Stoic optimism: Ryan Holiday at TEDxUChicago 2014

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  • čas přidán 19. 05. 2014
  • Post-Production: Hamid Bendaas | Fire Escape Films (www.fireescapefilms.org/)
    Ryan Holiday is the Director of Marketing at American Apparel and the author of "The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Adversity to Advantage (May 2014), a manual for approaching the obstacles we face in life and flipping them into advantages.
    He is also the author of the Wall Street Journal bestseller "Trust Me, I'm Lying: Confessions of a Media Manipulator"-an expose of the problematic incentives of the contemporary online journalism system-and the book "Growth Hacker Marketing: A Primer on the Future of PR, Marketing, and Advertising." In addition, he is a leading media strategist whose campaigns have been studied by CZcams, Twitter, and Google, and covered in Fast Company, Ad Age, and Gawker; the Founder of Brass Check Marketing and a Partner at StoryArk Creative; as well as the Editor-at-Large of Betabeat, the New York Observer's online home for tech news.
    Holiday has also served as an assistant for the likes of Tucker Max (UChicago AB '98), Robert Greene, and Dov Charney.
    He has done all of this after dropping out of college at the age of 19.
    Holiday writes at RyanHoliday.net, Thought Catalog, and Betabeat.
    He is based out of Austin, TX.
    --
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Komentáře • 148

  • @joe890metal
    @joe890metal Před 5 lety +238

    The fact that people are complaining about the sound quality that they cannot control on a video about stoicism is amazing to me.

    • @peterbryan8404
      @peterbryan8404 Před 5 lety +1

      lol

    • @pita___311
      @pita___311 Před 4 lety +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @PointWithin
      @PointWithin Před 4 lety +1

      Exactly

    • @cwcpants140
      @cwcpants140 Před 4 lety +1

      Its not even really that bad. The reverb is the reason it sounds this way. I do, however, wonder how short the video would be if he took out all the “um”s and repetitive words/sentences. ❤️

    • @cwcpants140
      @cwcpants140 Před 4 lety +1

      😂*

  • @dillanhill4439
    @dillanhill4439 Před 8 lety +496

    I'm glad the audio sucks. Now I'l appreciate all other you tube videos and not take sound quality for granted.

  • @Better_Call_Bulba-Saur
    @Better_Call_Bulba-Saur Před 2 lety +4

    This "Um" guy really made himself proof that the obstacle is the way. If you watch his videos now, there's a really significant improvement with how he speaks.

  • @harvardmurrayinc
    @harvardmurrayinc Před 5 lety +3

    The real gem in the positive stoic outlook, which can't be missed, is that these people he describes know something those around them didn't. In the moment, their vision was grander. They saw the obstacle before it occurred and knew it would not cripple them. They weren't caught by surprise when the obstacle occurred AND they didn't naturally operate in a reactive way. Most people walk through life moaning what has happened to them and never really have a true vision for what their life could be .. something to be all in on. So their state is always reactive.

  • @Cronoo
    @Cronoo Před 5 měsíci

    I needed this talk 9 years ago but I'm glad it has found me now

  • @IRONREBELLION
    @IRONREBELLION Před 6 lety

    I come to this video from time to time. really helps me breath with things feel more painful than they need to be

  • @Abu7929
    @Abu7929 Před 7 lety +23

    I concieve stoicism differently. Where he says that we can turn 'bad' things into good, I don't concede that 'bad" exists. For me, all value is relative, events just 'are'; they're not in need of conversion from one state to another if they're intuitively concieved as perfect. Remember, 'A sage is impervious to misfortune'.

  • @ElderScrolls7
    @ElderScrolls7 Před 8 lety +10

    I am not downvoting because this is how the universe unfolds.

  • @davecullins1606
    @davecullins1606 Před 6 lety +5

    Thanks to my immense hatred of reading books, I learnt how to survive at a university without having to read. I just simply record the lessons and learn only that information; when the teachers have only 90 minutes to speak about a subject, what are they then going to talk about? The most important parts of that subject of course.
    Now I can crush the same knowledge as other students, but several times faster. I can study, while still having a balanced life, unlike them, who never struggled like I did.

  • @aabarcellos
    @aabarcellos Před 7 lety +2

    Great book daily stoic and obstacle is the way...love the talk

  • @theflightmadness
    @theflightmadness Před 10 lety +5

    Great talk! I'm making my way through the "perception" part of his book right now~

  • @schmmmmmm
    @schmmmmmm Před 9 lety +4

    Great message, Ryan.

  • @downbntout
    @downbntout Před 4 lety

    Timelessly great concepts, the nursery of greatness. Edit: it includes a small chance to use these ideas, in that this type of audio causes me to cement these ideas to mind

  • @bejawadalakshmikanth8957
    @bejawadalakshmikanth8957 Před 6 lety +2

    Good to hear this kind of lectures...

  • @PauloRibeiroo
    @PauloRibeiroo Před 10 lety +5

    Excellent talk, *****. Thank you.
    "Our actions may be impeded... but there can be no impeding our intentions or dispositions. Because we can accommodate and adapt. the mind adapts and converts to its own purposes the obstacle to our acting. The impediment to action advances actiAnnotateon. What stands in the way becomes the way."

  • @ppereza1861
    @ppereza1861 Před 8 lety +5

    Wonderful talk! Thanks Ryan!!!!

  • @nurudeenolaniran3948
    @nurudeenolaniran3948 Před 5 lety +11

    Remember obstacle is the way so don't worry about how the video sucks.

  • @edwintepuendikum3527
    @edwintepuendikum3527 Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks so much life changing message 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙌🏿

  • @michaelhebert7338
    @michaelhebert7338 Před 7 lety +1

    well done thanks for sharing

  • @aaronwimberleymbamsf5776
    @aaronwimberleymbamsf5776 Před 3 lety +1

    This is great thank you.

  • @rahimick5
    @rahimick5 Před 8 lety +33

    If Rockefeller is one of the main examples and models of stoic optimism, I'd say that this philosophy can be just as dangerous as it can be useful. Rockefeller was Machiavellian beyond belief. Stoic optimism is great if it is coupled with pure and good intentions and actions. Without these, not so much.

    • @greendeane1
      @greendeane1 Před 8 lety +6

      +rahimick5 I think you might know Rockefeller but not much about Stoicism.

    • @rahimick5
      @rahimick5 Před 8 lety +1

      +Green Deane There is truth in that. I don't really know a lot about stoicism (besides what this guy is saying and what I've heard from a couple of others). I was more commenting on his use of Rockefeller as an example. So my point stands if in fact Rockefeller did employ stoicism how this guy is saying.

    • @EwingAmaterasu
      @EwingAmaterasu Před 8 lety +7

      +rahimick5 Completley agree, the stoics themselves spoke of a life guided by love for neighbor. Controlling your emotions and passions for your own sake will not give you happiness if you do not do good to others. Loving yourself, as a way to live according to nature, but love to others as well, wishing them to live according to nature as well. Doing good to others.

    • @collinsmugodo380
      @collinsmugodo380 Před 7 lety +4

      absolutely read the meditations of Marcus Aurelius...really awesome

    • @silasbrookschannel
      @silasbrookschannel Před 6 lety

      rahimick5 I think he is employing a specific part of Rockefeller’s actions to as an example of a specific aspect of stoicism, namely not letting obstacles and difficulties cause one unnecessary emotion distress. I don’t think he (or an stoic) would say that Rockefeller was a stoic in virtue, but that this is weekly a example of a specific tenant that he used in the instances he mentioned.

  • @chezzy62
    @chezzy62 Před 9 lety +2

    Brilliantly said.

  • @bambooindark1
    @bambooindark1 Před 5 lety +4

    I was first cursing about some youtube video have no Closed Caption, and some wikipedia page have no Chinese translation.
    But it turns out, I'm forced to learn English, and I can feel I'm progressing little by little.

  • @robbert-janmerk6783
    @robbert-janmerk6783 Před 9 lety +16

    Good talk. Shame about the sound quality, but the practical examples are a great Stoic inspiration.

    • @tharun960
      @tharun960 Před 7 lety +1

      An opportunity to learn to pay attention to the message not the messenger/voice. ;)

  • @shawarmageddonit
    @shawarmageddonit Před 6 lety +3

    1. Use high-quality stereo headphones.
    2. Get high.
    3. Enjoy those acoustics.

  • @swifTyBobCaT
    @swifTyBobCaT Před 8 lety +7

    Go: audio, headphones then mute the left audio bud.
    Enjoy! :)

  • @NarLiv
    @NarLiv Před 3 lety

    Great talk!

  • @ernststravoblofeld
    @ernststravoblofeld Před 7 lety +5

    Marcus Aurelius would tell this marketing dork to do something real.

  • @hemantofkanpur
    @hemantofkanpur Před 9 lety +2

    Any place I can read the transcript ? The audio is not that good :(

  • @anhumblemessengerofthelawo3858

    you can fix the audio very easily by running a VST plugin called "de-verb"

  • @williampowell3378
    @williampowell3378 Před 9 lety +2

    Good Stuff!

  • @stevenmonahan
    @stevenmonahan Před 2 lety

    Brilliant !

  • @miramilaia
    @miramilaia Před 6 lety

    Ok but where did he get his three books? I can't find the Hays paperback anywhere

  • @NeilAcquatella
    @NeilAcquatella Před 4 lety

    I noticed on the comments, yes, the audio sucks, but I bet you made a better effort in trying to listen and paying more attention to te Talk ;) hence "The obstacle is the way"
    Just learned about Ryan Holiday books a little while ago, and been researching on them. Looking forward to start reading their books.

  • @dailydesi
    @dailydesi Před 9 lety +43

    wow the audio sucks but a great lesson

    • @streamteam1868
      @streamteam1868 Před 8 lety +1

      +Usman M I do live event streaming and I can not believe this production. Very amateurish.

    • @tharun960
      @tharun960 Před 7 lety +1

      Ryan probably did this on purpose to create an opportunity to learn to pay attention to the message not the messenger/voice. ;) Testing listeners..

  • @makeitbetter7436
    @makeitbetter7436 Před 6 lety +2

    Очень круто. Из книги Райана впервые узнал о стоицизме. Понемногу интегрирую стоицизм в свое мировоззрение. Уже второй раз перечитываю "К себе" Марка Аврелия и "Письма к Луцилию" Сенеки. Одни из лучших за все время. Такие книги вдохновляют и мотивируют на создание контента) Спасибо=)

    • @0514deanna
      @0514deanna Před 3 lety

      Это на самом деле круто. Вот мы с мужем начали нас собой работать.

  • @gabrielkailash
    @gabrielkailash Před 5 lety +1

    He looked anxious and flustered, at least that´s how it appeared. Anyways, always good to listen to stoicism.

  • @SirHenryKrinkle
    @SirHenryKrinkle Před 8 lety +3

    Want better audio ? Listen in mono (left only).

  • @spaarks84
    @spaarks84 Před 5 lety

    "My essay that I have been working on all week was lost when my hard drive crashed" -> "Next time I will save in multiple places as I go." P.S. Github is also a great resource for authors to see how their writing changes over time through the revision/editing process.

  • @jeffschneider5770
    @jeffschneider5770 Před 7 lety +1

    This observation may seem a little esoteric but electric current will not flow unless there is a load otherwise it is nothing more than a potential. Which in some way to me validates the statement via the laws of electricity/nature that the obstacle is the way. We choose to do these things not because they are easy but because they are hard.

  • @Keepmywifesnameoutyafucknmouth

    I played this to my cat and he did nothing. Thank you so much.

  • @JeffreyMarr
    @JeffreyMarr Před 2 lety +1

    4:50 - "a scientist doesn't get upset when a hypothesis they had turns out to be wrong" based on the last two years, they actually use it as an opportunity to bend the truth so it looks like their hypothesis was right

  • @louiefrialde8689
    @louiefrialde8689 Před 5 lety +1

    Never Complain about the Audio - Marcus Aurelius Just Embraced the moment and Enjoy Ryan holiday Talk

  • @VG-kw8pt
    @VG-kw8pt Před 7 lety

    the audio quality is really sucks. WHY did you upload such awful stereo? It could be better with mono sound

  • @beefbroccoli5489
    @beefbroccoli5489 Před 8 lety +14

    stoicism is the philosophical root of cognitive behavioral therapy. much of it comes straight from Epictetus.

  • @HelderP1337
    @HelderP1337 Před 6 lety +1

    To make the audio bearable, remove your right earphone.

  • @codyxe
    @codyxe Před 10 lety +4

    dude, wtf is going on with the sound ? can not listen to this, echo boy is way to irritating

    • @tharun960
      @tharun960 Před 7 lety +6

      An opportunity to learn to pay attention to the message not the messenger/voice. ;)

  • @davecullins1606
    @davecullins1606 Před 6 lety

    Thanks to a lack of friends at my university, I've taken learning social skills seriously for the first time in my life. When I've become a master of it, I will become so much more powerful and live a so much more fulfilling life than I ever did before.

  • @antwan1357
    @antwan1357 Před 5 lety +9

    I'm not sure why I avoid Ryan Holiday ? He seems to be more about self help then about stoicism . He seems more about helping people improve themselves and stoicism is his tool and example for that . I look for ancient Greek philosophy he is not about that . Totally respect what he is doing though. Just not my cup of tea at this exact moment.

    • @taylorstone8048
      @taylorstone8048 Před 4 lety +3

      I’m curious as to what Greek philosophy you’re referring to/looked into? His main focus is Stoicism, which by at least my brief study of, pertains to the self and how to interact with circumstances outside of your control. It’s almost by definition, a philosophy of self help. It’s a philosophy rooted in morality and ethical behaviors that must start with you and yourself. Just my two cents but with respect ✌️

    • @antwan1357
      @antwan1357 Před 4 lety +1

      Taylor Stone ive tend to gone down several different paths that link up with stoicism, neo stoicism which is found in Catholic teachings ( not Catholic) cognitive therapy for therapy ( im not into therapy just it's application ), and Seneca , as Seneca has the largest volumes of reading material. I avoid Marcus aurelius as i understand why now he wanted his books burned.

  • @luejackbaker4678
    @luejackbaker4678 Před 7 lety

    Sound quality is awful, makes it hard to appreciate.

  • @kubennaidoo587
    @kubennaidoo587 Před 7 lety

    Audio echos

  • @bturp83
    @bturp83 Před 7 lety

    bad audio,cant raise volume enough

  • @3uphoric
    @3uphoric Před 6 lety

    Echo! echo !

  • @67NewEngland
    @67NewEngland Před 6 lety

    When I think of Stoicism I think more about the practice of negative visualization. That doesn't sound quite optimistic does it? The idea as I understand it is to visualize a negative outcome for a coming event or day and think about how you will deal with it or be prepared for anything other than a positive outcome. This way you are not surprised or caught too off guard by anything. This doesn't mean you load all you car repair tools into your car in case you break down on the way to work or pack 3 changes of clothes everywhere you go. I see it as an exercise in handling stress and life's situations and not have a complete meltdown when everything doesn't go perfectly. It is intended to be an exercise with a positive result for dealing with life but the term " negative visualization " would have you thinking Stoicism is anything but positive.

  • @BagofRoastedNuts
    @BagofRoastedNuts Před 7 lety

    Is this part of the 48 laws?

    • @cceja688
      @cceja688 Před 6 lety

      . Polo they intertwine at some points

  • @raikmulowiskij5302
    @raikmulowiskij5302 Před 6 lety

    I like the speaker. What I did not like was that the speech is concerned most of the time with elaborating examples.

  • @bobsyeruncle4841
    @bobsyeruncle4841 Před 5 lety

    He said WHAT

  • @traina26
    @traina26 Před 9 lety +1

    The battle of the bulge happened way after the breakout of Normandy...

  • @stoolypolitics7527
    @stoolypolitics7527 Před 5 lety +1

    I, um, had, um, to, um, stop, um, listening, um.

  • @samij6071
    @samij6071 Před 4 lety

    How is the audio even ALLOWED to be this bad?

  • @rufusmusonius8657
    @rufusmusonius8657 Před 7 lety

    What stands in the way becomes the way, or A great message will not impede the intension to complain in the comment field ;-)

  • @gnclmorais
    @gnclmorais Před 8 lety +10

    The low quality audio and those loud “Ums” keep distracting me from a great message.

  • @AijazAhWani
    @AijazAhWani Před rokem

    Very bad sound quality

  • @gonzalo2000
    @gonzalo2000 Před 9 lety

    Great ideas, but this is 12 minutes longer than it needed to be...

  • @mieliav
    @mieliav Před 9 lety +1

    another historical figure who used being a prisoner in aushwitz to overcome and help other overcome: victor frankl, his book 'in serach of self', recommended.

    • @antoinettafisher5390
      @antoinettafisher5390 Před 2 lety

      I so agree with you! I really got alot from reading this incredible book, it's really a deep thought provoking!

    • @antoinettafisher5390
      @antoinettafisher5390 Před 2 lety

      I the believe the book is called, In Search of Meaning. I will find my copy!

    • @mieliav
      @mieliav Před 2 lety

      @@antoinettafisher5390 it's been a lot of years - you're right about the title.

  • @shadowheart52
    @shadowheart52 Před 9 lety +3

    I didn't really care for Aurelius. As a young man, Epictetus and Seneca spoke more deeply to me.

  • @forjazznjava
    @forjazznjava Před 7 lety +1

    Of course we read good books again and again, but why buy the same book again and again? Dude, get a kindle.

  • @cmetzg03
    @cmetzg03 Před 6 lety

    Way too hard to listen to with headphones

  • @anhumblemessengerofthelawo3858

    Stoicism is virtually like a precursor of Neuro Linguistics Programming

    • @Sokrabiades
      @Sokrabiades Před 6 lety +1

      You mean NLP is a cheap facsimile of Stoicism?

    • @fitalfa
      @fitalfa Před 5 lety

      I've been listening to your M. Erickson recordings for a while. nice seeing you here lol

    • @brootalbap
      @brootalbap Před 5 lety

      NLP is a poorly thought through, scientifically rebuked pile of cultist nonsense.

  • @MrMojo13ification
    @MrMojo13ification Před 6 lety

    Echoooooo

  • @gwest67
    @gwest67 Před 5 lety

    Audio is terrible

  • @Bartolization
    @Bartolization Před 5 lety +1

    Nice post, but realise just how much you say UHMMM in about every sentence.

  • @luqmanturaki
    @luqmanturaki Před 8 lety +1

    um

  • @luqmanturaki
    @luqmanturaki Před 8 lety +1

    umm

  • @luqmanturaki
    @luqmanturaki Před 8 lety +3

    ummmm

  • @thepro08
    @thepro08 Před 9 lety +1

    go to a high pay job interview and say uummmmm .... you are going to see what happens....

  • @fecarlson
    @fecarlson Před 6 lety +1

    Sun Tzu, said it 500 BC

  • @ethanSADTP
    @ethanSADTP Před 8 lety

    Rockefeller controls 90% of the worlds oil in the great depression, he's gone way past rising above his hardships, he has become a james bond villain, and he definetely didn't do it by playing by the rules.

    • @christ7431
      @christ7431 Před 8 lety

      Context breh different times different ways of doing business.

    • @collinsmugodo380
      @collinsmugodo380 Před 7 lety +1

      this isn't a talk about morality...it's about effectiveness

  • @onetimeuse12
    @onetimeuse12 Před 9 lety +3

    uhm x 10000

  • @Kenji1685
    @Kenji1685 Před 6 lety

    Terrible audio.. :(

  • @vcp93
    @vcp93 Před 5 lety

    That's curious. I wonder why the speaker felt it important to put "pictures" of his copies of "Meditations" into his presentation. Does he think the audience doesn't believe him? If so, why would showing pictures of worn copies of the book convince them? Clearly he's hiding something. Just look at those beady eyes. 🤪 /s
    All kidding aside, that does seem odd to me that he felt a need to show pictures of your old books. Maybe it's just me. 😉✌

  • @kristidavis8983
    @kristidavis8983 Před 5 lety

    Not a great or typical TED talk... most Tedtalks are well rehearsed.. this is more like just a talk, a lot of “ums” and so forth. I wish he had brought a little better game to the table. His attire says it all - not bad, but generally apathetic about the presentation.

  • @sy_c_8592
    @sy_c_8592 Před 7 lety +1

    Ha ha that is the american way of stoicism!

  • @factumDiabolus
    @factumDiabolus Před 8 lety +3

    American Apparel don't believe in ironing your shirts?

    • @ARdave311
      @ARdave311 Před 8 lety

      +factumDiabolus lmfao!!!!

    • @collinsmugodo380
      @collinsmugodo380 Před 7 lety

      lol there seams to have been an attempt though...you can see the iron creases on the side...so give him that

  • @6122ula
    @6122ula Před 5 lety

    ...No F Bombs here ???

  • @okcyurwin
    @okcyurwin Před 2 lety

    Uhm!

  • @OiVinn-eq1ml
    @OiVinn-eq1ml Před 6 lety +1

    Stoicism taught him to say “Umm”

  • @zyu8452
    @zyu8452 Před 6 lety

    Depends on the STOICISM philosophy, I’m disappointed because of my expectations. I definitely didn’t expect so many “Hmmmm”s . My fault .

    • @swamig6353
      @swamig6353 Před 6 lety +1

      Zaijiang Yu who, are you? It can be quite unnerving being the center of attention. And unfortunately, I’m sure Ryan has “your expectation” in him, but one uhm can roll into another and etc. especially in modern culture where the majority do not want to see others do well(scarcity mindset), if you let it in you’re toast.
      Please though do upload your Ted talk. No he is not a traditional tried and true stoic, by any means. Not disagreeing.

  • @CasualB7
    @CasualB7 Před 6 lety

    He lost credibility by showing the screen shots from Amazon and the need to prove he owns three ratty books.

  • @thecelticgiraffe
    @thecelticgiraffe Před 9 lety +3

    Ok. This dude is actually not that impressive. I personally never heard of him and I am glad. I really think he is very lost when it comes to what is real in life and what is not. Nothing but pure B. S. And I have studied philosophy for some 30 years.

    • @ryangill7080
      @ryangill7080 Před 9 lety +34

      guys like you Mark are hilarious.. good for you.. you have studied 30 years of philosophy. Who gives a shit?!? We've never heard of you either. You are the pure definition of a Troll. Go write a book, post a video.. get invited to speak at a conference...... let us all see you in all your glory. We will judge you and the guy above against each other... i can wager a bet that this dude wins every time because you won't do anything besides chirp in comment sections. keep your shitty negativity to yourself.

    • @davidmtromholt6366
      @davidmtromholt6366 Před 9 lety +3

      Ryan Gill well said.

    • @hannae3242
      @hannae3242 Před 9 lety +9

      You will always get someone who wants to drag a positive message down. If you think it is BS why share that opinion with others? What you spew will become your reality on a daily basis. A positive comment will always serve you better in the long run, if only people can see this.