EPISODE 3: SISTER COMPARISON w/ Chiquis & Jacqie (Overcomfort Podcast)
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- čas přidán 16. 06. 2024
- Warning: This episode may be triggering for some listeners.
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On this episode of the Overcomfort Podcast with Jenicka Lopez, I sit down with my sisters, Chiquis and Jacqie and open up about the constant comparisons that are made between us and how those discussions make us feel.
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You can tell Jenicka really needed these conversations with her siblings
Jenny's children are the best part of the Rivera family. She sure is so proud of you guys ❤
Totally 100% ❤
I agree 💯
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Proud of Chiquis for doing such a great job of holding down the fort for her siblings ❤ And seeing every one them flourish into beautiful humans!!!
I’m so lucky to have a relationship like this with my own two sisters ❤
I love this. I think our generation is becoming more honest and transparent and I think that’s what we all need to be.
I appreciate you 3 for being so raw about suicide. There is not a day that goes by where I don’t think my kids are better off without me but then I think.. The kids need me. They aren’t set up yet I don’t want to leave them like that. Jacqie you thinking that about your kids was extremely relatable. You three are beautiful and I’m glad you guys are still here ♥️
I feel the same way sometimes too but guess what we need to be strong to succeed our kids don’t deserve that either. Be strong God is still waiting for you to come to him, has a lot to offer five him a chance ❤❤❤
You both don’t deserve to feel this way, you are needed and you have a purpose to bring happiness and love to others and yourself. You got this ❤️ and never think anything less.
Glad your here
God bless u
Such a relatable topic, thank you!🎉
this is quickly becoming my favorite podcast!💜
Girl same 💚✨️
@@naomidelgado4670 is 😅😮😢😊
Sameeeew
Same ❤️
sameeee
The fact that Chiquis mentioned generational curses and used jealousy as an example just confirms the jealousy that I feel exists among Rosie . Especially towards Chiquis .
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Yup and with Lupillos daughters too.
What Jacqie said about her anxiety really hit home 😢 I definitely go through the same after I lost my mom a couple years ago. Grieving is such a difficult process.
I’ve been keeping up with you all since ‘I Love Jenni’, your mom was an inspiration to me. Where much of her music was lost in translation as a non-Spanish speaker, her story and her artistry broke all barriers. Chiquis’ vulnerability and strength in sharing her story with her mom saved me when I lost my mom suddenly in 2014, after her not speaking to me for two months. Jacqui’s faith journey softened my heart to God. And now Jenicka sharing her truth! You women all embody your mom’s strength and God’s grace. I’m in awe yet again. Thank you all for being so vocal and helping people. You all have helped me so much in my grief just by living your truths out loud.
So well said
Chiquis has changed so much she has grown so much it’s so nice to see this side of her of all of you this topic was so raw and so good to have 🥺❤️!
46:25 when chiquis said this podcast is gonna change a lot of people. And I’m like yep changed me already and I’m wanting for more of jenicka . Congratulations girl 😍🥹🫶🏻👏🏻🎉
I appreciate you 3 coming on here and talking about the love of sisters, I recently stopped talking to my sisters and this podcast really hit hard but thank you for talking about this ❤
Thank you for this Jenicka! you’re changing lives with your vulnerability and we all appreciate you🤍 We’re all glad you’re here😊
Thank you so much!!
i love knowing so much more about you guys! knowing how much u all relate to us, you guys are doing great and i know your mom is so so proud of all of you and she’d be proud of u guys cutting off the negative energy around you guys, regardless if they’re family
I have seriously love this podcast!! I love how each episode is getting longer and you guys are expressing raw feelings.🤍
Thank y’all for being so open and vulnerable with the public. Y’all are amazing! ❤
I love you ladies! You're all so unique! Thank you for being vulnerable Jenicka, I am glad you are still with us! God bless you all!
there's something so comforting about this podcast, radiates warmth and love. Your amazing Jenicka
So happy that you guys are still here. You’re all so strong. Thank you for being vulnerable. Much love ♥️🫂
Thank You for this. Anxiety is kicking my butt right now. This was a Godsend. Love you and your Sisters
I loved this podcast! You can tell that the relationship you guys have is intentional and the care you have for one another. Thank you for being so open and raw! 💓
This made me cry because I can relate to you guys with the struggle and just having hard times in life. Love you girls so much!!!❤️❤️❤️
This is by far one of my favorite podcasts on how you talk about sharing your life with others. Loving her from your sister and brother Johnny. Can’t wait to hear from Mikey. All of y’all are amazing people. Can’t wait to hear more of you and don’t ever stop because we all enjoy listening to you. Much love from Texas!!!!
Jenika why are you making me cry so early 😭
It really gets to show we never know what people are going through & yet ppl worry about chismes on tv.
Idk how any of you ladies did it to survive without mom/ or dad.
God grace and love really shows in you guys.
God Bless you ❤❤❤
Thanks for talking about something so vulnerable as suicide and suicidal thoughts. This isn’t talked about but it should! It will probably bring more awareness to ppl feeling the same. I have struggled with this myself aswell. I actually been thinking about making a podcast aswell because everyone should know they aren’t alone and TOGETHER we can get through this! 💗🫶🏽
I don’t think I have ever looked forward to a podcast and listen to everything in detail relating and connecting my own emotions and experience ! I’ve literally cried in the last two episodes and got a better understanding of my own emotional traumas. I feel a sense of connection and relieve listening to your stories. Thank you ❤
So happy for this , thank you for being open and sharing it is so therapeutic for me
I love that everytime I listen to your podcast I feel better after. It is definitely therapeutic getting to know you on a deeper level and understanding that even people who we might think could never have issues or insecurities, actually do. Life isn't perfect for anybody, but we have to make the best out of it. God wouldn't want anything else for us. I am glad that you are still here and I am glad that you have found your purpose. ❤ I know that Jenni is super proud looking down at you guys from heaven. We might have lost Jenni but I know that a part of her is within all 5 of you guys and you guys all show it in different ways. It's what makes you all so special. Thank you for being transparent.
I love seeing how Jenicka is super open with her feelings 🥺♥️
This episode was everything. I also lost my mom in 2018 and I was her only child. Losing her was one of the hardest things I have ever gone through. I also developed panic attacks recently and yes, you do feel like you’re dying. I have a daughter and people say she has my mother’s eyes and honestly, it’s what keeps me going. I do not want to ever disappoint my mom. Life is hard, but we have to overcome no matter what. Do I have bad thoughts, ever since I was a kid. I do not know why, but this episode reminded me of. I Love Jenni… I was addicted to that show. All of you are great in your own way. Everybody has a different story, and everybody can always relate to one of you. Like they say, loneliness is a state of mind.
wow your podcast episodes are just getting better and better. Thank you for sharing and being so vulnerable. You guys are all so relatable.
you all inspire me heavily. jenicka, chiquis, and jacqui. i look up to you guys, i'm 19.
i know all of your names and admire your differences and similarities. you guys have no idea how much of an impact you make. when chiquis talks about the blind impact you all make it rings so true to heart for me.
thank you for being open, vulnerable, and YOURSELF
WE LOVE YOU JENICKAA
Thank You guys for this video! You all are so different but wonderful women. You can learn a lot from each and every one of you! You guys are going through a lot that I am going through, so I feel you guys! Keep staying motivated and united!💕
I love how you all support each others protects. Y’all have an amazing bond.
You guys are such an inspiration after everything you have been through to still push through and be the best you can be. For no one else but you.
I know exactly how you feel Jenicka I'm 34 now but I always said my younger sister got more freedom in a way. When I got pregnant at 17 turning 18 my mom whoop my ass she smacked me and treat me like a slave while pregnant. My sister on the other hand got treated like a queen even after hanging out with the wrong people, running away, and getting pregnant. After so long at 33 I did spoke to my mom harsh we cried we fought (fist fought) and told her exactly how I felt and I just let that negative far from me. I do speak to my mom but I wouldn't talk to her as one. She hurt me badly and I'm curing myself. I don't need the toxicness of my mom
im sorry you had you go thru that
@@Maria-is5pk It's okay I'll be okay with God in my life 🫶🏼♥️
I’m sorry you had to go through this, im glad your now happy!
@@gardeniapardo8997 Thank you 🫶🏼♥️
It's sad that favoritism will never go away. Yet, when you call out a parent they quickly say " No that didn't happen" or " you're crazy" . I'm an adult and still go through that, where my parents favor my siblings. I felt this comment! 💯
Wow. I’m so thankful for this podcast and you guys. I appreciate every single second of it. As well as the episodes before this. I’m so proud of all three of you. Watching you guys since I was 12-13 years old to now being a 26 year old woman, and seeing how much you three have grown. You’re momma is so proud of you three !! All of her kids but you guys as the girls her babies, hands down, my respect and admiration to you three. Thank you for this. The peace you guys brought me hearing your voices, so sweet, so loving so respectful towards each other. Thank you. Many blessings for this year and F THE HATERS. Regardless people will talk. Just know you have many many people watching you and proud of everything you guys have done !!! I felt like I was part of the conversation 😅
I love how different you all are! You all are such great woman there’s so much to admire and learn from each one of you. What a great podcast so raw, real, and organic. God bless you and props to you Jenicka you are helping so many with these type of conversations including myself. Thank you I can’t wait for your next videos.
I love this podcast. I’m learning so much about Jenicka. I love how wise she is and despite of how much she’s been through she’s so strong. It’s truly amazing and something alot of people can truly learn from. I love you Jenicka 💖
The way Jacky and Chiquis did the exact same thinking face at the same time at minute 49:31 ❤
I sincerely connect with you guys on such deep level. My mom, sisters and I went through domestic violence and we spoke with your mom and got help when the refuge was opened in honor of her and you guys have no idea how much my sisters and I look up to you guys. May the lord and your mama always be by your side ❤️
Thank you for being vulnerable and open! I pray that your heart heals and you find happiness and peace!
Thank you for sharing ladies! My siblings and I have watched yall grow since I Love Jenni. We are rooting for you! We have been working on vulnerability and it’s really healing. ❤
You could feel the energy in this video it’s almost like I’m physically there feeling it with you guys! I love you all ♥️🥰
I just want to say after everything y’all been through, I think y’all are amazing ❤…I pray God continues to bless you all 🙏🏼 and thank you for being so open and honest about yourself, your life and your family 🙏🏼
What an incredible episode. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable.
I love your prodcast and it’s not only entertaining but very REAL as well and I am very proud of you Jenicka! You’re very strong and I thank you for sharing with us because I know it helps many people who can relate and even if people don’t relate it helps them understand. LOVE YOU JENICKA! ❤️
I love that jenicka is being so open about the insecurity we as women feel within our selfs ❤
Such real and must have conversations. Love this podcast!!
I love this. I feel so connected to you 💜 please know you are your own person and there is a lot of us out here that love you for you Jenicka. Thank you! I love all 3 of y’all. Such an inspiration 🦋
The was one of the realest podcasts I've seen. Thank you all for your transparency 💞💞
If only Jenni's extended family would be accountable for how Jenni's kids have suffered due to their selfishness. I believe Jenni's spirit is an extreme presence in their lives. Just see how Chiquis is a Grammy award winner alone says her mom is definitely Team Chiquis!!!!
You all made me laugh so much, then made me cry! i remember always thinking how do people think of suicide? I love myself so much I would never even think of that. Then, I lost my mom 5 years ago. I never knew a hurt like that existed. That put a hole in my soul, I dont think will ever be filled. That"s when I understood what people go thru when they commit suicide. I'm better now, and I can thank GOD now and pray to him again. Thanks for sharing your life with us! I LOVE YOU ALL!
Thank you for being vulnerable and showing your organic self….you have no idea what this podcast has planted in me. May you be showered with amazing blessings and continue this podcast because I can assure you - you are impacting many lives.
I am so glad I came across this episode. You’ve all answered questions I’ve had about you three… but also, it was so comforting to me about my own issues and my own situations and it made me truly feel like I am not alone. I love you guys so much!!! Thank you for this!!!❤
Such pure conversations! Love you guys!
Awh I love seeing you guys together! I’ve been feeling down lately and You all put a smile on my face with this podcast! Love you guys ❤ such a relaxing podcast to watch on a cozy day ☕️ 💖💖
Just finished this episode and it was amazing! I can relate to what you say about being compared to your sisters. Everything about it is soothing and truly is therapeutic. Keep it up Jenika.
This is so therapeutic and I love it for Jenicka ! She deserves it 🤍
Jenicka I resonate with you a lot. I’m introverted, It’s hard for me to allow people In my space, too. What I’ve realized is that I have somethings I need to work on when it comes to friendships. As you get older and you become more you, you’ll attract the right people that are genuine and like you for you. 🤗
1. Truly proud of all three of you and how far you have come. Have watched you guys since back in the I Love Jenni days and watching this video brought me to tears many times!
2. Jenicka i pray God blesses you with the most amazing group of friends. As someone who used to long for “my people” that wasn’t family, I can now say God has answered that prayer for me above and beyond.
Love this podcast so so much. Keep up the great work yall 🧡
Thank you so much for sharing your vulnerability and being so open with talking about mental health. God knows I need to hear this, I’m not alone. I love this podcast so much! Thank you so much 🤍✨☯️
The knot in my throat just listening to you guys, just thank you!
The podcast I never knew I needed! Been loving these episodes lately and everyone being so open and real ! Thank you
Thank you for being so transparent about suicide because coming from a Mexican culture something it’s taken as weakness and not as something that a lot of people go thru
I love this ❣️ I feel that people forget you guys are actual human beings and real people with real feelings.
I felt this convo in my soul. My son has been my motivation since I knew he was coming into my life. You guys are so strong and we are all here for a reason. ❤
I only have 1 sister, I’m the oldest. We lost our mom in 2020 and our dad just this past October of 2022. I admire my sister and our relationship so freaking much. I needed to hear this today I love you guys and let me tell you, I feel less alone right now. Thank you girls so much. Las quiero mucho.♥️🙏🏼😭
So sorry about the loss of your parents. May they rest in peace y que Dios los tenga en su gloria.🙏🕊❤
Love this! Jenni would be so proud of you guys!💕💕💕💕
OMG, your freaking awesome Jenicka !!!! I cannot believe how good your podcast is! Thank you so much !🥰
I think everything you girls talked about in this episode is something we all needed to hear even if it’s between you girls making us feel some type of comfort within each other, I loved all the topics that were hit, it hits home & im so proud of each of you & I literally can’t wait to watch you all grow in life & prosper, i love you beautiessss 🥹🥹♥️♥️
I love you ladies 💜💜💜 God bless you all!!! All 3 of you are beautiful!!
Love this podcast especially this episode. I lost my mom 21 yrs. Ago and her last wish was for me and my siblings to stay close. I have 1 sister and 1 brother and I'm down for them always. I talk to my sister every day maybe 3/4 times a day. Cherish your relationships and never let anything or anyone come between you guy's!💞
I’m so glad I came across this podcast!
Thank you for doing this.
Sometimes you have to have these kind of conversations to be able to heal! 🤍🤍
I love the dynamic you have with your family Jenicka and just you in general ❤️
The more i see how the public mistreats and hurts you i understand why some artist hide their kids from the public 🥺 sending lots of love 💕 you all have a purpose in this world and i am glad you all are still here.
I agree 💕
I really love your podcast
Every topic you talk about touches me and I can relate to. Keep them coming girly. I can really say I am so excited when Thursdays are here. God bless you beautiful
P.s I think this is going to be one of my favorite podcast
Thank you for talking about your feelings and life in general, it is helping a lot of people!!
Wow! I absolutely loved this episode and I really think that Jenicka is shedding her skin for better n bigger things!
This podcast was nice thank u love u girls
I just wanted to say Jenika you have no idea how much I admire you, I can totally understand about the comparison with you sisters but as a fan I really do see you for who you are, I personally never really looked at you for your mom or your sisters I actually became a fan because I am a plus size girl and I have always admired your confidence and how your not afraid to show your skin and that truly has inspired me. I love you for who you are. Plus your Puertorican like me oh snap that just bumped it up alot more for me! I F, ing love u girl. I love this podcast. ❤
I love this and thank you for sharing. And this had helped me in so many ways. What I have loved about you and your family yall have always been real never sugar-coated anything. Love yall keep up the good work
not only do i feel like this happens w sisters but it really happens w anyone, cousins, friends, parents etc. i’ve at times have had to distance myself from friends bc i felt so insecure around them & felt like i had to amount to them as well but after a lot of reflecting & learning i know that i’m my own person and have many amazing qualities :))) i really like this episode jen🫶🏼🫶🏼
yay i’m so happy for these podcasts you’re voice is so relaxing love you girls 💗💗💗💗💗💗
Omg!! I love you guys!! So honest, so real like all of us...Thank you for allowing us into your lives....❤❤❤❤
I loved this. It takes a lot of communication and healing to have a strong bond with siblings.
I relate to jacky so much , i get those depressed days but i need to keep going for my kids, im still here only because of them.
You guys are so beautiful! Just like fine wine 😍😍😍😍 love you Guys !
Im re watching all the rivera seasons again! Will you guys ever do more seasons?
Love this. Wow thanks for sharing. Jenika and Jackie made me cry. Thanks for sharing loved loved it!
IM GLAD YOU DID THIS PODCAST THANK YOU 🙏
Jenika, know that you are needed in this life. Your light shines so bright and maybe you don’t see how much you sparkle. Never compare yourself to your sister because you are uniquely made and you have your spot in this world. ❤
Not Snapchat for the hoes chiquis
One thing I will say ....is we are all very proud of you 3 girls.....keep leading the way....... your shining bright.....
This episode made me laugh, cry smile warm my heart seeing you all together. I have always related to you girls an pray my sisters an I could get back to a relationship like we once had. we called ourselves the wolf pack no one could mess with us our our momma cuz if you did prepare to get heat from us all!! I remembered the day I tried to take my own life. Recently after many years it was a thought in my mind once again. However, I could never leave my babies in this cruel world without me to guide and protect them. I’ve had issues with anxiety also! God kept you here Jenicka to share and make a difference babe, your one of a kind and an inspiration! 🫶
Thank you for having such real and raw conversations with your sisters! Mental health is so important and it’s something that needs to be talked about more. We all have our own battles and I can 100% relate to you guys. Therapy is beautiful as someone who struggles with depression & anxiety. I’m so happy you are all still here. I hope all 3 of you continue to heal 🤍 much love
Las admiro muchísimo, gracias por compartir y permitirse ser vulnerables sentí como si estuviese charlando y tomando un té con mis hermanas🥺🤍
I love you jenika 🥰🥰🥹 this was the best healing episode . I’m glad you had those conversations.
I just want to say all three of you have placed a special message in my heart. I pray for anyone who deals with Anxiety, Panic Attacks, and Mental Illness. It’s truly like Jackie stated, you feel like you’re dying. Thank you girls❤
Thank you 😢
I love this podcast. Thank you girls for opening up amd being raw and sincere with us. You guys are so beautiful and we all thank you for holding your family (Jenni Rivera) so close. I can really feel the love for each other amd not sugar coating or BS like other fake families. Great job JENIKA ❤. MUCH LOVE TO ALL!!
Thank God your still here with us♥️ keep doing these podcast they have helped me & I’m sure it has helped many others‼️🫶🏼 much love 😍
I love sister talks I’m the oldest of 6 my mom passed away at 45 ! So I can relate stay strong Jenicka I really enjoy your podcast I look forward to listening every week.
I don’t think you guys have any idea how many lives you just saved! How many mindsets you have changed. Sometimes knowing that people are having the same thoughts as you and seeing how they have overcome it and knowing it gets better gives people hope to keep fighting. Thank you for sharing your story ❤