I'm A Teen Mom & My Dad Is Ashamed Of Me | KARAMO
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- Jamyah got pregnant when she was only 14 years old and her relationship with her dad has never been the same. Jeffery admits he's embarrassed he has a teen daughter and says Jamyah flipped the minute she became a teenager. This family is broken, can Karamo help this family repair their father-daughter relationship?
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" i know your daughter didn't use protection.. but she needs your protection"' lol. This aint no battle rap Karamo.
LOL but i love when he does that. I be hypin him up too like "MMM BARSS" 😂
He was spittin 😂
LMFAO the way I be like “mmm” every time
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That was BAR 😂
Just because a child has both parents doesn't mean they will be raised right...stereotypes really needs to stop! ESPECIALLY FOR DAUGHTERS
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IT'S NOT ABOUT BEING RAISED RIGHT. IT'S ABOUT THE UNION THE CHILD WAS BORN IN A HEALTHY UNION EQUALLY YOKED UNION RAISES THEY'RE CHILDREN.
@@cutelove99 like I said the stereotypes gotta stop🤷🏽♀️
@@cutelove99this the one !
@@selietasymone God isn't a stereotype.. GOD 1ST ❤️
She has no mother and her father is emotionally unavailable and her only comfort (grandmother) died. She started running away at 12. How can he put so much blame on her for looking for love elsewhere...? No one was there for her. I understand he's hurt and embarrassed but he has to be there for her now, she's still his child no matter what.
stop making excuses about er having sex at 14. she’s a teenager who’s aware of it, you’re making dumb ass excuses.
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@@kianasymonee ???
I'm 15 gonna be 16 on 6th April 2024 and now I'm 16.
@@omrohit3998 so??
I find it weird that he watched his daughter crying about losing her grandmother and how his words hurt her and his first instinct is to voice a complaint about being texted at work that nobody asked for
Exactly
I came here to say this because I was confused on how he got to that point.
Exactly
I was confused because I was like is this the same video like that was so off topic
Being disappointed is 100% understandable, but STAYING mad at your teenage daughter is ridiculous 😒
For sure
Is their really something to be disappointed about
seriously like get over it and help her
Easy to say when you aren’t in his predicament. Who know how much he went through to try to avoid this type of situation
That’s all EGO. sadly
I’m a father and alot of fathers don’t understand that our kids need us emotionally and physically.
The balance to a nuclear family is the mother is to understand emotions, as the father is to teach discipline.
@@andrejamal5438I think it’s important for both or all the parents/guardians to do this.
@@andrejamal5438no😂 I hope u don’t have kids😩
He said they had a pregnancy scare once before and she still turned around and ended up knocked up anyways. Da f*ck. It's already hard enough for Black kids and the margin of error is very narrow. She was just being fast and now she is stuck with a baby and her possibility of getting married has just decreased. The epidemic of unwed moms in the Black community seems to be accepted by some in our culture as the norm . So sad. I would of been p*ssed off at her too.
@@andrejamal5438both parents can do, both of those things.. My parents did. Father's need to be there,emotionally for their children as well. They are supposed to fear their father.
He pissed me off as soon as he came out talking about groceries 😭😒 like wtf bro she dealing with so much trauma at a young age 💯
What trauma 😂😂😂😂😂sex at 14 and going ahead to have a baby after a scare😂😂😂😂girl should parent her child in peace leave the poor dad alone
@@learnuncensored???? her in and out mom, her primary caretaker passing away when she was 12, a dad who was unable to pour into her emotionally….that trauma
@@learnuncensoredYou a disgusting ass person for saying that.
Yall are a lost group of people. Victimhood needs to end. Yes the death and her mother is traumatic but she sealed the deal intentionally getting pregnant. He's human, what the h** is wrong with you???????
Who gives a damn what she dealing with at a young, she out here skewing, she aint dealing with that much.
He needs therapy. He can’t let go. He has some things that he must work through. To say that she, a 12 year old, should’ve considered how he felt when the grandmother passed is emotionally immature. He thinks of her on the same level as an adult.
He needs to grow up.
@@brittabtwExactly. He sounds very delayed and very immature.
@@brittabtwso you okay with your daughter having sex a young age and getting pregnant
@@questionresearch8721so you okay when your daughter gets pregnant and you have to take some responsibility on the way
Indeed, and for him to still feel the same shame & resentment as he did 5 years ago says a lot. From being a single father, his Mothers' passing to her getting pregnant at 14 years old.
I don't think he realize, it's learned behavior because the roles have switched of being a single parent.
They said she was mainly raised by the grandmother, so the REALITY is he was there, but wasn't really there in the way she needed
Neither was her mother 😢
Bingo!
Yes what I got is the girl already didn’t have her mom, and yeah the dad is only as active now because the grandmother passed. The great-grandmother was doing most the raising and everything went downhill right when she passed. It’s as if she lost two parents (her great-grand mom and her mom) and now dad is tried to pick up - but by then she got traumatized. This is why I always say men need to stay active and stop putting the responsibility on their mom to raise their kids, especially daughters. This has always been a man’s biggest fear.
He says he feels like a failure. He did fail her. He should have been there before her grandmother raised her
I'm 15 gonna be 16 on 6th April 2024 and now I'm 16 ...
The baby is already here whether he’s embarrassed or not. He just needs to heal and love on his daughter and grandchild. He’s acting like she killed someone.
She was 14. Meaning she was active at 12-13. This some bs
@@Darrencollinsjrthat’s what you not getting it’s already said and done now she 17 and he still acting like that she gone end up growing up to hate him if he don’t listen
@aleyawilliams657 arrested development at its finest. SHE is very disrespectful. Gaslighted Kamamo saying he keeps food in the house for the most part. Smdh. She is immature and is not appreciative of his support. Period. I see right thru the bs.
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Bro what your not getting is shes literally still a child and had a lot of growing and development you sound dumb@@Darrencollinsjr
That man is childish as hell, like honestly his daughter been thru so much and he just embarrassed. Hating on a 12 year old to 17 year old is crazy, she’s your baby. REGARDLESS. He mad she told him to buy groceries like wtf 😂
He was mad that she was calling him about groceries when she was supposed to be at school. I got that part but the part about having too much access was wild.
@@meeraftaddesse8956 she or her baby could’ve been sick… kids can’t go to daycare when they’re sick. Him as a a parent there should always be food in the house! I never had food stamps growing up but we always had food to eat even if it was a ramen noodle or bologna sandwich
@@MarvelousMarrah hes not required to take care of that baby LMAOO keep crying
@@MarvelousMarrahhow is he hating on his daughter what’s there to hate about having a baby at a young is okay with I guess you never had your father around
@@user-es7gh8vw6t uhm my father loves me like what does this have to do with me.. he obviously seeming like he hates his daughter, being disappointed in your kid is one thing.. but to push your daughter away and not even tell her her grandmother passed away because you to embarrassed to talk to her is CHILDISH !
He forced parentification and adultification on the oldest child (forcing a child to act like an adult with adult responsibilities when they're not ready)- and he wonders why she thought she could handle adult things when she wasn't ready.
how when it was her choice of having sex at having a child at 14. stop making excuses for her. she wanted to be grown, so she has to live grown 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
@kianasymonee She was and still is a child. Children make mistakes. And you don't seem to understand why developmentally, children are not able to consent to s@x.
Parents don't get to quite the moment their child messes up. It only means they need more guidance and direction.
But sure, let's continue the generational cycles of abandonment and trauma the moment things get hard or you don't like what your kid does.
@@kianasymonee you are literally proving the point and don't even realize it lol. Parenting doesn't stop at early teenage because she's making "grown" choices. He can be embarrassed all he wants but he played a role in her moving like an adult.
@@kianasymoneewhen a 14 year old feels the need to have sex. She is not mature enough to “be grown”. fathers equate being active to having a “nice virgin daughter” he did everything to physically provide, he provided nothing emotionally so she went and got it. “Texting me about groceries when she should be in school” as if she’s wrong for texting her provider when she needs help providing for her kid.
@@kianasymoneechildren can’t make adult decisions.
This is how categorizing women's battles as "fatherless behavior" can be so toxic. He thought just because she wasn't "fatherless" meant she was doing okay but didn't really pull through on being an actual father
Did you not get the part when he said they already had one pregnancy scare? So did they have to explicit you tell that she was reminded again about using projection or even abstaining from sex. H*ll he can't be with her 24/7 he has to make a living and he has other kids that he is trying to raise but she was just being fast and ended up with a kid. It was about her not listening. He has every right to be p*ssed the eff off. Believe it not every Black person is into having bastardized kids with no husband by multiple men.
Right
Bingo, he wasn't emotionally there and that's why she went looking for it elsewhere. Father's can't just be providers, they have to be protectors too and I think protecting has a lot to do with that emotional connection/bond as well.
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It's a shame when a parent has higher expectations for their child than they have for themselves
Say it again 👌🏾
Amen
Hmm, I actually think most parents want their kids to be better than them
You always want your kids to be better than you!! I know I do!! So yes u set expectations higher for them it's not always the right thing to do but I get it!!
Wouldn't be a parent if you don't want better for your kids. You don't except nothing less.
Telling ur daughter to “STAND ON BUSINESS” IS CRAZY
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How
its not crazy its accurate. She wanted to go out and be a hoe, these are the consequences, take care of your OWN child. She knew the consequences and still proceeded to act like a hoe. She CANNOT rely on her parents. She can go out, get a job and pay for her own groceries.
That's not crazy that's real she made grown women decisions then this is what comes along with having sex and getting pregnant. It's NOT HER father's responsibility to take care of what she created so yes she need to woman up and stand on business.
@@latashia2682 children can’t make adult decisions. And by your logic, isn’t it dad’s responsibility to take care of what he created as well?
His standard for her is way higher than his standard for himself as a father.
Most parents want their children to do better than them...
@@LadyLondonDDG that has nothing to do with hold himself as a parent accountable though.
clock that tea
The father is actually resentful of having responsibility but is trying to be active as a father by being physically present but emotionally not
I don’t think that’s it at all.
couldn't have said it better myself
And he still mad, no father wants his daughter pregnant at 13
Resent and Hurt are two different things 🤦🏽♀️
also… I feel as though… he’s super embarrassed that his daughter “ IN HIS MIND” turned into one of those fast tail girls him and his boys talked about in high school…
The mama got some nerve sending in a letter about what The daughter should do. Umm, can we talk about what you should be doing?
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Lmao literally what a clown
I think the mom is incarcerated
@@sheenacampbell4575 I wouldn't be surprised.
😂 Chile I was like no this btch DIDDDNTTT got some mf nerve !
He gives me very much that he is a “the phone goes both ways” type of dad
Dad is so determined to break familia chains, that he is binding them with new shackles. His heart is in thr right place, just gotta find the right path and own his part.
Preach!
Being a present parent is more than just working and feeding your children. You have to make sure your children know their worth, are taught about safe s3x, and feel okay being open and honest with you. My parents weren't like that with me but I taught myself to be that way with my teen son.
Well said!!!! I agree
Well said and done I'm proud of you ❤
my parents never taught me anything about this but i know better to not have sex because of videos like these i knew not to send nudes because of the thousands of videos of story times of them being leaked these stories are wayy to common to not know better so he has a right to be embarrassing
Well said.. speaking for alot or us fr
You are absolutely right and I’m glad you was able to teach him right despite what you went through . You go ahead queen 🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰🥰
He's more worried about how he feels about everything instead of his minor child's feelings & maybe that's why she went looking for another male's attention & wanted a baby to love. They need individual & family therapy not just for them but the baby doesn't deserve to grow up in that unhealthy tension & emotions.
Well she has a child, and she is responsible for her child. Yet he stills provide. Definitely rule out what you are saying
That is why, he more than a child then she is
@@andrejamal5438 Hi. I didn't comment on him providing anything but the emotional support so why did you mention him providing financially if I'm understanding you correctly? If he had no intention to help provide for them financially, why let her move back in realistically knowing a 14-year-old can't solely financially provide for a baby? I'm a person that loves to learn from others which is why I'm asking you questions but I strongly feel like he owes his daughter & granddaughter more emotional support.
@@user-ft4dz1yy2h Yes & it's really sad. I couldn't believe some of the things he said. He's unreasonable, emotionally stunted, unable to as 2Pac says pick up the pieces & move tf on... they need therapy immediately.
@@andrejamal5438 girlllll I take care of my kid wee are just still under his roof as I should be cause I’m still his kid.
the bar for an “active father” is so low, baby lived at her granny’s house until she was 12. the level of emotional support a young kid needs to not go off seeking love in other places can not be met by parents who are in and out of their lives.
I'm the only daughter for my dad, I got pregnant young and my dad was upset. Until the day he died my son was his world and I could call on him anytime. Having a child does not stop her from achieving what she need
My dad was upset but I didn't feel hungry when I was pregnant and he was the first one there when I went into labor. It's ok being disappointed but this long is crazy
I fell real hard for the dad. Mother of my child not around, my baby girl growing up too fast, my grandmother passing. Still trying to hold it all together while it just falls apart
I appreciate this perspective. I think often times people put men's trauma on the back burner for all the women in the family. Hes a good man but his baby girl is now a woman and he doesn't know how to communicate with women so there stuck. She's busy expecting a little girls dad and he's expecting a grown woman's maturity and ability to help him.
THIS! I don’t feel like he’s wrong at all and really not even expecting perfection as implied by Karamo. It’s just a lot to navigate and he’s trying hard to at least keep their physical needs met. A lot of disappointed parents wouldn’t even do that. I feel like he got no credit for his attempt to handle this situation with as much grace as he knows how.
I agree with you guys as well! I had my sin at 15..with my first sexual encounter. My mom "stood on business" she never even bought a bag of pampers. I was working at 15.9 and on my own at 17. I had tunnel vision. Did 10yrs of college straight...I Bossed up and did what I had to do! I love Karamo but sometimes he makes excuses for these behaviors while invalidating the others.
nah word
Facts. And on top of that the crowd always takes the females side no matter what major double standard
The dad is so emotionally and intelligently immature. He is on the same level of his daughter.
I agree, sad he expects her to be more mature than he is.
Yeeessss ! In the beginning the whole time he was talking I was like Oh My God !!!! I felt like I was watching a boy talk.
@@joyhudson5674 His daughter sounded more mature. Sad
@@ms.undastood2586 He acts like the daughter is not the child.
I think his daughter is on a higher level than her father
The dad is so IMMATURE!! What he really wants is to be left alone. He is the type that thinks 'girls mature faster than boys' and is deflecting on her.
Most women think that
I got pregnant at 14 years old. Yes, my parents were hurt. I was raised in a two parent home. My father was there for me and I am so grateful to him for that. My parents love me and my daughter. My daughter is the only grandchild they had. I’m now 65 years old.
Amazing what a blessing ur child is ❤
How does a girl who grew up in a two parent home end up in your situation? It makes no sense.
Not all parents are active parents... trust me im a high school teacher.. some parents feel as long as theyre bathed, clothed, fed and attend school all is well.. hence the father kept on about food shopping and going to work.. he aint actually present due to his own issues@debbiedebdeb4183
I think it's weird when parents call their children their best friends when the children are not adults. You going to always have a different expectation of your best friend versus your children.
He wanted her to be his support versus him be her support.
Very true. That's where the father's issues are coming from.
Yes! He’s talking as if they are in a relationship it’s weird
honestly I think the bigger problem is parenting takes a village and with out the mother he used their grandmother as his support. When he lost that everything crumbled and no one was there to support him. Everyone want to make him the bad guy because he is the adult and she is the child but in reality he is just stretched thin and is just trying to get some help from what is left of his family. Unfortunately that person happens to be his eldest daughter. now don't get me wrong, I don't think it is her job to support him but I completely understand where he's coming from and he has my empathy just as much as the daughter does.
In a weird way I think both of them are in the same position and don't really know how, or don't have the bandwidth to help each other which continues to deepen their issues.
This was truly triggering. It’s frustrating when you realize your parents are emotionally immature. He keeps talking about how he was embarrassed and how he misses when she was his “mini me.” As a parent you have to take accountability and love your kids unconditionally even when they make mistakes. Although he was a provider, it’s clear to me that he’s emotionally neglectful. He needs to expect just as much from himself as he does his daughter.
Loving without conditions is 1 thing but screwing up your life is another she undid so MANY things for herself by getting pregnant @12 read the stats she is more likely to be a battered women her children more likely to be abused she is more likely to live at poverty level all because of teen pregnancy
And what about her mother?
@@courtney4808lol what about her? She's a deadbeat. even she admitted it herself
Every parent ain’t perfect. There’s no rules on raising a kid. A father no matter how old his daughter gets is always going to see his daughter as his little girl. He raised her right. His hurt is what took over because now in his mind he was prob thinking where did I go wrong in raising, am I the bad parent. Let’s be real as females were moody. Yea they both made mistakes it’s not just him they both were not physically in the strongest mindset when loosing a loved one. He’s doing 2 jobs but he still wants best for her by being in school. Shoot he was embarrassed but think about it that’s better than a parent being like” I’m disowning you; you grown you figure it out” dude had the audacity love and compassion to let his daughter stay
This is his feelings. His truth. That's not immature. He's embarrass.
The dad saying that a 12 year old has to know they’re identity is CRAZY. He just wants a reason to be mad .
When he made that comment about whether to treat his daughter like a daughter or a mother of her child just told me all I need to know about how he views her. Now he's seeing her as a woman and has all these expectations for her that can't happen effectively because she's a child and still is a child. A lot of children aren't just going to consider the parents side of things or empathize with them because they haven't even experienced something like that or understand. I wish more men could learn that being a good dad takes more than just providing for the child, they need to be there emotionally too
Not gonna lie my dad would be disappointed if I was 14 & pregnant
any parent should be, little girls will see videos like this and storytimes of nudes getting leaked but still go out have sex and send nudes and blame the parents when they got put out they know what they where doing was wrong that why they snuck and did it cause they knew the outcome
okay well that's you and your dad
But he was probably there which is why it didn't happ.
@@Blue1091that’s not always true . My dad was locked up my whole life and i ain’t have my daughter till i was 28 . But i think my mother was so strong and was on us cuz she had all girls i think that’s why it didn’t happen and i thank god . I was scared my mother was gonna kill me shyt 😂😂😂😂
Yes my dad is who raised me@@Blue1091
The father is adulting this child. Both parents are not parenting.
The 'child' is no longer a child
@@teddymurigi7064the child is still a minor .
@@teddymurigi7064Thats now how this works. She is still a child who made terrible decisions and has to live with the consequences. Bad decisions don't invalidate her age and stage of development. Hoping she will rebound and make something of herself. The father is being called to love her at a very low time which requires alot of emotional maturity and support to push through those feelings of disappointment and failure. I feel for him too.
@@teddymurigi7064that’s how you CONTINUE GENERATIONAL CURSES.
@@teddymurigi7064facts. Having adult responsibilities requires you to behave like an adult. She's going to HAVE to grow up faster than her peers for the sake of her child. Not quite sure why people don't understand this🤷♀️
He needs to grow up! He needs some parenting classes, the mom needa to do better and should have talk to him. She is 17 still has alot to learn, process, and grow! Praying for this family!
The stereotype about fatherless girls is crazy. My dad wasn’t around and I never got caught up like this. The quality of the parenting is what’s important. Simply having a dad means nothing.
Her parents let her down. Her grandmother raised her. Why was she active at that young age? If something is there they need to get to the root of it. It is completely be disappointed and upset that your young child is pregnant. To hang it over her head is another. The child is not a fast or any of that. I have a feeling that she will make mistakes as any parent but she will learn from her parents. She expressed her feelings and emotions clearly. She had s** & is now a mother. That doesn't make her a horrible human. She still deserve love, guidance balance, grace & protection. I noticed the community does extend the same grace to females that is given to males. I pray that she has a beautiful future.
She gets pregnant the first time, but did not get a birth control shot after that?!? All of y’all, failed.
It was a pregnancy scare. So she wasn't pregnant but they thought she might be, but yeah that was the perfect time to open the lines of communication about sex and to get right into some prevention.
Doctors here in Illinois let be the choice of the child after they turn 12 we have no say so!,my husband and I tried to get our daughter on birth control when we found out she was sexually active. I felt like my power as a parent had been stripped away from me that day! Her actions and activities got worse. Then she started just leaving when she felt like it No wasn’t and still not being respected,taking to her and trying to talk to her still doesn’t convince her to take accountability for her actions. Now she have a baby that we are taking full care of she just won’t comply with anything! We had so any different ways of trying to compromise. Because she still young and the streets going to eat her butt a live if we put her out! We are trying to figure out how to keep from do that!
@mrs.ilovetolearnstuff6104 I understand your story, and I feel your position is a bit different from his, at least from what I can tell from this small segment
@@mrs.ilovetolearnstuff6104I’m sorry your family is going through this. I hope she finds her way back🙏🏾
Where is the baby Father?? He has a right to feel the way he feels. He is providing a roof over their heads. She 17 and should not be acting like a little child
The dad is being a dad with no mom around, this is why BOTH parents are needed
As a father, he had the right to feel the way he felt. No parent wants their teenager to come home with a baby! He works two jobs to take care of the daughter and her baby. If he didn’t love his daughter she would be on the street. It’s going to take time for him to warm up to the situation, but he’s working on it. The girl sounds like she’s a good kid, she just made a mistake, hope she learns from it and handles her business raising that baby.
Brother you're not the only one that had a teenage daughter welcome to life i was a 35 year old grandfather and i love my grandkids
My Mom had my brother at 17 just 6 months shy of her 18th birthday and 12 years later I came then 6 years later he became a Dad himself with my oldest niece he was 2 days shy of graduating Highschool before she was born my Mom was 36 when her first grandchild came.
Got damn!
Damn you raised some hoes. Whole family bust downs.
You proud of that? I’m 38 and don’t have kids at all.
I feel like dad is disgusted with his daughter because she reminds him of her mom, plus, he was resentful and maybe jealous of his daughter's and grandma's relationship. He adultified and parentified his daughter, and wanted her to be his emotional support while he neglected her well-being. Just because you're in the house doesn't mean you're present.
Wooow this was well said. You’re absolutely right. I wish you were in the audience to tell him this lol
This is such a reach, he loved that his daughter had a good relationship with his grandmother that's why she was helping him take care of his daughter, while he worked two jobs to provide and still made time to do things with his daughter. As stated in the episode he would take her out for father-daughter time, because he was trying to provide her with stability and love in hopes that she would not take the path that she did. But, she did anyway and he's not to be disappointed?
@@aldele32exactly these ppl sayin anything😂
@@aldele32parents are disappointed all the time, it doesn’t sound like he’s even talking about his own daughter. That’s a single mom in his eyes not his daughter
@@aldele32, not a reach, at all...he even said, "that's MY grandma," and he withheld her passing from his daughter...that was cruel. She was only 12, and he expected her to process that, ALONE, but needed her to be there for him.
She disappointed him; I get it, but how long is he gonna hold that over her head? He's disappointed her, too, but she was willing to get past all he'd done to her.
It's amazing how emotionally UNregulated adults expect children to be emotionally regulated and have all the answers when they haven't been taught.
I held my breath during this episode, it remind me of myself. Teen mom at 15 my dad felt the same way, embrassed and hurt because I was a daddy's girl. This family need so much mental health care and I hope that that get that. I Love the bravery of this young lady and I pray that God heal her heart and set both of them free.
People saying the dad should just forgive her and protect her, but at least he didn’t kick her out like other parents
This man is really delusional to think he has been this great father and that he doesn’t know how this happened???Wake up dude!You did not raise this child your grandmother did!!!
This is a great father he just wants the best for his daughter
@@blessingscampbell103shut up simp!
@@blessingscampbell103no. If he were his mother wouldn't have to raise her.
@@steakismynewnamenow8692 Are you saying he should have been a stay at home dad?
@@blessingscampbell103Thank you blessing. You are so 100 percent correct. A great father, all he wants is the best for his daughter.
People really need to stop thinking that if a father is in the home or in their children's life, that's gonna stop their children from saying & doing certain things . Everyone grew up seeing that no child obeys their parents 100% . Why do they act like they've forgotten that ? Sometimes your opinions are right, & sometimes your opinions are wrong . Children may obey certain things, but they won't obey everything & sometimes, they'll still sometimes say & do the those certain things off & on .
You are right, people get in their 30s & 40s & develop some kind of amnesia. I'm 45 & clearly remember what I & other kids my age were doing. Some of these people judging her, have done the same things.
They just got lucky & didn't get caught up.
@@anuncolonizedmind6296 right !!!
I was better off without a dad. My mom and I were doing good and I was happy she brought my step dad into my life and it was hell he broke our relationship and closeness and she allowed him to be in charge of my life which he abused. He abused me in multiple ways and as a 24 year old adult I have so much trauma and ptsd and my life has been majorly affected by him. I would’ve had a better chance at a normal life without him. My mom didn’t even listen to me and believed him over me and he is a registered SO.
@@reannavaladez3290 i'm so sorry you went through that . I really hope you can heal & not be bothered by it anymore . ❤️
@@veniagivenchy1532 thank you❤️, I’m in therapy and I started my healing journey last year. I realized there were some things that I downplayed that happened to me because I kept telling myself that others had it worse or that it wasn’t right of me to use certain words like molested because i was in denial of it. Accepting lots of things made me uncomfortable and were hard pills to swallow. Ever since I started therapy my nightmares have gone down so I’m noticing progress.
Sounds like he's upset he has to be a full time parent and parent.
i love love love how karamo knows exacly what to say and how to say it and gives the best advice !!!!
She needed him at her most vulnerable moment. I remember when I told my dad I was pregnant. I didn’t want to disappoint my father. I understand her
Foh she’s a child
@@treesnclips5845no kidding but my comment wasn’t about her being a kid
@@thepaulingfamily8187 a child wanna act grown until life smacks them in the face. You wanna be treated like a child then you should act like one. Once you have a kid you are thrusted into adulthood and shouldn’t be coddled because life doesn’t coddle
@@treesnclips5845 she's still a little girl regardless. Making poor decisions doesn't magically make her brain develop to the level of an adult.
And the funny part is she IS acting like a child. She did what children do and be immature and make bad choices.
@@treesnclips5845thats exactly what My mom told me , those exact words when I got pregnant at 14 .
I feel like we need to give the man the same grace we would if it was a single mother. Y’all in the comments just don’t see it. I commend the dad for trying his best.
I agree with you. They are just saying negative things about
“Dad” because Karamo makes him seem as the villain. People now days don’t have a brain for themselves they just on the bandwagon of the platform presented.
@@positivityleads2success Karamo always coddles the women even when a situation is 100% their fault. He refuse to scrutinize women, but chastise men when it’s even a remote chance it’s their fault. 😑😑
I agree. It’s natural to be disappointed about his daughter’s situation. To me , it sounds like the dad needs help. His mother probably dealt with the emotional/mental part of parenting so maybe that connection was lost as his daughter got older. Hopefully they can get into counseling and dad taps into his emotions. She needs him.
Single moms don’t get grace tho lol are you kidding me? They get dragged and dogged every second of the day online and irl. They get accused of being the reason why society is failing and fathers cant take care of their kids 😂 yall crazy . Look up any video of a single mom and you will see the comments going crazy on her
Word.....the dad tried his best
That man gets a bunch of boos and a bunch of tomatoes. Karamo is preaching, she’s pouring her heart and this man can’t comprehend none of it!!!!!!!!!!
You need to help me and my mom relationship. This really made me cry, I feel her pain and emotions.. I hope she find the peace and love she deserves ❤
All these grandparents raising kids is wild
Baby girl definitely has a bright future for her & her daughter 💯💯💯💯 I can tell by how she speaks and conduct herself!! Praying for the relationship to get better❤❤❤
Bright future???? Um she got pregnant @ 12 she's still rolling her eyes @ 17 with a 3yr old
@@Jenny-uv4dlThat’s because she is still a child. I believe with the right intervention, she can turn her life around.
What single parent future was bright after a child!? I’ll wait all day, bc stats and experiences says otherwise
@@andrejamal5438 The odds are stacked against single parent and teenage moms. Some recover with the correct intervention but the majority struggle through life and too often the cycle is repeated.
@@hazelboyce7230Let's pray she beats the odds blessings.
I was a teen mom and I can understand his disappointment, but the world is cruel enough.. we have to stand by our children even when they don’t make the best decisions.
He has the right to be embarrassed and disappointed, BUT he should have moved pass that and support her.
She needs you more than ever now.
Actually, she needs her child's father
@@krisrocka5790Bingo
@@krisrocka5790exactly
where is the baby daddy?
@@krisrocka5790 Did you not hear them saying she got pregnant at 14 and is now 17? Him and his family should help support the child he has with her but they're only responsible for the baby. They can't fix the issues between her and her father. She's still a teen even though she's a mom and her father still needs to be there emotionally for her.
Even if you were in the house with her almost 100% of the time, there’s no guarantee that she would not have gotten pregnant at 14. You can raise your children the best you can at some point they make decisions for themselves, and not always the best ones.
right!
Loooool she didnt use protection but she needs your protection 😂😂😂😂 took me out
They both will heal, but it takes time for the pain to subside. With prayers, love and respect, all things are possible. The first step is that both the father and daughter realize the pain. Thanks Karamo! God bless you for doing an excellent job.
This show is really about the mother not being there.
No it isn't they are there to repair their relationship.
Mom not being there is a separate show
@@mizzmention8555 I think the mother not being there is the root of her issues. But you are correct they came to resolve their issues.
They not gon Ill that dirty laundry
Nope, the present father is the blame. Yall really dislike accountability lol
@NaeL.614
Like y’all blame absentee fathers for single mothers having gang affiliated, criminal children, please stop. Y’all couldn’t wait to bash a present father for once because a lot of y’all also have a deep sided hatred for men. I have it too. It’s just the truth.
She looks just like her mom wow!
Yes she does
Wow I just said this outloud,at this part 9:29
Thank you. I wish they would have let me on the show and speak instead of leaving me backstage, because this story is all jacked up. I want to go back with all three of us on stage so that I could have spoken on my part in everything.
that man wasn't hearing anything karamo said and that's so sad
All this young lady, wants is love, and crying because she is hurting. I wish I could hug her and help her and her child. 😊❤
This child loves her daddy a whole lot. 7:29 there was so much passion in that answer and she literally his mini me
Dad and daughter are twinning frfr!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
He said a father’s love is conditional. WOW. He definitely needs help.
Being a young dad myself, it can be frustrating when you are trying to guide your children so they do not make the same mistakes you made as a young teen. However the more you push they pull away. Although stating that you are disappointed that she is a teen mom could cause trauma in the long run.
Look at the bright side you have a beautiful daughter, grand child and you be able to enjoy your grand child and spend quality time. Trust me your daughter is still young enough to make changes in her life to fulfil her potential. Keep talking positivity into her life so she can be a stable person. Anyway I am rooting for you guys, love and blessings.
I can understand the dad being embarrassed this is something to be embarrassed about .
People need to remember a person could have everything including both of there biological parents and still be unhappy.
It's not always about what you don't have, it's about how you view the world around you that decides if you make mistakes and end up a teen parent.
Very!
Can’t change what is done! Good for her for still going through with it
I was 19 when I got pregnant. I was TERRIFIED to tell my parents. Long story short both my parents were there for me until the day they left this world. Watching this just makes me appreciate my parents for being there even though I KNOW I had disappointed them. When it was time to deliver my baby. I ended up with an emergency c-section and my daddy was on my right side watching them operate and my mother on my left to comfort me. I am 51 years old now and the thought of the UNCONDITIONAL love they showered on me and my baby has me at work right now crying and thanking God for them. ♥
One thing I see is their communication sucks! They are talking at each other and not to each other
A LOT of people lack this skill/comprehension. It’s sad. He couldn’t even have a conversation with Karamo, Karamo asked him his thoughts on something Karamo just said and rather than engaging/responding began talking to his daughter. It was weird! Smh. I hope they learn better.
Everybody makes mistakes. God forgives us all.
God forgives not all do. Myself being one of them some things are unforgivable
Amen.
That’s not a mistake
He’s as just as he is forgiving
This is so overwhelming for both of them, what is she doing to rebuild her life and confidence. There are so many opportunities for young single mothers. I applaud the father for making sure they have a safe space. Where is the baby’s father and his family. Most of the time when a baby is in the picture the maternal family has the greater responsibility. Praying for healing and love to be rekindled.❤
I pray that the two of them work this out. This is a beautiful father and daughter relationship. He sincerely loves his daughter, once the best for her, but does need to realize we are human and not perfect so we will do things that are not right sometimes but that should never stop the love you feel for someone. I admire his love for his daughter, and I believe he will come around.I respect young ladies so much. She is very respectful and well spoken. I love how real she is. This family is definitely in my prayers for success.
Omg this was sad all around. I get where he is coming from but I also feel for the daughter. What killed me was when he said he thought it would be easier the older they get. Smh so it never gets easier? Whew I hope they heal from this and they can forgive each other.
And see this a man speaking truthfully. Logically we assume it gets easier
Facts shit gets different period!!
This is so heart breaking. Y’all will get through this. Praying for y’all healing. ❤🫶🏾
I see it all the time. When someone close to you dies, your whole personality changes and you start to act different. Happened when my great grandmother died. I became very distant and wanted to be alone in her room all day. I was like 11. As time passes, I see the same happening with cousins, uncles, sisters, friends, etc. If you don't work through it, it can make or break your life. People start doing things they would of never did to deal with the grief or hard times. Some people stay stuck, and others move pass. It seemed as if her '''acting out " was just her dealing with grief. With that being said I wish the best to everyone reading this and if you're going through something may you have the strength to get through it. Have a wonderful time on this Earth while you're here and may we all strive to be the best versions of ourselves.
When her mom spoke i couldn't control my emotional but 😢😢😢may God help us all to heal so that we can have better family's
Young people die at a young age and he needs to realize that once your child is gone that's it. When his daughter grows up she will resent both her mother and father, they wonder why their kids don't visit them or take care of them when they get old smh
Doesn’t matter she shouldn’t be opening her legs to a little boy and getting pregnant
Word, that's on periodt. Ilove your vids Karamo, you slay it x
I watched all his shows this the only one where my emotions had me holding back tears and I’m STRONG
In dad’s defense.. it’s stuff that dads can’t teach and communicate with their daughters, The mother needs to be there as well and teach their daughter womanly responsibilities that he can’t communicate with her, so let’s not put the bag and responsibility all on him, he’s doing the best he can .. The mother has failed her more.
I am actually in her life more than anyone who watches this episode thinks. We both failed her in some way, but me being totally absent is not the case. I was backstage for the entire show. I was with my daughter, supported her, and her father while yhis was being taped. Also, all at the expense of America thinking I am a deadbeat mother when I am not. I expressed this to the producer how you all were going to view me, but I went along with the show because I do want them to have a better relationship.
I just love Karamo and how he is so straight and no sugarcoating just honest and respectful. It amazes me how many parents are woe is me open your minds and hearts people.
There is full potential in growth and healing for both of them. Parents sometimes do express and go through shame when expectations are ruptured as well as children. Grace, understanding, and patience for both of them 💪🏿🙏🏾 ❤️💯 as they receive therapy and parental classes to help them on this life lessons and journey.
As a young Mom who has been thru it and had a teen daughter have a baby as well..
We need those coping mechanisms to help us thru when we come across trials & tribulations in our lives.
We need anger management skills help us as well.
Well when you try to be your child friend instead of parent things like this tend to happen. No boundaries are set and the child is free to run wild.
It’s important to be patient and listen to your child/daughter ❤and it’s important that she be open and honest with her father I’m rooting for them family is Everything ❤
The father is CLEARLY inconsiderate of how his daughter feels. She’s still mourning the loss of her grandmother, who was obviously her main caregiver. Blaming your child for needing the love and support of her father is crazy. Emotionally unavailable people need to stop and think if they have the capability to care for another human. Her parents failed her, unfortunately. But I have hope for Jamyah that she can break the cycle and heal from her trauma.
He needs a hug, he give me I missed out on life vibes and that’s why he is so disappointed
You forgave her? Focus on what you did wrong as a parent before you start thinking about forgiving your child.
Exactly
Did you also get pregnant at 14 cause you giving bitter😂😂😂😂
@@learnuncensored I'm a guy.
Could there someone hurt u 😂😅...
@@nick_fury6120 What is your point?
i’m sorry, but that he said “your daughter didn’t use protection, but she still needs your protection” Was mad cringe 😭😭 Karamo usually hits it with his little phrases but that one was wild
And it's so true though. If he would've been honest with her she wouldn't be out doing all this fuxkery. Like he is wanting a 12 yr old at the time to console or be there for him. Understandable his mom passed away, but his kid didn't pass away. He passed her along.
😭😭😭
Be proud of the young lady she’s becoming stop hurting her
Never let your ego stop you from loving your child properly.
You can guide your children, and instill your values in them,but at the end of the day they are individuals who choose their own path.Sometimes their decision making is bad until their brains are fully developed at around 25 years! I look back on some of the things I did " trying to be cool," and I'm appalled at my thinking, or not thinking! 🤦♀️
Absolutely, the frontal cortex isn’t developed til 25 and can be even later. That is the primary part of the brain that controls; impulses, judgement, reasoning & maturity. However, women are more emotionally mature & inherently nurturing. Being that her mother was absent I worry about her parenting. She will need her father more than ever. I believe both of them will benefit greatly from counseling individually & then together. This young girl has a lot of maturing to do and unfortunately, she has chosen to speed up into adulthood and now has a child to raise & will hopefully realize parenthood is hardly simple and good parents always feel we could do more.
@@user-og8sd9iv6o Absolutely! 💯
He’s stuck on the “having a father in your life” idea. It goes to show it’s deeper than that.
It's almost as if he was silently emotionally dependent on her while she was emotionally neglected from him. I hope they both heal and also heal their relationship, Black fathers are so important and we need you ❤
The glasses missing an arm. I know the struggle
Better get some medicad lol.
I hear a man truly was tryn his best I dnt think he want perfection he thought he truly raised her right which he did she made a mistake in her life but to just put him down I dnt agree sometimes we have to remember some men dnt understand things like is mothers but I pray for healing for the both of them ❤❤❤
Right I know my dad is doing his best and I did make mistakes.