CAR CONFESSIONALS: THE TRUTH ABOUT MY DEBT FREE JOURNEY

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  • čas přidán 25. 08. 2024
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Komentáře • 82

  • @notcountingsheep3361
    @notcountingsheep3361 Před 3 měsíci +21

    People should appreciate your honesty and transparency, there's plenty of fake CZcamsrs out there that they can watch instead.

  • @AnnPetersen-vh1gh
    @AnnPetersen-vh1gh Před 3 měsíci +25

    Vanessa, I love watching your videos! Please don't feel you need to explain anything to your viewers. If they don't like your content, they don't need to keep watching. Keep doing what you like to do!

  • @notcountingsheep3361
    @notcountingsheep3361 Před 3 měsíci +31

    I don't understand, this channel is about your life, whatever comes up you post. Why would people expect your channel to be solely financial or food content. Any video you put out is interesting, I just wish you would post more but like you said you're a full-time mom, full-time employee with a CZcams channel. It's not easy, keep doing what you're doing.

  • @kathyoreilly4696
    @kathyoreilly4696 Před 3 měsíci +6

    I love everything random u post. Just general life & how u live & cope. U will never please everyone so u just being u is wonderful! Please just being u is so interesting!

  • @sheilabundren2037
    @sheilabundren2037 Před 3 měsíci +10

    I love your channel because you are so genuine. Just like this video. I relate to how you're feeling. Do what makes YOU happy. I'll watch no matter what you post. I have to go into the office tomorrow to work.....I've been working from home since covid and love being home. Keep your head up. I could never post a video of myself and I bet most people that are so negative couldn't either.....hang in there. I'm here for you!!!!!

    • @heyvanessamartin
      @heyvanessamartin  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Thank you so much!! I hope you have a great day in the office ❤️❤️

  • @gigimac8459
    @gigimac8459 Před 3 měsíci +4

    I absolutely love your honesty and your videos. You do not have to explain yourself to anyone. You are doing a great job with your channel!

  • @mechellepillay8801
    @mechellepillay8801 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I am a 57 year old woman who has recently been widowed. I really enjoy your channel. Greetings from South Africa

  • @JessicaDengel
    @JessicaDengel Před 3 měsíci +4

    I love these car confessionals. I am so happy for you that you are just about done with your credit card payments. Great job!! Continue to keep being you :)

  • @renehemmy6330
    @renehemmy6330 Před 3 měsíci +4

    I like the variety. The food bank hauls and budget videos help us feel like we are not alone. Good job

  • @jennifercastillo9711
    @jennifercastillo9711 Před 3 měsíci +8

    I feel that some people really get invested into the lives of CZcams creators. It’s kind of scary.
    Just keep doing what you makes you happy.

  • @preciousgem881
    @preciousgem881 Před 3 měsíci +5

    I love your channel how it is. You don't need to post a certain type of video. Post what you want 😊 Your top/dress looks so pretty on you!

  • @hailee4261
    @hailee4261 Před 3 měsíci +2

    i like that your channel isn’t just one “thing” lol keep doing you, girl! 💖

  • @megwilliams1218
    @megwilliams1218 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I really love your videos! I think we are all hot messes, our lives ebb and flow. It’s a good representation of how life works. Keep doing what you do girl!

  • @kori8455
    @kori8455 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Don’t apologize! This is reflective of life. I honestly have moved towards making quarterly goals for this very reason. Life changes and so will your goals. I still make annual, long term goals, but I adjust them as life happens. I focus more on the short term goals that ultimately help me reach those larger goals.

  • @rachanddennis06
    @rachanddennis06 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I’ve been watching from the beginning. I kinda enjoy the randomness of your content. I enjoy your videos. Keep up the good work.

  • @HeyJaimeKennedy
    @HeyJaimeKennedy Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hey girl, I’ve been a subscriber from the beginning you don’t need to explain yourself & you do with your channel what you want. The loyal ones will be here for the ride.❤

  • @jillbotros6823
    @jillbotros6823 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Vanessa I’d love you talk about your heritage. Can you share that. I’d love to learn about the history.

  • @AmandaLeeRex
    @AmandaLeeRex Před 3 měsíci +1

    I’m so proud of you Vanessa! Don’t ever feel bad about treating yourself. Life is not all about working yourself to the bone. Post what you want and when you want and who cares what anyone thinks because at the end of the day you could cancel this channel in a heartbeat. 💗

  • @rhonda1505
    @rhonda1505 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Vanessa, every day brings a new chapter in our lives. So, go with your feelings and what your day brings. I like your content and as you probably read in some previous comments, you are making people share thoughts and connect on your topics. This is a good thing.

  • @kellyparker3792
    @kellyparker3792 Před 3 měsíci +1

    It's sad how people are. Life is never consistent. I'm sorry you're experiencing this. Your finances only impact you & your family. No one else is impacted by your finances. I always enjoy your content!!

  • @amberseedorf5798
    @amberseedorf5798 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I love the sporadic videos! Keep doing you sister!!

  • @sammieb4891
    @sammieb4891 Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks for the update. I did get excited about your debt free journey because I love personal finance. That’s terrific that your credit card will be paid off, what a huge relief. Looking forward to more videos.

  • @dianebaugher3919
    @dianebaugher3919 Před 3 měsíci

    If you talk about a debt free journey, there will always be people who will attack you for every single purchase, it's ridiculous. You are honest about your spending habits and we all have things we need to work on...everybody has successes and setbacks.

  • @kymcalder9824
    @kymcalder9824 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Your channel is yours, and therefore you get to post what you want. I happened on your channel by chance during the food bank posts. I just love watching you and your content is always great. Just do you, and don’t bother with the negative energy. Chin up and keep going.

  • @user-qv6os7yz8e
    @user-qv6os7yz8e Před 3 měsíci +1

    Love your channel ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ from me I living in 🇸🇪

  • @soogirly
    @soogirly Před 3 měsíci +1

    I think its ok to bounce around in your videos, I love watching your channel and I think you are great.

  • @user-pg6wd1ff8b
    @user-pg6wd1ff8b Před 3 měsíci

    That is amazing about being out of debt!!Congrats!🎉

  • @AmberRoo
    @AmberRoo Před 3 měsíci

    I feel like most people could do better with their money💰 most people could cut down on spending on branded items, impulse buys, signing into a finance lease which is far too expensive . . . So many people (mostly women) are irratic or irrational and buy themselves something, whether thats getting your hair or nails done, or purchasing make up, as a "pick me up" even if they cannot really justify the cost. . . Most people could save more each month etc
    But we are all human and life is hard! No one is without sin, so I feel like people need to relax with the judgement and support others.
    I like watching your content because you're a smiley friendly woman, you're a great mum, and i love seeing your routine with Penelope and how you still make time for you as a single mom etc 😊
    You're doing great 👍 don't let anyone get down. Congrats on almost paying your credit card debt off 😊 and it's amazing that you've seen your ex/Penelope's dad and you're keeping contact with them.
    I truly believe you are being honest and your "irratic or inconsistent posts" are how most women are - we are hormonal, we are emotional, we go up and down in our thoughts and behaviors. . .we set ourselves goals and don't stick to them . . .. our interests change . . . I have ADHD so I am super unpredictable in my moods and my interests - so I personally get it. But having looked at most of my best (female) friends behaviors - they aren't dissimilar to yours.
    😊 I always wish you and Penelope well! X

    • @thehapamommy
      @thehapamommy Před 3 měsíci +1

      I feel like all the people judging Vanessa have their own flaws and spending habits others wouldn’t agree with but so unfair to just expect Vanessa to live by their rules

    • @heyvanessamartin
      @heyvanessamartin  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Yes!!! Thank you for saying all of this. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Ruth_45
    @Ruth_45 Před měsícem +1

    Love the bow 🎀 on your hair where did you get it from ?

  • @tracylynnedaley1191
    @tracylynnedaley1191 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I ❤ your vlogs....whatever you talk about❤❤

  • @Judi-lm2fj
    @Judi-lm2fj Před 3 měsíci

    It is your channel. Post what you want.

  • @rosalitamarie8836
    @rosalitamarie8836 Před 3 měsíci

    A wonderful single working mother. Do not ever apologize for any inconsistency on CZcams. You put your daughter 1st and that's very obvious. This channel has touched and reached mothers in the same place or at one time went through what you have. Keep being you, no need to please anyone. Your views speak for themselves. Rooting for Vanessa & Penelope and you touched our hearts.

  • @TMChelle
    @TMChelle Před 3 měsíci +1

    Just do what you want to hunny ,
    Don’t worry about pleasing everyone else . Just be you and do what you enjoy ❤ and it will be fine . We can’t please everyone.

  • @carolinepeeters8520
    @carolinepeeters8520 Před 3 měsíci +2

    💞Love your video's!! It's all good💞🌸
    😘

  • @jillbotros6823
    @jillbotros6823 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I enjoy your channel exactly as it is.

  • @taracorley3291
    @taracorley3291 Před 28 dny

    Hi! I by no means want to judge you because when I was a young mom I too kept making mistakes. Now I am 58. Do whatever you can to make sound choices. It will be hard, but you can totally do this. I am not sure if you have talked about the role your children, but does he help you financially? If not he needs to. What are the laws regarding this in Canada?

  • @lucyshepherd6040
    @lucyshepherd6040 Před 3 měsíci

    I really enjoy that you keep ur channel genuine, keep being you and do what you want with ur channel 😊
    Also I honestly can relate with the inconsistency 😆 I am the type of person who changes my mind alot on things, alot of my big life decisions IV made on a whim because I suddenly feel the pull to go that direction it doesn't always work out how I expect but that's just life!

  • @Amanda20248
    @Amanda20248 Před 3 měsíci

    Love your videos no matter what you post I'm here to see you it doesn't matter if you are all over the place we all have a life to figure out ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jana7183
    @jana7183 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Do all of it. Whatever YOU feel is great. Then make Playlists on your channel and we can all watch whatever we like and not watch what we don't like. Above all, don't stress. It'll come to you in time.

  • @KOOP1978
    @KOOP1978 Před 3 měsíci

    POST ANYTHING YOU WANT LADY ITS YOUR JOURNEY THAT PEOPLE ARE INTERESTED.THERE IS ALWAYS GOING TO BE KAREN AND CHADS LOL YOUR CONSISTENT ON FILMING YOUR JOURNEY AND THATS GOOD ENOUGH.GOD BLESS YOU....WELL DONE GREAT CONTENT

  • @kellyj817
    @kellyj817 Před 3 měsíci

    Just have to say that you don't have to only post one niche! I love seeing the variety of your content and all about your life. I'll watch any of your videos! ❤

  • @scorpionpro
    @scorpionpro Před 3 měsíci

    I think variety on your channel is great ,keep doing it

  • @ErinFinch-li9zo
    @ErinFinch-li9zo Před 3 měsíci

    You post whatever videos you want. It’s your channel. F the haters.

  • @user-qv6os7yz8e
    @user-qv6os7yz8e Před 3 měsíci

    I Will love to see you and you child going to park,maybe a videon with the beach. Love yours videos and you are so sweet and good mum. And you doing your best. If people say something bad or dont like what they see. Say they look anything else I love se you and Penelope

  • @belindamurone5516
    @belindamurone5516 Před 3 měsíci

    I love watching all of your videos. Ps. I love what you are wearing xx

  • @dianetatro7128
    @dianetatro7128 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Vanessa,
    I am sorry to hear that you are getting negative comments from some people. I enjoy your videos! No one is perfect, we all go through trials and no matter what there will always be people who pass judgment. Keep your chin up 🙂! This is 1 of many people who are cheering you on!

  • @tammyfrace3295
    @tammyfrace3295 Před 3 měsíci +1

    U do u. Whatever you wanna share. It's your channel

  • @yellowbird5411
    @yellowbird5411 Před 3 měsíci

    People who post videos do it for several reasons. Some do it for money. Some do it because they really want to help people cope with certain problems and want to give them support. Some do it just to vent their own problems and use YT as a diary where they just talk about themselves and what is going on in their lives, without much interest in what viewers think. Some do it because they are lonely. Some do it to get back at family and friends. Some do it to inform of serious issues. But regardless, it must be interesting for you to do it, and not a pressure. When it becomes a drag and just another "thing" you have to do, it's like another job. YT is much like Facebook now, in my opinion. The videos aren't so much for entertainment and information as they are to give everyone a voice, regardless of what they are going through. Is that good? I don't know. Usually those who have nothing much to say/share and make little effort in making their content interesting eventually fade away. Some pop back on months later to say "Hi." Do what works for you, because if you are trying to please others, it may weigh you down.

  • @tammyfrace3295
    @tammyfrace3295 Před 3 měsíci +1

    People that judge are not happy with their own lives.

  • @user-qv6os7yz8e
    @user-qv6os7yz8e Před 3 měsíci

    Can you doing a Q&A if you Will do.

  • @renehemmy6330
    @renehemmy6330 Před 3 měsíci

    Only share what you want to

  • @jacintaohare312
    @jacintaohare312 Před 3 měsíci

    Vanessa, you look so pretty. Love watching your videos.❤

  • @tonisuttie1
    @tonisuttie1 Před 3 měsíci

    Congratulations on being out of credit card debt here very soon!

  • @Bellavlogs237
    @Bellavlogs237 Před 3 měsíci

    This is an off topic but could you all pls pray for me I am battling anxiety and depression pls I need prayers pls!!!! Trigger warning ⚠️ I was unconscious I fainted I was found twice if I wasn’t I would be gone and 20 years later im still going at it it’s a awful feeling my body is addicted to me fainting my body is addicted to not letting me breathe when im trying to tell myself to stop! And breathe! It’s a life threatening condition that I have

    • @heyvanessamartin
      @heyvanessamartin  Před 3 měsíci +2

      Father, in the name of Jesus, I come before you asking for healing for Bella. My hope is in you as our healer. I believe you are able to do this. Your name is Jehovah Rapha the God who heals and I believe every knee will bow to you including the name of anxiety, depression and fainting. Thank you Jesus for dying on the cross so that Bella can receive healing. You say that you forgive our sins and heal our diseases and I praise you for this. Thank you that the spirit that raised Jesus from the dead lives in us. I stand in faith believing for healing for Bella. Give Bella peace and direction as you work in her life. In Jesus’ name amen. Here is a verse from the bible you need to speak out loud whenever you feel anxious or depressed. This will make the devil leave. “For God has not given me a spirit of fear but of power, love and a sound mind.” 2 Timothy 1:7. This is so real and I’ve felt how you feel. Thank you so much for reaching out! I’m here for you and will keep you in my prayers ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Bellavlogs237
      @Bellavlogs237 Před 3 měsíci

      @@heyvanessamartin thank you so much!

  • @sophietrethewey373
    @sophietrethewey373 Před 3 měsíci

    I will watch no matter what and will always be here supporting, your awesome and I love any videos you do, just sharing your life is great :) You look great :) I hope seeing penelopes father doesnt bring you down cause youv been doing so well xoxox I am probably the minority but I love beauty and shopping videos haha ahh

    • @heyvanessamartin
      @heyvanessamartin  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Thank you!! I love beauty and shopping videos too and yes me and you are the minority lol 😂 ❤️

  • @scorpionpro
    @scorpionpro Před 3 měsíci

    I love your videos. , maybe just do a debt free journey one every 3 months ??

  • @lemonadekisses4159
    @lemonadekisses4159 Před 3 měsíci

    💛💛💛💛💛💛

  • @user-tq6ww4pt4m
    @user-tq6ww4pt4m Před 3 měsíci

    You are just fine- part of being human is changing our mind. No apologies. Live and let live. Use CZcams for you. If others are t interested then should watch something else. Be your auteur tic self You are enough.

  • @Budgetbossbabe
    @Budgetbossbabe Před 2 měsíci

    New baby daddy?

  • @janineonejanine
    @janineonejanine Před 3 měsíci

    Bottom line your a single Mom vlogger, it includes you debt free visa and the food bank ones too. It's the single Mom struggle and that includes all the themes and things you do in your videos. Keep going!

  • @Budgetbossbabe
    @Budgetbossbabe Před 2 měsíci

    Train wreck

  • @SarahElizabeth1
    @SarahElizabeth1 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for clarifying, Vanessa 🩷