I Married A Prisoner - Over The Phone | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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AFTER ONE YEAR of writing to each other via a prison pen pal service, Bleu and Jay decided to tie the knot. The pair were first introduced by Bleu's friend, who had been writing to another inmate living in the same pod as Jay. At first, Bleu was skeptical. "I didn't grow up as a little girl and be like, Oh, I want to be with an inmate. Like, that sounds so cool," Bleu said. "So when they introduced us, I was not for it. And we ended up falling in love." After getting married in secret, Bleu gave her parents the news over the phone - and it didn't go down well. "My biggest regret when getting married was the fact that my parents weren't there," Bleu added. "I told them over the phone because I was scared of looking them in the eye and seeing the disappointment in my dad's face." Now the couple are planning and dreaming about their future together in the hope of Jay getting released once he's eligible for parole - in four years' time. Bleu's decision to stay with Jay has been met with a lot of criticism, from close family to strangers online. Bleu said: "Yes, I know my relationship is a little unconventional, considering where my husband is. I know where the stereotypes that come in with it lie. But ultimately, I love him genuinely, and I know he loves me just as much, if not more."
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This is why you need to shower your young girls with love and empower them from a young age. She's looking for love in all the wrong places.
well said
she in a DELUSION, but she had a Cheater- Absent or Indifferent father!!!
@@carolnahigian9518not necessarily
Her mother saying "Well at least I didn't have to go to prison to find someone to love me" to her tells me everything about how well she was "loved" growing up. Smh.
Some women like those kind of men.
“We don’t argue in public”
Lol.
She’s delusional for real they never been together in public what arguing he’s in jail OMG this is BS to funny AF
Literally came looking for this comment😂
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You can argue with someone when they're in prison and in public. Because the other person can call when you're out in public, and make you mad and you yell at them. Not much different from when they're home though, either
This woman needs to love herself.
Absolutely! She hates herself. She settled because she think she will not be loved.
I agree. She makes me so sad
she loves herself .. shut up
@@thinline8504lol
I married a man in prison. I stood by him many years. When he got home… you guessed it.
Damn. At least you know better next time.
Sorry 😢
Yall need to be smarter.
Don't be desperate . Get some confidence and get out on the dating scene.
@@notsureiL 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Shame on him, wasting her time wasting her live for own entertainment while he is in prison, he will divorce her as soon as he will be freed.
I agree could date somelse not in jail a lot better guys out there.
Why do you think he'll divorce her?
Shame on her she’s a whole assss grown woman she’s not stupid she felt the need to find a man locked up instead of a man that’s not
No one forced her to date him so if he does that her own problem
This reeks of desperation it's pathetic. Yall know he's using her
I went to hs with her shes so sweet and funny i hope this guy is genuine and doesn’t hurt her her family truly loves and support her i pray its all genuine
lol both you and I know this is probably not genuine at all......
She will have to prove it eventually.
@@yudellezion9615 she won't have to prove it, tf? HE will.
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@@max-ub4vt😂😂😂😂
@@yudellezion9615she doesn't need to prove anything at all why in the world are you saying she should prove herself to him when she clearly doesn't need to do it thats saying that someone to prove themselves worthy of stuff or prove they are better than others in general that's ridiculous i don't know where you got that from but that was truly pathetic she doesn't need to prove herself to that man i mean why does it matter to you, its her life and choice that's really ridiculous how you're saying she should prove herself to that man when clearly doesn't need to do it I'm seriously betting that you don't know what you're talking about saying she should prove herself, that is not happening at all she makes her own decisions and choices she doesn't have to prove herself to anyone at all that's literally saying that self absorbed and self centered people who think they are better than others when that's a load of nonsense
for nosy people, johnathan booker, robbery and murder
@bambi9703 was nosy necessary though 😂
@@RawadAl-Haddad-su9qq yes and it’s not an insult…i’m nosy as hell too🤣🤣
@bambi9703 I’m not nosy 🧐 but since you gave out the information let me just double check to make sure your information is correct 👀😬
Thanks for the tea fellow nosy😂
So she married a murderer, she need a therapist
“He’s a great guy”. He’s in for MURDER! WTF
He is?
Yep, great guy
no he isn’t…
@@NenaaMoneYes he is
@@Daydreamer1110-wi1uvMhm, Murder and Robbery.
Did she say she’s proud of him and everything he has done ?? Guuurrrl what now ?😭
Also she said “we don’t argue in public” ? My diyeee there’s no public for you to argue in 😭😭
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you have never obviously been in a prison visiting room, ive seen some bad fights in there.
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The thumbnail threw me off I really thought he was shaped like that lol
Lmfaoooo omg right u never know on this channel lmao 😆😆😆😆
She doesn’t get the criticism because of her weight; it’s because statics show that the man will leave her once he’s free, free (no matter the size).
Exactly!
This is what I was sayingggg!
statistics
"Other, skinnier prison wives" were probably with their men before they went inside. These two talk about "knowing each other so well" BUT they haven't got a clue! She is very naive and I'd imagine she hasn't had much love before.
Either that or he’s already getting love from the homies
*The toughest lie is the ones we tell ourselves.*
She has a really pretty soothing voice
First shame on her mom for saying something so terrible to her own child, second as someone who has been had a relationship with someone in prison AND been someone in prison I can promise you this won't last when they're both free.
Huh? What did she say?
@@Jojo-sx5ec 2:48
She told her daughter “ at least I didn’t have to go to prison to find somebody to love me “
Why do you think it won't last?
Agreed. Wouldn’t be surprised if the mom is a narcissist like my mom. She says bullying crap like that to me all the time. Hearing “who would want to marry you anyways” come from your moms mouth, the person who is supposed to love and support you, is some demeaning and hurtful shit; I can tell you that.
Like, Yes her decision to get involved with a prisoner is not a good one, but getting belittled by your own mother does zero to help the situation.
She is having her fairytale, and it's making her happy. Nothing they plan to do together when he gets out will actually happen, but it's probably nice to live the fantasy. He is also giving her confidence, which can help her when she eventually meets the man who will be her real s/o. If she wants children, she hopefully won't wait too long to find her real s/o.
Not if he breaks her heart, if anything it could end up really damaging her, not to mention she has no idea if he is still dangerous and violent.
She should get in shape before he gets home
@sanijahmccrimmon9652 even now, she is still wayyyyyy too good for him. The only weight she needs to lose is him.
@@kivrinengle what's her ig
Nope, her confidence will definitely drop if he leaves her. That’s how it happens. The ideas of not being or looking good enough corrupt the mind.
If he truly loved her, he would let her go.
very few people love like that
I will confidently judge this one. 🤪
Her self esteem is so shot shes literally ruining her own life and "settling". Her mom is 100% right. If she feels this is all she deserves thats all shes gonna get.
She needs therapy for herself.
Settling? Honestly they are probably on the same level. Sorry life is life.
“My best friend”
“It takes a strong person”
It takes a lonely person I think but each to their own.
He got her a ring?? NO...SHE got herself a ring!! She is taking care of him putting money on his books for the phone & commissary....he probably has all these other side chicks he's talking to telling them the same shit that he is saying to her.....When he is released this chick is a goner!! Sad... she seems like a nice lady but unfortunately so naive & foolish..... she is putting her life on hold.... she'll learn the hard way I guess....
It’s possible for someone incarcerated to buy his girl/wife things there are ways to make it happen
Know her , he has a job behind those walls . But you speaking as if you know her and him personally is wild . It also kills me how ppl are quit to judge ppl who are with someone incarcerated , but y’all out here being played by men who are a free . What’s the difference? Atleast she knows where her man is at all times , where is yours
@@GigiDaFoodie LOL sweetheart I'm blessed...u ask about my man....my man and I own our OWN business....he's my best friend....my business partner....the father of our 5 beautiful children....I have absolutely no worries about what my man does or where he goes sweetie ....sorry that ur life is so heartbreaking and love less.....but I'm sure that u can become penpals with an inmate and find love if ur that desperate or hopeless......but good luck & best wishes to u!!!😘
@@GigiDaFoodie 😂 yo a whole clown 🤡 wicha desperate as! You definitely a pick me😂..
@@helenawarsinnak exactly 💯.
This poor girl is looking for someone to love her so bad that she was manipulated by him. He is a piece of trash for doing this to her. I hope she figures out sooner than later that she is wasting her time n money.
She a grown woman there are more men outside of prison than inside but she chose inside because she knows he also has less choices because he inside jail deep down she knows the truth
I agree with u 💯 on that. Did you notice when he picked up the phone, and she said hi, my love, my husband, and all he can say is hi beautiful. Bc that's how he hooked her and that is why she is with him bc as she said she's a big girl and probably don't get to hear that often from no one. 😢it's just depressing the whole thing 😢
Yeah but it's about survival for him unfortunately as selfish as it maybe he's in there for a long time and doesn't want to do it alone so he's using this young Lady.
@@jessiet6534 oh exactly. And I wouldn't be shocked if he was stringing several other women along also. He has nothing better to do n nothing to lose.
….he’s in PRISON…. how can he do ANYTHING to her……women NEVER take ACCOUNTABILITY for their OWN actions, now it’s “he manipulated her”, YEAH RIGHT!!!!! She WANTS and CRAVE DRAMA, because it’s “exciting” and “adventurous” to her…….birds of a feather FLOCK TOGETHER…. she went to a dam prison for companionship (as if nobody was walking around free on the outside) News flash: there are MORE men outside the prison than there are on the inside of prison…….she KNEW DAM WELL what she was doing and what to EXPECT…… wasn’t no so called “manipulation “. She’s chaotic herself, she just need a man to pin it all on
"Love don't judge, but I WILL!"
I have a homegirl who dated a guy who was in jail for 7 years BUT! When he got locked up she told him, I ain’t holding nobody down plus they were only just getting to know each other. He agreed and said yes definitely go and live your life. When he got out, he came and found her and they are LITERALLY living happily ever after as we speak. I knew he was a stand up dude when he expressed the unfairness in her waiting for him and how this was his poor decision and burden to bear. They are the cutest couple ever and he came straight home and got on his grind. This is the ONLY circumstance in which I felt a prison relationship worked out because he CHOSE her when his options were limited and when he had all the options in the world and because while he was in prison there was no relationship 🤣. But much love to this young lady. ❤ I hope it works out for her. 😬
A real man wouldn’t have risked going to prison in the first place. Because 7 years is not a first time offense.
@@xygenzy I agree hun but the conversation is about men or partners in this circumstance. Given the circumstance, this is an ideal way for things to possibly work out.
Hope he doesn't hurt her 😢.
Does she have an email? I'm starting a positive movement on topics like this soon and would love to interview them. My boyfriend is currently incarcerated as well.
@@user-dx4cc8sn1e That would be interesting for sure. I’ll def pass the word on and see if she will consent to passing along her info.
She’s blaming being a “big girl” is why she’s getting the negative responses… no, you met him over the phone while he was in prison. That’s a huge difference between having a man that goes to prison. I agree with her mom, what’s the rush? You guys love each other then want till he gets out. See how he behaves when he is released. The other crazy part is he’s only done 11yrs of his 30yr sentence and they are hoping he gets released in 4 years… LAWD…. Being a “big girl” isn’t the reason for every negative thing in life.
What a sweet & soothing voice she has 💕🤗
Right ❤
Truly and she is so cutsie & feminine… such a lady 😊
Ikr
Facts I love her voice
It’s the JB pillow for me! 😂 I like how she rests her phone on it when they speak! ❤
I thought I was seeing things 😅😂
Argue in public? How y’all do that when he behind bars ?
XD
Obviously she meant when she goes to visit him...🫤
who drinks sprite in a mug lol
😂😂😂😂😊
Drinking it like a cup of coffee😂😂
Lmfaooooooooo I was looking for this comment
Mixed girls with white moms and black fathers that were into anime and being white when they were younger 😂😊
No more mcdonalds cup lol.
She is such a pretty girl. I pray she wakes up and go live her life instead of wasting her time taking collect calls.
When a man say “you’re beautiful, I don’t care what size you are” he’s LYING
Like when a woman says that to a man?
@showrunner2183 WHY'D YOU SAY THAT??? HIP ME TO THE GAME PLEASE!! 😅😂
Of course he is I am betting any money he has a dozen alterior motives.
This is what happens when your self-esteem is crushed. You will accept anything and jump at any opportunity, no matter how terrible it is. This guy "loves" you and thinks you're "beautiful". Of course he does. What options does he have? With the prison mentality, of course he's going to say all the right things and jump at any opportunity. It's not like he has options and you were the best one. He has NO options, and you are the ONLY one. So, yea, he's in "love" with you. I'd like to see him keep this same energy when he gets back on his feet AFTER getting out and I'd like to see your reaction when he doesn't.
They need to be on love after lockup
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Yep😂
I was bout to comment that 😂
A Love during lockup is needed
Not the pillow😂
Well, at least she is standing ten toes down in her decision. She seems like the type that almost prefers to be in the relationship while they're in jail instead of free. There's a feeling you get from the fairytale and imagination of "When he comes home" versus the reality of he actually had 20 other girls (and probably some guys) he was finessing the whole time and his real ride or die is who he's going with when he gets out.
I kind of understand the allure after watching this. She probably feels like she has someone without having to live with him and have him all up in her business.
@@MaryJenkinsallamericanmary:-He'll do what most Jailbird do what they get out, get his rocks off, raid her bank account and disappear like a wisp of smoke in the wind.
@@TwiceStruckyep
She wants to be needed. If she was ten toes down it wouldn’t hurt her what her mother said.
This isn’t love this is lack of options in her opinion.
She knows if she lost weight she’d have more options and she thinks he’s gonna be grateful when he gets out …
I watched my sister fall into this trap. Her daughter's dad went to prison, showered her with affection and made every promise under the sun. Came home, was sleeping around with two different women within a month. It's prison talk, nothing more.
This is so embarrassing.
That girl is so sweet and really cool. Man I've seen Love After Lockup too many times to have hope for this though. She seems amazing though, I hope wherever she ends up, she's happy.
Why did she pour Sprite in coffee mugs? It’s like they are chatting over coffee or tea but it’s fucking Sprite in their mugs 🤦🏻♀️😂
I said the same thing I guess she ran out of regular cups 😂😂
OMG I was wondering the same thing. like are those the only cups you have.
Mugs are still drinking utensils. I could see is she was drinking out of her hand.
The cut out got me weakkk😂
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This is one of those rare times I agree with the parents. He is bored as heck in jail and will probably start scamming her for money. 😂😂
People just loovvveee the label of husband without the real husband part.
Say that!
Those calls are expensive also never trust a man that says " Hello Beautiful " its all game.
@@SunShine-vo9uy lol never thought of that, I just can't stand it...
That's the line that Nigerians use...
Here in Canada there's no way a 17 year old would go to prison for thirty years unless they massacred a bunch of people. No wonder the US prison system is overrun
You can still get 30 years + for marijuana in certain states, someone is serving 245 years for three ounces of marijuana I believe
We have a for profit prison system that relies on prisoners stay prisoners and some judges have lost their jobs because they were giving super harsh sentences to people because they were paid by the companies running these prisons.
@@johnnaoates9898 yup. I think Kansas, maybe, anything over a gram under an ounce is intent to distribute and minimum ten year sentence, starting.
I think I see a german documentary, the inmates tell the tv team, they work for the goverment and don't get payed. In Texas the Chain gang.
US sentences are absolutely ridiculous
IF she doesn’t send him any money, then it might be real. But a guy in prison will say anything especially to a vulnerable woman like her. It’s so sad. Bring a big girl myself and my man having been in prison at one point, I know he’s probably using her and it’s just sad.
Omg and he had her dominated already, where she can’t talk about their relationship issues or arguments with anyone else. That’s straight up controlling behavior.
True and she thinks it’s romantic/sexy he’s that way but really it’s controlling and mischievous. You know there’s way more to the story since her mama is upset about it.
I could see both sides like if it’s a petty argument/ fight the whole world doesn’t need to know but if it’s something abusive then yea tell someone
All I know he probably running that game on her I ready know he's talking to different women i wouldn't be surprised.
He just trying to survive in there by using women
Me and my wife have been watching true crime reality shows for decades now, and we have also seen many of the same types of shows based in and around prisons. These types of stories playout the same way each and every time, and the prisoner is only invested so long as his options are limited. It's always sad that these women see themselves as such low alternatives, that this seems the only way to find love. I can't say it's wrong, as both sides seem to get something from the other, but I have yet to see one of these relationships last in any meaningful way. All I can do is wish them well, and hope they will be the one exception to these rules.
True. I worked with half way house guys that have had both prison and jail time.
They said guys who are in prison for a couple of years find girls to pass the time and they can get some stuff sent to them and keep their bank accounts full so they can buy stuff. They don't do it for love unfortunately
What are your favourite true crime shows? I’d love some recommendations, it’s my fav genre
@@aniafish The First 48 hrs, The Forensic Files, Detective Joe Kenda, Trace Evidence: The Case Files of Dr. Henry Lee, 20/20, To Catch A Predator, Etc. The prison shows I haven't watched regularly in years, but normally you'll get recommendations based on watching some of the shows I've listed.
@@gigglingchicken8444 and what about the ones that were with someone before they went to prison? For several years? Are those guys using the gf/wife after they get out? Or do they just miss her and their family?
@dixieshelton6804 depends. They met guys that had a small picture of their girl and kids and tried hard to stay on good behavior to get back to them as soon as possible. They heard controlling guys say their girl was cheating on him and he is going to beat the crap out of her and the cheater when he gets out, and others who don't give a crap about their girl except if they will give them money for commissary.
I just know if they met someone in prison it was most likely they were using the person for money and bragging status how they were using them.
This is just what they told me about prison life and the guys that usually inhabit it. They have each been to different prisons. One guy was in prison in a few different states and spent around 12 years in jail or prison. The other guy was only in jail 1 year and prison 3. They were both offered the halfway house and the guy who spent more time in prison was sent back while I was working with him because he was caught selling drugs.
The pillow 😂😂😂
He would get with anybody he hasn’t been with a woman in years. Come on now do the math.
He's telling her exactly what she wants to hear
I can tell you from someone who had their husband and father of their then 2 yr old child go to prison for 3 years that being a prison wife is WAY HARDER when you actually had a relationship and life with that person (and a kid) opposed to meeting them while they were in prison and living a fantasy life. And it’s way different when they come home too.
It is way harder. Especially the adjustment part and hoping they'll be ok and not mess up. I absolutely feel you
My ex who went to prison came back out and was murdered in a drug deal gone bad ten years later. He did 3 years.
How different
The question I have is why is he behind the glass and not in regular contact visitation setting.
If you're behind the glass it's either COVID, maximum prison, or due to bad behavior (the hole).
She is cute as a button. Loving her style!
She seems really sweet. And cool.
My cousin is a felon chaser. Every dude she has ever been with was doing time and on parole. She joined the last couple of exes in crime and is in that cycle. Half of them dudes were gay for the stay but she was during her last prison bid too.
Not a felon chaser…😂😂😂
@@mdgraves02😭😭😭 That was cold blooded, wasn't it? I read it and said, "well damn!" Lmao! 🤣
I once dated a guy who had been to prison, because he had a long history of opiate addiction. I didn't know anything about addiction so I really believed him when he said he had changed his life. Ironically, he was the nicest guy I ever dated. We broke up because he relapsed.
We don’t argue in public but we agreed in private she needs help and her mind she really think his out of jail 😂
She’s slow
he will get out of Jail in 2028 that's what she says decision-making at the time of 2028 if he will be out of jail or not then they have to figure it out
@@MoniqueGalloway-4917 In 2028 he’ll be outta jail…And out of her life. He’ll get his fix, then he’ll be on his way. All that’ll be left is the damn pillow
@@paisleyprincess7996 that what you think why can't be happy
@@paisleyprincess7996 Why do you believe that he going to leave Bleu Maybe her friend was talking to him Bleu in the Background hearing her voice watching the video then her friend them she didn't want it for the person in Jail exchanged numbers ever things just happened and genuine love her I don't think that he doesn't love Bleu there is someone black man do like a big woman has weight loss journey he accepted her not her body love her for who she is man can do that love you for who you are.
How do we maintain our relationship so well.
Me thinking: cause your not in front of him
Would love a follow up on this couple after his release 😊😊🤞🏾🤞🏾
If this is how she wants to live her life, people just need to let her be regardless of how people feel.
It’s her life end of story, the wife seems like she’s got her head screwed on right anyway, so I don’t think she jumped into this lightly.
I just hope everything works out for them, especially by the time he gets released.
Yea let her be stupid and waste her time and money on him
Ya ok 😂😂😂😂
Too many problems in life to care about strangers business
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I agree. Some people never experience love or acceptance. If it lasts, great. If not, at least she knows how it feels to feel love ❤
Laaaaaawwwwd have meeeerrrrrrsaaaaayyyy!!!
She’s very beautiful. I love her personality but pray for her because these men behind bars can sweet talk like a mofo. I’m with mom on this.
Lol. I wish mine would sweet talk to me like that! Lol. He can't flirt to save his life 😂
This girl got a whole pillow of him on her bed like what??😂
So I'm assuming they played the song mama. I'm in love with a criminal on their wedding day.😂😂😂😂😂
Tbh I'm happy for her, she looks so ecstatic talking about him. If they're happy, then eff it, more power to them 👏🏾
Relationships can only go so far without living together and really merging lives. This is just a fantasy, but time is ticking by & you can’t ever get it back.
so true. I was in a long distance relationship with this guy in England and it was a dream, everything was perfect...until we met 😅 bubble. burst.
Not her asking what his plans are with her when he gets out as if he coming home soon 😂😂😂😂 it’s only a POSSIBILITY that he’s granted parole, and even that is a bit down the line. This is crazy 🤦🏽♀️
This is probably her first time feeling loved by a man, let her enjoy this shit, regardless if it’s real or not y’all. Her life her choice.
Would you say that to your Aunty, your cousin, your Mum, your sister, or even your daughter, let alone yourself?!
Lmfao, look how many people liked your BS! Unaccountable unaccountability! Lmfao! Those who don't hear, FEEL! LMFAO, SMFH, KMT!
@@TobiasAliasoop
people dont want to see her hurt
In prison for murder 💯 great guy my @SS 😩
There was a couple similar to this , which was featured in this channel. Unfortunately he cheated on her , and now they are separated
I can tell be his tone of voice and what he said that he is using her. He’s saying what she wants to hear. He doesn’t have any real plans in life for himself and definitely doesn’t have plans with her, but to temporary live with her then dump her. That’s if he gets out of jail.
No way I’m taking anyone in jail serious 😂
Came for the comments 👀 😫
That pillow😂
😂😂😂😂😂
I love her ! I found her on tik tok originally because of her amazing weight loss journey then I found about her being married to an inmate and had to follow her ! She seems so sweet and she’s so pretty and her voice is so cute. I saw her on Snapchat this morning and almost screamed. I’m so happy for her. I don’t know why people are putting all these false assumptions in her head. Have there been people in unfortunate situations like hers? Yes , but y’all don’t know her husband’s heart. We all make mistakes. You don’t know what kind of people he could’ve met or what kind of experiences he could have had in the last 11 years while being locked up. So how could yall sit and judge that he has the worst intentions and is just using her when you don’t know what going on in her husbands head or heart. He could be over the moon for her , and it sounds like he is! For y’all to say such rude things based on OTHER PEOPLES experiences is so ignorant. Not to mention not helpful at all . Half of y’all marriages don’t work out with y’all s/o that are free and they still be dogging tf out you so what’s y’all’s excuse?? 😂Just let her be happy. That comment she made about bigger Women being seen as delusional and desperate for falling in love with inmates was spot on. She is GORGEOUS but The comments would be way different if she was skinny because of the fucked up society we live in . Proud of her for being this brave and sharing her story knowing what kind of comments and backlash she would receive. I wish the very best for you and your husband. Keep doing you gorgeous ❤️
Her voice is what got me too! Lol she seems genuine and down to earth!
Beautifully said! ❤️ This show is called Love DON'T Judge for a reason lol. It's supposed to make us think, to take a step back, be more open-minded and accepting of other people's differences to our own, whether it's sexual preferences, gender identity, different lifestyles, etc. However, some people (lol ok prob most people, let's be honest), will always be judgy. I loved this episode, and I agree that this lady is very brave, sweet, genuine, down-to-earth, and I hope she and her hubby have a long, happy, healthy life together! 🙏🫶❤️
What is her tik tok ?
lol we live in the real world we all know he’s using her for her money and to make sure he’s good when he gets out and then normally they’ll cheat and then leave them
She’s being used 😂😂😂 he’s not getting out she’s insecure that’s why she found love in a prison
She can take it from a girl who was just friends with a guy in prison. He called me when he was in prison but as soon as he got out the calls stopped and now he don't even message me on fb. N again we were JUST FRIENDS so imagine what that man is going to do when he gets out. Smh 😂😅
She’s cute and genuine i hope he’s for real with her
Feel sorry for her.She is so nice,gentle, so trustworthy.This guy have nothing to do in her life.One day he will go out but he don't know how to live real life.Wish her the best and to meet soleone in reality.
I hope he stands by her when he gets out, because she is putting her whole life on hold for this guy. She must truly love him I think.
She is beautiful and deserves better really ❤
Once she said "as a bigger woman" I knew she was delusional.
I guess its easier for her to have a part time relationship where you don't argue about bills, employment, keeping the house clean and dealing with someone's moods on a daily basis. She never has to worry about where he is and who he is with. The rules they created are great and im sure they are working fine because they don't have a day in day out relationship, they never go to bed mad? Cute, but real relationships are not always easy. Hes got it made, shes supporting him and has a guaranteed place to go if hes released. He was actually charged with murder so i doubt he goes in front of the parole board anytime soon. This says alot about how she feels about herself. No confident secure woman would settle for a wedding over the phone and waiting for his parole to begin her life.
She sounds smart, in touch with reality, reasonable, and understands the situation.
Best of luck to them both.
Is that dry humor? Because if so, that was really funny.
@@ilovecairo nope. I thought she was nuts in the beginning.
Then I just listened to her reason for all of this. And in her situation, she sounded reasonable.
@@JohnDoe-zz7on I see where ur coming from
He's a murderer
I am really hoping his feelings for her are real and it turns out well.
The cover to the video is killing me 💀
I’ve seen this too many times. he’s using her to have somewhere to sleep and financial support when he gets out. It’s sad bc she truly believes he cares about her😢some ppl are so gullible
I’m married to an inmate too. You gotta not listen to haters. It is what it is. I’m not desperate or under deluded thoughts . There is a chance it may fail. It’s not romantic it’s a hard life. If we divorce I will never deal with anyone in prison again.
I'm also dealing with a man in prison & we've been together for 5years..said to say that I met him in prison & im not the stactics that they say about women that are dealing with men in prison
@@blackbeauty7125 i know i see so much drama in other relationships but not in mine. I know a few others who have stable relationships in there too.
Same shit I said! I'm dating one too
People always think its low self-esteem. I'm good looking, own a house have a good career. I'm solid in myself. I just happen to fall in love with someone in prison, a human being. not what i planned but here we are. life is weird. Better than my 19 year previous marriage. I love his family, great people. his parents are still married, he has always been close to his family. sometimes people in prison are just that, people.
@rachelvaughn60 I can relate to u on this because my man is also in prison & I am a well put together woman. Society has put a stigma on women that fall in love with guys in prison & it's not true. How long does your man has?
If she's happy, let her be. She'll learn her own lesson or maybe she'll be the exception. I'm happy for them.
I’m so glad it’s people left in this world like us
When his other girl see this and when they bump into each other at the prison😂😂😂😂
I am not trying to be mean, but i wish she'd focus on taking care of her health and wellness versus being married to a prison bird who is probably wasting her valuable time.
Aside from all the negatives, she's actually so adorable to me. She gives such feminine energy; her voice, her cute face/smile & mannerisms ❤ But like a lot of us, she just has some deep internal issues to work on because she does deserve something good.
I came here to say this! She is absolutely adorable!! And seems like such a genuine sweetheart. Sending positive wishes her way. And I hope she finds all the love that she’s been loving for, whether it’s with this man or another man ❤️❤️
If she lost weight and got surgery to tighten up the loose skin she could get anyone she wanted. Her personality and sweet face is lovely
Her mom being so nasty to her - explains why she’s looking for love in a PRISON! She seems very kind , I hope she doesn’t get hurt. ❤
y’all know people in prison move more money than people that out.
Hell yeah
How?
And she living like that homie not moving no money
@@Kung_fu_doctor_87 she living normal they all normal live normal
Im pretty sure she's his sugar momma. Once he's released, he'll forget about her, which is the sad truth. She's desperate for some guy to want her, that she's agreed to marry an inmate whose using her. My brother in law did this with some girl. I told her to leave him, but she was "in love" and allowed herself to be used. 🤷♀️
And he probably talking to other women too
I hope she's the exception to the rule but some people can ONLY learn through experience ....wishing her well
He will accept anything even the way you look as long as he is IN prison....
She better use that time to hit the gym lol best believe he gon be looking when he get out dude been in there since he was 17
Poor girl, she seems like a real Sweetheart.
I used to watch Love After Lockup. The problem is the inmates tend to shower the other person with constant attention, the kind of thing they don't get from a regular relationship with someone who has a whole life - loads of calls, letters, cards, compliments, promises. It rarely works once they're released although I think one or two of the stories did.
Yeah and they have something in prison that we dont... Time. Majority are manipulative masterminds . Friendship is one thing but marriage yikes
Dudes literally be in there trying to find women to fall in love with them so they put money on the books. I swear prisoners have better dating lives than free people sometimes 😂
That Jonathan pillow tho
She has a really nice voice.
God bless you, Bleu! You have such a sweet spirit. ❤
He is gone when he gets out. 😂😂
Wtf she has him on her pillow and she bought her own engagement ring. He looks dusty.
Yep! He dusty all right