Why Men No Longer Want To Get Married
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I'd rather get into a car with a alcohol soaked drunk than get married. At least my death would be quicker.
Ouch lol
@Water King Que?
Wow đ i second this
And cheaper
Thatâs deep
Women: "why won't he talk to me?"
Men: "Hey there, you want to go out tonight?"
Women: "SEXUAL HARRASSMENT!"
incel
Yep
R u serious. C'mon now. I can't personally name 1 case of sexual harassment, please enlighten me.
@@TT-zu5pr are you fecking serious? all it takes is a FUCKING ALLEGATION AND FALSE CHARGE and a guys life is fucked but if it isn't that it's she can take my house my kids and HALF my shit and I'm almost destitute because she didn't love me anymore OR she fucked the mail man coz im to busy working to fuel her expensive lifestyle naah FUCK THAT for a game of darts oh wait I forgot I'm not 6ft not well off not well built enough not that handsome enough
@@TheCrow2483 ma dude you sound severely depressed and negative if your going off on a random person online like that.
No marriage
No divorce
No child support
No Alimony
Result happy life....đđ
Sanyas is happy life
@@siddeshrawool1386 đđ
@@amanh6869 hoga bhai ready rho high value admi Bano bhai ya phir sanyas...
How about not getting divorced?đ€
NOT FOR MUCH LONGER ! 1 Corinthians 6:9,-Or do you not know that unrighteous People will not inherit Godâs Kingdom? Do not be mislead. Those who are sexually immoral, idolaters, adulterers, men who practice homosexuality, thieves, greedy people, drunkards, revilers, and extortioners will not inherit Godâs Kingdom.
Women: Let's file 80% of divorces
Women: Why are men destroying marriage?!!
I bet there's literally misunderstanding and no mutual respect and miscommunication between each other, That's why Indians are great, they look at astrology first and check all their planets the get into marriage.
80%+
20% of men cheat on their wives. And thats just those who proudly admit it.
â@@harendrashekhawat2704astrology is pseudoscience that Hindus follow just like their nonsense called karma
@@harendrashekhawat2704Iâm two weeks behind but I found it !!!!
The stupidest comment on CZcams ! I feel like I won the lottery finding this đ
Hes on point better to be a player than get played with a divorce
Why is the FBI giving marriage advice
@@nathanhagerman9928 no funny fbi business going on here keep scrolling
The problem is western society devalued men. No women cares to look for a high value man to support and create a beautiful family. They're looking to build for themselves with money and a career
@@nathanhagerman9928 they watch every one they have to know something
This is hilarious. You name dude
Men of culture, raise your glasses to this đ„
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Letâs be real. When a man approaches a woman, most of the times the woman is nasty towards him.
no if the man has lots of money the woman is not nasty
â@@ShivamSingh-tc7tothat's why man with big amounts of money stay single for it to not go at the hands of wrong women
@@ShivamSingh-tc7toor if he is a tall Chad
I think men get nasty treatments sometimes because alot like to go for women above their pay check or physical qualities(It's an ego thing). For instance I have seen short dudes who want to go for a tall girl. Why not find one who is short like you. Or alot of fat guys I have seen trying to approach a slim lady then get sad when they turn them down.
My advice to men. Look for a girl with the same qualities as you, instead of going for someone who might be for example: Richer -- if you are not financially stable. Or someone who is taller -- if you are a short dude. Or smarter -- if you are someone intimidated by a smart woman. Just find a niche within what you are able to supply.
@@hannatuibe8491 you're new to all of this, aren't ya. Here is some enlightenment.
Men have to use a spray method, like throwing things at the wall to see what sticks. They have to do that until they learn how to tell which females are interested in them. Some men never have females interested in them, and its not about how thick the wallet is nor how tall they are.
Women only have to show up, not be huge, and then they get asked. For them, and I believe you are one of them, things "just happen" which is why so many women say 'stop looking and it will just happen for you.' If men stop looking and speaking to women, NOTHING HAPPENS. Nobody just walks into a man's life. He walks his own life and women kinda bump into him and fall in behind him for a while.
Men need to be aggressive, women are passive.
I cracked the code early on in life, when I was 17. I learned how to tell when a female was interested in me, and then I decided if I wanted to speak to her or not. If she shows no interest, she just as well doesn't even exist to me.... other than certain ones who are eye candy.
I am only 5'8, the most I have ever made in my life is $60k, so I am not tall nor rich. However, I have a 150+ notch count, and a great many of them were very attractive. Some like my second ex wife were homely, but I liked who she was and figured nobody who appeared better than me would ever even speak to her. Then I got sick and I must have looked really bad... lol.
I am 54 years old, have traveled the world, got laid on four continents, and nearly married an Arab woman 32 years ago. Long story. I know how women function, what they are attracted to, and why. I still get good looking college age women looking at me that same way they have for the last 35 years. Not as a wallet, its something deeper than that.
Thing is, women are an expense, a liability rather than an asset. Its because they have no incentives to be loyal in the west. They can take off with everything we have earned and built, while having put absolutely nothing into it, but rather taking from us the entire time.
The vast majority of men are invisible to even the most basic, overweight, homely female, because she thinks she deserves the absolute best. They're delusional in the west. They turn down the men who are above them, but not in the top 20% to 5% of men. They will find themselves alone, unwanted, and impoverished, same as my ex wives are since the guys they left for, left them.
The hilarious part is my two best females friends are a tatted up lesbian who is into old cars and a 350lb woman who does the interior work for my muscle car builds.
I find it most amusing when these overly large ones try to reject me because I say hello, just being polite in public. I am not hitting on them. I have no use for females, other than the obvious... the only thing they can sell to me.
Without three moist orifices, what use are they to us?
Kids from divorced families grow up to become cautious adults. They don't want to make the same mistakes their parents did.
Kids from divorced families become (about 80%) criminals or 304s
I came from married parents (together for over 40 years) and I still dont want to get married.
â@@boston312plz can you tell the reason and your age ?
im mid 40s and very independent. Having someone around me 24/7 would drive me crazy. I do a lot of international traveling so I can get access to female sex whenever I want. I pay them to leave once my sexual needs are taken care of.@@aadiptpandey538
Story of my life.
Women: Why don't men want to get married?
Women: You go, girl! Take him to the cleaners
Facts đŻ
Yes!!!!
Most underrated comment in history
Sadistic selfish behavior
I could never so that to a man that is not my personality I couldn't take a guys money it's his hard earn money this not me
You could live until 90 and never be able to retire just because a relationship didnt work out when you were in your 30s. Its terrifying!
This^^
It's definitely happening to me! My ex wife literally took EVERYTHING from me! Women now know the courts are biased towards them! It's sad because it harms children and takes from them as well as the father
I get married. I get cheated on. She begs me and gives me a heartache and gaslights me when I divorce her. Courts are corrupted, so she will be granted alimony even tho she cheated and I presented evidence in court. But modern feminism is stronger than laws. Occurs to all women in the entire world. Because after all they are women. Don't get married, people. I won't myself.
I'm sorry. But next time choose wisely. Can't balme you though
We need male extremism not gonna lie . That's our true power . I wasn't aware of these things until my friend told me these things . Wow he really saved me .
@@Hahshdhbcbcyoutube You think he will repeat this mistake?đ
@@Death_angle2005 probably
@@Death_angle2005 it's not rare
22 year old dude here. I told my mother that I am not getting married and she accepted it. She then proceeded to say âI understand this because women these days arenât worth it, but there is a very small chance you can find the right oneâ.
All risk, no reward.
Sure your mom said that.
That's kind of true.
â@@NovaDoll our moms are the only women who would tell us that.
@@akeemguy1857 There Are plenty of women who are good matches and good partners. The are entire counties I canât go to because of my gender. But you can do as you please. My parents have been married for 35 plus years. They are old fashion. I was very happy to do my duties.
My only requirement was my man be good to me. No income, high, or weight requirement. All that matters what was in his heart. And I would be there. But thatâs too much to ask. These men would go after a crazy girl. Then try to come crawling back. I thought perhaps I was too âniceâ. But I gave up and stopped dating men from the US. I work in IT. I am loyal. But only men from other places were serious.
Marriage is not easy. But those that have the right partner are blessed.
I used to say that.
Yeah and 54% get rekt. Then they try it again and 75% of those get rekt again.
@@onetrickpony4179 You cant try again everything you owned belongs now to your ex . Pluse why takeing the risk again to lose the 10% you still have.
@@xythiera7255 thats why you only marry with a contract that says that both parties leave with what they came into the marrige. So the wife doesnt get your money ans your stuff.
@@xythiera7255 I know dudes who've been destroyed two, three times and line up for it again. Nope.
Marriage is a terrible deal for men. Women can leave you at any time, and take half of your money.
Also a terrible deal for women. You can love your husband with all your heart, take best of care of him, your children and home, and still he will go out and sleep with other women or divorce you when he finds what he thinks is better. Iâm no longer interested in marriage, men, or a family. Iâm free, independent, do what I want, when I want. Itâs peaceful, drama free, and Iâm happier than Iâve ever been.
â@@deannacousin2339divorce are filed by 80% of women not men
â@@deannacousin2339because women's intention is alimony so you get what you deserved
ââ@@thehacker7670Bcoz after divorce half property of men are taken by women and also share from monthly income. But women have not to give a single penny from her pocket... that's why it's easy for women to give divorce.
But those women who are nice those are suffered by toxic husband.....she is also equally capable of doing everything but they don't get privileged as much as men have.
The last part is the most sad and true. The majority of men WANT a family and WANT to be married, but modern women are not wife and mother material
My dad got married 4 times and he still hasn't found the happiness of a family even with 5 kids. That's all I needed to see
And heâs brokeâŠâŠâŠ
@@adolfvonpanzer9521 if he can afford to marry 4 Times he is loaded
â@@adolfvonpanzer9521 so what if he was?
@@akeemguy1857 - he sounds an insecure fool
I think the myth that men believe is that your family is going to adore you. The truth is they really donât give a shit about you. Youâre just there to provide.
Because 99 percent of the women think you're a creep or stalker if you aproach them. And a lot want to threaten to take your kids and sleep with your best friend
LOL no.
@@hunteryan itâs not true
No you're only a creep if you are average or ugly if you are Chad the bitches love you approaching and talking shit to them
Only if you are not the chad dude, never forget
Ugly = creep
Chad = courtship
@@juansebastianovalleguerra3467 you just dont have game
Iâm not planning to marry anyone because I wanna be happy, plain and simple.
lol
Same Bro im Thinking of etheir travelling the world or just Chilling with a PS5 or go offroading whatever gonna make me happy I guess lol.
me either, marriage is a scam now, literally and figuratively
Single 12 years you couldn't drag me back at gunpoint. I'm also a single dad so no yearning for family. I wasted far too much of my life trying to make a woman happy, now I'm happy, I really do wake up every day excited to just live my life.
I couldnât agree with you more. I can very much relate.
Living the dream! Stay strong KING!
Good on you Sir. đ
marriage seems like playing russian roulette with a semi-automatic instead of a revolver
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More like automatic haha
Fact
Lmfao
Marriage is like playing Russian roulette with a bullet in all 6 chambers
There is no loyal woman. Even king Solomon found this out.
It cost him his wisdom
@@beneficent2557 ...and his soul
And probably lots of time and money
I'll go one step further...the first woman created, Eve couldn't even stay loyal to her husband. Because of Eve, humanity was kicked out of paradise, or so the story goes. What chance does modern man have?
Not true, but its exceedingly rare, i am in my mid 30s only been with one man, after 14 years, divorced when i learned my miscarriages were from std's, i made my own dress taught by my german mom, worst of all i didn't see it coming, i was a dutiful housewife, i had no good guys in friend zone i was a wife too busy with domestic duties married before 20.... ugh, devastating now mid 30s going back to school, no money (signed prenuptial) i had no experience dating and worst of all, my cohort of women tell me to sleep around and have fun,
Im so lost, so alone. So confused in u.s a. Culture, good girls get shit on too,
But one thing i don't regret is i never whored myself, and that as a women hss dignity
Rule number one of business: Never make a deal with somebody that has everything to gain by breaking it.
I want to get married one day but because of the risk that the woman could just divorce and ruin me is so high that Iâm afraid of it
passport... go abroad... no one is marrying these western dumpsters nowadays.... only good for parties and fun... but if you want wife, east is the best
Donât, become a player
Story of My Life, man. Saw what divorce did to my family when I was a kid and swore I would never put anybody through that
Not all women are same some are goood some are bad try to be good husband then she will be ok
@@musafir123 women marry for money, they cant love unconditionally they only love what a man can provide to her, no woman would love a poor guy
Feminism. Feminism is the issue. End of.
Feminism is the short term of having equal rights for women, yâall really seeing this term the absolute living hell or something
Sleeping around is a hollow existence, and getting married is like playing russian roulette with 3 bullets.
3 bullets, emasculate, eviscerate, & castrate
When women hit 50 nobody wants them, and they waste their youth dancing in their underwear on tik tok.
Nope it's like playing russian roulette with a full automatic gun
Currently the dilemma im going through honestly, and as a Christian its even worse.
Also they line their self up to get sexually transmitted diseases
Its just not worth it anymore... You have a better chance at winning the lottery!
I only know about 2 good, balanced, happy long term, marriages after 73 years of looking.
Now you men know how risk was for women before, and yet they are run in that,, castle of sand"or they not be protected.
and if you get divorced you automatically lose and pay the equivalent of the lottery.
GODLY woman are rare
@@ivan0oze886 your just doing darwinism my man no karma in that
We're all just waiting for that sex robot that's not too creepy and can cook and cleanđđ
Itâs called a prostitute and a maid
If you know the game detroit become human . I would happy to spend my time with a robot !
So basically a replicant from Blade Runner đčđčđčđč
Don't look that up they made one đźđźđźđź they is really no need for women đđđđđ
â@@yamato8277 noooooo thats wrong
Still need offspring
I'm a Brit, and a couple of years ago, I and a colleague were in Miami on business.
We were sitting at a table, in a bar/restaurant, and a couple of very atteactive American ladies asked if they could sit at the table.
We chatted all night until they left.
At which point my friend said
THAT WAS EXHAUSTING! I FEEL LIKE I'VE JUST BEEN INTERVIEWED.
Their conversation was so transparent, and materialistic.
I have heard similar from American men.
It's not about who you are. It's about what you've got.
It's a rather depressing thought that American women are so greedy.
That's because you were in Miami where gold digger go to find the rich. All American women aren't like that or non of the men I work with at a factory would have wives or kids with them being neither good lookin or wealthy making about 30k to 40k a year.
That is valuable insight, I thank you kindly good sir....
Actually my eye has taken a bit of a fancy towards a British girl.... and it makes me wonder what British marriages are like, or rather what it's like to be married to a British girl -- (I'm perhaps a bit of an anglophile, myself....)
But I can't help but wonder what it would be like....
This girl is : a reader, has a phd in history and literature, is an author....
Nobody does it like British women.... who can compete with that.... and she can cook, and do all those motherly things, plus she's sexy -- now how does it get better than that, man.... how lol
And how does one acquire said lass - I very much wonder!
@@Cory99918as a Brit, itâs not that different to an American marriage I assume. Itâs a similar culture although our laws are slightly less crazy than some of your states no common law marriages etc if you live in the same house. Honestly in England youâre fine financially as long as you just donât sign the paper. Hell itâs even easy to get out of child support if you really didnât want to pay for it.
When that dream betrays you many times, a man figures out why that happens, and stays away from it.
Maybe you ought to keep your bitches in check
Facts
True Facts the man gets sick and tired from that dream wanting to happen which keeps getting broken many times so they give up in pursuit of finding true love.
Supportive and nurturing isn't in this modern world's vocabulary anymore. It got erased! đđđ
Not really. Women are all about support, so long as they're the ones receiving it. Child, financial, government etc. And nurture too. Nurturing _their_ dreams and goals. All at the expense of men.
@@LiberPater777 their dreams and goals, funded and facilitated by men đ
Go abroad bro! Get out of there the US is falling.
Nurturing đ€Łđ€Ł these bitches is destructive now a daysđ
@@LiberPater777 women don't want to reciprocate today because they have figured put they can act poorly and manipulate to not have to reciprocate and with no repercussion in any form.
The average modern life:
5 years of being married and 'in love.'
30+ years until death being divorced and disillusioned.
Every single man who is married or has been married always told me not to do it. Everything changes for the worse after the wedding
For 40 years one of my biggest desires was finding a woman to spend the rest of my life with. I never found her and now that my eyes are wide open, I realize true love exists only in the movies. I was searching for something that doesn't exist, especially in the modern world. Now I realize how blessed I really am. I'm single without kids and feel free like a bird...compared to the billions of men who find themselves in toxic relationships.
A loyal girl is very rare brother
Yep well said man
IFunny vibes
You are just unlucky probably looking at bad place. I got a wife who truly loves me. She had been with me when i was broke. We lived in a small shared rooom in a house. Then moved to small studio apartment. She slept on the single bed with me when she was pregnant. Now i have been blessed with a baby we live in a 2 bedroom house. (Obviously rented) she cares for me too much. Even is she is in pain if I want something she will get me. But I never ask her. We went through a lot together and that only made us stronger. Our love story began almost 5 years ago and we fought against our families. I got kicked out.
In return I care for her much. You will know if your girl loves you and put you above anything. If it don't then leave her. She is not for you and you are not for her. Look again. Keep looking
â@@Minks252 We don't talk about the forbidden app
After my last relationship failed almost 20 years ago I have a deep seated fear of losing everything and having to start again, again.
I hear you Sir!
That second again hit me. Stay safe brother, stay sane.
@@markaragnos2446 Thanks đ
A woman who is independent and self sufficient is just another competitor. Men want the fe.minate smart woman who makes a home a Sanctuary for them. Not business competitors.
@@Diegoflyboy L opinion. Both partners can contribute to make the home a sanctuary and earn for the family. Seperation of roles turns into restrictions on ambitions. If two partners trust, work with and love each other completely, that's all that's needed in a relationship.
3 years been by myself . Want more then "here today gone tomorrow" Not the way I wanted life to go.
Wumao.
Biggest liability a man can have.
I've always wanted a happy family. But every relationship I've been in has ended not by my choice. Heartbreak hurts enough.. I can't have heartbreak PLUS kids taken from me.. PLUS a costly divorce.. that I didn't choose.. All because she wakes up and decides to screw some other guy or disrespects me because I cannot leave. I can't take that chance.
Well said, accumulated heartbreak from failed relationship+costly divorce+children ripped from you is devastating. Suicidal depression is very real and men shouldnât expect sympathy (except maybe in online forums like these).
Men. This is why you buy a house
First. Before marriage.
You don't have to live in it. Rent it out.
You rent a place with your woman. You don't put her name on the lease, else you can't kick her out. If you decide to get married.. then fine.
Your house is YOURS. If she cheats and bangs the bag boy at the grocery store, she isn't rewarded with 50% of your assets.
This also avoids the scenario where he is paying so much alimony and support, he can barely live. Worst case is you turn your house into 'renting rooms' and you keep one for yourself. Odds are you have a basement or something.. that you can't rent to people, but you can certainly live there in an emergency
@@BarryObaminable Thanks for this tip! I will keep it in the back of my mind
@@BarryObaminable sounds like an awful lot of iffy preparation for the inevitable. Much better not marrying in a western nation with shitty laws. Go live in a place that still respects men.
@@BarryObaminable still have to be careful nowadays living with your partner because at least in the US you have common law marriage from just cohabitation. So you need a cohabitation agreement prior to living now....(basically a prenupt)
As a man who checked out of dating 8 years ago, I once yearned for a wife and a family, but reality hit me that for my life, it will never be worth it for me, I will build myself up day by day and no longer have my time wasted finding happiness through a gender that is NEVER HAPPY, no woman can outmatch solitude for me.
how old are you if you donât mind my asking
@@jordanmeccariello4182 I'm in my 30s now, I checked out in my mid 20s after learning and experiencing many of the very things that this channel talks about now, but I learned 8 years ago.
@@floridamankyle5461 when is the last time youâve had an intimate relationship with a woman and would you say you are happy now. currently a 20 year old man starting follow in your footsteps
@@floridamankyle5461 i hear u bro...same boat..;pain, anger, tears, depress.
my futureplan..is to hopefully be independent ($) and then liveoutside the matrix in order to raise family. maybe Only engage modern world on my terms and conditions.
sigh..GLđ
Almost 30 and same, checked out at the age of 23/24 if i remember correctly⊠stil had some hope and still talked to girls but 3 years ago i completely stopped. Its not worth it
We need the divorce laws changed now.
Men : hey there's a cat
Women: I have a bfđđđ
Women think men go so long between relationships because we canât find anyone when the truth is weâre sick of tryingđŻ
That's really sad. I know a lot of people who have the same struggles.
Women have no idea how it feels to be shot down repeatedly like us. They aren't the ones actively seeking partners their whole lives, they sit and wait for partners to come to them.
â@@ElizNarciso And I have a feeling most of those you know going through those struggles are men. Am I right?
Take it from an average guy, this man speaking facts.
@@emmahas2moms8038 I donât get shot down, I get approached speak for yourself son.
Go to the gym never look back. Fools donât know how women operate.
You only approach a woman once you already got her looking at you without speaking to her.
Just letting you in on some real game.
Itâs not about getting the girl itâs about making the girl want to get with you.
Either I keep everything I have and stay single, or I get married and have the possibility to lose everything I worked for. I think Iâll stay single and not have to worry about losing everything I worked hard for
love is a fraudulent waste of time anyways..
better to not let our "offspring" suffer on this hell we call earth.
Do a prenup. Is she doesn't sign it, she has bad attentions
â@@solidsnake8331 a prenup might not even be upheld. Many states and countries don't recognise them. But asking for one will probably show what she's like.
It's a puzzlement.đ
My final divorce was in 2013. Yep, ten years ago from me writing this. I lost everything of value, save for some rusty muscle cars and my tools I use to rebuild them, in both divorces.
I'll not be doing that again.
I would be a multimillionaire now, if I had never gotten married to the first one. You would all know me because of my car builds and things I do if I never had her weighing me down.
Everything I tried to do, every achievement I set my mind to, she undermined. She continued to do so for 15 years after our divorce in 2001. She and my home state kept me impoverished until 2015.
I would have achieved things while my body was still capable, before my last deployment in 2004 left me crippled, before age caught up with me and I live in constant pain. Now I am 54 years old and doing the things I have wanted to do since I was 15, but couldn't because of females fouling up my life.
Check out the 1964 LeMans I just dragged out of the woods, I rebuild cars like that then drive them. It goes from being a $200 wreck, to being worth $50k or more after I put a few months of work into making it drivable art. Like I said earlier, you would know of me for that if I had never gotten married to that first one.
What do I have to show for the relationships I had with women? Nothing tangible. Everything tangible was taken, other than rusty muscle cars that they thought weren't worth anything.
Love is propaganda capitalism
My mom spent her entire life making sure I wasn't with girls and not in a relationship, now I'm 19 and she asks if I like anyone and I told her I wasn't having kids nor getting married and that women just disgust me nowadays and she started laughing till I told her I wasn't joking and she got concerned upon reminding her what she did my whole life she began to realize how badly she Fucked up and is trying to slowly pry at it but I shut it down immediately and give no hope to the point to where she's worried, I say live with your consequences
What about your dad ? Didn't he do something when mum was busy messing with your life ?
still atleast it saved your life
At 19/20, you have every chance to meet at least 1 woman who will make you change your mind.
If you want to detach yourself from sex completely get married
It's gotta be very hard on your ego, since many women come with high notch counts
As a man who has found this... it is truly satisfying. We've been together 14yrs married for 12. She's given me 3 children. I work 50 hrs a week, FOR THEM... she runs the house and kids, I provide... so much so she's never wanted for anything and I've genuinely never cooked 1 meal in 14 years. Sounds ridiculous but we love one another VERY deeply. I'm the boss of the house, not a dictator. It all boils down to respect. She's my angel, I'm her man. Where's the toxic here? This is all she ever wanted in life... a loving husband and children, and me, a family who I guard with my life!
I am so happy for you mate. Wish I could find a woman like yours. I actually found her but we are not meant to be together :(
Also, I suggest you cook a meal to surprise her and just see her reaction. She would definitely pass out of happiness lol
@@-SimonRiley I would if I could bud. I do plenty of other stuff though... ie help out round the house, do all sorts with my kids and wife, just took her away for the weekend for our anniversary, plus I just built an extension on our house with my own hands.( I'm a bricky)... its all good mate. You'll find your queen. Just be a good MAN, there are women out there who want it! đđđif not, just be happy and stay positive, it will come!
@@-SimonRiley and thankyou bud.
With 70 to 80 percent divorce rate, you got lucky. No way I'm going through divorce.
@@catfart879 yup, it's better to be alone than wanting to be alone
I love the lady trying to ask how men are supposed to be happy without a family while completely ignoring the reasons why men are avoiding it. đđđ
Not all men are foolish and want a family
There was a time when I yearned for a wife and a family. Those days are long gone, she took it with her when she left, all of it. I survived it but it almost killed me. Never again.
Men should not marry a carousel rider. You will get divorced. You will lose your financial stability.
Leave the country to find a woman if you have to. A ran-through woman cannot pair bond. She is settling for you, after a kid or twoâŠsheâs gone with half your stuff plus child support. Iâve seen it happen to too many men.
I had spoken to a elderly homeless gentleman (70 yrs old) was cheated on both his ex wives. They took everything he is currently homeless. I took him out for dinner at japanese restaurant. None of his family cares. Not even one of his children or his cheating ex wivesbothered to talk to him. He said the gyoza dumplings and seafood ramen we had was the best meal he had ever tasted
Men should not marry. Period.
@@GoldenEagle_Matariki_Kaleolani happened to my dad, two wives too(I came from the second)! Dad went homeless for a while but recovered. My mother used us against him but eventually we found out the truth. Currently repairing the relationship between me and my dad. We go fishing often now.
@@justingeorge7665 thank you for the reply! Praying for you and your dear father đŒ
My suggestion would be
Go find a women is asian countries
Coz they stick to their values
I might be wrong
I donât yearn to bring innocent life into a dead world.
People giving up like that is the exact reason why this is happening. Your blood doesnât mean shit, your ideologies and values can outlive stars and planets and I hope the one you just mentioned isnât passed on. Youâre a contributor to the dying, not preventing it from happening again because you arenât willing to raise a human that has enough perception to see that self destructive behavior is what got us here. Iâm not saying go have kids but youâre contributing to just letting the world burn with no one capable enough to repair it with that attitude.
@@earlofill2580 I owe the world nothing.
@@electrodynamicorb6548 That attitude is why the world is dead.
@@unyieldingmonotony4453 Lol what do men owe a world that completely demonizes them every chance it gets?
Oof that's a bar
There is a severe lack of marriageable women on the market
My brother went through that in 1986, and his wife cheated on my brother and lost for his son of 3 y/o through the court system after she initiated the divorce and had to pay the price of alimony, child support, and lose his first home for being a good hard working man, husband, and father. My brother learned to never remarried again. Just has long-term relationships, no commitments with a go bag ready to roll out in a moments notice.
I'd rather become a monk than getting a relationship this days.. đ
Monkey?
I got my confirmation icon from a monastery in Oregon, hand-painted. I've thought about becoming a monk, but realistically I'd rather just drive an 18-wheeler and think about Jesus.
same
I'd just be a Saint and Advise the youngsters against marriage and give them the Pros and cons of it.
Besides my grandmother, women have been the bane of my existence since the day I was born. Literally.
Tbt Iâm with you on this. Some girls got mad at me at work because they invited me to a wedding and I said no Iâd rather work that day and they go âwhyâ I told them because marriage is scam and I donât support it.
Way to go đđ
Aye nice job but id still have went for the free food though that's it!
Haha ! đ
I was thinking about getting married but never mind it's not worth it.
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Fuck married stay single
Get married but just get a prenup and donât put any of your property on your womanâs name no matter how much she begs you, thatâs a major red flag too
@@ibrahim_-_-_ most attractive women are gold diggers anyways
@@ibrahim_-_-_ some times the courts ignore the prenups n all fr sm reason
âYearn for the dreamâ
Yep.
Heâs 1000% right, its like my deepest dream i dont think much about it but it stays forever
My two primary reasons why I donât wanna get married are
1. Weddings are expensive and overpriced
2. I donât want my heart to be broken when my wife decides to divorce me or cheat on me with another man
Not even sleeping around now, if she regrets next day, you're in big troubles.
She only âregretsâ it if she doesnât get a relationship after he one night stand
@@TheShowOff2I nah what they do is falsely accuse you of rape, it's common and it ruins lives
@@hypertrophy_
Exactly, if she doesnât get a relationship after smashing she will try to ruin his reputation and it usually works since people believe women (By Default)
@@TheShowOff2I The "Believe all women" slogan is incredibly toxic
Whatâs wrong with sleeping around if you are single??! Donât knock that hustle, bro!đ
Getting married was hands down the worst mistake I have made so far.
Same here.
Bro no matter what anyone says I'm sticking to my WORD AS A MAN that I aint gonna get married cause it just dosent make sense anymore?!!
Are you still married đłđ§đ§đ§
@christopherjameswright9614 separated got myself another house I live alone I have a great dog. I'm still bitter over the whole thing but I'm getting better still no way in hell I'm looking to tie the knot again that's for sure
@@everydayfun9531 yeah I'm with you 100% on that. The messed up part is I found a great check that doesn't want to do anything but get married. Cuz there's no way I'm going down that rabbit hole again to have another female flip the script on me like that nope
The biggest issues we have now are that women don't want to get married. As men goes they never want to get married until they are tired, play the games, and be loanly.
Yes ! True .... In my opinion. They play men to point that I'm useless. They should feel that too. Only after that they will faithful.
Women: I ain't your mother.
Also women: You have to take care of me exactly the same way my father would.
The risk/reward is completely skewed, and there are enough crushed men getting bled of child support/alimony each month to get a very clear view of how dangerous it is. Just ask them, they have a stark and clear view of the process - they will tell you, "Save yourself.. Stay free." The dream of finding a wife, a supportive, nurturing woman who will be loyal and kind, stays a dream that cannot be.
100 right here. A man today is just better off laying back because that one super rare woman that will reciprocate and support you to support your family will make herself very evident.
@@brandondrew4914 Yeah then he dumps his perfect women and dates a girl that is completely crazy. Happened to me too many times. Then they come crawling back. I donât get it.
â@@NovaDoll you are one bitter ass women
Yes you re right. Better to prioritize peace of mind..
Who in their right mind wants to lose half of everything they've worked for?
Totally agree. My father passed away several years ago and my mom hasn't mentioned him once since then, i suspect she doesn't even love him. But he had only one woman for his entire life, even before death, being divorced he confessed to me that he still loves her despite her ignorance & divorce.
Now i am afraid of women, most of them are damn cruel.
Fact!
Reality hurst.
Sorry for your loss. I don't know your life but people grieve differently. When my grandfather passed away I grieved for years yet I hated it whenever people mention him to me because it's too painful. Maybe you're right after all and maybe not.
@@armyofthedead5443 I know what i am talking. She never accepts her guilt, it's always someone/something else.
She wasted so much money & made so many mistakes that eventually became schizophrenic. And this disease can't be cured.
I just wish i had a normal family, a happy, a united one. I wish i had my father when i needed him, i wish i had my mother when i needed her as well, when i needed my family the most, it just wasn't available to me anymore.
I wish i remained just a sperm cell and never born...
Most men and women are like that today. My parents love for each other is true however. My mother is very beautiful and she stood by my dad when he was unemployed and supported him during difficult times. She was even asked out by an established actor but she rejected him. My father always respected her and never forced her to be with him. He never tried to control her and he respects every women. He is also quite handsome. Now we are financially well off. They have been together for over 30 years and they still are deeply in love.
As a man, I used to yearn for that dream of an ideal woman with a beautiful family. Now, Iâm good. Just going to focus on my goals and have fun living the single life until I die!
on the other side of 50 life gets harder and you may change your thiking, but it may be too late then, good luck everybody.old age pain will come no matter what and not in a single way
just dont get sick or get old no one gona see you
@@cristianmicu We all enter this world alone, therefore we will all die alone.
@@ogueyratogeyrat7448 Living life alone without a companion doesnât equate to being lonely. Itâs a difference in mindset. A person that enjoys being alone isnât dependent on having people see them when they get sick or old to comfort them. Real content and happiness can only be found within.
If you are a man and dream of things like marriage and stuffs , you are GAY.
Stay single, stay strong men.
I was single for 46 years and didnât believe true love was real then I met my fiancĂ©e she is everything and more than I could dream of. She nursed me back to health after surgery, sheâs gorgeous, loves God, is the bread winner, and treats me better than I thought imaginable. So I hope you donât give up like I did but I also realize Iâm very lucky.
I got my true love and she's amazing. Proud of you for having yours đ
As a woman, I approve of this message.
Right! Because Iâm not too fond of marriage myself đ€·đŸââïž
@@Mizzshron82 Marriage is the way, God ,wants it.
@@Jesusismykin marriage isnât for everybody. Accept that. What if Iâm not religious?? How would your argument suffice??
@@Mizzshron82 I agree with you đŻ% is not for everyone, but who are you going to bed with ??? Ecclesiastical 4:9-12 Do you have a relationship with God ???
â@@Mizzshron82 thats a problem u don't want marriage or a relationship u want to be single with a slave at work or home... no no
Social media and dating apps have ruined the dating market for like the 90% of the men
I checked out after a divorce, all respect to myself and happiness for life
Being married, not easy......to me ....means compromise, sacrifice and persevere.....
im a senior now....i came up in the 70s 80s 90s...when i see and these ladies now. i understand why men won't. My poor son try to build a relationship with and old school friend. she liked drugs more then making a family. He had patience and understanding ...but she couldn't leave it along. he finally gave up after 5 yrs he was good father figure for her sons. she was jealous of their relationship. He let her go for good 3 yrs ago. he passed last year with he wanted family not with her but that was his desire. RIP.
i pray men find do love in their life. â€
Thank you! May your son rest in peace.
I say this every time.
Marriage is not for secular people.
There are 5 different types of marriage contracts. The government only issues the one that gives the woman everything.
Two of them you only get what you came into the marriage with.
The other two, everything stays with the man. Orthodox Muslims and Jews only do these two and have the lowest divorce rates ever. Hint. Hint.
But then men wonder why they grow old and lonely as time goes on. Lol y'all talk about cat ladies when y'all are cat men! đ
@@jeremiahborders2959 Lonely?đ€Łđ€Ł
Men are not the ones complaining "where have the good women gone." Men are not the ones complaining that marriage rates are the lowest in history. Over sixty percent of men are not on anti-psycotics and anti-depressants. Men aren't going on social media to say all women are trash after getting dumped.
Isolation is our third favorite thing. We actively seek it out. We make songs about how awesome it is.
Sex is our fourth favorite thing.
According to anthropology, what you just said doesn't match reality.
Someone told you wrong.
As a Muslim, we can have a religiously valid marriage via an islamic contract, but the civil contract isn't valid according to religion.
However to the gov it's the otherway round. In other words, we don't recognise gov contracts. Gov doesn't legally recognise islamic contract.
So when they pull up with their matriarchal misandrist BS...we stick the middle finger and say "we aren't married bec where's the civil contract?". So they can't do shit
@@jeremiahborders2959 grow old and lonely? Most men have always been lonely from the start. Go rant on some feminist video. St#pid cu#kđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
@@zitens66 umm men are complaining though. See red pill movement. Nowadays the reasons to get married are less and less valid. Previously women needed mens financial position and protection to survive. To survive! men needed women for their legacies to continue. Children can be a financial burden. why have them or relationships that are no longer critical? Men and women are more self sufficient. Neither needs the other now. I suspect higher marriage rates when generations X, Y, Z retire. Btw divorce is easier in secular societies and can be dangerous for women in orthodox faiths.
I am Filipina, married for 35 yrs. My brother in law is a passport bro, yes this man is yearning for a wife, but prior marriage cheated on his wife (for over 25 yrs.), cheating over and over. Then found a Filipina here she was 27 and heâs 53 she dumped him bc she caught him withe the Filipina fr Philippines back home, who is a 19 yr. old. He just left for Philippines few days ago, and currently or two years now, heâs with these woman his neighbor fr Venezuela for two years. Filipino people are good people. But mind you also that even middle class women or career woman there have maids. The only one will cook and clean for you are helpers or people living in poverty. They will do everything for you out of their own good heart, but do not stereotype them that, that is all they are good for.
The man never pay for maids, it's women's job
âI will complain about men not approaching me while I sit on my couch with my cats and not making any move myself, expecting men to do all of the work for meâ
Truth, I want a woman that wants to build a family. But as the risk is very high for a man to get taken for everything, I am not going to put myself into that position to be taken advantage of.
However men claim they are so wise so your choice of woman should have been the right the first time. Leaves me wondering were you right then in that relationship to that woman.
Yea when I was in my 20 no woman wanted me so I worked on myself and there's same woman came back around and I rejected them all.
I think men and women lie to themselves about this so hard. I always did. I did not sleep around at all I was just so terrified of being used and thrown away that I said I didnât want kids. I was terrified of the responsibility. Now I cry at how lucky I am with a loving husband, beautiful daughter, and handsome son.
All wishy washy fairytales
BrittyJo87 in wonderland
Checked out and bought a motorbike. Living my best life.
This team is so under appreciated.
The ONLY thing a ( fill in the blank ) is loyal to is themselves. PERIOD.
Stay up fellas. đȘđŸ
Facts!
Thank brother. Same to you!đȘđđ
@@TimothyKirkby đđŸđȘđŸ
It's not just that either. Women today aren't even capable of seeing where the disloyalty is because they think they entitled to being treated a certain way without reciprocation which takes work they don't want to and don't have to today because they can scream or manipulate to get the same thing. As men we need to stop tolerating this and boot their asses to the curb quick.
permanently peaced out and loving it
Loyalty and appreciative
Because the juice is not worth the squeeze đ
Well said Leo!
It ainât never was the government wanted men to believe that so they get into contact.
As i got older every part of the relationship process became more painful. Used to be dating was fun, then even they became painful.
Theres no part of the process thats worth it, a lot of women have attitudes on the 2nd date
Dating is awful and tedious. Being single is better for sure
Iâve checked out of society, and gone black pill. Honestly super depressing once you see the world how it truly is, but it is liberating, and itâs kinda nice to be alone.
Away from responsibilities is the reson
My wife and I got married in 2002. 20 years married next month. I feel like I snagged a photo finish before women all stopped being normal.
My woman cookes me AMAZING meals time and time again. She only works a part-time job to have pocket money to spend and then spends the rest of her time taking care of our family. She rocks my world in the bedroom as much as can be expected in a world where I works pretty much all the time. Sheâs a great mother to our three children.
Itâs likeâŠI won the wife lottery or something.
How did I meet this amazing woman you ask?
Church.
We met in the youth group at 14. We became fast friends. Just friends. Not friends with benefits because at the time I was simping like a moron for a different girl.
But that ended and at 21 while in the Marine Corps I realized that the woman I really wanted was right under my nose.
Did I mention that she keep finding new new AMAZING recipes that she serves up? Iâm talking every damn week itâs some new home run home-cooked dinner.
Watching all these red-pill videosâŠit feels like God literally broke the mold the day after we got married. I feel bad for the younger men today wanting a traditional family.
My own sonâŠI straight up tell him when we go on our fly fishing trips together..âFind a woman like your mother or donât get married at all. Better to be single than to marry a 304 who turned 30 and âfound Jesusâ now that Chad and Tyrone donât pay her any attention anymore.â
My son is growing up red-pill aware. Tons of fathers will do the same. Within 2 generationsâŠif women donât square themselves away they will all be doomed to buy a dog and die alone. My son wonât have it. And neither will all the other red-pill aware sons.
You are a lucky one, God bless you.
@Brian Kurtz
If all women will be doomed to buy a dog and die alone, will that happen to men too, or will they die alone with just their blow up doll?
@@trenchantsometimes5149 I was using hyperbole to make a point. My guess is you knew thatâŠbut if you didnâtâŠnow you do. I think we both know that that ultimate outcome will never happen. For two reasons.
1) Simps - there are an unlimited number of simps. Even if red pull awareness washed out 80% of themâŠthere would still be 20% left. And that 20% would be millions of people. So women would be able to find some simp.
2) God - as one of those âevil fundamentalistâ ChristiansâŠI believe that God is in control of everything. And he seeks the good of his peopleâŠnot evil.
There are still places to find âgood Christian girlsâ. Not the ones who are that in name only but are really skits behind closed doorsâŠ.but true followers of Jesus who hold fast to sexual purity principles because of inner conviction and resolveâŠnot simply because their parents told them that âthese are the rules for girlsâ.
Such women may be as rare as hens teeth. But they exist. And they tend to be concentrated in certain places. The trick is to be able to come up with a system to find them and winnow out the wheat from among the chaff.
A non-Christian has no chance of pulling this off of course. Because this rare kind of womenâŠif she holds to Biblical sexual ethics from the inside outâŠwill also hold to the command to not marry a non-Christian. She will assess that very strongly because her father will have told her to watch out for the armies of people who claim to be ChristiansâŠbut are not. She will have a radar for that and weed THEM out completely.
So outsiders cannot just be like âI am gonna go get me one of those good Christian girlsâŠ.and then have one but live as black as the devil himself. Iâll have the best of both worlds. I can live the life of a non-Christian and do as I see fit and have a good woman on my arm. I can have my cake and eat it too.â
Doesnât work that way.
The actual good Christian women will have standards. I have told my sonâŠfollow the Three Strike Rule. If she already has slept with three men or moreâŠcross her off the list of consideration.
But the same applies for my daughters. If he has slept with more than three womenâŠcross him off your list.
My hope is that every woman in every church would adopt this principles. Then the worldlings can stumble around complaining about how bad things are while Christians choose only from among themselves and have none of these problems.
I like your style. Your son will thank you when he gets older. I will be telling my sons the same when they are grown and start getting into relationships. The church is still a good place to find a good partner, better than all the other places that people are meeting these days. The issue is that modernism and new wave feminism has made its way into a lot of the churches as well via social media especially.
@@jusplay7309 wellâŠ80% if the people who claim to be âChristiansââŠ.are not Christians. At least not the way Jesus defined it in Like 14 and how the Apostle John clarified it in 1st John.
Most people who claim to be Christian are self deceived about that. And that means that most of the churches are not churches as revealed in the Bible at all. They are temples of a false religion posing as Christianity.
I call this wide-spread religion âChurchianityâ.
Itâs not surprising that these non-churches embrace feminism. They are really just institutions of the world in disguise.
The trick is to find a REAL church. Not one-in-name-only.
Once you do that you have a good chance of finding a woman who is the kind of woman men want to marry.
The problem is that these churches tend to be small. So there are few women to choose from. And since over half of all women in America are fat and unattractiveâŠ.you have a problem where you might find a place where women are the âright kind of womanââŠbut they are not attractive enough to want to marry.
We all at this point are trying to find ways to kill that part of us that yearns for a family and a loyal significant other. Some of us cling on to it for too long and get burned. Itâs basically self mutilation of oneâs soul. No visible scars just emptiness.
I'm not married not getting married NEVER getting married... its best you know that now ..im just TOO tired
I am a 72 year old woman, and I agree with you,women theses day want to be above the man.
Instead of being a real feminist, those women now are femnazi that want to enslave men. This of course make men think ill about women and labeled almost every women only care for his money, what horrible is they don't care how men provide it and keep barking over silly consumption instead of supporting their partner. Technically this tire men at work and at home they didn't get any peace or time to relax their mind
Nope. Men were always losers, women were always whores, nothing changed for centuries. It is human nature, dude.
Lilith thought she was above Adam(a righteous man in gods eyes) once she got kicked out she turned around and married Lucifer (the king of devil's)
A couple months ago I had a hot nurse flirting with me and I didnât even notice until my mom said something because I donât care Thatâs how disconnected I feel from womenđŻ
âYearns for that familyâ
Donât do it. It will be used against you. Held over your head. Women use their children as weapons against their men.
Itâs unbelievable the number of young women that go onto tinder and swipe all day long, it used to be considered an embarrassment to go online and look for a companion It was considered desperate
They are not looking for a companion on tinder my man they are looking to get railed out. FYI.
A marriage contract is the most dangerous document an average man will sign in his life.
Marriage is when man and woman promised to GOD that they would love together forever. Its a contract that has omen at stake.
@@potatoxgaming9466 bro I'm speaking legally not religiously or spiritually.
Iâm 18, turn 19 this year and I recently dated a girl and she was amazing. I spent almost every day with her since we started to date and I love being with her she was so sweet and so nice to me. For the first time I felt appreciated and because of that Iâd buy her food, clothes and etc all the time. But she recently told me she wasnât in love with me which is ironic because I was in love with her. People keep telling me Iâll get someone better but it took me 6 years to find someone. I donât it to take another 6.
Like they say better be safe than sorry