Justin & Joy | Finding Your Way Back After Breaking Up | Black Love Doc | Bonus Clips
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- čas přidán 28. 07. 2020
- Justin & Joy share how they felt when they briefly broke up and what happened they reconnected their relationship.
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Maturity. .. people don’t understand taking a break/breaking up isn’t all the way bad. Sometimes we need a break to reflect and slow down
This! Because sometimes we may be incompatible and timing is everything. Not all breakups are bad.
So true! I had to do a self eval. And it helped me grow.
It works everytime ladies let him go and move on if it’s meant to be he will come back new and improved
💯💌💪🙏🧘🏽♀️🧘🏽♂️❤🌹
@Wandersworld Exactly
No he breaks up with me. I'm moving on and keeping it moving. He never loved me, and me on to finding something else better.
wrong
That's not true.
A soul tie is strong thing. You can sense the other person, their movements and emotions when there is one.
So true
That's what messes us up. I can feel everything coming from my ex.
so true thought was crazy cause I literally know before I get to just find out and confirm...
Going through the same thing , the same way. I know me and my person are supposed to marry. But, universe said we we have to work on ourselves first and then come back together. Been 3 weeks and at first i couldn't get out of bed. But once i started getting downloads from source and to get up. Now i am just working on self while they work on themselves. Sometimes we just have to walk away for awhile. If it is meant to be it will be.
@@leesteal4458did yall work it out yet? Or did you just move on?
When the Holy Ghost is involved...He was that overwhelming strong presence. God bless your union. Thanks for sharing
Right - so sweet.
Yes and Amen! So very true
Amen!
Amen Psalms 91 Amen!😊
Amen
I don’t see why there’s negativity . Seemed like they mutually broke up or at least understood the necessity & then came back together stronger . Good for them!
Happened to ME. My bf and I broke up a month ago and omg it was painful we both cried and I saw him cry several times. He decided to court me which is what we are doing now and fixing our flaws & for the first time we are truly happy! I was scared that he would move on and vise versa but now we are good. We want to get married, have kids, etc
Omg i love this
So happy for you sweetie❤😊 all the best!!
Wow.
I really like that they showcased a younger couple because it gives you insight on the variations of married life. They were so sweet!!!
True!
If it's meant to be... no demon in hell can stop it!!! May GOD continue to bless your union.
Amen.
I see a lot of bitterness in the comments. Let’s just be happy for them. They are both glowing
They're projecting their own relationships. Or, lack thereof.
Good thing it doesn't change their relationship. People are something else!
I just let go of somebody I know down in my soul is supposed to be my husband and I declare its one of the hardest things I had to do. I pray we come back together. Your story is beautiful ❤
I broke up w mine of four years. We spent 3 months apart. We changed. A lot. I showed up to his house, and apologized to him, he took me back, and a week later we got married.
True story. I was only able to survive the grief I felt by calling on the Lord. I was DEVASTATED, grief stricken and absolutely sad. I got closer to church, I started going to confession, I did everything I could to get right with God because it was literally THEE only thing that made me feel better during my break up. I remember the first night we broke up, I thought of drinking, to ease the pain, but I remember being younger, drinking and never finding answers.
So I chose God, & God fixed all the rest. Fr. So... Take your pick, but as for me and my house, we shall serve the Lord and I'm grateful it was his will for us to get married but I was willing to let it go as God called me, so he could sanctify me, and prune me. When I went back to my Husband, he saw that I was sincerely apologetic, and that the Lord had changed me. I literally wish you the best. Trust God, and allow him to do with you, what he will because he truly has the most perfect timing and I am so fulfilled by the Lord. I have literally no regrets. God is divinely perfect. Good luck!
@@ConcealedCarriedYou don’t know how much your message means to me, it gives me so much hope. I am currently calling onto God to hold my hand as I am sad over a man I pushed away by mistake a few days ago. He is still in my life, but barely. We are just “friends”, no longer exclusive. He has distanced himself from me because I made him feel misunderstood, unseen, and unheard. This was our first argument ever. The overall bond we have been built in the past few months has been amazing, which is why this hurts both of us so much. I am praying my story ends with him being my husband. I know that God placed him in my life for a reason. He is supposed to be my husband. I feel it in my spirit.
I am currently seeking therapy so that I can be held accountable and be intentional on making sure I never make this type of mistake again. I have personal issues that I have been putting on the back burner, but this is a sign that I need to process addressing these issues. I am nervous and anxious, but I am taking it a day at a time. He did say that he is an actions guy, and that only changed behavior will allow him to change his mind. So I must be patient and work on myself.
Any updates?
Amen.
God was definitely at work in this story. Real sweet the way they got back together.
When she said she knew that was her husband but it couldn’t be with who he was he had to change first I felt that… that’s how I feel about my ex… I broke up with him but I can’t love him with the version he is now but I know he’s my husband 🙏🏾
Any changes, updates?
Any update 😭
Girl same… mine came back2 days ago.
Oh my god I broke up with my bf a week ago for the same reason, but I know he's my person.
Any updates?
I'm going back to my Queen. She was a gift from God and I took her for granted all in the name of pride. I texted her today and hopefully she doesn't block me 😭💔
How did it go?
Update?
Good luck
It takes a tad bit longer for men to see and FEEL what they have lost..
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your path STRAIGHT! God bless and keep them!
I have been singing this song non stop
I’ve watched this video before and why it came back to me at 6am was just God ways of telling me everything is okay. Timing is everything and continue to work on me.
😂😂😂 @ when she said random tears... girl that was me
This is currently me
This is my story I know it - “that’s your husband right there” I pray for the highest best version of my “Husband”
This sounds like my man and I. We are two stubborn ass humans. We argue abt nothing and decide we won't talk now. And then randomly, we seem to both get an overwhelming feeling to find the other. I try and ignore it sometimes but it physically hurts. He turned up in pyjamas at 3am the last we argued. Tipsy as hell, telling me he had a horrible headache, he missed me so much and couldn't sleep, so he wanted to come sleep in 'his' bed. I was dumbfounded. Gave his stupid ass some ice cold water and painkillers then we went to bed. He woke up a few hrs later coz work and kissed the hell out of my morning breath. I spent the whole day asking myself WTF happened last night? He was back to take me out for dinner tht same evening and been stuck on him since. Four years and counting.
love this
This is so cute!! I feel like a man will do anything to get his girl back if he truly wants to be with her and do well by her.
I haven't watched all of this but i love it. I wish i wasn't so bitter and overshadowed by bad shit that happened in my life. I wonder if I will ever get the chance to have tru love. My bitterness has left me paranoid and difficult to trust due to what people have done. I hope to heal wholeheartedly one day.
God bless these two. I love to see our people happy and in love.
I can understand the sentiment.
I hope that you can go to counseling so you can heal. I recommend betterhelp.com
I don't know where you are in life in terms of age, employment status, daily living arrangements, spiritual position, etc. but let go and let GOD.. I know it's cliche, but trust me when I tell you I was in your shoes just 2 months ago.. At 54, I truly felt the love I deserved was not in the cards for me, I was royally depressed.. The one thing that kept me going was my faith and belief that GOD is real.. I believe in Vision Boards and the last one I created was in 2016.. I had 5 specific items on my VB and by the end of 2018, all but 1 had come to pass.. The 1 thing that was outstanding was a healthy long-term relationship.. In 2018 I entered a relationship with a guy that I thought was my soulmate, but after 6 months I realized I was acting out of desperation, trying to fit a square peg in a round hole, and ended that relationship in October 2018.. That December I made a vow to be truly single and not settle.. 2019 was a year of consecration for me -- no sex, just worked on being the best version of me I could be.. In April 2020, I joined Black People Meet and in June met the man I'm with today.. We communicated online 3 days before exchanging numbers and have spoken daily (by phone, no text) ever since.. We made plans to meet up after a week's time.. That was 2 months ago and we haven't spent a weekend apart since.. He works 60+ hours during the week and every Friday, Saturday and Sunday is spent together.. This relationship is nothing like I've ever experienced and I know without a shadow of doubt I can cross off the last item on my VB.. This is all to say, never give up.. The fact that you still believe and enjoy seeing other couples happy in love means hope is alive for you! Be Blessed Beautiful :)
@@user-kn7rr5qv9t you're a beautiful soul. Thank u for this inspiration. I needed this. Im a single mother and I feel like I've hit a wall. 😆
@@iashahardesty3786 You're so welcome!! My prayer is that you receive the healing you need, because in order to obtain the love you desire you have to be open to trust!
@@user-kn7rr5qv9t what a sweet and inspiring story.
They are too cute, feel the chemistry and the love!
It is very weird, how these stories are very potent for others. I do not know them. But their story as most of the Black Love stories seem personal, to me, if that makes ANY sense. Love Black Love!!!
My ex is younger than I am, but that I didn't let that stop me from dating her. I loved everything about her and even loved her imperfections. One of my issues was that I didn't trust her much and our communication had dropped, our relationship was on and off about 3 times and it only took one thing for her to brake up with me again and now I of to be waiting and praying to see if things will work out again. We dated for about about 6 and a half months and our 1 year anniversary would be one day before her birthday In February. I am praying night and day to let God intervene in our lives and I can't stop praying each time I pray.
Update?
I hope they make it. love this couple
They’re such a GOOOR-GEOUS couple.
I SO NEEDED TO SEE THIS, THIS IS BASICALLY MY STORY TOO. #faith
THANK YALL!
This is my favorite segment!
This is a beautiful story!
I just predicted my break up. I
Told him the other day “I’m preparing myself, for you to leave.” And he did. The first time we had a feeling of reconnecting but I don’t believe he don’t any of the work when we reconnected maybe this time will be different, maybe it will be too late
I love this for the both of you…May you have many more years of Joy, Love, Peace, and Abundance…
I love them and their podcast. Been listening for years
What's the name of their podcast
@@karaborebecca3284 married millenials
And here I am clapping 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 👏🏾
I absolutely love this show.
This is so relatable. Even that we are still not there at all...
I love this soooo much❤❤❤❤ sometimes I get that overwhelming feeling with this person I'm talking to but I just put it in God's hands
I 💜 the transparency ‼️💪🏾
Look at them telling my story 😂
Love that for you🤣
I love black love. But ladies you gotta remember to allow the men to talk. Talk AND listen. In order to receive mutual benefits and efforts of the conversation.
Awwwww. Lol. Loved this ❤❤❤ God bless you two!
Sweet love story 💕
💔so weird how it flips, never really knew about that, second time I hear about it.
Love it 🙌🏾
I love it 🥰! I love black love x
Just, WOW!
SO sweet and encouraging💞💞💞
Beautiful 😢
I really love this
That’s amazing 🤩
This is what my woman and I have been doing through and I’m now seeing many ways to get my woman back!
My woman Tonya & I had a really big break up this year 2022 and this video just gave me hope. God bless🙏🏽
Did u get her back ?
Nope
Update?
So nice
loved it
is there a way to watch their full story? anyone know?
I love this for y’all
When it just feels right
Today makes it a week since my boyfriend left and now looking at this I think I understand why he needed that break.
I LOVE THEM!!
😍😍😍😍😍😍. So cute!!!
nice true love
Interesting...
Wow so cute 🥰
Omg she was too nice... She should have made him suffer for breaking up with her. He took her for granted and then ran back when being single wasn't as fun anymore. Ladies don't let a man back in your life so easily. Make him work his ass off to get you back because the next time he even thinks about leaving he will remember all the pain he endured trying to get you back and he won't do it again.
Come on and *Preach* somebody!!!!! 😂
Seem like they both agreed with the breakup. Sometimes the heart wants what it wants.
Looks like it worked out as they are married and seem happy
No this isn’t the complete clip. He came back when he was broke. She said on the episode that she was helping him so much that she had to miss meals. The reality isn’t as nice as this clip makes it out to be.
Whatever happened, their bliss and happiness make it clear they were meant. So glad the substance they built on had 0 to do with material things.
t's a long distance breakup during a pandemic. I gave him 1 year of no contact ..... I focus on my mental health, be happy, show on social media although he doesn't use any.went into no contact after he had the last say. I only broke no contact once this New Years and he only replied in kindness, wishing me all the best. what do I do at this point since it has been 2 months ago after breaking no contact. no reply...
Time to move on. Sounds like he’s not interested.
Goals ❤️
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💫 UNIVERSAL GODS PRESENCE ~ PRICELESS💕
I’m curious as to why they broke up ...
I know right?! It seems like he didn’t want to break up in the first place, but they both knew they had to. I don’t get it. It sounds like a job move or finances impacted their breakup.
Of course you are.
1:35 He was not the right person, or version of himself to commit to. She accepted the truth, and didn't settle .
Danny Wong : Ultimate Bad Boy what do you mean though, Danny? What are you trying to say?
@@tarynstewart8279 based on how you asked the question, I'm sure you know what I mean.
So he basically broke up, slept around, got sick of it, then went back to her? Sounds like he doesn’t want anyone else to have her. These dudes and their games...🙄
In the full episode, he also said that he was broke and had nowhere to stay. So he got back with her for housing and a source of income. Sis supported him and went without means cuz of him and it was only after that that he realized she was “the one.” She had to starve literally for him to realize that.
@@876me7I know right 🚮🚮🚮
@@876me7 that's madness. Well I hope their happy.
Facts!! So pathetic.. I wish they wouldn’t have featured this couple... struggle love at its finest
Wow! Smh
#sOULMATESSSSS
Why did they break up?
That’s crazy this story sounds like the beginning of insecure
Soul mates.
The only one that wasn't cheating cheating 😂
I am glad to see a woman up here with my exact hair texture and cut.
How ironic they don’t say specifically what it is that made them break up. It makes no sense.
With all the dates he was so eagerly going on, I'm sure one reason was cheating. Lol
This was a Bonus scene from this episode. In the actual episode, they did specify why they needed to break up. It wasn't cheating.
I don’t recall why they broke up in the original episode. I do recall that he admitted to being broke with no job and went back to her. She stated she helped him so much she missed a few meals.
My ex got married 😢I’m happy for him! I just want to have that joy again
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THERE IS A CURTIS MAYFIELD & IMPRESSION TUNE THAT EXPLAINS HIS DILEMMA CALLED... "IT'S ALL OVER"
God this is me... Again. Please send me the tracking number at least
Who was the 1 downer that clicked thumb down?
His date before they got back together 😂
😂😂😂Right dummy downer fosho
@@bren00 lmaooooo
Justin u a hand full lol
What were some of the reasons HE NEEDED to break up….I don’t get that.?
Women in the comments acting like they don't have some beta male text they haven't responded to who would actually make a great Husband and Father. 🤦🏾♂️
Been with the betas, holding out for an Alpha
Can she let him talk
Cute couple but only dogs return to their vomit🤢 NEVER go back or let him come back🙅🏽♀️ Everything happens for a reason... after every break up, my next was ALWAYS better
Oh and to ppl in the comments talking about “soul ties”, there’s no Biblical references for “soul ties” so please stop it. Not Biblical and misinformation.
I watched another video where they explain their relationship more. They were young when they dated the first time. I suspected that. They were in college. Sometimes you can be with the right person, but it's the wrong time. I have seen it time and again. They remind me of my friend and her husband. They met when they were teenagers. They dated for a while and then broke up because they were going in different directions. Nothing traumatic happened. Many years later they reconnected. They both realized they were not ready for each other when they were 17. They both had to grow up to become the people they are now. After they both lived their own lives, built their careers, and grew up....then they became ready for each other. They are very happy with four children now. I know other couples with similar stories. Everything isn't always about taking somebody back after cheating.
Well every relationship can be hard. In the Bible in written to forgive. Not every time but sometimes you can . Soul ties exist. Soul ties exist! everything doesn’t revolve around the Bible.
Everyone's situation is different. I wish people would stop giving advice for everyone. It worked for them and they seem happy. To say a dog returns to it's vomit is rude and insinuating something negative. That's not always the case.
Try to find you both on Facebook
I was trouble
I tapped the link below but just saw a pic along with others
Do you have your own Facebook apart from Black Love
Thx!!
OH MY GOODNESS! Did anybody else cry like a big baby? True love is so real. I pray I meet an amazing guy someday who I can lock heartbeats with 🙏🏾🤎
I remembered one day when I was trying to tow my ex on my bicycle a guy was passing by and said true love. I didn't mined her weight either, it just that she almost fell off the bicycle. People would usually ask me how is wifey and how is your girlfriend doing. Even yesterday when I bought some fries, one of my neighbors asked me if I was bringing home dinner for wifey and I said she ain't there. I miss her very much everyday and my mind is battling negative emotions wondering if she's with someone else while I'm mourning our brake up
@@Smartkidn3 awww I totally understand. Hang in there, this shall pass. I was there. The man I loved for 3 years, when it was over, I mourned him for another 3 years 😫 I finally got closure from him August 2021 through a hug and brief chat. It helped so much. Now I'm with an amazing man that make me see daily why none of those relationships in the past didn't work 👐🏾 we're getting married in January 🙏🏾
10.2.2022
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