Ordering Chinese Takeout Then Tipping $5,000 to Struggling Restaurants

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  • čas přidán 24. 02. 2021
  • The first 1000 people to click the link will get a free trial of Skillshare’s Premium Membership: skl.sh/xiaomanyc11201 So this week I tipped $5,000 at some of my absolute favorite Chinese takeout spots in New York City. The whole restaurant industry in New York City has been devastated by COVID and Chinese restaurants have been particularly hard-hit. So I wanted to give them a nice tip to show them how much we love and support them here at Xiaomanyc! Especially because it's Chinese New Year and it's a perfect time to give these restaurants some nice red envelopes. If you would like to get out there and support these NYC restaurants yourself, here are links to their pages on Yelp. Most are located in NYC’s Manhattan Chinatown. They are all awesome and highly recommended!
    Spicy Village for utterly delicious spicy noodles: www.yelp.com/biz/spicy-villag...
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    Lucky House Kitchen for some seriously good old school Chinese American food: www.yelp.com/biz/lucky-house-...
    Teado for the best bubble milk tea and other drinks in Chinatown (and that’s saying a lot): www.yelp.com/biz/teado-tea-sh...
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  • @xiaomanyc
    @xiaomanyc  Před 3 lety +12291

    Thank you to these awesome restaurants & of course Skillshare for making the vid possible. And if you want to learn Chinese with check out: www.streetsmartlanguages.com/chinese

    • @gdepa741
      @gdepa741 Před 3 lety +35

      So wholesome!

    • @conorbergan4843
      @conorbergan4843 Před 3 lety +89

      Next headline “Man forces woman to take his money”

    • @knightsofaltier9628
      @knightsofaltier9628 Před 3 lety +34

      Keep up the great work man! Your videos are truly inspirational and I've really enjoyed watching your channel. You got a sub from me! I'll keep practicing and maybe one day I'll speak as well as you. Thanks again and happy Chinese new year.

    • @eliperlov9713
      @eliperlov9713 Před 3 lety +25

      thats so fax this has to be one of the best vids on the channel so far

    • @zhefeng2266
      @zhefeng2266 Před 3 lety +9

      Awesome!!!

  • @AxerionxX
    @AxerionxX Před 3 lety +26333

    Damm she told him that business is not going well and next thing she packing extra stuff and candy's omg that's how you know she does this with her heart. She deserves everything

    • @cagnazzo82
      @cagnazzo82 Před 3 lety +1597

      And she's fighting to give the money back. That's how you know she really deserves it.

    • @antimono
      @antimono Před 3 lety +205

      And $15 in China is actually $3 in Aussie dollars your know, like $2 in US bucks (btw i am saying that USD is worth more than AUD)

    • @cagnazzo82
      @cagnazzo82 Před 3 lety +318

      @@antimono It's actually kind of in reverse. USD is worth more than AUSD, but I think I get what you mean.

    • @ComfyChaos
      @ComfyChaos Před 3 lety +348

      For real! I cried when she said she couldn't accept the money. The amount of love and humility in her heart...if I lived in NYC, I'd be going to her restaurant every day just to support her. ♥

    • @StudiosUntold
      @StudiosUntold Před 3 lety +47

      @@antimono They’re in NYC lol

  • @DerekFizzey
    @DerekFizzey Před 3 lety +96250

    The First Lady deserves every single customer in the world.

    • @sethj7071
      @sethj7071 Před 3 lety +3714

      She was super sweet and kind

    • @Acxelly
      @Acxelly Před 3 lety +572

      Customer*

    • @johnmorpheus120
      @johnmorpheus120 Před 3 lety +2625

      God blessed that woman with a beautiful heart of gold that she freely gives to everyone she meets. May she be even more prosperous in the coming years of her life and she receive the honor she deserves.

    • @Bladeofwar94
      @Bladeofwar94 Před 3 lety +495

      @@Acxelly Yes spelling is VERY important. Gotta slip it in real quick.

    • @Grahmps
      @Grahmps Před 3 lety +830

      It almost put a tear to my eye while also making me laugh at the same time for the fight as to them wanting to give back the money with xiaoma insisting they keep it. I lived in China for 10 years and it’s so wholesome.

  • @litebrite8993
    @litebrite8993 Před rokem +3982

    The fact that the last guy didn't think he was really giving him the money "ok you got your footage you can take the money back" was really heart breaking. So sad to think that there are people out there doing fake 'give aways' so sad, glad our guy is the real deal, a gentleman through and through

    • @mjisurdad
      @mjisurdad Před rokem +258

      It’s cause that’s what a lot of influencers do. They offer them 20 bucks to pretend to get 10k or some absurd amount of money. Glad he was able to actually help them.

    • @VincentGroenewold
      @VincentGroenewold Před rokem +48

      It's because he's right about it. I'm totally not a fan of just handing out money for YT content, also not in this case. 5000 is ofcourse great, but it doesn't cover much in a business. Ergo, it's for the content.

    • @hariranormal5584
      @hariranormal5584 Před rokem +26

      People like Mr beast are exactly like this and one day the truth will be revealed

    • @trekkiejunk
      @trekkiejunk Před rokem +61

      Well, most are not fake, i don't think. Still, that doesn't mean they don't do it for the views. Xiaoman could have just donated without the camera on at all, and never tell us. He could have just shown footage of the restaurant, and encouraged people to patronize them while they struggled during the pandemic, while giving money off-camera. But he chose to record it. The last guy was on to something. While Xiaoman gave a real donation, he also did it for the views, and the tea guy was well aware of this. They all do it for the views. If they didn't, they wouldn't record it.

    • @typhlosionproductions5970
      @typhlosionproductions5970 Před rokem +110

      @@VincentGroenewold a thousand dollars does cover a decent amount. It covers 1000$. If your running a restaurant struggling to get customers that could be a week of sales

  • @haxonprime1243
    @haxonprime1243 Před rokem +1610

    My wife and I did this a few years back at a small mom and pop Chinese restaurant. It was around Christmas and we wanted to do something nice for them as they work harder then most restaurants in the area and their food is always amazing, so my wife suggested we make their holiday a wonderful one. I went to the bank before we headed to the restaurant, withdrew $4000 and we gifted it to them after we finished our meal. They tried to give it back as most of these wonderful people did, but we explained that it was for them and their many years of kindness and amazing food. They eventually accepted the money. Come spring time, they used the money to re paint the front of their restaurant, and they had an artist hand paint their businesses name in Chinese with a beautiful Koi fish right under the name. They still to this day express their gratefulness every time we enter through those doors. We are happy we made them happy. I wish more people spread this kind of love and joy for people like them.

    • @justagrrl1981
      @justagrrl1981 Před rokem +75

      Bless you and your wife

    • @rudytheduck4776
      @rudytheduck4776 Před rokem +33

      That is so heartwarming! Great kindness from you and your wife to help them, I'm sure they are very happy!

    • @MKultraInstinct
      @MKultraInstinct Před 11 měsíci +23

      Damn ok Mr Beast 👏🤣

    • @ryanolsen294
      @ryanolsen294 Před 11 měsíci +13

      you are so kind ,love what you do

    • @msdustismith8919
      @msdustismith8919 Před 8 měsíci

      You and your wife are absolutely wonderful.

  • @MusicforMe123
    @MusicforMe123 Před 3 lety +10191

    The first lady broke my heart, she stated that she cannot cover her expenses but still took the time to give extras to her customers, which in itself says a lot about her as a person. I encourage everyone who lives close by to support businesses like hers through the tough times so that they can continue to serve the community. Save the businesses who care about customers over profit and we will all win as a result of that. This pandemic brought out not only the worst but the best in people and it is clear this lady deserves a fighting chance. Kindness is also infectious, pay it forward. Life is good, share it with good people!

    • @LukeSmithXD
      @LukeSmithXD Před 3 lety +176

      I agree! Here in the UK I've been avoiding the big food chains and focusing on smaller business, firstly out of personal preferences but also to help out. Let's just say I'm addicted to one cake shop 😊😭

    • @sunpacplussoftware5948
      @sunpacplussoftware5948 Před 3 lety +73

      Totally agree, that lady has an exceptionally generous heart!

    • @thepowerofyourvoicepodcast
      @thepowerofyourvoicepodcast Před 3 lety +65

      I completely agree, many times these restaurant owners do things that the locals are not aware of. While staying in San Diego I was looking for restaurants that would donate food for the homeless and met a gentleman who owns a Chinese restaurant, he and his family make meals (large soup, rice, protein, vegs, and drink) and feed about 50 people 5 times a week. I have no idea how they do it, but they do, and just thought that was incredible. What incredible people with such a huge heart.

    • @MikePhoTravelVlogs
      @MikePhoTravelVlogs Před 3 lety +5

      Awesome Video 📸 Keep it up 💯💯

    • @weldog71
      @weldog71 Před 3 lety +6

      Please visit her!!

  • @andrewcarr2023
    @andrewcarr2023 Před 2 lety +6736

    The first woman is making me cry honestly. She's so upbeat and generous, offering him the complimentary tea and new-years candies, making conversation with him. She admits she is struggling, but tries to refuse the gift before she even knows how much it is, and then even more once she sees the amount.

    • @RedIce202
      @RedIce202 Před 2 lety +122

      She is very humble and hard working

    • @cashkhang5705
      @cashkhang5705 Před rokem +61

      Hard working Asians don't take handouts.

    • @Naturaleza000
      @Naturaleza000 Před rokem +16

      She talk about her husband it’s gonna kill her because some Chinese people are very strict with their wife and families and abusive

    • @ZoeMuller80
      @ZoeMuller80 Před rokem +9

      I think 99% of people would refuse the gift but give away almost everything they have to others

    • @actionfigureshi
      @actionfigureshi Před rokem +9

      Reminds me of my friends mom Mrs. Chen. Thank you for all the food you cooked for us Mrs. Emy Chen!

  • @AR_119
    @AR_119 Před rokem +2507

    In all honesty you most likely saved more than one business/ family from disaster here. This is a perfect example of why I love watching your channel. It's about spreading love and connecting with people.

    • @dot1703
      @dot1703 Před rokem +5

      1k is nothing

    • @AR_119
      @AR_119 Před rokem +120

      @@dot1703 he gave them each $5k. That's a lot. Even $1k is a lot. To a struggling business, it would help a ton.

    • @dot1703
      @dot1703 Před rokem +3

      1k bro and its nothing compared to 2 years of bad earnings

    • @AR_119
      @AR_119 Před rokem

      @@dot1703 well if he gave them nothing it wouldn't do anything. Stop being an ass and just piss off. It was a good deed and helped a lot of people.

    • @dot1703
      @dot1703 Před rokem +2

      ​@@AR_119 i just dont agree with the "helped a lot of people" thing. He atleast earned double the money, that he gave away, with his video. He should be in shame giving only 1k each

  • @dawgfacesoldier
    @dawgfacesoldier Před rokem +897

    I'm a grown ass man (52 y/o), but I almost shed a couple of tears when the first lady tried to put the money into his bag. I love genuine people and she's one of them.

  • @Chidra217
    @Chidra217 Před 2 lety +5824

    The way she didn't answer when he asked if she had a chance to rest, just told him to sit and drink the tea. What an amazing, humble, hardworking lady.

    • @singingwolf3929
      @singingwolf3929 Před 2 lety +155

      That was a cut in the video. Willing to bet her response was that she never rests. Either that or, because of the pandemic, she had the time to take a long rest. (This is no judgement on her. I took nearly a month off when the first lockdowns happened). The only other thing possible, is that the conversation Either got too personal or not interesting for viewers.

    • @ahmadnajmiroslan
      @ahmadnajmiroslan Před 2 lety +83

      Nah,you can see that she shaking her head that's mean no rest before the cut

    • @soul4real620
      @soul4real620 Před 2 lety +4

      Amazing work my friend 👏👏👏

    • @janeames1513
      @janeames1513 Před 2 lety +12

      the thing i have noticed is in this country so many immigrants struggle to make it then get hate when they finally do make it...this is the land of the free and the melding pot of the world ..let's all try to boost our neighbors and support local shops..as for her getting rest?..nah you can see it in her face that she is busting her ass to barely keep her shop open..sad what this country has come to with the whole covid thing..so many businesses closing and families going bankrupt

    • @1996Pinocchio
      @1996Pinocchio Před 2 lety +6

      She shook her head for a split second.

  • @MMASulu
    @MMASulu Před 3 lety +6252

    You can tell the food truck guy is a traditional dad how he hides his emotions. We all know he was crying on the inside

    • @nicolgarcia4379
      @nicolgarcia4379 Před 3 lety +151

      😭😢you're so right ❤️

    • @Sexybabe629
      @Sexybabe629 Před 3 lety +145

      Definitely a hard working man 👍🏼

    • @nicolgarcia4379
      @nicolgarcia4379 Před 3 lety +11

      @@Sexybabe629 👏👏👏💪💪💪💪

    • @HardSprinkle
      @HardSprinkle Před 3 lety +372

      I knew he was a dad when he texted Xiaoma “get your ass back here and take this money back” 😂

    • @nicolgarcia4379
      @nicolgarcia4379 Před 3 lety +9

      @@HardSprinkle hahahahahhahaha

  • @lttlejordan23
    @lttlejordan23 Před rokem +408

    That first woman deserves a million more red envelopes! She was genuinely happy to see one customer walk through the doors and even though she said business hasn't been good, she still packed extra stuff in the bag. Doing it all with a smile. I hope this video brought some business her way. All of them really, but especially her. I just appreciate genuinely kind people.

  • @deviousbread
    @deviousbread Před rokem +982

    Went to spicy village, it was so damn good! Saw the person you gave the $5000 too, she was such a hard worker, the place is packed, business is still booming. Came here from Hawaii, I don’t regret it, we don’t have “real” Chinese food. I love the culture in New York. Thanks for not being biased, and when I was done I went to a couple local places, told them where i ate, they said that was an amazing place and great choice. Thanks 🙏 would of never found this place without you. Also the soup dumplings are so good.

    • @epicfail1060
      @epicfail1060 Před rokem +69

      thanks for the update on Wendy. i was verry curious on how shes been doin. Nice to hear shes doin good!

    • @scappel
      @scappel Před rokem

      thanks for the update! i wish them all well in free america! never again a fake news pandemic to ruin lives of these hard working folks!

    • @Anonnermoose
      @Anonnermoose Před rokem +26

      It was 1K not 5K

    • @mjisurdad
      @mjisurdad Před rokem +6

      @@Anonnermoose 🤡

    • @Anonnermoose
      @Anonnermoose Před rokem +1

      @@mjisurdad learn to count

  • @naomiburn8386
    @naomiburn8386 Před 3 lety +7358

    This man is living proof of the idea: learning a language opens whole worlds to you.

    • @barefootbooks69
      @barefootbooks69 Před 3 lety +88

      Absolutely.

    • @helexable
      @helexable Před 3 lety +148

      Definitely, i started learning Spanish to better connect with people at work and even after just a week of learning you its a while new world. i can understand about 80% of whats being said if i have context and it makes it so much easier to communicate and truly understand people

    • @dustsans9859
      @dustsans9859 Před 3 lety +51

      I learned English, that gave me huge new opportunity, very cool

    • @progamertom7878
      @progamertom7878 Před 3 lety +26

      @@dustsans9859 (learnt*) there you go. One more slice of English you have learnt :)

    • @Alex-vk3mu
      @Alex-vk3mu Před 3 lety +3

      This comment is 100% true

  • @HorizonMelt
    @HorizonMelt Před 2 lety +7751

    Wendy is talking about how she's worried about covering expenses and things are looking bleak, and yet her more driving force was to make sure you had hot tea and special things to take home to your wife. Love this. She's proof that we don't need to look to Hollywood, professional sports or Washington DC for role models on how to treat each other.

    • @ProcesareVideo
      @ProcesareVideo Před 2 lety +6

      Do you see in marxist government in US some role model?

    • @JustS0meK1dd
      @JustS0meK1dd Před 2 lety +135

      @@ProcesareVideo What does this even mean?....

    • @jenkins5265
      @jenkins5265 Před 2 lety +181

      @@ProcesareVideo it's a sad day when Americans see a small business owner being kind and say that's marxist. I wonder if you even understand the definition of marxist...maybe go back to school, if you ever went in the first place to be putting this kind of filth out on the internet.

    • @TheOriginalBijamist
      @TheOriginalBijamist Před 2 lety +5

      @@jenkins5265 He is talking about the US government

    • @quasarkid
      @quasarkid Před 2 lety +34

      @@TheOriginalBijamist the very NON marxist US government lmao, moderate social policies are called communism over here, marxism would go over very poorly

  • @itiscujo
    @itiscujo Před 8 měsíci +58

    The fact that EVERY SINGLE ONE of the people you gave money to adamantly denied the money you gave them at first humbles me more than I can describe.😊

    • @nsebast
      @nsebast Před 5 měsíci +5

      As Chinese we were taught as children never to accept free things that we didnt work for.

  • @GIGroundNPound
    @GIGroundNPound Před rokem +319

    Ooof, Wendy and her business are precious and an AWESOME example of the INCREDIBLE everyday hardworking American. That food looks amazing.....

  • @Oswald_Thatendswald
    @Oswald_Thatendswald Před 3 lety +1956

    That first lady is TOO nice. Over there struggling to survive and giving out jugs of tea and a bunch of candies lol The world doesn't deserve a soul as sweet as her.

    • @tonyswe9463
      @tonyswe9463 Před 3 lety +29

      Sweet lady

    • @vecspace
      @vecspace Před 3 lety +69

      Chinese restaurant tend to do that for their regular customer, notwithstanding she is definitely a very nice ans genuine lady.

    • @hajinata
      @hajinata Před 3 lety +6

      YAAA SHES SO CUTE

    • @dennisbergkamp640
      @dennisbergkamp640 Před 3 lety +6

      There’s lots of people like her

    • @MotoFishingAdventurer
      @MotoFishingAdventurer Před 3 lety +4

      We need more sweat souls like here! This will make the world a better place!

  • @iBeSupicious
    @iBeSupicious Před 3 lety +2712

    My dude walks into the second spot and they already know what he wants. THAT is fucking precious. My corner store does that shit every day and I love them for it.

    • @allyma3
      @allyma3 Před 2 lety +85

      Thats when u know that they value u alot, like they probably get so many customers but they remember you. I lovr it too bcuz it shows that they actually acknowledge that you care about them too

    • @callboxib1661
      @callboxib1661 Před 2 lety +21

      That's what happens when you go somewhere daily and they remember exactly what they want. I work at a grocery store and we sell cigarettes. There's this guy that comes in everyday and he always comes through my line because he knows that I know what kind he wants. And I don't even have to ask him if he needs them.

    • @amaloliesque
      @amaloliesque Před 2 lety

      It’s the place he went to for the video with the best Chinese food in NYC! Love how he still goes back and is on a first name basis with owner now

    • @928musket
      @928musket Před 2 lety +1

      My local chinese buisiness used to do this, they went out of business recently though.

    • @jadd.9355
      @jadd.9355 Před 2 lety

      Probably the best feelings you can get in the world

  • @sallydope6743
    @sallydope6743 Před rokem +302

    The $1000 is cool, but free advertising on Xiaoma's channel is definitely better! I hope these restaurants/owners are doing well.

  • @kodij
    @kodij Před rokem +178

    The enjoyment of this video is the fact that all of these people are so honorable that they don’t want to take the money because they believe they don’t deserve. Be grateful be a human and love each other.

  • @pluto587
    @pluto587 Před 3 lety +2745

    It's amazing to see people who are struggling always willing to give. She just kept wanting to give you extra items and didn't want to even accept the money. You can tell she is a good person

    • @kiaderham
      @kiaderham Před 3 lety +73

      I wish she would have gotten the whole $5000. So sweet ❤

    • @ayuubabdirahman5275
      @ayuubabdirahman5275 Před 3 lety +15

      She was soo humble and nice

    • @whome6415
      @whome6415 Před 3 lety +10

      Glad to see the coronavirus people reaching out to each other!

    • @SM-ge7ee
      @SM-ge7ee Před 3 lety +3

      Lol my parents are like this when my aunt gives me 100 dollars when we meet after a long time

    • @channelpolitica1364
      @channelpolitica1364 Před 3 lety +25

      This is normal asian culture. Its called a “polite fight”.

  • @trwwn3804
    @trwwn3804 Před 3 lety +3845

    They re hurting financially but honor and humbleness prevails.
    Can't put a dollar value on that.

    • @shanti888
      @shanti888 Před 3 lety +41

      Values over cash !

    • @FuzzyWuzzyBear89
      @FuzzyWuzzyBear89 Před 3 lety +41

      I wish more people would do this. There are many that can afford to. Is there any better feeling than helping someone (or some animal) in need?!?

    • @shanti888
      @shanti888 Před 3 lety +8

      @@FuzzyWuzzyBear89- that’s a very lovely comment. Even your wish to benefit others is noble and will bear fruit.

    • @wildeasage
      @wildeasage Před 3 lety +9

      Pro tip - “humbleness” gets the idea across, but there is a word for that: humility! Try it out.

    • @jamilitary07
      @jamilitary07 Před 3 lety +3

      I believe the word you were looking for is ‘humility.’ But I feel what you’re saying though.👍🏾

  • @AFAskygoddess
    @AFAskygoddess Před rokem +72

    I was a US flight attendant who flew the Beijing route. One Thanksgiving, years ago, I was on a layover and we decided to go to a restaurant whose specialty was Peking duck. It was NOT in an area tourists went to. We tried to leave a tip. The waitress wouldn't take it. We hid the tip money under a plate and ran for the door. She chased us down the street and returned it. Happy memories in China.

    • @zoetayloor7774
      @zoetayloor7774 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Where’d you go? Cuz I actually need peking duck restaurant recommendations

  • @vaybor
    @vaybor Před rokem +26

    i love how every single person immediately said 'nope, too much, cannot accept this,' just further proves how deserving they really are. incredibly hard working, these folks are clearly not used to taking any kind of hand outs. makes my heart swell to know some of these businesses may be able to continue just because of your kindness.

  • @comeandspeak408
    @comeandspeak408 Před 3 lety +1829

    The first woman was just so humble. The last guy seemed so defeated by the economy because of the pandemic... he was probably waiting the "gotcha" moment - as if it were a prank.

    • @phajeb001
      @phajeb001 Před 3 lety +63

      I like it that he was willing to give the money back to him after he took the footage.

    • @sparkymularkey6970
      @sparkymularkey6970 Před 3 lety +126

      I got that feeling, too. It was almost like he has PTSD, like he was just completely shutting down. He is grateful, relieved, ecstatic, and can't believe his luck, but it was like it was all trapped inside from the months and months of stress and trauma and struggle. I hope he and all these other business owners are doing well.

    • @jonestasha901
      @jonestasha901 Před 3 lety +34

      Wow milk tea in NYC China Town is cheap unlike here in California where boba or milk tea starts at 3.50

    • @iSenbon
      @iSenbon Před 3 lety +20

      @@jonestasha901 yeah they have to be with so many tea shops on a very small area, you have to be competitive with pricing especially since business is slow as well :/

    • @robvasquez5628
      @robvasquez5628 Před 3 lety +12

      Support every small business. Otherwise, when the dust finally settles from coronavirus... we'll all be homeless.

  • @SlyFrostPaw
    @SlyFrostPaw Před 2 lety +4117

    what really hits me is how clear it is just how much these people mean to you, it wasnt just a random restaraunt. you were directly giving back to your local community. thats beautiful

    • @Civerius
      @Civerius Před 2 lety +26

      Supposively that's what everyone should be doing in general lol

    • @Cris-em9tn
      @Cris-em9tn Před 2 lety +30

      @@Civerius It really surprised me too though, because I go to one restaurant. I've tried them all but stuck with the same one for 8 years now. (If I want true Chinese, I have only one restaurant for that too and it's an hour away.) So I think it's mainly just that he frequents all these places so regularly that they know him personally, down to the one guy having given him a red envelope a few days earlier.

    • @adambent9574
      @adambent9574 Před 2 lety +10

      100% agree. Giving this to your friends that you know personally just makes this hit differently for me. Not to say that I don’t also the anonymous ones as well, just in a different way. Keep spreading the good vibes, we need it

    • @jeffl1484
      @jeffl1484 Před 2 lety +2

      Exactly this.

    • @djaiko7268
      @djaiko7268 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Civerius supposedly*

  • @EdgarLopezInk
    @EdgarLopezInk Před 8 měsíci +11

    Damn 36 yr old Mexican you got me in tears i can't believe your kindness god bless you brother

  • @bobp4
    @bobp4 Před rokem +97

    Wendy in the first video (and the others) show how good and hard working people around the world deserve our respect. The way she tried to give it back and then we have billionaires who would put the envelope away so fast the camera wouldn't catch it even in slo mo.

  • @HonestCoach-us1ed
    @HonestCoach-us1ed Před 2 lety +3907

    The fact that all of them expressed they could not take the money just shows how humble and amazing these people that own these businesses are

    • @weatherstationlytovchenko4794
      @weatherstationlytovchenko4794 Před 2 lety +5

      So this means no one took a cent, how refreshing.

    • @HonestCoach-us1ed
      @HonestCoach-us1ed Před 2 lety +93

      @@mikesmithey4882 never mentioned race, the fact you did says everything 🤷‍♂️

    • @eggmanyes8024
      @eggmanyes8024 Před 2 lety +13

      @@mikesmithey4882 Where did you get that from? They were just mentioning how kind these people were.

    • @grok8211
      @grok8211 Před 2 lety +3

      Not sure what you mean. It is a very common reaction.

    • @maxalmonte14
      @maxalmonte14 Před 2 lety +15

      That's the way Asian people are educated.

  • @jordangroff8978
    @jordangroff8978 Před 3 lety +3852

    I'm not Asian, but I can tell from this video that in the Asian culture people are taught that they need to work for their money and not expect it to be given to them. Respect that for sure.

    • @YourUserNameSucksx10
      @YourUserNameSucksx10 Před 3 lety +225

      That's true brother
      Being Asian that's one of the earliest thing I could remember my mother and father teaching me. Don't take things that don't belong to you and work for what you got.

    • @Jennifer-jv3rg
      @Jennifer-jv3rg Před 3 lety +63

      A lot of cultures are like that I’ve seen . It’s awesome

    • @chronocross85
      @chronocross85 Před 3 lety +140

      Not just asian culture but alot of immigrants have that mindset when they come to America

    • @Rachelsyy
      @Rachelsyy Před 3 lety +24

      This is Chinese culture.

    • @thecourageousorange
      @thecourageousorange Před 3 lety +17

      and they are good at feeding guests. my bf's family is asian and they feed me well when I stay there.

  • @friedpicklezzz
    @friedpicklezzz Před rokem +18

    The first woman is so kind and so caring. People like her, businesses like hers, are incredibly important cultural and societal pillars, and they should get all the support they deserve.

  • @CaymenLeP
    @CaymenLeP Před rokem +12

    “Ya know, since you have the footage, you can just take the money back.”
    Legitimately humble people bring a tear to my eye

  • @Yamikuri
    @Yamikuri Před 2 lety +3010

    I cried when the first lady was saying she couldn't accept the money, she was obviously so taken aback by your generosity, she deserves every penny, hug, and customer

    • @theLoveInUrEyes
      @theLoveInUrEyes Před 2 lety +13

      Yes and she said her husband will kill her lol. She is so sweet. To be honest Asian people ( I am one of them) very friendly but some of the Chinese ladies I love so much and there are a couple of them are so rude and short when doing restaurant business. I would go to that lady's restaurant in New York city and tip her handsomely and the guy on the street. Can I have their address or locations.

    • @ev1677
      @ev1677 Před 2 lety +6

      Made me teary too and I haven't cried in years.

    • @441meatloaf
      @441meatloaf Před 2 lety +10

      Chinese people that work and humble don't wanna take so much red pocket money because they have to regift some day and they don't know how to give back the pleasure. So yes from a cultural stand point, we try to avoid big tips like this because the person receiving it feels like they will owe you.

    • @zacharylortie2786
      @zacharylortie2786 Před 2 lety +4

      Same here, breaks my heart seeing someone so nice and humble have to struggle. It’s not like she’s taking it easy either, she has to work hard everyday. Wish these people the best

    • @jstone9462
      @jstone9462 Před 2 lety +1

      I cried too

  • @BalefireBombshell
    @BalefireBombshell Před 2 lety +4543

    In case anyone was wondering, all the restaurants appear to still be up and operating according to Yelp as of November 16th, 2021.

    • @bigazTV
      @bigazTV Před 2 lety +29

      @Gonçalo Gomes they are

    • @lostcause7072
      @lostcause7072 Před 2 lety +258

      Business better be booming for Wendy.

    • @RunRistaStudios
      @RunRistaStudios Před 2 lety +21

      Thanks, I had that thought midway!

    • @fatnesstofitnessthereandback
      @fatnesstofitnessthereandback Před 2 lety +17

      Let’s keep them alive!!

    • @ondank
      @ondank Před 2 lety +117

      I did not expect to feel such relief about the fortunes of 5 small business on another continent, and yet that felt like a weight off my chest.

  • @Howling-Mad-Murdock
    @Howling-Mad-Murdock Před rokem +6

    Beautiful. That First Lady made me cry. Such a nice person, I hope her business is thriving.

  • @cptwojciech6396
    @cptwojciech6396 Před rokem +31

    7:00 lady just started flexing the money, LOL😭😂😂😂

  • @MK-11111
    @MK-11111 Před 3 lety +3545

    The last one broke me.. "You already have the footage, so you can take it back". It speaks to how you can get so accustom to being abused, taken advantage of, and hurt that you cannot even believe a genuine act of kindness. That amount of pain and hurt is unbearable. Thank you for sending that support and kindness

    • @mqegg
      @mqegg Před 3 lety +89

      Nah, they just feel bad for taking money.

    • @WaywardVector
      @WaywardVector Před 3 lety +187

      That’s not what it’s about HAHAHA! You are so ignorant! Let me educate you. When I was 10 my Asian mother did her Asian friend a favor, and said friend tried for 15 minutes to pay my mother back, throwing money at each other saying “no no, it’s unnecessary!” There’s no abuse. It’s just culture. Chill.

    • @JohnSmith-li6mn
      @JohnSmith-li6mn Před 3 lety +55

      @@WaywardVector i mean getting footage for "giving" away 5$ isn't a favor though. I agree the original comment is very enthusiastic about the video but in Nyc i bet they've seen a lot of shit and think that they might not understand fully how much it helps. As he said you have the footage so you can leave now and take it back meaning someone has done that before i wouldn't call it abuse but definitely ignorant

    • @_ryanc
      @_ryanc Před 3 lety +52

      @@WaywardVector that would be the case if it was only “you can take it back”; the comment about footage suggests they’re disillusioned by or have encountered “influencers” who give away money for internet points rather than out of kindness and they suspect him of being the same.

    • @Qopa
      @Qopa Před 3 lety +22

      From what Ive heard from a lot of Asians, even on the news, some people in America are actively looking for Asians to harrass for covid daily. There was even recently a black women who attacked 2 Asian women with a hammer, telling them to take off their mask and all. Then we got people harrassing koreans and saying shit like "fucking chinese" in their faces. The blaming culture is real.

  • @Jixxor
    @Jixxor Před 2 lety +3518

    10:58 "You've already got the footage, you can take the money back" it's sad how many people do exactly that. Absolutely crazy how the guy suggests it himself tho, as if he wouldn't even be mad if someone pulled that shit on him. Very nice gesture, I hope it helped them all stay afloat.

    • @solala1312
      @solala1312 Před 2 lety +382

      I was in shock when he said that. it must happen more than we are aware of. I was so happy to see the worker got the money for real!

    • @tanah6962
      @tanah6962 Před 2 lety +160

      @@solala1312 yeah I know! My jaw dropped like I always knew those types of videos must be fake like where did all that money come from.and the millions of views?? Damn!

    • @Rorther
      @Rorther Před 2 lety +92

      And let's be honest. No one goes around giving this much money if they are not filming. Broke my heart

    • @NikkiKNuvo
      @NikkiKNuvo Před 2 lety +72

      No way someone would be able to take money back from me after giving it to me on camera. They'll have to file a civil lawsuit lol

    • @Rezzmari
      @Rezzmari Před 2 lety +18

      Damn, that's sad. Some people will do anything for views unfortunately.

  • @radekplodzien263
    @radekplodzien263 Před 10 měsíci +11

    You are awesome. You have built your channel purely based on your talent and hard work, no stupid pranks, no controversy. World needs more people like you. Keep up good work!

  • @MrHotshot1995
    @MrHotshot1995 Před rokem +7

    honestly warms my heart seeing this and them not wanting to take it shows genuine people dont want handouts but thats so kind of you dude

  • @shahana_style
    @shahana_style Před 3 lety +1995

    I'm smiling so hard with that first lady she's so extra extra sweet it hurts my cheeks. And she only kept it once she realized she could give it away. THAT'S the kind of person she is. It's just so wholesome.

    • @GeraltOfNvidia
      @GeraltOfNvidia Před 3 lety +31

      Same here, it really makes my ass cheeks hurt

    • @marker52
      @marker52 Před 3 lety +6

      @@GeraltOfNvidia ok then

    • @BatGear.
      @BatGear. Před 3 lety +9

      @@GeraltOfNvidia it truly does give us the clap

    • @Essence02
      @Essence02 Před 3 lety

      @@GeraltOfNvidia 🙃

    • @datageekz8446
      @datageekz8446 Před 3 lety +13

      She is just a typical Chinese lady. They are sweet. You always need to fight to give money to Chinese lol

  • @DarrellC.
    @DarrellC. Před 2 lety +3891

    It’s crazy how every single one of them wanted to give it back. Great people, great culture.

    • @IrenaDeacon
      @IrenaDeacon Před 2 lety +54

      It truly is a great culture

    • @rylangston
      @rylangston Před 2 lety +76

      @MilkyAsks those are sad people who don't know any chinese. Chinese folks are the most humble in the world

    • @ww7271
      @ww7271 Před 2 lety +19

      @@rylangston and they are hard workers too

    • @marc615
      @marc615 Před 2 lety +39

      They are just scared that someday he'll come to ask for a big favor,like employing a friend. Their (modern) culture is based on bribery, that is what communists brought to Chinese people.

    • @c.o.r.n.
      @c.o.r.n. Před 2 lety +1

      Culture is amazing

  • @Lacheddar1990
    @Lacheddar1990 Před rokem +30

    generosity is a virtue. Seeing others as human beings is a virtue.

  • @alexavila1825
    @alexavila1825 Před rokem +11

    I seen this video two years ago when it had aired and sometimes I think about just watching them again because it makes me feel so humble and so happy that you’re able to spread your love and appreciation to them when I am states away and I can’t… they work so hard and they all deserve it💕

  • @pigstick132
    @pigstick132 Před 3 lety +2874

    I love how unselfish they are, if they didn’t earn it they don’t want it.

    • @xLatinAssazzin
      @xLatinAssazzin Před 3 lety +7

      No there stupid I would have taken it free money

    • @whatsupguys1670
      @whatsupguys1670 Před 3 lety +433

      @@xLatinAssazzin they aren’t stupid they just have common human decency

    • @jaimegonzalez7286
      @jaimegonzalez7286 Před 3 lety +225

      @@xLatinAssazzin you're ridiculous. That's the problem, we dont understand or respect echothers cultures.

    • @nattan119
      @nattan119 Před 3 lety +109

      Culturally I would say its a feeling of shame. To be given handouts. like a feeling that there viewed as poor. Which they offset that by pride of working hard for what they earn

    • @zero604
      @zero604 Před 3 lety +132

      @@xLatinAssazzin that's because there are honest hard working decent people, then there's you

  • @xJabro
    @xJabro Před 2 lety +4450

    My god Wendy is the nicest human ever she even said she made that tea FOR him and her giggles while she's packing every little gift is adorable.

  • @fluidexpressions6856
    @fluidexpressions6856 Před rokem +39

    this video brings me to tears ! thank you so much for being so generous for the business that work so hard and received so much loss in business during the pandemic

  • @shajalynvelendriin3403
    @shajalynvelendriin3403 Před rokem +3

    Her giggle at 3:50 is so heartwarming. Shows what kind-hearted person she is.

  • @beomgyungi
    @beomgyungi Před rokem +3669

    THE LAST GUY OH MY GOSH 😭
    I wish the best for him he's probably so thankful for it I find it so sad how he thought you were going to take it back that just shows how horrible some influencers are and what a impact they make

    • @sage2500
      @sage2500 Před rokem +288

      I know right. It makes me think that someone has done that very thing to him before

    • @fmjkevlar
      @fmjkevlar Před rokem +53

      its an awful world we live in sometimes 😣

    • @joshz3788
      @joshz3788 Před rokem

      It is not about influencers. It is not in the Asian culture to accept hand outs, like it is so readily in the West. Do you see Asian Beggers on the street? They don't beg, they work for their money. Whether or not you think that's a good thing, that is the Asian Culture.

    • @ijustreallylikeramenokay7626
      @ijustreallylikeramenokay7626 Před rokem +66

      heh, being Chinese, I am reading it as that's just how they assume influencers work because we're all cynical as hell (and to be fair, I'm sure it is how a lot of influencers are)

    • @derplololol9717
      @derplololol9717 Před rokem +8

      Assuming makes an ass out of U and I. So we're both an ass cuz I think that's how most of them are rn haha.

  • @RichSmithson
    @RichSmithson Před 3 lety +2174

    We employ a Chinese guy sometimes to do work for us and when he finishes a job and I give him a little extra money he refuses to take it. I have to spend 10 minutes begging him to take it before he does and even then he doesn’t want too.
    Really humble people. It makes me want to learn Mandarin.

    • @laardhavemercy807
      @laardhavemercy807 Před 3 lety +102

      Even if you learned just a little bit, I bet you would make that guys day 👊🏼

    • @thestainless6289
      @thestainless6289 Před 2 lety +6

      Why do you want to give him him extra money?

    • @yotacharapone5341
      @yotacharapone5341 Před 2 lety +103

      @@thestainless6289 he might’ve done a really good job

    • @DarkSithBarbie
      @DarkSithBarbie Před 2 lety +42

      I love the Chinese culture in that you are taught that humility is the greatest attribute. Accepting gifts, compliments, and speaking about yourself is always from the perspective that others are greater than yourself.

    • @GATOxNORTE
      @GATOxNORTE Před 2 lety +1

      Cantonese*

  • @tupacalypse88
    @tupacalypse88 Před rokem +1

    this made me cry. Kindness like you realize regardless what TV shows it's still a beautiful world

  • @Akgn_
    @Akgn_ Před 11 měsíci +10

    This is what true philanthropy is. Intrigrating yourself into a community and respecting them as people then ultimately giving back into that community. Not just giving out money for views for more gain like some certain content creators on this site (when was the last time you saw a video on youtube of someone going to this much effort for others as a genuine human being?)

  • @etherealeuphoria111
    @etherealeuphoria111 Před 3 lety +1937

    someone should set up a gofundme or something for the first restaurant, she was so selfless and whole. i wish i could donate to her business :(

    • @elizabethlizziemcelheney6821
      @elizabethlizziemcelheney6821 Před 3 lety +13

      Me too!!

    • @chriseckhoff3273
      @chriseckhoff3273 Před 3 lety +23

      Create a Venmo account and link it in a comment! No need for a gofundme

    • @AT-ks2fw
      @AT-ks2fw Před 3 lety +2

      I would too!

    • @EternalResonance
      @EternalResonance Před 3 lety +7

      what happened in the video after 10:00 ? the video cuts off. did he get mad he was being filmed and given a gift?

    • @freshair9133
      @freshair9133 Před 3 lety +24

      Exactly mrbeast should go to China and do this. All his reactions are bland and he dropping big money so imagine mrbeast giving her like 10k

  • @williamnahed575
    @williamnahed575 Před 3 lety +881

    That last dude deserves respect 😂😂 he actually told him u got the footage now get the money back😂😂😂 I’m dead

    • @daniellee6912
      @daniellee6912 Před 3 lety +91

      That kinda hurt to watch

    • @puffinonbooties
      @puffinonbooties Před 3 lety +23

      @@daniellee6912 yea like he expected that he want gonna get the money, happy that he did get it tho,xiaoma such a good person

  • @nfapeng187
    @nfapeng187 Před rokem +2

    Happy to see this, struggling is tough. I been in this cycle myself for the last year! Beyond thankful for pll like yourself doing these hard-working Chinese Americans what they truly deserve!

  • @alanmacvean2053
    @alanmacvean2053 Před rokem +4

    My favorite video , just the hard work and dignity of these people , trying so hard and not wanting anything for it , truly a wonderful thing you've shared , thank you !

  • @seanvarian4578
    @seanvarian4578 Před 3 lety +1391

    I honestly nearly started crying with that First Lady. Please if you are in the area give her a visit and help her out. She is truly a beautiful soul. And the fact she didn’t even know she was being filmed

    • @thestradman2926
      @thestradman2926 Před 3 lety +5

      Thanks for watching and comments, We're always available for questions, guidance and support at any time . Just DM
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    • @jackthecommenter2768
      @jackthecommenter2768 Před 3 lety +2

      @@thestradman2926 YOOO is it really you?

    • @TheSammoness
      @TheSammoness Před 3 lety +34

      @@jackthecommenter2768 click on his profile and you'll see its a fake account

    • @jessbacchi
      @jessbacchi Před 3 lety +2

      @@thestradman2926 shut up

    • @gaaraman312
      @gaaraman312 Před 3 lety +3

      I literally did cry from that. It was so beautiful!

  • @ericahuang7189
    @ericahuang7189 Před 3 lety +1566

    something to point out is that usually we don’t usually open red envelopes in front of other people so that’s why he asks them to

    • @emmawang2224
      @emmawang2224 Před 3 lety +19

      true, but the guy with the food cart by the street didnt open it up on the spot

    • @ShinsekaiAcademy
      @ShinsekaiAcademy Před 2 lety +62

      if you want my opinion, it would have been more polite to leave and get their reaction at another day/time/video

    • @itmejac6945
      @itmejac6945 Před 2 lety +89

      @@ShinsekaiAcademy to be fair when he’s giving them $1000 each, he doesn’t need to be super polite 🤣

    • @peterbradley4916
      @peterbradley4916 Před 2 lety +5

      Yes , that makes sense! Thanks for your comment!

    • @ZiyandoingVids
      @ZiyandoingVids Před 2 lety

      Yea

  • @PandaUser-by3qj
    @PandaUser-by3qj Před 10 měsíci +2

    its been 2 years and everytime this comes up on my youtube timeline i still shed a tear and cry a little, i dunno just nice seeing these people saying no to big gifts but Xiamonyc still gives it and pushed to give it God bless you man

  • @yuxiang3147
    @yuxiang3147 Před rokem +6

    Such a great moving video, especially the first lady, she's such a nice warm-hearted person despite having a difficult time, I almost cried...

    • @jawsstech
      @jawsstech Před 2 měsíci

      UH. yeah. I ALMOST cried, too. Grown men don't cry.

  • @jessejames6157
    @jessejames6157 Před 3 lety +2335

    good lord.... that first lady just up lifted me out a 3 month depression..... god bless her soul. really just got me feeling good again from spending so much time in the dark. Thanks to you too for uploading this big dog.... great vibes my guy

    • @briansaleemberry2686
      @briansaleemberry2686 Před 3 lety +66

      Life isn't easy. I'm there now. Keep pushing on.we got this

    • @3RACHASUPREMACY
      @3RACHASUPREMACY Před 3 lety +34

      this was so sweet! I hope you keep moving forward! Currently on the low end now but seeing stuff like this definitely helps me feel better about the world and the human experience ❤️

    • @cel.este933
      @cel.este933 Před 3 lety +48

      Someone said if you rearrange the letters in "depression" you get "I pressed on". Never give up even if you have to crawl! You haven't seen the best day of your life yet. Sending positive energy your way ❤

    • @adis1709
      @adis1709 Před 2 lety

      Hey Jesse, hope you're doing well.

    • @FabiolaPugliese
      @FabiolaPugliese Před 2 lety +1

      I know what you mean, she made my month!!

  • @12HitCombo
    @12HitCombo Před 2 lety +2163

    I want to buy a ticket to New York just to go to Wendy's restaurant. That was the sweetest most humble lady ever, and deserves more customers

    • @KickingAssDaily
      @KickingAssDaily Před 2 lety +50

      But there weren't any Old Fashioned Hamburgers in this video.

    • @seanm660
      @seanm660 Před 2 lety +11

      @@KickingAssDaily that took me a second 🤣🤣

    • @paulngo4946
      @paulngo4946 Před 2 lety +8

      lol. I read that fast and for a second, I was like, do you not have a Wendy's fast food in your state?

    • @fiercecloud3871
      @fiercecloud3871 Před 2 lety

      Same

    • @HorizonMelt
      @HorizonMelt Před 2 lety +22

      Seriously.. I feel the exact same way. I realized that about four minutes in that my heart was breaking a little because these are the wonderful people who need to thrive. The covid Hysteria has claimed so many victims.

  • @solitudeguard5688
    @solitudeguard5688 Před rokem +3

    Dude you are unbelievably generous and cultured, I wish more people were like you. What a truly wonderful human being you are. I hope we can give you back the kindness and love that you give by supporting you on your CZcams journey for many more years to come.

  • @MainelyCannabis
    @MainelyCannabis Před rokem +9

    You'r doing Gods work my brother. These are people who are really trying to do their best, but it's just hard to push past and pay bills. They work their fingers to the bone to feed their loved ones. You give them, and many around their community, hope. Not just hope for success, but hope for humanity.

  • @keithepstein2812
    @keithepstein2812 Před 2 lety +6871

    Xiaoma, please go back to these restaurants and let us know how they're doing a year later. I'm not sure why, but I found this video quite moving and re-watch it often.

    • @aprilvillada1707
      @aprilvillada1707 Před 2 lety +100

      I hope he goes back ☹️

    • @topofthecircle
      @topofthecircle Před 2 lety +129

      Yes! I hope they all are doing OK, especially the mobile carts.

    • @zbychulatara
      @zbychulatara Před 2 lety +84

      Year ago he said covid will end soon. And its even worse. I hope one day people stop care about it and live like before

    • @maximuslongrod6361
      @maximuslongrod6361 Před 2 lety +27

      @@zbychulatara many countries are, Canada is fighting for it right now.

    • @adrianegley8551
      @adrianegley8551 Před 2 lety +9

      totally agreed lets hope he sees your comment and does a video

  • @ivy8606
    @ivy8606 Před 3 lety +1889

    i cant express how heartwarming this gesture is for asians especially. for me, it’s typical to give gifts and not receive them (well, not without a quarrel or two). i bet each one of them went home that day and cried just because of your kindness.

    • @ItsBlu0
      @ItsBlu0 Před 3 lety +9

      True :)

    • @benvasilinda1540
      @benvasilinda1540 Před 3 lety +52

      I was lucky growing up in a pretty well to do family in the nicest areas in Florida. I had neighbors who were Asian and they were the best neighbors, they were very respectful of American Christian holidays and they even joined in stuff like Halloween and Easter egg hunts. I shocked my family by joining the military and it's caused a horrible friction between them and I for many years. Mostly because of my privileges afforded to me growing up but it was something that was meaningful to me because I felt I owed my country my service because of what our country offers us. I served with several Asian guys that I even went to combat with. Those guys were as patriotic as the best of us and I still stay in contact with one of them to this day. I play a game on my iPad called Boom Beach and I'm even in an all Chinese clan and I've been with them for about a year now and I've been playing for about 4 years total. I learn so much from them about their culture and what it's like over there. It's a 50 person clan so we're all pretty active. With all the talk about racism and slavery that we had here in the US, people never mention the slavery that the Asians went through here in our country when they were first here. They were forced into mining, building railroads and agricultural. They have risen up from those days and have been loyal Americans ever since and I'm happy to have been lucky my enough to called some of them my friend.

    • @ItsBlu0
      @ItsBlu0 Před 3 lety +1

      @@benvasilinda1540 is this true?

    • @fractilians7
      @fractilians7 Před 3 lety +3

      So true!!

    • @MrJuanport
      @MrJuanport Před 3 lety

      @@ItsBlu0 yes! So after internment camps the government didn't know what to do with the citizens they were illegally detaining so they decided to pick "key cities" in helping reintroduce these citizens. Amarillo Texas funny enough is one of them, they have a vast and great Asian community there that thrives and prospers...at least BC. Haven't been in years and lost touch with some friends dont know how they doing.

  • @mattvanvleck1272
    @mattvanvleck1272 Před 10 měsíci

    This is amazing and I love how they all say they can’t accept it. Thanks so much for spreading joy and helping these businesses in such a time of need. This is so heart warming. He even said you already got the video at the end and tried to give it back. You are such an awesome person.

  • @fit_pharmd4830
    @fit_pharmd4830 Před 2 lety +2802

    Bc of the first lady’s generosity caught candidly on camera, I guarantee her business not only survived but thrived during the pandemic. Remember what you give comes back to you 3-fold.

    • @brandyhernandez61
      @brandyhernandez61 Před 2 lety +128

      I know right, I find myself wanting to dine in her resturant once I get the chance to go to NY for New Years.

    • @markekar6021
      @markekar6021 Před 2 lety +34

      i wish that last statement were true

    • @fit_pharmd4830
      @fit_pharmd4830 Před 2 lety +10

      @@markekar6021 She's still around right?

    • @KF22TV
      @KF22TV Před 2 lety +3

      @@markekar6021 ?

    • @mariotheundying
      @mariotheundying Před 2 lety +4

      The guy saying something about that last sentence he's probably talking about himself guys

  • @bigsexybear
    @bigsexybear Před 3 lety +5667

    So humble. Means a lot to them and it clearly shows. Wish more people were so humble and thankful.

    • @elusivelectron
      @elusivelectron Před 3 lety +41

      I love this video. Selfish people suck.

    • @dipstickjamming5532
      @dipstickjamming5532 Před 3 lety +95

      Because they know hardships and appreciate being in America, land of opportunity. I came to USA with my parents in 1988, we were refugees if still Soviet then Latvia. We slept on floor and only furniture we had was stuff my Stepdad and I found in trash drop offs on curb in Brooklyn. Now my parents have traveled the world and live in a nice condo in New Jersey. All from working hard and striving for better life in Freedoms this country offers. Many born here dont know how fortunate they are. I made sure to teach my children that so now as teenagers they know that they can be anything their hearts desire.

    • @lafondawilliams
      @lafondawilliams Před 3 lety +2

      yup love the video guy tapes a bunch of money to him and tells people to take what they need and rich people steal it all

    • @riri_rmrz
      @riri_rmrz Před 3 lety +10

      @@dipstickjamming5532 Same my mom and grandma came from communist Vietnam

    • @spirit_shadow9590
      @spirit_shadow9590 Před 3 lety +9

      I went to my local chinese buffet on their new year and wished them a happy new year in their language. I love them so much

  • @sagewarren8431
    @sagewarren8431 Před rokem +4

    The first woman made me tear up. She's so humble and lovely

  • @michaelyaaaaskings3172
    @michaelyaaaaskings3172 Před 11 měsíci +1

    all the people in this video so hardworking and humble, all trying to give the money back, amazing. and the first lady is a sweetheart.

  • @ungratefulbastard3816
    @ungratefulbastard3816 Před 3 lety +2008

    At this rate, Xiaoma has become a true family to the Chinese people in his neighborhood

  • @errickflesch5565
    @errickflesch5565 Před rokem +4

    The level of self respect trying to not take the money.......is admirable and honorable. There is no victim card to a person that has integrity at this level. She is the very type person who deserves this type gift. She is a breath of fresh air.

  • @kman5475
    @kman5475 Před rokem +1

    Surprise generosity is the best "prank" ever! I was giggling like a little kid watching the genuine care and relationship between Xiaoma and Wendy (her favorite tea for him, and extra-large so his wife can have some? AND the candies? Amazing person!).
    And then he gives her an unexpected gift in return.
    Instead of "haha, I tricked you!" it's "haha, I love you!"
    This is the way people should treat each other.

  • @erickandrewp
    @erickandrewp Před 3 lety +832

    My first impression with the first lady was honestly, she had that mother aura around her. She's like what a concerned and caring mom would do to her son who just visited her for a moment.

  • @patrickmurphy9186
    @patrickmurphy9186 Před 3 lety +727

    The first woman has a heart of gold....You can tell that she’s really a good person.

    • @sequoia3711
      @sequoia3711 Před 3 lety +4

      Second woman just ..

    • @jonchal5561
      @jonchal5561 Před 3 lety +5

      Chinese people are beautiful people

    • @blepmeme2496
      @blepmeme2496 Před 3 lety +7

      @@PassportBro_ it’s not a competition no need to compare.

    • @PassportBro_
      @PassportBro_ Před 3 lety +2

      @@blepmeme2496 your right. I deleted my comment.

    • @Rin_Nya762
      @Rin_Nya762 Před 3 lety

      Ikr, melted my heart

  • @nickywilks7928
    @nickywilks7928 Před rokem +1

    What an amazing genuine kind lady.

  • @cc967
    @cc967 Před 11 měsíci +2

    These people are so humble and so deserving of the tip.

  • @jisooya7878
    @jisooya7878 Před 2 lety +3271

    The last guy telling "If you've already got the footage, you can just take the money back" had me laughing...xD

    • @craigcrissman4651
      @craigcrissman4651 Před 2 lety +233

      Not gonna lie that would have really hurt

    • @jadea.558
      @jadea.558 Před 2 lety +449

      I do understand him though, it can come across as doing something for views as a lot of people do these days. I dont think he wanted to hurt him but he was maybe just not 100% trustful because of how everyone does things for the internet and popularity these days.

    • @thunderfire741
      @thunderfire741 Před 2 lety +168

      It's a harsh reality that there exist videos on the internet based around it being just for the recording

    • @generalsociety9607
      @generalsociety9607 Před 2 lety +23

      @@thunderfire741 Well, I don't really think it's all that harsh since you are indeed giving away money and helping them regardless of whether it's being filmed or not. Yes, it's not 100% altruism, but does it really need to be?
      It's only truly selfish when these videos are staged or faked (like the last restauranteur thought it would be.)

    • @urgae9125
      @urgae9125 Před 2 lety +20

      @@generalsociety9607
      That's what they were talking about. People faking it for the views.

  • @OftenAlwaysFresh
    @OftenAlwaysFresh Před 3 lety +2763

    As a Chinese Canadian, whose uncle had to close his restaurant because of the times. Thank you for appreciating the underappreciated. Our community just raised 50$k for them this last month and he'll likely be able to restart in a couple months

    • @voton.w.b.8584
      @voton.w.b.8584 Před 3 lety +22

      That’s amazing, much Love from Latin America...

    • @maehwa9746
      @maehwa9746 Před 3 lety +13

      That’s amazing, much love from northeast America!

    • @bettynewberry1
      @bettynewberry1 Před 3 lety +14

      Tell him to come to Texas. No state taxes. Friendly folks and Texans love Chinese food.

    • @damon6126
      @damon6126 Před 3 lety +6

      @@bettynewberry1 I can confirm this. Texan my whole life and it's my favorite food. 🙂

    • @tradesmith_yt
      @tradesmith_yt Před 3 lety +1

      What a blessing! Wish him a happy new year for me! He will be back and better than ever! Bless you guys. Stay strong.

  • @litebrite8993
    @litebrite8993 Před rokem +2

    Out of all the video's you've done, this one is one of my fav's! tysm for being such a good human being and for bringing light and positive attention to all these wonderful shops. Keep up the amazing work!!

  • @DripGxd_Cam
    @DripGxd_Cam Před 3 lety +1143

    The First Lady giving him the tea warmed my heart so much. Yea there’s a lot of really crappy people in the world. But part of me likes to believe that most of us are really kind at heart and really mean well and that maybe humanity isn’t a lost cause after all.

    • @playingmonkey3929
      @playingmonkey3929 Před 3 lety +3

      Yes man ur correct. Lots of love to the first lady ❤💕

    • @DripGxd_Cam
      @DripGxd_Cam Před 3 lety +1

      @@mquiroz90 no. Where do you get that idea from?

    • @sniff.........................
      @sniff......................... Před 3 lety

      Most Chinese people are good like most people from any other country, the CCP is the main problem.

    • @sniff.........................
      @sniff......................... Před 3 lety

      @@mquiroz90 I bet you believe humans are the cause of climate change too huh, I bet you also believe the climate is warming when it clearly is getting colder.

    • @DripGxd_Cam
      @DripGxd_Cam Před 3 lety +1

      @@sniff......................... i mean i didn’t really think it was a race thing, i just like seeing people being kind to one another. But i see what you mean i guess.

  • @howiewang9034
    @howiewang9034 Před 3 lety +637

    Bro your Chinese is so good you even nailed the “no no no, you must accept accept the money” quarrel our parents do. Never seen a white guy do that so well.

    • @Cruelty-Torture
      @Cruelty-Torture Před 3 lety +10

      Good to know. I would never have caught that detail without your comment. :)

    • @sayajinmamuang
      @sayajinmamuang Před 3 lety +6

      Well hes studied at Beijing what do you expect? Most white guys from nyc probably cant speak like a university student.

    • @variable57
      @variable57 Před 3 lety +7

      Reminds me Seinfeld of “just take the pen!”

    • @Gary109
      @Gary109 Před 3 lety

      Quite a few white guys have assaulted Asians recently in the states and no correlation was made since that doesn't play into the mainstream media narrative.

    • @Fumble469
      @Fumble469 Před 3 lety +1

      He speaks to them regularly just like family

  • @sydneycarpenter5916
    @sydneycarpenter5916 Před 10 měsíci +1

    They’re also kind of love it. Thank you for making the days and maybe the world.

  • @Kitana1599
    @Kitana1599 Před rokem +3

    This made me cry, first lady... I hope all of these restaurants are running well now and that they thrive 💞

  • @JonSudano
    @JonSudano Před 3 lety +3647

    Watch this video for +10 serotonin

    • @brandons348
      @brandons348 Před 3 lety +10

      We got a living legend in this comment section, fancy seeing you here Jon

    • @brishawnsanders5873
      @brishawnsanders5873 Před 3 lety +38

      @@yeahbuddy7598 imagine not even effectively trolling someone as your name implies. 🤣

    • @SkinnyMuscles69
      @SkinnyMuscles69 Před 3 lety +34

      @@yeahbuddy7598 goddamn it would of been funny without the useless shit part. How do you fuck that up?

    • @jamesnielsen5899
      @jamesnielsen5899 Před 3 lety +1

      Omg I havent seen you on YT forever, music is killer

    • @leeroysaenz1774
      @leeroysaenz1774 Před 3 lety +4

      This comment gave me +10 cringe

  • @Deagle-lj7tv
    @Deagle-lj7tv Před 3 lety +748

    "If you've allready got the footage, you can just take the money back" Wow, what a guy!

    • @cheekybangtan5083
      @cheekybangtan5083 Před 3 lety +82

      agree...now I wonder if thats how other’s fo it for views..I hope not..

    • @321MjC
      @321MjC Před 3 lety +9

      @@cheekybangtan5083 wouldn't put it past the people who only care about "likes" && "views" SMH🤮🤦‍♀️ People are getting killed because they are pretending to be robbers, dressed in all black, fake weapons, etc. Bothering old people in grocery stores, etc. MY POINT IS: some will do anything for the camera SMH !!!!!

    • @Nikeel_A.W
      @Nikeel_A.W Před 3 lety +20

      He is in the big brain game. 🤣

    • @tashacathey8967
      @tashacathey8967 Před 3 lety +9

      I spit my drink out hilarious!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @diplosoriano9898
      @diplosoriano9898 Před 3 lety +3

      I was going to say many people do it for the views

  • @sir_i.p.freely3757
    @sir_i.p.freely3757 Před rokem +1

    Wendy is such a sweet humble woman there aren’t that many genuine people like that in the world anymore sending love from the west side to her and all the families struggling to get by ❤

  • @Ryuty_
    @Ryuty_ Před 11 měsíci +13

    After 2 years and a few months I wanna know how these restaurants are going, mostly the first one! that lady deserves all the love and costumers she can get

  • @BabyBlondie311
    @BabyBlondie311 Před 3 lety +421

    "If you've already got the footage, you can just take it back." That's seriously so heartbreaking, like how many people actually do this just for likes?

    • @david.jr.
      @david.jr. Před 3 lety +41

      It almost made me cry. It was like he was used to it.

    • @noon6708
      @noon6708 Před 3 lety +12

      That’s sad some people only do it for likes and not from the heart

    • @SalmanAlghazali
      @SalmanAlghazali Před 3 lety

      @UC1mMZM-jwL66-6cRu2eQJtg well that's not what she meant

    • @bandaqueenlove9134
      @bandaqueenlove9134 Před 3 lety +1

      thats so sad :(

  • @DJMilez
    @DJMilez Před 3 lety +417

    That older woman in the first scenario almost broke me. What a heart of gold thank you for changing her life and her staff's life a bit during this financial hardships Xiaomanyc

    • @Crusadxr
      @Crusadxr Před 3 lety

      funny seeing you here lmao

  • @onmylastnerve282
    @onmylastnerve282 Před 9 měsíci +2

    This was the best thing I've seen in such a long time. What a generous thing to do for such wonderful people!

  • @ScenicEarth365
    @ScenicEarth365 Před 15 dny

    I watched this video 3 years ago, and watching it again today. Thank you Xiaomanyc for your kindness to those folks. They work so hard to earn a living and provide outstanding food. It warms my heart to see them being recognized. Thank you Sir.

  • @CantoMando
    @CantoMando Před 3 lety +6807

    ahhh this made me smile :) love it
    auntie trying to return the money reminds me of parents fighting for the bill. This is so sweet

    • @Isutaki
      @Isutaki Před 3 lety +4

      agreed

    • @ianmontgomery7534
      @ianmontgomery7534 Před 3 lety +59

      @@Isutaki It is very much the Chinese way. I used to have to go to the toilet and then pay the bill on the way back so that I actually got to pay the bill -my girlfriend often called me Mr Sneaky but really Chinese often did it that way too. This ha[[ened even when it was obvious to all that I had the greater capacity to pay and was quite prepared to pay. I think it great. Every now and then I would let them pay.

    • @fbi397
      @fbi397 Před 3 lety +7

      @@ianmontgomery7534 you had to pay a toilet bill?

    • @serbaserbi6004
      @serbaserbi6004 Před 3 lety +2

      Wew cantomando

    • @JayCee2020
      @JayCee2020 Před 3 lety +8

      Can cantomando do a Chinese speaking challenge with xiaoma 😂

  • @2800boy
    @2800boy Před 3 lety +685

    That first Lady is just oozing humility. Was so adamant about not taking that whole tip lol. Such a beautiful human being. Thanks for this video Xiaoma.

  • @Woainibaby
    @Woainibaby Před rokem

    Lot of restaurants really are struggling. Thank you for being so kind.

  • @temes5901
    @temes5901 Před rokem

    When a video delivers tears of joy, you know you just watched something real and thats not guaranteed at all these days. Bless🙏

  • @jesusisc0mings00n3
    @jesusisc0mings00n3 Před 3 lety +2992

    This is why the Asian culture is so great. So much respect, so much hard work, so much honesty. America needs more Asian culture.

    • @watdafak666
      @watdafak666 Před 3 lety +91

      @Pepito that may be true at the micro level but from a macro perspective some races have better cultures than others

    • @skylarkesselring6075
      @skylarkesselring6075 Před 3 lety +19

      There is no asian culture

    • @skylarkesselring6075
      @skylarkesselring6075 Před 3 lety +35

      @@watdafak666 that's literally impossible to measure

    • @watdafak666
      @watdafak666 Před 3 lety +25

      @@skylarkesselring6075 Of course its not impossible. In the United States, home of the Diversity and Inclusion(TM), you have statistics, based on race that directly correlate to how good someone's culture is, what drives success, etc. For example, Asians are a very small minority, yet statistically are one of the top earning races in the US. Meanwhile, some other races score a lot lower in all kinds of metrics. Many white liberals love to make excuses for these races shortcomings but anyone willing to see past their politically correct lense can see its culture based. Just look at youtube trending lmao, literally the epicenter of pop culture is represented there, and you can see the cultural divide by race very clearly.

    • @jesusisc0mings00n3
      @jesusisc0mings00n3 Před 3 lety +22

      @@skylarkesselring6075 There are many cultures within the Asian community. Probably one of the dumbest comments I've read today.

  • @blackvelvet1350
    @blackvelvet1350 Před 2 lety +2568

    The last guy, "If you've already got your footage you can just take it back now" 🥺 I wonder how many CZcams or other so called influencers have, actually, done that to him...thanks for being awesome...

    • @mohamed_khoudjatelli9349
      @mohamed_khoudjatelli9349 Před 2 lety +154

      I don't thing that he had similar experiences that made him say that, he just wanted to return the money so bad that he has no problem if he's giving him the money just to promote himself.

    • @capnfoo
      @capnfoo Před 2 lety +88

      When you record your good deeds it's impossible for others to tell whether you are doing it out of generosity or just to convince people you're generous and build up a channel.

    • @EduardoHernandez-di8kl
      @EduardoHernandez-di8kl Před 2 lety +14

      Wow 😳 you got a point 😐🤔😏 at least our guy is the real deal 🤩🥳😏 much respect for him ✊✌️peace!

    • @shirosflower
      @shirosflower Před 2 lety

      capnfoo exactly

    • @SerDunk
      @SerDunk Před 2 lety +2

      Yeah..he said it as a joke...