Realizing We Were More Than Friends | {THE AND} Georgia & Alyx

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    Georgia & Alyx, former best friends who have been dating for 6 months, sit down to explore the space in their new relationship. Alyx reminisces about the moment she realized she was in love with Georgia, who opens up about why Alyx’s gender has nothing to do with the sexual intimacy they experience together.
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    Realizing We Were More Than Friends | {THE AND} Georgia & Alyx
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  • @arossiter
    @arossiter Před 7 lety +8548

    I don't know why I still get excited when I see other lesbians

  • @justforfun225
    @justforfun225 Před 7 lety +2993

    "THERE IS NOT A SINGLE THING ABOUT YOU THAT I WOULDN'T WANT TO BE A PART OF"
    WOOOOOOOOOOOW

  • @ewinter5433
    @ewinter5433 Před 7 lety +4423

    The brunette is filled with so much love it is heart wrenching

    • @NYCITY3
      @NYCITY3 Před 7 lety +353

      I know, i just don't want her to get her heart broken. Because it's obvious she has fallen in too deep, you can tell by looking in her eyes. The eyes speak.

    • @LaraCantos
      @LaraCantos Před 7 lety +149

      Or maybe you can tell because she's said it about 14 times throughout the whole video.

    • @mishalbaig1732
      @mishalbaig1732 Před 7 lety +5

      Lara Cantos omg hahaha true!!

    • @MsLotusBlooms
      @MsLotusBlooms Před 7 lety +17

      I like her.

    • @Celesteeee0903
      @Celesteeee0903 Před 6 lety +47

      I feel like she’s in this more than the red head is.

  • @dieuantr4991
    @dieuantr4991 Před 7 lety +3498

    "and I remember very distinctly having that moment of like 'wow, there you are. there I am.'" I really adore this part of the video because such simple moments can influence you in such a way

    • @dieuantr4991
      @dieuantr4991 Před 7 lety +101

      and the way they always look at each other and how they always think before they speak im just AAAH

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  Před 7 lety +149

      Thank you for expressing what you believed to be an important intimate moment!

    • @Donnamadonna2
      @Donnamadonna2 Před 7 lety +4

      dieuan tr she almost sounds like a felicity episode

    • @shay8942
      @shay8942 Před 6 lety +1

      Definitely, the simplest moments can be the most wonderful and important moments!

  • @HewanYitagesu
    @HewanYitagesu Před 7 lety +3348

    The girl on the left is such a sweetheart.

  • @sammycopley1
    @sammycopley1 Před 7 lety +3648

    am i watching a different video to the rest of you?? i'm seeing so many comments about how "the brunette is more in love" and "this relationship is toxic" and i'm not seeing that at all. sure, the red headed woman is a little more reserved, but there's clearly reasons for that. we don't know the bigger picture; this is only 10 minutes of a complex story. from what i see, there's no "she loves her more than she's loved back", but rather "they love each other equally, but have different ways of expressing it, because humans and relationships are complex".

  • @Jess-cu8ux
    @Jess-cu8ux Před 7 lety +1966

    Lmao every single time there is a couple and one of them is more reserved the comment section thinks they are doomed

    • @maritabray188
      @maritabray188 Před 6 lety +42

      I am Jessica Yeah. These people are different in the way that they show their emotions. The brunette puts them all on the table while the red head is more guarded. Just because they don’t talk about things the same way doesn’t mean they don’t care. The red head shares so much with the few words that she chooses. You can tell that she really loves her girlfriend. She smiles constantly when the other is talking.

    • @sav7928
      @sav7928 Před 5 lety +1

      😂😂 true.

    • @carmcam1
      @carmcam1 Před 4 lety +6

      i will be the reserve one in a relationship but let it all out in private and private only.

    • @mariakara2419
      @mariakara2419 Před 4 lety +1

      I am Jessica !!!!!

  • @bilan2043
    @bilan2043 Před 7 lety +5326

    Does everyone In the comment section have a psychology degree because apparently y'all are some relationship experts

    • @Cevaison
      @Cevaison Před 7 lety +103

      Bilan Farah I do.. and it's blatant that the vibe was unrequited you don't need a degree to see that.. the woman with the red hair looks away every time she is asked a question regarding their future.. she also becomes stone cold whenever her mate expresses her love for her as if she is scared; which is okay. I also believe from this convo that she may now take her mates feelings into consideration if she believes that she's unsure about their relationship. Overall, it's her right to be unsure but she shouldn't drag her mate along during her process. I also believe her mate believes that this isn't consummate love, if her love is she wouldn't have fears of her own but fears which involve togetherness as in us.

    • @nonyafourthreetwoonezero7350
      @nonyafourthreetwoonezero7350 Před 7 lety +11

      she didnt looked stone cold, she looked annoyed at how pretentious her girlfriend is. The whole "im worried about my art", would have annoyed the hell out of me.

    • @bilan2043
      @bilan2043 Před 7 lety +12

      Issa joke

    • @micah1142
      @micah1142 Před 7 lety

      lmao

    • @mariafoteini
      @mariafoteini Před 7 lety +10

      nonya fourthreetwoonezero when did she say she is worried about her art?

  • @laurenateliz
    @laurenateliz Před 7 lety +1943

    this was heavier than i expected but alyx is very well spoken

    • @jacobyuri779
      @jacobyuri779 Před 5 lety +5

      Jayla Reine please elaborate??? I thought the brunette was a sweetheart

    • @corazonespela9388
      @corazonespela9388 Před 5 měsíci

      They separated. Alyx have BF already. While Georgia have new GF.

  • @laurenXocean
    @laurenXocean Před 7 lety +776

    people forget 6 months in, the relationship is still reserved. they don't wanna show all their feelings, especially to a camera and the world.

    • @g.race_po2
      @g.race_po2 Před 6 lety +22

      They e been dating for 3 years

    • @gettin-ziggy-with-it
      @gettin-ziggy-with-it Před 6 lety

      It said they were together for 3 years tho

    • @dedoubecool
      @dedoubecool Před 6 lety +16

      Eva Zsigmond they've known each other 3 years but have been dating only 6 months (in the description)

    • @SincerelyFlow
      @SincerelyFlow Před 3 lety

      I agree

  • @marciii411
    @marciii411 Před 6 lety +1023

    Every gay girl with a straight girl crush is shook rn

    • @fionawrobel2511
      @fionawrobel2511 Před 6 lety +13

      Mar-See Yaaa I’m shook

    • @fionawrobel2511
      @fionawrobel2511 Před 6 lety +4

      Mar-See Yaaa my crush doesn’t like me back,she told me on the 2nd (this month)

    • @wannabeskinnylegend5645
      @wannabeskinnylegend5645 Před 5 lety +4

      yesss 😂 theres hope

    • @rudyutau
      @rudyutau Před 5 lety +8

      i wish this woul have happend to me when i like my best friend who im still bffs wiht rn

    • @mariahh2034
      @mariahh2034 Před 5 lety +9

      Mar-See Yaaa she really made it out of friends zone POWERFUL

  • @ChelseaOwusu
    @ChelseaOwusu Před 7 lety +750

    "Wow, there you are... There I am."

    • @phillygyrl34
      @phillygyrl34 Před 7 lety +66

      CadenFilms I know that was some poetic shit....

  • @samanthacovington6556
    @samanthacovington6556 Před 7 lety +592

    I relate so much with this line, " *I don't think I wanted to love you* ." These videos are so emotional, and truthful, and it relates to everyone who's ever had these moments. Because they are there.

  • @Maglizz
    @Maglizz Před 7 lety +569

    Alyx is so relationship material, may I just say. I think I fell in love with her though a 10 minute video. Like damn. She seems so thoughtful and emotional and vulnerable and well-spoken.

    • @inescm4991
      @inescm4991 Před 7 lety +2

      Maggie Lyon which one is Alyx?

    • @Maglizz
      @Maglizz Před 7 lety +8

      Ines Sousa The brunette

  • @JillianCristina
    @JillianCristina Před 7 lety +2924

    Everyone talking about the redhead seeming less interested but she even said she initially didn't want to love her because they are both girls. It seems like it's not that she isn't into her partner, but that she's not as comfortable with her sexuality yet. I think it's coming off as her not wanting to be with the other girl but I think she just needs time to accept that part of herself. The brunette seems completely comfortable with her sexuality, which is probably why she seems more in love. The redhead also mentions her past relationships making her feel unsafe, so even though she feels safe in this relationship, she probably is a bit apprehensive because of it.
    I'm not an expert, but I think people are being too cynical about this couple. I think they have lots of potential and it's clear they both love and care for each other very much.

    • @ParisfromTexas
      @ParisfromTexas Před 7 lety +37

      Jillian Thomas tru shit

    • @audreylaurel
      @audreylaurel Před 7 lety +21

      if there was a video of her looking at someone she's not in love with, it would probably be more obvious how she feels. everyone expresses love differently

    • @puhdussyrampage2010
      @puhdussyrampage2010 Před 7 lety +26

      internalized homophobia

    • @NinaR478
      @NinaR478 Před 6 lety +15

      It's only 10 minutes of someone's life. It's not fair at all to judge.

    • @UnnaturalKimXx
      @UnnaturalKimXx Před 6 lety +17

      She definitely has walls up, doesn't want to get hurt

  • @CrunchyMatches
    @CrunchyMatches Před 7 lety +939

    So many speculations on whether they will last.. The redhead girl expressed her love differently, and just because it's not as descriptive does not mean she cares any less. What a beautiful video, seeing their connection is so warming.

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  Před 7 lety +93

      Thank you for sharing an interesting perspective.

    • @MaryanneValleau
      @MaryanneValleau Před 7 lety +15

      It's not so much the difference in the expression of her feelings it's something intangible. It's in her eyes. She's pays lip service with her mouth but her heart is far from there

  • @Bels
    @Bels Před 7 lety +522

    That redhead is so lucky to have the brunette so in love with her.
    She's so vocal about her feelings and how she shows them. That kind of person is so hard to find. So jelly 😭😭😭

  • @mazdalina1
    @mazdalina1 Před 7 lety +766

    The brunette (Alyx?) is so pretty!
    Funny thing is, I noticed that on the second sight - I was like ,,Woah, her eyes, her lips, her face, she has this specific fawn face type going on...''
    And I find that kind of tender beauty so precious, gentle, especially because I feel the same way about her personality - with her being this gentle, beautiful woman.

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  Před 7 lety +20

      Thank you for sharing such kind words! What did you take from their conversation that resonated with you?

    • @debora310789
      @debora310789 Před 7 lety +10

      The Skin Deep fear of vulnerability!
      oh and please adjust the camera angle for close up frames... the hair going in on the frames of those beautiful ladies were a bit distracting. other than that, superb work 💙💚💛💜💟

    • @7saany
      @7saany Před 7 lety +5

      Magdalena Antonová woah! couldnt have said it any better!

    • @leeknowknowsme
      @leeknowknowsme Před 7 lety +18

      emma watson type of beauty

    • @red_locarno
      @red_locarno Před 6 lety

      Magdalena Antonová you put my feelings into words . Verbatim

  • @darquenite
    @darquenite Před 7 lety +1282

    I get the impression that a lot of people saying that they won't last are straight people that don't understand the homosexual/coming out aspect of this relationship. To imagine the type of bond that could be formed by coming out at the same time to your best friend then falling in love with them AND breaking up with your straight relationship to be together. Sounds so raw and deep. And I'm sure after 6 months they're still dealing with it. No matter how old you get or what people say that lurking strange distant fear that come with being gay will always be with you....They can only grow from here.
    THEN ALSO! A relationship not lasting forever doesn't mean it wasn't successful.

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  Před 7 lety +143

      Thank you so much for sharing a very interesting point of view. We truly appreciate the diversity in opinion and perspective.

    • @kevinwaag9976
      @kevinwaag9976 Před 6 lety +11

      i completely and utterly agree with you !! it's such a beautiful thing to discover yourself and your partner at the same time but it's so scary that it multiples the entire experience and relationship

    • @Praesse
      @Praesse Před 6 lety +35

      as a lesbian, i agree with this so much. most part of gay relationships are just alien to straight people, a lot of our personal struggles in our relationships come from society's treatment of gay couples, of gay people. there's an insight into gay relationships only other gay people can get, and thats okay.

    • @MMacAttack
      @MMacAttack Před 6 lety +4

      Treatment of gay people? It’s not 1950 it’s 2018

    • @KatyGroves
      @KatyGroves Před 6 lety +32

      M Mac And? Homophobia hasn't gone away.

  • @siphowarrior9080
    @siphowarrior9080 Před 7 lety +444

    i loved this. The redhead reminds me of me. We feel intensely but expressing and communicating that is hard and almost feels foreign

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  Před 7 lety +23

      We're glad you found something to connect to. Thank you so much for sharing!

    • @YeseniaDeLaGarza
      @YeseniaDeLaGarza Před 5 lety +2

      Oh boy a year later but I can relate sooo hard jfc

    • @pandoricapond4420
      @pandoricapond4420 Před 4 lety +2

      I'm very much the same. Even when I rarely feel like I'd like to express jt, the words are almost stuck in my throat.

    • @shaysexperience4076
      @shaysexperience4076 Před 4 lety +1

      Sipho Warrior Whats your sign? 🤔

    • @marybf4e
      @marybf4e Před 3 lety

      So relatable!

  • @msluckylana
    @msluckylana Před 7 lety +3353

    Okay but what happened in September.

    • @dreigeli9636
      @dreigeli9636 Před 7 lety +38

      Lāna G. Hahahhaha

    • @ebony18100
      @ebony18100 Před 7 lety +105

      Lāna G. I want to know too

    • @FakeAccents
      @FakeAccents Před 7 lety +771

      The way it sounded to me was that she went off in her own world. just cut her partner out and dealt with her own stuff alone. The reason why doesn't matter but knowing your partner is going through something and not letting you in can be really hard.

    • @blahblah3485
      @blahblah3485 Před 7 lety +2

      LOL

    • @mala1122
      @mala1122 Před 7 lety +239

      Do you remember? The 21. night of September ?

  • @jaurdyngilliss5362
    @jaurdyngilliss5362 Před 7 lety +470

    this is a beautiful exploration between two people and a much larger issue.

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  Před 7 lety +39

      Thank you for sharing. We're glad {The And} is able to create a platform that is able to do that.

  • @jodiechapman8037
    @jodiechapman8037 Před 7 lety +148

    I love their commitment to eye contact. it's beautiful

  • @snowy487JC
    @snowy487JC Před 7 lety +205

    Hits deep because I am in a similar situation. Super intense and deep but also definitely unbalanced. When it hurts, it digs deep and when there's happiness, it's like the best thing in the world. Quite cruel, and beautiful all at the same time.

  • @kadijatolba8444
    @kadijatolba8444 Před 7 lety +367

    Ok I am literally in love with the redheards facial structure, so interesting and beautiful.

    • @Slim_Hodge
      @Slim_Hodge Před 7 lety +28

      Kadija Tolba her features are beautiful. very natural and beautiful...the other girl is too but I feel the same as u about the redhead.

    • @dukandream8344
      @dukandream8344 Před 6 lety +8

      Me too she's got something special and unique.

    • @iliketowatchvideos47
      @iliketowatchvideos47 Před 5 lety +5

      Really?😂

  • @pippahudson6093
    @pippahudson6093 Před 7 lety +245

    I think it can be quite easy to misjudge someone's behaviour if you have different ways of expressing yourself. I don't mean this in an unpleasant way but I think the brunette woman is insecure and I can empathise completely. Some of us, regardless of how secure and loving the relationship is, feel incredibly vulnerable in love and time and trust and having your partner prove themselves is how you become more trusting and secure in yourself and in love. On the contrary I think the redheaded woman is very much full of love for her partner, she reassures her, she doesn't mock her partner's insecurities, she is patient and while she is perhaps not as expressive - not everyone is. Also she answers right off the bat while her partner tends to pause more often as if to collect her thoughts - they are just different people. There are nuances in this relationship which we will never see nor understand but I don't think this is a toxic relationship, it is just a very brief insight into two people negotiating a new territory and I think this is a lovely video. Just my opinion. :)

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  Před 7 lety +17

      That's a very interesting point and we appreciate you bringing it to attention. Thank you!

    • @WA-pd2cc
      @WA-pd2cc Před 7 lety +1

      Pippa Hudson really well put.

  • @thynguyen911
    @thynguyen911 Před 7 lety +420

    Where and how can I find someone like Alyx? Seriously

  • @MoonBeamLight
    @MoonBeamLight Před 7 lety +256

    Wow, they remind me of my partner and myself so much. The brunette is a lesbian and the redhead is bisexual, I believe. As a bisexual, I hid it for so long out of fear. I had a boyfriend when I met my partner and she thought I was straight because I kept my attraction to women a secret at that time. My boyfriend and I had a messy breakup and she was there through it all as my best friend. I was able to keep my attraction to other women a secret, but I fell so hard for my partner that I eventually had to admit to my bisexuality, even if I wasn't comfortable yet. My partner, who is a lesbian, also had moments of insecurity, thinking she might not be enough because she wasn't a man, and we had many talks about that. It's been 8 years now and we have gone through so much together, have been nothing but honest about everything, and are closer than we could ever be. No more insecurities or doubts. I can see these two reaching that same place someday.

    • @kylorenthehusky2584
      @kylorenthehusky2584 Před 6 lety

      11 11 :)

    • @SameShirtDifferentDay
      @SameShirtDifferentDay Před 6 lety +1

      Listen More are you engaged?

    • @childsstories4508
      @childsstories4508 Před 4 lety +2

      Angel Wings u still with her?

    • @JJ-yu6og
      @JJ-yu6og Před 4 lety +3

      Wow!! You comment is helping sooo many people!!!

    • @bakedpotato7025
      @bakedpotato7025 Před 4 lety +5

      There is so much in this video and your comment that I can relate to. My girlfriend is bi and I'm a lesbian. We had so many ups and downs during our first couple of years because we discovered our sexualities with each other. I was insecure about us as I was the first girl she fell in love with and I was not sure if I was enough for her or not. Now, we are going strong a lot of those insecurities have gone away just by communicating more

  • @smexyNiallHoran
    @smexyNiallHoran Před 7 lety +68

    this episode feel so real for some reason. I think this one is my favorite, like they're communication and respect for each other is so good. the eye contact and just the way they talk to each other feels so raw and untouchable.

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  Před 7 lety +2

      +Mikayla Malchione we're glad to hear! What part of their conversation resonated with you the most?

  • @Sophiaroxursox331
    @Sophiaroxursox331 Před 7 lety +245

    the red head would look really good with bangs

  • @dyanindiratapoc5205
    @dyanindiratapoc5205 Před 5 lety +58

    C'mon people, it's obvious that they are in love with each other. They just express their feelings differently.

  • @Complainers101
    @Complainers101 Před 7 lety +426

    WHAT happened in September??? Tell us, let's talk it out

  • @alishahbasharat9293
    @alishahbasharat9293 Před 6 lety +107

    Please the skin deep BRING THEM BACK. PLEASE.

  • @lmao552
    @lmao552 Před 7 lety +1007

    PLease do more LGBTQ couples

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  Před 7 lety +133

      We will definitely try to diversify our participants by continuing to reach out to LGBTQ couples. Thank you for sharing.

    • @SURFERGRL72RAKM
      @SURFERGRL72RAKM Před 4 lety +2

      @@TheSkinDeep I'm not sure if you're still doing these videos? I agree about doing more LGBTQ couples if you still are filming these. As well as opening up to the trans community for participation. If you're still looking for participant's then I highly suggest going to Pride Festivals to reach as many as possible. I'm sure you would find enough people interested in filming. Especially if you could advertise ahead of time with Pride Organizers online. I would personally love to see more of these. Cheers 🏳️‍🌈

  • @RAWheroesGovegan
    @RAWheroesGovegan Před 7 lety +29

    I am literally speechless ... there is so much love in the girl on the left, I am just feeling so related to everything she says...

  • @amibabyy
    @amibabyy Před 5 lety +13

    okay im in love with alyx, she’s like the all around perfect person. she’s so full of love, so happy, super cute, best smile, and i love how she isn’t afraid to show/talk about her feelings i could literally listen to her talk forever

  • @brioche8123
    @brioche8123 Před 7 lety +36

    I think Georgia looks at her with tenderness too. This is a very vulnerable situation, maybe she was nervous! Maybe she isn't 100% comfortable with her sexuality yet. She could even love more intensely than Alyx loves her. She even thinks it's ridiculous that Alyx thinks she could hurt her again. She works on pulling down her walls! That shows an intent to make the relationship work.
    I think I've been in a similar situation but I was "the Alyx" 😔. Yeah didn't end well and I put allll of my heart on my sleeve, only to have my love sopped up then left high and dry.

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  Před 7 lety +2

      Thank you for offering an interesting perspective. We're glad our content can promote conversation and unique perspectives.

  • @malogs28
    @malogs28 Před 7 lety +50

    we need a follow up on these two!!

  • @7quinn7
    @7quinn7 Před 6 lety +9

    Girl on the left just melts my heart 😭😭😭 Bless her

  • @emilybooth6277
    @emilybooth6277 Před 7 lety +11

    "there's not a single thing about you that I wouldn't want to be a part of" I teared up, that's so beautiful

  • @TheSnackWrap
    @TheSnackWrap Před 7 lety +47

    ,,There is no single thing about you that I don't want to be a part of" - wow. That's a new level of love. It's wonderful but sounds really...weighty. :D

  • @fearMe007
    @fearMe007 Před 7 lety +86

    I feel like they needed this direly. N I'm really really glad thy had this conversation 😊

  • @tellylover1151
    @tellylover1151 Před 7 lety +11

    I wanted them to answer the same questions. I love the way the brunette looked like she was shining with love- it was in her eyes, her facial expressions, she was so open, but it made me nervous because I didn't see that in the redhead who seemed more contained. I hope this works out for both of them.

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  Před 7 lety +1

      Here's an update from them: instagram.com/p/BQ4G76cFqwo/?taken-by=the_skindeep :)

  • @susanaleon4994
    @susanaleon4994 Před 7 lety +35

    I went straight down to the comments to see if people thought the same thing I thought and that I wasn't just imagining that alex has deeper feelings for georgia

    • @ems8717
      @ems8717 Před 7 lety +2

      Susana Leon we can't know that some people don't show whats going deep down and some are extravagant in their emotions

    • @kellybrooke6798
      @kellybrooke6798 Před 6 lety

      Susana Leon :(

  • @athenab.3395
    @athenab.3395 Před 6 lety +13

    It's funny because I interpret the redhead as actually being more emotional, just very guarded and perhaps scared. Especially given how she was hurt in her previous relationships​. It wouldn't surprise me if she had her own insecurities about not being enough.

  • @staballemo
    @staballemo Před 6 lety +6

    Such an intense relationship. Heavy. the in between sighs and prolonged pauses

  • @lydiaallen9924
    @lydiaallen9924 Před 6 lety +15

    I didn't realize how much I needed this series until I had it. Thanks

  • @fukutaichou1903
    @fukutaichou1903 Před 4 lety +4

    I lost count how many times I've watched this. But everytime it comes out on my reccom i still click on it. My absolute favorite part is 3:42 when in very few words expressed in difficulty Georgia was able to tell Alyx that she is more than enough. It always get me.

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 Před 6 lety +3

    I absolutely love these kinds of face to face questions. You can feel the emotions through the responses, and also we can see that they have a few things to get over, but the certainty is clear on wanting to be together.

  • @LelaLondon
    @LelaLondon Před 7 lety +29

    This TOUCHED ME SO HARD. Goddddd. Binging on videos to make me feel less alone for coming out (literally today) by video and this has done such a good job

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  Před 7 lety +2

      Congratulations and thank you for sharing! We wish you true happiness in the future. :)

  • @gabbyalexandrea586
    @gabbyalexandrea586 Před 7 lety +102

    Can you guys do an adopted child and their biological parents please

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  Před 7 lety +113

      Great idea! We're always searching for new relationships and definitely want to explore adoption.

  • @RayreeBaby
    @RayreeBaby Před 7 lety +15

    Im so excited about this!! Such an awesome video. I hope i can be apart of this someday

  • @soaimaileleota7525
    @soaimaileleota7525 Před 6 lety +6

    God.. I absolutely love this face to face questions with this couple. You can tell they have a few things to get over, but the certainty is clear on wanting to be together. I do wish them the happiness they can give one another and keeping their paths together.

  • @ozdoits
    @ozdoits Před 5 lety +1

    SO good!!! Authentic, intimate, vulnerable. Deep, rich and touching to witness! And those questions!

  • @soofvandael5465
    @soofvandael5465 Před 6 lety +4

    Always impressed when seeing people having such a honest and open moment, truly wonderful

  • @astedt225
    @astedt225 Před 6 lety +12

    *These two are still very much together and in love.*
    It's sad to see plenty of people making the assumption that Georgia wasn't as into the relationship as Alyx is. She may be reserved than Alyx in verbally expressing herself in this video, but you can see it in her eyes.

  • @elemeno82002
    @elemeno82002 Před 7 lety +26

    I totally relate to the red haired girl. Naked displays of affection are really hard for me which is why I tend to show my affection through action rather than words. Sometimes you have to teach yourself how to let go so that you can love and be loved instead of fighting for control and reason all the time.

  • @thittawanitkunwiriya6377
    @thittawanitkunwiriya6377 Před 6 lety +2

    To be honest, the questions are just point on. So warming to see their connections show through. Thanks for sharing this video :)

  • @user-ll1nx8zk4v
    @user-ll1nx8zk4v Před 6 lety +8

    When Alyx said "What do you mean?" to "It was very quick.", she blinked her eyes and looked nervous, and I thought she really loves Georgia.

  • @OnusOfNous
    @OnusOfNous Před 4 lety +3

    Aw, when she said “we’re way more than enough” and her eyes welled up. So genuine.

  • @mackenzievanrooy9034
    @mackenzievanrooy9034 Před 7 lety +12

    I could've listened to them talk for hours tbh.

  • @katarzyna2478
    @katarzyna2478 Před 5 lety +2

    What a beautifull,congruent and mature dialogue.I like their mindful and deep connection, their taking care about themselves.They certainly love each other and are very responsible for their relationship.Wish You all the best.

  • @karenlazo9263
    @karenlazo9263 Před 6 lety

    I can feel the emotions through your responses and through the looks on your faces!! it makes me want to cry! I'm so happy for you both and I wish you two luck! 💕

  • @AitanaB-s9v
    @AitanaB-s9v Před 6 lety +35

    Omg are they ok one year later? Is there any hope for us mortals? PLEASE LET US KNOW

  • @naamaeindar83
    @naamaeindar83 Před 7 lety +21

    I've watched this video like a hundred times... It's full of love. It's in their eyes and voices

  • @sircatibus8971
    @sircatibus8971 Před 4 lety +2

    My best thing about the video is, there is no distracting music. Just deep talk.
    Literally *SkinDeep*

  • @albatross7327
    @albatross7327 Před 7 lety +11

    I know Alyx has done a lot of reaching and prying for her baby just like I have for mine. When you have someone who just isn't as ready as you are, you take that upon yourself to remedy. Even if you try to give them space, when they leave that Reserved seat you had for them, even for a second, you FEEL that vacancy. It can be a real learning curve to aim for someone who's less experienced in introspection, who's sexuality or trauma or identity is still challenging them to the point that they may not be equipped to jump into the sunset with you just yet. It's extra confusing if they love you with all they've got but still can't make it to the milestones you're so ready to share with them. It can be so hard to wait, especially when it feels like letting go. It can be so hard to let go when it feels like waiting. But the whole while you learn so much about yourself because you've got your thinking cap permanently on trying to make this work. And still somehow you can lose yourself to this hyperfocused reality. Sometimes all of that can lead to so many wounds. Then you have to work on healing on top of everything else. For me, I often wish I'd just let her go before it got so messy and kept a window open for her to climb through someday when she was ready. Instead she's finally coming around after years and parts of my heart are definitely closed off for now. I have so many scars. In my own time I fear I'm all used up, just as soon as she started coming through. We could cry about it endlessly. What a mess.

    • @phillygyrl34
      @phillygyrl34 Před 7 lety +1

      that "reserved seat".....fucks up a lot of relationships....I know of so many ppl who dive in these varying degrees of romantic entanglements and months in.....they are still not over someone/not THAT much invested...haven't quite let that person go..damn...that fuckin reserved seat #chroniclesfromtheotherside

    • @laramenke
      @laramenke Před 4 lety +1

      This resonated with me, though I think luckily it's not as heavy with me. I'm currently dating a girl, who never considered liking girls before I asked her. It's been surprisingly easily. And fast but then again slow at the same time. It's going so much better then I could have hoped but because of that it more unexpected when there are some setbacks. I know from experience that it's not a linear journey, so I'm trying to not worry to much when there's downs and doubts again.

  • @lareinaworld
    @lareinaworld Před 7 lety +6

    Wow, this was really deep.
    Painful to watch someone so in love and the other person love doesn't even match it.

  • @nizworld1016
    @nizworld1016 Před 7 lety +9

    definitely should keep this one going..updates 12 months in and so forth? .. Would be interesting to see their development as a couple..

  • @cleis666
    @cleis666 Před 5 lety +2

    I love how these two look at each other. So much love in their eyes.

  • @pearlmcj
    @pearlmcj Před 7 lety +56

    Maybe it's because I don't have much experience with relationships myself, but I really don't worry about these two as much as everyone else here seems to. Yes Alyx is deeper in than Georgia at the moment, but Georgia said that she suppressed her feelings for Alyx for a WHILE before they started going out, and 6 months really isn't all that long to get used to being openly lovey dovey.
    These two seem like they're able to acknowledge their shortcomings as individuals and a couple, and they said so many times that they feel safe and happy with each other. Georgia seems to have had some tricky experiences with relationships in the past, but I can see that they're willing to work for this and each other.
    Idk maybe I'm looking through rose-colored glasses, but I'm hopeful for them, especially after they had such an important conversation like this.

    • @Slim_Hodge
      @Slim_Hodge Před 7 lety +3

      TheBurbster I feel the same. I see vulnerability in both gals.

  • @TheSkinDeep
    @TheSkinDeep  Před 6 lety +174

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    • @nevejones
      @nevejones Před 6 lety +17

      The Skin Deep georgia&alyx part 2 pleaseee

    • @avidreader2316
      @avidreader2316 Před 6 lety +8

      BRING THEM BACK AND TAKE MY MONEY!

    • @stefansalvatore2368
      @stefansalvatore2368 Před 6 lety

      i am making captions for this video, but i met some difficulties in understanding it, Can you offer the English captions? And i will translate them into Chinese.

    • @lindacontreras88
      @lindacontreras88 Před 6 lety

      The Skin Deep pleaseeeeeee!! Subtitle!!

    • @lya0985
      @lya0985 Před 6 lety +1

      When are you guys bringing these two back???

  • @sissybranna6
    @sissybranna6 Před 7 lety +4

    Wow. How beautiful!! By the end I was in such awe of their connection.

  • @alishahbasharat9293
    @alishahbasharat9293 Před 7 lety +1

    This one is the most beautiful of all. Loved it. Mad respect and support

  • @94kiana2001
    @94kiana2001 Před 5 lety +1

    Wow! Such an honest convo. So scary to bare your heart and soul and allow yourself to be so vulnerable, even with someone you love so much.

  • @Foodie_888
    @Foodie_888 Před 6 lety +5

    An open dialogue between two people; very powerful. Thank you for sharing. I wish both of them the best.
    The pivotal moments for me were at 3:21 Alyx: "I've already gotten hurt in this relationship" 3:28 Alyx: "the feeling of not being enough" 3:38 Georgia "..not like get over Alyx" and see Alyx's face change as if Georgia re-affirms 'the never enough' statement:( 3:42-3:44 Alyx's face expressions waiting for the "you're way more than enough" that finally came at 3:54 from Georgia. (If my better half stated "the feeling of not being enough" I would not hesitate even for a second to take her hand even before she finished the statement and hold her close, look her in the eyes and say "YOU are way more than enough for the both of us" to let her know she is loved and that I am fully vested.)

  • @junenovae
    @junenovae Před 4 lety +12

    The ginger one (I don't know if she's Georgia or Alyx) is is a mix of sansa and aria

  • @AmbersSiberianHuskie
    @AmbersSiberianHuskie Před 7 lety +2

    Wow, that was beautiful. You ladies were open & honest 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💕

  • @Mami94-832
    @Mami94-832 Před 5 lety +1

    This is the video to show people who don't believe that women can have a significant relationship! This was wonderful and so powerful. My bestie recently shut me out because she was having a hard time in her life, and I didn't know how to talk to her respectfully about it. Thanks to this video I now know exactly what to say. Thanks so much! ❤️

  • @Lina-hi5ji
    @Lina-hi5ji Před 6 lety +7

    " There's not a single thing about you that i don' t want to be a part of " got me :'(

  • @carostrickland4146
    @carostrickland4146 Před 7 lety +19

    I strongly disagree with everyone saying that the brunette is "more in love", or this is a relationship bound to fail. We have no idea what their relationship dynamic is, the redhead could be more reserved and show her love in different ways not seen through a 10 minute video of unedited speech. Judging a three year relationship on 10 minutes is laughable...

  • @megane376
    @megane376 Před 4 lety +1

    Omg.. the way that they communicate with each other is so heavy.. I could really feel depthness on their relationship. It makes me grin from ear to ear how serious bittersweet and eager i am wanting this kind of connection with a significant other..

  • @islalove336
    @islalove336 Před 5 lety +2

    The girl on left has the most beautiful smile. She literally smiles through every emotion. Gorgeous!

  • @LadyRow00
    @LadyRow00 Před 6 lety +4

    Everything about Alyx is gorgeous. What a pure individual.

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    @TheSkinDeep  Před 7 lety +7

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  • @maria_manias
    @maria_manias Před 7 lety +1

    They are so much in love it makes my heart hurt

  • @juliefutte1012
    @juliefutte1012 Před 6 lety

    Wow.. this was so real. Like, just really real. They thought about every question and stayed connected with each other. This was beautiful. Truly

  • @missmex7876
    @missmex7876 Před 7 lety +4

    I just hope they are happy. together or not, it's up to no one but these two ladies. good luck and blessings to them. 😊
    I think everyone who has the strength to do this are incredibly brave. I doubt they realize how strong they are to be so open and vulnerable. I feel incredibly grateful to be allowed to enter these conversations. Each one has been a lesson I've been lucky to learn and to be able to see love and heartache in all its forms. brilliant series. strong people.

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  Před 7 lety +1

      Thanks a lot for sharing your thoughts! We hear you! Feel the same way about the participants and can't thank them enough for sharing their hearts with us.

    • @missmex7876
      @missmex7876 Před 7 lety

      The Skin Deep no problem. it's just the truth. hope this series continues. it's stunning on so many levels. stay blessed 😊

  • @avidreader2316
    @avidreader2316 Před 7 lety +4

    PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DO A PART 2 WITH THESE TWO IF THEY ARE STILL TOGETHER.

  • @tacobell7679
    @tacobell7679 Před 4 lety +1

    I love how it's nothing fancy or extra with upbeat music, just a couple sitting down and asking questions about each other.

  • @JessRomeo27
    @JessRomeo27 Před 4 lety +1

    Aw, the way they hold eye contact and just smile at each other... THATS how you know there's love between them. They really don't have to even speak, you can just see it from the way they look at each other. I hope they have a long, happy and healthy relationship together. ❤

  • @HOPEbabylon
    @HOPEbabylon Před 7 lety +94

    As nosy as this sounds, but I kind of want to know what happened in September..? :o

    • @betsychavez5715
      @betsychavez5715 Před 7 lety +1

      whyiamada forreal, me too

    • @lilbabyangel125
      @lilbabyangel125 Před 7 lety +6

      i'm guessing the redhead cheated

    • @brioche8123
      @brioche8123 Před 7 lety +109

      Dee_V idk. It sounded like she might have "taken a break" or pushed her away.

    • @kikisqueek123
      @kikisqueek123 Před 6 lety

      whyiamada same

    • @mariahzalera2123
      @mariahzalera2123 Před 6 lety +4

      I think something bad happened in the red heads life and she pushed her away and she doesn't want her to do that again

  • @Lauradomenechvila
    @Lauradomenechvila Před 7 lety +64

    I think I'm in love with Alyx. That soul coming out of her eyes is heartbreaking. Anyone knows her IG or Twitter?

  • @BriPilar12
    @BriPilar12 Před 6 lety +1

    This is so raw and amazing. I wish they had a youtube channel!

  • @cogordoo
    @cogordoo Před 4 lety

    8:18.. That deep gaze pierced the screen and made me shudder. Feelings that words can't even express.

  • @writtenIntheskys
    @writtenIntheskys Před 6 lety +7

    The girl in black seems so in love with her. You can see in her eyes how much she loves her. I think the other girl will end up breaking her 💔

  • @sneekz07
    @sneekz07 Před 7 lety +111

    Some of you are suddenly experts on body language and relationships just because the redhead isn't acting the way you want her to??

  • @Maglizz
    @Maglizz Před 7 lety

    Oh wow. That was emotional. I love the way they communicate! Very moving!

  • @daniecliffe2847
    @daniecliffe2847 Před 7 lety +1

    these two really needed this I'm not really a fan of Georgia but alyx God she's so beautiful and sweet and you can really tell she's trying and they both seem to be communicating deeper with their eyes

  • @jdc1up
    @jdc1up Před 6 lety +20

    I wonder how they are now. Such a beautiful couple. ❤