How to get children to listen to you?

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  • čas přidán 2. 07. 2024
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Komentáře • 98

  • @oreo835
    @oreo835 Před 2 lety +61

    This was very educational. I took notes. The sadness I feel is that I lose the connection and bond when I yell at or threaten my children. I’m happy to have come across this video. I think every parent really needs to do this. I am praying that more families watch this and change, and for my own family- far from perfect, be really changed by this. Thank you.

  • @subhanAllah9417
    @subhanAllah9417 Před rokem +13

    "parents are giving children's so many choices it's overwhelming to them it's always give them power" "they're not mature enough to make that decision yet" say it louder for the folk in the back 👏👏👏 just found your videos and I'm appreciate of your advice and knowledge! thankyou ❤️

  • @tosinakinsete6645
    @tosinakinsete6645 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Be clear with your instruction. Give concise direct request.
    Limit too much option
    Apply consequences to wrong actions
    Follow through on your actions
    Work on bonding with them.
    Thanks Jady

  • @parris05
    @parris05 Před 2 lety +25

    Thank you so much for this video!!! I keep wondering what my husband and I have been doing wrong with our 5 year old? He is strong-willed and wants things his way. The sad part is, I’m a teacher who has received recognition for having excellent classroom management. I can manage my 160 plus students (different classes), but I come home and I feel like a failure with only one child😩

  • @gloriaakafi2770
    @gloriaakafi2770 Před 2 lety +21

    Clear and concise directions is what I've been missing. Oh my... I clearly understand Jady. It's clear what I've been doing wrong. Thank you so much! You're amazing 🙂.

  • @Prettypeachylife
    @Prettypeachylife Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you for this video! I work with children and it’s amazing how many children don’t listen. They respond to clear directions and I feel they are relieved to have the structure.

  • @Thehappyification
    @Thehappyification Před 2 lety +3

    Children are great... My child is teaching me a lot. He is just four years old.. they know so many things already, we just need to refresh and retain them and learn from them.

  • @babybaby5893
    @babybaby5893 Před 2 lety +9

    Listening to you equals reading a chapter of a good parenting book. Thank you 🙏

  • @BettyThompson-gd8mh
    @BettyThompson-gd8mh Před měsícem

    I’m very thankful and grateful for this wonderful opportunity to change my actions with my kids. To be a better mom. Bc I’m always hollering. Instead of being direct, I was blind to this to be honest. THANK YOU SO MUCH, May GOD continue to use you, to help us on raising the kids the right way.

  • @royallt4218
    @royallt4218 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you so much for these helpful tips. Thank God I 'stumbled' upon your page just yesterday.
    I clearly had been giving the babies in the creche too many options.
    The challenge I face now is with a two year old in my school. She learned to respond only to threats and bribes to get her to listen. This little girl is so smart though and now we are teaching her letter sounds. But it is so challenging to get her to listen.
    It is really important for teachers and parents to be on the same page with these adorable kids.

  • @dreamingwithgodtv
    @dreamingwithgodtv Před 2 lety +2

    This was a much needed talk for me today. Thank you!

  • @stephanievargas2189
    @stephanievargas2189 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you SO MUCH for this video! Awesome tips.

  • @jeannettelucky8267
    @jeannettelucky8267 Před 2 lety +2

    You are so amazing for me.. In homeschooling my 4yr old son and teaching him listening skills

  • @lloydpillay4771
    @lloydpillay4771 Před 2 lety

    Thank you Jady. Always great advice!

  • @AURORAH2024
    @AURORAH2024 Před 2 lety +1

    I absolutely love your channel.
    Thank you so much for all you do.

  • @kieutrang8989
    @kieutrang8989 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you very much! This video helps me a lot!

  • @rounarashid6860
    @rounarashid6860 Před rokem +1

    Omg this thing made my day, thank you so much for your clear explanation

  • @alexinhomarroquin1836

    You’re awesome! Thank you for these tips.

  • @herminwilson5186
    @herminwilson5186 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for those great ideas. They are very logical. I need to put them in practice with my students. Kingston, Jamaica 🇯🇲

  • @josephhervieux7374
    @josephhervieux7374 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I feel like crying right now. You are 100% right. I spanked my 3 year old probably 5 times now and realize it isn't working. I feel horrible knowing that it only confuses her . Why would daddy hurt me? Thank God I watched your video. I'm changing course and applying the lessons you have generously laid out. Thank you emphatically!

  • @badgerlife9541
    @badgerlife9541 Před 10 měsíci

    Very helpful! Thanks for sharing your knowledge. Your entire channel is such a valuable resource for the world! ❤

  • @MamaJeanMontessoriMusic
    @MamaJeanMontessoriMusic Před 10 měsíci

    Thanks Jady so much for this valuable info. I value your advice and mentality so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @wvfarmersdaughter
    @wvfarmersdaughter Před rokem +1

    This is incredible advice thank you

  • @terrivh
    @terrivh Před 2 lety +5

    I have a granddaughter who likes things her way when playing with other kids. She will start crying and won't sit in timeout and will move away from us when we try to approach. She can be a bully at times. She is 5

  • @sarlamonu
    @sarlamonu Před měsícem

    Thanku Ms Jady A.....your parenting is best...u r a great devoter....Hats off to u

  • @nordsthomas4271
    @nordsthomas4271 Před rokem

    Amazing and very useful tips, I hope more families watch this ~ the elemental books also look great need to get for my child ❤

  • @jenasysgil8163
    @jenasysgil8163 Před 2 lety +2

    This is really helpful I always play teachers with my niece and she just won’t listen and keeps grabbing stuff, crying and all those naughty things kids do and I really hope this helps her

  • @lodybitat9036
    @lodybitat9036 Před 2 lety

    Very well said.

  • @roneladedja9925
    @roneladedja9925 Před 2 lety +1

    I am just about to become a TA and your tips are very useful 👌 thank you very much🙂

  • @ceewng5042
    @ceewng5042 Před 2 lety

    This was so very helpful.

  • @Marshas_Journey
    @Marshas_Journey Před 18 dny

    Wow this is very informative. Thank you

  • @ecoknitty
    @ecoknitty Před 2 lety

    Amazing information.

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare Před 2 lety

    I found this content fascinating and informative. Thanks for sharing 👍

  • @TheGigiChannel
    @TheGigiChannel Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you for giving this information. I ran into your video Watchung other videos and it came up below another I was watching but didn't seem to get much help from. You are telling me things I know but you explain things in a more relatable way and reinforce WHY you take the actions and give examples. I appreciate that AND I can't wait to check out the book you referenced. I just bought it! I have a strong willed child who is very smart and having stubbornness with following instructions from time to time. I'm on a mission to break this habit. Thank you again for this!❤

  • @estherkaidza1618
    @estherkaidza1618 Před 2 lety

    Thank you very much

  • @elichevanakache5013
    @elichevanakache5013 Před rokem

    Thank you very much.

  • @omarispozo4231
    @omarispozo4231 Před rokem

    Thank you.😊

  • @maridalisantana4269
    @maridalisantana4269 Před rokem

    Excellent video!

  • @caroleastmond9064
    @caroleastmond9064 Před 2 lety

    Thanks!!!🎉🎉🎉

  • @hope9204
    @hope9204 Před 2 lety +2

    My 2 & 3 yr old cry and have outburst, stomp away, etc when they experience the consequence of timeout.

  • @KC-ku2ew
    @KC-ku2ew Před rokem

    I can't thank you enough for this...

  • @nochte.rosa1149
    @nochte.rosa1149 Před 9 měsíci

    I just found your video and have started todo as you are saying and so far its helping other then when my daughter purposefully wouldnt look at me and i had to make her look at me

  • @tawibakes
    @tawibakes Před rokem

    Very helpful

  • @user-cm7tk1td5o
    @user-cm7tk1td5o Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks

  • @658Chrissy
    @658Chrissy Před rokem

    Thank you for this video. I now see where I am going wrong.

  • @jessicarayanedacostasilva6584

    Hi, Jady! Thanks for giving us these instructions and advices, 'cause sometimes we can forget what to do, or how to do this in the best way to teach our children how to behave, and i also add that the most proper way to do this is trough the Bible, who is best to teach about goodness, truth than Jesus who is the MAster? the one who has created us, he knows our hearts and minds So that's why i believe in Jesus teachings and it brings not just good behaves , but also LIFE. Ephesians 6:4
    4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. May God Bless you and your family. ;)

  • @pppalande20
    @pppalande20 Před rokem

    Thank you 👍🇺🇸

  • @annamariedanipog6119
    @annamariedanipog6119 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you so much godbless

  • @kugonzasarah4047
    @kugonzasarah4047 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much madam

  • @mary-janeezeogu3376
    @mary-janeezeogu3376 Před rokem +1

    Thanks you a million times Judy. I really appreciate this video. As a teacher over 5 Years I have found out that there is a time to be firm about some decisions in order to guide the children properly.
    Am glad I came across this because recently am just feeling am not getting it right due to recent trend of parenting where children are given veto power over every thing and once you try being firm you are seen as been mean and unfriendly.
    Thank you for giving me the courage to continue on the right part in order to make right choice for our children.

  • @ChacieWhat
    @ChacieWhat Před 2 lety +9

    The godly home series (by denny kennaston) has very good advice on this very thing.

    • @anaanguiano6658
      @anaanguiano6658 Před 2 lety +1

      Hi . Is that Godly Home Series on you tube?
      Thanks for your suggestion

    • @ChacieWhat
      @ChacieWhat Před 2 lety

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  • @happymura2514
    @happymura2514 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you so much for your help! I tried my 2 and half yrs daughter to clean up her toys according to your method and it worked!!!!! I was so surprised that she she could tidy so well. Just wanted to tell you this. From Tokyo, Japan. 😘. I’m excited to try other methods as well.

  • @JMarie-th8xe
    @JMarie-th8xe Před 10 měsíci +1

    I think I messed this up. My kids are now 13 and 14. I'm now having behavior problems with my oldest.

  • @frochoffthebranch
    @frochoffthebranch Před 2 lety

    Very helpful, thank you sincerely.

  • @dpizzle98
    @dpizzle98 Před 15 dny

    legend

  • @goura1420
    @goura1420 Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks dear,May Allah help us and bless us

  • @annbenson1076
    @annbenson1076 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Please Jady, what do you do if the 2 1/2 year old keeps biting her 4 year old sister (she does it when she gets angry and frustrated and isn’t getting what she wants)? I love your channel and we are purchasing your reading mataríals😂

  • @kugonzasarah4047
    @kugonzasarah4047 Před 2 lety +2

    How can I help my child improve in speed when is doing work

  • @shaylacarter4599
    @shaylacarter4599 Před 2 lety

    Thank you ima first time mom I glad I found you 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @janussamayal3410
    @janussamayal3410 Před 2 lety

    Hi jady how to practice for my baby sitting attention

  • @saleenakurudan9583
    @saleenakurudan9583 Před 2 lety +1

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @danielmaeng
    @danielmaeng Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you so much! What do you do when your child doesn't want to do time out and is getting violent? Do you use force to carry the child into another room and sit with them in the room? I have a calm down corner in our dining room, but since there's no door, he keeps getting up and walking out of it. In this case, would you put the time out/calm down zone in a room?

  • @josephhervieux7374
    @josephhervieux7374 Před 6 měsíci

    By the way I'm subscribing to your "AWESOME" channel.

  • @teacherv1148
    @teacherv1148 Před 2 lety +4

    Am I seeing this video too late my daughter is six years old can I still make a change

  • @susanmbamah1762
    @susanmbamah1762 Před rokem

    I watched this and all i can think of is my husband. He is like that child who NEVER listens. After 8yrs of marriage, I'm only starting to follow through with consequences. He has narcissistic behaviours that probably doesn't know nor believe He has. This all began when he was a child. i know this because he has narrated his parent's parenting style.

  • @shorts_luv7634
    @shorts_luv7634 Před 6 měsíci

    Your right my 10year runs the house i

  • @nazneennchoudhury208
    @nazneennchoudhury208 Před 3 měsíci

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @evelyn1635
    @evelyn1635 Před 2 lety +5

    Is it alright to start already with 1 year old? Or is it too early. Thank you so much for all videos.

  • @janussamayal3410
    @janussamayal3410 Před 2 lety

    He didn't hve writing interest how to practice jady pls guide to me

  • @dhanalekshmin9201
    @dhanalekshmin9201 Před 6 měsíci

    What if they continue even after

  • @MayflowerHomeschool
    @MayflowerHomeschool Před 6 měsíci

    Trying to get my 2 1/2 year old to listen to instructions and behave. He will not sit and stay in time out. He becomes more unruly and disobedient. I’ve resorted to raising my voice. Any suggestions? He refuses all instructions my husband and I give him. We’ve tried starting potty training and he refuses even using the potty. We are at our wits end and the only thing we can think of is spanking but don’t want to do that. We don’t know what to do. He gets into literally everything in our house, makes messes he refuses to pick up and we are running out of places to put things that we’ve taken away.

  • @bp5522
    @bp5522 Před 2 lety +1

    What if they throw a tantrum if they won't hold your hand crossing the street?

    • @sweetlilella1983
      @sweetlilella1983 Před 2 lety

      Tell them they can walk on their own and nicely hold your hand, or you will carry them across. Kids usually like to do it on their own. Practice hand holding and praise a lot before getting into dicey situations.

  • @nilofernisha2726
    @nilofernisha2726 Před rokem

    Dear mam,
    How do I know that my 3 years old kid has narcissistic tendencies?
    If it is because of genetic factor, how can I raise him? Pls guide me. Pls

  • @shorts_luv7634
    @shorts_luv7634 Před 6 měsíci

    My 10 year old is this way.shw does not want to take shower.she likes to spend hours on the computer.its furstrating.im becomeing angry

  • @QweenTInspires
    @QweenTInspires Před 9 měsíci

    JADY THANK U SO MUCH🙏🏾🫶🏾 #MOMSMATTER

  • @sanatlife8429
    @sanatlife8429 Před 6 měsíci

    But what if he should sit next to me and time out but he just didn’t?! What should I do? Take him and bring him over and over again? 🫠

    • @monicanadine
      @monicanadine Před 5 měsíci +1

      That was my question too, but yes that’s the answer. She mentions that it may take several times/ a few months. I know it can be super challenging for us parents, but the payoff is 100% worth it.