and support. This was an enormous help to those genuinely in need, but one or a hundred saw it as a way to financial and actual independence- and took it. Those of us slogging away at University in damp, draughty flats with no money often envied those girls their little flats with central heating, secure income and bonny baby. Mind you, they had to put Uni on a back burner for a while!
I have a friend who got pregnant at 12 yo and had her son at 13. Her parents turned her over to social services when they found out she was pregnant. Her foster family became her real family. They raised her and her baby. Allowed her to be a child, go to school do extra curricular activities and taught her how to be a mother. She is 30 yo now, married and has a toddler. Both kids call her "foster" parents Nana and papa. Her biological parents completely cut her off. The biological dad was also 12. Him and his parents are very involved and paid support. She feels very fortunate the way her life turned out and having a family that cared.
Almost crying by the end of the video. I was 19 when I had my first baby. I had to relocate because I couldn't bear the shame back then, but now, I don't regret getting pregnant. Although I've never had the courage to share it until now. 😊. Thank you so much for this video ❤
What a story! I am so impressed with you, me at 35, I cant even think of the idea of getting pregnant. I actually fear the idea of having something growing in me, and than the fear of how to give the child a good life. All the while running the exhausting ratrace that is trying to keep afloat in society that I can barely afford. And here are you, so brave during you pregnancy and so ready for whatever being a parent entails. You have my deepest respect.
@MyNameThe1st / Your life changes, but like all things, you adapt. Think of going from summer to winter. You know it’s coming, so you prepare and take it day by day. If you live to be old, you’ll be relieved to know that there is hopefully someone to look out for you ❤
@@UnsolvedCrimesUncovered a bit late reading your comment, but I still want to thank you for your kind words. I would love to have someone who will look out for me. Sadly, I have the annoying trait where I attract codependants. Meaning I will have an adult "child" instead of an equal partner. Until I figure out why this is and how to attract an equal. In the meantime, I am happy enough for the most time. 😊 perhaps 1 day I will find my solid rock who will catch me when I need it. And you know, that person may just change my mind on having kids or not
@@Nickelbippy I feel this. I could not do it alone. I've seen my mother doing it alone and it was a huge stuggle. In fact, I left me with therapy to fix and learn the parts that a father offers to a child as they grow up. Fathers are so important! But alas... the partners I attract are codependants... having a child with someone with thay attachment style is to have 1 baby and one aduld-baby. Al the while doing all the emotional support but having noone to catch you when you need it. Should I find a person with whom I can be weak for a moment and feel sheltered and secure. I will rethink my views and consider a child. Be that mine or afopted (as I am bi, and no a large dating pool is ironically not helpful in finding the right person 😆) so until I figured out what it is that I just can't seem to find (or recognise) a good partner, I refuse to have kids. I have enough to keep afloat, and worry about. Child would be the death of my mental heath.
My mother-in-law got pregnant at 13 and had my husband at 14. This was 1969/70. Her family were also supportive. A few years later, she was diagnosed with a terminal illness and passed soon after she turned 21. I believe her early pregnancy was meant to be. She brought this wonderful person into the world and got to experience the joys of being his mom. When she passed, the blow was softened to her parents because she left behind this precious part of her that they got to raise.
My birth mom was 16 the entire time she carried me. I was adopted by loving parents who lived to be 92 and 99. I understand why my mom let go of me, and live her for carrying me. I have two daughters and eight grandchildren today. Best regards, Doug
My mom was adopted, she always prayed that her both mother was resigned with her decision . She was adopted by wonderful parents and was doted on as an only child. It takes great love to give up a child
Adoption is a wonderful thing. And it’s usually because a mother loves her child and wants more for her child and is why you were adopted. (Because a birth mother loves you ! )
I had to choke back tears when you told of your mums reaction. I can never understand how some parents don’t support their children unconditionally. My ‘babies’ are now 17, 19 & 21 but I could never push them away regardless of what mistakes they may make in life. I would always be there. So I was choked up to hear how supportive your immediate family were, and I’m so happy that it all worked out for you and your daughter. I know this video is a couple years old now and I’m just discovering it, so I’m sure your life has progressed further still. I wish you all the best in future endeavours and best wishes for your little family.
She just had a son a few weeks ago. She’s married, and has a beautiful family. Everly loves her little brother so much, and he’s very lucky to have her as a sister.
This is the first time I'm learning about you and your story. I can't imagine how painful it must have been to be ridiculed by all your peers during such a challenging time in life. You are very courageous and a beautiful woman with a bright future. Blessings to you and your sweet daughter. Thanks for sharing your story!
I simply cannot understand such evil comments from people you knew and people who didn't know you making such hateful and cruel attacks on you. Proud of you for not aborting her and making the choice to turn to God and turn your life into something positive. ❤
thereve been schmut articles thatve stolen her picture and situation to promote propaganda such as 'girl r@pped @12' and '14yo forced to give birth b/c theres no abortions' etc. all lies, in the ad articles at the bottom of the page. never clicked on em, but this popped up in my ytube, and i was like, huh. the real story, that ill take. such a wonderful story about an amazing girl. and horrific shame on any1 that wouldve given her a hard time. they are all just jealous haters thatll be fat, ugly n barren in about 10 years. this girl is hurtling circles around them at neckbreak pace.
I was 14. Disowned. That was 49 years ago. My son is the most wonderful person I know. He has my 3 grand babies. ❤ It was not an easy journey but am so glad I loved us both through it.
Sad to hear. On another note, unsurprisingly nobody even mentions the fathers bacause it reminds of the bad choises and non-accountabilities. Nobody talks about how every fatherless child misses their father, but the issue can just be kept hidden. A single mother hasn't wised up before she acknowledges and takes accountability for her poor choises which includes warning others. It's not a question of being either worthy or wothless, all people have worth. It's a question of wise or unwise living without moral condemnments attached.
What kind of lunatics would send messages to a 14 year old girl that they hope she dies, or that she should have an a bortion? That's completely unreal to me. I'm so happy to hear that you kept your daughter alive. That was a mature decision to make, right away.
@@DL-idk If so, it is a real shame that their mothers did not step in. I can't imagine how I'd feel if I found out my own children were treating someone this way.
Dude. People who say this to teen moms, and are also "pro life" / "anti-abortion". They'd shame young women for choosing to keep the baby, and also young women who choose to remove the undeveloped fetus (within 1st trimester). They don't want their daughters to have sex, but they let their sons to have sex with other people's daughters (even in their own homes). The mentality those kind of people carry are weird and pathetic.
Hey,daughter/granddaughter/great granddaughter of a women who had teen pregnancy. My mom had me when she was 18 & lucky enough my father stayed in the picture until this very day. I am just so thankful that my mom wanted to keep her first baby (Me). My grandma was 14 (I think) when she was pregnant with my only uncle (From my dad’s side) & my grandpa loved her until this special day. Even though I wasn’t born then, I am so lucky to have my uncle, my best friend, stay in this world. My great grandma had her first baby when she was 13 (I think again). Sadly, my great grandpa died almost a year ago, but he loved & cared for her so much. I so thankful my great grandparent(s) were apart of a lot of my childhood. My great grandma still being here is such a blessing. When I was around six and I think seven, my great grandparents moved back to their home country Mexico. They sometimes visited but not that often. But since my great grandpa’s death,my great grandma visits so much. My grandma says she wants to visit her and stay there for a few months because my great grandma is lonely in her home. But it hurts me so much when she says that because I’ve known and lived with her all my life. My mom would sometimes say my grandma is going to visit my great grandma for a few months makes me almost cry. Each time she says that, she’ll say she’s joking so I won’t cry. But my grandma would just say that she might,though she doesn’t know. That’s my comment.
I started crying when you said that your mother hugged you, I was so happy that youor mother supported you and that everytihing worked out. I'm so sorry about all the bullying you had to go through you did not deserve that, you're so strong!
Your mum is amazing. She definitely had to hide her worries and fears from you, as you were just a child yourself. This is the parent I want to be. So sorry you went through so much. You are an amazing mother just like your mother 💕💕
Oh yes! FOR SURE! Of course, she had 13yrs experience hiding her fears, worries, shock & anxieties from her child. Albeit, this was an extra big one, we parents are worried (& even terrified at times) for our children the moment they take their first breath. And we are masterful at hiding it.
The main roots for teenage pregnancy are bad childhood (bullying, child abuse, parents divorce etc) and the lack of communication between children and parents! I think parents should be more confident and mature enough to make children understand the consequences of teenage pregnancies via proper communication (NOT JUST GIRLS BUT ALSO TO THE BOYS)! But I do admire all the teen parents out there for their hard work and sacrifices to raise their children 💗💗
@@simply_lena8196 I am sorry to hear that. Hope you will have a good and strong social support. I know it’s hard to convey my emotions through online but “BE STRONG AND HAVE MORE AND HIGH QUALITY RELATIONSHIPS FOR SOCIAL SUPPORT”!
There are PLENTY of teen pregnancies from wealthy, non-abused, still together parent-families. I understand what you’re getting at. But have to disagree that the “main roots” are bullying or children of divorce. The main roots are indeed lack of communication AND lack of EDUCATION. Just like Maddi said, obviously teaching just abstinence is not working.
@@melaniebutson7933 seriously! I’m in the Air Force and before you get deployed women have to provide a negative pregnancy test. They sent me to a planned parenthood clinic to get that test done and I was SHOCKED at the literal group of 50+ year old MEN shouting expletives and calling us all “baby killers” that were walking into the clinic…?? First of all it’s none of their business why women are there. But secondly the clinic obviously provides all sorts of services! One being PREGNANCY TESTS for the USAF. That day really really opened my eyes up. I couldn’t imagine being a pregnant woman and considering termination only to have to face a group of men screaming at you “baby killer”!?
i’m so proud of you for having to go through this and still wanting to keep the baby in hard times. you are so great and deserve what you got for support from your close ones
This just showed up in my feed. I gotta say, God bless you and your little girl, God bless your family. Your mom's reaction is exactly what we need more of. I am so very happy she gave you so much support and for you for not giving up on your child and deciding to go through with the pregnancy. I'm also thankful for God helping you through it through your faith.
I am 61 yrs old & i was pregnant at 14. I was taken for an abortion without anyone ever asking me what I wanted. I was told this is what we are doing. It has never been mentioned again to this day by my mother. I am glad you had support. Getting over the guilt I had for the abortion took many, many years & a relationship with Jesus. I wish you more success for you & your daughter. God bless you both!
@@shefinmathew1849 There is not a right thing in this situation. It is more complicated than that. Yes, a 14 year old should not have to raise a baby, but the parents of a 14 year old should step in and help while asking what the 14 year old would want.
My 15 year daughter got pregnant and my first thought of her and my grandchild’s health physical and mentally. She later in her twenties had 3 more all girls. Everyone in our family supported her. First born starts law school soon. My daughter did married in early 20’s. I was lucky to be able to be able to watch new baby half day why daughter finished hs. Grandpa and her uncles were adoring. It is sad parents don’t support their kids. One thing important is for the the grandma Mimi not to take charge.. it could undermine the teen mom. Our roles were clear naturally. This young woman and her mom have my heart And my huge smile and a tear in my eye . Smile
I’m so proud of you, and so happy that you and your daughter have each other. Kudos to your mother, who knows how to be a truly loving parent-and set a phenomenal example for you.
Amazing story. Somewhere there is a 13 year old girl searching the internet for help and finding your video and hopefully finding some comfort in it and finding the help they need.
I hope the 13-year-olds watch this and learn what not to do at 13. The age of social media has made things even worse for teenagers. My 21-year-old sister was approached by a 13 yr old fella from the neighborhood and he wanted to be "in a relationship" with her. She reported the incident to his parents and advised them to keep a tab on their son's behavior.
good on you for getting through that with such strength and positivity. your mum is outstanding. all the best to you and your family. hope you forge an even more beautiful future ahead.
Hearing your mom say “we love babies in this house” brought me back to the morning I called my mom in a panic at 5a after a positive pregnancy test. She told me the same thing. My mom is not perfect, but she has come in clutch when I have needed her most as a mom. Here’s to moms who come through when needed most 🍻
I think a lot of parents don’t have the luxury of the five minutes they need to make a loving response. Many have it blurted out face to face, and saying something stupid. Now some parents are just not right, not loving.
When your daughter was being resuscitated and you were hemorrhaging, your poor mother must have been terrified. So glad it all turned out for you. And you have come farther than many people twice your age! Congratulations!
How are people even supporting this??!! Like literally teen pregnancy is not a thing to be proud of. Children watching this should learn that they shouldn't do anything in their sensitive years. Like feed yourself first and then feed someone else. You will just become a burden on your parents, with no job and career. Like will you study or look after the baby. Are the countries dumb to even make a legal age for marriage?? This is totally unacceptable.
@@allfire8056 Calm down. No one here is supporting teen pregnancy. We’re supporting her. Although having a baby this young is reckless, she has obviously matured and is openly trying to educate the youth about the dangers of child birth by sharing her story
What many people don't understand is that there are kids that have sex and it's the education that can determine how safe they are with sex. It's so normal for these things to happen and the ignorance that some adults show is not going to change that. You are an amazing, loving mother and I can tell you care for your daughter so much. I'm about your age now (2 years after this video was posted lol) and couldn't imagine being in your position 6 years ago. So proud of you.
It completely blows my mind that STRANGERS, actual strangers sent you death threats for absolutely no reason?? Teenagers are scary. Also your mother is an amazing parent she didnt even think about disowning you instead she showed her support and love, thats how every parent should be :) You're a very strong person maddie
@@pencrunch6208 It's not her fault for being pregnant? So she didn't have unprotected relations with a guy then? What a strong and fierce person she is, getting herself knocked up at age 14, barely a teenager, if you think this is acceptable you seriously need to get psychiatrically evaluated!
I’m so proud of you, I have followed you since Everly was a baby. I got pregnant at 15 and had my son 5 days after my 16 th birthday. I was only 25 weeks along. We spent 114 days in the NICU, they said he would never survive. I was treated horribly, but I showed everyone. He is now 23 and I own my own company. Your such an amazing woman and mom! 🥰🥰🥰
I wish I was that strong. I was mentally 12 at 15 so the idea of having sex was as distant as a space let alone giving a birth, definitely would not do it. I finished university, bought a flat, have an amazing husband almost finished my book, now time for a child.
You had a big desire to prove everybody wrong huh and now you're boasting about your success? Not everybody is successful when they have a child while they're still a child themselves, it's the height of selfishness to do so. I bet that you couldn't do it on your own if it wasn't for your mother or a large circle of people to help you! Again it's very selfish on your part. Imagine how much more successful you would have been had you waited to become a mother?
@@jillybean3688 Exactly, I always wonder who pays for the children needs when the mother is still legally unable to work full time. I would not do it to my parents. Too selfish.
@@jillybean3688 They were just sharing their experiences.. Pretty sure it isnt her fault that some are not successful. She is gladly blessed to have good people around her.
I'm the daughter of a teen mom and raising me at 17 was hard for my mother, and I saw it was, so I just think that you are so brave to go through what you went through.
I cannot even imagine that. I had no money at 17 yet, was at school , not 18 yet to find a full time job, my parents would have to pay for everything. That's why I would not do it to them as they did not have ant extra money to raise another child, not even a grandchild from money point of view. Love does not feed a baby.
I had my first child at 16 and your story brought back so many memories and took me right back to that time. My daughter is now 40, so this goes back quite some time ago!
I'm so astounded at how closely your story mirrors my own. I was pregnant at 15 and had my daughter at 16. My daughter's father and I were so naive and also weren't properly educated on the risks or how easy it was to become pregnant. One time. It only took one time. One of my sisters thought she was pregnant and she convinced me to take a test with her and imagine my shock when I had the positive test result and she didn't. I was so stunned that it happened so easily. I thought it was really hard to get pregnant from all the TV shows and magazines and real life stories I had heard from adults that couldn't conceive no matter what they tried. I was terrified. I thought my life was over. A was still a child myself, developing into adulthood, having a literal human life growing inside of her. I hid it for 2 or 3 months until my oldest sister who had guardianship of me at the time took me to the doctor for a UTI and I was trembling in fear because I knew what was going to happen at that doctor's office. The doctor asked me if I had been sexually active and I remember the look of disappointment and anger on my sister's face when I answered yes. I thought she was going to kick me out. I didnt have any other family members or friends to turn to and no job, no car. My aunt told me to get an abortion because having a baby would ruin my life and I wouldn't graduate high school or get a good job or enjoy my youth. But I refused. I was having this baby. And I was keeping her. The students at my school looked at me differently. They would call me easy and say horrible things and that if I didn't want to hear them, then I shouldn't have spread my legs. People would look at me like I was disgusting. My daughter's father's family was so supportive. They ended up taking me in and my daughter too, when she was born. I got a job immediately and was working as well as being a full time student, on top of being a new mother. Her father and I did split up because we were still too young to know what we really wanted and had different priorities, but he's been there for our daughter whenever she needed him and is a great co-parent. I proved my aunt wrong. I graduated high school, I moved out on my own, I got an amazing job, and there hasn't been a single day of my daughter being born that I regret. She literally saved my life. I was going down a dark road of depression from my grandma who raised me passing away suddenly, before I got pregnant and I know that if I didn't have her, I would be in a completely different and probably much worse place. She is my miracle. Even today, people are incredibly shocked when I tell them my little girl just turned 15 and is heading into high school as a freshman and I'm only 31. I look like a 15 year old myself, haha. I wouldn't change a thing about having her when I did. We're have such a close relationship and have so many silly stupid jokes together and every day with her is a true gift from God. I will never take her for granted or make her feel anything but my ultimate support and love for her. I've made sure to give her all the advice I wish someone had given to me when I was younger. All we can do is our best and hope for the best for our children. I'm so happy for you. I wish you all the best as a fellow young mother!
i started cryng when she said “i would be dead without my daughter” she is a great mom, and a good example to her daugher. God bless her and her daughter❤️
Some people dont show this kind of selflessness and love towards their child as adults and you were able to put you daughter first while you were still a kid yourself. Thats incredible. You can tell how much you love her. She is lucky. Great job momma.
The most shocking thing about your story, is the hate and negativity that people threw at you, I don't understand why people can be so cruel, you're a tough and courageous person and I respect and admire you so much. Be Blessed always.
I can understand why people would be a little judgmental but the death wishes against her and her baby are NOT okay. And people don’t realize that she was so young and unprepared. We cannot blame teen girls for our failure as a society to educate them.
I was pregnant and had a baby at 17... I put myself through college and got a Masters in Counseling degree. Both my kids are 30 and 27 now... Good for you for choosing life and looking past all the hate.. I'm proud of you for all that you have accomplished
Having your families support makes a huge difference. You are able to turn what everyone thought was going to ruin you. Into the best thing that has ever happened to you. I'm very proud of you . Stay strong, Maddie
My take away from this story: as a parent it is a MAJOR part of your job to explain the consequences of having sex to your children. It’s not the schools’ job. It’s yours. These conversations should be taking place routinely. No shame. No awkwardness. Just plain facts. Prepare your children for the reality of what might happen. Have an open line of communication early. This is not to say it won’t happen but these conversations will minimize the chances.
I’m almost 30 years old and about to try to have a baby for the first time and I can’t imagine anything scarier - and to do it as a child yourself. You are an incredible woman. So glad you and your daughter have a happy ending to your story ❤️
You gotta read Childbirth Without Fear, an old book by Grantley Dick-Reid! Ignore the women with horror stories to tell. Talk to some women who had good experiences. Maybe watch some Hipnobirth videos to see women giving birth naturally and peacefully. That book really helped me. The childbirth class wasn’t much help. It will teach you how to relax and WHY (basically, if you don’t your muscles are pushing the baby back up in the wrong direction and fighting the contractions). Sorry, I get excited about childbirth. Hehe. If you’re not pregnant yet write those things down for later. I’ve given birth 8 times. The only slightly negative experience was when I had a controlling midwife who wanted to hurry and go home. 🙄 It is the most amazing experience and I hope you get to experience it! Also, a really good midwife will educate the heck out of you and support you sooo much more than a doctor. 😬 They are usually so much more knowledgeable than an MD about labor and delivery and in PREVENTING a lot of problems. Well, that’s prob way more than you wanted to know. 😆
me to, but after 7 months of trying still no luck.had one miscarriage already. start to think that i am not able to have a baby. and the fact that my mum is miss negative so support from her is not a given.
It makes all the difference in the world when the pregnant mom and dad have their families support. So glad you're doing so good with your life and your daughters.
Your mother's reaction is beautiful. My dad had a similar reaction when he found out I was self harming at 14. I thought he'd be angry and disappointed and I was so scared. When my mom told him and he called me into his room to talk, I thought for sure I was going to be talked down to. Instead he pulled me in for a hug and said "its okay. Its going to be okay, I love you". The way we respond to our children in hard moments programs their inner voice. Handle with care.
Same here I got pregnant at 13, gave birth at 14. Am now 32 years and my daughter she's now 17. Being a single parent ain't a joke. Single moms can be good parents and also raise good children
Most criminals and degenerates come from single mother households these are actual statistics, women are good nurturing but not good at discipline & teaching to control emotions.
Stumbled upon this video randomly. I am 26 years old, my mother is just 41 (turns 42 this year) I was born 2 months after she turned 16. Sadly she wasn't able to properly raise me, therefore I was raised by my grandparents. Nowedays my mom and I get along very well. The more adult I became, the better we got along with each other. Because of me, so to say, she couldn't grow up properly, because of her young age, I couldn't grow up properly to, but many years later, as we both grew up indipendently, we became mother and sun, almost like best friends. Only sixteen years apart from each other we are liking some of the same TV shows as a kid, we have the same opinions, same feelings sometimes. We have a strangely deep connection even tho we could not grow up as a "normal family" Sorry if my grammar and stuff is bad, I'm no native english speaker
That’s an amazing story. Thank you for sharing. Finding yourself pregnant so young must be so scary, your Mom did what was best for you at that time by allowing your grandparents raise you, that must have been extremely tough for her but so selfless. It’s so heartwarming to hear you have such a beautiful relationship with your Mom now 🥰
she's not wrong when she said that teen pregnancy is higher in texas 💀. All the girls I went with in middle school already have children , either right now and highschool pregnancies 🤷🏻♀ i'm 18 almost 19 at the moment and yeah it's scary out here lol, even my friend has a baby who she got pregnant with at 16
They should teach comprehensive, scientific, fact-based sex education, not the religiously motivated abstinence-only nonsense that reliably results in situations like Maddie’s. Simply telling young teens not to do something is a pretty good way to increase the odds that they will do that thing. No amount of telling them that it displeases God will stop it and never, ever has. Want to decrease abortions, teen pregnancy, and STI’s? Me too. You do that by doing what has been proven time and again to work. Ditch the fear and loathing and teach the facts - all of them.
Wow…I rode that rollercoaster with you! It was very pleasant to listen to you talk about your most heartfelt experience. I was able to relate in many ways. I wasn’t even half as mature or successful. My story sucks but I sure like and admire yours. I feel inspired to tell you that your story was uplifting and drew out many different emotions. Some familiar, and some new ones too. I’m now a grama and it brought me joy to see the love you have…I appreciate that! May your journey be fulfilling and peaceful🤗💕
What I liked most about your whole story was your mother's action, when the doctor told her and she came to you, hugged you and said it was going to be okay, that everyone in that house liked babies. I got emotional about it. Congratulations to her. And congratulations to you for the courage to face everything you faced. God bless you and your family. Ana
Its good to supoort ur daughter in this bt bt ......is this mother thinking bout her daughter's health does she know for a 14 yr old girl its soo difficult emotionally n physically to carry a child,,all the teenagers should really be aware wht they r doing sex just for fun is not funny ,its just one time pleasure and lots of responsibility n mental damage in long run.
@@kashishkohli9967 she mentioned in the video that she didn’t have proper sex ed. also, while obviously it’s not ideal for such a young person to get pregnant, especially from a health perspective, she clearly wanted to have the baby, and it would not be anyone’s place to push her to get an abortion. for most people, it’s extremely emotionally traumatising to have your agency taken away in that type of decision, hence “my body, my choice”.
I think that families' economic situation/s may also come into play, it doesn't matter who likes and or loves babies unfortunately that doesn't feed babies. Sometimes parents would like to support their children in whatever decision they are comfortable making but also some kids can't see the full ramifications of their decisions and that would be a huge concern of mine. Also some parents no matter how much they love their children are tired and don't have the emotional or physical energy for various reasons to help their kids through it. It's irresponsible for people to paint a narrative of parents who aren't allowing their 14 year old to make their own decisions as insensitive or uncaring(not saying that's what you're doing).
@@kashishkohli9967 teens having sex responsibly don't have mental damage in the long run. Unless you have a judgmental, mostly, men who demand their wives are virgins. You wouldn't even realize how many girls/women get their hymen closed back up so it seems they are virgins . Demanding to see blood as proof of her virginity is also old. Not everyone bleeds with their first time, and men going beserk for saying their woman is a slut and whore when she really was a virgin should educate themselves and be less of a conservative uneducated dickface. Oh and uhm, let's all make sure that men are Just as much of a virgin,ok? Double standards are so Middle Ages.
Maybe I think maybe she feels that a kid in your house is pregnant at 13 years old and just realised "I never say anything to her about her body or boys etc..."she feels guilty .
Not to mention got seriously bullied, had a few mental problems, had multiple occasions of problems with pregnancy/birth am they both made it out absolute queens. I say both of them are more than girl bosses, something higher than my vocabulary goes
Maddie - I hear you. I had a very similar experience . So many things that you express are literally identical to my thoughts and feelings and experiences at the time. My daughter is now 32, who is unbelievably educated, powerful and successful in her career. I want to tell you that I was in your place and although there were challenges - you will not believe how it works out. You’re an amazing female; an amazing mother and everything will be amazing for you. I’ve been there and I promise you everything that has happened for a reason and your success will be much more than you ever imagined. ❤ p.s. I spent 7 years at university and have a lucrative career and my daughter exceeds me
Maddie, you are amazing!! You're such a strong person and I am inspired by your story! I am so proud of you for keeping your pregnancy and having your daughter! I am so grateful your Mom was there for you. I am so pleased that you didn't let all the negativity get to you or let those mean cruel people tear you down. Good for you!! I'm happy you are doing well and your daughter too!! I'm thankful you made it through your depression and hard times and that you and your daughter are in your own apartment now and getting ready to buy a home! Your goals are outstanding!! You are a beautiful person and you have a wonderful soul. I wish you the very best and for a beautiful life for you and your daughter!
14:07 - I’m sorry for what people did to you while you were pregnant, but you are so strong and wholesome! You daughter is so lucky to have you as her mum.
THE UNSTOPPABLE MADDIE LAMBERT!!! im proud of you too girl. dont forget the big miracle that u both are, and dont forget who gave it to you. u are strong and brave, dont ever let any1 get in ur way! im rooting for u, but u already have this😊 good for u girl
I’m 13 weeks and 5 days pregnant, I found out when I was 6 weeks pregnant, I didn’t know till I kept missing periods until I took a test, me and my bf are keeping it, js found out it’s a girl by blood test and me and my bf are still together ❤️
Yeah still together for now until the baby comes and y’all aren’t stable (financially and mentally). Many people like you break up or divorce. A baby gives lots of stress. If the home ain’t stable and the child is an accident, bigger chance for break up/cheating/divorce. Work on your relationship first, and become financially stable
@@truehappiness4U I had to reply and say that the way you framed your comment seems alot like projection because you could've just warned the commenter about this reality and wished her the very best, but instead you saying "yeah still together for now until the baby comes" just comes off us judgemental and condescending. Now I don't know if this was intentional or not but I had to let you know because you never know how your comment could affect the random stranger on the internet that you're talking to and we could all stand to be a little kinder in our conversations. Best.
@@beccaraymond my comment is a warning and heads up. This is all based on statistics, that’s why many people don’t have children young in today’s economy and society. It’s already hard to be a mother if you’re financially and mentally stable. Let’s not promote teen pregnancies and normalize them and thinking it’s okay. Do not glorify teen pregnancies just because you don’t want to hurt her feelings. To prevent is better than to having to heal.
@@beccaraymond I totally agree. Let's not forecast something negative. We don't know the end of the story. We shouldn't assume. They can come through this young. I would pray for God's help. It may not be easy, but they can come out on the other side blessed.
i'm watching this on international women's day and your story really shows how strong and resilient women are! I'm 27 and can't imagine going through an unplanned pregnancy right now... i cannot fathom what it must have been like for you. thank you for being vulnerable and happy international women's day!
I’m so proud of you, and your family are amazing! Your Mom’s reaction was right on! Having your family’s support makes all the difference in the world! My grandmother always said that babies were always welcome in her house too and she had five girls. I didn’t have any children, so while you did this so young, the fact that you’re right on track, if not most likely doing better than many other 18 year olds without children, you have the world at your fingertips! Enjoy your little girl and stay safe and stay close with your Momma bear!!! X
I cried 3 times (happy, compassion tears) while watching this and am SOOOO happy for you and your daughter. And way to go to your Mom for being your rock! Y'all are amazing! Much love and hugs and keep on doing what you're doing. You're going to be a wonderful psychologist! 😘🤗
@@ArtIsDrawing she was able to keep the baby being a single mom, gave birth, and now has her daughter that she worked hard for. She is strong because she went through this by herself as a teen- can u imagine how hard that is?
What are beautiful and sweet girl you are Maddie. So proud of your character, responsibility, and love. I wish you and Everly all the best in life, and God bless your sweet mom for her love and support as well!
So happy u and Everly made it! Loved hearing ur story❤ I am almost 13 and u helped me realize alot. This is the first video I watched of urs and halfway through u gained a new sub! 💖😁
Sex Education is so important. There is so much responsibility and body changes that occur when having a child at such a young age. It's nice to hear you talk about your back story and are real about it💙
Abstinence was taught to her in her school.. She talked about that.. But then she says that teenagers are not going to listen to abstinence.. So, it's her fault
@@verityh4918 Abstinence is best while humans are teenagers.. Just like cigarettes.. So having sex in teenage is ridiculous.. It harms humans.. Even science recommends the same thing.. But then when it comes to sex.. It is such a strong instinct that people throw common sense out of the window.. But then you will have to face consequences.. Liberals don't like that.. But actions do have consequences..
Yeah, because common sense is the first thing you think about when you think about teenagers. Having sex as a teenager is perfectly fine if you've had good sex education and use contraceptives and nothing you say will change that reality. If anyone is at fault, it's the education system and her parents who missed out on properly educating her.
Maddie im am now 55 years old and my son is going on 41 years old. I fell pregnant at 14 and gave birth at 15.. I was like you.. I didn't really know how it happened I was so naive I had my son I named him kai And back then it wasn't a name much heard of... but I kept him and loved him all of his life... I gave him 2 more brothers from a different daddy but I married the last 2 boys dad... it didn't last forever but that's ok.... I love my 3 sons so so much... and I now have 5 grandkids... Sending love from Australia hunni U got this X
@@user-od1fm3hs9c Thank you Thank you I love my sons with all of my heart They will always be my babies Even tho now my youngest is 31years old...lol.... My middle child is 35 almost and my eldest 41 next bday... I'm 55 ... it was hard going but worth every single struggle I had to go through... we are very lucky tho in Australia the government pays us fairly good money every 2 weeks to get you by... but its still not that easy...
@@debfisher7593 I truly believe that children are the best gift of life. Our love for our children gets us through life's struggles. I didn't have my first one until 34. I take my hat off to any young lady who brings up a child, as it is hard work. Rewarding work though. You sound very relaxed about your marriage ending. Did your ex continue to be involved with the kids? I am currently going through divorce. I dont feel as relaxed as you sounded. I know life goes on though and I will focus on raising my kids.
@@dripxenseixensei3822 - No I wouldn't encourage it. But if it happened, I would not make them feel bad. I would give them my love and support and help them.
Girl, you do you, it was none of anyone else's business, I'm not encouraging but those people should be supporting not critizing, you are a strong person.
Thank you for posting this. At 20 yrs old I was drugged and raped by a co-workers boyfriend. I became pregnant. My family loves babies also: they were great. I hadn't shared that I was raped. They loved on us. I was asked by a co-worker why I wouldn't get an abortion. I said, this is my baby. It has my DNA, my parents DNA, grandparents DNA, etc. My son is a wonderful young man, married with a daughter. I wouldn't change my years as a single mom ❤️ I met and married a great guy. We had 3 children. God bless you , your family, and precious little girl ❤️🕊️❤️
I’m so glad your mum’s reaction was the complete opposite of what you’d expected. Because a smart mum knows that her young, pregnant daughter is feeling a lot of emotions, and fear, and hormones, and a lot else, and a good, smart mum knows that the very last thing that same daughter needs is to feel shame, pressure, or like she’s alone on this new scary journey. ❤
You sweet adorable young girl. Your story made me cry. Don't let anyone steal your beautiful soul. Everyone makes mistakes and I'm glad you kept your daughter. Your mom is a good mother and she was awesome to support you through your pregnancy. Things will be better in the future and don't you worry, you're on the right track and keep the beautiful spirit with you. I'm sending you love right now from a mother that is now 68 years old. Take care sweetheart and keep loving your little girl.❤❤❤❤
Wow! You endure a lot for such a young age! You're strong!! You're good!! There are so many mean persons out there! I'm glad that you were supported by your family, and that both your daughter and yourself are healthy! ❤
What I see a beautiful strong smart woman who is determined to young woman, who loves her baby & will be very successful in her life. My daughter also got pregnant young , we supported our daughter & she has four beautiful children she got her schooling 15 yrs later she is still with her baby daddy ….I am so proud of them & so happy to be Nanny to them all love them all so much so do not to worry about others because you have done it , keep going beautiful young woman 👩….😊❤️✌️🕯💖🙏
A few comments: Just came across. 1. I loved this uplifting video in the midst of deplorable world events. I needed that. Thank you. 2. Why did you have to move out? I would’ve kept my daughter until college graduation if I could. Your parents appeared very supportive. 3. Absolutely bizarre how many hecklers there are. I grew up in Sweden. There were some teenage pregnancies, and one or two births. Very few since we have sex education starting in 5th grade and it’s part of Biology class from 7th grade & repeated each year grade 8 & 9. It includes girls visiting the local doctor’s office for additional education on Birth Control and scheduling of individual appointments for prescriptions if so requested + free condoms & education how to use and their limitations. Parental involvement is zero & each individual have the freedom to decide for themselves. I was shocked when I moved to the US how backwards many states and counties are. Denial of the human sexual drive isn’t productive for the individual, nor optimal for the overall costs for the state. I recall one couple in 10th grade in my school of maybe 600 students had a baby. They continued normal schooling, lived with their parents, and occasionally brought the baby to school with them. I didn’t know them well. I never even heard a single negative thing about them, unless you count the occasional concern how they would plan their college years with a young kid. I did see many occasions with girls gushing over the cute baby. Boys were boys and gushed very little, but no negative expressions at all. I’m sorry you had to go through that.
She didn't have to move, that's something she chose for her daughter and herself. She's an adult now, financially stable, responsible, etc. So it's only natural that she go out on her own, being a wonderful example for her little girl. They also need that space of their own, instead of just a bedroom and bathroom. I'm sure she feels much better having her own kitchen, laundry, bathrooms, etc. Those things are important, they can really help a person feel accomplished and proud! She's doing what so many her age, in the same situation, would never do. And that's definitely something to be proud of!!
I was that girl trying to take my baby to class. I felt so ashamed and judged in the grade below me from time missed. I think my science teacher passed me because he felt sorry for me🥺 Teen pregnancy - it’s the fastest way to grow up🙃
@@kendramandisa Of course. But life is hard. Direct support is important. 18 is adult only on paper. It’s a random number unrelated to biology, and actual adult biological age based on brain development is ~25 (unless you want to set the bar at puberty, then adult is 11-13 somewhere). Raising a child is hard despite all the love you get in return. I was 30 when my firstborn arrived. I had a career & a wife. It was still hard work, and my career took me far away from both our support networks. It was extremely noticeable when we later for six months moved in with my parents. Enormous difference. Even financially. Hence my question. But there are many variables like you say, and like everything in life it’s a question of evaluating opportunity costs.
As you've found, the U.S. is extremely conservative in terms of sex being a taboo subject, abortion rights, compulsory education. I don't see it changing, unfortunately. If anything, we're going backwards... :(
You are such a brave young lady to tell your story Maddie. People are so cruel and I am glad you didn’t listen to them. You are not the first person or last to have this happen to you. I am sure this has made you a stronger person.❤
I’m glad you’re doing well. Sorry that you had bullies messaging you. I congratulate your mother who supported you throughout the process. Thanks for sharing your story. God bless you and your precious miracle daughter.
I’m 15, I just found out I’m pregnant and I’m watching all these videos of teen moms cuz I’m so scared. I’m too far along to get an abortion and even if I wasn’t I wouldn’t get one. I’m just so worried. I haven’t even told my boyfriend yet.. I’ve known for 2 months. I’ve been so terrified to tell him, I’m scared he’ll leave me. He’s only 14. He obviously doesn’t wanna be a dad. I’m planning on telling him in person tomorrow. Wish me luck. 😭
My daughter was 14 also. I became a grandma at 33 to a beautiful granddaughter. Advice to family members....support support support these kids, They grow up to become good parents.
Just realized I accidentally left in some raw footage at the end! oops, I just edited it out:)
Hi Maddi! I’m a huge fan! Can I have a shoutout?!
Schools shouldn't be teaching you sex ed, dear. That's the job of your parents!!!
@@dibutler9151 Thats not true.
I've heard your story before and it still Just makes me sick to my stomach that people bullied you so much and said those horrendous things about you and your baby.
I'm glad you had your family by your side. People forget once upon a time not too long ago it was completely normal to be a teen parent and to marry very young..
That is not true at all
Should you encourage teen pregnancy? No.
But if your child comes to you saying they are pregnant should you support them and make them feel loved? ABSOLUTELY YES.
And they need to have options
@@mayakuduwudu3299 this is not the place
@@manicpixiecoffeelovr not the place for what, the truth? The truth casts no shadow on the fact that the owner of the channel is amazing, strong and very likely a great mother (if that's your concern).
Btw, "having options" goes in line with the original comment's opening remark "one shouldn't encourage teen pregnancies".
As for the second part "if your child comes to you and says they're pregnant -- make them feel loved" -- definitely yes. As for the course of actions after that -- totally depends on CHOICE.
I've taught my niece English and she watches a lot of English vids now. After she sent me this one with a comment "maybe this is what we girls should do", I decided to leave my comment. However, she might've been sarcastic. Gonna talk to her when I see her.
@@mayakuduwudu3299 not the place for you to talk about abortion... and encourage it, rather than being strong and helping them through it instead you take the easy way out.
@@mayakuduwudu3299 no one is encouraging, how about not encouraging teen sex how about that.
Your mom’s reaction to your pregnancy was impeccable. “It’s going to be okay, we love babies in this house” No more perfect words could have been spoken in that moment. That is a mother who showed her child pure love and support. Kudos to your mom!
You are soooo spot on!! Her mother is PRICELESS!!!👍🏻👏🏻👌🏻🇨🇦
If I ever become a mom this is how I'd react if my kid was pregnant
Lovely and beautiful story,you are blessed with such a mother,you mentioned something about praying and God in your story.I have no doubt your mother was in prayer for the outcome,God’s blessings is always there you just have to ask for it,and He will deliver, Amen?may God bless you ,your daughter, and your mother, and your family always. Amen.
Completely agree. You got caught getting pregnant. But, I fully believe God creates babies and for a reason. He decided you and your family needed this little girl. Glad your family was supportive instead of pushing you into an abortion. I am sure your the Lord had to speak to your mother's heart before she gave you her reaction. Blessings to you all.
Ikr!!! That was the most amazing part of the story for me. I can’t imagine how relieved she’d have felt… just think, you think your mum is gonna disown you and then she just hugs you and says THAT.💕💕☺️
No one should make fun of or bully a pregnant teen. I'm glad your mom supported you through your pregnancy. Good luck with your college!
Nah theyre pregnant because they’re stupid and ignorant im 14 and i would never do that
Im living my age and ofc im not having a boyfriend and getting pregnant 😂😂😂😂😂
@@sofiavallepiyou’re really so obsessed with her that you start hating on her
I had my first child 2 months after turning 14 yrs old in 1987 , so i completely understand what you’re going through..I am now 50 and he is 36yrs old..YOU GOT THIS
I feel like you two are probably best friends. Thanks for sharing with us.
It frustrates me that in situations like this, the girl is always accused (being called names) whereas the boy isn't at all bullied.
I'm happy you made it out okay despite all that.
Great video, I'm proud of you too :)
And so goes the story that is as old as time…
Exactly... not that I want anyone to get bullied but like still... that isn't fair
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Yeah!
literally
you say "my daughter" with such pride and happiness its so beautiful.
That little girl is her EVERYTHING 😍 she's such an amazing mother. I'm 23, I have an almost 6 year old and an almost 3 year old, and I'm SO proud of Maddie and inspired by her
Thank you…I am proud of all five of my daughters …all beautiful, talented musicians and singers besides their careers and being wonderful mothers …and our youngest who is almost a mother, is a talented graphic designer just like her third big sister who arrested the Dallas Art Institute…and her oldest big sister who is the first in our family to get her masters in education, and her second big sister who is a smashing photographer, and her next big sister who is only 22 months older and who was in the Texas All State Band for three years and has her BA in Music Education…not to forget my youngest son who is the protector of his five sisters since we lost my oldest son and who is a super collision repair specialist and who knows how to do those fancy paint jobs on cars…yes, I am proud of them… true marvels and miracles of creation…I love them and all 21 of their children as well…mine, my mother’s, my grandmother’s and my great-grandmother’s legacies as well. Sometime we have to believe that our children and our grandchildren are the reason we were put on this earth. I have always hoped that my being an EMT-Intermediate for 7 years might have been part of the reason my oldest grand son has the word Doctor in front of his name. I believe all 17 of my grandsons and my three granddaughters are all destined to do something wonderful in this world and do something that will help mankind in some way…something to be proud of indeed.
“Arrested” the Dallas Art Institute…lol… now that would be quite a feat indeed…sometimes I do not understand autocorrect. My third daughter attended and graduated from the Dallas Art Institute but don’t think she ever tried to arrest them…oh, my, my.
I truly think that this young lady for what all she has been through is an amazing and outstanding mother and example for parents everywhere. Her daughter is a lucky little girl and she is a lucky daughter and mother as well. God knows what he is doing.
lmfao yeah cause it’s for the camera when yk she’s miserable on an average day
Hi Maddie. My names Kylie and I am 15 years old. I am 28 weeks going on 29 weeks pregnant. And I loved hearing your story. And it made me feel a lot better about my situation as well. I’m so happy to see you grow and happy. God bless you ❤
I hope everything goes well ❤
Everything is gonna be okay, I hope your pregnancy goes well and that your baby is healthy❤
even if it may seem like the end of the world, dont give up. in a few years, you'll look down at your baby and think: "i am so glad i kept you!" keep going, it all be fine! 💗
You got this Maddie! You’re going to be a wonderful mother ❤
Sending you hugs from Australia and you take good care lovely blessings on you and your bubba.🇦🇺💕💕💕
The same thing happened to my sister and she went on to get her Masters in Sociology and had a successful career as a social worker (she’s retired now) and raised her daughter, who is also an amazing woman. You got this! Praying for you.
My mother-in-law had my husband at 14. Her own father and step-mom gave her money to get an abortion. She didn't want to do it but her father told her he'd kick her out if she kept the baby.
She went to the clinic, paid the fee, and met with the nurse who brought her back to the procedure room.
The nurse told my mother-in-law, "You don't have to do this. You can keep the baby if you want."
Thank God for that nurse!!
Wow for sure. THANK GOD. FOR THAT NURSE❤
Well it’s her body, her choice. So if she wanted to have an abortion she should have been able to have one.
@@blumberg1982 So basically her husband's life was disposable? Wow.
@@MooJoo It wasn't a life back then. It only became a life *because* she didn't "dispose" of the fetus.
@@destituteanddecadent9106 You play with words to hide reality. Fetus is just the Latin word for "little one". That little one had all it's DNA on day one of conception and it's heart was beating by week 6.
So by "disposing" of him you mean kill him, since he was clearly alive even though he wasn't fully developed.
If you're okay with killing live babies, at least have the guts to say it.
My mom straight up asked me if I might be pregnant. I finally admitted it outloud not knowing what the reaction would be. She said "your dad and I want you to know that even though we wish the circumstances were different, we love you and were actually excited to be grandparents." The relief that there was no anger or moral judgment, just acknowledging that being pregnant at 16 was going to be rough. Btw...I ended up having twins and they're amazing!
I'm really glad your parents were actually being good people towards you. I hope you and your twins are doing well!
@@kiwimiwi5452 They're doing awesome. They're 28 now and I'm having coffee with one of them this morning. :)
@@cherisola416 omg thats actually great to hear. im so happy for you!!!!!
You’re so blessed to have had a supportive 2 parent home.
Good for not having abortion ❤️
Maddie,
I am 15 and recently lost my V-Card and told my mom two days later (one week and one day before i am writing this) i was so so so scared that i was pregnant. when i told my mom we had to break up which absolutely sucks sm bc he was my first love. it has completely gotten spread around my high school. your story has honestly helped me realize just how lucky i am. there was also no protection. your story has helped me realize that my life isn’t over. it will get better. thank you so much Maddie.
much love from Oklahoma,
Aubrey
I loved the part where you said that all your fears disappeared when you saw your baby 😭😭 that happened to me too! (And I had my baby at 33) everybody says that having babies is a bad decision but I think having them too late is worst, less energy and a harder time to be generous and to adapt easily to your new life, kudos for you and the great job you're doing for your baby 😍
I had my daughter at 46, and she's the joy of my life. Yes, I'm more tired than when I was a young mom, but I'm also a more patient and present mom.
@@signdebb Please take care of your health and try to make sure she is OK with you being an old mum because I was in the same situation and since I was 20 I started being TERRIFIED of losing my parents.
@@Serena-or7sl that is definitely a fear that my daughter has, however, I also had a fear of losing my parents when I was a child, and they were young when I was born. I think the fear if losing a parent is a fear that many children have, regardless of their parents age. I have talked to my daughter about this, and about the fact that nobody gets out of this life alive. The best we can do is love each other and appreciate the time we have while we're alive. Knowing that our time on earth is limited, we should try not to take anything for granted. Take care ~
i agree. i waited until i was 30 before i even considered it. then i was like, crap i better hurry if i want 3. i ended finally pregnant at 31, had her at 32, and we almost died due to the severity of my hyperemasis. not fun. i ended up with 1 more at 37 (ironically less hyperemasis as i was older) and Lord have mercy on me, i wish i did it 10 years sooner😂
I had a baby at 16: got pregnant at 15. I had to give her up for adoption and thought of her everyday. When she turned 46 she decided to find me and find me she did. We’ve had a beautiful friendship since then. She has 4 boys which I ❤️ love. I was unable to keep her. My parents were alcoholics and didn’t want to raise another one. Abortion was off the table and the year was 1967. No government help programs. No anything. Kudos to you for your girl, aren’t they the cuties? You have my respect and admiration.
You made the right choice for yourself and her, I hope both of you had a good life growing up.
I am so, so sorry you had to give up your child. The world was a harsh place for women then. It makes me sick to my stomach when one reads about the cruelty that was inflicted on women and children even up to the 1980s. I had friends who had babies at 16 & 17 in Scotland in the late 1970s. Still slightly scandalous- BUT the welfare rules changed and they were entitled to a small flat, a benefit and support. This was an enormous help to those genuinely in need, but one or a hundred saw it as a way to financial and actual independence- and took it. Those of us slogging away at University in damp, draughty flats with no money often envied those girls their little flats with central heating, secure income and bonny baby. Mind you, they had to put Uni on a back burner for a while!
I can't imagine what you went through emotionally. God bless you.
awwww that's sad and happy at the same time..
Nice
I have a friend who got pregnant at 12 yo and had her son at 13. Her parents turned her over to social services when they found out she was pregnant. Her foster family became her real family. They raised her and her baby. Allowed her to be a child, go to school do extra curricular activities and taught her how to be a mother. She is 30 yo now, married and has a toddler. Both kids call her "foster" parents Nana and papa. Her biological parents completely cut her off. The biological dad was also 12. Him and his parents are very involved and paid support. She feels very fortunate the way her life turned out and having a family that cared.
I don't get it....why the western kids involve in something which is appropriate for adults
her real parents did good
Some blessings comes as disguises. Beautiful story.
@@classyart5322 exactly. It's a really really fked up world they live in. They all say their fked up stories so proudly too.
@@classyart5322 because there is no restriction in the society for having sex. It is not so something accepted bad before marriage
Almost crying by the end of the video. I was 19 when I had my first baby. I had to relocate because I couldn't bear the shame back then, but now, I don't regret getting pregnant.
Although I've never had the courage to share it until now. 😊.
Thank you so much for this video ❤
19? thats not even that young tho?
@@InterestingMC yeah really
What a story! I am so impressed with you, me at 35, I cant even think of the idea of getting pregnant. I actually fear the idea of having something growing in me, and than the fear of how to give the child a good life. All the while running the exhausting ratrace that is trying to keep afloat in society that I can barely afford.
And here are you, so brave during you pregnancy and so ready for whatever being a parent entails. You have my deepest respect.
I felt the same way. I did not have children, but I don't feel regret because I never met a suitable father and I couldn't do it by myself.
@MyNameThe1st / Your life changes, but like all things, you adapt. Think of going from summer to winter. You know it’s coming, so you prepare and take it day by day. If you live to be old, you’ll be relieved to know that there is hopefully someone to look out for you ❤
I WHOLEHEARTEDLY 💝 AGREE 💥🌈💥💥
@@UnsolvedCrimesUncovered a bit late reading your comment, but I still want to thank you for your kind words. I would love to have someone who will look out for me. Sadly, I have the annoying trait where I attract codependants. Meaning I will have an adult "child" instead of an equal partner. Until I figure out why this is and how to attract an equal. In the meantime, I am happy enough for the most time. 😊 perhaps 1 day I will find my solid rock who will catch me when I need it. And you know, that person may just change my mind on having kids or not
@@Nickelbippy I feel this. I could not do it alone. I've seen my mother doing it alone and it was a huge stuggle. In fact, I left me with therapy to fix and learn the parts that a father offers to a child as they grow up. Fathers are so important!
But alas... the partners I attract are codependants... having a child with someone with thay attachment style is to have 1 baby and one aduld-baby. Al the while doing all the emotional support but having noone to catch you when you need it.
Should I find a person with whom I can be weak for a moment and feel sheltered and secure. I will rethink my views and consider a child. Be that mine or afopted (as I am bi, and no a large dating pool is ironically not helpful in finding the right person 😆) so until I figured out what it is that I just can't seem to find (or recognise) a good partner, I refuse to have kids. I have enough to keep afloat, and worry about. Child would be the death of my mental heath.
My mother-in-law got pregnant at 13 and had my husband at 14. This was 1969/70. Her family were also supportive. A few years later, she was diagnosed with a terminal illness and passed soon after she turned 21. I believe her early pregnancy was meant to be. She brought this wonderful person into the world and got to experience the joys of being his mom. When she passed, the blow was softened to her parents because she left behind this precious part of her that they got to raise.
Corellyn, that;s so touching. Yes, a blessing from God, how wonderful
Wow that's so sad
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He was gift from God.
My birth mom was 16 the entire time she carried me. I was adopted by loving parents who lived to be 92 and 99. I understand why my mom let go of me, and live her for carrying me. I have two daughters and eight grandchildren today. Best regards, Doug
My mom was adopted, she always prayed that her both mother was resigned with her decision . She was adopted by wonderful parents and was doted on as an only child. It takes great love to give up a child
Adoption is a wonderful thing. And it’s usually because a mother loves her child and wants more for her child and is why you were adopted. (Because a birth mother loves you ! )
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You seem like a nice man @ Douglas Fisher
I had to choke back tears when you told of your mums reaction. I can never understand how some parents don’t support their children unconditionally. My ‘babies’ are now 17, 19 & 21 but I could never push them away regardless of what mistakes they may make in life. I would always be there. So I was choked up to hear how supportive your immediate family were, and I’m so happy that it all worked out for you and your daughter.
I know this video is a couple years old now and I’m just discovering it, so I’m sure your life has progressed further still. I wish you all the best in future endeavours and best wishes for your little family.
She just had a son a few weeks ago. She’s married, and has a beautiful family. Everly loves her little brother so much, and he’s very lucky to have her as a sister.
@@CassandraMarableaww thanks for the update. I’m so glad they are all happy and well ❤
@@misscazzybee No problem. I kind of watch her channel on and off so I just checked back in recently.
This is the first time I'm learning about you and your story. I can't imagine how painful it must have been to be ridiculed by all your peers during such a challenging time in life. You are very courageous and a beautiful woman with a bright future. Blessings to you and your sweet daughter. Thanks for sharing your story!
I simply cannot understand such evil comments from people you knew and people who didn't know you making such hateful and cruel attacks on you. Proud of you for not aborting her and making the choice to turn to God and turn your life into something positive. ❤
thereve been schmut articles thatve stolen her picture and situation to promote propaganda such as 'girl r@pped @12' and '14yo forced to give birth b/c theres no abortions' etc. all lies, in the ad articles at the bottom of the page. never clicked on em, but this popped up in my ytube, and i was like, huh. the real story, that ill take. such a wonderful story about an amazing girl. and horrific shame on any1 that wouldve given her a hard time. they are all just jealous haters thatll be fat, ugly n barren in about 10 years. this girl is hurtling circles around them at neckbreak pace.
I was 14. Disowned. That was 49 years ago. My son is the most wonderful person I know. He has my 3 grand babies. ❤ It was not an easy journey but am so glad I loved us both through it.
Sad to hear. On another note, unsurprisingly nobody even mentions the fathers bacause it reminds of the bad choises and non-accountabilities. Nobody talks about how every fatherless child misses their father, but the issue can just be kept hidden.
A single mother hasn't wised up before she acknowledges and takes accountability for her poor choises which includes warning others.
It's not a question of being either worthy or wothless, all people have worth. It's a question of wise or unwise living without moral condemnments attached.
So glad you made it through and raised him succesfully!
so sorry you had to go through that, and i hope you, your son, and your grandchildren are having a wonderful life now 💗💗💗
@@haliaeetus8221Wow. You got problems, dude. Never speak or type again.
Same!!my son is 38!!I have 2 granddaughters!!
What kind of lunatics would send messages to a 14 year old girl that they hope she dies, or that she should have an a bortion? That's completely unreal to me. I'm so happy to hear that you kept your daughter alive. That was a mature decision to make, right away.
It's awful to say, it happens a lot with teen pregnancy. I remember my mother telling me stories of all the awful things people used to say about her.
Probably other teenagers..
@@DL-idk If so, it is a real shame that their mothers did not step in. I can't imagine how I'd feel if I found out my own children were treating someone this way.
Maybe people who also had teen parents and weren't able to care good for them. A lot of this can stem from trauma. This is not an excuse but a reason
Dude. People who say this to teen moms, and are also "pro life" / "anti-abortion". They'd shame young women for choosing to keep the baby, and also young women who choose to remove the undeveloped fetus (within 1st trimester).
They don't want their daughters to have sex, but they let their sons to have sex with other people's daughters (even in their own homes). The mentality those kind of people carry are weird and pathetic.
Hey,daughter/granddaughter/great granddaughter of a women who had teen pregnancy. My mom had me when she was 18 & lucky enough my father stayed in the picture until this very day. I am just so thankful that my mom wanted to keep her first baby (Me). My grandma was 14 (I think) when she was pregnant with my only uncle (From my dad’s side) & my grandpa loved her until this special day. Even though I wasn’t born then, I am so lucky to have my uncle, my best friend, stay in this world. My great grandma had her first baby when she was 13 (I think again). Sadly, my great grandpa died almost a year ago, but he loved & cared for her so much. I so thankful my great grandparent(s) were apart of a lot of my childhood. My great grandma still being here is such a blessing. When I was around six and I think seven, my great grandparents moved back to their home country Mexico. They sometimes visited but not that often. But since my great grandpa’s death,my great grandma visits so much. My grandma says she wants to visit her and stay there for a few months because my great grandma is lonely in her home. But it hurts me so much when she says that because I’ve known and lived with her all my life. My mom would sometimes say my grandma is going to visit my great grandma for a few months makes me almost cry. Each time she says that, she’ll say she’s joking so I won’t cry. But my grandma would just say that she might,though she doesn’t know. That’s my comment.
I started crying when you said that your mother hugged you, I was so happy that youor mother supported you and that everytihing worked out. I'm so sorry about all the bullying you had to go through you did not deserve that, you're so strong!
Your mum is amazing. She definitely had to hide her worries and fears from you, as you were just a child yourself. This is the parent I want to be. So sorry you went through so much. You are an amazing mother just like your mother 💕💕
that is teenagers for you
Oh yes! FOR SURE! Of course, she had 13yrs experience hiding her fears, worries, shock & anxieties from her child. Albeit, this was an extra big one, we parents are worried (& even terrified at times) for our children the moment they take their first breath. And we are masterful at hiding it.
Um excuse me she’s not a child she’s a teenager 13 not 3
@@mariadonkova2759 You realize a person's brain is not fully developed until they're 23
The main roots for teenage pregnancy are bad childhood (bullying, child abuse, parents divorce etc) and the lack of communication between children and parents! I think parents should be more confident and mature enough to make children understand the consequences of teenage pregnancies via proper communication (NOT JUST GIRLS BUT ALSO TO THE BOYS)! But I do admire all the teen parents out there for their hard work and sacrifices to raise their children 💗💗
My parents just divorced like 5 months ago
@@simply_lena8196 I am sorry to hear that. Hope you will have a good and strong social support. I know it’s hard to convey my emotions through online but “BE STRONG AND HAVE MORE AND HIGH QUALITY RELATIONSHIPS FOR SOCIAL SUPPORT”!
Decent sex education for boys and girls, stopping the protests at family planning clinics, provide free contraception.
There are PLENTY of teen pregnancies from wealthy, non-abused, still together parent-families. I understand what you’re getting at. But have to disagree that the “main roots” are bullying or children of divorce. The main roots are indeed lack of communication AND lack of EDUCATION. Just like Maddi said, obviously teaching just abstinence is not working.
@@melaniebutson7933 seriously!
I’m in the Air Force and before you get deployed women have to provide a negative pregnancy test. They sent me to a planned parenthood clinic to get that test done and I was SHOCKED at the literal group of 50+ year old MEN shouting expletives and calling us all “baby killers” that were walking into the clinic…?? First of all it’s none of their business why women are there. But secondly the clinic obviously provides all sorts of services! One being PREGNANCY TESTS for the USAF. That day really really opened my eyes up. I couldn’t imagine being a pregnant woman and considering termination only to have to face a group of men screaming at you “baby killer”!?
i’m so proud of you for having to go through this and still wanting to keep the baby in hard times. you are so great and deserve what you got for support from your close ones
This just showed up in my feed. I gotta say, God bless you and your little girl, God bless your family. Your mom's reaction is exactly what we need more of. I am so very happy she gave you so much support and for you for not giving up on your child and deciding to go through with the pregnancy. I'm also thankful for God helping you through it through your faith.
I am 61 yrs old & i was pregnant at 14. I was taken for an abortion without anyone ever asking me what I wanted. I was told this is what we are doing. It has never been mentioned again to this day by my mother. I am glad you had support. Getting over the guilt I had for the abortion took many, many years & a relationship with Jesus. I wish you more success for you & your daughter. God bless you both!
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@@shefinmathew1849 no they didnt, she literally just said they didnt even ask her if she wanted to have an abortion, youre sick
@@shefinmathew1849 yeah are you kidding me wth man i agree with @emz you are sick
@@maddiez3277 True!!!!! People need an big cup of reality...
@@shefinmathew1849 There is not a right thing in this situation. It is more complicated than that. Yes, a 14 year old should not have to raise a baby, but the parents of a 14 year old should step in and help while asking what the 14 year old would want.
"we love babies in this house" that almost made me cry, I think thats the best answear, keeping that phrase in my mind ...
Especially when they wake you up in the night screaming
My 15 year daughter got pregnant and my first thought of her and my grandchild’s health physical and mentally. She later in her twenties had 3 more all girls. Everyone in our family supported her. First born starts law school soon. My daughter did married in early 20’s. I was lucky to be able to be able to watch new baby half day why daughter finished hs. Grandpa and her uncles were adoring. It is sad parents don’t support their kids. One thing important is for the the grandma Mimi not to take charge.. it could undermine the teen mom. Our roles were clear naturally.
This young woman and her mom have my heart And my huge smile and a tear in my eye . Smile
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You speak so eloquently…you look so grounded and brave! You are an angel!❤
I’m so proud of you, and so happy that you and your daughter have each other. Kudos to your mother, who knows how to be a truly loving parent-and set a phenomenal example for you.
Amazing story. Somewhere there is a 13 year old girl searching the internet for help and finding your video and hopefully finding some comfort in it and finding the help they need.
I hope the 13-year-olds watch this and learn what not to do at 13. The age of social media has made things even worse for teenagers. My 21-year-old sister was approached by a 13 yr old fella from the neighborhood and he wanted to be "in a relationship" with her. She reported the incident to his parents and advised them to keep a tab on their son's behavior.
Yess!! I hope they find their comfort
im 13 and very glad i don’t have that problem.
@@shivinunitholi2493 lmao I'm 21 but I can't imagine anybody below 20 and me together
I rly hope this is not the common but well, everyone deserves a second chance v:
I’m a 74 year old grandmother and this is such a sweet video. You are brave and need to be commended. Thanks for sharing.
aww so cute
good on you for getting through that with such strength and positivity. your mum is outstanding. all the best to you and your family. hope you forge an even more beautiful future ahead.
Hearing your mom say “we love babies in this house” brought me back to the morning I called my mom in a panic at 5a after a positive pregnancy test. She told me the same thing. My mom is not perfect, but she has come in clutch when I have needed her most as a mom. Here’s to moms who come through when needed most 🍻
Brings tears to my eyes - what sweet moms! Making a note to be this kind of mom.
My mom shamed me publicly. I’m glad yours did not.
It was THE PERFECT response.
I think a lot of parents don’t have the luxury of the five minutes they need to make a loving response. Many have it blurted out face to face, and saying something stupid. Now some parents are just not right, not loving.
A good mom.
When your daughter was being resuscitated and you were hemorrhaging, your poor mother must have been terrified. So glad it all turned out for you. And you have come farther than many people twice your age! Congratulations!
Her mother should have explained to her how people get pregnant.
Getting baby means coming farther 😂😂😂😂! Man get a life animals on the street are farther too . Make them president of the country right now
How are people even supporting this??!! Like literally teen pregnancy is not a thing to be proud of. Children watching this should learn that they shouldn't do anything in their sensitive years. Like feed yourself first and then feed someone else. You will just become a burden on your parents, with no job and career. Like will you study or look after the baby. Are the countries dumb to even make a legal age for marriage?? This is totally unacceptable.
@@allfire8056 Calm down. No one here is supporting teen pregnancy. We’re supporting her. Although having a baby this young is reckless, she has obviously matured and is openly trying to educate the youth about the dangers of child birth by sharing her story
@@allfire8056 exactly how ruined this world has become ! She literally sold her dignity and people here are praising her like it's normal .
I’m so glad to hear your story and how you are doing. You did it girl. I’m so proud that you kept going no matter what people told you.
What many people don't understand is that there are kids that have sex and it's the education that can determine how safe they are with sex. It's so normal for these things to happen and the ignorance that some adults show is not going to change that. You are an amazing, loving mother and I can tell you care for your daughter so much. I'm about your age now (2 years after this video was posted lol) and couldn't imagine being in your position 6 years ago. So proud of you.
It completely blows my mind that STRANGERS, actual strangers sent you death threats for absolutely no reason?? Teenagers are scary. Also your mother is an amazing parent she didnt even think about disowning you instead she showed her support and love, thats how every parent should be :) You're a very strong person maddie
Right? Isn't Texas pro-life too? Ridiculous.
It completely blows my mind that strangers , actual strangers sent you death threats for absolutely no reason?? Teens
Teenager's and scary. Also your
Mother is an amazing parent she didn't even think about disowning
And it’s not even her fault for being pregnant at such a young age.
@@pencrunch6208 It's not her fault for being pregnant? So she didn't have unprotected relations with a guy then? What a strong and fierce person she is, getting herself knocked up at age 14, barely a teenager, if you think this is acceptable you seriously need to get psychiatrically evaluated!
I would never kick my pregnant 14 year old out of the house. We are supposed to love our kids unconditionally.
Same
Wait did she get kicked out!?
@@preppyxstrangerthings3992 How about you watch the video?
@@saturn6563 I Did I just wanted to know incase I missed something sorry!
It’s okay don’t feel bad you were just curious
You’re such a strong young lady ❤ so proud of you ! Your daughter is so blessed to have a mommy like you. 🫶🏻
that’s such an awesome reaction from your mom 🥺❤️
I’m so proud of you, I have followed you since Everly was a baby. I got pregnant at 15 and had my son 5 days after my 16 th birthday. I was only 25 weeks along. We spent 114 days in the NICU, they said he would never survive. I was treated horribly, but I showed everyone. He is now 23 and I own my own company. Your such an amazing woman and mom! 🥰🥰🥰
I wish I was that strong. I was mentally 12 at 15 so the idea of having sex was as distant as a space let alone giving a birth, definitely would not do it. I finished university, bought a flat, have an amazing husband almost finished my book, now time for a child.
You had a big desire to prove everybody wrong huh and now you're boasting about your success? Not everybody is successful when they have a child while they're still a child themselves, it's the height of selfishness to do so. I bet that you couldn't do it on your own if it wasn't for your mother or a large circle of people to help you! Again it's very selfish on your part. Imagine how much more successful you would have been had you waited to become a mother?
@@jillybean3688 Exactly, I always wonder who pays for the children needs when the mother is still legally unable to work full time. I would not do it to my parents. Too selfish.
@@jillybean3688 They were just sharing their experiences.. Pretty sure it isnt her fault that some are not successful. She is gladly blessed to have good people around her.
@@ZenitsuKunn no kidding. What's your point?
I'm the daughter of a teen mom and raising me at 17 was hard for my mother, and I saw it was, so I just think that you are so brave to go through what you went through.
I cannot even imagine that. I had no money at 17 yet, was at school , not 18 yet to find a full time job, my parents would have to pay for everything. That's why I would not do it to them as they did not have ant extra money to raise another child, not even a grandchild from money point of view. Love does not feed a baby.
@Kathia Perra What is wrong with you?? Hope you get insomnia for saying something like that, it should keep you up at night.
@Kathia Perra WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU
@Kathia Perra wtf is wrong with you????
@Kathia Perra What the hell? That is nothing to joke about. Getting deported is an awful thing.
I had my first child at 16 and your story brought back so many memories and took me right back to that time. My daughter is now 40, so this goes back quite some time ago!
Oh. my. god. All I want to do right now is give you a hug, you are so strong and inspirational. You go girl for getting yourself an apartment!
I'm so astounded at how closely your story mirrors my own. I was pregnant at 15 and had my daughter at 16. My daughter's father and I were so naive and also weren't properly educated on the risks or how easy it was to become pregnant. One time. It only took one time.
One of my sisters thought she was pregnant and she convinced me to take a test with her and imagine my shock when I had the positive test result and she didn't. I was so stunned that it happened so easily. I thought it was really hard to get pregnant from all the TV shows and magazines and real life stories I had heard from adults that couldn't conceive no matter what they tried. I was terrified. I thought my life was over. A was still a child myself, developing into adulthood, having a literal human life growing inside of her.
I hid it for 2 or 3 months until my oldest sister who had guardianship of me at the time took me to the doctor for a UTI and I was trembling in fear because I knew what was going to happen at that doctor's office. The doctor asked me if I had been sexually active and I remember the look of disappointment and anger on my sister's face when I answered yes. I thought she was going to kick me out. I didnt have any other family members or friends to turn to and no job, no car. My aunt told me to get an abortion because having a baby would ruin my life and I wouldn't graduate high school or get a good job or enjoy my youth. But I refused. I was having this baby. And I was keeping her.
The students at my school looked at me differently. They would call me easy and say horrible things and that if I didn't want to hear them, then I shouldn't have spread my legs. People would look at me like I was disgusting.
My daughter's father's family was so supportive. They ended up taking me in and my daughter too, when she was born. I got a job immediately and was working as well as being a full time student, on top of being a new mother.
Her father and I did split up because we were still too young to know what we really wanted and had different priorities, but he's been there for our daughter whenever she needed him and is a great co-parent.
I proved my aunt wrong. I graduated high school, I moved out on my own, I got an amazing job, and there hasn't been a single day of my daughter being born that I regret. She literally saved my life. I was going down a dark road of depression from my grandma who raised me passing away suddenly, before I got pregnant and I know that if I didn't have her, I would be in a completely different and probably much worse place. She is my miracle.
Even today, people are incredibly shocked when I tell them my little girl just turned 15 and is heading into high school as a freshman and I'm only 31. I look like a 15 year old myself, haha.
I wouldn't change a thing about having her when I did. We're have such a close relationship and have so many silly stupid jokes together and every day with her is a true gift from God. I will never take her for granted or make her feel anything but my ultimate support and love for her. I've made sure to give her all the advice I wish someone had given to me when I was younger. All we can do is our best and hope for the best for our children.
I'm so happy for you. I wish you all the best as a fellow young mother!
What a beautiful story. Bravo, momma!
Thank you for telling you’re story. I wish many more happy memories with your family! 🥰
Wow you’re very smart how you handle the situation it makes me so happy
God bless you for your strength.
so? you had a normal life, 15 is when people start fucking
i started cryng when she said “i would be dead without my daughter” she is a great mom, and a good example to her daugher. God bless her and her daughter❤️
Yes good example. Have a kid when starting 14y. I think she should be a president.
@@user-ru6lw4vt2p ikr? she should. u wanna support her?
love that
Some people dont show this kind of selflessness and love towards their child as adults and you were able to put you daughter first while you were still a kid yourself. Thats incredible. You can tell how much you love her. She is lucky. Great job momma.
I’ve been subscribed to you for a few years now and it’s great to hear that your doing so well! Much love❤
The most shocking thing about your story, is the hate and negativity that people threw at you, I don't understand why people can be so cruel, you're a tough and courageous person and I respect and admire you so much. Be Blessed always.
that was the least shocking for me.... people always bully teen moms. the father was doing just fine living his life normally, i bet
The girl looks like she’s out to get knocked up. It’s obvious proud of herself
Meanwhile it’s illegal what she did and the sperm donor
Why is that shocking we live in a crooked society
people see no boundaries anymore
I can understand why people would be a little judgmental but the death wishes against her and her baby are NOT okay. And people don’t realize that she was so young and unprepared. We cannot blame teen girls for our failure as a society to educate them.
I was pregnant and had a baby at 17... I put myself through college and got a Masters in Counseling degree. Both my kids are 30 and 27 now... Good for you for choosing life and looking past all the hate.. I'm proud of you for all that you have accomplished
You all dared to take on a life and won abortion is not
Always the answer properly not the answer this Is proof
I’m pregnant and 16 I’m 13 weeks and 5 days pregnant, I will give birth 5 days before I turn 17
Having your families support makes a huge difference. You are able to turn what everyone thought was going to ruin you. Into the best thing that has ever happened to you. I'm very proud of you . Stay strong, Maddie
This video was my first time hearing your story, Maddie. You are a brave and remarkable young woman and I will now be praying for you and Everly.
I am a 70 year old woman. I enjoyed listening to your story and I’m glad things have worked out for you. God bless you, sweetie!
My take away from this story: as a parent it is a MAJOR part of your job to explain the consequences of having sex to your children. It’s not the schools’ job. It’s yours. These conversations should be taking place routinely. No shame. No awkwardness. Just plain facts. Prepare your children for the reality of what might happen. Have an open line of communication early. This is not to say it won’t happen but these conversations will minimize the chances.
I’m almost 30 years old and about to try to have a baby for the first time and I can’t imagine anything scarier - and to do it as a child yourself. You are an incredible woman. So glad you and your daughter have a happy ending to your story ❤️
You gotta read Childbirth Without Fear, an old book by Grantley Dick-Reid! Ignore the women with horror stories to tell. Talk to some women who had good experiences. Maybe watch some Hipnobirth videos to see women giving birth naturally and peacefully. That book really helped me. The childbirth class wasn’t much help. It will teach you how to relax and WHY (basically, if you don’t your muscles are pushing the baby back up in the wrong direction and fighting the contractions). Sorry, I get excited about childbirth. Hehe. If you’re not pregnant yet write those things down for later. I’ve given birth 8 times. The only slightly negative experience was when I had a controlling midwife who wanted to hurry and go home. 🙄 It is the most amazing experience and I hope you get to experience it! Also, a really good midwife will educate the heck out of you and support you sooo much more than a doctor. 😬 They are usually so much more knowledgeable than an MD about labor and delivery and in PREVENTING a lot of problems. Well, that’s prob way more than you wanted to know. 😆
Stay strong i had at 37 it was very hard
Oh and my last baby was born when I was 45 (almost 46!).
me to, but after 7 months of trying still no luck.had one miscarriage already. start to think that i am not able to have a baby. and the fact that my mum is miss negative so support from her is not a given.
@@MsDruup be sure you are taking a good prenatal now to increase your chances. Good nutrition matters.
you’re so brave ❤ i’m so proud of you!
It makes all the difference in the world when the pregnant mom and dad have their families support. So glad you're doing so good with your life and your daughters.
Your mother's reaction is beautiful. My dad had a similar reaction when he found out I was self harming at 14. I thought he'd be angry and disappointed and I was so scared. When my mom told him and he called me into his room to talk, I thought for sure I was going to be talked down to. Instead he pulled me in for a hug and said "its okay. Its going to be okay, I love you".
The way we respond to our children in hard moments programs their inner voice. Handle with care.
Your dad was awesome! Kids need love and support and not punishment! I’m crying reading all these comments 😭
what an amazing dad
@@Pferdefan21 so sorry that your mother responded that way.
@@Pferdefan21 im so sorry. I hope that you find someone that understands you.
And hang in on there. Things will get better one day 🕊
@@Pferdefan21 my mother reacted in a similar way
Same here I got pregnant at 13, gave birth at 14. Am now 32 years and my daughter she's now 17. Being a single parent ain't a joke. Single moms can be good parents and also raise good children
How did u give birth it would age hirt a ton
Single mom too
Most criminals and degenerates come from single mother households these are actual statistics, women are good nurturing but not good at discipline & teaching to control emotions.
@@maryangellanadunga1356Are u also single mom..
How old u r
@@LazyASMR123 Once you are in labor, there is no choice. It is happening.
So wonderful that you kept your baby and are raising her. This video will help and encourage so many.
Such a beautiful story, Maddie! Thank you for your vulnerability & honesty. I pray your story encourages others. God bless you & Everly!!
Stumbled upon this video randomly. I am 26 years old, my mother is just 41 (turns 42 this year) I was born 2 months after she turned 16. Sadly she wasn't able to properly raise me, therefore I was raised by my grandparents. Nowedays my mom and I get along very well. The more adult I became, the better we got along with each other. Because of me, so to say, she couldn't grow up properly, because of her young age, I couldn't grow up properly to, but many years later, as we both grew up indipendently, we became mother and sun, almost like best friends. Only sixteen years apart from each other we are liking some of the same TV shows as a kid, we have the same opinions, same feelings sometimes. We have a strangely deep connection even tho we could not grow up as a "normal family"
Sorry if my grammar and stuff is bad, I'm no native english speaker
WOW! I am 41 with no kids... Reading this and thinking that I could have a 26 yr old made me almost faint!
I loved reading this.
That’s an amazing story. Thank you for sharing. Finding yourself pregnant so young must be so scary, your Mom did what was best for you at that time by allowing your grandparents raise you, that must have been extremely tough for her but so selfless. It’s so heartwarming to hear you have such a beautiful relationship with your Mom now 🥰
Im 43 and have a 27yr old. She will be 28 in a few months. I have an awesome 8yr old grandson
Loved your wonderful story 💖
she's not wrong when she said that teen pregnancy is higher in texas 💀. All the girls I went with in middle school already have children , either right now and highschool pregnancies 🤷🏻♀ i'm 18 almost 19 at the moment and yeah it's scary out here lol, even my friend has a baby who she got pregnant with at 16
What, that’s so sad😭. Texas needs to teach them. Giving pregnancy at a young age could be really dangerous, maybe the mom dying.
They should teach a lot of teens that sex at a very young age is risky and can at least wait for their 20s
And then they call America a "first world nation" lol
They should teach comprehensive, scientific, fact-based sex education, not the religiously motivated abstinence-only nonsense that reliably results in situations like Maddie’s. Simply telling young teens not to do something is a pretty good way to increase the odds that they will do that thing. No amount of telling them that it displeases God will stop it and never, ever has. Want to decrease abortions, teen pregnancy, and STI’s? Me too. You do that by doing what has been proven time and again to work. Ditch the fear and loathing and teach the facts - all of them.
Beautifully said. Your articulate and open and so your story is heartfelt. Thank you for sharing it.
Wow…I rode that rollercoaster with you! It was very pleasant to listen to you talk about your most heartfelt experience. I was able to relate in many ways. I wasn’t even half as mature or successful. My story sucks but I sure like and admire yours. I feel inspired to tell you that your story was uplifting and drew out many different emotions. Some familiar, and some new ones too. I’m now a grama and it brought me joy to see the love you have…I appreciate that! May your journey be fulfilling and peaceful🤗💕
What I liked most about your whole story was your mother's action, when the doctor told her and she came to you, hugged you and said it was going to be okay, that everyone in that house liked babies. I got emotional about it. Congratulations to her. And congratulations to you for the courage to face everything you faced. God bless you and your family.
Ana
Its good to supoort ur daughter in this bt bt ......is this mother thinking bout her daughter's health does she know for a 14 yr old girl its soo difficult emotionally n physically to carry a child,,all the teenagers should really be aware wht they r doing sex just for fun is not funny ,its just one time pleasure and lots of responsibility n mental damage in long run.
@@kashishkohli9967 she mentioned in the video that she didn’t have proper sex ed. also, while obviously it’s not ideal for such a young person to get pregnant, especially from a health perspective, she clearly wanted to have the baby, and it would not be anyone’s place to push her to get an abortion.
for most people, it’s extremely emotionally traumatising to have your agency taken away in that type of decision, hence “my body, my choice”.
I think that families' economic situation/s may also come into play, it doesn't matter who likes and or loves babies unfortunately that doesn't feed babies. Sometimes parents would like to support their children in whatever decision they are comfortable making but also some kids can't see the full ramifications of their decisions and that would be a huge concern of mine. Also some parents no matter how much they love their children are tired and don't have the emotional or physical energy for various reasons to help their kids through it. It's irresponsible for people to paint a narrative of parents who aren't allowing their 14 year old to make their own decisions as insensitive or uncaring(not saying that's what you're doing).
@@kashishkohli9967 teens having sex responsibly don't have mental damage in the long run. Unless you have a judgmental, mostly, men who demand their wives are virgins. You wouldn't even realize how many girls/women get their hymen closed back up so it seems they are virgins .
Demanding to see blood as proof of her virginity is also old. Not everyone bleeds with their first time, and men going beserk for saying their woman is a slut and whore when she really was a virgin should educate themselves and be less of a conservative uneducated dickface.
Oh and uhm, let's all make sure that men are Just as much of a virgin,ok? Double standards are so Middle Ages.
Maybe I think maybe she feels that a kid in your house is pregnant at 13 years old and just realised "I never say anything to her about her body or boys etc..."she feels guilty .
became a mother at 14? already bought 2 cars?!! already bought a house?!!!
You are really the definition of a: GIRL BOSS💅🏼💅🏼✨✨
Not to mention got seriously bullied, had a few mental problems, had multiple occasions of problems with pregnancy/birth am they both made it out absolute queens. I say both of them are more than girl bosses, something higher than my vocabulary goes
@The Poop Chronicles Well she sure had to go though a lot and loves her kid to not everyone would do that
YASSS SLAYY QUEEN
...back in the day.
buying 2 cars and having a house at such young age is for sure a W, but it isn,t right being pregnant at 14.
Maddie - I hear you. I had a very similar experience . So many things that you express are literally identical to my thoughts and feelings and experiences at the time. My daughter is now 32, who is unbelievably educated, powerful and successful in her career. I want to tell you that I was in your place and although there were challenges - you will not believe how it works out. You’re an amazing female; an amazing mother and everything will be amazing for you. I’ve been there and I promise you everything that has happened for a reason and your success will be much more than you ever imagined. ❤ p.s. I spent 7 years at university and have a lucrative career and my daughter exceeds me
Maddie, you are amazing!! You're such a strong person and I am inspired by your story! I am so proud of you for keeping your pregnancy and having your daughter! I am so grateful your Mom was there for you. I am so pleased that you didn't let all the negativity get to you or let those mean cruel people tear you down. Good for you!! I'm happy you are doing well and your daughter too!! I'm thankful you made it through your depression and hard times and that you and your daughter are in your own apartment now and getting ready to buy a home! Your goals are outstanding!! You are a beautiful person and you have a wonderful soul. I wish you the very best and for a beautiful life for you and your daughter!
Kid having a kid. I cannot imagine going through this and you've gone through this. Omg. You're so brave! Bless your life and your baby's.
14:07 - I’m sorry for what people did to you while you were pregnant, but you are so strong and wholesome! You daughter is so lucky to have you as her mum.
🙄🙄🙄
@@nj-bu6ux what?
THE UNSTOPPABLE MADDIE LAMBERT!!! im proud of you too girl. dont forget the big miracle that u both are, and dont forget who gave it to you. u are strong and brave, dont ever let any1 get in ur way! im rooting for u, but u already have this😊 good for u girl
Eloquently spoken, adorable personality, inspirational story and a miraculous baby! Wow! 🥰🥰 Praise God for the miracles!!!!
I’m 13 weeks and 5 days pregnant, I found out when I was 6 weeks pregnant, I didn’t know till I kept missing periods until I took a test, me and my bf are keeping it, js found out it’s a girl by blood test and me and my bf are still together ❤️
I hope you experience great things during pregnancy 🫶🏼
Yeah still together for now until the baby comes and y’all aren’t stable (financially and mentally). Many people like you break up or divorce. A baby gives lots of stress. If the home ain’t stable and the child is an accident, bigger chance for break up/cheating/divorce. Work on your relationship first, and become financially stable
@@truehappiness4U I had to reply and say that the way you framed your comment seems alot like projection because you could've just warned the commenter about this reality and wished her the very best, but instead you saying "yeah still together for now until the baby comes" just comes off us judgemental and condescending.
Now I don't know if this was intentional or not but I had to let you know because you never know how your comment could affect the random stranger on the internet that you're talking to and we could all stand to be a little kinder in our conversations.
Best.
@@beccaraymond my comment is a warning and heads up. This is all based on statistics, that’s why many people don’t have children young in today’s economy and society. It’s already hard to be a mother if you’re financially and mentally stable. Let’s not promote teen pregnancies and normalize them and thinking it’s okay. Do not glorify teen pregnancies just because you don’t want to hurt her feelings. To prevent is better than to having to heal.
@@beccaraymond I totally agree. Let's not forecast something negative. We don't know the end of the story. We shouldn't assume. They can come through this young. I would pray for God's help. It may not be easy, but they can come out on the other side blessed.
I was also 13 had a baby at 14. I’m now 42 with 4 beautiful children that have grown into wonderful young adults ❤
You should have Keep you stanky vagina closed at that age
Wow
🖤
no hate but what were u thinking
@@TiaraG-oo8mwthey were 13, leave them alone
i'm watching this on international women's day and your story really shows how strong and resilient women are! I'm 27 and can't imagine going through an unplanned pregnancy right now... i cannot fathom what it must have been like for you. thank you for being vulnerable and happy international women's day!
I’m so proud of you, and your family are amazing! Your Mom’s reaction was right on! Having your family’s support makes all the difference in the world! My grandmother always said that babies were always welcome in her house too and she had five girls. I didn’t have any children, so while you did this so young, the fact that you’re right on track, if not most likely doing better than many other 18 year olds without children, you have the world at your fingertips! Enjoy your little girl and stay safe and stay close with your Momma bear!!! X
I cried 3 times (happy, compassion tears) while watching this and am SOOOO happy for you and your daughter. And way to go to your Mom for being your rock! Y'all are amazing! Much love and hugs and keep on doing what you're doing. You're going to be a wonderful psychologist! 😘🤗
I’m 13 now and i cannot imagine how hard it would be to be a mother at 13! Proud of you babe❤
I almost started crying when she just about started. I swear girls are connected, but she is soooo strong. I love this
She is not strong since she cant be by herself without a man and focus on herself!!!
@@ArtIsDrawing did you watch the video at all
@@ArtIsDrawing she was able to keep the baby being a single mom, gave birth, and now has her daughter that she worked hard for. She is strong because she went through this by herself as a teen- can u imagine how hard that is?
@@ArtIsDrawing wtf did you watch the video? It seems like you just commented
What are beautiful and sweet girl you are Maddie. So proud of your character, responsibility, and love. I wish you and Everly all the best in life, and God bless your sweet mom for her love and support as well!
So happy u and Everly made it! Loved hearing ur story❤ I am almost 13 and u helped me realize alot. This is the first video I watched of urs and halfway through u gained a new sub! 💖😁
Sex Education is so important. There is so much responsibility and body changes that occur when having a child at such a young age.
It's nice to hear you talk about your back story and are real about it💙
Abstinence was taught to her in her school.. She talked about that.. But then she says that teenagers are not going to listen to abstinence.. So, it's her fault
@@indicphilosopher8772 You do know what teenagers are don't you, because you seem a little....
@@indicphilosopher8772 Abstinence is in no way sex education. It’s ridiculous.
@@verityh4918
Abstinence is best while humans are teenagers.. Just like cigarettes.. So having sex in teenage is ridiculous.. It harms humans.. Even science recommends the same thing.. But then when it comes to sex.. It is such a strong instinct that people throw common sense out of the window.. But then you will have to face consequences.. Liberals don't like that.. But actions do have consequences..
Yeah, because common sense is the first thing you think about when you think about teenagers. Having sex as a teenager is perfectly fine if you've had good sex education and use contraceptives and nothing you say will change that reality. If anyone is at fault, it's the education system and her parents who missed out on properly educating her.
Maddie im am now 55 years old and my son is going on 41 years old. I fell pregnant at 14 and gave birth at 15.. I was like you.. I didn't really know how it happened I was so naive
I had my son I named him kai
And back then it wasn't a name much heard of... but I kept him and loved him all of his life... I gave him 2 more brothers from a different daddy but I married the last 2 boys dad... it didn't last forever but that's ok....
I love my 3 sons so so much... and I now have 5 grandkids...
Sending love from Australia hunni
U got this
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You sound like a positive lady. Good for you. I hope you and your kids are very happy.❤
@@user-od1fm3hs9c
Thank you
Thank you
I love my sons with all of my heart
They will always be my babies
Even tho now my youngest is 31years old...lol....
My middle child is 35 almost and my eldest 41 next bday... I'm 55 ... it was hard going but worth every single struggle I had to go through... we are very lucky tho in Australia the government pays us fairly good money every 2 weeks to get you by... but its still not that easy...
@@debfisher7593 I truly believe that children are the best gift of life. Our love for our children gets us through life's struggles. I didn't have my first one until 34. I take my hat off to any young lady who brings up a child, as it is hard work. Rewarding work though. You sound very relaxed about your marriage ending. Did your ex continue to be involved with the kids? I am currently going through divorce. I dont feel as relaxed as you sounded. I know life goes on though and I will focus on raising my kids.
@@user-od1fm3hs9c would you encourage your kid to have a child at such a young age guy disgusting idiots.
@@dripxenseixensei3822 - No I wouldn't encourage it. But if it happened, I would not make them feel bad. I would give them my love and support and help them.
Girl, you do you, it was none of anyone else's business, I'm not encouraging but those people should be supporting not critizing, you are a strong person.
You‘re so good in telling storys!!
Thank you for posting this. At 20 yrs old I was drugged and raped by a co-workers boyfriend. I became pregnant. My family loves babies also: they were great. I hadn't shared that I was raped. They loved on us. I was asked by a co-worker why I wouldn't get an abortion. I said, this is my baby. It has my DNA, my parents DNA, grandparents DNA, etc. My son is a wonderful young man, married with a daughter. I wouldn't change my years as a single mom ❤️ I met and married a great guy. We had 3 children. God bless you , your family, and precious little girl ❤️🕊️❤️
I'm proud of you 💕
Wow what a sad horrible but yet beautiful and amazing story!! ❤️❤️❤️ 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
So proud of you ❤
I’m so glad your mum’s reaction was the complete opposite of what you’d expected.
Because a smart mum knows that her young, pregnant daughter is feeling a lot of emotions, and fear, and hormones, and a lot else, and a good, smart mum knows that the very last thing that same daughter needs is to feel shame, pressure, or like she’s alone on this new scary journey.
❤
You sweet adorable young girl. Your story made me cry. Don't let anyone steal your beautiful soul. Everyone makes mistakes and I'm glad you kept your daughter. Your mom is a good mother and she was awesome to support you through your pregnancy. Things will be better in the future and don't you worry, you're on the right track and keep the beautiful spirit with you. I'm sending you love right now from a mother that is now 68 years old. Take care sweetheart and keep loving your little girl.❤❤❤❤
Wow! You endure a lot for such a young age! You're strong!! You're good!! There are so many mean persons out there! I'm glad that you were supported by your family, and that both your daughter and yourself are healthy! ❤
What I see a beautiful strong smart woman who is determined to young woman, who loves her baby & will be very successful in her life. My daughter also got pregnant young , we supported our daughter & she has four beautiful children she got her schooling 15 yrs later she is still with her baby daddy ….I am so proud of them & so happy to be Nanny to them all love them all so much so do not to worry about others because you have done it , keep going beautiful young woman 👩….😊❤️✌️🕯💖🙏
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@Preppylifestyle it could’ve been a child in the house on the adults phone
lmfao “smart”
Smart??? Lmao
she is NOT a woman. She is a CHILD herself and it's insane to think children should be parents!
A few comments: Just came across. 1. I loved this uplifting video in the midst of deplorable world events. I needed that. Thank you. 2. Why did you have to move out? I would’ve kept my daughter until college graduation if I could. Your parents appeared very supportive. 3. Absolutely bizarre how many hecklers there are. I grew up in Sweden. There were some teenage pregnancies, and one or two births. Very few since we have sex education starting in 5th grade and it’s part of Biology class from 7th grade & repeated each year grade 8 & 9. It includes girls visiting the local doctor’s office for additional education on Birth Control and scheduling of individual appointments for prescriptions if so requested + free condoms & education how to use and their limitations. Parental involvement is zero & each individual have the freedom to decide for themselves. I was shocked when I moved to the US how backwards many states and counties are. Denial of the human sexual drive isn’t productive for the individual, nor optimal for the overall costs for the state. I recall one couple in 10th grade in my school of maybe 600 students had a baby. They continued normal schooling, lived with their parents, and occasionally brought the baby to school with them. I didn’t know them well. I never even heard a single negative thing about them, unless you count the occasional concern how they would plan their college years with a young kid. I did see many occasions with girls gushing over the cute baby. Boys were boys and gushed very little, but no negative expressions at all. I’m sorry you had to go through that.
She didn't have to move, that's something she chose for her daughter and herself. She's an adult now, financially stable, responsible, etc. So it's only natural that she go out on her own, being a wonderful example for her little girl.
They also need that space of their own, instead of just a bedroom and bathroom. I'm sure she feels much better having her own kitchen, laundry, bathrooms, etc. Those things are important, they can really help a person feel accomplished and proud!
She's doing what so many her age, in the same situation, would never do. And that's definitely something to be proud of!!
I was that girl trying to take my baby to class. I felt so ashamed and judged in the grade below me from time missed. I think my science teacher passed me because he felt sorry for me🥺
Teen pregnancy - it’s the fastest way to grow up🙃
@@kendramandisa Of course. But life is hard. Direct support is important. 18 is adult only on paper. It’s a random number unrelated to biology, and actual adult biological age based on brain development is ~25 (unless you want to set the bar at puberty, then adult is 11-13 somewhere). Raising a child is hard despite all the love you get in return. I was 30 when my firstborn arrived. I had a career & a wife. It was still hard work, and my career took me far away from both our support networks. It was extremely noticeable when we later for six months moved in with my parents. Enormous difference. Even financially. Hence my question. But there are many variables like you say, and like everything in life it’s a question of evaluating opportunity costs.
@@bossthefluff agree with you 💯 totally
As you've found, the U.S. is extremely conservative in terms of sex being a taboo subject, abortion rights, compulsory education. I don't see it changing, unfortunately. If anything, we're going backwards... :(
You are such a brave young lady to tell your story Maddie. People are so cruel and I am glad you didn’t listen to them. You are not the first person or last to have this happen to you. I am sure this has made you a stronger person.❤
I’m glad you’re doing well. Sorry that you had bullies messaging you. I congratulate your mother who supported you throughout the process. Thanks for sharing your story. God bless you and your precious miracle daughter.
I’m 15, I just found out I’m pregnant and I’m watching all these videos of teen moms cuz I’m so scared. I’m too far along to get an abortion and even if I wasn’t I wouldn’t get one. I’m just so worried. I haven’t even told my boyfriend yet.. I’ve known for 2 months. I’ve been so terrified to tell him, I’m scared he’ll leave me. He’s only 14. He obviously doesn’t wanna be a dad. I’m planning on telling him in person tomorrow. Wish me luck. 😭
Hope you are doing Great!! And i hope your family is supportive!
How did it go?? Are you okay?
Update?
Hello! How did it go?
Good luck ~ It will be okay, you will be okay and your kid will be okay. You are stronger than you think.
My daughter was 14 also. I became a grandma at 33 to a beautiful granddaughter.
Advice to family members....support support support these kids,
They grow up to become good parents.
Or teach them to break the cycle...
I hope your doing well.
It hard to through
Very tough
It's so foreign to me. I'm 36 and haven't even had a child yet, let alone a grandchild. Our lives can differ so much
Literally me 😭,, I had my daughter at 15, she’s 15 now and I’m 30 she’s the best thing that ever happened to me