ESFP tier-ranking the 16 personalities

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  • @trinaq
    @trinaq Před 9 měsíci +657

    "No one is a burden at my parties, except for the people who don't show up!" I love that Kristin gets to act like an exaggerated version of her own type! 😂

    • @L17_8
      @L17_8 Před 9 měsíci +17

      Jesus loves you ❤️ please turn to him and repent before it's too late. The end times described in the Bible are already happening in the world.

    • @nelit708
      @nelit708 Před 9 měsíci

      @@L17_8 shut up

    • @pescuezoee
      @pescuezoee Před 9 měsíci

      @@L17_8help 😭

    • @paulohalderic2322
      @paulohalderic2322 Před 9 měsíci +48

      @@L17_8 I guess you might be the burden of the party.

    • @annepaulinetiu4036
      @annepaulinetiu4036 Před 9 měsíci +12

      Eyy that's true. My esfp friend is so hurt when one of our friends don't show up in the party.

  • @Vistlivia
    @Vistlivia Před 9 měsíci +338

    As an INTJ I feel like Maleficent - I hate parties and don't wanna come, but YOU DARE NOT TO INVITE ME? That calls for an evil spell

    • @SistoActivitatemAtm
      @SistoActivitatemAtm Před 9 měsíci +19

      She didn't hate parties, she threw a party after capturing the prince

    • @olinaw5145
      @olinaw5145 Před 9 měsíci +3

      lollll fair

    • @SXLSkyya
      @SXLSkyya Před 5 měsíci +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @galateojlatteo
      @galateojlatteo Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@@SistoActivitatemAtmI remember that part after that she foolishly lock him up in a dungeon so that he can escape.

  • @cginder6955
    @cginder6955 Před 9 měsíci +188

    As an INTJ, I'd rather you say "Hey, I'm having this party and you're welcome to come if you want. Do not feel obligated at all. Just know you're welcome."
    I absolutely will not come if not invited, but I would like to have the option if it's available.

    • @lena424
      @lena424 Před 9 měsíci +23

      My friend (who is probably an ENFP) does it for me often and I greatly appreciate the option and the freedom of choice without being offended. -INTJ

    • @huntedsnark7507
      @huntedsnark7507 Před 9 měsíci +19

      Same same. As an INTP.
      It's nice to be invited.
      It's wonderful to be not pressured.
      That's all the social affirmation I need.
      (If course I'm not going! Good grief 😏)

    • @kyurei4478
      @kyurei4478 Před 9 měsíci +4

      Same as an INFJ. Except if some people broke up recently or are suppressing wounds and are foolishly coming to a party expecting to run away from their problems just to realize mid-party after enough alcohol and vomiting 3 times that's not actually working and it's just too much to bear. I will gladly come even when not invited, will install a couch in the least noisy room for an express therapy session and hypnotize some of them just in case for future use. Oh and playing the taxi when serious stuff inevitably come back and nobody stayed sober. Darn, parties are so fun !

    • @thepickles8833
      @thepickles8833 Před 14 dny

      You just described my lifelong rule to these kinds of events.

  • @JackyVSO
    @JackyVSO Před 9 měsíci +279

    If you go to a party in Australia and end up in another country, you are truly a legendary ESFP 🌠

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  Před 9 měsíci +34

      Hahaha VALID

    • @RishaBond
      @RishaBond Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@dearkristin Your eyeshadow is just gorgeous in this video! (And the various somewhat-matching nail colors were a nice touch.)

  • @the-wisest-emu
    @the-wisest-emu Před 9 měsíci +121

    I love when MBTI youtubers just run wild with their own types in sketches. lol

  • @kommad.2931
    @kommad.2931 Před 9 měsíci +156

    This INFJ would be perfectly happy in the "not invited" spot. Diving into conspiracy theories with (also not invited) INTJ for hours or watching the night sky and talking about multi-dimensional beings with ENFP (after they have left the party) seems a tad more intriguing. ✨

    • @migsmethinks5801
      @migsmethinks5801 Před 9 měsíci +24

      Am INTJ. That sounds way better than any party.

    • @goldengirl8355
      @goldengirl8355 Před 9 měsíci +16

      But you can’t meet each other without going you know. (ENTP)

    • @dankr7009
      @dankr7009 Před 9 měsíci +4

      @@migsmethinks5801 I agree 👍- INFJ

    • @yuanyou17
      @yuanyou17 Před 9 měsíci +11

      I was excited by the "watching the night sky" part and I could say that I'd rather be in this kind of a party than a "party" party. I'd also love to hear people's thoughts and know them deeper. Do invite me :) - ISFP

    • @carolinethompson3305
      @carolinethompson3305 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Totally agree 👍 [infj]

  • @scoutboo
    @scoutboo Před 3 měsíci +14

    Describing INFPs as sidekicks and enablers at parties is so crazy accurate. I love pushing people into doing crazy stuff but not doing that stuff myself. The enjoyment I get from watching someone make fools of themselves while I take videos is unparalleled 👌

  • @helenshianimation7567
    @helenshianimation7567 Před 8 měsíci +34

    As an ENTP, I laughed so hard at the "ENTPs and I have a mutual agreement to keep it surface level" part. ENTPs are drawn to ESFPs because ENTPs are naturally drawn to chaos, but when ENTPs and ESFPs get to know each other, we realise that deep down we are too different.

    • @UrWeid
      @UrWeid Před 3 měsíci +3

      Don't speak for all ENTPs, I avoid ESFPs (too loud, annoying, attention-hoarding and overbearing, sometimes even pushy and dangerous, from experience) or laugh at them from a distance. Nothing to attract me there.

    • @helenshianimation7567
      @helenshianimation7567 Před 3 měsíci +2

      @@UrWeid I see what you mean, the unhealthy ESFPs can get very bossy when they are angry

  • @visible2927
    @visible2927 Před 9 měsíci +158

    As a isfp with esfp friends, I would put esfp in “party bully” category, because I have seen my esfp friends giving traumatizing social experiences to sweeet innocent polite shy intps in parties😂

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  Před 9 měsíci +24

      HAHA me

    • @idfkwhattosay
      @idfkwhattosay Před 9 měsíci +12

      @@dearkristinim the sweet polite shy intp she’s talking about 😂

    • @ranikster9955
      @ranikster9955 Před 3 měsíci +1

      As an ESFP I hope I haven’t bullied anyone at a party 🥳 or other. I could never do that to an INTP. I just love throwing a party 😊

  • @astronomerin
    @astronomerin Před 9 měsíci +84

    1:41 ENFP
    2:24 ESFJ
    2:56 INTJ
    3:23 ISFP
    3:44 ENTP
    4:23 ISTJ
    4:50 ESTP
    5:39 INFP
    6:17 ESTJ
    7:19 ISTP
    8:23 INFJ
    9:25 ENTJ
    10:05 ISFJ
    10:20 ENFJ
    10:56 ESFP
    11:20 INTP

  • @tenebict
    @tenebict Před 9 měsíci +64

    no one:
    absolutely no one:
    Kristin: tuh-*RUST* ME

  • @psychsephone9832
    @psychsephone9832 Před 9 měsíci +288

    If you're actually friends with an INTJ, please invite them to things (especially if its a murder mystery party, most INTJs would love that). Our stereotypical misanthropy only gets reinforced when we feel like we don't matter to the people who matter to us (our Fi exists and it is very sensitive even if you don't see it).
    However, if you're just an INTJ's work colleage/classmate/some other superficial contact....yeah, don't bother, we're not coming

    • @uchihaitachi01117
      @uchihaitachi01117 Před 9 měsíci +5

      That is very sad 😞

    • @dessertdreams
      @dessertdreams Před 9 měsíci +30

      As an INTJ I can confirm that this is true

    • @EresirThe1st
      @EresirThe1st Před 9 měsíci +24

      Yeah but with the caveat that it’s a good environment for conversation. If it’s just loud music and dancing I’d be miserable.

    • @psychsephone9832
      @psychsephone9832 Před 9 měsíci +14

      @@EresirThe1st personally I like to release my Se demon with dancing (after activating her with plenty of booze), but even if it's something I absolutely wouldn't be interested in, it's still nice to be invited just to know you haven't been forgotten/excluded

    • @aml7481
      @aml7481 Před 9 měsíci +8

      ​@@psychsephone9832 - I'm always a little conflicted as to whether I'd rather go Se inferior / dancing and drinking mode or quiet conversations with a good "social puzzle".
      If you get me drunk I am highly likely to unleash my Shadow ENTP and encourage shenanigans.

  • @hoibsh21
    @hoibsh21 Před 9 měsíci +158

    Kristin's Exorcist: How many demons --- er, personalities are inside you, child?
    Dear Kristin: Sixteen, maybe more, for we are Legion.
    I'm in a Halloweeny mood!

    • @7XSubaru
      @7XSubaru Před 9 měsíci +1

      Haha. Make me think on a INFJ-friend. She can play so many differnt characters in a RPG. She´s doing a great job.
      It's hard to believe that there is only one person behind it. However, she probably needs a lot of energy for this, she is absent again for a longer period of time afterwards.

  • @jijitters
    @jijitters Před 9 měsíci +128

    ISFP and ESFP make great friends because the way they think is so similar and they're usually not interested in interrupting the other's vibes at all. ESFP loves a sidekick they can ditch when they find a new activity and ISFP loves to be a sidekick so they can wander away when they're no longer interested in an activity. It works perfectly at parties lol

    • @TylenOneal239
      @TylenOneal239 Před 9 měsíci +23

      I wouldn’t say great, but definitely a good duo. As a ISFP the two things I’ve noticed in ESFP’s I’ve met is that they think any type of music that isn’t a todays mainstream or a Tiktok remix is cringe. Whereas ISFP’s love to listen to all types of genres of music and really values these things. The phrase “Disco/Dubstep is dead” was probably coined by a ESFP. Another thing is that they openly express that things that a ISFP do, (such as taking walks at night), is like super creepy
      Edit: If a ESFP invited a ISFP to a party and then ditched them for the rest of the night in a room full of people they don’t know, not only are the ISFP just going to leave, but make a mental note not to go to any other ESFP parties unless it’s confirmed other people they know will be there

    • @jijitters
      @jijitters Před 9 měsíci +7

      @@TylenOneal239 As a fellow ISFP, it's true that being ditched around strangers sucks but I can't imagine most ISFPs agreeing to be in such a situation in the first place haha We're more likely to just leave if no one's talking to us.

    • @JungianStar25
      @JungianStar25 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Another ISFP here
      My best friend is an ESFP, I would consider even marrying an ESFP one day, what can be better - both understand each other, support, respect and push to be better :)

    • @pescuezoee
      @pescuezoee Před 9 měsíci +6

      @@TylenOneal239well obviously depends on the person 💀 every person has their own likes and stuff, i mean my mom’s best friend is an esfp and she dances to whatever music they play, and my mom is an isfp and they get along so well its cute to watch

    • @jijitters
      @jijitters Před 9 měsíci +4

      @pescuezoee Yeah exactly, personality type doesn't tell us what someone's taste or interests will be at all! Just how they interact with them.

  • @Azdaja13
    @Azdaja13 Před 9 měsíci +76

    Thank you ESFP for not inviting me, it is most appreciated.
    - sincerely, INTJ

    • @jameswilkerson4412
      @jameswilkerson4412 Před 9 měsíci +9

      And, if I’m an INTJ, yes, that vein in my forehead does bulge often

    • @ccl6192
      @ccl6192 Před 9 měsíci

      My husband refers to those bulging forehead veins as my devil horns.

    • @SlimThrull
      @SlimThrull Před 9 měsíci

      Seconded.

    • @benjaminattwell1430
      @benjaminattwell1430 Před 9 měsíci +1

      As a fellow INTJ I must say the party will be amazing just make sure to pregame with your favorite booze or and or substance 😂 you’ll transform into an ESFP. I know I do😂

  • @caffemocca8855
    @caffemocca8855 Před 9 měsíci +19

    "They're actions. They don't mean anything"
    My NiFe brain: NO

    • @uchihaitachi01117
      @uchihaitachi01117 Před 9 měsíci

      Exactly. It doesn't matter if they dedicate their lives to convince us to take things less intensely, we will be maniacs till the grave.

  • @boggremlin892
    @boggremlin892 Před 9 měsíci +70

    Thank you and please continue not inviting us. Sincerely, all INTJs.

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  Před 9 měsíci +13

      Copy.

    • @L17_8
      @L17_8 Před 9 měsíci +4

      Jesus loves you ❤️ please turn to him and repent before it's too late. The end times described in the Bible are already happening in the world.

    • @L17_8
      @L17_8 Před 9 měsíci +2

      ​@@dearkristinJesus loves you ❤️ please turn to him and repent before it's too late. The end times described in the Bible are already happening in the world.

    • @kristae.7686
      @kristae.7686 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Speak for yourselves. I'd like an invite even if I'm probably going to turn it down 😂. - INTJ

  • @renatafu4351
    @renatafu4351 Před 9 měsíci +11

    fun fact: if an INTP comes to your party even though you've made it abundantly clear that they are not obliged to go, it's not because they think they'll hurt your feelings; they're just too embarrassed to say no and then too embarrassed to flake because they didn't say no.

  • @CassieAngelica
    @CassieAngelica Před 9 měsíci +71

    You have great acting skills 💖✨ To go from an INFJ character to an ESFP character so quickly, bravo!

  • @goldengirl8355
    @goldengirl8355 Před 9 měsíci +32

    Can’t wait for an ENTP one. Everyone will be at the bottom tier with perfect arguments as to why they belong there and then all moved to the top tier with perfect arguments as to why they belong there 😂
    This video is so good on many levels. My son is an esfp and even though it’s satire it’s still accurate.

  • @lindaaltnurme6730
    @lindaaltnurme6730 Před 9 měsíci +13

    ENTJ one is SO true! I often go to a party with a goal or a focus! One time i focused on practicing listening skills after reading some articles. Another time it was forcing myself to make more jokes and have an open posture. Or i could have becoming better friends with somebody as a goal, etc. I take parties as "practices", practicing social skills or testing my personality and developing it while having tons of fun! This is literally my favorite way of socializing because you learn so much in the process!! Its exciting, like mini social experiments!

    • @asvegas777
      @asvegas777 Před 9 měsíci

      Interesting. I get what you mean but can’t help but think that would not feel like a party to me. Well actually I guess I mean that would not feel like me! (I’m an ENTP, that one letter makes a lot of difference ;))

    • @asvegas777
      @asvegas777 Před 9 měsíci

      Mini social experiments nonstop though - that part does feel like me😁

  • @krazydreamer
    @krazydreamer Před 9 měsíci +65

    As an INFJ there is truth in my desire to monopolize the time of one person in a corner, usually an INFP or INTP, but I have learned if I just focus on my inferior Se I can have an amazing time at a party. I just need 7 to 10 business days to recover afterwards. ;)

    • @macklyn
      @macklyn Před 9 měsíci +14

      This INTP enjoys being monopolized. It is so much easier to only have to talk to one person! :D

    • @dankr7009
      @dankr7009 Před 9 měsíci +5

      @@macklyn I agree. Also why is it always the INFPs and INTPs for me as well that I end up talking to in a party. - INFJ

    • @draug7966
      @draug7966 Před 9 měsíci +5

      As an INFP i would be quite happy with that!

    • @W4Cthunderbird
      @W4Cthunderbird Před 9 měsíci +3

      Make an INTJ your +1. You'll have a dedicated conversationalist for the entire party. We're good at being as alone as we want to be in any situation. - INTJ

    • @RosenRotInk
      @RosenRotInk Před 4 měsíci

      INFJ here and I can confirm that. :D

  • @dankr7009
    @dankr7009 Před 9 měsíci +14

    As an INFJ, I admire the energy ESFPs bring to any situation. It is truly out of my comfort zone and I only wish to become as spontaneous as ESFPS.

  • @jashepoon
    @jashepoon Před 9 měsíci +60

    Also, during the last minutes I increasingly thought INTP was going to be a burden. Definitely not complaining about being a sidekick!

  • @selenaoquendo5201
    @selenaoquendo5201 Před 4 měsíci +4

    im an ENFP and my best friend since high school is a ESFP. there's never been a dull moment

  • @mf276
    @mf276 Před 9 měsíci +14

    Love this video; this one is gold!!! I lost it at: "If there is an Fe user in the crowd it leads to a search party" 🤣 Thanks for the laughs! This new series is amazing.

  • @entropy8634
    @entropy8634 Před 9 měsíci +24

    INTP being the last one and "respectfully a burden" being empty made me prepare for INTP to be placed there. Pleasant surprise that it wasn't the case. Despite the stereotype, INTP's are bit of a softie if you poke at our inf Fe

  • @briannaharris3856
    @briannaharris3856 Před 7 měsíci +4

    My mom is an ESFP and my dad is an INTJ. They've been married for over 40 years now. They had 8 children (all adults now), so there was always plenty of party to be had. It surprises me that so many people think the personality types don't get along very well. They actually compliment each other, like a glove that fits. When they do accept each other and are willing to work together... they become a powerful, unstoppable force!
    Thank you, Kristin for your never ending fun! And for saying that no one is a burden at your parties. Not even an INTJ! They just need someone around that they can have deep, serious conversation with. My mom always keeps things fun and my dad always keeps things interesting. A recipe for the best kind of party, in my opinion 😜
    Please keep inviting INTJ's to your parties LOL😂
    ~INFJ

  • @umptischmutz
    @umptischmutz Před 8 měsíci +7

    As an ISTP, I'm always looking for an opportunity to slip out of a large party once all formalities are over.
    Love your content, Kristen! You're giving Frank James a run for his money!

  • @jashepoon
    @jashepoon Před 9 měsíci +13

    16P Through the Eyes of the ESFP: _am I a joke to you_

    • @trinaq
      @trinaq Před 9 měsíci +6

      Hopefully she'll get the chance to finish that series, though technically, ALL of these videos are through the eyes of an ESFP.

  • @jimclayson
    @jimclayson Před 9 měsíci +61

    "A general rule of thumb that I find is that if they have no feelings, they're great for bants. Oh, except INTP, but we'll get to that."
    I just about fell out of my chair laughing at that line. 🤣
    Basing the entire ranking on how well a type fits in at an ESFP-style party is on point, certainly. When I noticed INTPs were saved for last, I was expecting at least a mild roasting from Kristin. I'm once again surprised INTPs ranked has high as we did... -- INTP
    EDIT: There seems to be a recurring theme on various MBTI channels that INTPs are devoid of feelings. I find this baffling and somewhat troubling, as we most definitely DO have feelings. They're just more of an unfortunate inconvenience for us most of the time than something we tend to celebrate.

    • @Pinkywinkykinky
      @Pinkywinkykinky Před 9 měsíci +5

      nah you ti doms are intimidatingly nice as an enfp with an istp brother

    • @huntedsnark7507
      @huntedsnark7507 Před 9 měsíci +9

      @@Pinkywinkykinky where Ti goes, Fe will surely follow, poking us and reminding us to be nice.

    • @Scruffed
      @Scruffed Před 9 měsíci +17

      Our reputation is not entirely unwarranted if you look at how we (normally) make decisions and the things we choose to express when we open our mouths. Most INTPs I've met (including myself) don't often wear our hearts on our sleeves, and our feelings (that do exist) require some amount of external help or prompting to come out, and even when they do come out, they'll be bundled with nuances, qualifications, and other non-sentimental information, which can sometimes - mistakenly - come across as apathetic or half-hearted.

    • @kyurei4478
      @kyurei4478 Před 9 měsíci +4

      The numerous immature thinkers pretending they don't have feelings surely don't help. Especially when they're trying to explain to you that feelings are not real because it's just chemicals (already seen from INTPs). Even then so what? That doesn't make any difference in actuality because you have to deal with it as a sentient being. No matter how you look at it humans are factually normally created with the ability to feel.

    • @huntedsnark7507
      @huntedsnark7507 Před 9 měsíci +5

      @kyurei4478 Yep! 100%
      Cognitive psychology tells us that the brains of all animals - human included - basically function on emotion. Not the same thing, quite, as the Jungian concept of Feeling as a judging function, but even so, if someone denies that they have emotions or make judgements based on feeling, it's simply denial. Which, ironically, some people can get quite ... erm ... emotional about 🤭🤭🤭
      [INTP... with a psych degree]

  • @nzlioness
    @nzlioness Před 9 měsíci +13

    This was SO MUCH fun to watch! Your ESFP seemed to be very happy to hold the spotlight for a whole 13 and a half minutes

  • @Onnarashi
    @Onnarashi Před 9 měsíci +25

    That INTP feeling when a positive statement is followed by "except for INTP's". Oh well.. I'll say, though, you had me for the last one. I genuinely thought we'd be put in the "burden" category and now I don't know what to think.

    • @RlyOverBored
      @RlyOverBored Před 9 měsíci +5

      I'd ask "Is it really the kind of tier list u want to participate or be highly regarded for?" U should ask urself this because these satirical tier lists are so intentionally poorly designed and superficial, particularly this one.
      For the ESFP, do u want to be party guy or be considered a mere sidekick or a burden as per the ESFP? It's a lose-lose situation in all possible ways because this satirical ESFP's superficial and skewed perspective doesnt even align with yours.
      If u score low, ur "undervalued" but its not like u wanted to be invited anyway. U score high but u reluctantly go to these parties by being guilt-tripped unless a hobby of interest enters the chat. Then ofc, there is the feeling u want to belong somewhere in some kind of community.
      So imo, just take it with a grain of salt, laugh it off and enjoy the satire.

  • @micromyuze
    @micromyuze Před 9 měsíci +30

    What is this crazy twist? I was hoping to be put into the burden tier but I'll accept not being invited. Please update this as soon as possible so that others don't get the wrong idea and believe there still is a chance. - INTP

    • @ilke3192
      @ilke3192 Před 9 měsíci +2

      "In fact, the only burdens are people who don't show up." nailed the coffin of paradoxes for me. Even though she retracted that rule, given that retraction was mostly for practical purposes of not excluding ExxPs, the dilemma remains :')

    • @cosmiclightning4723
      @cosmiclightning4723 Před 9 měsíci

      2nd

  • @iGoByNexx
    @iGoByNexx Před 9 měsíci +9

    As an INTJ, thank you.

  • @joelsnyder8499
    @joelsnyder8499 Před 9 měsíci +30

    So if the only burdens are the ones who don't show up, and the INTJs are the only ones who never show up because they are never invited, that would mean that INTJs are the burdens. It's just logical. :) --an INTJ

    • @wiegraf9009
      @wiegraf9009 Před 8 měsíci

      INTJ may be invited out of a sense of obligation but won't attend...but they're probably not invited. I say this as an INTJ who literally was not invited when all my friends were having an orgy down the hall MULTIPLE TIMES 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @crayon8749
    @crayon8749 Před 9 měsíci +11

    Once again, ENFP praise
    I can't wait for some of the other types to really put ENFPs near the bottom, i swear were either at the top or bottom, and i love it

    • @StevenPJames-fl1un
      @StevenPJames-fl1un Před 9 měsíci +1

      We just make too big a splash, you can't ignore us 😂

    • @uchihaitachi01117
      @uchihaitachi01117 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Hehe I think every good person deserves a healthy ENFP in their life.
      Thank you guys for existing 😚

  • @nateo200
    @nateo200 Před 9 měsíci +11

    You know ESFPs usually drive my absolutely insane but Kristin has restored my faith in ESFPs. You guys like ENFPs are a lot smarter than you get credit for

  • @jashepoon
    @jashepoon Před 9 měsíci +22

    Loved this one, I like how these videos are more thematic, elaborate versions #nuance of Through the Eyes and how they allow your creative genius in writing consistently hilarious monologues to shine through
    Nice wordplay as well
    Also, can't wait for other ESFPs to put your tips to good use at their next parties

  • @Bloody-Butterfly
    @Bloody-Butterfly Před 9 měsíci +5

    Thank you so much for mentioning video game parties and dnd parties for INTPs

  • @Smudg3lord
    @Smudg3lord Před 9 měsíci +3

    Yeah my Irish goodbye is fairly common but also shenanigans. - ISTP

  • @jessica61936
    @jessica61936 Před 9 měsíci +140

    As an INFJ, I want to be offended... but at the same time, I really can't deny anything she said about us 😅🥲

    • @L17_8
      @L17_8 Před 9 měsíci +7

      Jesus loves you ❤️ please turn to him and repent before it's too late. The end times described in the Bible are already happening in the world.

    • @itznav_sin
      @itznav_sin Před 9 měsíci +1

      ​@@L17_8I agree its true

    • @thijsjong
      @thijsjong Před 9 měsíci +12

      ​@@L17_8I every generation since the crucifixion there have been plenty of people who thought it was the end times for plenty of reasons. You are nothing new.

    • @DeFraans
      @DeFraans Před 9 měsíci

      @@L17_8 I guess you also need to eat his body... you know... from behind.

    • @Pinkywinkykinky
      @Pinkywinkykinky Před 9 měsíci +8

      hey don't worry as an ENFP I'd scoop you up and carry you to a corner to fuse with the walls as that one person you cling to

  • @Gabrielle-bb2zq
    @Gabrielle-bb2zq Před 9 měsíci +10

    "INFJ are usually picking someone to go and hibernate in the corner of the room with for the entierety of the night" - oh no, I've already quit the room to rest a long time ago.
    Very funny video!
    I have the feeling that Lauren should have added a rank between "great bants" and "sidekicks" (and by the way suppress the "burden") but it'ld be not fun to redo the ranking. And she had brillant ideas to exploit others' strenghts at their best.

    • @benjib2691
      @benjib2691 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Given my experience I believe it actually depends on two things :
      - Are we enjoying the current mood of the party?
      - Are we going to possibly offend some people by quitting early on?
      But yeah usually it ends up :
      - By, like Lauren perfectly described, talking to that one person we click with in a corner and, depending on many factors such as how drunk he or she is, we tend to either talk about stuff we are interested in or curious about (no matter how deep the subject is) or become improvised psychologists where the person unleashes his/her whole life-story despite us not having asked anything,
      - By telling a very small number of people that we are leaving early (in order to not stress anyone) and then retreat to our comfort zone to either chill or sleep in calm and peace.
      Overall I tolerate going to big parties but only with people I know and only 2 or 3 times a year for important events like birthdays, because these social events with a lot of people drain my energy gauge faster than the gloom in Zelda TOTK :')

  • @mattevans6752
    @mattevans6752 Před 9 měsíci +7

    As an ISFP, I do not want to be invited to the party, but I will absolutely sing the male part in Love Is An Open Door.

  • @moritzs1052
    @moritzs1052 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Ahhhh this is perfect! The energy, the vibe, the setting, just everything!
    Also, as soon as Kristin showed the sidekick tier, I knew that it was made for ISFJs :D (I'm also one btw).

  • @RlyOverBored
    @RlyOverBored Před 9 měsíci +3

    Its always funny the INTPs described in the vid can always walk out the door any given moment but dont. Sometimes, it isnt even a Fe inferior problem, sometimes its the dreaded Ne curiousity out of boredom where it becomes a sort of like FOMO once ur interest has peak to go (even if u think the party will be a flop, but u may have expected 1 odd thing to happen). Thankfully, once u "see enough" and understand the picture after analysis, the super tight boundaries are formed. The reason and evidence is crystal clear and I disregard using Fe and go straight to Te-Ni apathy. The crappy Fi demon is extremely useful in these situations as well. Just stay away from these types of people or events. U know dang well like the INTJ u dont wanna go, so dont! Great vid Kristin.

  • @JamieAsareZiegler
    @JamieAsareZiegler Před 9 měsíci +4

    I'm actually a bit disappointed that I'm not a burden at parties.
    ~ INFJ

  • @purplemind93
    @purplemind93 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Okey this was a fun video ! Love to see more of these ESFP satire sketches!

  • @TheGreatWerebear
    @TheGreatWerebear Před 9 měsíci +7

    The candy pastel aesthetic is just wonderful.

  • @caphung
    @caphung Před 3 měsíci +2

    your ranking vids are very well written and delivered

  • @arkalias3994
    @arkalias3994 Před 9 měsíci +6

    ESTJs and ISFPs are great; absolutely loved that you gave them the tier-ranking that you did!

  • @lizzysalway6844
    @lizzysalway6844 Před 9 měsíci +5

    It’s an undeniable fact…. We ENFPs are THE BEST at partying. And you probably can hand us anything whilst we monologue.
    I’m looking forward to the ENFP version of this. I think every personality type will be in one row called SO AWESOME!

  • @benjaminattwell1430
    @benjaminattwell1430 Před 9 měsíci +13

    @dearkristin we all know that the key to getting an INTJ to go to your party (if invited of course) is to “pregame” enough to transform them in an ESFP. 2 shots of tequila should do the trick and POOF! karaoke and dancing all night!

    • @kommad.2931
      @kommad.2931 Před 9 měsíci +4

      INTJ (and INFJ for that matter) in Se grip is an experience nobody will forget, for sure. Least of all those Ni-Doms themselves. ^^

    • @migsmethinks5801
      @migsmethinks5801 Před 9 měsíci +4

      This comment has been flagged as an existential security threat by the Keystone INTJ Network Driving Nascent Existential Situation Solutions. Coordinates have been forwarded to ISTP assets for immediate action. ❤
      /Jk

    • @benjaminattwell1430
      @benjaminattwell1430 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@migsmethinks5801 we have an INTJ/ESFP transformation scenario! Immediate action required!

  • @hilymartinez5277
    @hilymartinez5277 Před 9 měsíci +5

    These videos are great! The acting..the entertainment...her expressions and how she can act as almost any type...cant wait for the enfp version ✨🩷

  • @ilke3192
    @ilke3192 Před 9 měsíci +27

    "So I speak for all ESFPs when I say that I officially release all INTPs from their self-inflicted obligation to attend our parties."
    Whew. Thank you.
    *a moment later*
    "In fact, the only burdens are people who don't show up."
    Well, that was short lived.
    Kristin, you don't need me tell you that that's a contradiction. You will break the social brain of the INTP with such dilemmas.

    • @sarahberkner
      @sarahberkner Před 9 měsíci +2

      Well she did say the P types could be flaky, also she's playing a caricature of her type.
      But I agree with what she said that INTPs like playing games at parties, as an ESTJ I'd rather play games than just talk even though I'm bad at strategy games.

  • @paulimorph.1
    @paulimorph.1 Před 9 měsíci +1

    These are a genuine riot!!! Love this series!!!

  • @shadowboxing7029
    @shadowboxing7029 Před 9 měsíci +3

    I'm 7 drinks away from becoming an ESTP, not even necessarily at a party - ISTP

  • @jameswilkerson4412
    @jameswilkerson4412 Před 9 měsíci +8

    I don’t have a problem with karaoke if a) the acoustics of the room aren’t horrific and b) at LEAST one person can sing.
    -a possible INTP

    • @sabrinarajan
      @sabrinarajan Před 9 měsíci +2

      I totally agree with you.. I actually love singing. Sounding good is more important to me than having fun during karaoke. 😅
      - INTP

  • @Harkz0r
    @Harkz0r Před 8 měsíci +2

    The fact that this entire tier list is predicated on who you would or wouldn't like to invite to a party is so stereotypically ESFP it hurts. But as much as I wish I could refute your points, they're pretty damn accurate in my case. Though it has been quite some time I've been to a social gathering where I haven't felt like I'm "hiding in plain sight" to some degree, so it would be amazing to have an actual small group of people I can properly connect with rather than feel like I have to play some kind of expected social role. I kind of miss that.
    - INFP

    • @mrsmiawallace3554
      @mrsmiawallace3554 Před 2 měsíci

      As an INFP...Id love to experience a small gathering of just INFPs and maybe a couple of ENFPs could attend too 😁

    • @mrsmiawallace3554
      @mrsmiawallace3554 Před 2 měsíci

      And an INFJ also.

  • @phillconklin382
    @phillconklin382 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Heres some free validation from your regular INFP. I love this series you do a great job. The jokes and insights are fresh.

  • @gabriellasilva642
    @gabriellasilva642 Před 9 měsíci

    @dearkristin This is so good! Honestly this is the best yet of the series...I really hope you plan to continue these!

  • @FlamingCockatiel
    @FlamingCockatiel Před 9 měsíci +1

    I am surprised and grateful at the amount of TJs higher up in the tier list.

  • @WolfoxBR
    @WolfoxBR Před 9 měsíci +13

    I would *love* to watch a video with Jenna reacting to that ENFP section... so she could tell us of her experience with her ESFP sister! :D

  • @ellier2018
    @ellier2018 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Your eyeshadow is so pretty omg

  • @macklyn
    @macklyn Před 9 měsíci

    Brilliant Kristin! Loved how fast you talked as the ESFP, closed captions were my friends. I was worried I'd end up in the burden category (INTP) but you nailed it with the wee party!

  • @bridgettelair370
    @bridgettelair370 Před 9 měsíci +7

    Lol you got me, I refused to go to a drag show that all my friends were going to (bachelorette thing), it’s just so loud and I am not into the mania that the audience is supposed to exhibit. But a game night, you better believe I’ll be there!
    -an INTP

    • @sarahberkner
      @sarahberkner Před 9 měsíci

      Drag shows are, at their best, beauty pageants for people who would normally say they have a problem with pageants, you know, objectifying women and all that. Besides that, I don't think I'd like the atmosphere either as an ESTJ.

  • @justanordinarydemigay5243
    @justanordinarydemigay5243 Před 9 měsíci +11

    Yes, we'll all know the deepest and darkest secrets of Kristin's mind

    • @L17_8
      @L17_8 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Jesus loves you ❤️ please turn to him and repent before it's too late. The end times described in the Bible are already happening in the world.

    • @thedreadpirateblacktooth5551
      @thedreadpirateblacktooth5551 Před 9 měsíci +1

      I'm not sure if ESFPs even have deep dark secrets... /s

  • @cyanpaon
    @cyanpaon Před 9 měsíci +1

    I WAS WAITING FOR AN UPDATE FOR THIS SERIES. I pray to god that you remember to do all 16 this time as this series is just godly. Love you, keep it up!

    • @sarahberkner
      @sarahberkner Před 9 měsíci +1

      I think she's saving the "Through the eyes of the esfp" for 16 personalities in a musical, when she gets enough Patrons. I think she did all the others for that series.

  • @nerysghemor5781
    @nerysghemor5781 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Hehe, while I get overwhelmed a lot of times with parties (helpful to have a nice ESFJ there as social shepherd), it’s very true that INFPs secretly enjoy watching mayhem as long as 1) others are doing it and 2) no one gets hurt. 😂

  • @aeteal
    @aeteal Před 9 měsíci

    These - are - stellar. Keep 'em coming! 🎉❤

  • @tamerebel
    @tamerebel Před měsícem

    You're so funny and I love your wordplay!

  • @Darinalovesyou
    @Darinalovesyou Před 9 měsíci +5

    I love how all the EXXP types are all in the social synchronisation, this just proves our love to each other - Enfp :)

    • @alexperson4503
      @alexperson4503 Před 9 měsíci +1

      I thought I was the only one who noticed 😂

    • @shikenkanade
      @shikenkanade Před 6 měsíci +1

      I love that list too, as an ENFP who was once an ESTP lol

  • @iloveGod1105
    @iloveGod1105 Před 9 měsíci

    I LOVE YOU KRISTIN!!! How in the world could someone be this creative! I am patiently awaiting your ENFJ and ENFP versions. love youuuuu!!!!!

  • @ilveyouful
    @ilveyouful Před 9 měsíci +8

    Look as an ISFJ, I respectfully knew we were going to be placed as sidekicks. That being said, I'm starting to wonder if maybe I'm an ESFJ because I'm usually the one planning the parties, picking the settings, cooking the food, inviting the people, hosting the parties...but then I remember that I have inf Ne lmao. So a sociable ISFJ it is!! Speaking of parties, I'm throwing a retro horror themed Halloween party this year, and I'm really really excited for it.

    • @goldengirl8355
      @goldengirl8355 Před 9 měsíci

      And we’re all invited?! Yay!😅

    • @tabby_cat
      @tabby_cat Před 9 měsíci

      Introverts can be pretty sociable, especially those with significant Fe like ISFJ and INFJ, I've found.
      Also, some people have social anxiety, which they may confuse with introversion. You likely don't have social anxiety.
      For example, I knew an 'INFP' who was almost certainly an ENFP with social anxiety. Hated crowds, shied away from any kind of public speaking, avoided being the centre of attention, but still super energetic, talkative, expressive, hilarious to be around (and also a stunning amount of oversharing lol).

    • @NightCloudI
      @NightCloudI Před 4 měsíci

      How do you know you have an inferior Ne? Could you give me an example? I'm trying to figure out if I'm an INFJ or ISFJ. Thank you in advance. :)

  • @kaliah1494
    @kaliah1494 Před 9 měsíci +3

    ENFP that monologuing with an object is so true x.x
    It attaches to my character model and I end up wandering around with it without remembering why it's there or...that it's there.
    Omgaaawr I woulda shown up to the party gurl but I forgorrr 💀 I accidentally double booked and then cancelled both just in case of mutuals and went dancing alone across town! 😅

  • @whitneyd6827
    @whitneyd6827 Před 9 měsíci +4

    No no you don't understand... my Se wants so badly to relax and party but everyone singles me out as the one to trauma dump on and I'm like please no you're a stranger, I'm drunk, and my favorite song is playing 😭 I'm a therapist by day and partier by night
    - enfj
    Can confirm ESTJs are awesome for parties and will gladly plan everything for you.. just hope nothing goes wrong

  • @fourNfour
    @fourNfour Před 9 měsíci +5

    I wonder without that ribbon and telling Lauren to do this with a strict script as she's strapped to repeat it indefinitely with no clear goal and unable to witness people's reaction will make the life in her eyes drain slowly in every passing moment (this as the video is... just satire).
    - INTJ, displeased at the absence of invitation to reject

  • @spooky_alien
    @spooky_alien Před 9 měsíci +1

    I love this series so much ❤

  • @dsnunez09
    @dsnunez09 Před 9 měsíci

    I need a tutorial for your eye makeup!!!! Gorgeous!

  • @JonBrase
    @JonBrase Před 6 měsíci +2

    A significant number of INTPs are closet ENTPs. So an INTP that shows up to a party and sits in a corner may actually be looking for a social event, but unsure how to navigate it (especially given a tendency to infodump, overshare, or otherwise stick our feet in our mouths when we do open them).

  • @StillGamingTM
    @StillGamingTM Před 9 měsíci +4

    The ENTJ bit is pure poetry

  • @iamunique1818
    @iamunique1818 Před 9 měsíci +6

    You guys should really wash your hands after using the bathroom like seriously
    -An ISTJ

    • @coin3720
      @coin3720 Před 9 měsíci

      If you keep your hands in your pockets the entire time then they'll never get dirty 🧠

  • @evey89
    @evey89 Před 9 měsíci +3

    ENFP love. Always great to be appreciated. You're amazing

  • @szabib8048
    @szabib8048 Před 9 měsíci +5

    I'll happily make you cocktails provided I don't have to make small talk to people or join on all the stupid things that happen in the meantime. Recieving a small appreciation after a well-made drink is also welcome. - your friendly ISTP. (That did NOT go home after an hour because your party proved to be entertaining enough.)

    • @scone1025
      @scone1025 Před 9 měsíci +2

      The only type of party I like is the kind where i hardly know anyone and can drink myself into an ESTP state of mind, without having to worry about anyone from my real life observing it. But those are rare.

    • @szabib8048
      @szabib8048 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@scone1025 good for you if you can drink yourself into an extroverted type! Booze only makes things worse for me, so I have to fish for my inner "E"-s in a sober state :). Picking up salsa dancing really helped with that. Otherwise, I'd prefer boardgame nights just like some of the other "I"-s mentioned.

    • @scone1025
      @scone1025 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@szabib8048 yeah trivia/boardgame nights are good, but i think people can tell that i value the competition more than the social event surrounding it.

  • @BlackSailPass_GuitarCovers
    @BlackSailPass_GuitarCovers Před 7 měsíci +2

    Being stuck in a room with 6-or-more of these people is my personal idea of hell.

    • @NightCloudI
      @NightCloudI Před 4 měsíci

      Add 20 more people, a bunch of stressful situations, everyone judging you and also sometimes having to talk in front of them and you get school :D

  • @Domisimi
    @Domisimi Před 9 měsíci +2

    At the end of a party INFPs are always the ones to whom you say: “They always have to exaggerate.” Because they're drunk as hell. For example, I no longer get invited to weddings.
    We start off quiet and shy and the next day we can't answer the following questions: "Dude, what was wrong with you yesterday? You really can't remember? That was so insane. You were making out with my friend's grandma! I was very ashamed of you."

  • @thenarstar
    @thenarstar Před 9 měsíci +2

    Kristin: "and so I come to the last type..."
    * Burden tier still empty *
    INTPs: * *_Sweating Profusely_* *

  • @KahunaPuffin
    @KahunaPuffin Před 9 měsíci +5

    INTP: LOL, I was so sure we'd end up in the burden box! Thanks for loving us regardless of our "social flop" nature. 🙃

  • @tinniesealjiji
    @tinniesealjiji Před 9 měsíci +2

    I love your humor so much

  • @huntedsnark7507
    @huntedsnark7507 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Oh wow, it's like getting a note from your mum never to have to go to a party again!
    Thanks Kristin!
    ...
    What am I talking about? I haven't been to a party since 1988!

  • @scoutboo
    @scoutboo Před 3 měsíci +1

    1:27 "Some people are just more introverted or 'social flops', if you will" 😂

  • @laithantucci5679
    @laithantucci5679 Před 9 měsíci

    Another absolutely GOLDEN video

  • @flacountrygal
    @flacountrygal Před 9 měsíci +3

    I am living for an ENFP version of this.....

  • @atnoc8738
    @atnoc8738 Před 9 měsíci +14

    You are absolutely amazing. Intelligent, funny, aware of yourself and a fabulous actress. I think i would hang pretty well with an Esfp if i took more chill pills - infj

  • @Claego
    @Claego Před 8 měsíci

    Skipped to the end to see the INTP ranking so as to not give you the watch time as I knew you put us last because we're your most invested viewers 😂 love ya!

  • @letfreedomring7330
    @letfreedomring7330 Před 9 měsíci +3

    This series is brilliant. I know this is satire, but I do genuinely think the only reason people like to have me around is because I'm "unintentionally hilarious." I'm ashamed to say I thought you'd put us in the not invited tier, especially because yes, we do check to see if people have washed their hands.
    - ISTJ

  • @gabrieldossantossanta5656
    @gabrieldossantossanta5656 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Fact: the reason ISTP desapears is because INFJ dragged them in a room to talk until the end of the party

    • @uchihaitachi01117
      @uchihaitachi01117 Před 9 měsíci

      If you would have us INFJs, ISTP kings/queens👑
      I love Ti doms.

    • @trixi1608
      @trixi1608 Před 3 měsíci

      That wouldn't work.. ;-) I think too much deep talk would be a nightmare for an ISTP. I, being an INFP, would love that though.

  • @IAmEmmaElaine
    @IAmEmmaElaine Před 9 měsíci

    I love everything about this

  • @pentaq
    @pentaq Před 3 měsíci +2

    sooo... i got this feature in my wireless soundbar which is called the "lip-sync" and it just broke while watching this video. thank you, kristin. /infj

  • @alexperson4503
    @alexperson4503 Před 9 měsíci

    You nailed it with the ESTP😂 Especially with Mr Brightside. That is one of my favorite songs.