Best Friends Recover From First Fight | {THE AND} Kate & Nadine
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Kate and Nadine, best friends of over four years, return to {THE AND} after hitting a rough patch in their relationship. Having never fought before, the two take a moment to reflect on what was driving them apart and how they can best adjust to maintain their relationship. They explore their contrasting personalities and see how thanks to these differences, they’re able to grow into better versions of themselves. Don't miss out on their first {THE AND} conversation: bit.ly/KateNadine
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Best Friends Recover From Fight | {THE AND} Kate & Nadine
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If I had this kind of friendship I don't even think i'd want a relationship cause I'd already be so full on love..
Me too
I mean..goals
When u lose a really close friend
It’s so weird trying to hate them when you can’t
so true.
Omg I agree it is almost like a break up do yeah maybe I do get it the been so In love with your BFF but not having a romantic relationship.
THAT'S A SCAR??? WOW!!! Well that's the most stylish scar ever. I Love It!
Same thing took the words out of my mouth. I say the same thing
To Kate & Nadine: Thank you for being so vulnerable!; To Skin Deep: Thank you for making a follow-up video! Great content!
Thank you for your support! We were super excited to have them back and glad you enjoyed the video ❤️
Wow, a simple haircut can do amazing things, like, her beauty was there all along but that haircut made it impossible to ignore it.
i tried to avoid any comment about her look , but for me this is one of the most beautiful woman I´ve ever seen in my whole life ts -> the best thing is I mean it´s the whole package : she´s intelligent, kind , sexy , pleasant, just a queen !!!!! Nothing for me I think I would not be able to handle a woman like her :-) I would become addicted to her probably -> toooooo weak for such a beauty :-)
she did her eyebrows too it seems
I'm glad they talked about the youtube comments a bit. People here will watch a ten-minute video and think they have the people in the video all figured out. It's wild.
Still waiting on the poem from the first video.
I watched their first video so many times. I am so happy they returned.
We're so happy they returned, too!
I have the same relationship with my best friend of 20 years. I even helped her raise her 3 boys. People don't understand.
This is beautiful ❤️ Thank you for sharing!
I hope i will find a friend like that someday.
Let them think what they please, most are oblivious to how nurturing real friendship is like
The energy and dynamic between them has completely changed.
In which kind of way
I felt so too, elaborate though
Yeah it has. I think it can easily be seen as them growing apart but I genuinely feel like they have matured into their friendship. The last video was beautiful but I think a large part of their friendship was based on perceptions of each other that weren't accurate. They were enamored with each other. It's a stage that every new beautiful relationship/friendship goes through but you eventually learn that no one is perfect and that there are things about people that you're crazy about that you really don't like or agree with. It's at that point that your relationship is truly tested and you either grow into each other or apart from each other. They may still be figuring that last part out but I think they will survive.
@@NamhlaSithole
Wow, Namhla! That was beautifully expressed, and enlightening.
ndaubeneck Did Nadine Get Married (Ring). I Think That Is It.
What a tender, honest, compassionate and communicative relationship 💖💖💖I’m smiling
Our thoughts exactly! ❤️ Love their communication and growth
@@TheSkinDeep please please please. Follow up with this two.
Please
yay they’re back!! really love their first video 💕
I felt this video so deeply. My best friend and I are so so close and love each other very much, and that's sometimes detrimental because we just want the best for each other, and we judge that differently for one another. That phrase it's a curse to feel everything deeply is true, but being vulnerable enough to feel everything is very brave. Let's face it, if you're not vulnerable, there IS a lot less pain, but there's a LOT less love too
Thank you for sharing this with us, Sophie ❤️ Creating content that connects with people like this is exactly why we do it.
@@TheSkinDeep You're so welcome. I hope to support your channel for years to come!
Me and my best friend too...we are in a healing process. Exactly the same like kate and nadine
When I watch a new video with Kate and Nadine it feels like I am reconnecting with old friends I lost touch with. There is something so special about them. I hope this channel keeps bringing them back! It's basically tradition at this point.
We loved having them again and are so happy you also enjoyed their new video! ❤️ Thank you for your support!
I totally agree!!
Please, bring them back for a third video. I really hope they were able to recover their relationship.
I literally saved their first video a year ago..... imagine my reaction when I saw this😭😭😭😭😭....thank u guys for making me believe in true friendship and thank u skin deep for bringing Dem back😭😭😭😭
This made us so happy! Loved having them back and that you enjoyed their return ❤️❤️
I learned so much from this video!
From 2:03 to 10:10, so many gems of knowledge for anyone in relationships.
- it's okay to get those negative emotions out as long as there's still love in the end
- that you can't expect anyone to just get you, even the people closest to you need some guidance on how you want to be treated
- we have to learn, and continue to learn, how to truly communicate with others
And at the end, I loved how they showed their apprehension about this tough conversation. It was a perfect demonstration of how embracing that discomfort can bring peace
Thank you for sharing!
*_"
that you can't expect anyone to just get you, even the people closest to you need some guidance on how you want to be treated"_*
People don't realize how hard it is to find someone that will just "get you". Just because they don't, doesn't mean they can't.
Me and my Mother have a great relationship but even we don't know each other and i'm 33. So if someone so close to me, who's known me my whole life, doesn't understand me....how is a stranger supposed to just "get you"?
My favorite unmarried soulmates💕🔥🌟🌈
Omg they're back! I'm screaming!
Same I screeched
😍
Ohhh man this communication dynamic is totally me and my boyfriend! I'm the blunt one and he's the one quietly hurting. Glad you guys are working toward openness and understanding :)
Fundamental opposites can still work towards communicating and understanding where each is coming from 😊
It’s my birthday today and my best friend did not even try calling. She said she didn’t think too much about it. Life is fun. Watching this is fun, everything is fun.
Tamchi silpy hey, happy birthday. You deserve to have a great day! Go eat some ice cream 🍨
Happy Birthday! You’re beautiful! And you made it another year! You are still breathing, you are still alive💛. That’s always something to celebrate!
Sounds like you need a new best friend 😔
That sucks. Time for a good honest conversation maybe? Skin deep style? 🍀
Happy birthday!
The audience is gonna need the @s
Andrea YES PLEASEEEE SOMEBODYYYY
Serena Will Kate’s is @fka.kate and Nadine’s is @moukdaddy. However, both their accounts are on private mode :/
If you get into an argument with a friend who is always there for you, don't ignore them. Talk your feelings out so you can both heal.
There was a stronger connection in the first video. It's almost as if they have suppressed feelings they did not want to dissect. They have walls up now. It's sad really. I hope they can reconnect on a deeper level at some point. Think they both need to be 100% honest with one another OFF camera. This guarded, emotional hopscotch is only going to continue to whittle down & destroy their friendship.
The way they speak to each other feels so healing. Although they are experiencing tough times when this video was taken. It feels as if they truly do care about one and other and the rarity that it is for this to partake in friendships today is so sad.
It’s beautiful to see two people with pure love who understand their bond is sacred, even if they’ve never used that term to specifically describe it before 💕 Love is sacred yo
I hope we will see them for a third video, their friendship is so beautiful
I really wanted to know what Nadine was doing that made Kate give her "tough love".
I really, truly appreciate Kate and Nadine's commitment to this process and the heart conversation they had. I'll be sharing both of their videos with my friend of almost 26 years and using it as a guide to some things I need to discuss with her. I'll use this as a guide during a discussion I (may) have with an estranged friend. Thank you all.
Ok first of all THEY ARE BACK!! I’m in love with these two. Kate is so calm and chill but present with such focus. There is something so attractive about her. I love Nadine for speaking so openly without holding back about her love for Kate. Makes me feel better about myself because I always feel weak and annoying whenever I express too much and she makes it so cute and pure and honest. Thank you girls, hope to see you again. Would be another dream come true.
They are both so pretty ! Love their connection
every time Kate touches her hair, my heart beats faster... literally the sexiest haircut ever !!!
in the first video you see how caring, loving and nurturing Kate is and her hair and look seemed in perfect harmony with that personality. then suddenly in this video her hair is bold and striking accentuating the strength and confidence of her personality.
did i mention the snuggle factor of this hair... off the charts... bravo Kate.
The three most important things in any relationship, Communication, Communication, Communication!
I smiled for 13 minutes straight. What a great, loving friendship. You two are awesome! Keep on communicating! Improve and grow together. I'm certain that you two can overcome everything together. Just stay passionate and patient with each other. Your chemistry ist special, I hope you'll hold onto your strong bond
So many beautiful pieces of advice and thoughts in this response. Thank you so much for taking the time to share. We agree they're friendship is loving and great, and that communicating and being patient with each other will only help their connection improve and grow ❤️
I was waiting on their return! These two women are amazing!
"The girl with the emerald eyes..."
Keep it up girls, your friendship is gold.
Kate looking soooooo young!!! She’s so gorgeous! She seems more confident and less into Nadine in this video. First vid did seem like she in love with her. This one just feels like a beautiful friendship 💝
I didn’t see that. It looks like a mature relationship, really.
They are both soo beautiful physically and mentally. They seem like there friendship was extremely important to them but they are still hurting form previous events. I can relate.
Yeah defntly the previous instances will hurt like hell and pain grows inside U
It IS amazing how people fill in the gaps, assume, jump to conclusions SO much. As people did about them..other videos, all over social media AND in real life.
The Four Agreements...so powerful in regards to not assuming.
I though it was interesting seeing these two, both times...and others...but I realize I’m watching a snapshot of time, a conversation..and that I know so little really. As is true for everyone else watching!!
I'm totally like Kate in my friendships. Sometimes people don't need to be talked out of doing what they want because you end up being a toxic person that they don't want to open up to, because you make them feel misunderstood.
Now, unless someone asks me what to do, I just smile, nod and let them know I'm there for them if they need me. The duty of a friend is to be there to help mop up the mess.
So true. I've experienced this. I felt misunderstood. We're still recovering.
It's so satisfying for me to hear her say that the people in the comments wrote/write comments about them as if they 'know' them, but really they have no idea. I see this on the internet all the time, and to hear her verbally say that makes me happy lol
I really like how Kate seems to be that stable rock offering comfort and Nadine is more emotional, adding warmth to the relationship
(hope I got the names right!) That's how I feel about them :)
They have such a sisterly relationship. (Specifically a sisterly relationship that also has gone through traumas)
*Wow... Both Of Them Look So Different, And The Energy Is Different, Less Shy, More Confident, More Knowing & Acknowledging Than Vulnerable & Scared.*
This friendship reminds me of me and my best friends. We aren’t really on good terms but you too really hit our friendship on the head. Thanks for this. I hope you guys stay friends forever.
Dope chemistry between friends xx
I'm deeply in love with Nadine
Friendship is maturing is beautiful to watch this...
When their first video came out, I watched it a few times. I saw my relationship with my own best friend reflected on them and when this one came one, I didn't hesitate to click. Thank you for this, girls ❤️
How do u manage all the tough hurt feelings u go through like this platonic friendship , am Struggling with one !
Kate gives me vibes of *Drew Barrymore* in *Never Been Kissed* so cute ..
This video shows more about thus relationship, it seemed more platonic in the last video but now we know that it's a normal relationship between two people who chose to overcome differences..
These episodes sound like a script written for actors who execute it so amazingly. The catch is it's real and they really love each other that much :(
The timing of this video showing up on my feed is uncanny. I tried "breaking up" with my only friend last night and I feel like where we were wasn't too far from the energy I sense between them.
Their friendship was beautiful to watch in the first video and it still is amazing to watch it grow and evolve now, whichever way it takes them.
Why were you trying to break up with them?
It's toxic and I feel like I need a time out.
I see
I've been breaking up with my friends my entire life, two years ago I realised that it's wrong and I'm lonely, so now I have 2 good friends, and when I feel that I don't like them at this moment or the relationship is becoming toxic I detach myself away for time then I get back with more energy
We’re really happy to hear this showed up for you at the right time, there’re no such things as coincidences! Thank you for sharing ❤️
I wanna know if they still friends??
I’m glad that they are still growing and understand early on how important the two are to each other. Communication is so important!!! Listening and trying to understand the others point of view is half the battle!
I can’t pick who’s prettier 😍😍😍😍 they’re so beautiful wow
I love how they show the real face of raw and genuine friendship, they remember me of me and my best friend
Oh my goodness I can't believe how beautiful these girls are!!! And a beautiful conversation as well!
This gonna be personal considering I had friends in the past with lots of dramas. Not like I fought anyone but more like being in the background of it all.
If only I had a best friend. Life would be so much better
Love the hair cut Kate 😍❤️
I totally agree!
Yes she looks gorgeous with this hair .Really shows the beauty of her face
Love them before and still love them now. True Friendship is never easy and takes work like any relationship. Their is beautiful and precious
They look like sisters how can people think you’re lovers. They look so similar, they’re so beautiful 😍😍😍😍
This is really cool. The way they communicate is the way we're supposed to, it's a good example I never got and look forward to in my future relationships
I identify with them so deeply, especially kate. I recently had some huge issues with my relationship with my best friend for super similar reasons but the outcome was unfortunately very different because we got to the point that neither of us knew how to communicate anymore and all my attempts to fix things pretty much backfired so that's fun
I adore these two, they have such an amazing bond and dynamic 😍
There's so much Chemistry and Love and Genuiness in this relationship. 💕
I am soooo happy they are back!!
We are too!
Oh my gosh I've waited so long to hear more about these two!!! I absolutely loved the first video with Kate and Nadine and can't wait to watch this 💕💕
People who fight and never forgive and not be friends again didn’t have a real friendship to begin with.
Beautiful video. Both of them changed a lot.. I can see now Kate realized deeply truly that Nadine is the best friend of her and for Nadine she is just wonderful person that anyone can fall in love
this is so beautiful i love affectionate friendships!!!!
Solo para solicitar que tomen en cuenta al público hispano parlante que somos muchos y que nos agradaría poder comprender y disfrutar de estos vídeos, por lo que sugiero añadan los subtítulos en español, muchas gracias,
¡Muchísimas gracias por el comentario, Elisa! Definitivamente lo tenemos en cuenta y nos gustaría agregar esta opción en el futuro cercano, cuando nos sea posible. ¡Muchas gracias por compartir tu punto de vista con nosotros!
This video has made me realise I have never had a friend!
That glow up though, oh you girls are beautiful.
omg please bring them back
Both are incredibly pretty.
Their hair switched kate hair is short and Nadine hair is longer (it was already long but it's super long now)
This reminds me of my bff & me , it makes me miss her so much 😭😭
I loved their energy in the initial video I can’t believe I didn’t know this was posted
this was deeply healing. reminds me heavily of my friend and me - a conversation we had that i wish ended the way theirs did
Okay but like how I’m I not seeing this until now!!!! I watch the last video like twice a month. I’m still in love with them ♥️
Wow they have grown so much independently of each other and their roles have seemed to change some. Like Kate seemed more calm and soothing laid back this time around and Nadine seems more powerful in her own skin
I love how genuine, understanding and loving their friendship is!💓 love these ladies and this channel!
Thank you!! ❤️
Damn that dollar tattoo got me like 😳🤭 but it’s the coolest thing that I’ve ever seen like ever
I cant say how many times i watched the first video. They are back! What a time to be alive! And wow Kate really got that bi haircut 😹 but i miss her old eyebrows. ! :c still waiting for a friendship like this 😳
Nadine is absolutely beautiful to me. Kate as well. Loved this video.
I love these two! I'm also so shocked by how gorgeous they are
First of all I clicked soo fast because I love them! They are the literal epitome of soulmates and it’s sooo beautiful to see and hear in the way they speak to each other. I’ve never witnessed nor experienced a friendship so beautiful. A divine pairing truly. My heart is full🥺
aaahhhh they're back omg my faves
part 3 plsssss
Their first video : wow! Nadine is really gorgeous.
This video : is that Kate???? Sorry just realize how beautiful you are now
beautiful friendship, how lucky you both are!
They have a friendship/sisterhood I desire in my life! Beautiful Ladies
i cried at the part 1 of this wow i can't believe they came BACK
reaally into Kate's haircut lol.. ugh they're so attractive
I love them so much 😍 Their friendship reminds me of my best friend and how we used to be i miss her so much i’ve lost contact with her 2 years ago i hope she’s ok 😢💔
We're sorry to hear this, Wejdan but hope you and your friend reconnect in the future again ❤️
ohhhh my favorites are back
😍
10:13 Damn it. I wish they hadn't skipped that question. That's not how the game/question is played. xD
Kate seemed to really be into Nadine but now not so much
Something massively changed in their friendship
@@FB_5555 From another youtuber here, I will repeat what he/she said, maybe it is because Nadine got engaged (see ring on finger) and that has caused them to drift apart a bit. I'm not saying Kate wanted to be with Nadine romantically, but this stuff always happens when you are in a relationship, your friendship kinda goes second, which I feel like Kate has painfully understood.
Ivo Nadine had a ring on the same finger in the first video.
I think their first video was their friendship based more on admiration. Since this video was made after their first fight, they’ve realized that they’re only human and will eventually do something to hurt the other even if unintentional. I think they’ve matured into their friendship and will be much stronger
I could only hope for a friendship like this one day.
me too