WHAT DO I DO IF MY HUSBAND IS NOT ATTRACTED TO ME | Paul Friedman

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  • čas přidán 9. 09. 2021
  • WHAT DO I DO IF MY HUSBAND IS NOT ATTRACTED TO ME and I am doing all I can to make myself attractive?? Paul will help you see there is more to this than meets the eye. You will feel much better after you watch this video and you will know so much more about marriage than you did before.
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Komentáře • 24

  • @Taylor15SwiftFan
    @Taylor15SwiftFan Před 2 lety +5

    This was so helpful! I was feeling very down today and after your video I felt so much hope. Thank you!

  • @davidia8000
    @davidia8000 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for your words of wisdom

  • @johnkalafatidis4054
    @johnkalafatidis4054 Před měsícem

    I'm definitely buying the book. Thank you for posting this

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před měsícem

      I love that you are inspired and you will be so glad to read one of the books (you don't need both). When you read it and see spread the word, help others 🙏😀

  • @blancaorozco7537
    @blancaorozco7537 Před 2 lety +5

    Taking notes of how to show my good part that he fall for me. God bless you!!!

  • @ShareBearChelle
    @ShareBearChelle Před 2 lety +10

    This channel makes me want to keep trying.

  • @Peaceonearth2024
    @Peaceonearth2024 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks 🤗

  • @brianabramsjr.7245
    @brianabramsjr.7245 Před 2 lety +7

    Thank you Paul for this video! While we men do have responsibilities to our wives in keeping their attraction, I think this video was an excellent breakdown of how attraction can prosper again from a man's perspective and how wives can better meet those needs.

  • @vickyveera
    @vickyveera Před 2 lety +4

    Sir suggest some books
    Did you write any books ?

  • @spektrumFTW
    @spektrumFTW Před 2 lety +6

    What about if you've always had a lack of attraction even during dating. Especially physical attraction but still got married and now it feels that you can't handle it and want to leave

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 2 lety +6

      If you do not children then be as kindly as possible as you exit. If you have children you did a lot more than got married and you can now learn to love them.

    • @spektrumFTW
      @spektrumFTW Před 2 lety

      @@TheMarriageFoundation there is a child but you are saying if there wasn't then its best to leave?

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 2 lety +1

      When we bring a child into the world we are promising them that we will do our best to raise them as best we can. The degree of pain inflicted on kids who come from broken homes has been hidden by those who fail to save marriages but the truth is there and it is terrible.
      You can break all your boundaries of heart and love your partner unconditionally. The "attraction" factor is so shallow, anyway. Look into getting our course. themarriagefoundation.org/

    • @davidjohnson7590
      @davidjohnson7590 Před 2 lety

      It's not my place, but why would you marry someone if you've never been attracted to them? It seems extremely cruel for the other person to lead them on and give them false hope that one day you'll actually want to touch them and love them like the deserve.

    • @spektrumFTW
      @spektrumFTW Před 2 lety +2

      @@davidjohnson7590 because she possesses other good traits and everyone always says attraction grows as you get to know the person and attraction isnt what keeps marriaged together. Its all the "other" things which i feel that she possesses

  • @annemarielabreche
    @annemarielabreche Před 2 lety +6

    A lot of times, when a woman pleases his husband. He cheats on her, because she is too clingy. How would you go ahead and explain that? Thanks!

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Před 2 lety +3

      Men need sexual pleasure but it is a distant need from the primary need of unconditional love. To learn to love your husband unconditionally is the win-win key. Happiness in love is guaranteed for the giver.

    • @xXDuskStarSkyressXx
      @xXDuskStarSkyressXx Před rokem

      @@TheMarriageFoundation what if you do love him unconditionally and instead of it being us whos selfish it’s them? What if they only act on their own desires and don’t consider your needs as a woman?

    • @aimeerebecca1
      @aimeerebecca1 Před rokem +2

      @@xXDuskStarSkyressXx funny how this flip side isn’t addressed in the video. 😢

    • @medicinemom3620
      @medicinemom3620 Před 5 měsíci +1

      If you're with someone who isn't willing to put in the work, then how is it worth it for you? I stood by my friend who had to leave her ex husband. She did comit to being selfless, and caring for her husband. She was ready to have weekly talks, and do the work. But her husband was unwilling to look at himself, and work as a team to make the best relationship possible.