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Before I'm a complete loser, I'm a 190-200 lbs kid who knows nothing. Then one day I said that enough is enough and yeah I became better and better 'til I met this girl. We've been together for 2 years and I start to binge eat with her become vulnerable again and start to become fat again. She cheated on me 3 months ago, and I forgive her. I caught her again and again but it's fine with me because I thought that she's the one. 2 days ago I caught her again, and this time I found myself crying again over her. I realized that I became that loser again. I broke up with her and all the anger and frustration that I felt, I turned it into inspiration that I won't let this happen again. I start to eat clean and lift weights again. I'm sorry that I become a disgrace for all of us men but this time, I promise that I'll be back stronger and tougher than ever!
Women these days can be such bad partners. Men can too I’m sure but that’s not what we’re taking about. Don’t blame yourself although taking bad events as inspiration is a great thing to do. Blame her for her actions but don’t blame yourself that she committed them it doesn’t matter how much weight you put on if she was with you then she was supposed to respect that. Head up king become unobtainable
You do have to be a dickhead. You have to focus solely on what u want. What you say goes, when you’re alpha. Being a gentlemen is just being a man. It should be second nature.
@@alexb8455 bingo, the one who understands and is willing to use the information given to them is dangerous. Most people hear and dont understand, some understand but dont apply it, but little understand and apply it
This is 100% factually correct. I used to be at the bottom of my social hierarchy in high school Started lifting, reading and overcoming anxiety and depression Within half a year i could literally pick from the 5 most attractive girls in my year to make my girlfriend This one girl is still obsessed with me today
Bro I just want to tell you that I find a ton of value in your content even at 37. I’ve had relationships but my physique was never up to par. I started my journey after leaving a job of 10 years and meeting people who were already in amazing shape. I was beat down from a previous 6 year relationship but these men helped me get into the gym. I built size and strength and had some success on dating apps. I moved into my first home 2 years ago and gave up on dating apps but kept leveling up financially and physically. I have both at the moment but still don’t approach women to this day. I have the tools but still on my journey and your content has helped me be more confident. I just want to say that it doesn’t matter what age you are. We are all on a journey to be our best selves. It’s not going to happen after a week or a month but you will see success if you keep at it relentlessly. You are so right about how 80% of men are not trying. I’m in the best physical shape of my life amongst my coworkers/peers. Set yourself apart from the crowd and good things will happen to you
14:49-15:12 I am 43 years old. Going through my second divorce. These Hamza videos have saved my life. Right now I am on instant dopamine detox. And I have drastically changed my diet. Young men, listen to what he’s telling you. you might avoid what I’ve been through, thinking I was right.
this reminds me how our parents and especially grandparents would call us skinny or fat. it's because at their generation masculinity was the norm for men, now we're being brainwashed to think it's cringe cus everyone was too powerful if they ever came together to fight
Hamzat literally saves the rest of what my days are supposed to look like. I was in a coma for 2 years and a used to be the man before that. I was the alpha and when i came to the world 2 years later everything had changed and i was nobody. The world was so weird with all the new social media and how people Acted after corona and the new femenism shit that came out really mest me up. So now every morning i Wake i don’t have my girl beside me and when i look at my phone it’s empty and not what it used to look like. I used to get so many compliments that i wasn’t even reacting anymore. I got as much attention as a beatuful woman gets and now i hear nothing and it’s a weird experience cus if you have been at the top and now you are the totally opposite, it messes up everything in the head. It’s like i lost everything i build for me and now i am at level 1 again. But hamza gives me hope and reminds me of what i actually am cause honestly i wake up really sad these days compared to before when i woke up singing in my bed with a new nice girl or my own girl at the time. It’s crazy and i am gonna go to the top again but i have to say that hamza is good part of helping me gettin back on track. When i doubt my self or anything in that form i just Watch hamza and it feels like he just understand me/us. As a man when you want to make progress but it gets delayed by 2 years while you are losing the progress you have build really resets you but the hard part is that it does not reset your memory and that is my pain. It’s like building your home,family,connection with hard trained skills and warmth and then you go for war for 2 years, then later you come back to your home and nothings left… thats the pain but i am gonna build a new one. It’s just the memory that messes me up and the tought of what i had or where i could have been. It’s like uncontrolled regret but hamzat is a good motivation force. These are the Messenger thru out history that want to help us but they come in different clothes.
I was starting on my self improvement, and I attracted someone who I found very very attractive. But I do think that it happened too soon for me, I felt like I fell back into bad habits. However I do not think it's too late, I am picking up my slack again.
i have followed your advice for months now and i'm not even bullshitting i have seen progress in my self with my body, my confidence, my happines, my testostorne aswell as girls having crushes on my ect. i'm super thankfull for the things you do for the men on the earth rn. like everything about my life has became better. I treat everybody with respect and i get respect back. short answer Thank you for making men motivated for a change!
You agree or disagree, the key point igniting from this video is that we should strive to become the most high valued man we possibly can be. The alpha male archetype does not attract all kinds of women, but many great aspects can be inhabited in our system to become the most attractive man we can be.
The problem with most of these Redpillers is that they're doing self-improvement just to hook up with women when they should be doing it for themselves.
@@Raickei I wouldn't generalize it with most, but I can see where you're coming from. Its a pretty goofy move to do self improvement to just sleep with more women. You can tell that someone hasn't grown mentally when every one of their encounters with women is hard to watch.
This is pure facts bro , been working on myself mentally and physically for about a year now and the results speak for themselves tbh . Still have much more to improve on tho ofc , the grind never stops . Bless Hamza
I wanna say something that I think is very important. Being “alpha” is going to look very different for each individual person. The important thing is to be the most alpha version of YOU. Perfect example, look at Robert Downey Jr and Jocko Willink. Two dudes that are alpha as fuck but have two COMPLETELY different attitudes and personalities. RDJ is the charismatic witty funny guy, whereas Jocko is the really serious intimidating guy. They’re both being themselves but they’re very confident so they both appear alpha. That’s what you gotta do. Level up to become the most confident version of yourself. The worst thing you can do is try to walk around like a tough guy or an asshole when that’s not your personality because you think it’s “alpha”.
@@hotkeyafl I’m talking about his personality. He exudes alpha energy. And that’s really what it’s about. It’s about the kind of energy you give off. Why do you think Trump always called Jeb Bush low energy Jeb? He was basically calling him a pussy or a beta.
Hamza thank you so much for the videos and now working on a dopamine detox and its been going great! everything has improved in my life already and its only been 3 days. A girl at a local shop was digging me and I just played it cool just chilling uplifting the levels. Thanks man you really explain thing well and really great that you share your own journey as well because many content creators don't show receipts.
Women just like leaders. I got all my girlfriends naturally because I was really never interested in them. It’s kinda unfair though because when you are focused on women it doesn’t work the same way. It just doesn’t. Just focus on bettering you and have a PURPOSE in life. I think real purpose in a male, makes him into a man
You are right. However, I haven't gotten any girlfriends because I never am interested in them. All the girls in my school either do not fit my standards or are just a 5/10 or 6/10. I do not feel guilty about it though because I literally focus on my work and on my CZcams channel as much as possible. I feel like I still have room for improvement so instead of wasting time on girls I try and build skills and knowledge
@@LucasTrz_893 That’s fine homie, keep it up. And tbh this might sound messed up but rn I’m single and as Ive grown older I’ve found that the company of a woman’s is only beneficial if they’re pleasuring you. I’m talking about myself here. But yes any other reason to have them around besides that is pretty much unnecessary unless she’s a caretaker for your children. I’ve been able to navigate life alone and with companionship. Being alone does indeed feel better. Well until your horny, I just say stay away from instant gratification that’s all, it really does ruin you believe it or not
hamza you probably won’t see this just want to say thank you for the discord server as i was just feeling really shitty about something and the people in the server were there so i could talk about it and it’s just helped so much. you are a great person doing great things for hundreds of people
i like how hamza posts these overedited, short videos from time to time which comply to this modern "standard" way of the internet, but he always comes back to just talking in front of the camera with a robe like an older brother and just spitting facts and truth itself. i am grateful for this channel. i am grateful for our brotherhood. Thank you Hamza
Balance is key. Too many options will corrupt ur head, too much power chasing will leave u burned out and unsatisfied with life. Learn to self love and u will learn how to love others from a place of abundance bc abundance is ultimately what attracts not just women to u but kind, high value people, and what i mean by abundance is knowing that u are enough and worthy of love success and community all while working towards a life mission
Hamza, I know you're probably not going to read this (alpha males are always busy), but I still want to thank you because you have literally changed and saved my life. Nobody will never understand how much. Because of your videos, I've grown from a litteral Jeffrey, I was drinking every single time I was out, I had the most unhealthy life, zero girls of course, fapping 2 or even 3 fucking times a day. And because of you now I sleep with at least 4 girls every single week. One thing I've learned from life is that, no matter how much of a Jeffrey you might be right now, it's never too late to stand up into your feet and never fall again. Never stop! NEVER LET ANYONE NOT ONLY PUSH YOU, DON'T EVEN LET THEM TOUCH YOU. Because if you stop, someone else is going to pass you. Keep improving and one day you will wake up, look back from where you started and be amazed by how far you've come.
Thanks for this video, it really allowed me to exercise my brain and reminded me of the excitement that can be derived from learning. I needed a video like this at this time.
Where you been? I ran across you a while ago & loved everything you had to say. I forgot about you until you just popped up in my lineup again yesterday. Men would do themselves a huge favor by listening to your fabulous advice. You are looking even better than I remember. 😆 Gonna pass this along to my already incredible Son. You know what yr talking about! 🥰 Every man I've had the pleasure of enjoying was most certainly the Alpha! Keep up the great work!
There is a reason hamza has over a million subscribers now... I've been watching him since about august now and he's spot on with alot of what he talks about.
Hamza is a genius, he keeps us intrigued to the video with his speaking skills, no matter how long it is to maximise watch time, while keeping everyone entertained. He also gives us good advice so that we don’t feel like we wasted time watching it and feel like we couldn’t take anything from the video.
@@imnotlazy oh go through his channel he made many guides and reviews on books he read and found helpful. The most important ones are: Deep Work How to win friends and influence people The millionaire fastlane The 4 hour work week Can't hurt me Atomic Habits Hard times create strong men The way of the superior man Now you have so many books to read, stop wasting time on youtube king.
now what you need to do is make yourself better and stop watching anime and all this shit and put something else on your pfp and your name and dont say im an anime hater i was an anime lover and now anime is shit and for losers with no meaning
Bro I just wanna say I appreciate these videos, in a previous video I said in the comments that I'll start my grind in December but I couldn't wait and I've started and I'm making some progress, I'll be turning 16 in December and I'll be getting a gym membership but for now I'll just use bodyweight, I've already seen improvemennts and I am slowly moving up the hierarchy although I'm just a young teen. I'm in grade 10, in grade 9 I was able to talk to girls and I met alot of girls and I'm very social but I'm not happy with my physique, I'm not fat or skinny, I got some muscle but not alot, so I'll be grinding that, thanks for the videos which remind me to become masculine before Im even a fully grown man.
i can't believe these teachings didn't click before. ive always said in my head, the reason why all the girls in my school conglomerate around one specific guy is because he's the best option available. literally what this video says. i hate the person that sat in my skin and did nothing.
I want to express my gratitude to you Hamza. Everyday I get better and better, and that's in part thanks to you. I wish you all the happiness in the world tribe leader.
One thing i noticed that i like about this pep talk, when you brought up steriod users, you didnt trash us. Props for that. I am diggin your stuff more and more. very motivational.
Hey hamza. Just wanted to say you really changed my life, and im so glad i watched your videos and im becoming a better person and ive been attracting more girls since i listened to your advice.
So.. I feel this on so many levels. Please ignore my profile pic and my screen name... It's from my childhood and teen years, now I'm a nearly middle aged man.. I find you incredibly inspiring. I've been stuck on the blue pill... I'm 31 years old... At the start of this year... I actually doubled my body count, but then I got attached to this one girl... she was amazing at first. Showed me more affection and attention than I ever had. I was masculine, I ignored her and others... She won my attention, then I couldn't get enough of hers... She began to pull away from me ... We dated from june to october... She got pregnant 2 weeks after I broke up with her... I started a new job, started going out again... She contacted me and begged me to take her back, I waited 3 days before I decided I would take her back... I took her back the day before thanksgiving... This past Sunday... she told me she was Pregnant. Irony ... I can't have kids. I've been horrible at the dating scene... I was clingy, gave her to much attention, wanted to much of hers... gave her all my free time. I noticed she stopped wanting to be alone, we weren't sexually active as we was in the beginning... she lived on her phone and wouldn't hold a conversation with me... Watching your channel has made me realize what I was doing at the start of this year, and how I am in a relationship. I sincerely appreciate your information and guidance. Thanks Hamza, from a Westerner who's tired of the scene in america... You are a true legend, a greek god, and someone I have the utmost respect for. Thank you!
Damn hamza, you probably won't see this comment, but I have to that you have changed my life in ways that I could've imagined. It's only been 3 months of following your advice, but wow I feel like a complete different person and people have started to take notice, saying "thank you" doesn't even feel enough at this point but thank you man, words can not describe ✊🏾
Thanks to Hamza, I now go to the gym even if I feel like a loser sometimes. I know I'm making progress and even if it doesn't pay off, I will still keep on improving.
The struggle will mould you into a man. Resist dopamine temptations and show it who's boss. Use it to reward your efforts once in a while instead. Set goals, and stay on those goals no matter how many assholes try getting in the way. But do not get rid of instant gratification dopamine activities completely, because at some point the urge will be too much and you'd end up in an even worse addiction. But be YOU who decides when you do those activities instead of succumbing to the attachment of the addiction. Control and iron will is key. Stay strong brother!
Hamza I am 25 years old and your videos have kept me motivated to continue improving myself in a certain way. Usually I agree with you and I have to admit that your videos should be useful to many men especially young men out there including me. I don't know if you are going to see my comment but take a note from someone who is not a beta male. Thinking that the 1.1 million subscribers that you have are your followers or that you are higher in hierarchy from them is just wrong in my opinion! It seems also that you are trying to show off when you make points like this. Don't tell me that it's just facts bro, they are not. You are doing a great job but nobody is perfect, you might want to rethink some things. Just an advice always friendly xx
I am definitely the 50%-70% although was lower until I got started improving. Finding it tough to break in to the next bracket /making approaches. Thanks g.
The knowledge i gained from watching hamza helps me out daily and makes me realize how im a literal 2/10 male, as of right now i feel like a im a 3/10. Progressive over perfection 💪
I absolutely love the concept of not getting complacent in a relationship and continuing to advance forward if you continue to do that as long as your personality isn’t shit i swear your yood
Hamza, you really inspired me. I started to exercise eat clean, talking to random girls go outside but after i got into a serious relationship i went downhill. Now i started to watching your videos again and i’ll start my journey again with all of you. I want to try to make some video that hopefully inspired some of you guys even with my shitty iphone 8 because i slammed my old phone because i was so stressfull.
what is real will prosper. stay away from all the bullshit, focus on your purpose/dreams, be present, gain knowledge so they cannot control you. be better for yourself, don’t live for anyone but yourself. everyone has a story, but it all comes down to you. you narrarate your story.
man i have been improving for a 6 months now. And the eating and grades part (around 27 min i the video) I can relate to that, holy shit the realisation. I was a skinny guy that was not very attractive and now that I'm improving rather fast I have naturally started eating more. Truly thank you for making me realise this, Hamza out here changing my life
Hamza, you changed my life completely already in one month. I’m on day 34 of nofap and the benefits of it are incredible. I’m now forced to find and attract women, I started to cook every afternoon, i trained everyday, I’m starting to see that people respect me, I start to see physical changes. Thank you for all your information and help, I watch your videos every morning for discipline to go to the gym, training now every set til failure. Trying to get my friends on self improvement to💪
casual sex is never a flex brother, thats like bragging about buying mcdonalds. You realize if they did it w you after meeting like once or twice they've also done it with lots of others. you lose the ability to form a true connection with one person when you're racking up pointless bodies. You can deny and cope all you want but it is literally a fact.
Not necessarily, a woman could not be the type to just fuck anyone. Most women aren’t but when they find that rare guy that exhibits all the traits shared in the video. Most women will give up the goods to him. It’s just nature my guy lol
That’s a pathetic lie, yes an easy girl is also fucking other men easily. But she’s not fucking the bottom 80% of men, she’s giving it up to other top men. So if you’re a man and you get casual sex easily that’s a sign you’re doing something right cos most men can’t even get sex. Dumb comment
@@BLAKDANGER impulse control is a virtue. Masturbating and casual sex are wrong for the same reason, don’t degrade others just because you can, in the same way you shouldn’t degrade yourself just because you can. Both will leave you comfortably numb with no lasting sense of personal love or value.
I'll be honest, I haven't finished the video but I thought it'd be interesting to add nuance. If you strive to become the "alpha male", you're going to attract girls actracted to that type of behaviour. But that doesn't mean it's bad, just that it may not be for everyone. The key thing that we should keep from this video is that we should strive to become what we want, just better and better everyday. I guess confidence is key too, being proud of what you've become. Even though I'm not perfect I know this is true. Sorry if you said that in the video already.
Yeah, if your goal is a woman who does appreciate your emotions, is more committed and strong, you don't need to full send it. If your goal is to fuck as many women as possible and the women who you fuck are mostly shallow and weak (constantly looking for better men without pause, never admits to faults, disloyal, etc), then you need to full send it. I'm just aiming to be the best version of my own body; I don't care too much about making loads of money or having "influence" or "status". I'm more of a hippie anyway and want to be with people who are also like that, who tend to follow the blue pill idea.
November 28 2022... Marking the date i finally decide to change my life...I'm done feeling worthless...Hamza changed my mindset now...I'm 18 now...I'm gonna focus all my energy towards me now...One day for sure I'll be "An Alpha" in my tribe...which I'm gonna do it for sure!
damn, im a woman with a lotta masculine energy, i understznd that i have to be a feminine to attract a man i like but i got goals to achieve too and feminine energy is not gonna buy me lamborghinis out in the real world. we dont always have a man by our sides. we should be able to face the world as well. not all men will buy me what i want, not all men are gonna protect me. it takes time to find the right one. and in the meantime what am i supposed to do? before i find the right one, i have to be stable and strong on my own. in some situations, we have to learn to be strong and independent. but in the dating and relationship world, i would tap into my feminine side.
That's totally fine too. I think this video is supposed to be directed towards men who want to attract feminine women. If you're a woman and want to have a career and be succesful go for it.
It is quite insane how much I have grown. I watch this as a 14 year old who has been on self improvement for 4 months. I have already gotten way more female attraction and I started from zero. I will not get complacent.
@@Giordano5 i go on medito and when i Wake up 15 min then i do a one for relaxation before sleep and meditation in thhe morning actually made more awake
i’ve been working out for almost a year and have improved greatly! but it’s seems the girls i like have fallen for these beta males that are either really skinny and a loser or a fat loser and it kinda brought me down because i don’t know why this happened to me but i decided to ignore them and keep working on my passion and keep working out
Trust me they notice the physical change in you. I'd advise you to keep going and also improve other areas of your life like status, income, social skills also. Don't worry about the rejection, the right person will understand your value. I've had girls that i think are attractive outright reject me, but I've also seen other girls show all signs of interest literally throwing themselves all over me. Stay strong and keep going.
I think I’m around the top 20%. Maybe I’m way off, but I could argue otherwise. Once you start leveling up, get out of your comfort zone more, women really do want you. I have never been one that desires sleeping around. I’m looking for a wife and a partner and the future mother of my children. And I have a feeling I just found her. Keep improving. Keep working on yourself. The rewards and benefits will be more and more bountiful the longer you go for it!
"It's not hard to dominate men who still play videogames"
- Hamza Ahmed
Before I'm a complete loser, I'm a 190-200 lbs kid who knows nothing. Then one day I said that enough is enough and yeah I became better and better 'til I met this girl. We've been together for 2 years and I start to binge eat with her become vulnerable again and start to become fat again. She cheated on me 3 months ago, and I forgive her. I caught her again and again but it's fine with me because I thought that she's the one. 2 days ago I caught her again, and this time I found myself crying again over her. I realized that I became that loser again. I broke up with her and all the anger and frustration that I felt, I turned it into inspiration that I won't let this happen again. I start to eat clean and lift weights again. I'm sorry that I become a disgrace for all of us men but this time, I promise that I'll be back stronger and tougher than ever!
you fall but you learn brother, never take your foot off the gas.
keep your head up king.
Bro gimme ur contact no . We need to talk . My guy u need help
Women these days can be such bad partners. Men can too I’m sure but that’s not what we’re taking about. Don’t blame yourself although taking bad events as inspiration is a great thing to do. Blame her for her actions but don’t blame yourself that she committed them it doesn’t matter how much weight you put on if she was with you then she was supposed to respect that. Head up king become unobtainable
Love your self get better improve only for you do it for you zero jealousy and if your girl cheats never take her back
people come and go, just improve on yourself and go on with life,We're on this journey together
This isn't cringe, this is just pure facts
This is cringe indeed, girls won´t say this but they think these alpha male BS is cringy lol
@@Taxxpy So you haven't watched the video completely
@@Dondlo46 "alpha" means dominating presence. A short indian dude can never be as alpha as a tall NBA player. women love HEIGHT. and that is FACTS,
@@Dondlo46 your right fax indeed im at 34:40 rn im gonna unpause
@@AliKhan-xo1eu height isn't everything, you can still get great levels of attraction
You don’t have to be a dickhead to be Alpha, a true Alpha is also a true gentleman.
You do have to be a dickhead. You have to focus solely on what u want. What you say goes, when you’re alpha. Being a gentlemen is just being a man. It should be second nature.
like jhonathan joestar
the true gentleman of all parts
Owning a gun is far more effective at getting you women, just sayin'.
@@WiseRetar bro that's illegal 💀
@@randompanther9930 hes not real
The most dangerous man is the one who listens
I would say it’s the man who understands
Listening leads to understanding dog
@@jay.teax1952 not every Jeffrey can understand dogg
@@alexb8455 bingo, the one who understands and is willing to use the information given to them is dangerous. Most people hear and dont understand, some understand but dont apply it, but little understand and apply it
Facts
This is 100% factually correct.
I used to be at the bottom of my social hierarchy in high school
Started lifting, reading and overcoming anxiety and depression
Within half a year i could literally pick from the 5 most attractive girls in my year to make my girlfriend
This one girl is still obsessed with me today
high school lol:
@@musashi542 highschool is fun
Alpha male material right here
Chad
wp
Bro I just want to tell you that I find a ton of value in your content even at 37. I’ve had relationships but my physique was never up to par. I started my journey after leaving a job of 10 years and meeting people who were already in amazing shape. I was beat down from a previous 6 year relationship but these men helped me get into the gym. I built size and strength and had some success on dating apps. I moved into my first home 2 years ago and gave up on dating apps but kept leveling up financially and physically. I have both at the moment but still don’t approach women to this day. I have the tools but still on my journey and your content has helped me be more confident.
I just want to say that it doesn’t matter what age you are. We are all on a journey to be our best selves. It’s not going to happen after a week or a month but you will see success if you keep at it relentlessly. You are so right about how 80% of men are not trying. I’m in the best physical shape of my life amongst my coworkers/peers. Set yourself apart from the crowd and good things will happen to you
My dude, if you gonna tell Jesus you don't want to die a virgin he will make you immortal 🤣🤣🤣
@@lmUndefeated L
@@lmUndefeated Huge L, get real brotha
@@lmUndefeated Imagine hating on another mans success and self improvement 🤓
@@pattytheratty You don't get it, he's doing all of this but doesn't approach women so its pointless
14:49-15:12 I am 43 years old. Going through my second divorce. These Hamza videos have saved my life. Right now I am on instant dopamine detox. And I have drastically changed my diet. Young men, listen to what he’s telling you. you might avoid what I’ve been through, thinking I was right.
Good job friend
this reminds me how our parents and especially grandparents would call us skinny or fat. it's because at their generation masculinity was the norm for men, now we're being brainwashed to think it's cringe cus everyone was too powerful if they ever came together to fight
cringe
Legit facts u speaking there
Typing actually......
fact
True, my grandfather always said 'you must become strong'.
up to 6 pushups in a row from obky being abke to do 2 in a row. i managed to make this progress in a week
Nice to hear that Brother. Keep it up 👍🏼
im proud of you.
Keep moving forward brother, proud of you
Ay less go! Was there a year ago, only advice I'd give is start taking progress pics cuz i surely regret not doing so. Cheers mate.
well done brother, keep up the work
Hamzat literally saves the rest of what my days are supposed to look like. I was in a coma for 2 years and a used to be the man before that. I was the alpha and when i came to the world 2 years later everything had changed and i was nobody. The world was so weird with all the new social media and how people Acted after corona and the new femenism shit that came out really mest me up. So now every morning i Wake i don’t have my girl beside me and when i look at my phone it’s empty and not what it used to look like. I used to get so many compliments that i wasn’t even reacting anymore. I got as much attention as a beatuful woman gets and now i hear nothing and it’s a weird experience cus if you have been at the top and now you are the totally opposite, it messes up everything in the head. It’s like i lost everything i build for me and now i am at level 1 again. But hamza gives me hope and reminds me of what i actually am cause honestly i wake up really sad these days compared to before when i woke up singing in my bed with a new nice girl or my own girl at the time. It’s crazy and i am gonna go to the top again but i have to say that hamza is good part of helping me gettin back on track. When i doubt my self or anything in that form i just Watch hamza and it feels like he just understand me/us.
As a man when you want to make progress but it gets delayed by 2 years while you are losing the progress you have build really resets you but the hard part is that it does not reset your memory and that is my pain. It’s like building your home,family,connection with hard trained skills and warmth and then you go for war for 2 years, then later you come back to your home and nothings left… thats the pain but i am gonna build a new one. It’s just the memory that messes me up and the tought of what i had or where i could have been. It’s like uncontrolled regret but hamzat is a good motivation force. These are the Messenger thru out history that want to help us but they come in different clothes.
I was starting on my self improvement, and I attracted someone who I found very very attractive.
But I do think that it happened too soon for me, I felt like I fell back into bad habits.
However I do not think it's too late, I am picking up my slack again.
Same...💪
same experience dawg.
never too late
this fucking war
giving hope to others bro love to see it
Watching this on my TV and had to go on my phone to comment how much this is straight facts 💯
Damn you got enough motivation from hamza to open a different electronic for a moment just to comment for him. Like for that.
i have followed your advice for months now and i'm not even bullshitting i have seen progress in my self with my body, my confidence, my happines, my testostorne aswell as girls having crushes on my ect. i'm super thankfull for the things you do for the men on the earth rn. like everything about my life has became better. I treat everybody with respect and i get respect back. short answer Thank you for making men motivated for a change!
You agree or disagree, the key point igniting from this video is that we should strive to become the most high valued man we possibly can be. The alpha male archetype does not attract all kinds of women, but many great aspects can be inhabited in our system to become the most attractive man we can be.
The problem with most of these Redpillers is that they're doing self-improvement just to hook up with women when they should be doing it for themselves.
@@Raickei I wouldn't generalize it with most, but I can see where you're coming from. Its a pretty goofy move to do self improvement to just sleep with more women. You can tell that someone hasn't grown mentally when every one of their encounters with women is hard to watch.
Become THE man
The appetite thing depending on where you are on the social hierarchy is 100% facts. I’ve been thinking about this for a while now too.
This is pure facts bro , been working on myself mentally and physically for about a year now and the results speak for themselves tbh . Still have much more to improve on tho ofc , the grind never stops . Bless Hamza
I wanna say something that I think is very important. Being “alpha” is going to look very different for each individual person. The important thing is to be the most alpha version of YOU. Perfect example, look at Robert Downey Jr and Jocko Willink. Two dudes that are alpha as fuck but have two COMPLETELY different attitudes and personalities. RDJ is the charismatic witty funny guy, whereas Jocko is the really serious intimidating guy. They’re both being themselves but they’re very confident so they both appear alpha. That’s what you gotta do. Level up to become the most confident version of yourself. The worst thing you can do is try to walk around like a tough guy or an asshole when that’s not your personality because you think it’s “alpha”.
Robert Downey has been a successful actor yes but I doubt being a drug addict qualifies as being alpha.
@@hotkeyafl I’m talking about his personality. He exudes alpha energy. And that’s really what it’s about. It’s about the kind of energy you give off. Why do you think Trump always called Jeb Bush low energy Jeb? He was basically calling him a pussy or a beta.
This makes more sense tbh
Thanks hamza can't thank you enough
3 days of self improvement and my confidence has sky rocketed! TYSM!
Hamza thank you so much for the videos and now working on a dopamine detox and its been going great! everything has improved in my life already and its only been 3 days. A girl at a local shop was digging me and I just played it cool just chilling uplifting the levels. Thanks man you really explain thing well and really great that you share your own journey as well because many content creators don't show receipts.
Stay consistent my friend
Love the new adjustment to videos! 👑
This was a amazing message Hamza, thank you so much!
I just go thro life with a few phrases
“Get your money up not your funny up” and “get better not worse” been serving me well so far
Forgot the 🦁 noise with the first phrase
@@yxrackman2397 😂😂😂😂
True
Women just like leaders. I got all my girlfriends naturally because I was really never interested in them. It’s kinda unfair though because when you are focused on women it doesn’t work the same way. It just doesn’t. Just focus on bettering you and have a PURPOSE in life. I think real purpose in a male, makes him into a man
You are right. However, I haven't gotten any girlfriends because I never am interested in them. All the girls in my school either do not fit my standards or are just a 5/10 or 6/10. I do not feel guilty about it though because I literally focus on my work and on my CZcams channel as much as possible. I feel like I still have room for improvement so instead of wasting time on girls I try and build skills and knowledge
@@LucasTrz_893 That’s fine homie, keep it up. And tbh this might sound messed up but rn I’m single and as Ive grown older I’ve found that the company of a woman’s is only beneficial if they’re pleasuring you. I’m talking about myself here. But yes any other reason to have them around besides that is pretty much unnecessary unless she’s a caretaker for your children. I’ve been able to navigate life alone and with companionship. Being alone does indeed feel better. Well until your horny, I just say stay away from instant gratification that’s all, it really does ruin you believe it or not
@@FZERO20 yeah even if you are horny it goes away quickly
I love this format! Thank you Hamza.
hamza you probably won’t see this just want to say thank you for the discord server as i was just feeling really shitty about something and the people in the server were there so i could talk about it and it’s just helped so much. you are a great person doing great things for hundreds of people
i like how hamza posts these overedited, short videos from time to time which comply to this modern "standard" way of the internet,
but he always comes back to just talking in front of the camera with a robe like an older brother and just spitting facts and truth itself.
i am grateful for this channel.
i am grateful for our brotherhood.
Thank you Hamza
A strong brotherhood is essential for a strong man
Im lucky that I found out about Hamza and this tribe. Now is time to put in the work.
I really like the current video style. Thank you Hamza!
i appreciate the long form content again man
Balance is key. Too many options will corrupt ur head, too much power chasing will leave u burned out and unsatisfied with life. Learn to self love and u will learn how to love others from a place of abundance bc abundance is ultimately what attracts not just women to u but kind, high value people, and what i mean by abundance is knowing that u are enough and worthy of love success and community all while working towards a life mission
Truly. You can’t give love if you have none for yourself
Hamza, I know you're probably not going to read this (alpha males are always busy), but I still want to thank you because you have literally changed and saved my life. Nobody will never understand how much. Because of your videos, I've grown from a litteral Jeffrey, I was drinking every single time I was out, I had the most unhealthy life, zero girls of course, fapping 2 or even 3 fucking times a day. And because of you now I sleep with at least 4 girls every single week.
One thing I've learned from life is that, no matter how much of a Jeffrey you might be right now, it's never too late to stand up into your feet and never fall again. Never stop! NEVER LET ANYONE NOT ONLY PUSH YOU, DON'T EVEN LET THEM TOUCH YOU. Because if you stop, someone else is going to pass you. Keep improving and one day you will wake up, look back from where you started and be amazed by how far you've come.
Yoo the video quality is crazy thx
thanks for the points.
Thanks for this video, it really allowed me to exercise my brain and reminded me of the excitement that can be derived from learning. I needed a video like this at this time.
This is one of the first longer videos I watched of you and now I 100% agree everything you say
Thank you for being here and making my life better
Learning too much from just 36 mins vid. LOVE IT
This channel is growing like crazy
Where you been? I ran across you a while ago & loved everything you had to say.
I forgot about you until you just popped up in my lineup again yesterday.
Men would do themselves a huge favor by listening to your fabulous advice.
You are looking even better than I remember. 😆
Gonna pass this along to my already incredible Son.
You know what yr talking about! 🥰
Every man I've had the pleasure of enjoying was most certainly the Alpha!
Keep up the great work!
Dawg you just existing changes my life bro BIG DANKO!!
There is a reason hamza has over a million subscribers now... I've been watching him since about august now and he's spot on with alot of what he talks about.
Hamza is a genius, he keeps us intrigued to the video with his speaking skills, no matter how long it is to maximise watch time, while keeping everyone entertained. He also gives us good advice so that we don’t feel like we wasted time watching it and feel like we couldn’t take anything from the video.
It’s from the books he has read and reads, do the same
@@DJansons23 what books do u think specifically that allows him to do this?
Yeah him and Tate know how to do that, I don't know how😅
@@imnotlazy he made a video on the books he read
@@imnotlazy oh go through his channel he made many guides and reviews on books he read and found helpful.
The most important ones are:
Deep Work
How to win friends and influence people
The millionaire fastlane
The 4 hour work week
Can't hurt me
Atomic Habits
Hard times create strong men
The way of the superior man
Now you have so many books to read, stop wasting time on youtube king.
Thanks, In some parts, I felt hurt but knew it's the truth.. Thankyou so much ❤
now what you need to do is make yourself better and stop watching anime and all this shit and put something else on your pfp and your name and dont say im an anime hater i was an anime lover and now anime is shit and for losers with no meaning
Bro I just wanna say I appreciate these videos, in a previous video I said in the comments that I'll start my grind in December but I couldn't wait and I've started and I'm making some progress, I'll be turning 16 in December and I'll be getting a gym membership but for now I'll just use bodyweight, I've already seen improvemennts and I am slowly moving up the hierarchy although I'm just a young teen. I'm in grade 10, in grade 9 I was able to talk to girls and I met alot of girls and I'm very social but I'm not happy with my physique, I'm not fat or skinny, I got some muscle but not alot, so I'll be grinding that, thanks for the videos which remind me to become masculine before Im even a fully grown man.
One of your best videos so far, Hamza
i can't believe these teachings didn't click before. ive always said in my head, the reason why all the girls in my school conglomerate around one specific guy is because he's the best option available. literally what this video says. i hate the person that sat in my skin and did nothing.
Oof well at least you know now
Id say this is a good description:
Blue Pill: Be feminine
Red Pill: Be masculine
Black Pill: Exist
Hamza speaking facts, Thank you
Bro thank u ur the only person on CZcams that's actually helped me at all thank you
You can see how much you and Iman are learning from each other, both using phrases the other one uses. STAY HARD 🦍🦍🦍
Nofap's been making staying hard pretty easy lmao
@@kapurants stay focused brother
@@s.m.o2306 I like your pfp and thanks for the encouragement
IM HARD
Become the man
I want to express my gratitude to you Hamza. Everyday I get better and better, and that's in part thanks to you. I wish you all the happiness in the world tribe leader.
One thing i noticed that i like about this pep talk, when you brought up steriod users, you didnt trash us. Props for that. I am diggin your stuff more and more. very motivational.
Hey hamza. Just wanted to say you really changed my life, and im so glad i watched your videos and im becoming a better person and ive been attracting more girls since i listened to your advice.
So.. I feel this on so many levels.
Please ignore my profile pic and my screen name... It's from my childhood and teen years, now I'm a nearly middle aged man..
I find you incredibly inspiring. I've been stuck on the blue pill...
I'm 31 years old...
At the start of this year... I actually doubled my body count, but then I got attached to this one girl... she was amazing at first. Showed me more affection and attention than I ever had.
I was masculine, I ignored her and others...
She won my attention, then I couldn't get enough of hers...
She began to pull away from me ...
We dated from june to october...
She got pregnant 2 weeks after I broke up with her...
I started a new job, started going out again... She contacted me and begged me to take her back, I waited 3 days before I decided I would take her back...
I took her back the day before thanksgiving... This past Sunday... she told me she was Pregnant.
Irony ... I can't have kids.
I've been horrible at the dating scene... I was clingy, gave her to much attention, wanted to much of hers... gave her all my free time.
I noticed she stopped wanting to be alone, we weren't sexually active as we was in the beginning... she lived on her phone and wouldn't hold a conversation with me...
Watching your channel has made me realize what I was doing at the start of this year, and how I am in a relationship. I sincerely appreciate your information and guidance. Thanks Hamza, from a Westerner who's tired of the scene in america... You are a true legend, a greek god, and someone I have the utmost respect for. Thank you!
I love how you stopped over editing your videos because we have focus now, btw I because of you I am finally able to read. Thanks!
Damn hamza, you probably won't see this comment, but I have to that you have changed my life in ways that I could've imagined. It's only been 3 months of following your advice, but wow I feel like a complete different person and people have started to take notice, saying "thank you" doesn't even feel enough at this point but thank you man, words can not describe ✊🏾
Hey man I’ve wanted to try this but I’m not too sure the problem is I have a big gap in my teeth and my mom can’t get me braces
Yo Hamza your vibe is on point. Seems like you've came a long way man
your best video yet!
Thanks to Hamza, I now go to the gym even if I feel like a loser sometimes. I know I'm making progress and even if it doesn't pay off, I will still keep on improving.
The struggle will mould you into a man. Resist dopamine temptations and show it who's boss. Use it to reward your efforts once in a while instead. Set goals, and stay on those goals no matter how many assholes try getting in the way. But do not get rid of instant gratification dopamine activities completely, because at some point the urge will be too much and you'd end up in an even worse addiction. But be YOU who decides when you do those activities instead of succumbing to the attachment of the addiction. Control and iron will is key. Stay strong brother!
Hamza I am 25 years old and your videos have kept me motivated to continue improving myself in a certain way. Usually I agree with you and I have to admit that your videos should be useful to many men especially young men out there including me. I don't know if you are going to see my comment but take a note from someone who is not a beta male. Thinking that the 1.1 million subscribers that you have are your followers or that you are higher in hierarchy from them is just wrong in my opinion! It seems also that you are trying to show off when you make points like this. Don't tell me that it's just facts bro, they are not. You are doing a great job but nobody is perfect, you might want to rethink some things. Just an advice always friendly xx
I am definitely the 50%-70% although was lower until I got started improving. Finding it tough to break in to the next bracket /making approaches. Thanks g.
Thanks brother.
Working hard day by day, I'm sprinting to the top. Watch yourselves brothers ;) Looking forward to meeting you up there.
The knowledge i gained from watching hamza helps me out daily and makes me realize how im a literal 2/10 male, as of right now i feel like a im a 3/10. Progressive over perfection 💪
I absolutely love the concept of not getting complacent in a relationship and continuing to advance forward if you continue to do that as long as your personality isn’t shit i swear your yood
Sick video mate
love ur vids 💪
Hamza is like a therapist love you hamza❤
Great video
Hamza, you really inspired me. I started to exercise eat clean, talking to random girls go outside but after i got into a serious relationship i went downhill. Now i started to watching your videos again and i’ll start my journey again with all of you. I want to try to make some video that hopefully inspired some of you guys even with my shitty iphone 8 because i slammed my old phone because i was so stressfull.
i went from doing 3 pushups in a row 4 months ago to now doing 30 pushups in a row
oh yeah baby
what is real will prosper.
stay away from all the bullshit, focus on your purpose/dreams, be present, gain knowledge so they cannot control you. be better for yourself, don’t live for anyone but yourself. everyone has a story, but it all comes down to you. you narrarate your story.
Thank you Hamza ❤️
thank you hamza
The stuff abt serotonin is 100% true, ever since ive been seeing gym improvement, ive had better mental health.
man i have been improving for a 6 months now. And the eating and grades part (around 27 min i the video) I can relate to that, holy shit the realisation. I was a skinny guy that was not very attractive and now that I'm improving rather fast I have naturally started eating more.
Truly thank you for making me realise this, Hamza out here changing my life
@@TateTheTalisman ultimately that is the goal, when I can not learn anything more of value from mr Hamza
Amazing video Hamza
Yessir my man hamza!
Hamza, you changed my life completely already in one month. I’m on day 34 of nofap and the benefits of it are incredible. I’m now forced to find and attract women, I started to cook every afternoon, i trained everyday, I’m starting to see that people respect me, I start to see physical changes. Thank you for all your information and help, I watch your videos every morning for discipline to go to the gym, training now every set til failure. Trying to get my friends on self improvement to💪
don’t count the day’s, make the day’s count. keep going, never give up.
Again don't count the days cause you'll definitely flop and when you do you'll feel like you are back to ground zero it's a marathon not a sprint
@@osbornofili i already said that- 😭.
stop counting 💪
dont count the days 💪💪
casual sex is never a flex brother, thats like bragging about buying mcdonalds. You realize if they did it w you after meeting like once or twice they've also done it with lots of others. you lose the ability to form a true connection with one person when you're racking up pointless bodies. You can deny and cope all you want but it is literally a fact.
Not necessarily, a woman could not be the type to just fuck anyone. Most women aren’t but when they find that rare guy that exhibits all the traits shared in the video. Most women will give up the goods to him. It’s just nature my guy lol
Faxx
I can tell that u are mature more then 80%of guys if you understand this. Bless u
That’s a pathetic lie, yes an easy girl is also fucking other men easily. But she’s not fucking the bottom 80% of men, she’s giving it up to other top men. So if you’re a man and you get casual sex easily that’s a sign you’re doing something right cos most men can’t even get sex. Dumb comment
@@BLAKDANGER impulse control is a virtue. Masturbating and casual sex are wrong for the same reason, don’t degrade others just because you can, in the same way you shouldn’t degrade yourself just because you can. Both will leave you comfortably numb with no lasting sense of personal love or value.
Thank you hamza
Thank you Hamza
4:35 yep being sweet and understanding, able to talk about feelings does not work out at all, fully wright on this one.
I'll be honest, I haven't finished the video but I thought it'd be interesting to add nuance. If you strive to become the "alpha male", you're going to attract girls actracted to that type of behaviour. But that doesn't mean it's bad, just that it may not be for everyone.
The key thing that we should keep from this video is that we should strive to become what we want, just better and better everyday.
I guess confidence is key too, being proud of what you've become. Even though I'm not perfect I know this is true.
Sorry if you said that in the video already.
What kind of behaviour comes from it?
@@imnotlazy I guess being stoic, manly, proud, and dominant. Al least this is how I've been understanding it
Yeah, if your goal is a woman who does appreciate your emotions, is more committed and strong, you don't need to full send it. If your goal is to fuck as many women as possible and the women who you fuck are mostly shallow and weak (constantly looking for better men without pause, never admits to faults, disloyal, etc), then you need to full send it. I'm just aiming to be the best version of my own body; I don't care too much about making loads of money or having "influence" or "status". I'm more of a hippie anyway and want to be with people who are also like that, who tend to follow the blue pill idea.
@@nathanbegel4505 most girls are attracted to that, so there is high demand and low supply
Facts
Bro hamza just thank you fr just fucking being there
November 28 2022... Marking the date i finally decide to change my life...I'm done feeling worthless...Hamza changed my mindset now...I'm 18 now...I'm gonna focus all my energy towards me now...One day for sure I'll be "An Alpha" in my tribe...which I'm gonna do it for sure!
I would say im in the top 25% right now with my self improvement. Goal is to hit that 10% within next 3 years. 1 % within 10 years.
damn, im a woman with a lotta masculine energy, i understznd that i have to be a feminine to attract a man i like but i got goals to achieve too and feminine energy is not gonna buy me lamborghinis out in the real world. we dont always have a man by our sides. we should be able to face the world as well. not all men will buy me what i want, not all men are gonna protect me. it takes time to find the right one. and in the meantime what am i supposed to do? before i find the right one, i have to be stable and strong on my own. in some situations, we have to learn to be strong and independent. but in the dating and relationship world, i would tap into my feminine side.
Why work so hard to buy that lamborghini when u can just get a man to get one for you.....
@@spacebar3114 bruh fr fr
That's totally fine too. I think this video is supposed to be directed towards men who want to attract feminine women.
If you're a woman and want to have a career and be succesful go for it.
That is an attractive mindset
@@spacebar3114 the same can be said for men. Why work so hard for a lamborghini when a woman can get one for you
Hamza cranking
This is gold.
It is quite insane how much I have grown. I watch this as a 14 year old who has been on self improvement for 4 months. I have already gotten way more female attraction and I started from zero. I will not get complacent.
Stay consistent my brother
@@Yarn1x8757 Thanks for the positive message. How tf is that coping
Up to 15 min of meditation thank you Hamza
Nice job man
when do you do it?
@@Giordano5 when i Wake up and before sleep
@@karolbeck2344 so twice a day 15min? And if you wake up don't you still feeel sleepy?
@@Giordano5 i go on medito and when i Wake up 15 min then i do a one for relaxation before sleep and meditation in thhe morning actually made more awake
Thank u self improvement guru for truly changing my life in such a short period of time.
much love to my brother in faith Hamza
i’ve been working out for almost a year and have improved greatly! but it’s seems the girls i like have fallen for these beta males that are either really skinny and a loser or a fat loser and it kinda brought me down because i don’t know why this happened to me but i decided to ignore them and keep working on my passion and keep working out
Trust me they notice the physical change in you. I'd advise you to keep going and also improve other areas of your life like status, income, social skills also. Don't worry about the rejection, the right person will understand your value.
I've had girls that i think are attractive outright reject me, but I've also seen other girls show all signs of interest literally throwing themselves all over me.
Stay strong and keep going.
It isn’t helpful to bring others down in order to elevate yourself.
you stepped up your level but not the one of the girls you are into.
Just keep improving it happens with me too
I think I’m around the top 20%. Maybe I’m way off, but I could argue otherwise.
Once you start leveling up, get out of your comfort zone more, women really do want you.
I have never been one that desires sleeping around. I’m looking for a wife and a partner and the future mother of my children.
And I have a feeling I just found her. Keep improving. Keep working on yourself. The rewards and benefits will be more and more bountiful the longer you go for it!
Awesome 👊🏾
Thank you
thank you hamza i appreciate the lessons that you give us i will put it to use thanks and bye