We're Not 'Gang Rivals' - We're Lovers | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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TRINO and Adam have been together for 18 years, but the couple have endured backlash throughout their relationship. Both proud Mexican-Americans, the men's Chicano culture means that not everyone approved of their love. Speaking to truly about their culture, Trino explained: "The gay man, it's an embarrassment to the family," and Adam added: "Someone said they'd rather be a drug addict than gay. It's the bottom of the barrel for some people." Growing up in Los Angeles' gang neighbourhoods, the pair's dress sense has been heavily influenced by their upbringing. Adam said: "Sometimes people will say, 'It's ok to be gay, but just dress like you're gay,'... How do you dress like you're gay?" Agreeing, Trino added: "People want us to be a certain way, they just can't understand that gay guys come from the hood!" In this episode of Love Don't Judge, Trino and Adam will have an honest conversation with Trina's sister, Brenda, about her initial concerns of the relationship. We'll also meet the couple's daughter, Natalie, who opens up on how people reacted to her having two dads. Reflecting on their relationship judgement, Adam said: "People see us and they think a certain way, but you know what, for us, we really give our heart."
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Videographer: Ben Fredman
Producers: Kathryn Lewsey, Kate Moore, Amy Nicholson & Yasmin Walker
Editor: Jonny Poole
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This is the epitome of,
“Whatcha looking at foo?”
“Looking at your eyes homie”
😂
Yo.ooo shit ☠️💀☠️
💀
😂😂😂😂😂 You foo
😂
“They were homies. They were homie-sexuals!”
- Pablo Francisco
I love Pablo Francisco 😂
Why would they think they are gang rivals and not just gang members?
They meant both. No biggie.
Always got to add thay lil xtra
lol right. I’m two minutes in and still waiting for clarity on that. The fact that they used it in the title clearly show that they wanted to put an emphasis on that
Same idea...they meant that ppl assume they're in a gang bc of their chiano look unfortunately
Lol
It's refreshing to see both men retain their male energy.
They both seem like, really nice people.
True. The flamboyant ones can be annoying 😑
Exactlyyyyy!!!
Lmao a lot of gay dudes are masculine, you likely pass by or interact with plenty without knowing. People think feminine gay guys are the majority sense those types are the only ones that you really know are gay.
Like if you walk by ten gay people and only three say or display that they're gay you'll base your stereotypes on them.
That’s most of them but the effeminate ones dominate the scene
Just like Adam Sandler says in Big Daddy. "Who cares if they are gay. There the same people. They just watch a different porn than I do." ❤😂
I member now 😅😂😂
😂🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Not necessarily. I watch straight porn when I'm high
Now I'm watch that movie
@@456loveluck u must 😂
Literally my favorite couple I've ever seen. Not just lovers, but best friends.
Really? Do you know them in person?
@@RobertPadilla-qj2wm🤭
I'm guessing she meant her favourite couple she's seen in this series.
They're not just lovers, but best friends.
Most of the couples are not like that. So it is nice to see.
@@sarahcaitlyn88 okay I understand you now thanks. Where do you live
@@RobertPadilla-qj2wm I could be wrong, I'm just ASSUMING that was what the original poster meant.
Your response was funny though.
@@RobertPadilla-qj2wm5 day old spam account 😂
They are really blessed to have each other and to be together so long
It's about time they showed gay men who act like regular people rather than homophobic tropes. This channel low key shades gay men all the time with the clowns they usually show.
All gay people are valid, even the ones who act stereotypical
@jacksonhart5961 the flamboyant ones are sickening with how they act so stfu. Be gay if you want to be gay but don't be a sissy with it. Idc what anyone says. You can be gay and manly
Yea u hate for no reason put that energy on yourself boo.
Man, I can feel the love popping off the screen! Wishing the best for them always .
Most people only dream of being together 18 years, but these two did it, congratulations, and here’s to many more years
Much love 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
I misjudged them, they are raising a beautiful daughter
Its not gay if its with the homies.
Lmfao
😂😂
lol 😂
"Eyy, I love you foo."
"Orale, I love you too, vato."
-How it became official, probably.
They are truly blessed to be together that long. Their relationship is truly special & how they both raised their daughter Natalie together is awesome. Natalie looks happy & proud of Trino & Adam. Thank you for sharing your love story.
You looked very cute and beautiful at your profile there Lore! Do you mind been friends 🥀 if that's ok with you?
It’s hard to find the right person, that you want to share your life with. Love doesn’t only apply between a man and a woman. You two seem to have found true love in each other, especially since you have been together for so many years! Some people go their whole lives, and never find true love. I applaud the two of you, for being true to yourselves! I wish you nothing but happiness, and a lifetime of love! ❤❤
Absolutely. Where do you live
@@RobertPadilla-qj2wm California 😀
@@beth-annrock237 can we been friends if that's ok with you
@@RobertPadilla-qj2wm Baww 😂😂😂
We need to STOP caring abt who ppl LOVE and more about who ppl HATE so to combat misunderstandings and start convos.... love is the peaceful goal... but hate needs attention to be eliminated
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💯💯💯
@theembersinside1420 like no matter anyone's belief... itd be so much more simple to just let ppl do them... I guess I don't have the give af to judge ppls love life
@@Ali-in-Wonderland. Exactly! 😄 I don't care what anyone else does. As long as they're not hurting anyone. 🤷🏻♀️ I never understood ppl that feel the need to butt themselves into other ppls business & try to tell them how to live. Like, if its not your life why do u care? Ugh.
Well said
@@Nerdyunicorn1you looks very great and attractive. Where do you live
Love this. This is what standing in your truth looks like. Authenticity is so hard to come by these days. Kudos to yall for embracing your culture, and fully loving and accepting yourselves ❤💙🖤
No it's disgusting
@Lauraperez_4 - then why are u even here?!?
I'll bet these 2 men have a cleaner record than most straight Mexican men living in downtown LA.
Don't get me wrong im not some liberal gay rights activist, but they seem like a nice couple. And i would prefer them as my neighbors instead of a loud family that argues all the time, or a racist old white man with a huge gun collection.
Authenticity is so difficult to come by these days because people don't even go by their actual pronoun and gender and all this other made up garbage.
😢 cope@@Lauraperez_4
They seem like some of the nicest people youd ever meet, they're incredibly lucky to have such an amazing relationship, and im so sorry for all the negativity they have had to endure. I wish them all the best
The face tattoos of each other's names.... ❤😢❤😢 They are down for each other. 🥰
Relationship base in three things, love, trust and understanding
the spider on side of head eeeekkkkkkkkkkkkk!!!
Best gay couple ever! They are so not stereotypical and it feels like a fresh breeze tbh ❤
1:23 very sad and true, some family members are also more comfortable with the family pervert/ pedo than a
Gay family member 😢
Those families are garbage themselves if they rather deal with a pedo, gross
It’s so refreshing to see love like this regardless of the backlash from their community they stand by each other !
This is probably the best gay couple I've ever seen..they cool and super normal 🤙
😂😅
😆😂😂🤣
I'm no gay expert but I think they'd see ur compliment as an insult. That said.....😂😂😂
@@gioluvs1893I'm gay and don't see the insult
@@bbb12124 Well then wtf do I know.
The chihuahua low-key throwing shade 😂
Love these two! You can tell how much they love each other and that is wonderful! More power to them! 🥰
There's something very nice about their relationship. Best of luck and many blessings to the both of them 🙏🏼❤
What a great couple . I wish more people could meet their soulmate and be happy as this couple obviously are ❤
This is so crazy to see lol
Cuz "typically " you see these types of men all "manly " so seeing them kiss is a trip lol
Congratulations Gentlemen. Not everyone has such a love commitment respect & devotion to their partners. You've been together this long, long may your relationship continue.
Tears of love in my eyes. What a great couple to inspire the world today. Good on you guys, your sister and daughter!
Aww they are all smiles and laughing, such a cute couple 🥰
My teacher told me to do my Ese, but I think I misunderstood the assignment.
i admire them 😊especially coming from the chicano culture it’s not easy much love i appreciate you guys sharing bringbtear of joy ❤
I don’t understand why ppl care so much if someone is gay or not, like it’s not yur life it’s their let ppl be happy!
Wow...out of all of the different relationships you guys have put on here...this is definitely in the top! Wow! I wish you guys the best!
Love these two! I was born in Anaheim, and grew up in Buena Park, California. Guys who dress and speak like this have always felt comforting somehow. These two seem to have super kind hearts, awesome style, and an amazing family that loves them.
Living the damn dream! ❤
Oh crap I'm from Anaheim and Buena Park
Moved out 😭 of Cali like 16 years ago though .
Live in Texas now 😢
Love New York( visited recently ) and Florida though ❤
I respect these guys, despite adversity from their families and cultural background they still are together and seem happy. I wish nothing but the best for them
I absolutely love y’all family.
This is beautiful.
I love seeing Trino and Adam on IG and I’m so glad they got to tell their full story on here 💙💙💙
Probably my favorite episode 💖
I feel like with these similar couples they always seem and say that they are happy and do not care about other people’s opinions yet they still do seek validation and acceptance from others, especially from strangers online. Just be yourself and love yourself the way you are. You will accept this when u realize that people will only understand from their level of perception.
This is beautiful. Clearly they’re doing something right, 18 years! ❤
So sweet! Great video! ❤
I love love this was so refreshing to watch 🎉
00:00 🏳🌈 Trino and Adam, a loving couple, challenge stereotypes about their relationship, emphasizing they're lovers, not "gang rivals."
01:09 🏡 Cultural barriers within their Mexican-American background led to familial shame and stigmatization for being gay.
03:28 🤝 Their attire, linked to Cho culture, is misconstrued as gang-related, perpetuating stereotypes and degrading their sexuality.
05:33 💪 Facing false assumptions and judgments, their bond as a couple grows stronger, relying on each other for support against societal biases.
06:13 👶 Trino and Adam's daughter, raised with love and honesty, defies misconceptions about kids raised by same-sex parents, showcasing strength and self-awareness.
07:38 👨👨👧👦 Family support evolves as Trino's sister reflects on initial concerns, regretting not discussing feelings openly but ultimately supporting Trino's journey.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 wtf
@@Rachelllllll2024They broke it down by chapter. 😅
@@melissaharrison293 lmfaooooooooooo I know, it's just so bizzare
@@Rachelllllll2024 07:45 💩 Trino took a sh*t.
@@melissaharrison293 😭 I literally laughed out loud.
Love this!
All the best fellas!
Probably one of my favourite of these. Love many people can only dream about
I have fallen in love with them!!!
See, I was more interested when I thought they were from rivals gangs and became lovers. Then I realized they were just a regular gay couple who have been together for almost 20 years. 😂😂😂😂 I see a reality show and a fictional book genre!
I don't know these guys but I love and respect them!
This helped me and my relationship for 16 yrs with alot we battled .. I have never even spoke to someone gay that's how bad my community is against our lifestyle ty TRINO AND ADAM
Oh, I just love them! Congrats on such a long, happy relationship. Heres to many more!! 🖤🖤🖤
ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL!!! This HAS to be one of my most favorite stories ever! 18 years together too, ya just don't hear much of that in today's relationships! ❤❤
They are the best couple on this channel, 18+years now! That’s true love! I’m so happy for them!
Bless and respect to the both of you ❤ keep shining that light and I hope the hate never gets to you too much
You guys are my favorite couple I've been following you guys on every platform since last year I love your guyses vibes I love that you guys answer questions or talk to people when they talk to you or comment some people don't care they just care about the content
At least they are honest,I love this for them,keep being happy❤
Words cannot express how happy I am for this couple and their beautiful daughter. I am marrying my boyfriend this year and this gives me hope that all true love lasts.
Just to give you a little more hope, my hubby and I have been married 28 years. My advice is to always make each other feel like they are the lucky one in the relationship. My husband and I both say we married above ourselves. ❤oh and communicate communication is the absolute key. Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have seen your story before on another channel. Love Wins..always... The sister is wonderful...what a beautiful strong woman... thank you for.sharing your story you both are brave and strong and it is inspiring. ❤
Magical 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you for sharing your beauty ❤️
I folllow them on tik tok singing to different music. I had no idea they were together. I was shocked and so happy to hear their story. Ugh, you guys kissing is so adorable!!
I love you guys and your daughter is beautiful!!!!
I only hope my son finds a person like you guys. He's only felt comfortable in the last 3 yrs to walk in his truth. His dad & I knew when he was a young child that Colin was gay. Is life thru school was so bad. But he got up every day left for school with a smile on his face. and graduated from private theater college 2 yrs ago. And know owns his own theater company. Colin has always worked after school and every summer with the boys & girls club. He loved to act. Today Colin is very well known in the theater world .....
He's the happiest we have ever seen him.
Thanks for your beautiful story.
You guys have what many wish to have and that makes people mad. Have a great life and let the haters be miserable.
No cap these 2 look hella active banged out
This was a awesome story I wish I can find love like this one day.
At least the sister & daughter are supportive
My friends! I keep saying it, you guys are the cutest couple ever!! #relationshipgoals #lovedontjudge #adamandtrino
What a beautiful family y'all build❤️🥺
Thank you my friend
Beautiful couple and family. they seem to have very kind hearts through what they have had to overcome with judgements
Aaaahhhh hell yeah!! You guys are amazing and keep being brave and never stop sharing your story. Your love is inspirational
True love gets better with time. Congratulations bros. I love your story. I wasn't lucky to have such a great epic love life. Proud of you two.
18 years together they must be doing something right
Ayyyy! Love Wins!!!!!!❤
WHAT COOL DADS 😭 Shes a lucky girl to have such great parents
I have so much love for you guys ❤ whish you all the best. 18 years… wow
Hello 👋🤗, can we text?
The way I click so fast looking at the thumbnail. But after watching it.. totally NOT what I was expecting😂😂 but kudos
Sending this to all the messicans I work with. I'm ded! 😂🤣
I like the sister's energy.
One looks like spooky from on my block 🤣
I thought I was the only one, that thought so
Ah helll nah
Scary
I think you guys are my favorite couple I've seen on here. Partners, best friends, your family you've created is BEAUTIFUL AND INSPIRATIONAL 🥰💪🏽
Hello sexy, you just look very beautiful and amazing. Do you mind been friends 🥀?
I love them and the love they show each other!
Ok this was a different one 🤯
They are definitely gang bangers
😂😂😂
Booty Bangers 😂
So cute. Especially the bond with their daughter.
you can tell they are still in love and best friends. ..and they seem like they are rly good dads.
Happy for you guys! Love is love.
Love love this&!&😊❤
I'm lost for words😮
Why?
Awww bless this family’❤
Ice cube: "can't get enough of this gangsta sh"
It’s always the hardest one! Nothing wrong, but it’s true.
I love these guys
they are great, very endearing.
I just love you both to the moon and back.
Who r they to judge? U both are beautiful people.
Beautiful ❤
The same people that hate them for being gay are the same people who are fine with getting it on with other men in prison.
some guys only gay in prison because they won't see a women in a long time or never if they doing Life in prison.
I love them! They are so loving and true to themselves. Bottle up their love and send it out because we should all be so lucky, regardless of your preference.
Yall are beautiful ❤