DEPRESSION IN MEN // Reality Check

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  • čas přidán 22. 05. 2024
  • Men tend to deny having problems because they are supposed to "be strong." And African culture suggests that expressing emotion is largely a feminine trait.
    On this episode Ben, Dr. Eva's and Racheal are Discussing the Reasons Why So Many Men with Depression Go Uncared for & What to Do About It.

Komentáře • 92

  • @arthurarinaitwe38
    @arthurarinaitwe38 Před 4 dny +1

    "Now what, so what's the plan?" That caught..

  • @orishabafranklineisabelah5144
    @orishabafranklineisabelah5144 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Am glad to see husband and wife here changing lives of the depressed men.. its okay to fail,but how supportive that man is handled. I pray to give this couple other bundles of joy .... Maicah.. you are lucky to have such lovely parents who are informative... Glad to have found this channel.. lots of love from bump love

  • @itscaroline3203
    @itscaroline3203 Před 2 měsíci +18

    Thank you Dear Rachel, your Dear Husband and Dr. Evas for educating us. Mental health has gotten out of hand in our country and yet we don’t know what to do. Please keep it coming you are my favorite talk show and you need to be on TV with interpretation in local languages and radio simultaneously so all our people can benefit from these great conversations. I never comment on videos but yours has so much taste to it.

  • @sigyeful
    @sigyeful Před 2 měsíci +3

    Stress makes you want to do things, on the other hand, Depression makes you not to do anything. You dont want to leave bed, you see no reason of leaving, you dont see any worth in it. It seems like the closer you get to self actualization the more you are likely to get depressed. Most people are just stressed and confuse it to be Depression!

  • @nakalemaagnes7910
    @nakalemaagnes7910 Před 2 měsíci +7

    the way Ben is staring at his wife is amazing 🥰

    • @gloriaatukunda5072
      @gloriaatukunda5072 Před 2 měsíci

      Love is a good feeling

    • @natuhamyaevas3532
      @natuhamyaevas3532 Před 2 měsíci +2

      I thought I was the only one feeling the chemistry

    • @orishabafranklineisabelah5144
      @orishabafranklineisabelah5144 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Ate mwatu Mr Ben has added on some weight .. he looks so amazing❤❤❤❤. Racheal am still praying for u.. be ready to receive the bundle of joy soon.. love from isabellah. The bump lover

  • @sigyeful
    @sigyeful Před 2 měsíci +5

    Men are not judged by how much they love or how emotionally they express themselves, but their ability to provide. You can be tolerated if you love less but provide more, but you will be despised if you love too much but provide less!

    • @rachaelmwine611
      @rachaelmwine611 Před 2 měsíci

      This makes sense, isn’t it unfair though?

    • @sigyeful
      @sigyeful Před měsícem

      I don't think it's unfair, it is what it is. As a man you choose what needs to be done. Love as much as you want, but make sure you provide.

  • @shamelesstumuhaise3364

    We need these conversations

  • @ayebazibwebabra5368
    @ayebazibwebabra5368 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Oh my God..this was so timely...I must do better....Thank you so much Mr.Mwine and Dr Evas...to our incredible host Rachel I'm forever grateful for your wisdom and open mindedness..God bless Reality check and May all women pray to God for wisdom

  • @phionahnanfuka8012
    @phionahnanfuka8012 Před 2 měsíci +3

    The then what question means alot. We need to incorporate it in our decision making at all levels of life.

  • @mbabaziagnes-kl2sz
    @mbabaziagnes-kl2sz Před 2 měsíci +6

    This has been a very informative, educative conversation well done Racheal, Dr Evas and Ben 👏👏👏👏

  • @kentechsoft7265
    @kentechsoft7265 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Mr. Ben Mwine is a greater preacher of the word of God

  • @kababiitomiriam6042
    @kababiitomiriam6042 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I feel like the this whole world must watch this one🤲😭very powerful talk. 💪I love this show harder😊God bless abundantly🙏🙌

  • @celineopido7903
    @celineopido7903 Před 2 měsíci +4

    1st of all, I love the house set up. Beautiful.
    Looking forward to enjoying this candid conversation.

  • @jescaineza7811
    @jescaineza7811 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you so much Rachel and Dr. Evas ❤

  • @Deedor72
    @Deedor72 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Rewatching this episode. Thank you Dr Evas, Ben and Rachel for the conversation. My take away is that we need to complement each each other in good times and in those moments of vulnerability than "cast stones" which we often do! It is then that the men in our lives will 'open up' to an extent than withdraw and drown in depression. Ben's insight on the social status of people who are most vulnerable to stroke was an eye-opener. I lost a sibling to a stroke in December 2021 and when I reflect on the triggers, they were environmental and social than "hereditary" Thank you all

  • @namonomercy1697
    @namonomercy1697 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Excited 😜 well done guys

  • @preciouspamellah9420
    @preciouspamellah9420 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Success is you making a better version of you without competing and comparing yourself to anyone you just have to be you and make a better version of yourself

  • @namiirojose6824
    @namiirojose6824 Před 2 měsíci

    This was epic, thanks alot for the show

  • @JOSEPHDISONTUMUSIIME-pb1xt
    @JOSEPHDISONTUMUSIIME-pb1xt Před 2 měsíci +1

    wonderful conversation

  • @mutesijosephine9324
    @mutesijosephine9324 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you The Mwines and Dr E

  • @ritah8724
    @ritah8724 Před 2 měsíci

    Awesome

  • @user-br7nh2kb3y
    @user-br7nh2kb3y Před 2 měsíci

    Love you Rach❤

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere391 Před 2 měsíci +1

    It was worth my time

  • @joannabalayo
    @joannabalayo Před 2 měsíci +3

    The way Rach was blushing😂😂😂😂

  • @mahorochristine5786
    @mahorochristine5786 Před 2 měsíci

    Great conversation here, thank you 👏👏

  • @Divine-norris
    @Divine-norris Před 2 měsíci +1

    This is a very good episode. Flowers to Rachel and the whole team.

  • @esthermwanje5908
    @esthermwanje5908 Před 2 měsíci

    I appreciate you, dear Rechael

  • @presht5596
    @presht5596 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I had to watch this one let me even comment before i watch 😊

  • @stellanantongo4682
    @stellanantongo4682 Před 2 měsíci

    Happy to see Mr Ben on the show.

  • @asiimwebabrah4110
    @asiimwebabrah4110 Před 2 měsíci

    This has really blessed me
    Thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏God bless you all

  • @TeddyKyomuhangi-ig6ft
    @TeddyKyomuhangi-ig6ft Před měsícem

    I love this. This is very good.

  • @raycholmwesigwa8618
    @raycholmwesigwa8618 Před 2 měsíci

    Great insight here.thanks for the show Raychol

  • @gracenamyalo2006
    @gracenamyalo2006 Před 2 měsíci

    It was an insightful conversation, thank Rachel, Ben and Dr. Evas

  • @liliannyakate4503
    @liliannyakate4503 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Great great job Mr & Mrs Mwiine 😍

  • @dianahkalibbala5121
    @dianahkalibbala5121 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Glad to see you and Dr. Evas start these critical reality check conversations Rachel! You are a blessing and we love you so much for sharing your life and experiences with us. Delighted to see Ben too, what a deep conversation ❤

  • @joshu4k
    @joshu4k Před 2 měsíci

    Amazing insights! thank you, Ben and the hosts. Reflecting on what true success is..

  • @NadiaBirungi-wo7rt
    @NadiaBirungi-wo7rt Před 2 měsíci

    Such a brain, such wisdom Ben has! Exactly how i think and see life. Society does not define or detect how i should live. Thank u

  • @bellababy8174
    @bellababy8174 Před 2 měsíci

    Jst bumped onto ths channel! Only the Lord can tell how grateful i am!🎉

  • @racheal974
    @racheal974 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Very educative program! Let’s keep sharing . Who knows how many souls vam be lifted out of the burden of depressiom ?
    Thanks Racheal and Tram 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @dorisamaniyo7291
    @dorisamaniyo7291 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Beautiful conversation there with our guest Ben. Thanks to Rachel and Dr Evans for this inspirational talk. God bless you abundantly.

  • @gloriaatukunda5072
    @gloriaatukunda5072 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Mr.Ben starring at his beauty ❤

  • @scoviapurudi7495
    @scoviapurudi7495 Před 2 měsíci

    Reality check is my weekly dose of self assessment and awareness. Thanks to Rachel Dr Evas n our guest Ben❤

  • @thebeloved...2496
    @thebeloved...2496 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I really love your conversations Rachel n Dr.Evas. and You inspire me. I love this kinda approach to help this patriarchal society that's yet to face the Genzis without the backbone for it.. please continue to talk about it.

  • @allsisterschannel9709
    @allsisterschannel9709 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you to all of you i needed to hear this otherwise someone was about to be pushed to drown

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy Před 2 měsíci

    I’m going to binge watch this channel especially the mentioned topic on finances. I enjoy the discussion. It was deep with intellect

  • @shamimkagere
    @shamimkagere Před 2 měsíci +2

    Very good input from Mr Mwine. Thank you Rachael and our very important Dr Evas

  • @nabiyikicissy906
    @nabiyikicissy906 Před 2 měsíci

    As for me l was learning,thanks for the show.

  • @geoffreywalukhu5011
    @geoffreywalukhu5011 Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks...I ve enjoyed your discussion...
    Quite insightful and informative

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy Před 2 měsíci

    Men are not given grace to fail. That hit hard! Ben said things I want to echo loudly

  • @rachaelabiine5649
    @rachaelabiine5649 Před 2 měsíci

    Insightful conversation for sure. Thanks🎉

  • @dorothygume3977
    @dorothygume3977 Před 2 měsíci

    A very good insight into the real world thank you RachealNalo and team

  • @rachealsenyondo3559
    @rachealsenyondo3559 Před 2 měsíci

    I love you Rach and Ben. I love how God is unfolding his mercy over us through your experiences. Vulnerability is power. Thank you for sharing your experience with us.❤️❤️😭🫂

  • @michaelsane.1729
    @michaelsane.1729 Před 2 měsíci +1

    THE LORD BLESS YOU for touching on this.IN JESUS NAME

  • @namwanjeviolet4911
    @namwanjeviolet4911 Před 2 měsíci

    Woow Racheal my first time on show
    Am inspired

  • @sarahagea9066
    @sarahagea9066 Před 2 měsíci

    Many thanks, very informative GBU

  • @apio100
    @apio100 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Ooh wow thanks so much Dr Evas, Racheal and Ben this has been very informstive and as one said above please air it on tv too with some nstibmve languages so that many can benefit from it im lucky to be one of your followers tusiima keep it up i have shared with those that need it keep them coming ❤

  • @prudenceatukunda2049
    @prudenceatukunda2049 Před 2 měsíci

    Mental health generally is stigmatised and many men, women, youth, children etc dont openly talk about it. Good you talk about it. Statistics of depression in Uganda are worrisome.thank you❤ From Prof Prudence A Friberg

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere391 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Wow it’s my first time to be here but it was worth it

    • @realitycheckicfc
      @realitycheckicfc  Před 2 měsíci

      Thank you for watching. keep coming for more great and educative conversations😊

  • @nakazibweaisha3516
    @nakazibweaisha3516 Před 2 měsíci

    Naye banange omukazi eyasoma ayina engeli janyuumamu look at Dr and Racheal . So life drives us back to basic.one love ❤❤.

  • @DennisKabachelor-xn4sg
    @DennisKabachelor-xn4sg Před 2 měsíci

    Ben Mwine is such a blessing, very rare to find an understanding lady when we men are facing financial challenges,the biggest problem wiz ladies, they re poisoned by their fellow ladies who mislead them wizout thinking twice .

  • @rosenantale2800
    @rosenantale2800 Před 2 měsíci

    Happy life is about basics but we rather choose to live it in difficulties by lack of contentment just like Dr. Evas said. "Not every extra is an addition", lastly don't make choices dat will cause u alot of stress in management. So thoughtful of u Rachel for bringing these two. Its been an interesting discussion ❤❤

  • @nakittohellen3934
    @nakittohellen3934 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you Rachel and team

  • @julietapio3905
    @julietapio3905 Před 2 měsíci

    This is an insightful, rich, and open conversation. Thank you, Dr. Evas, Racheal and the guest, Ben. Vulnerability is something we fight a lot. It is associated with weakness and I got heavily criticised for suggesting that we be vulnerable to seek help when we struggling in the work context. Sharing my thoughts here for the first time is me being vulnerable. Listening to the conversation has given me the courage to.
    I am glad that you talking about it here. Thanks again.

    • @realitycheckicfc
      @realitycheckicfc  Před 2 měsíci

      Thank you for watching and for sharing your thoughts.

  • @PhionaNabude
    @PhionaNabude Před 2 měsíci

    The stare he had on her the whole time she was doing her "theng" 😊 aaaawawwww just.

  • @KatereggaJanepher-ci9zu
    @KatereggaJanepher-ci9zu Před 2 měsíci +1

    Waawooo waawoo waawoo

  • @jescaineza7811
    @jescaineza7811 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you so much dr. Evas, Rachel and Ben. These are really educative views. I am also asking myself, "do men really have time to watch these beautiful lessons or they can be busy in other things like watching soccor, etc? Because even when you look at comments, many are from ladies! Women naturally love to learn something new even without being pushed!
    So all these educative youtube videos are mostly consumed by ladies.
    I request that we also encourage men to interntionally look out for such content for their betterment!
    Thank you!

    • @realitycheckicfc
      @realitycheckicfc  Před 2 měsíci

      Thank you too for watching. Our desire is for all men to watch and learn from such educative conversations.

  • @gracekyoshabire1827
    @gracekyoshabire1827 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I love love you Rachel your great

    • @namonomercy1697
      @namonomercy1697 Před 2 měsíci

      I adore her my God

    • @philliptwesigye8745
      @philliptwesigye8745 Před 2 měsíci

      This is a brilliant conversation. I have picked a lot of lessons based from my own lifestory. Thank you Rachel Ben and Dr. Evas

  • @nakittohellen3934
    @nakittohellen3934 Před 2 měsíci

    Indeed life is basic

  • @gracegift7994
    @gracegift7994 Před měsícem

    ❤❤❤

  • @ruthnabayego4538
    @ruthnabayego4538 Před měsícem

    Thanks for the mental health talk but there some challenges that women go through those with men that are so quiet and reserved that you may do whatever you think that bring back your hubby but he keeps on telling you that he is ok and he doesn't know what is taking place in life.I experienced this that I walked with him the journey for 11months and some times i would miss to go for work just to keep him happy walked every evening and morning to bring back is life.Discussed the blessings that God has given us to see that he opens up he didn't. Had counselling sessions and visited a physicist but he could not open up he could say he doesn't know what is the problem and he was put on medication.
    We lived a happy family but life changed in a minute how can you help such people that face such challenges?

  • @lateefahnuwagaba-ce8mi
    @lateefahnuwagaba-ce8mi Před 2 měsíci +2

    Ba Mwine mwareta ekyoya in the house😅😅❤❤❤❤

  • @YeeAmeen
    @YeeAmeen Před 2 měsíci +1

    Ohh Ben Qouting The Bible Hoorray

  • @nahweranaume9496
    @nahweranaume9496 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Human beings love love.. 😂😂

  • @brendahorysh6827
    @brendahorysh6827 Před 2 měsíci

    Then what question is the key message.

  • @DoreenMfite
    @DoreenMfite Před 2 měsíci

    Unfortunately I know a poor man who had a stroke last year and he has kept working to date even with difficulty in speech and locomotion because his children need to have a meal.