Three Married Couples With Wide Age Gaps on Living Their Lives Unapologetically

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  • čas přidán 23. 01. 2024
  • This episode is all about age gap relationships-from strong marriages to ageless friendships. We’re exploring these unique connections with guests addressing how they are building lasting relationships, not letting age differences get in the way. During the sit-down, we meet couples Kemar &Tonya Bonnick (21-year age gap), Mindy & Larry (30-year age gap), and Jon McKinney & Brian Merrill (34-year age gap). Tam Fam, this is a conversation that you don’t want to miss! Press play!
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  • @lynn2574
    @lynn2574 Před 4 měsíci +346

    Regarding age…. I was adopted by older parents. My best friends parents were typical ages. Her dad died when we were 13, and he was 39. My dad passed away a few years ago at 92. You never know how much time you have. Do what is best for you.

    • @samsungbackup3619
      @samsungbackup3619 Před 4 měsíci +12

      This is a great perspective

    • @Deniseeee84
      @Deniseeee84 Před 4 měsíci +4

      God bless you !

    • @heartstrings84
      @heartstrings84 Před 4 měsíci +16

      exactly my dad lost his mum at 10 when she was only 27 but his grandmother lived until 96 🤷🏻‍♀️ none if us can guarantee how long we have

    • @inseparablesmusicvideoscha4256
      @inseparablesmusicvideoscha4256 Před 4 měsíci +8

      I tell a lot age gap partners that have this concern, some many years into a relationship that wake up one morning in a panic seeing the mortality of their older partner. No one knows, but if you love him (or her) and they look like they've got 10 good years left in them go for it, the average marriage only lasts 7-8 years. My wife is 23 1/2 years younger than me, my parents have outlived her parents by an average of 27 1/2 years. So if history follows I will attend her funeral, in a wheelchair but...

    • @alittlebitofmary
      @alittlebitofmary Před 3 měsíci +3

      That is so sweet. I’m glad your dad lived until 92!!!! That’s amazing and totally dispels the myths about having kids late. ♥️

  • @user-JesusSonofGod777
    @user-JesusSonofGod777 Před 3 měsíci +7

    If your “best friend”……. Ditches you because you found love & happiness with a younger partner…… they were never , truly….. your best friend…… not even a friend.

  • @BodaciousB
    @BodaciousB Před 4 měsíci +43

    My husband was 17 years older than myself and we shared 8 years together, 7 of them married, before he passed away from a heart attack. We had so many things in common, and he always said I was an old soul for knowing so much about history. We could talk about anything, and the time I had with him was the best of my life.

    • @meggold3422
      @meggold3422 Před 3 měsíci +5

      I'm very sorry you already lost him. I'm trying to keep myself as healthy as possible for my fiance', and him for me. We're nearly eighteen years apart.

  • @itsjustmylife_x
    @itsjustmylife_x Před 4 měsíci +167

    Wow, she is such a respectful interviewer. I was worried for Mindy and Larry going on the show, but I can see why they agreed. Tamron is genuinely such a lovely person. So much respect. ❤

    • @familyiseverything5799
      @familyiseverything5799 Před 4 měsíci +27

      Mindy and Larry want to be private not sure why they went on here 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @shannthompson9219
      @shannthompson9219 Před 4 měsíci +23

      ​@@familyiseverything5799I think she loves the spotlight more than her privacy. Attention you know what

    • @jessisjourney9915
      @jessisjourney9915 Před 4 měsíci +7

      I think she sensed some deceit in their story. She was trying to tread lightly.

    • @Di-hz2dz
      @Di-hz2dz Před 4 měsíci +7

      @@jessisjourney9915 i think, everyone sensed the deceit in their story... That is why Mindy looked terrified dodging around the truth and lies.

  • @RoseMakeUpArtist
    @RoseMakeUpArtist Před 4 měsíci +101

    Great job Kemar and Katonya.
    God’s timing for baby Bonnicks 🙏🏽

  • @stephaniebourne8243
    @stephaniebourne8243 Před 4 měsíci +17

    My husband is 30 years younger than we and we’ve been married for coming up 12 years! We couldn’t be happier, certainly a whole lot happier than so many marriages closer in age! Age is not the issue if you have the same values and morals and goals in life!

    • @jahmallajaima
      @jahmallajaima Před 3 měsíci

      Good to know. My landlords have a 30 year age difference woman being older. Interestly I got involved with a man 30 years younger her. Didn’t work out due to something’s that made it bit difficult , in addition to to him living a few hours away and he wasn’t wanting a relationship at that time. I guess it’s bit difficult for me when I hear of other couples where there’s a 30 year difference and it worked for them

  • @nicholascarroll1225
    @nicholascarroll1225 Před 4 měsíci +46

    I have been friends with Catanya since high school in 1989 and we have kept in tocuh through letters and emails and Christmas cards, so it was great to witness her life and see this unfold as it happened. She was very surprised to find love while on vacation.
    Catanya is a sweet lady with a great personality and this relationship is very legit. She is an inspiration to me and their CZcams channel is worth checking out. They travel to amazing places.

  • @herfamiller139
    @herfamiller139 Před 4 měsíci +86

    The Bonnicks on the rise!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤❤❤❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😍😍😍🌺🌺🙏🏾🌺🌺🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @user-lb6eo7xb6d
      @user-lb6eo7xb6d Před 4 měsíci +8

      I love the Bonnicks
      I'm happy for both of you .
      Greetings from❤❤ Barbados

    • @latachedefoe4059
      @latachedefoe4059 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Amen bless up

    • @sophiaacorlor6510
      @sophiaacorlor6510 Před 4 měsíci +3

      You guys did so well on the show❤️❤️❤️ Continue loving each other❤ Watched from Accra, Ghana.

  • @Sannapp76
    @Sannapp76 Před 4 měsíci +64

    Here for the Bonnicks! Good job Kemar despite the nerves👏🏽👏🏽

  • @inseparablesmusicvideoscha4256
    @inseparablesmusicvideoscha4256 Před 4 měsíci +56

    I've never watched before .. I love how Tamron actually let her guess talk.

  • @tarab7773
    @tarab7773 Před 4 měsíci +68

    Used to be a fan of Mindy and Larry, for many years actually but a lot has been revealed and shown that made me see them( especially Mindy) in a whole new light Trust me, i used to be a fangirl. Some things that shifted my thinking were her receiving a thousand dollar check from a fan then blocking that person after they cashed the check . Mindy took down every single video that had Larrys son from his first marriage in it. All Bruce videos wiped out. She has not allowed him to visit his dad since the birth of their baby. She got rid of him on her instagram as well. Just like he never existed. Mindy goes on countless shopping trips,spa days, manis,pedis, hair salons, girls day outs, vacations to Universal and even Scotland and London leaving the baby behind. He spends most his time with Larry. Mindy got rid of one of her cats, named Luna because Luna broke a screen door. She said Luna is at her parents but nobody has witnessed that cat since. Mindys dad has also been investigated for dog abuse when a dog of his was shown wearing a jug around its neck. Mindy doesnt respond to her viewers other than the ones praising her looks etc. Mindy has been caught in so many lies i cant keep track. She even sells peoples gifts they sent her on her poshmark and jacks uo the prices to ridiculous amounts. Yes Larry was a married man and they had rendevouz and snuck around while he was married. They got married like 12 days after Larrys divorce Mindy is a fun person with a nice personality and charm but has a whole different side to her that outweighs the good to me. Mindy also will block you if you tell her that her baby looks like Bruce, Larrys oldest son. Gossip bakery and Discord are full of people that got blocked for saying that. Not nice at all.

    • @jillian.j8375
      @jillian.j8375 Před 4 měsíci +16

      Wow they sound like disgusting people. I hope nobody supports them. This is some truly dark and sick stuff.

    • @antoinettecollin3121
      @antoinettecollin3121 Před 4 měsíci +32

      The animal abuse was it for me!

    • @lilyautumn1443
      @lilyautumn1443 Před 4 měsíci +35

      After learning more about Mindy and Larry I no longer support them anymore. I used to think they were sweet and wholesome, but it was all a lie. I’m really heartbroken about it. They should be ashamed of themselves.

    • @kmlkml3450
      @kmlkml3450 Před 4 měsíci +9

      All of this is gossip. I know exactly which hate group you're in.

    • @thehomemadehawkins
      @thehomemadehawkins Před 4 měsíci +10

      It's not gossip when they're proof. ​@@kmlkml3450

  • @mrs.wright5873
    @mrs.wright5873 Před 4 měsíci +45

    The Bonnicks🎉🙏❤🇯🇲 May God continue shining his many blessings upon your family.

  • @oliviacat1209
    @oliviacat1209 Před 4 měsíci +61

    Does anybody else find the Mindy and Larry story to be disturbing? She was a vulnerable 20 year old and he was a police officer that took advantage. Also read some comments that there is more to the story

    • @hazelgirl1228
      @hazelgirl1228 Před 4 měsíci +36

      It is extremely disturbing. You’re not the only one

    • @antoinettecollin3121
      @antoinettecollin3121 Před 4 měsíci +35

      P.s. he was married with a kid at the time.

    • @EvighedenPlays
      @EvighedenPlays Před 4 měsíci +30

      Extremely Iam all for age gap relationships but I can tell you from therapist stand point being 20 and not fully mature and done growing and than a 50 year old man, there is definitely something wrong with it. On both their parts. Not healthy at all.

    • @JannieMette
      @JannieMette Před 4 měsíci +12

      That’s ridiculous. You are not a vulnerable child when you are 24yo. She was an adult, and fully capable of making her own decisions. The way things get twisted is more disturbing than two grownup people falling in love.

    • @sarachandler8210
      @sarachandler8210 Před 4 měsíci +22

      @@JannieMetteshe was 20 and he was married with a child the same age as her.

  • @peacealigned
    @peacealigned Před 4 měsíci +25

    kemar held on to katanya hands for dear life

  • @stephaniesqq
    @stephaniesqq Před 4 měsíci +55

    Why didn't Mindy and Larry tell the audience that he was married and had a child the same age as her, when he ask to take pictures of her? Why didn't they tell the audience, he was sneaking behind his wife's back and having secret rendezvous with Mindy at parks? Why didn't Larry tell the audience he abandoned a whole family to be with a gold digger the same age as his son?

    • @evansdmitri2161
      @evansdmitri2161 Před 4 měsíci +11

      I really curious where did you read this story, because i've been watching their videos for a while and cheating is a big no for me

    • @MyYoutubeChannel-2024
      @MyYoutubeChannel-2024 Před 4 měsíci +22

      @@evansdmitri2161from reading some of the other comments, I believe Larry’s son from his prior marriage confirmed it.

    • @BadMinky
      @BadMinky Před 4 měsíci +30

      ​@evansdmitri2161 a friend of Larry's ex-wife went online saying that Larry did in fact, cheated, that Mindy knew very well he was married and didn't care. That she was very possesif of him and obsessed with the married man. Later Bruce, Larry's firstborn, confirmed the affair, stating that his mom was heart broken bc Larry made her believe he wanted to work on the marriage, whilst he was having Mindy warm his hotdog at the reformatory. That's the volunteering she was doing with him.

    • @evansdmitri2161
      @evansdmitri2161 Před 4 měsíci +25

      @@MyCZcamsChannel-2024 i did know about this news but i kept brushing it under the rug. But i think this is my turning point

    • @sally9852
      @sally9852 Před 4 měsíci +19

      Mindy is very very controlling and does not care about others just as long as she is happy and things are going her way

  • @janiscreatesjohnson6630
    @janiscreatesjohnson6630 Před 4 měsíci +62

    I have followed the Bonnicks from the beginning and much love to all three couples ❤❤❤

  • @saudreawilson7032
    @saudreawilson7032 Před 4 měsíci +48

    Congratulations to the Bonnicks fam. You guys looked lovely. The conversation was great.. well done Kemar, nerve was there but you did it. Katanya looked so beautiful as always. You guys shine. DO NOT GIVE THE NEGATIVES A SECOND OF YOUR TIME

    • @cheesychickensmile
      @cheesychickensmile Před 4 měsíci +3

      So I haven't followed them but seeing him push through being on live TV in a second language was amazing! For reals props to him!

  • @sally9852
    @sally9852 Před 4 měsíci +33

    Larry has another son from a previous marriage

    • @BBAKER22
      @BBAKER22 Před 2 měsíci

      So?

    • @sally9852
      @sally9852 Před 2 měsíci

      Sooo he should be acknowledged Liam is not his only child or his first child geez that flew right over your head 🤦‍♀️

  • @mauveletteburchell606
    @mauveletteburchell606 Před 4 měsíci +30

    The Bonnicks, you guys looked beautiful 😍 and am so glad that it's was on the Tamron Hall Show 😀 you were on. I love Tamron. She is very respectful and courteous to her guests.

  • @crazydiamond4565
    @crazydiamond4565 Před 4 měsíci +58

    Im sorry, im confused. Mindy and Larry dont share their child on CZcams but now you allowed the show to plaster his photo on national television! 🤔

    • @priscillarose18
      @priscillarose18 Před 4 měsíci +24

      And their reasoning is it was an old pic that they already posted in the past before they decided to keep things more private, so that somehow makes it ok. But it’s still putting him out there for all to see, regardless of how old the pic is.

    • @paigedial3445
      @paigedial3445 Před 4 měsíci +3

      They do share him on their vlogs just small clips which is their right to do so to protect their child and family. Why would you care how they share their life it's their choice and your choice to watch or not.

    • @crazydiamond4565
      @crazydiamond4565 Před 4 měsíci +6

      @@paigedial3445 You're right, I don't care either way. It's just because it seems hypocritical to share one place and not the other. I've heard them recently say they don't share his image anymore due to privacy but then they post on national television. Just confused, that's all.

    • @jaysnana2879
      @jaysnana2879 Před 4 měsíci +2

      I know loloo😅

    • @tonyamarks6455
      @tonyamarks6455 Před 4 měsíci +3

      They did share him when he was a baby now he's a toddler and walking and course his looks has changed so yeah it makes sense why they don't show his face in their yt videos now

  • @dmad3612
    @dmad3612 Před 4 měsíci +38

    When I met my husband to be 26 years ago I remember family members asking me what I was doing with this old man. Well we just laughed. 26 years later we are still laughing at all the naysayers❤❤❤

    • @inseparablesmusicvideoscha4256
      @inseparablesmusicvideoscha4256 Před 4 měsíci +4

      25 years here ... most said it would last 3 week ... If you think it will only last 3 weeks, why the big uproar ???

  • @sharonthomas3749
    @sharonthomas3749 Před 4 měsíci +23

    Wow Katanya you are looking so gorgeous i am lost for words with the age gap i cannot see a difference in the way you both look. Kemar I can imagine what it's like to be on such a big stage but you did well. Love you both

  • @rosemarietaylor9688
    @rosemarietaylor9688 Před 4 měsíci +27

    You said it right Tonya, your gain and her loss. I'm happy for you both, keep the love real and keep glowing. Mr and Mrs Bonnick you're the perfect example of what true love 💕 is. Congratulations ♥️🤗👏🏾👏🏾

  • @laurenshank5803
    @laurenshank5803 Před 4 měsíci +68

    Larry also has another child.

    • @cynthiadelpozzo4082
      @cynthiadelpozzo4082 Před 4 měsíci +8

      You’d never know it! Terrible person

    • @CJaneee
      @CJaneee Před 4 měsíci +45

      THIS!! Who Mindy will not allow a relationship with and denies her son even resembling - she would rather destroy families.

    • @openlybookish
      @openlybookish Před 4 měsíci +6

      @@CJaneeewhat are you going on about? Mindy doesn’t control Larry’s relationship with his adult son.

    • @thatgirl9614
      @thatgirl9614 Před 4 měsíci +17

      @openlybookish If you don’t think a wife can interfere with her husband’s relationship with a child from a previous marriage I’d like you to meet my sister in law. 😂 My brother won’t have anything to do with his son because of the bs she says about him. Telling him lies, just complaining in general about him. My brother got sick of listening to her bellyache because she’s jealous.
      You have no clue.

    • @123heartslove
      @123heartslove Před 4 měsíci +6

      Sounded to me they were discussing the child issues that come with age gap relationships

  • @thatgirl9614
    @thatgirl9614 Před 4 měsíci +73

    Actually Larry does react to people who leave comments with snide remarks. So it does bother him or he wouldn’t give them a second of his time.

    • @carmensamone
      @carmensamone Před 4 měsíci +11

      I think he just really likes to quip back lol.

    • @bubblegum082
      @bubblegum082 Před 4 měsíci +34

      yep, was thinking this. Not only do they lie about things all the time, but when questioned about it and being caught in the lie he always gets super rude and snarky. From dog abuse, too treating their supporters horribly and so many other things they are just not it.

    • @QueensNYgirlie1988
      @QueensNYgirlie1988 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@bubblegum082Take your head out of your ass before you comment that kind of stuff. I'll wait

    • @minxsnarker
      @minxsnarker Před 4 měsíci +3

      ​@@QueensNYgirlie1988there's proof they lie on my page! Check it out 💫

    • @tessa541
      @tessa541 Před 4 měsíci +8

      I feel like it bothers him for the fact of how it makes Mindy feel.

  • @joyannbenjamin1773
    @joyannbenjamin1773 Před 4 měsíci +39

    Love has no age gap ,love is love and Tonya's husband is genuinely in love with her, he may be younger ,yes ...but he's fully mature in mind and his actions... jealousy comes in different forms... I love the Bonnicks ❤ you people are always in my prayers 🙏

    • @michellealvarez8160
      @michellealvarez8160 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Ok so you’ll allow your son who’s 17 to date a 25 year old? I’m asking since you say love has no age gap

    • @sharonharris9782
      @sharonharris9782 Před 4 měsíci +1

      ​@@michellealvarez8160what a shitty comparison. You just compared two adults to a minor and an adult. You're acting like you had no idea what OPs comment meant, when you KNOW they weren't talking about a minor and an adult.

    • @michellealvarez8160
      @michellealvarez8160 Před 3 měsíci

      @@sharonharris9782 listen don’t get nasty and angry with me because it was YOU who said “love has no age gap” so let me change it for you since it appears my original comment struck a nerve 😂😂 your 18 year old daughter with a 40 or 60 year old. There! Better for you

    • @sharonharris9782
      @sharonharris9782 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@michellealvarez8160I love when people get triggered by the TRUTH! 😂😂😂😂😂 APPLES ABD ORANGES Michelle .

    • @michellealvarez8160
      @michellealvarez8160 Před 3 měsíci

      @@sharonharris9782 yes. You were triggered. That’s the first step is admitting when you’re wrong

  • @susanmillington6149
    @susanmillington6149 Před 4 měsíci +26

    Kemal and Tonya you two look fabulous on Tamron’s show. Beautiful!

  • @pearl7567
    @pearl7567 Před 4 měsíci +43

    Larry was married when he got with Mindy. These people have no morals.

    • @Poppyseed0990
      @Poppyseed0990 Před 4 měsíci +11

      Is that why Bruce hates Mindy so much?

    • @dieselwolf3005
      @dieselwolf3005 Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@@Poppyseed0990 also contradictory and a liar czcams.com/video/6uts65na9Ao/video.htmlfeature=shared
      czcams.com/video/5gKJFFWdJPI/video.htmlfeature=shared
      Nice when lies come out.

    • @BBAKER22
      @BBAKER22 Před 2 měsíci

      Lol..Show us the proof

    • @kmaattytern
      @kmaattytern Před 25 dny

      ​@@BBAKER22the proof is in the public court records LOL

  • @cynthiadelpozzo4082
    @cynthiadelpozzo4082 Před 4 měsíci +84

    The fact that Larry made no mention of his first son Bruce is despicable, I’m guessing his son has nothing to do with him rightfully so , zero respect for a man like that and Mindy needs to think about that

    • @musix2009
      @musix2009 Před 4 měsíci +11

      Ha ha you don’t know anything mind your business…

    • @jessicamullins8269
      @jessicamullins8269 Před 4 měsíci +9

      You are so judgemental, wow, so sad.. Who are you?!

    • @lalaa8653
      @lalaa8653 Před 4 měsíci +11

      You shouldn’t be spreading false info clearly you don’t watch their CZcams channel. Larrry’s son is in his life and his son is a grown man. They have shown him in their CZcams

    • @CJaneee
      @CJaneee Před 4 měsíci +32

      THANK YOU for saying this. He was on their channel as Mundy tried playing the “good guy” but she’s a narc and they know it. He’s the same age as Mundy but he is far more mature and authentic. She literally took his family away.

    • @cynthiadelpozzo4082
      @cynthiadelpozzo4082 Před 4 měsíci +23

      @@musix2009he’s been out of the pic for a very long time just so you know 😂

  • @rhenblogslive6045
    @rhenblogslive6045 Před 4 měsíci +9

    So proud of the Bonnicks! Love this!

  • @sherylboyce1511
    @sherylboyce1511 Před 4 měsíci +9

    Love Catonya and Kemar. Their love is beautiful and pure. Don't let no one taint what you have. Keep loving one another and growing together. The baby will come 🖤💖🖤🇯🇲

  • @melissamcguire6923
    @melissamcguire6923 Před 4 měsíci +12

    I used to watch Mindy then I got so bored with het channel, and this perfect image she was trying to make people believe,when people found out her dad was abusing he’s dog and Mindy watched him do it what a hypocrite

    • @BBAKER22
      @BBAKER22 Před 2 měsíci

      And your proof is where?

  • @kendracosey
    @kendracosey Před 4 měsíci +92

    This is a very sensitive topic for me. I come from an angle that I have never heard anyone consider.
    My father was 30 YEARS older than my mom. They were not married, but had 3 children, with me being the eldest. I was teased as a child and made fun of because my dad was old enough to be my grandfather. I loved my dad sooooo much, but I was embarrassed having him around my peers. (I was in elementary school).
    My father later passed away at age 60 (my mom was 30). I was 8, my sister was 5 and my brother was only a year old. We all grew up without a father. I remember my dad, but not a ton. It bothers me that I was so young that I don’t remember the sound of his voice.
    My sister barely remembers anything, and of course, my brother doesn’t remember him at all. I will be 39 in 11 days, and it still affects me not having a father.
    Ladies, when you all get with these older men and decide to reproduce, consider the children in this equation. No one ever thinks about us and how we will be affected.
    …and before people decide to get “technical” in the comments, I am fully aware that age does not determine when one passes away. Young people die everyday and others live beyond 100. I am speaking based on the statistical norm.
    Majority of people are not living into their 100’s, especially people of color. My comment is based on MY experience as a child with an elder father. I understand that I do not speak for everyone. But, let’s just say that for those in my situation, my story is more common than not.

    • @JoyHarrison
      @JoyHarrison Před 4 měsíci +12

      I completely understand your point of view. It's a valid one.
      My parents were in their early 40s when they had me, their last child. It was still an issue when I was a teen, and they were in their 50s.
      Some people thought they were my grandparents. Fortunately, my dad lived to his 70s, and my mom lived to her 80s.

    • @Kentewest
      @Kentewest Před 4 měsíci +7

      So may I ask you something? I am married to an amazing man who is 23 years older than me. I’m 32 and have 1 daughter who will be 10 and I want another child. He made mention to me about me being selfish because he might not get as much time with the child. With that being said, my question to you as the child, should I just let that idea go and just embrace him as my husband? He’s a great father to my daughter. He’s been in her life since she was 3 months old, and he’s kids are grown; however, I just want to have a piece of him.

    • @DinahRYoung
      @DinahRYoung Před 4 měsíci +5

      ⁠​⁠@@Kentewest This is coming from someone who’s also in an age-gap marriage. I understand the wanting a piece of him, but if he’s helped raise your daughter since she was a baby and is a good man, why risk anything? You at least have been raising a daughter with him even though she isn’t blood-related to him. Think about when kids are adopted but are raised by loving parents; a lot of kids, even after they find out they’re adopted, consider their adoptive parents their biological parents. If things are good in your life and he treats you well, live as you are.
      Also, once your daughter is an adult, you can enjoy life with him, travel, or do whatever you want. If you have another child, you’ll start over and be set back more. Of course, if you want a child with him, I’m sure it will happen. But that’s just my two cents.

    • @Kentewest
      @Kentewest Před 4 měsíci +1

      @DinahRYoung You know as the saying goes, two things can be true at once! You’re not wrong and I totally understand. Often times, I think about if God willing I grow old, my daughter is not alone having to take care of me by herself. Although you can’t guarantee anything, it’s just a thought you know. Nevertheless, I’d be lying to you if I said I didn’t agree with your statement. Thanks for your perspective love!

    • @itsjustmylife_x
      @itsjustmylife_x Před 4 měsíci +10

      Children get bullied for many reasons. I hope your father will forgive you one day for seeing him as an embarrassment even though he gave you life. Without him, you wouldn't be here. Count your blessings hun.

  • @MarkishaAlways
    @MarkishaAlways Před 4 měsíci +22

    We love the Bonnicks!! You’ll look amazing 😍😍

  • @KDvybezmiami
    @KDvybezmiami Před 4 měsíci +14

    Bigup the Bonnicks😊 for sharing your story & experience 👍

  • @terrycoleman2338
    @terrycoleman2338 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Guy's you both looked good on set!! I'm so very proud of your love for each other. This show was a highlight of age-gap relationship truths of how society see. Congratulations that glass was shattered. 🙏🏽❤

  • @brilliantone861
    @brilliantone861 Před 4 měsíci +44

    I don’t understand why society is so invested in others relationship! If these people are happy mind your business! I pray they have continued love, happiness and peace!

    • @janicejackson9228
      @janicejackson9228 Před 4 měsíci +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @jonniehickson5599
      @jonniehickson5599 Před 4 měsíci +14

      Society is invested because people put their relationship out TO THE WORLD. You telling people to mind your business, well stop putting your business out there for the world to know. We wouldn't know if they/you/them wouldn't put it out there.

    • @xAgirlfriend
      @xAgirlfriend Před 4 měsíci +1

      ​@@jonniehickson5599Alot of couples do mind their business but they still get picked on and people have many opinions when no one asked for it. Age gap relationships is such a taboo subject so it's good that they are on a public platform to showcase these type of relationships. That does not give people the right to be rude or cruel!

  • @DamaGelida
    @DamaGelida Před 4 měsíci +53

    So Mindy cries online saying that they had to move because of a Ninja Stalker, records a few videos saying that she will no longer share Liam's face online to protect his privacy. But yet goes on national tv to to retell how she and Larry began their affair and then proceeded to show Liam's face on Tv... 😂
    Make it make sense Melinda Sue 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @colz83
      @colz83 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Mindy and Larry have shown Liam's face in the past. When he was the same age as in the photos. If it's a new decision to keep Liam's face off the internet present day on so be it. And did they ever disclose that it was an affair?

    • @antoinettecollin3121
      @antoinettecollin3121 Před 4 měsíci +29

      Yeah, she lies a lot

    • @DamaGelida
      @DamaGelida Před 4 měsíci +16

      @colz83 yes, I agree, but the show still happened on present day and they chose to show his face on national TV. If she truly had a Ninja Stalker, she wouldn't have shown his face no matter the age that he has/had. Anywho, you're right, Melinda Sue Mikla and Lawrence Mikla are wholesome and perfect. No abuse of power ever happened, no sneaking around and no blocking ppl for mentioning Liam's resemblance to his older bother. A Mindy Effect, right? 🤭💫✨️❤️

    • @shannthompson9219
      @shannthompson9219 Před 4 měsíci +19

      I commented on her IG and asked her about some of the accusations being commented on this video, I was very polite and she deleted my comment almost immediately

    • @antoinettecollin3121
      @antoinettecollin3121 Před 4 měsíci +18

      @@shannthompson9219 lol, that’s what she does when people ask questions she doesn’t like.

  • @martricemalveaux6923
    @martricemalveaux6923 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Great topic ❤ I love Tamron Hall ❤️‍🩹 show. Everyone 💐💐 is a unique couple 💞🙏🏾🙏🏾.

  • @kevinf6826
    @kevinf6826 Před 4 měsíci +15

    Big up the Bonnicks, much love and blessings❤🙏🏽

  • @novlettebaker391
    @novlettebaker391 Před 4 měsíci +21

    The Bonnicks! 🙏🙏🙏. Awesome guys!👏👏👏😍😍😍

  • @maudinerichardson3361
    @maudinerichardson3361 Před 4 měsíci +6

    God Bless you all. Love is Love, if you can find it and it works then go for it. My husband is 13 years younger than me and we dated for 3 years and have been married almost 4 years. He treats me like a queen and works hard to make a good life for us.

  • @jacquelinearmstrong2796
    @jacquelinearmstrong2796 Před 4 měsíci +42

    Love the Bonnicks ❤ blessing upon this marriage!

    • @purpose9624
      @purpose9624 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Congrats to he Bonnicks.Nuff love.Who God put together ,stays together.

    • @purpose9624
      @purpose9624 Před 4 měsíci +1

      SMH.two males???

  • @kristengibson5866
    @kristengibson5866 Před 3 měsíci +13

    Mindy and Larry... I'm sorry but something is not right.

    • @BBAKER22
      @BBAKER22 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yeah, you're NOT right and need counseling

    • @sarahfoster6765
      @sarahfoster6765 Před měsícem

      What is not right?

    • @TheTallulahRenee
      @TheTallulahRenee Před 25 dny +4

      @@BBAKER22Why are you all over this comment section? 38 comments from you. Are you psychotic or what? Seriously, seek help because you seem like a serial killer. You are way too concerned with what people think about a couple people you probably don’t even know.

    • @Youtubelady2024
      @Youtubelady2024 Před 25 dny +5

      @@TheTallulahReneeLOL!! I’m glad you said it. They’re telling people they need counseling all while acting completely unhinged. Hope they take some of their own advice. Damn.

  • @mercibeaucoup2486
    @mercibeaucoup2486 Před 4 měsíci +59

    Maybe Larry forgot. He was married when he met Mindy. A married man for decades. They clearly want the narrative to be platonic.
    Mindy looks terrified when asked this question, They are so fake

    • @JGayle27
      @JGayle27 Před 4 měsíci +29

      It’s quite possible he did forget. He forgot he said multiple times London is his dream vacation.

    • @chelsabrubaker9231
      @chelsabrubaker9231 Před 4 měsíci +5

      You are all so mean. She is gentle and pure. Her heart is so pure and genuine I don’t know where the hate comes from.

    • @chelsabrubaker9231
      @chelsabrubaker9231 Před 4 měsíci +5

      Also how are they fake? What question did she look terrified? Maybe she was nervous because she was on national tv. That’s natural.

    • @joanwilson5212
      @joanwilson5212 Před 4 měsíci +9

      How can you say Larry forgot he was married???? It's pretty evident that was the case on the show and not at any point did Mindy seem terrified....how dramatic! They both did fantastic when asked questions and let's be real, each couple had a small amount of time to talk. They are on a strict time frame.

    • @joanwilson5212
      @joanwilson5212 Před 4 měsíci +7

      @@chelsabrubaker9231 hate comes from a very dark place and it has nothing to do with Mindy and Larry but everything to do with the other person. The person who even uses the word hate is very insecure with little happiness, it's our job to be kinder to these people because their unhappiness is overwhelming!

  • @Millie-qd6tr
    @Millie-qd6tr Před 4 měsíci +19

    BONNICKS you guys took the cake you are wonderful 🎉🎉🎉❤

  • @kayemart8856
    @kayemart8856 Před 4 měsíci

    Aaah. I watched you both on Tamron Hall. Good job guys.

  • @debbiesenior165
    @debbiesenior165 Před 4 měsíci +43

    Love the Bonnicks ❤ beautiful loving and blessed marriage 🙏

  • @patriciahiggins5446
    @patriciahiggins5446 Před 4 měsíci +22

    Love the Bonnicks, God bless couple.

  • @user-qw6xr6sv9q
    @user-qw6xr6sv9q Před 4 měsíci +60

    Wow there is a lot of hate for Mindy and Larry.

    • @MyYoutubeChannel-2024
      @MyYoutubeChannel-2024 Před 4 měsíci +34

      Right!? These comments are wild. Can’t believe they’d go on TV when apparently everyone knows about the skeletons in their closet.

    • @terrycoleman2338
      @terrycoleman2338 Před 4 měsíci

      I realized that anything good can happen to anyone. Loved this couple

    • @kmlkml3450
      @kmlkml3450 Před 4 měsíci +8

      There's a whole hate group about them. Just bitter jealous people

    • @joanwilson5212
      @joanwilson5212 Před 4 měsíci +3

      I would say jealousy more so than hate..people that hate...it is about them and how unhappy they are in their own lives. They are an age gap couple who are extremely happy, they now have Liam who completes their story. Hopefully all the haters can find some happiness in their lives, unsubscribe and scroll on.

    • @jessisjourney9915
      @jessisjourney9915 Před 4 měsíci +9

      It’s about them taking advantage of their viewers and blocking them. Not to mention they lie about how they started dating. Ooh and a lot of people were pissed about the animal abuse.

  • @DatMiSehTV
    @DatMiSehTV Před 4 měsíci +13

    Love this for the Bonnicks ❤

  • @goldenhold2496
    @goldenhold2496 Před 4 měsíci +13

    Congratulations The Bonnicks🎉🎉😂😍😍😍😍 we r proud of you 🇺🇸🇯🇲

  • @marciawynter5155
    @marciawynter5155 Před 4 měsíci +22

    The Bonnicks on the rise !!

  • @sherlettebascoe3709
    @sherlettebascoe3709 Před 4 měsíci +3

    More Blessings on your union Kemar And Katonya I always admire you guys

  • @antoinettecollin3121
    @antoinettecollin3121 Před 4 měsíci +38

    You should have asked Mindy why she thinks it’s ok for her dad to tie a 20 pound jug to a 10 pound dogs neck that he has to drag around. Also why she blocked a follower who asked her why she was selling something she gifted her.

    • @jessisjourney9915
      @jessisjourney9915 Před 4 měsíci +8

      They should’ve had Larry’s ex wife on the show too!! I’m sure her memory of how their relationship is much different. Larry and Mindy 3 year affair

    • @BBAKER22
      @BBAKER22 Před 2 měsíci

      Lol..And your proof of that is where? Do show us

    • @BBAKER22
      @BBAKER22 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@jessisjourney9915WTF is WRONG with you

    • @jessisjourney9915
      @jessisjourney9915 Před 2 měsíci

      @@BBAKER22 what’s wrong with you?

    • @jessisjourney9915
      @jessisjourney9915 Před 2 měsíci

      @@BBAKER22 it’s all over the Dr Phil show and their YT channel. Oh and Bruce, Larry’s son has talked about it. You know since he lived it, he should know

  • @julialucas1482
    @julialucas1482 Před 3 měsíci

    I am so happy to see this video. I love Mindy and Larry, John and Brian. I follow them on CZcams. I don't know Kemar and Tonya but it is clear that they have a wonderful relationship. They are all great! I love this show because it is sensitive to the many different ways that humans experience, 'being human'. Love is the answer to all of our problems.

  • @bernicesanders3148
    @bernicesanders3148 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Congratulations to you all who have found love. It's not easy finding real love. Congrats🎉

  • @AnnalieseMayer
    @AnnalieseMayer Před 4 měsíci +12

    What a beautiful episode!
    So much love so much diversity!
    Love is love!

  • @bernadinehenry6487
    @bernadinehenry6487 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Congratulations to the Bonnick's, I have no doubt in my mind that this relationship is true love. Wishing you both all the best for the future..

  • @debbiezimmermann6303
    @debbiezimmermann6303 Před 4 měsíci

    Great show!!

  • @user-cu1ol1ke3j
    @user-cu1ol1ke3j Před 4 měsíci +22

    We love The bonnicks!!

  • @user-te3dq7bp2b
    @user-te3dq7bp2b Před 4 měsíci +1

    I'm so happy for you guys. I can see the love.. continue to be positive ❤

  • @mathapelokhanye4330
    @mathapelokhanye4330 Před 4 měsíci +1

    These couple, esp the first 2 I could have guess the age Gap. All of them looks great together. I wish you all the Best ❤

  • @FranklyShelly
    @FranklyShelly Před 4 měsíci +4

    Blessing Kemar and Tanya

  • @fern4real733
    @fern4real733 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I'm in an age gap relationship too, I'm 26 (turning 27 in February) and my amazing fiance is 43. The gap doesn't bother us at all, I love her to death and she loves me, we're happy, that's all that matters ❤️

  • @daniadropspearls
    @daniadropspearls Před 4 měsíci +6

    Shouts of to the Bonnicks pon my TV. 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @OhNo4921-rg8yk
    @OhNo4921-rg8yk Před 4 měsíci +1

    Me and my husband is 21 years apart but he’s my best friend and biggest supporter also he’s my biggest critic that pushes me to become better and the things I’ve been afraid of to go ahead and try

  • @quinnelmonte9435
    @quinnelmonte9435 Před 4 měsíci +11

    Kemar and CaTonya! 🫶🏾❤️🫶🏾❤️🫶🏾✨🙏🏾

  • @draechannel9248
    @draechannel9248 Před 4 měsíci +1

    When she say we going come back and talk about having children 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that got me when I look at the line up guest that question for only two couples

  • @gracebecreations
    @gracebecreations Před 4 měsíci +5

    I think this is WONDERFUL ... you see so many SAME AGE relationships go HORRIBLY WRONG ... if you are in LOVE and you are good to each other there is NOTHING wrong with it .. age is a NUMBER not the love you have for each other .... GOOD for them!

  • @user-yw3js6pt6b
    @user-yw3js6pt6b Před 4 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤ Y'all did good this was beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @fergieferg8254
    @fergieferg8254 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I am so proud of you Bonnick family.

  • @Cocomazzola
    @Cocomazzola Před 3 měsíci +1

    There is 32 years difference between my fiancé and I. He is 28 and I will be 60 in April. Our attitude is it really isn’t anyone’s business. We don’t feel the difference at all. ❤

  • @waltersozanski-tm4fm
    @waltersozanski-tm4fm Před 4 měsíci +1

    I've been following Jon and Brian for year's. It depends on each individual if it is an issue. The two of them are a perfect couple 💑. It really doesn't matter what others think as long as you are happy ☺. Just look at how many age appropriate couples who are not happy. Age is just a number.

  • @andreakennedy4868
    @andreakennedy4868 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Great job Kemat and Tonya. Love you guys. Just push past the negatives and remember to love upon each other with God in the vessel

  • @maureenkellman1645
    @maureenkellman1645 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Here for the Bonnicks 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Rose-kp4ow
    @Rose-kp4ow Před 4 měsíci +1

    Good for them! I wish them all happiness 😊

  • @melenaanderson4025
    @melenaanderson4025 Před 4 měsíci +13

    The Bonnicks are awesome

  • @mercibeaucoup2486
    @mercibeaucoup2486 Před 4 měsíci +14

    When your 20 year old daughter is offered a photography session by the married officer at the scene of an accident - old enough to be her grandfather - that’s not ok
    Ok Larry let’s ask your first wife how she feels

    • @meggold3422
      @meggold3422 Před 3 měsíci

      How do you figure Larry wasn't already divorced before dating Mindy? His son visits him, and Larry hangs out with Mindy's parents, too, so it's not like either cut off their previous life for him to engage in some clandestine activity with a paramour.

    • @evansdmitri2161
      @evansdmitri2161 Před 3 měsíci +5

      ​@@meggold3422they found his and her real name and checked their legal marriage documents on the internet, bc everyone can see it, and they found out he divorced his first wife a couple years after he met mindy. And they also found larry's son instagram where he spill all of his suffers and how he couldnt meet his father bc his step mother didnt allow it

    • @BBAKER22
      @BBAKER22 Před 2 měsíci

      Show us proof or STFU

  • @jillian.j8375
    @jillian.j8375 Před 4 měsíci +60

    Larry and Mindy give me icky vibes. I’ve read some unsettling things

    • @christinamichelle1673
      @christinamichelle1673 Před 4 měsíci +5

      Unless you have evidence of such stop bullying

    • @eline-fo5ll
      @eline-fo5ll Před 4 měsíci +26

      @@christinamichelle1673sadly it’s true. A lot of us supported mindy. She was involved in dog abuse incident that she make an apology video then deleted it. These two have scammed kind viewers out of money. There was lots of evidence exposing their scams and lies and horrible things they’ve done but mindy lied and filed false copyrights claiming she owned these videos. Her channel should be taken down for the illegal shit she’s done.

    • @BBAKER22
      @BBAKER22 Před 2 měsíci

      Get counseling

  • @jackiebetton9253
    @jackiebetton9253 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I have been watching kemar and katonya 3years now stay bless.

  • @conniewalker212
    @conniewalker212 Před 4 měsíci +5

    I love the Bonnicks!

  • @JuMiMi86
    @JuMiMi86 Před 4 měsíci +20

    Came for the Bonnicks...but based on the comments, I feel like Larry and Mindy are the real tea 😂

    • @cheesychickensmile
      @cheesychickensmile Před 4 měsíci +4

      If you're looking for good tea, you'll be disappointed. Most of the haters are super jealous, doing petty stuff like attacking her looks and the way she drinks coffee. It was super disappointing, I thought I was gonna find some good tea but only found toxic fans that complain about everything she does and tend to seem really naive about how the real world works.

    • @thehomemadehawkins
      @thehomemadehawkins Před 4 měsíci +8

      ​@@cheesychickensmileyou must not have looked because the proof is loud and clear 👌

    • @DamaGelida
      @DamaGelida Před 4 měsíci +2

      ​@@cheesychickensmileno one here mentioned how she drinks her creamer.
      Everyone is saying that she was Larry's mistress and that there is proof and witnesses of such affair.

    • @cheesychickensmile
      @cheesychickensmile Před 4 měsíci

      @@DamaGelida I know, which makes it seem like there is some hot damn good tea to be had! But I did dive deep into it and found what I mentioned earlier. And I really don't care to debate what people feel the facts mean since I don't care that much about it, I was just trying to warn a fellow tea drinker of probable disappointment. It's lukewarm tea at best.

  • @katlegomhlauli8423
    @katlegomhlauli8423 Před 4 měsíci +6

    It’s giving the next season of 90 Day Fiancé

  • @Kween-B
    @Kween-B Před 4 měsíci +14

    Here for *#TheBonnicks**❤🎉😊🇯🇲*

  • @kimjones6904
    @kimjones6904 Před 4 měsíci +4

    It seems to me that it is always someone 40 years and up dating these young adults saying age doesn't matter to justify the situation. I am sure neither of the would want to date someone 20-30 years older than them.

  • @laurenwilliams933
    @laurenwilliams933 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I’m 43 and my husband is fixed and I’m thrilled about it! I have a ten and five year old and I’m good. 😂

  • @busybutbalanced24
    @busybutbalanced24 Před 4 měsíci +3

    “It’s just God & time”…..big uppp @thebonnicks 🇯🇲🇱🇷❤️

  • @julescat1133
    @julescat1133 Před 4 měsíci +69

    tell the audience about asking mindy to pose for modeling photos when she came in for her police accident report, leery larry

    • @EvighedenPlays
      @EvighedenPlays Před 4 měsíci +40

      Her story keeps changing too!! She has such smug look on her face, just talking for few years give me a break, they were doing more than talking lol

    • @MagicToaster90
      @MagicToaster90 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Why do you know this?

    • @saraha2009
      @saraha2009 Před 4 měsíci +28

      Mindy has spoken about this on her CZcams channel and in another interview. She said she posed for Larry while he took professional photos.

    • @mione134
      @mione134 Před 4 měsíci +1

      ​@@saraha2009Larry takes pictures of birds and nature. Nothing nefarious

    • @BadMinky
      @BadMinky Před 4 měsíci +23

      ​@mione134 as far as I know, Mindy os not a bird 😂

  • @passiongirl112
    @passiongirl112 Před 4 měsíci +12

    K & K you both did great in the interview, ONE LOVE JAHMERICANS🇯🇲❤️🇺🇸

  • @Empress2022
    @Empress2022 Před 4 měsíci +17

    The Bonnicks 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @amyholley8725
    @amyholley8725 Před 4 měsíci +1

    My husband and I are 22 years apart and we have no issues. I get called a cougar but we never look at the difference

  • @rawredbone
    @rawredbone Před 4 měsíci +6

    The Bonnicks!!!😍

  • @sojoys1063
    @sojoys1063 Před 4 měsíci +6

    We love the Bonnicks

  • @aniekarowe9030
    @aniekarowe9030 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Iam here for my jamaican youtuber..the bonnicks❤

  • @Lioness879
    @Lioness879 Před 4 měsíci +6

    The bonnicks bought me here...

  • @meiva9953
    @meiva9953 Před 4 měsíci +5

    Amen amen and amen Kemar God & Time you are absolutely positively correct if it’s going to happen it will be on His time amen again

  • @lavondenson9272
    @lavondenson9272 Před 4 měsíci +1

    “That was my favorite song in kindergarten!”😂😂

  • @KatrinaWall-qq2qm
    @KatrinaWall-qq2qm Před 3 měsíci +1

    You can't help who you fall in love with. I had an age gap relationship. But my boyfriend died in 2018 . We were together since I was 25. I miss him so much. But I try living my life with my two cats. I haven't had another boyfriend for six years. God Bless these people. It's nobody else business. The only way it becomes creepy is if the person partner is under the age 18 . I hope to meet someone God willing.

  • @marilynbennett9850
    @marilynbennett9850 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Life is too short to make other people’s opinions affect your life and enjoyment