My DEADLY Dating Mistakes (So You Can Avoid Them)
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Man This Comment Is The Epitome Of A Hamza Fan
@@Prodbykayyso i dont even know if the above comment is actually d riding or if its true gratitude
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@@navbhatthal Fr bro 🤣🤣
@@Prodbykayyso half of these jeffries will comment crap like "omg hamza changed my life" while they sit there looking at page 39 on phub or while they scroll tiktok/insta
it just dosent work that way lol
Common sense just use your brain bit more
Takeaways:
27:27 don't dumb yourself down to be cool. Be authentic. If you're into personal development and meditate and do gratitude journalling, do not hide it.
31:31 Chose a woman who choses you. If she's not super into you, Let. Her. Go. You are disrespecting yourself everytime you decide to choose someone who isn't super into you.
34:02 If it's not SUPER CLEAR that she's not SUPER INTO YOU then 99% of the time she's just not.
54:00 women really thrive on micromoments of joy and love. They want a constant feeling and reminder of love, security, and joy.
56:00 Your woman shouldn't be the #1 priority in your life. It should be your purpose, because if you rely on her for your happiness she'll feel smothered by your neediness and clinginess
@@I-dont-have-name dedicate half hour or an hour for her.But for that time give her your fullest undivided attention.Then spend the rest of the day progressing through your goals.
Thanks for the summary
my takeaway is why are his girlfriends eyes red and teary? Not what I think?!!
@@I-dont-have-nameu can dedicate a week to your wife if u want. The main point is to have something important to u that isn’t another person and focus on it
Thank you 🙏 ❤
I was always insecure about the fact that I don't want to sleep with everyone I meet. My "friends" were always like "bro what are you doing with your life, why didn't you smash this one she was really into you." and I'm in my mind like "am I stupid?". Obviously the answer is no. This video helped me a lot. Stay true to yourself kings. You'll win everytime!
thats the difference between us and the masturbators. We think of women as normal humans, while they see every girl as a thing to fuck. It's really sad and disgusting. The only woman you should fuck is your own wife.
Just because the flower is pretty, doesn't mean we need to pluck them
Bro you are wasting yourself. Hanging around degenerates because you are probably too scared to be alone.
Hamza I've said it multiple times, but again, thank you for your work. I just recently got both my parents onto self improvement. DO YOU KNOW HOW FUCKING AWESOME THIS IS? My dad got a new job, my parents are reading "How to win Friends and influence people" taking notes too.
Our family life got so much better. Finding your channel had such a big impact on my life...
From the core of my heart,
Thank you
Yo bro, I know this sounds a bit weird, but have you got any advice? Because my parents hate the part of me that begun his self improvement journey, my dad works with the news and my stepmother with the police. Basically Jeffery and Jessica, although I don't like talking about them in that way. But anyway, I have made far less progress because of it. I would like it if they joined, so I'm asking you, what did you do to get them onto self improvement?
@@joostz1359don't make them join, you join them that's how parents understand that "ya okay he's been interested in me let's show interest to him" ask them about the deep details about their work or their interests even better share your progress with them especially academics or sports parents love academics or sports, don't talk then about your buisness because they will tell you to focus on studies do talk then about your business when you make a huge breakthrough.
@@joostz1359 I gave my dad a gym membership for his birthday, now he goes to the gym every other day.
My dad also works in a trade job and the selling coaches are very self improvement oriented people. His coach is a 25 y/o who earns 1mio/year so he has a lot of great tips as well, he told my dad about How To win Friends and influence people. I then told my dad how important that book is and that I read it too. We then both told my mom about the book, and now I plan on telling them about all the other important Self-improvement books.
So TLDR: gift them important books or something Self-improvement oriented for their birthday or any other reason.
Oh and another important tip, keep the principals learned in "How To win Friends and influence people" in mind, NEVER CRITICIZE THEM, tell them why its in their interest to start the new habit
That is amazing!!!
such an awesome book
I am a 24 year old woman. I enjoy watching your videos even though it is more aimed at men. I get a lot out of it.
It’s hard to find a man with the same mindset.
The men around me here don’t want a traditional woman.
I always felt depressed at first that i don’t feel at home in this society. But now I see it as an opportunity to work on myself and hopefully meet the right one.
Like attracts like.
You’ll find the right guy.
😊
It’s funny that you said this, because I feel the exact same way but with most of the girls that I encounter.
Come to Eastern Europe, all we seek is traditional women.
Its funny cuz I cant find the girl with the same mindset as me either. I am someone who is probably an 8/10? I am tall, have a really good physique, and good face, so looks aren't an issue for me. I get a lot of attraction in the gym, but the thing is, most of them that approached me just want to sleep with me. I literally talked to one a month ago, and although she was pretty, when I asked her out, she hesitated and said I seemed a bit too serious. She was the one who approached me, btw. Anyway, I wasnt looking to pipe her overused hole. So once she hesitated, I straight up said, "nevermind". She then came back to me and tried to explain that she said that, cuz she was going through something with her ex. My answer was that I dont care and she went away.
Literally, 2 red flags straight away in her behavior and that's without considering her appearance. Yes, she is hot, but way too exposed and wears a nose piercing. You may find the nose piercing thing to be stupid to point out, but hell, each time I dated a girl with a nose piercing, they were looking to just sleep around. It might just be a coincidence, but in my experience, it's something I am staying aware of now lmao Two months prior to that, I dated probably a 9/10 and we kissed at the first date, etc. Her face was really nice, but once again, she was telling me stuff like, ''I want you to ruin my life'' and similar. Red flags one after another, and although I was lying to myself that I could probably make this work, we ended up not going for a second date.
Anyway, I am looking for a girl that is attractive as well as having the right mindset. I am 28 and constantly improve myself in all areas of life, but the quality girls are really hard to find. I am someone who is looking to build a future with a girl, be loyal to her, and focus on my goals with her support. Likewise, I will support her in her goals and do my best to keep her happy and loved. For me, it's important for her to know her role in a relationship and bring her feminine side to it. I can't stress enough how attractive feminine girls are. By feminine, I mean the way they behave, act, dress, etc. It's probably not the most detailed way to describe it, but most guys will know what I mean.
The point is, don't give up just because you haven't met them, but at the same time don't lower your value by settling for someone who will drag you down or off the path you want to be on. I made this mistake in the past, but never again. What you are as a person is what you will attract. I am sure there are plenty of girls out there who want to have a relationship like the one I am looking for, but we just haven't met yet. Focus on yourself and the right person will come accross. The only thing that is important when you happen to meet that person, communicate your intentions with them and don't regret it if they say no. I've sometimes took a long time to ask out girls that I liked, but the lesson is that I did it anyway. I now have now regrets for the rejections and failurs, because I know that I took action. Always take action for the things you want in your life :)
Me too girl, same age and I really enjoy watching his videos, I hope more guys would follow him
Foolish men repeat their mistakes, intelligent men learn from their mistakes, wise men learn from other's mistakes.
Underrated comment
and vegetables dont make mistakes because they never try
This is probably the truest advice you will hear on dating, ever. The second you have to act to attract someone, it's bound to fail.
Yep another one is having no shared interests or values. That relationship is dead in the water from start. I got into a few different women that as soon as I hung out with them for long enough, I realized they were not for me. Maybe some other guy, definetly not me
Honestly, the world needs more people like Hamza.
Rather let's become the best version of ourselves like Hamza did. He wasn't born this way he made it himself and now we have him who gives us a literal roadmap to become the best version of ourselves.
@@atharvabhosale3529 so basically like Hamza?
@@anonymous98237 nope if everyone becomes Hamza there won't be anything unique about you, become the best VERSION of YOURSELF not Hamza.
@@atharvabhosale3529 I agree with what you said.
i agree
I love how the new Jeffrey and Adonis intro is, really reflects on what the self improvement community should be all about, helping those who need help instead of comparing one another
HAMAZ SAAR ANY DATING ADVICE FOR A PAJEETH HINDU KURYCELS LIKE ME WHO HAS NO CHANCES IN THE DATING MARKET? YOU'RE A SCAMMER LOL. A SHORT 5'2 BROWN HINDUS ISN'T GOING TO GET WOMEN. SO WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE FOR ME AND THE MAJORITY OF COPING KURRYCELS WHO HAVE NO JAWLINE, HIGHCHEEKBONES, HALLOW CHEEKS, LIGHT EYES, LIGHT SKIN, RED LIPS HUNTER EYES, HEIGHT ETC?
Exactly, its like big guys at the gym, because Adonis and the huge guy at the gym sympathise with Jeffrey and a gym new guy, both because they both have been in the same beginner position as the other, and so naturally help eachother.
If I help him to be as good as me so I wouldn't be as great as I would be
@@romany177 absolutely bollocks
@@KotteKumar wtf pajeeth. You're pajeeth not Adonis
Hamza is slowly becoming a great future father and husband mashallah! ❤
I hope he just stop this meditation thing because it doesn't have any thing related to Islam...he just need to pray that's it
@@red_analog_productions lmao
@@red_analog_productionsjust because something isn't related to your religion doesn't make it meaningless. If he's a Muslim, why can't he pray and meditate both.
@@red_analog_productionsnot every type of mediation is haram.
@@red_analog_productionsh anyway if ur muslim you are against God . Muslims are the enemies of Allah and they are all paying the price in hell but once ʿĪsā returns every muslim will eventually repent . It’s only a matter of time
"Choosing a woman that doesn't choose you." The numberless times I have made this mistake. Until I watched this video I didn't understand why I worked so hard to get this girl to like me when she was wasn't even interested. Hamza you have truely changed my life I am so happy I found your account a year ago and have been watching since. Every video has been helping me remember thoughts and mistakes I've made. Thank you so much hamza you have made my life better by teaching me to do the hard things especially when I don't feel like it.
The first half of the video I can heavily relate. I’m in high school and there was a period of time where I put TONS and TONS of time into chasing this women even though I saw massive red flags but i was desperate enough to pursue them, and I got with this one girl and ended up getting friendzoned. But as of recently I went to a camp and found this one woman who I can only describe as the woman of my dreams; feminine, not much social media, church person, active, etc. It made me realized so much more that the people who are the highest quality aren’t plastering themselves everywhere but waiting for someone to come to them.
This has to be the best dating advice video ever. I also have come to the same conclusion as you. Be yourself, don’t pretend to be something you’re not if you want a real connection.
Hey Hamza. Thank you for everything man. You and a few others made me realize it was me listening and giving into the bullshit force fed down our throats. Because of you and them, I feel better than ever. Still working it, losing weight, lifting weights, getting my behavior and personality in check and many more.
Sometimes you need some hard advice to really change and I'll be forever grateful for men like you.
Almost at 800 life-changing videos. Keep up the good work!
"There's no one that can compete with you"
I can't imagine the feeling of listening those words from your own woman.
Every upload is gold. It has been a long time since a video has made me smile and laugh out loud out of pure joy. This is what content you consume should leave you with: a big smile on your face and actual gain of knowledge
Dear Hamza,
You spoke to my soul. I'm in the exact same position and my relationship has been going from bad to worse over the past few months to the point that we've taken a 2 week break from contact. I knew from the start that she was the kind of girl you described. I did everything to please her and neglected my goals for our relationship. Now I used the time for myself and finally recognized myself and my own goals again. I have taken notes from this video because I have never been able to see or put into words our situation so clearly before, and I am going to write her a letter telling her everything that I think about now, openly and honestly. I can't break up with her because I know for a fact that part of her wants a fulfilling life and a beautiful relationship too. If she doesn't understand me and it doesn't work out with her, I'll break up.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this video.
I really like your long format videos they are so valuable!
You're my main source of motivation. Thank you!
I like watching a Hamza video every now and then. Every time I watch a video now it’s almost like I already know almost all that he’s talking about, through the growth and self discovery that I’ve gone through. I wouldn’t have been able to become the person I am now without people like Hamza. Thank you
Thank you for clearing my mind, its always felt wrong to keep texting someone who doesnt seem that interested and I have recently started feeling more choosey rather than settling for less or shitty behaviour however I always get that doubt in my head, like a voice that tells me ill be alone forever and "what if I'm supposed to stop acting like the goofy, caring person that I am, the guy who grinds to do CZcams and makes music rather than settling for a 9-5, and I should just be more accepting of partying and drugs, maybe I should cut em some slack and just pretend I dont care that much about something real" but truthfully I know thats not me and that's NOT what I want. This video just reinforced my motivation to keep grinding and being me and to wait for the women who want me, to come TO ME.
Great video hamza, watched all the way through and helped me with what ive been going through recently
Great vid . It changed my view on the whole dating topic
Thank you Hamza for everything you did!
You helped a lot of young people (maybe even older ones?) in the recent years, giving them inspiration to change their lives completely!
I started self improvement 5-6 or so years ago with David Goggins and Jocko Willinks (Heavily recommend them), and about 2 years ago your Channel gave the extra push that was needed!
Thank you again!
bro why does it say ur comment was from 1 hour ago when the vid came out 48 minutes ago
You’ve been doing this for 5-6 years and you’re still watching these videos???
@@MonkeyDBunmi Of course, man can always learn new things! Especially in dating I am very new, since I focused solely on myself in the first 5 years not on dating
Dude hamza is a fucking guru. Trying to sell shit like ,,Adonis school” to lost men in todays society. He is no role model. For me David Goggins is the opposite. Does one podcast in 4 years and tries to provide as much value as possible while hamza addicts you to his content which you learn nothing from.
Hamza just defined ! the phrase "Just be yourself"!
marvelous eloquency and superior level of speech. Props & keep it up
I ended a 4 year relationship with the person I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with, And honestly 5 months later I was considering trying out just hook up culture because I didn’t want to give anyone the chance to hurt me again but after seeing this video you have changed my mind and made me realize it’s not worth it. Thanks hamza
How do you know your story will turn out like Hamza. Plenty of ppl have had good hook up experiences that led to better things. I say if you want to try it, try it. Just because someone on the internet told you their experience doesn’t mean you’ll experience the same thing. Life is a mystery, no two lives r the same
@@MonkeyDBunmi That's like saying, "oh well you should definitely try out drugs even though you know its not good for you. Don't listen to the thousands of studies on drugs or the thousands of people who have gotten a drug addiction."
Hook up culture is bad for you. Having sex with random strangers is bad for you. There are studies out there that have showed this. Its instant gratification. Its instant happiness. That is bad for you.
How tf is a dumbass like you watching hamza's content like where are your braincells.
Dont listen to the guy below u, hamzas advice will make you happier
Hookup Culture ain't worth it anyways.
I suggest you also look up the story of a guy named 'Neil Strauss' after you listen to 'Hard Times Create Strong Men' and you'll quickly realize what hookup culture does. Sex isn't something to be trifled with, period. It's an exchange of energy, and of a part of your being/soul. Why spoil the fruit for everyone whilst not even fully enjoying it yourself? It's the same thing like drugs, alcohol, excessive junkfood eating etc. Once it passes a certain threshold it obliterates your dopamine receptors and dooms you to depression. Do you actually feel you deserve the attention and sexual intercourse of a bunch of women in the first place? Just because it's available/might be available doesn't mean you should take it. The modern world is full of illusions. The universe will make sure to let you know don't you worry. However if you wanna go through the same mistakes Hamza and countless others did go ahead.
You’re literally the only channel I watch anymore. I feel the sincerity within your content and your message.
Literally feel like everyone half asses their content and fakes their content and aren’t sincere at all.
THAT IS SO VALUABLE!!! thank you ❤
Really needed this!
Hi hamza just wanted to say i am a huge fan. You have guided me through some tough times. I just wanted to say thank you and keep posting these amazing videos and changing more lives. Much love.
It's so amazing when you see a guy like Hamza being successful and touching all of his goals one by one WITHOUT even knowing what's behind all this success. Imagine how many mornings, plans, thoughts, stress went behind all of this. We just see the finished product and it looks amazing, but the process is obviously hard and 100% against modern world perception.
This is crazy, it all comes full circle, in a beautiful way. It’s the true passage, mature and right, enlightenment after years of experience and teaching
Thank you Hamza Ahmed for making these videos, Im a young man who have been through a lot of pain and trauma and the content you create has and still dose help me work on being a goo man and fur-filling my purpose.❤
This video made me realize, i'm in a very good relationship.
I always thought i might be doing something wrong by being authentic to my women but no I'm just being me and trying to grow and make us grow both in the process, good stuff hamza much love
W brother
bro i know u don't read comments but u changed my life u made me a better person with a diff mindset right now i am better in everything i got a loyal gf i got more friends and a network i look better its all because of you wish u all the best
The fact these videos have no editing is amazing, i really admire the time you have put in to become more articulate with your words. Keep it up brother.
Thank You Brother, You're A Great Friend Thank You For All Your Help ♥️♥️
New Hamza is genuinely refreshing to watch
I’m so grateful for the person that you’ve become. Thank you for giving based non-degenerate advice and helping us not trip like you did. Amen Brother. 🙏 In Jesus Name
I started watching your videos around September last year. I haven't been very consistent, my mental health has gone up and down and my views on life has changed multiple times since then, but even though my self improvement wasn't as by the book as it could've been, i have to thank you for how much you've been a part of my journey. You were the catalyst for my addiction to self improvement in late 2022 which eventually led me to where i am today. I still have a long way to go before i achieve what would take some people a few months to achieve, but i still have to thank you for everything you've done
Thank you Hamza
Still watching but wow this hits home straight away...
"No one can compete with you". That stuck with me man. It would be a hell of a life goal and test boost to have a girl say that to you.
love how hes changed from telling you the personality and how you should act with women to really just saying you should self improve and be yourself and youll naturally attract the women you want. ive never been the “super masculine” type of person but then when i put on the persona hamza used to give us all the advice to be i attracted low quality women, now being my true self but also still doing self improvement ive attracted the girl of my dreams
Great for you man, just praise her, kiss her, enjoy with your girl.
I lost my girl due to the redpill advice of being an alpha when you are not, showing no emotion when you want to.
Just enjoy your life man.
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bro
I like your authentic behaviour, this is very important for helping fellas in this channel. Thank you!
These are horrible truths. I think the biggest turning point I had in dating was understanding that women love you opportunistically. Hate it or love it but you can choose to play the game or be left out. It's completely up to you.
wdym exactly by opportunistically
@@GamerKidPlaysGames When the opportunity presents itself people tend to take advantage.
@@tomasguilherme263 Yes tomas
@@tomasguilherme263not to be disrespectful. But I'll be honest these unicorns don't exist.
@@tomasguilherme263 exactly
This made me think of the time I had a nice date with a girl, and I didn’t contact her until she did because that was an “alpha tactic”. It’s also really important for you and the girl to be compatible indeed. I’m trying to be more mindful of these things now as I’m taking dating more seriously
This was an amazing video Hamza I just learnt that I actually did most of the things in your video especially the praising part, I am in a long distance relationship and we haven't talked in 4-5 months because shes studying hard like really really hard to become a doctor just because she wants to meet me in germany (we have planned to meet in germany) and whenever we did talk in between I always praised her about her hardwork and her study and a few days ago she said she was scared that if she doesn't study well she won't be able to come to Germany and ny heart literally melted. Thanks Hamza I did most of the things you told me but now I am consious of what I did. Amazing video!
Your story telling is amazing
No epic music
No transition
No movie clip
No cutscenes
No clickbait content
No bullshit
And still one of the most valuable video on youtube
Hamza has become successful from speaking words that are valuable. No pyramid scheme, no low quality pay class, no clickbait, not spending thousands of dolllars to get views, not trying to get viral, but instead naturally letting it happen.
Perfect timing, nice advice for what i'm going through right now. Coming in real handy.
this video is a divine gift from you Hamza thanks!!
I have watched your videos for a sickening amount of time now and this one stands out. I really relate to the stuff you explain here....
"Just be yourself" a simple advice yet helps you to manifest good things to come in life. Being lazy, procrastinating won't do you any good if you want to unlock your true purpose and potential. Stay hard homies ❤👊
I’m actually in a 1 year old relationship and I started crying when I realized how valuable my girl is. She’s religious and also virgin, so far in our relationship we only kissed and hugged and I’m like actually really in love with her. We have a lot of trust in each other and idk how I’m so lucky as a man to haver her on my side. Don’t give up brothers, I thought I was lonely but good habits brought me to the place I am rn. I’m really grateful for you Hamza and also to my family and my girl.
She’s still a virgin bc she’s fifteen (16 soon) and she wants to wait until being 18 to lose it. I’m seventeen and although I’m not a virgin I’m perfectly fine with waiting a couple of years to…. well, fuck her.
Great for you man, congrats. But don't slack off, now that you realized how great she is, work so that you can be a great man for her.
@@BillionaireBriefs yes, that’s what I’m trying to do. We seem really passionate still after 1 year I'd like if it stayed that way. So imma keep self improving for her
@@sunfrr keep it up man, you got this.
dont trust.....
Tbh, I needed to hear this. I find it hard to be open about my self improvement journey. You being authentic gives me the permission to be authentic as well. Thank you bro 🙏🏼
This is the most important video in this channel plus probably the best about relationship in youtube
"The Chad Grandpa" is the wisest and most disciplined man. I knew a man who was like this, and I have the fondest memories of him being something akeen to a mentor to me, even tho we werent relatives or anything, and I still thank him to this day, because thanks to him i managed to grasp many important life lessons at such a young age. Thank you, Mpampis.
As a 15 yo boy starting my self improvement journey you are a big inspiration next to iman and other good influencers on the media
watch out for Iman man
💯
I wouldn't take iman as inspiration
@@jacksmith2504wdym?
damn im 17 here and trying not to become a degenerate. my life is kind of sorted i'd say (in terms of like success or being on track and stuff), but i guess my lifestyle needs serious changes. good luck to u.
This was refreshing. I loved this video bro
I'm only 5 min in and im feeling a sense of relief. This is exactly what I needed. Im 27 and I feel like you are about to crack my brain open at the opritune moment of my life.
Good tips, but to add something I think if u still chase the girl even you know she doesn’t like you, you’re doing that ‘cause you think that girl gives you self-worth. You don’t respect yourself enough, so somebody needs to give that validation. In short You make your self-esteem dependent on the validation of others. Figure out why u do this. Start off by respecting yourself more (by doing self improvements. Especially reprogramming your beliefs about yourself) and then you’re going to be more authentic which leads to attracting the girls who fits u the best.
im only 15, and I think this is the first video in months, maybe even years that I have really, and I mean really found a desire to pay attention, and take notes. I only take notes on this channel, and seeing these videos makes me feel so much more experienced. I feel like I gained years of experience in just an hour. Thanks hamza!
Wise insights Hamza. Thank you. Truly one of your best videos.
this was the most powerful video and I can't wait for my journey to the top
thank you hamza for this, i just had a breakup and this will help, i made a ton of mistakes in that relationship(thanks hamza i am extremely grateful to you)
The last part, "making her the priority" I wish someone had thought me few months before. Infact she tried to teach me not make her priority, she asked me to prioritise my sleep, my free time doing something I would need to do, but I never listened to her😁. I'll keep this in mind from now on.
Great content, these long vids are actually better...
You continue to a release videos that help me immensely. Itll be the day before u post im thinking of this exact topic and hoping you specifically would make a video on it🙌
That hit home, thanks Hamza
I understand all of this. But how do you be your authentic self with girls. Do you act with her how you do with your guy friends. Or do you mean that you don't pretend to be someone else and not lying to yourself or your partner. How do you know what your authentic self is, and what if you want to change that. If your authentic self is a guy who let's his emotions out, does that mean he should? Or should he work on controlling his emotions, even if it's not his authentic self. Would be great to get a reply. Thank you
incredible
Good video! Made some of the same mistakes with terrible results
Hamza's videos do be popping up exactly when I need them the most.
Why is on ear sticking out
Good Advices but one thing is missing. He is currently clearly in a honeymoon phase. Wait until this shifts than you will see your mistakes
I'm new to his channel and I'm surprised that more people haven't thought about this, or they just went with the flow and didn't realize how drastically the pathway changed. I binge-watched his videos and can tell what he's preaching here is clearly not what he used to say even 6 months ago. I think the kind of exposure he gave to sm affected and gonna affect his relationships cause girls gonna break his game down so easily (which the current one is doing so clearly).
@@yoyojuana2054 correctly. And he misses also one thing. He built up that red pill self for years so it's still there. Maybe he don't think about it but he will still act like it even he is not trying to. Girls are so easy to handle if they are fully in love, espacially the first years. They will do everything just to bound you and that is what she is doing.
bro hamza how are these videos coming out at the exact time im going through these exact things. this is why hes the goat i say
Best video i have ever seen, appreciate u bro
Rest in Peace Joesthetics !~
I don’t know what it is, but hamza always posts the right video at the time. ❤😅
Yeah
This is my favorite video out of all the others, nice job hamza
From the bottom of my heart. Thank you Hamza, for every word you say in your videos. Especially in this one.
"Just be urself" with that advice most guys gonna keep simping and all that bs what the modern world has made us
We aren't in 1950 where u can be urself and be attractive most guys are invisible they have no idea how to be attractive cause they have no fathers that taught them how to be a man. If u would be attractive just by being urself then where are the girls why do u watch this video u have to change urself to not think like a simp anymore and u need experience or u gonna fk up.
Big W
As someone else stated, you should be the best version of yourself.
I'm a muslim. I know this. I never until now ever had a girl friend. I only pray to god every day to get a woman in which both of us are compatible. I'm 25. But i also made a mistake to have a low social life circle. I did grow my circle at age 24. Just simply talking to all and both genders. But it truly doesn't matter. I tried to pretend before. And yeah i hated it supremely fast and stopped. I just want to wor, learn, develop, i'm getting my master degree in mechanical research this year, same for a mechatronik engineer degree next year and a software certificate. I also have a master degree in sport science. I also try to learn so many things. Lately i'm investing my time learning trading. I just am sad because i'm limited i can't be currently fully independent from my family since education. But i'm using all my time educating myself. I got sick from how currently my life is. I also have learned freelancing and am freelancing. I built my own brand too. But I'm extremely tired. I just want to move to next stage of my life. Even thought i built all of this i still don't feel like i achieved a thing.
Bro be grateful you have a family, stay with them as long as you can, unless you get married, I would stay as long as you could with your family if they let you, family can support you financially emotionally etc
@@JohnSmith-qf9cx yeah. But i must become financially independent supremely fast. The next 10 years are going to be crazy it's like a boom Extremely rich or not. I've studied all these things and know exactly what would happen when: ai, vr, augmented reality, crypto, robots... All blend together in the next 10 years. Dude it's going to be crazy world to make money. contact lenses, brain chips... They have already been built. I want to be ready to invest. This is literally a blue market that no one knows about
May Allah send you a righetous spouse when the time is right. Ameen
Hey bro may God guide you. Also can you please tell me where you learned freelancing? Can't find any good sources on the internet. I myself am pursuing a bachelor's degree right now but I want to be able to pay my own costs and not be a burden on my family so I wanna learn freelancing and earn
@@athletetichow do you know it's going to happen in the next 10 years?
This is a really great video brother you're good at storytelling
When you where describing you're recent relationship dymanc, the Pic nic part hit me super hard and made my smile first all because it's fucking beautiful having a girl to your side that bring you that type of energy in your life and second of all cause the pic nic set up remembered my previous relationship something that didn't work out perfectly but that was very formative and profound for me. Man the femmine energy is so beautiful really like it's rejuvenating
I agree, but rn I haven't built confidence and when I try to be myself others perceive me as a feminine guy (maybe because I've been raised by a single mother) and I'm unable to attract girls that I'm attracted to (or at least I attract them physically but my personality sucks so they lose interest). I don't have any idea on what to do to become more masculine and stoic. Do you guys have any suggestions?
I to have been raised by a single mother and have gained lots of confidence with girls and they have physical attraction to me, but I simply Haven’t had the masculine role model to look up to as the behaviour of how you would flirt with a woman so I never knew how to flirt with girls and this is why I find it difficult but the more I go on my journey the more I improve
@@Mindset_Spartan thanx bro
i don't know how old you are, but maybe you could try joining a sport or even better, some kind of martial art such as a boxing or muay thai gym. this will build your confidence greatly, as well as break you down in many ways (it will hurt but it's needed to become a man) so that you can be built back up stronger.
Tbh I was authentic with a woman and I told her what I value I saw some red flags but I decided to let it go because she was interested in the way i think. she would listen to me but she had friends who kept telling her to follow their degenerate ideas, we dated for 2 and half mouths and unfortunately 4 days after I saw her for her birthday she cheated.
This is my favourite video from Hamza and I haven't even finished it yet. This man is cold 🔥
This world needs more people like Hamza. Thank you for everything you've taught us
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I've been watching this video over and over again and this has made me realise that even though I'm a skinny broke loser, my authenticity is what can make girls attracted to me. I'm super self critical of myself and constantly analysing what I'm doing wrong. I've just straight up refused to put myself out there because I want to get big first, working my dream job and rich etc but I might have been putting myself off the market for no reason.
This hits so deeply because recently i went to a wedding and there is this girl at my church who I kinda grew up with who i haven't seen in years, she is so beautiful. She's shy but has always been very sweet and I have a deep desire to get to know her and connect with her. On that I day I was just begging for some time of confidence, charisma or masculinity to suddenly manifest because I wanted to approach her so bad bro but I felt 0 confidence. like I can't even explain it. But I was still in the thinking that I need to become someone who I'm not in order to get her.
I don't need to be a stud, I just need to be authentic. What i truly want is to have a wife, a family, a home, money and my dream job of driving highspeed trains.
I literally thought I had to be absolutely perfect to meet my future wife, but that day when I'm perfect will never come, so just be authentic about what you really want
Hamza I appreciate your work, and I love the testosterone based videos!
Truly valuable!🔥
This video opened up my eyes to what I truly want. Thank you hamza
I see a major problem when everyone asking me if I have a girlfriend, suggesting get laid anyhow, it's up to you, you are a no one if you can't, and then people are faking it, like Hamza said in the video.
It’s going to take a while de-wiring myself from all the toxic alpha videos that I’ve watched for years. I’ve been unnecessarily acting rude to women and now fee extremely guilty. I made a coworker feel like she didn’t exist and now she seems to not want to speak to me when I now say hi to her. It says in the Quran, that wicked men are for wicked women, and good men being for good women. I’ve never been in a relationship or been in love at 23, so I need to change my ways. I think I’ve fumbled many different good girls for my stupid acting of a nonchalant person that wasn’t me.
Hey Hamza, I have a suggestion for a video which i think could come to benefit for others who are on the mental freedom journey, these are questions about self-reflection/Finding your own self image:
- What are my values, what do I value?
- What are my desires, what do I desire?
- What are my fears, what do I fear?
- What are my insecurities, what do I feel insecure about?
Good advice, Thanks.