A Terrifying Tinder Date: The Case Of Ashlyn Black
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 3. 02. 2023
- On May 23rd 2020, Ashlyn Black, like many, was scrolling and swiping through Tinder. Before long, she matched with a 24 year old called Ethan Hunsaker. The pair got chatting and got on well, quickly making plans to go out for dinner and drinks that night.
Several hours later a frightening call was made to 911...
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No mercy. He is a monster. Iâm depressed, Iâm anxious. Thereâs billions of us running around out here, depressed and anxious, and most of us donât murder a woman for no reason. đ€Šđœââïž
I couldn't have said it better. You are spot on.
Exactly!!!
Correct most people are not murderers but we have the ability to kill as we are animals
Bang on!
@@benhartart9487
True, but can doesnât equal should. On any given day I could drive my car into a random pedestrian, but I donât. We are cognizant, sentient animals, gifted with the ability to choose. Choice is a terrible privilege to waste.
Shit like this reinforces why I am extremely cautious abt dates- never let them pick you up from your home (unless its a bf or someone youâre dating), take your own car, and do not go back to his place or let him back to yours- ESPECIALLY on a first date.
Ppl are crazy and we all have to protect ourselves
When the narrator said Eric picked Ashlyn up at her home, I immediately said, "Oh my god, don't do that!" Because what if it was someone crazy in a different way, who gets obsessed with you right away? They know where you live. Poor Ashlyn, so kind-hearted and trusting. Eric is a monster.
The scary thing these days is, even after a while, you never really know someone and what they're capable of.
I always meet in a public and visible place like a park for the first date - away from my home, during the day, and head home on my own. No home dates or dates at night until I know them better.
@@Terri1373 So true! Even family.
I can't even begin to understand.
How long before being "mentally unwell" is the majority? Seems like being "broken" is the default. I'm so sick of individuals not having any coping skills , not taking responsibility for their own health , feeling justified in being homicidal because of past trauma. We're all traumatized, that's why I can't understand the the lack of empathy that's rampant. Bunch of organic portals walking around filled up with malignant narcissism, excuses and ungratefulness. I'm sorry Ashlyn, worst date ever. Shine on.
I canât explain why, but I love this comment.
I appreciate your sentiment but I think using the broad phrase âmentally unwellâ is a tad unfair. I am âmentally unwellâ and Iâm not about to go out and kill someone
So well said
Spot on! đđđ
I feel u. Esp when they bring up criminals and their childhood. My mom was sold at a slave village, raped by honorable âU.S. military menâ, forced to have the kids they impregnated them with leaving the women even more desperate & destitute⊠and when I was 10 my sister was going to be forced to begin and my mom took us and ran. We then spent a year in the US ârefugee holding cellâ aka jail. They put us in a halfway house where we were racially abused by the ppl in the hood. We literally had to fight ppl bc they didnât like we were -light skinned & pretty. After all of this⊠NONE OF US, not one would ever think about doing anything to hurt, cause harm or inconvenience to a single person. Matter of fact, our horrific ordeal is what made us grateful and forge ahead. Knowing what we went thru, and how horrific my moms life has been is what pushed us to be better. We all struggled thru many mental issues but my mom said that we had a duty to ourselves and no one else to be good humans so we need to work thru it
Going through a divorce is not considered a mental disorder, news media are disgusting.
EVERYTHING today is labeled a " Mental Disorder " or PTSD! Compliments of mainstream media.
All the news does is report it. They did not come up with a divorce being a disorder.
Some people confuse the reporting of issues and facts with it Them being at fault.
There are some outlets that do misinform in order to get viewers wound up but, if it is just regular news they just tell what they know.
Sometimes they do get things wrong and they do make a public correction but, the media are made up of human beings and we humans make mistakes
Everything is a "mental disorder" in 2023.
The same United States news media that install Joe Biden as president they lie and gaslight and I always get everything wrong
Agree
She had a knack for being late to everything and her dad said "he would give up anything to be sat, waiting for her, if it meant she would walk back through the door to see him" ...đđđ
yea that got me, I teared up. Started looking for who was cutting onions near me. My heart breaks for the family & friends.
@@mademgrey if you teared up you were ovary acting đ
@@jabroski69 youâre a douche lord.
@@jabroski69What a stupid comment
That's what really made me tear up for her
I was talking to a guy on a dating app who was pushing for me to just go straight to his house to hang out one night. I was trying to be âpoliteâ so I said Iâd think about it and I was going to message him I couldnât shortly after.
Anyways I ended up falling asleep and a few hours went by. I woke up to him going off on me via text, he said some messed up stuff and he was just so angry. It was actually scary.
I never used a dating app much after that and I immediately refuse going to someoneâs house Iâve never met. Be safe out there!
Smart move! Of course you wouldn't go to someone's house on a first date. I think he must have been thinking he was on a prostitution app. Who's meeting guys at their homes? Disgusting.
NEVER go to someone's house. Only meet in a public setting.
So many bad things have happened as a result of meetings on dating apps . You really donât know who youâre really meeting personality wise. I donât even use them myself. Too scary. The guys a lot of them are quickly impatient and pushy to meet in person., There are a lot of unstable people on those apps. Be careful people seriously.
Smart girl. Stay safe
Why be polite to these sick males? Who asks a woman that on first communication?
This has to be the best crime channel on CZcams. You are so delicate and respectful to the dead. Amazing storytelling and great editing. Well done.
True
@Rogeh I agree! This channel is unique in every way among the true crime genre. You provided the word I have searched for to describe one of the unique aspects of this channel ~ "delicate" ~ which would seem an oxymoron to true crime reporting. It fits perfectly here even to the lovely soothing voice. You are so right in that she weaves a story with respect and care. I agree there is no channel that can surpass this one! Bodacious comment Rogeh!
Yep completely agree!
Agreed. I love That Chapter, Just Thought Lounge, and Coffeehouse Crime too, but Truly Criminal are the G.O.A.T's of CZcams true crime channels.
Absolutely agree!!! đ đ
I have seen too many online murders that I don't even date men online..Learn from other people's mistakes..Never go inside a strangers car or home..Be cautious people...Don't take chances on your life
exactly! stay away from dating sites & use your gut. Never go to a house on first or 2nd date, be cautious, ask questions, be aware of your surroundings, carry bear spray, use logic and get to know the person before meeeting them outside of a public place and even then be very wary.
@@maryalico4313 That's right
Absolutely, and always tell someone whre you are and with whom.
How about the people that met at work or the mall and one person kills another?
So you just blatantly ignored the warning about not victim blaming, huh? Here's a cookie.
i was talking to a guy that i met on a dating app, and we ended up texting he ended up refusing to meet in public and kept pushing to meet at his house, i had a bad gut feeling and blocked him. he kept texting me non stop, iâm glad i listened to my gut.
Come to my house now!
@@lewisstewart1015 iâm good
this is not listening to your gut, it's having common sense. you don't need your gut to tell you that you shouldn't go out with someone from tinder that insists on meeting at his house
@@xowarrior lol the gut feeling is always right tho
@monicac1536 yeah we agree on that one
I've never used dating apps and never will. Too many crazies out there.
Yes! I met two guys on Tinder and BOTH were lying about themselves. I have a family member in law enforcement who did background checks and traced their tag numbers. Never again...seems like those apps are for men to find some sort of victim. Yuk.
The same thing could happen if you met someone at a bar. No difference.
@@jmb1666 He should know that's illegal, btw.
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Yes, we know. But sometimes you have to break the rules. I'm sure they all do it for family members.
@@angelam886 You can meet people anywhere in the physical dimension. On a walk, doing your groceries, waiting at the garage, going on a hike, swimming at the beach, on vacation, waiting in traffic, the places are limitless. Bars and social media, hell no.
Not taking NO for answer to me personally is the biggest red flag đ©of someoneâs true character. I look back on my own relationships from the past, every guy who was abusive to me was at first was extremely persistent and wouldnât take no for an answer until I agreed to go out with them. Anybody who doesnât show they respect your boundaries right away is not going to start later on.
Great comment.
Making excuses to not go on dates and then ignoring the guy is not telling him no. It's giving him hope. I learned a long time ago that men need to hear straight up rejection or they will persist to the death. You would hope that if you ignore a guy they would take the hint but they don't. They tell themselves you must be busy or are possibly having some major family emergency, maybe your phone is broken and that's why you haven't responded. It's ridiculous.
And you are right, abusive men are pushy. Definite red flag.
"severe alcohol use disorder" - hogwash. He's a violent drunk whose never been held accountable. It's ridiculous how we have to kow tow to criminals. He's a criminal - end of story. No need for psychological wishy washy and long words - he's a criminal and 15 years is an insult. My heart goes out to her family. â€ïžđčđ
agreed
Yup. Agree. Soft pedaling it never helped a drunk. Even "alcoholic" is pushing it. Bill Wilson always referred to himself as a drunk when talking to other drunks.
alcohol helps to reveal your true nature, if you're killer then you're killer, to stab someone you need to be really cold blooded
He got off easily because heâs not white and his victim was
Thatâs just how they have to say it cuz thatâs whatâs seen as politically correct
The way that man was holding his dog while being interviewed by the news đ„°
So cute đ„°
That's his baby.
The thing is, the first date always tends to go well because of the novelty and you have so much to talk about and each person is putting their best foot forward. Wait at least 6 months to really get to know someone because red flags (if there are any) will only appear over time
Shoot this narcissist guy that I thought I was wrong for not giving him a chance because he seemed like husband material it took two years for me pushing him away and then saying ok I'll give it a try and as soon as I did man was I regretting it it was all an act a lie he is the worst of the worst all the red flags came out then now I'm glad I didn't really really give in and stay after the bullshit... Some people take longer to show you their true colors...smh
Wait at least 6months you think?? More like 2-3wks people start throwân up codes. Itâs so hard to meet cool people as 95% are weirdoâs.
In some cases thirty years of marriage!
people always talk about these âred flagsâ. what are they? 6 months, 1 day, 3 years, how are you meant to know youâre going to be murdered?
6-months sounds like a random number thrown out to make a point, but in my experience it's quite accurate.
NEVER go on a date with someone you just started talking to.
IMMEDIATELY delete them if they demand to meet before you're ready.
BLOCK them on EVERYTHING the second they try to find you outside the app you met on without permission.
I don't think his sentence is right for the crime he committed...this was planned he said if she came home with him he'd kill her and he'd been thinking of killing women since his marriage broke up...RIP Ashlyn đ„đđŠđș
Exactly. He knew full well what he was going to do. He knew right from wrong. I hope he never gets out of prison. RIP Ashlyn.
What's more, what's gonna happen if he gets out and has another bad relationship? He's clearly not someone who can handle such a thing, and I don't have faith in the level of mental care he'd have gotten. Once more, after being in prison for a long time, that's all going to be washed away. Some people don't graduate to violent crime until AFTER going to prison and getting out. It's a finishing school for criminals, after all. It's a weird miss for a U.S. sentence.
@@LadyAstarionAncunin "Finishing school for criminals"! You are quite savvy Nanimo! Excellent observation about the " education " prison provides! Well done you!
Exactly! 15 to life
..15???!!!! How do you sit there for hours getting to know someone and laughing and the whole time you're planning on murdering them?? True psychopath. He should never be let out.
why did she go home with him on the first date with a stranger?
Dating apps or social media is not to blame. Anyone can meet a psychopath anywhere, at work, at a bar, through a friend, If someone has it in them to commit this kind of crime, they will find their victim.
Just makes it easier for the criminals. Like a barrel of fish!
Exactly. I've had 2 great relationships from Tinder totalling 5 years. I think women should always let someone know where and when they're meeting someone though. And definitely not go to their house so soon.
@@Autisticwanderer foh
@@tessaducek5601 Like guns.
So, I think the difference is, when we randomly meet someone, we can catch a vibe. Where as when communicating online, we tend to build an idea in our heads, (which can hinder our innate instincts and cloud our judgments).
Iâm thank God every day for no social media during my youth. I especially think meeting a date on the internet is about the worst thing you could do especially if you have kids. Itâs dangerous! Wake up ppl!
Not all are there for love/friendship.............for some it is the easiest way to get to their next victim.
Dating sites should come with a health warning!!
If you read the terms and conditions on most dating sites and apps you'll notice that they actually do have health warnings about ways to keep yourself safe đ
And even if they don't have health warnings, it's NOT their responsiblity to babysit. Everybody should know the RISK.
It should be a common sense to not go to the manâs house on the first date. Iâm old school, always on the safe side đ
@@renatacuriosa Absolutely.
Actually, they do.
Rest in peace beautiful Ashlyn. As a special needs mom I want to thank you for working with our kiddos. You did not deserve what was done to you. Iâm truly sorry
@longjohnthilverYou need help pal
Beautiful portrayal of an incredible young woman who should still be here making a difference that is desperately needed in this world!
Thatâs why you never trust whoâs on the other side of that screen
These facts are why I've doubted dating apps. If you're gonna date on dating apps, I'd recommend playing it safe & meeting in public for a few months. My cousin just married the guy she met on a dating app a few years ago. She always met in public with him throughout the first few months.
Absolutely. I don't even consider meeting up for a few weeks.
Ladies, donât go to a guyâs house on the first date! There are so many crazy monsters like this one out there, and dating apps are their catalogs!
YES WHY????!!! HOW STUPID ARE YOU OMG
when will it ever be okay to go over to someoneâs house after meeting them online if there intentions will be the same? i understand why you are trying to say but at the same time a killer will kill regardless.
@@lovermorales5091 As a woman who was single not too long ago I met a couple of guys online, at different times of course, lol. I'm now engaged to the last man I met, we met on fb tho. My point is this.....I talked to and developed a relationship with him for almost 6 months before even meeting in person and then it was in a very public place. Never go to ones place or get in a car alone with someone on the first date!!
Also don't have him come to your house when meeting for the first time.
You cannot trust anyone until they earn your trust including a guy that you are dating.
Poor Ashlyn she only wanted a b/f and to be loved and she meets a psychopath. Rest her soul.......Autumn had such a lucky escape. His sentence was a disgrace. He planned the brutal murder, he should never be let out!
Wow, 15 years of âhisâ life for someone elseâs WHOLE life đ
Truly sad đ
I thought the same.
I knew this girl. Not well, she was a friend of a friend. But it immensely impacted our social group.
same, I met her through my ex. they worked together. her ex ran in the same friend group as my partnerâs friends so we would see each other at parties or bars. she always made a point to talk to me, which I appreciate to this day because a lot of people donât do that.
I stopped dating 5 years ago. Never been happier. Never felt safer.
Same
I'd be too frightened to use one of these dating apps. My friend used an online dating app and met a man with serious anger issues. There's been so many disturbing stories.
Man... It's not right. I was her age when I did the same thing. I was lucky and had a gentleman and not a monster.
May she rest in peace. đïž
Lol at the judge thinking Ethan might hurt others in prison. Ethan only wants to hurt defenseless women.
Prison guards are are not just strictly males.
Definitely a coward.
Thoughts"of suicide!
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Agreed, l have no doubt the other prisoners and officers could certainly take care of themselves. No one fears a grub or a COWARD. He wouldn't have lasted 2 minutes inside.
Believe it or not, some employees in prisons are women without weapons, nor the training to use them. Which may not equate to totally defenseless, but not entirely safe, either.
At the prison I used to work at, there was an incident in which an inmate came very close to cutting the throat of a mental health services provider, and was thwarted by a dental tech.
It's not out of the realm of reason to want to ensure that a mentally unstable person is stabilized as best as possible prior to commitment to a facility with less highly trained staff.
There is a criminal story on another channel I believe of a woman security guard being murdered in the prison she worked at... She was the first female security guard.
So it's not far from the truth in what the judge was thinking.
That said, he probably wouldn't last long in prison anyway.
How do you pick someone up and think, âyeah, Iâm going to murder herâ I mean wtf?
Severe alcohol abuse disorder? I have that every weekend. I swear they come up with a new disorder or syndrome every week. Ridiculous
No kidding! What happened to being a good, old fashoned drunk?
Truly Criminal is truly one of the best crime dramas. Always presented well and easy to understand. Thank you, RIP Ashlyn, may the Angels give you wings to fly
One should not go home with the person directly on the very first date. Safety matters most!!!
Thank you!! What the hell is wrong with these girls/women?! How many more stories like this need to happen before they use their common sense, instead of ACTIVELY CHOOSING to put themselves in a potentially very dangerous situation with a stranger?? Sorry but it really is stupid. Sick b*stards prey on opportunities like this with naive easy girls. And so many times it ends so badly. Why even take the risk of it going bad on the first damn date?! He was a stranger ffs. And to go to HIS home? Come on girl. Terrible what happened. But this could have so easily been avoided by nothing more than her own actions and choices.
Iâm shocked at how quick most ppl are to just enter some random strangers house upon meeting them only a few hours prior.
@@Remss777 earlier our parents warned us again and again not to talk with strangers, don't eat anything they give you!! As we grow up, we straight up go to a strangers home and then get killed!
I feel sorry for victim and her family but she could have made a better and safer decision!
@@ashleighmackenzie8670 I am 100% on your side! Women in general should be more aware and conscious about the harsh reality around us! The world is not safe for us and wr should make every decision according to that.
The only person who did something wrong here was the man who murdered her. Stop victim blaming.
This is the reason why I currently have NO desire to date at all. Rest in peace Sweet Angel
The quote from her Dad at the end of the video is absolutely heartbreaking
Tinder hook ups can obviously be dangerous.
âJust going out on a TINDER dateâ!... Personally I think a tinder date or any like way of meeting someone is about the scariest scenario out there. But, these days itâs scary putting yourself out there in nearly any situation. What a scary world we inhabit now.
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@Long John Thilver drama queen? Someone was brutally murdered using your logic.
@Long John Thilver Only social misfits and sexual deviants hang out on dating apps. No thanks, but you do you.
Yes - never go to the home of someone you don't know well
@@doinglifemyway1755 the chance of that happening is so low. Commenter is not a drama Queen but tinder is certainly not the scariest scenario. I met probably one of the kindest and most gentle souls on tinder
The world isn't scary, men are.
How do people just BLATANTLY take a person's life!! This is why I don't do online dating, with my luck, I'LL MAKE ONE OF THESE CZcams VIDEOS!! R.i.P. Ashlyn đđŸđ
@longjohnthilver does it really matter?
Her father's words just crushed my heart. I pray God will strengthen their hearts and sweeten their sorrow. đïž
Thank you for sharing this. Once again, you have shown us so much about who the victim was, their hopes, their dreams, their character, and how they made the world a better place. This episode is so incredibly sad. Ashlyn was the kind of person everyone would want as a friend, and she deserved to live a full and happy life. RIP, Ashlyn. You will be truly missed.
It's a huge risk to follow someone you just met to their place. You never know if you find one of these people. By the way, I'm talking about men and women. Not long ago I read about a guy in Colorado who was stabbed and choked by a woman the victim met through a dating app for a hook-up. He managed to escape, though.
You would figure adults don't need to be told that. Not blaming the victim but man, come on, people gotta stop being so oblivious to danger. I'm a guy and I'm still practice caution just going places. Asian dude in a time like this, grew up in some of the worst part of town, I'm always alert even now living in a relatively crime free area. You just never know what evil lurks.
I don't know why people do it! You don't know them. You've met them off the Internet and been around one another for a couple of hours đ€Šđ»ââïž
@@XWoodbineX Ikr! That was what ~ 4 hours of drinking? I could lose a lot of inhibitions in that time and your critical thinking is screwed. We know he is an alcoholic and probably ordering drinks at a fast pace! She might have made some poor choices that she would never make while sober! Nevertheless, she didn't deserve to be killed by an evil man that was plotting her vicious death while eating, drinking, and having conversations! Can you imagine??!!
@Linda Haggard oh no. Of course I'm not saying shd deserved to be killed.
But its like. 6 of one and half a dozen of the other.
I don't actually drink. But there's still no way I'm letting a stranger buy me a drink if I'm not there
@@lindahaggard6416 I agree, alcohol was probably a factor. And Eric is definitely an evil, evil man.
The important message here ...is simply never pick up a stranger and go to your home, their home or any private place.....the dating app meeting isn't important, it could be someone u had met in a bar, felt you "clicked with". They are still a stranger also after a handful of dates, so the same rule applies. Really, lots of ppl don't understand the world has crazies and seriously dangerous ppl. You never know who is another Jeffrey Dahmer. They don't wear a label.
The vacancy in his eyes is SO disturbing. There's nothing there, at all.
I'm glad i met my partner of 6 years at the place we were both working and NOT online... Stuff like this is exactly why I've always been terrified of online dating sites.
OK, so I'm not young any more. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't dabbled in online dating. But Tinder always seemed so incredibly gross to me, never have, never will. Yuck.
To me, it's for one thing only. They're not looking for relationships.
I wouldn't do it but to each their own.
Too many crazies around to go home with them imo.
It's just not smart.
@@Terri1373 You can go to a bar, meet a nice guy, date him for 10 dates, then get you to his home now that you trust them and then they kill you. You never know... Or you can meet someone on an app that becomes the love of your live. I know people who have married and had sons thanks to Tinder.
I feel not so guilty of my general lack of trust in people.
same here
Same
Thanks for the video, ladies... never heard of this one before. Poor Ashlyn must have been completely frightened and horrified! What an absolute monster! He took not only her life but a piece of her loved ones' hearts along with it; not to mention his child will grow up without a father and will end up finding out what his dad did. Let's hope he ends up actually serving life and never gets out on parole, especially not after only a mere 15 years... what a joke! Anyhow, enjoy the rest of your weekend and see you next week!
Anyone Ive heard of who met someone on Tinder it was strictly for sex, nothing serious, which is one reason to never use it.
Maybe in the US. I live in Europe in a touristic city and I've never hooked up with a man from a dating app (basically because thats not what I'm looking for).
There are men who are just looking to someone to hang out, share a meal and those have been my experiences. Of course if you offer them pussy they will take it but that's about it.
I'll just say that these apps attract narcissistic/sociopathic individuals or guys who are just in some messed up phase and are not good to deal with. 1% might actually be open to meet people and find a life long partner but they will likely be burn out from bad experiences.
This being said, i would recommend women to just use these apps to meet people for public hangouts. And not engaging sexually or romantically
â@@redleeks6253 I'm from France I absolutely agreed
There's so many of these stories. It can be prevented if we followed the rules of time before the internet. We didn't meet up with strangers, didn't talk to strangers, and didn't get rides from strangers. Simple as that.
I cant believe that people are blaming the victim rather than the murderer just because they both used a dating app. At what point do these people realise that murdering someone is wrong regardless of how the murder came about. Im disgusted anyone can victim blame in this situation and I worry about anyone who has that kind of mentallity as it shows some kind of warped view point. I have never and will never use a dating app but no way could I think anyone deserves any kind of harm because they use one, its just wrong.
Yeah causeâŠ.. fucking random guys you just meT is definitely NOT HIGH RISK BEHAVIOR âŠ.
@@alejandromolinac sure its high risk behaviour, just like meeting someone at a club and going back to theirs, doesnt mean someone deserves to be killed for it. At the end of the day its the murderers fault.
@@alejandromolinacitâs sad that a women canât go and have fun and have sex without the fear of being killed. Iâm sure as a man you donât have that worry But thanks for your input itâs so necessary.
Mental illness should NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER be an excuse. GUILTY ALL THE SAME.
My heart just breaks for her family. đ
Why in the world would you ever give a stranger your address??? That is just crazy!!! People need to stop doing these dangerous acts!!! Wow!!!!
He deserves to rot in prison for the rest of his pathetic life. She didn't deserve that. She seemed like an amazing person and she couldn't have seen it coming, she was literally sleeping when he attacked her! Some people just don't deserve life and he is one of them. đŻ
RIP Ashlyn đđŒđ đ
instead he gets special VIP luxury treatment. after horifically murdering her in cold blood. premeditated
To the girl that didnât go with him, this is how you do it, people! You donât just go to peoples homes, you listen to your heart and head, especially. Itâs just not smart. There are people that are ready to snap. Not the victims fault absolutely but please donât go with strangers. So sorry for the family. She seemed like a beautiful sweet human
To the girl that didn't go with him, maybe she should have been more direct instead of giving him half-answers and stringing his hope along for months on end to help him transform into the ultimate jaded psychopath he was looking for an excuse to become.
@@YUMLiberalTears Wtf him having sick thoughts isn't her fault!
Yah, I got lucky. I used to go to the club a lot. I usually always wanted to get drunk. There was at least a time or two I'd wake up the next day with someone I had just met and had no idea where I was, not even the town.
@@YUMLiberalTears What is wrong with you
@@YUMLiberalTears she ignored him a lot. A normal, sane person wouldâve gotten the hint. Not anyones fault but his. She did not create him. And his murderous ways. If you felt someone was stringing you along would you make a plan to murder someone? Hopefully not.
I canât believeâŠtruly canâtâŠwith all the stories of horrific online dating stories, that anyone would still use the dating apps. Blows my mind! AND they STILL go to private places. Please stop people!! Itâs NOT safe!!!!
How else would you meet someone these days? Meeting someone IRL is hard. People are afraid to flirt, scared of being accused of sexual harassment. Dating apps aren't bad, many people end up with great relationships. A small percentage is evil, but that's general population as well. Not just on dating apps. Just use common sense.
She was looking for one night stand. Gave him her address, went home with him on the 1st date. She wasn't expecting to be killed.
Dating apps are very commonly used, but everyone needs to be more aware and take steps to remain safe. Meet in public, safe spaces and do not go to anywhere private until you know them a lot better.
@@sameerolail You don't know that she "was looking for one night stand".
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So 15 definite years till heâs eligible for parole?!? Thatâs insane!
You can use a dating app, but you donât have someone come to your house or go to their house when you donât even know the person. Itâs amazing how many people do that and donât even think twice about it.
Thatâs something I would never do but yes, plenty of people take that risk.
Yes Susan, it's a crazy thought how woman would risk their lives with so many horrific stories out there.
I was living in Las Vegas. There was a case where a woman would find men on dating apps. Then meet up and she would have her male counterparts jump the guy and would rob them and force them to withdraw money from their accounts. Always meet in a public place
You need to get off of it. It is not safe to use this platform.
This is so wrong. Just met and went back to his home??
I wish she could have taken precautions.
Condolences to the family
RIP to this lovely girl. What a loss to her friends & family
I never use Tinder or any social media for this very reason. I am a male and I still feel very unsafe using dating apps.
Why would you bring someone to your home without meeting their parents and dating for a few months and meeting their friends and making mutual friends because otherwise you're sleeping with a complete stranger.
Welcome to 2023.
Reminds me a bit of the tragic case of Grace Millane âŠ
My thoughts too. So sad.
These situations make me happy that I rarely met dates online/dating apps. Idc what anyone says, itâs dangerous! Not to mention, it shows the person doesnât have the best social skills if they have to meet ppl on dating apps CONSISTENTLY.
Always a pleasure seeing you on my feed
It's really hard to find the will to go out on dates lately, I've been watching way too many of these.
Moral of the story, donât get in the car and sleep with a stranger.
You're one of my favourite True Crime Channels on CZcams. I love how you narrate the videos and you can hear the compassion for these people in your voice.
the sleepover was too soon as it's a cruel world out there!
Every video I've watched from this channel has made me cry. They are done beautifully and thoughtfully. Amazing Job
The last words spoken on this video are absolutely heartbreaking. Thanks again for posting such a week researched, sensitive story.
A life lost for nothing, but nothing... Gosh boy [__] Poor Ashlyn. Hey Narrator - your voice is a God's gift. Thank him, and thank you.
Rip Ashlyn.
As always, thoughtfully and beautifully presented. As heartbreaking as these stories are, you share each with sensitivity and respect.
What's up with the victim blaming? Only one person to blame. The guy with the knife in his hand.
absolutely tragic! rip Ashlyn. girls , don't meet random men after few hours of chat. while some narcissists can hide their insanity for months, some lunatics you can pick up on with few days of talk. be safe
Very WELL put together!! GREAT JOB!!
That last quote from her dad cut deep......đąâ€ïžđŻ
We are in a world where we have to be so careful with who we trust even if itâs for a few minutes and couple of hours. The monsters walking amongst us look just like us! They donât have fangs or claws etc they are regular people with very evil intentions. Handsome,pretty smart ugly dumb we can never let our guard down.
Thanks as always TC.... nearly half a million subscribers - incredible and well deserved! đđâ€ïž
I was searching for your new video today about 10 minutes ago!â€ïž RIP Ashlyn!đ
Ladies don't go home with a guy after meeting a him for only 4 hours!!!! Love yourself more than being intimate on a first eate.
BEST SATURDAY âïžâ€ïž Thank you TC!
The victim blaming in this case is disgusting. It is not women's responsibility to make sure men don't attack them. The accountability lies solely with the attacker.
Love, love, love everything about this channel!!!
Thereâs amazing amount of detail that went into all of this. My condolences to Ashlynâs family and friends. She had so much to live for, and yet it had to be taken away from her.
Get rid of all dating apps 2023 PLEASE LADIES
Ladies do not lie in bed with a man, especially at your most vulnerable, asleep. First know you can trust him with your life. Men same goes to you.
Cases like this are always so terrifying
I just had a conversation with my mother who is separated about dating and she expressed to me her fears - not of dating but of what psychopath she might come across on her dates. I understand her concerns..
Thanks for uploading
One piece of advice for Tinder dates : it is risky to get to someone's car or house, when you just met, even if it is a small town. There are good liers in this world. And I did not like this Ethan's eyes: a person's eyes reveal a lot about his character. So many really good-hearted women think to be able to play Beauty and the Beast : keep it just as a fairy tale, you are physically weaker. You can't afford to risk your life, it is not romantic at all.
Stories like this is why I deleted my profile from PLENTY OF FISH!!! The 4 dates I went on, the men only wanted 1 thing. I was looking for something more substantial. I've NEVER used a dating app again and I'm completely reluctant of men in general now.
I can guess that one thing. Hint : the five-letter word that starts with "M."
I love it when you post new stories đ
Your summaries are always so beautiful and respectful to the victims and give them the attention and respect they deserved â€
I honestly don't see the point in a complete confession and then a plea of not guilty. The punishment does not fit the crime. She was dead as soon as she agreed to go back to his house. He deserves life imprisonment.
@Long John Thilver A lawyer will advise a client who confessed to plead guilty and/or accept a plea deal. The client is free to take that advice or not.
I need to just stop watching anything that has to do with dating...never ends well. I have a cat, friends, shelter, food and a job and hobbies and other things in life that bring me joy. Dating and meeting someone is just a flat out NO Fing thank you, I'm Good. For anyone out there in the world looking for love, always be careful, play it safe and getting to know a person before you get in their car, go to their house or meet them in a back alley, EVEN if they seem nice...Ted Bundy seemed like a nice Bloke in a mental cases skin....Be Safe and take care yourselves and I hope Ms. Black's family finds peace, and this monster in put in a dark hole forever.
Same here Im good no need for men anymore after a bad marriage & seperation been single 5 years in no hurry to commit to anyone only my 2 cats Im bringing up since kittens and close family. Got my huge 85.6" LG TV my Samsung Note 20 ultra and my HP 17.3 LapTop that keeps me more than entertained and very busy along with my cosmetics collection projects I occationally do for my Instagram and now CZcams Im good been single 5 years in no hurry and the tranquility that comes with being single is priceless. Leaving me with more time to talk and spend time with my elderly mother I help clean when needed.
Whew, glad I left tinder. I was not even on there long and didn't even meet anyone.
It is well known never ever give out your address to anyone til you know them extremely well. Then going back to her place after drinks was a big mistake. Never put yourself at this big risk.
So sick of the flawed logic of "victim blaming". No one thinks the victim DESERVES it, but why on earth is it wrong to advocate for people to use common sense when dating and not go to the house of someone you don't know? Crybabying about "victim blaming" does not fix a thing.
After a couple of months Ethan was fired for having an altercation with a female coworkerâŠthe details of which remain unconfirmed